In her letter, she speaks about how she was about to marry a man that was her best friend, who she'd met two years earlier at a baseball game. She describes them as besotted and said when he proposed after six months on a beach at sunrise, it didn't feel too soon. What she wrote after the cut...
"I was 23 and it felt as if life was coming together. People would say how good we were as a match." But somehow everything went wrong.She said she was "blindsided" when her fiancée broke things off as the wedding guests waited on a beach in Hawaii where the ceremony was due to take place.
In her letter to the Guardian, Cyndi says:
"He came into the room and said we needed to talk alone. "He was crying.
"I assumed he was letting the emotion of the day get to him. "Then he said it. 'I don't think I can do this.' "I stood there – with the veil already in my hair. "This man who was supposed to be the love of my life was telling me he was calling off the wedding less than an hour before we were due on the beach.
"I didn't even ask why. "I told him to leave. "
"I had to watch from the window as my sister went to the beach and let everyone know," she told.
"While I'd been out that morning, he had taken all his clothes and passport. "He'd actually left me. "I was heartbroken."Cyndi had to stay at the holiday resort for a week, bumping into her ex-fiancée who also stayed on the island. She describes how she tried to pack her days with activities to stop her thinking about things, and to try and tire herself out so she would fall asleep at night.
The devastated woman ends the letter with: "The reason he gave for calling it off was that he didn't want children and I did. He never said why that became an irresolvable issue only on the day itself.
94 comments:
That's bad, but she really have to take heart, its better he f'd up now than later when she must have married him. She's gonna find a better man
#It WiLL oNLy gEt beTTer
#iT MuSt eNd IN pRAisE
Touching story
Dis kinda disappointment is embarrassing nd I can't even wish my worse enemy dis kinda thing....
Na wa o! Men are wicked o! Linda take note!
Na wa o! Men are wicked o! Linda take note!
Na wa o! Men are wicked o! Linda take note!
Awwwwn! That guy is mean. What a silly excuse.
Stories that touches an eggplant. Jor oh
Eeya kpele.
SIM (Spirit in motion)
Eya!
Heartbreaking.
She will find a better man.
That was wicked and selfish!
Phew! this life is a pot of brown beans.
I feel for her, the man was never ready and I doubt if he will ever be ready. if he doesn't want kids, he should go meet Kim's grandPaMa Caiylyn.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
So all this their film trick, happen in real life
So all this their film trick, happen in real life
They had an unresolvable issue from the start and she didn't tink it was that serious. This is exactly wat happens when people don't take some issues that seem minor seriously.
such a pity, God will give you a beta and A`1darful man.
Wow..No words!
How mean can some men be?!
Maybe he is impotent and doesn't want her to me traumatised in the marriage.
So sorry dear. Man propose, God disposes. Your "real" future hubby is out there somewhere.
He'll find you at the right time. Take heart..!
So sorry dear. Man propose, God disposes. Your "real" future hubby is out there somewhere.
He'll find you at the right time. Take heart..!
Na wa.why didn't he tell her before the wedding day?
May dis never b d portion of any of our ladies IJN and Lord pls giv dis lady another good man dat wil marry her for who andd wht she is.
Ndia ara!
So sorry dear....only God wud console u....take hart...it's well
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Take heart dear, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. But he should have told her earlier sha.
tink av read d story here before.....
Moye says so via BB Passport courtesy LIB....
Well, e better as d guy commot now, dan making her marriage a living hell. Just ponder t he had to wait till the wedding date. Anyway, babe take heart, ur man is somewhere ok....life goes on.
CHAIII
AUNTY LINDA.....
CHAIII
AUNTY LINDA.....
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Awwww
Would rather call that a brokemn marriage ? No i think it was only a broken wedding . For me respect his reasons for nothing to continue the wedding. He knows his boundaries so let him be ......so that you dont hold him responsible when he dis agrees to make babies. let the guy be jare.
Ehya!!well,at least he didn't marry u out of pity and thereby frustrate both of you...
