From a male LIB reader
My longtime girlfriend and I are expecting our first child together and are planning to marry in December. But I was also seeing someone on the side and she's also pregnant. To be honest I feel bad because she was a virgin and she's very young - just 19. I am 33. I don't know what to do in this situation as her parents are very upset and want me to do right by her. My main girlfriend doesn't know about the other one and her pregnancy and I don't know how to break it to her. In fact I am confused about my situation. Has any guy ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?
Meanwhile, I am going to be MIA for a few hours. I'm flying back home this morning. Heading to the airport now. Will see y'all soon. Kisses
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«Oldest ‹Older 601 – 671 of 671lozz..u are confused?when u were busy carelessly jumping from one kitty kat to another,did u ever stop to reason for a second,i just hope your main girlfriend gets to find out on time so that she does not make a big mistake by marrying you..
silly cheating ass..good for you,face the music..
Friend, you must know that you have a made a terrible mistake. One, you had no reason looking for other girls when you had someone you were about getting married to (who is also pregnant for you).
However, to now think that you deflowered this 19-year old girl and got her pregnant while you are 33 years is very sickening. Its a huge mistake. That means that you have taken away her innocence and given her an unwanted pregnancy.So sad.Truth is that you have to be prepared because you are not going to find it easy.
Be that as it may,I will give suggestions you that will put you back on your feet again.Am sure you want get back to your feet after this wrong outing.
step 1
Your first step to making amends is to acknowledge your sin and submit your life to the Lord Jesus.You need to approach the throne of mercy and repent of your sins. The scripture declares in I John 1:9 that "if we confess our sins, that God is faithful to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness". I'll advice that you open up to any clergy that you trust so the person can help pray for you. The scripture commands that we should confess our faults one to another. If you are able to sincerely complete step one, you will pull through successfully.
Secondly, you can either open up to your fiancee yourself or meet someone she respects and open up to the person about the situation so that the person will in turn inform her and also help to mitigate the effect it could have on her and your relationship/marriage with her.
Next, you and your spouse should make plans how to take care of the lady as well as the new babies that will be born to both you.
Finally,be strong because it ain't gonna be easy.
Don't marry anyone for now and tell ur real girlfrnd if u love her and safe trip linda
RIP
First, it's Linda who blew kisses, not the dude with the story. Retards got that wrong!
Second, what a bunch of shameless hypocrites! Na who Dem catch be tif, we all make terrible mistakes. See the bastard men who have gotten girls to abort for them blasting this guy, see the girls Wey no get womb again from multiple flushing! See thieves, liars, tribalist etc poking fun!
Guy, tell ur main chick, accept whatever the consequences are. If she dumps u, marry the 19 year old & sin no more. If she doesn't dump you marry ur main chick & male sure you provide for the 19 year old & d baby if she keeps it.
Need I tell you to learn from this...? And become a better person?
And women never cheat abi? Fly straight, u must know u sound stupid even to itself!
silly cheating ass..good for you,face the music..since u cant control that thing between those your chicken legs,,go and get castrated .mtchewwww
silly cheating ass..good for you,face the music..since u cant control that thing between those your chicken legs,,go and get castrated .mtchewwww
lozz..u are confused?when u were busy carelessly jumping from one kitty kat to another,did u ever stop to reason for a second,i just hope your main girlfriend gets to find out on time so that she does not make a big mistake by marrying you..
Wash***
U get sense.
Ur illiterate, its Linda who blew kisses, not the guy with d story. Retard.
Its time to Man up and take care of all 4 of them. Its like swiping a credit card indiscrimately, now its time to pay up the debt! I know you have it in you to care for them, because you were strong enough to put them all in this situation. Good Luck!
Perfect response...my opinion!
WOW...... congratulation dude you are having TWINS.
Unfaithful somebody
That was a huge mistake u made! Follow ur heart...know d right thing to do as adult...guys of ds days are so so disrespectful to ladies...my opinion...#walkingaway
Friend, you must know that you have a made a terrible mistake. One, you had no reason looking for other girls when you had someone you were about getting married to (who is also pregnant for you).
However, to now think that you deflowered this 19-year old girl and got her pregnant while you are 33 years is very sickening. Its a huge mistake. That means that you have taken away her innocence and given her an unwanted pregnancy.So sad.Truth is that you have to be prepared because you are not going to find it easy.
