I got married precisely a year ago, if am to rate my marriage so far I will give it a B not until recently. My husband is a man that loves sex to the core and I give it to him anytime anywhere infact we practically have sex everyday. But 2 months ago, my hubby as usual demanded for sex but because I was just not in the mood I told him no. Ever since then my husband became strange to me, he talks to me in a harsh tone, hardly eat my food and have bluntly refused to have sex with me again. I have begged, apologized, done everything humanly possible to get my husband back, yet none worked. Please what do I do?
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Please my fellow libs and lindaikeji you guys should please help a sister out so I can raise fund in opening my own business. I know and believe that there are angels out there and here that can be of help to me. Please friends, lindaikeji and all libs reach me on this and help me out financially to open my own business since self made isn't up yet. God bless you all. Sexybenny09@gmail.com
Give him a dirty slapppp!!!!!!!!!hahahhaha
It husband is an unscrupulous see maniac. U need prayers
Just one "NO" and he suddenly changed like the weather? Something is amiss here.Sometimes I wonder what people learn during courtship sha oh.I'm not talking sex wise here,I mean you've gotta understand the psychology of ya partner. What irks him,his temperament etal
Lolz dn't mind me,I was jst joking....jst let him me stop begging him,pretend as if u not concernd.he wil come bck to his senses...
Madam, boys will be boys. Give him permission to 'go outside' since you obviously cannot satisfy his desires alone. When e tire, e go come back. Believe me, by the time the kids start coming, it will only get worse.
Prayers only
You're in for a long thing
Continue begging him a
Pray to God!!! Only God can change a person's heart permanently. In addition - step up ur sexy game - even when cooking. wear things that would appear appealing to him.
Go on your knees my dear....nothing is impossible with God especially to a kneeling woman...... Get this book "The kneeling Woman".... Stay strong in God.
You don't need to please a man all the time ok. He must be a second addict
Seduce him...if him see everytin he no go fit resist u now.. Abi no be so. Linda post dis 1 ooo
Men with sex
I cannot be making love to my husband everyday.
Madam you need to finish what you started
You have been given him every day so continue
Non stop
My advice is
Report him to ur pastor or rev father
Men with sex
I cannot be making love to my husband everyday.
Madam you need to finish what you started
You have been given him every day so continue
Non stop
My advice is
Report him to ur pastor or rev father
Pray
Linda this is short and direct. The kindaa stuff one can read easily.
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a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Ur husbad is kpanching outside and he is trying to punish yu nothing else...... Just keep doing what you do ok asin ur wify duties and try wearing a bikini to bed everyday but with different colours.. The baga will fall for ur charm and use perform also......
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Men with sex
I cannot be making love to my husband everyday.
Madam you need to finish what you started
You have been given him every day so continue
Non stop
My advice is
Report him to ur pastor or rev father
Some questions you find here sha.
Anyway e never hungry am, maybe he's using self-help for now.
Don't worry he will still come for u.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Pray for him sweetie
Rape him
Also study your hubby and and come to an understanding with him
Have a heart to heart talk with him, maybe that's not the only reason why he's acting strange, maybe u actually did another thing, u might not even be aware of what that is, that's why u talk it out with him....you just need to do that, cos he's †Ñ’ξ only person that knows why he's acting up. Wish u best
#it will only get better
#it must end in praise
Nawoo tins we read des days ehhh prayer is d ans ma dear
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Have a heart to heart talk with him, maybe that's not the only reason why he's acting strange, maybe u actually did another thing, u might not even be aware of what that is, that's why u talk it out with him....you just need to do that, cos he's †Ñ’ξ only person that knows why he's acting up. Wish u best
#it will only get better
#it must end in praise
Then go to God in prayers. He alone has the hearts of kings in his hands. Just as he can turn the rivers, oceans, etc to any direction of his choice, so he can turn a stony heart to a soft one. Your hubby is not bigger than God. All it will cost you are your KNEELS and VOICE. I have seen a lot of women in this your type of situation and even the ones that are 10 times worst than yours, but after crying out to God, their marriages came back to normal and are intact up till now. So, Cry out to God and watch how he will turn your marriage around for good bcus nothing is impossible for him to do.
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Though you initially caused it. What you do now is to present the case to God for divine intervention I believe your husband will change. Take good care of him and be more attractive.
You picked him. You must have known this before marrying him.
Most men that do not joke with sex at home hardly cheat outside...make ur dressing more killing, he will soon come back...be on begging side, dont get angry...men are like babies!!!