Some oyibo men get cockroach brain
heartless guy............... some ladies would do same.
but d@ was wickedness 404(code for higher wickedness).
he didn't want children but was enjoying d sex up till d wedding day.
such a wicked man
That's weird.anyways take heart God will restore your joy
choi!!. haba! how is that reason enough to call off a wedding? he was prolly under an influence or something
This really bad
Seyilicious
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Nna this is heart breaking i swear....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Aww... thats so painful. But how does someone become ur best friend when you've just known this person for 2year. If you were really that close you would have known his heart or if he wanted children or not. Or know him enough to know that he didn't take u as his best friend.
Hmm, so sorry.
Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.
– C S Lewis, Novelist and Writer
OYINBO, this is y I hate my people imitate dia life it doesn't make any sense to me. Sorry Cindy come to Africa dia is more Dan millions of ur match. Lol.
May such man rot in hell my gudness
Wtf???
This is bad so bad
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Nawa oooo
This na real expensive shit
Nawa oooo
This na real expensive shit
6 months later the bastard will get another woman pregnant and be forming excited father to be.
6 months later the bastard will get another woman pregnant and be forming excited father to be.
That's sad! But she should move on.
So sad! But she shld move on
Evil that people do!.....sorry love.
God.ooo!! Dis oyibo sef, dier wahala too mch
That why bad. The guy didn't do it right. Why wait till the d-day before calling it off. Well, she is better off without him. Its obvious they are two opposite people.
#TeamBlessed#
That why bad. The guy didn't do it right. Why wait till the d-day before calling it off. Well, she is better off without him. Its obvious they are two opposite people.
#TeamBlessed#
Hmmm,speechless oooooh.
He shld marry a man nah. When he doesn't need children. Don't knw y pple hate d most treasure gift of life.
Men are animals!!!
Men will look for anything to break up with a lady. What doesn't kill makes you stronger.
The ex is so lame,an idiot,he didn't want to have babies,I think that is not the issue,no marriage is better than no peace in marriage
Tears,tears rolling outer my eye,tears of joy,Aunty linda you are a blessing,you've inspire a lot of people out there,LORD JESUS when will my time come. TIMILEYIN BLESSING
D dude is high, he may b an impotent
D dude is high, he may b an impotent
Nawa ooooo,is not fair
now tell who dumps a beauty like dat? hmm guys sha!
Chai! too bad. Plz let him go.
And i thought my own was worse.... Nothing hurts more than a broken heart but the Good news is, it can be mended
Wow, how upsetting but she took a risk and unfortunately it didn't turn out as she hoped but everything happens for a reason. God Bless her heart
Hmmmmmmm
Dis whyte pple n their lifestyle
Dis pple n their life style
OMG! That's a very big blow! But thank God he found the courage to it before both of them becomes miserable in their marriage
Na wa o but not in this Nigeria, where people will start counting the very day you marry, where most marry because of children 🚸
Thats sad.. But then better den dan latr.
D guy is an asshole
D guy is an asshole
I feel for the lady tho.... But he has a right to want or not want to have children. Also, maybe he has medical issues. If u love someone truly, u won't do anything to make that person unhappy. U'd rather leave the person be or be around and be a yoke on their necks. #TruthBeTold
Lol, u made me laugh over the unenchanting story
I really feel for the lady.
U this Juliet Iwuno must Linda take note on everything you comment
sorry for your loss girl! GOD will bring you a better man! Maybe he is gay, maybe he is not! but from your narration you sound opinionated and domineering!
I am sure the wedding and the marriage were your own ideals and decisions! not his! http://www.bummyla.com
DOUCHE BAG!!!!
MISSVEE
Foolish man. Instead of him to say his bura isn't working. As e dey hawt.....
Shoro niyen, don't want children, that man is wicked
Guys sha! Smh.
Guys sha! Smh
Hian! What a flimsy excuse!
We didnt hear his own side of the story. Maybe he found out she did something awful too. Women can like to do last minute mess up b4 wedding sometimes..... and maybe thats why she just let him go without asking him why the change of heart. she knows whats up joor
Terribly bad,too bad,irritating bad!chai my dear don't worry ur next level is on his way
Mr ifiokobong ibanga u don make money ursef. Hope sslay no be scam b dis
its a blessing in disguise
Take heart dear, he's not just good for u. A broken marriage is better than a broken life. God will surprise you.
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