Be that as it may,I will give suggestions you that will put you back on your feet again.Am sure you want get back to your feet after this wrong outing.
step 1
Your first step to making amends is to acknowledge your sin and submit your life to the Lord Jesus.You need to approach the throne of mercy and repent of your sins. The scripture declares in I John 1:9 that "if we confess our sins, that God is faithful to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness". I'll advice that you open up to any clergy that you trust so the person can help pray for you. The scripture commands that we should confess our faults one to another. If you are able to sincerely complete step one, you will pull through successfully.
Secondly, you can either open up to your fiancee yourself or meet someone she respects and open up to the person about the situation so that the person will in turn inform her and also help to mitigate the effect it could have on her and your relationship/marriage with her.
Next, you and your spouse should make plans how to take care of the lady as well as the new babies that will be born to both you.
Finally,be strong because it ain't gonna be easy.
Friend, you must know that you have a made a terrible mistake. One, you had no reason looking for other girls when you had someone you were about getting married to (who is also pregnant for you).
However, to now think that you deflowered this 19-year old girl and got her pregnant while you are 33 years is very sickening. Its a huge mistake. That means that you have taken away her innocence and given her an unwanted pregnancy.So sad.Truth is that you have to be prepared because you are not going to find it easy.
Be that as it may,I will give suggestions you that will put you back on your feet again.Am sure you want get back to your feet after this wrong outing.
step 1
Your first step to making amends is to acknowledge your sin and submit your life to the Lord Jesus.You need to approach the throne of mercy and repent of your sins. The scripture declares in I John 1:9 that "if we confess our sins, that God is faithful to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness". I'll advice that you open up to any clergy that you trust so the person can help pray for you. The scripture commands that we should confess our faults one to another. If you are able to sincerely complete step one, you will pull through successfully.
Secondly, you can either open up to your fiancee yourself or meet someone she respects and open up to the person about the situation so that the person will in turn inform her and also help to mitigate the effect it could have on her and your relationship/marriage with her.
Next, you and your spouse should make plans how to take care of the lady as well as the new babies that will be born to both you.
Finally,be strong because it ain't gonna be easy.
So u went in witout protection nd u didn't expect pregnancy? I pity ur fiancee or soon to be wife. God knows wat u promised the foolish 19yr old who allowed u in witout CD.serial cheat,dats wat u are. Na men like u go give their wife's HIV. Marry ur fiancee but tell her first,let her make the decision if she wants to be wit u nd provide for the upkeep of the young girl. U can't eat ur cake nd have it.
So u went in witout protection nd u didn't expect pregnancy? I pity ur fiancee or soon to be wife. God knows wat u promised the foolish 19yr old who allowed u in witout CD.serial cheat,dats wat u are. Na men like u go give their wife's HIV. Marry ur fiancee but tell her first,let her make the decision if she wants to be wit u nd provide for the upkeep of the young girl. U can't eat ur cake nd have it.
Lynda plz my story is different there is a dead body @ikotun round about adjacent the apostolic church @d round about,she died yesterday and to our surprise she stil shed tears,plz help us publish this so that the authority can come and pick her up,i don't know how to send u pix I would send series for comfermation
Actually oghenejabor ode, the airport and kisses part is from linda who is flying back home to nigeria from france.
Get small sense, u dont need much.
Friend, you must know that you have a made a terrible mistake. One, you had no reason looking for other girls when you had someone you were about getting married to (who is also pregnant for you).
However, to now think that you deflowered this 19-year old girl and got her pregnant while you are 33 years is very sickening. Its a huge mistake. That means that you have taken away her innocence and given her an unwanted pregnancy.So sad.Truth is that you have to be prepared because you are not going to find it easy.
Be that as it may,I will give suggestions you that will put you back on your feet again.Am sure you want get back to your feet after this wrong outing.
step 1
Your first step to making amends is to acknowledge your sin and submit your life to the Lord Jesus.You need to approach the throne of mercy and repent of your sins. The scripture declares in I John 1:9 that "if we confess our sins, that God is faithful to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness". I'll advice that you open up to any clergy that you trust so the person can help pray for you. The scripture commands that we should confess our faults one to another. If you are able to sincerely complete step one, you will pull through successfully.
Secondly, you can either open up to your fiancee yourself or meet someone she respects and open up to the person about the situation so that the person will in turn inform her and also help to mitigate the effect it could have on her and your relationship/marriage with her.
Next, you and your spouse should make plans how to take care of the lady as well as the new babies that will be born to both you.
Finally,be strong because it ain't gonna be easy.
Obago!!
Bros you no do well oo... You gats tell your fiancee. I think You gats meet the young lady's parents too.