Your husband only married you for sex. Your body is only what attracts him. He was LUST in love.
R u sure dats d only thing dat transpired between u two? Cos really, it's not enough o. Dnt stop loving him sha
I'm sorry to say bt ur husband is very selfish. Yes sex spices up marriages but it's not mandatory. Whatever happened to marital consensuses? Let him be. His ego knows no bound.
Bring your husband to me let me advice him for one week after which you can come and collect your property by that time you go know say here no be platform to ask foolish question...ode!
Madam, you got married to the wrong man.
If you don't have a say about stuffs like that, then He sees you as a slave. His slave. Unless if you love sex too.
THINK and ACT it is not too late.
he's a beast..not a husband run as fast as you can from him
Bring your husband to me let me advice him for one week after which you can come and collect your property by that time you go know say here no be platform to ask foolish question...ode!
U pushed him away lol haha
But which one is having sex everyday.. Guy take am easy now body no be machine
Rape him
This may be hard to do. But I will just ignore him. Stop begging him. Make sure you make his food and continue to treat him with respect. But go to bed like you don't give a shit anymore. At best get yourself a vibrator. If he loves you he will come running to beg. It works with anybody male or female. Unless your husband is gay though.
He's obviously doing it out there, but since he loves sex he will come back soon. Just always remain SEXY
How can u deny a man 1 of the major reasons for marriage? Dont u know he'll think u r cheating thus the rejection? U need to find ur husband's love language, get sexy lingeries and fuck him like a slut. Make him remember ur dating days. Am a guy so i feel his pain n know what i wld want my wife to do if ds happens. Yet play it cool like a cat, dont rush or push hard, food is not d only way to a man's heart.
Stop begging him!
Exhibit an "I-don't-care-attitude" also.
Stop cooking for him for now if you can.
When you get to bed be the first to turn your back on him.
Give him a cold shoulder...
Don't talk much with/to him... don't nag him.
Just be very calm.
Fiddle with your phone always...and make sure you smile a lot to yourself while fiddling with your phone.
Am a man, trust me he won't bear the torture for 3 days!
Pray about it.
PRAY!....den kp seducing him...he will dance 2ur t0ne....#d0ris
Your husband seems to be the heartless type, Aa as after all the beggin, he still wouldn't burg, please let him he, you'll a human also, if you continue the begging, he'll be feeling like a god and wouldn't come around. If you stop, he'll eventually come around.
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Keep doing what you are doing girl and just take it to God in prayers
You know what he likes so why did you deprive him.dress nude to him daily and regularly everyday till he gets over it.What u did can hurt a man deeply to point that he can close some chapters of his life towards you.keep calm and show him what attracts him.remember we are different.never deprive your husband again.There are many who are ready to do what he wants 24/7.be extremely careful less a lovely relationship become a den of hatred. You got it so why hoard it and put yourself in unnecessary headache. Keep dress sweetly especially nude to get his attention you will surely overcome
U too should act like he doesn't exist then he will be the one to sick for ur attention.
Hmm dis is wickedness na if u hv pastor jst tell him
U need to start wearing sexy and adorable skimpy dresses @ home, if he drinks u can try get him his favorite wen he comes bak and take to his table,as welll as his best food made ontime, all dese will change our mind, but dnt try to be pokenosing into his fones and the rest, just be hopefull, wishin u blissful home bak
Linda...i miss u al0t....always praying 4 u...cus u mak me smile....l0ve ya #d0ris
You need to stop begging Olorun..
madam take it to d Lord in prayer.. oh what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear all because we do not carry everything to God in prayer. Jesus cares......
Linda post comments na
Well, there's a possibility he's having the sex outside...or he's just punishing u for rejecting him when he needed u.....wish u well!
Fold ur arms and see this mistery unfold.
U need to start wearing sexy and adorable skimpy dresses @ home, if he drinks u can try get him his favorite wen he comes bak and take to his table,as welll as his best food made ontime, all dese will change our mind, but dnt try to be pokenosing into his fones and the rest, just be hopefull, wishin u blissful home bak
Fold ur arms and see this mistery unfold.
Give him a bj and let him know wah u gat. Shikena
Tell am say you go give am OBUKOKWHO, plus you go suck his dick, his balls, and eat his ass join and make him cum on your face. He will not resist I guaranty you!!!
Wow... This is serious... Sounds like he was waiting for you to eff up.. Bae, just pray and fast... Keep on wooing him. Be prepared that he might be getting some outside but don't that deter you... Do your best and get your man back
Good luck getting the advice you seek on this platform.
How did you get him for the first place?
Romancing very well nd beg him
How did you get him for the first place?
Innocently turn him on(sexy nighty while watching the news or africa magic, while cooking and serving his dinner, ask him how his day went, sleep naked beside him and a little far from him)...and act normal.. He will find his way back into ur arms..
So help you God. It is well with you o! Linda take note!
So help you God. It is well with you o! Linda take note!
So help you God. It is well with you o! Linda take note!
your case is spiritual O, Stop begging him and start Doing what he likes Like pretending you're Sick, Dress attractive and Ask Lib readers
It means u crushed his ego the day u denied him. Try to make him see how important he is to you despite everything.
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You just keep begging until he answer you. And when he answer make sure you give him his food.
You just keep begging until he answer you. And when he answer make sure you give him his food.
You just keep begging until he answer you. And when he answer make sure you give him his food.
You just keep begging until he answer you. And when he answer make sure you give him his food.
Sit down and talk to him.
Communication is the key
Simple! Get naked! Yep...Walk naked around the house... he won't be able to resist a naked you..*wink*
At least You now know the type of person he is. Neva refuse him sec again.
Atop sounding like an asshole Olivia.........he is the only person who knows wot she did, yet he don't want to accept her apology or tell her wot she did......that man is a continental idiot, he thinks he is God wot wot......I hate it when men act like babes, that shiii annoys the hell out of me
That man us more that selfish, wot he needs is a sex worker and not a wife
Nonsense! Beg him for wat? To hell with him.go out n look for a guy dat will be helpin u outside bcos he's also doin d same tin outside.I can not beg any idiotic he goat.
Nonsense! Beg him for wat? To hell with him.go out n look for a guy dat will be helpin u outside bcos he's also doin d same tin outside.I can not beg any idiotic he goat.
Lmfaooooo... gbam! Asin ehn.... the rate at which all this married women disturbing us with silly questions is so f**king annoying, if person no marry,we no go hear word,if them marry another mansion of wahala! But if the marriage dey sweet dem,dey won't tell us how sweet their marriage is. Yeye dey smell,oya give am otapiyaya make him drink so we can have peace.
Hahahhahaha......you go kill me laughter o.
Wait until self made is up...patience... stop begging pls,its annoying
and your name is sexybenny? u try
Lol.. which one be self help again?? Abi u mean applying verseline on his lips??
@sexybenny with this your name,i don't think you're serious.
Bonita, I know ur pussy is gonna be as sweet as ur brain! U re jst a gem!
Hahahaha...haba easy on her na
He is an animal.
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Wtf..everyday? For wat?!!! Madam u started it,u lured him into d married giving him d notion that u r up to quench his taste...imagine..pls continue wen u die he wil marry another..
Sister pls just take your case to God almighty ok
Hahahahahaha...! He will love it o.
Wake up from ya sleep.sexybenny bawo?ta!
Keep begging......God win
Everyday Sex, una not dey tired, well, just leave him for some time, he will come back to u. Trust me.
Prepare his favorite mealand beg him more call him his bedroom nickname
Stop begging him but serve him food,look good and seducing every time.na Shakira we him dey do
You caused it all from d beginning...Ow can u be giving a man sex everyday...Truth is, sex was d only tin keeping u both 2geda ...So continue from where u stopped....Mrs Roy
Yup!
Just free him then.
Maybe the apologies are irritating him.
Lmao b fearing God sis
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Pray. Get a Blue movie and watch alone but make sure he notice u watching such movie alone after watching it tell him u going out to see a friend trust me ur hubby 6th sense will pick and will drive him back to u. He knows u are straight and u can neva cheat on him, shake his mind a little . Dress sexy indoor if u like walk nude within d house dat his pretend die D**k will wake up to ur calling. Man no get liver or some1 is already giving it to him outside since his an addict. + stop begging him abeg men also need break from ur plead to wake up from his boring Ego. Ignore him. He can neva stand another man giving it to u so hard. Give him a feeling that sometin else, sweet and romantic is taking ur attention.
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Pray to God....
Dear poster. Your husband is a immature, selfish and childish person. That said, from experience if u want him back start to do d opposite of wot u've bin doing. Stop begging. Go to d salón get a new hair do, sing more, be happy with urself, be nice and normal to him but don't and I repeat do not bring up d Sex issue ever again . Wear sexy lingeries to bed but do not mention Sex. Just be oblivious to him. He wii b d one Chasing you and wen he does come back, don't let him get away with it. Tell him exactly how u feel about his behavior. Talk it out or else it will happen again. Pls stop begging, ur getting urself into gbeghe. If u start begging now, u wii beg dis man for d rest of ur marriage and it won't just b Sex, twill b everything.
My dear, don't mind sum pple here o. Dey jst want to destroy ur home. Continue praying, reduce ur begging n dress to kill wen u r wit him. Wanting sex daily is normal for some men. He will come around eventually. Gudluck
no idea but I'll just say pray and talk to him#inspird by linda
Madam you sure say you dey talk true sef, no be to come here dey run mouth. You never tell us wetin really happen. All this ladies dem sef. Jor oh
@Franklin lol at ur comment
Give am back seat I beg,live am jare he is on sex strike,just free the young man,abi can't u stay without sex too?
Keep loving him and be patience. He'll come around. He's punishing u for refusing him. Some men feel their egos insulted when told No especially when its sex matters.
Men are heartless abeg! He didn't even bother to know if sth was wrong with her! He paid her bride price doesn't mean she is a robot! She's human, she has a right to say NO a few times! She has feelings too! She deserves to get everything she wants too! D annoying part is dat if she dies, d idiot will easily marry anoda person to turn into a slave! D man must even be a broke ass for liking sex that much! Many married men have businesses to attend to and they always think of how to grow. Sweetheart, don't stress urself, just put everything in Gods hands!
You are a single man......
U try na. U go kill yourself for person ni? If he really loves you, he will let it go unless there's something more.
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my u have to pray over it.it is only dat can intervain
He's stupid. Next thing he will use it as an avenue to cheat on you... Tell him to grow up!
True! Comment on point!
You married a demon
Na so controlling behavior dey start oh. Master him now. Do ur normal duties but don't ask him for sex. Make urself extra busy wt something that makes u laff all the time, ignore him at bed time. He go beg you with gifts and all...wait and see. Been married 12 years...wait n see the changes..u no go believe na the same person.
I'll help you out with advice. Write up a business plan, go to the bank, apply for a loan, good luck.
Mrs, everyday sex? You're a joker.even prostitutes don't have sex everyday. Please stop begging your husband for sex.give him breathing space and he will come back soon. And when he eventually do, address the issue of everyday sex before you end up with cervical cancer. Protect your vagina. Respect it even in marriage. Gbam!
Just pray and be nice to him.Stop begging.
My question is how did you end up with him in d first place...practically he married you to be his sex machine...so I don't rely av advice than for you to talk to God,not to us.
OK...SME guys are high without taking anything... Ur husband is really high...so let him cool off...stop begging him..just do ur thing..and see watz gonna happen
Duchess lindaikeji abeg reply my mails pls.
Jst pray over God wil see u thru & deliver ur marriege cos u can't b havin sex every day
It seems d man no get job that sex has now becomea daily dose for him. I believe there should be passionate sex btw couples but by d time it now hurts, it's now selfish. Just continue to beg him but if he refused, allow him to do his will. He will soon come back to u by d time he's tired.
I know how you can get him back. Call me on this number 07051574061. Selah!
Sisterly be grateful that your yansh is resting. Lol.
Okay seriously, get dolled up. Treat yourself ryt. Get busy with stuffs and don't stop being a wife. If he doesn't want to sex anymore awesome. Give him time he'll come around.
But when he is out the door, Sisterly, get down on ur knees and PRAY. Only God can make a man love you. Men are strange
Maybe he's not in the mood, so you need to wait for him to get in the mood
Ignore him..just be nice and always do ur duties as his wife but just cut out the romance for as long as his attitude persists...he will come around for peace talks trust me...
Henry Eze...You are right,, that man was looking for a chance to back off.Another lady is involved for long.Pathetic being.
Sex everyday?Bring him,let me give him one Holy Ghost Fire slap.Too much sex is bad.I have a feeling that you are not a prayerful Wife.My dear stop begging him.There is nothing that turns a man ON than his Hot Sexy Wife.Its time you change your style.Join a Gym class.Always wear somethin sexy around the house even while cookin but make sure he is home.Get some nice hot office and outing outfits with mad heels to die for.Your hair should be on point.Take selfies during office hours and send it to him with a love message.Juice up your creative mind set.It is time you start praying hard because God is the primary keeper of the Home
Suck his dick girl
Serve him the sex for plate...lol My dear pray 1st, 2ndly if he allows you sitting close to him, get a porn in your phone and play it a little loud while playing romantically with him, he definitely get arouse. Then on your own, enter the steering by yourself and drive it gently and smoothly in the angle he normally die of emotionally.
Be faithful to yourself...
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If you want to hear the truth, read on. Well, I do not know your husband, you are the one that knows him. I think the reason he is doing it is because he knows its getting at you. He may not necessarily be seeing anyone outside, he is only doing this because of his ego. He has this old mentality of "I married her with my money" so he sees it as a taboo for you to refuse him sex. For you to dare to refuse, he feels hurt, humiliated and no longer in charge. This to me means that both of you are not friends. It also points to the fact that you guys don't pray together. I may be wrong but you just got married to satisfy yourselves and societal pressure consciously or unconsciously I will say. Some men take delight in punishing their wives and making them cry. Yours may fall in this category. So try to be yourself, I know its not easy but pretend that you are not hurt. That will keep him wandering and jealous and he will come for you. You also need to pray about this and your marriage generally. Kneel beside your bed when he is already in bed and report him to God. I mean you should pray aloud to his hearing. Always remember to keep yourself clean and smart, possibly make the same hair style you were wearing the 1st day you met him. Your marriage is just a year old so you are still in what I call the turbulent stage. Be very careful because a lot of marriages break up within the 1st two years. You will need so much patience and prayers at this stage. You should also be prepared to make sacrifices. This is the stage you do the handwork and sow the seed for your next level. If you still need more counseling, send an sms to 08135506562 and I will give you a call. Remember, "Marriage is work in progress, never a finished product".
Keep trying, dress sexier and try not to give him too much attention aside that a wife should give her man. Maybe jealousy would push him closer to you.
Pretend not to be bothered about it, be unpredictable. Just keep on being the good wife. He will come around.
#TeamBlessed#
Pretend not to be bothered about it, be unpredictable. Just keep on being the good wife. He will come around.
#TeamBlessed#
Start by changing ur name dear, so u wont be mistaken 4 an unserious person.No 1 wants 2 invest on an unserious person
Seduce him with some of your hot wears...... with that he would want and feel like having the taste of what he's been missing so far... please don't wait until he goes out ooooooooo
Seduce him with some of your hot wears...... with that he would want and feel like having the taste of what he's been missing so far... please don't wait until he goes out ooooooooo
Dear Jade,
I always look forward to reading your comments. Of all the pieces of advice I have read on this topic, yours stands out
May God give you more wisdom and make you a ray of light for others to tap from.
Madam, I discuss with some marriage specialist, they say report to the nearest police station,
You should never say NO to your husband, instead you should reason with him.
For Gods sake you have made him get use to having sex everyday, why say no??
You dont exercise authority over your body immediately you marry be you man or woman.
And finally, these are things you discuss before getting married.
I just hope you haven't make him to begin looking outside
He's a beast I beg
When he is asleep, rub vaseline on your hands and generate heat, then use ur warm hands to massage his dick and give him correct oral see. I assume you will be wearing a sexy lingerie. Whatever he is saying, ignore and continue with the act. Make sure you arouse him before you soften pedal..... It's works like magic! From a 5yr married girl.
uhmmmm, if you actually beg him and you go back to your everyday fucking, the day yu say no again na fourth world war, uhmmmmmm, nawa oo, nne, ma tell u, well sha na as una don take start am , you sef dey give man everydy gbogboye different styles, maintain your hold joor, abi you sef your opyorkor don dey scratch you, you no fit hold body again, since you don beg am, then pray and lock up. he go fuck you soon no worry yea
The question is did you pray to God before going into the marriage?
If you did, you won't be having this problem. To me, the best thing to do is to go to God in prayer because its only God that will reveal the problem and the solution to you
Seduce him back and while doing so pretend not to be interested in him and plz have a little pride my dear stop begging. In fact confuse him. Remind him what attracted him to you.
Seduce him back and while doing so pretend not to be interested in him and plz have a little pride my dear stop begging. In fact confuse him. Remind him what attracted him to you.
Seduce him back and while doing so pretend not to be interested in him and plz have a little pride my dear stop begging. In fact confuse him. Remind him what attracted him to you.
lol get a divorce
get a divorces
GET ANOTHER MAN TO BE SERVICING YOU.
Finally someone with brains... I have seen a lot of comments here today by some women and am scared for our generation
Start dressing sexy and sex appealing indoor.. and I don't mean like an olosho or a prostitute, smell good at all times, and don't stop being a good wife, most importantly don't forget the God you serve.. do your part and leave the rest to God by prayers of course.
Good advice..
The man is an animal, free him.
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