Both should have the baby.. And you have to bear responsibilities for training your children.
Shits happen... It's not the end of the world.
Lol.......................Shit happens, but this is the wrongest place to seek advise
Probably an ibo guy. All these ibo people sef
@civilian,So this one that I'm getting older by the day n no boo to even impregnate me,I better start sucking my own boobs.Can anyone recommend treatment for anal haemorrhoids?
Go and pick the latest G-Wagon from Globe Motors. Ode!!!
Hahahahaha......you are on your own (OYO).
LOOOOOL...
This is the dividend of dual tasting! well I am not out to condemn u. The worst u can think of is abortion. If u have come to ur senses just cry to ur creator and forgiveness and resolution will emerge but it doesn't exclude a punishment which u must be bold enough to accept. What u have done has not made u more sinful than us...u just need to sincerely repent never to go back. TALK TO UR CREATOR.... I am sure u will so hate ur 'letter I ' right now. U don't participate in every competition! Finally i di baaaad sha!
Ask tu baba lolz
Bonkom....U beter seek d advice frm ur 2 baby mamas instead of comin to anty Lili house.
Plz anty Linda what's d time?????
bro marry dem
Abi ooo all this fear of abortion its 21st century ,let 19 get on with her life n find forgiveness in God hes ever merciful ; tell ur main the truth n be ready to loose her ; you might actually loose both kpele !
Heheheheh when you were fucking her, did u ask us4 advice? Nw en dn happen u dn remember Linda Ikeji blog, marry d both of em, u can still go on n fuck another n promise what u cannot provide 4urself.. Anumani, safe flight Linda..
hmn. serves you right. but let me advice u, tell d girl u want to marry abt it quick, accept d child and take full responsibility.
drink acid
Congrats to him and the babymamas to be.
Bros! Your name is "Sorry"
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Hahaha. See wahala! If u ask me I go ask baba wizkid
u've obviously done a grave mistake, own up to it and confess to both if them then don't plan to marry any cos u don't deserve them.
Ask flavour for advice...
He nor kn
My thoughts exactly!!!
This fool is considering marrying the 19yr old. Very soon he will disvirgin d girls the 2 ladies will give birth to. SCUM.
My thoughts exactly!!!
This fool is considering marrying the 19yr old. Very soon he will disvirgin d girls the 2 ladies will give birth to. SCUM.
My thoughts exactly!!!
This fool is considering marrying the 19yr old. Very soon he will disvirgin d girls the 2 ladies will give birth to. SCUM.
May one of them murder u out of anger. U do not sound like u care.
U are just a senseless cheat...FOOL
May one of them murder u out of anger. U do not sound like u care.
U are just a senseless cheat...FOOL
May one of them murder u out of anger. U do not sound like u care.
U are just a senseless cheat...FOOL
Why is everybody judging the poor guy? If you can't help his dilemma, stay on your lane.
That something was her virginity but e don finish now..
He goat
YEMI ALADE SHULD CM N HEAR DIS OOOOOOOO............ JONNY JONNY JONNY JONNY JONNY!!!!!!!!!!!!! BETTER TELL UR ARCHITECT TO ATTACH 2 ROOMS 4 D GRAND MOTHERS VIA OMUGWO...........
Hahaha! People dey vex oo!!
You are just a dog
Lol. I love this reply.
P$$$y ass niggar, did we help u f^^^k dem? Now u askin us for advice. Mofo, u laid yur bed, lie on it. Carry yur cross. I aint gon give u any advice. Irresponsible man! U have a gf/fiance yet u slept around.
See as I dey look you.....smh. Stay with and marry your main chic jooo. Asewo okunrin. You just messed up the younger gf life. She is too young for marriage and if you marry her, you may detest her later and still send her packing when things begin to unfold. Irresponsible man. I have a feeling that you may still creep after getting married hian!!!
Lol. Now am trying to understand why a woman cut off her husband's d..K even after it was sewn back she did cut it off d 2nd time. Wondering how much she must be hurt. In this case shaa my advice to my Sef and the ladies is ; I would rather be any of the girls. Whether u will marry me or not. I can't live with d heartbreak n fear of who knows the one he has done again? Cause even after marriage this ur okemkpi will still be wandering. Is better to step aside now than live unhaPpily in my marriage. Shaa in ur case is not a death sentence. In 2thngs 1 must happen as long as person nno die.
You are a DOG, NKITA. BIG UGLY SHIT HEAD DOG. WILD DOG. DOG DOG DOG. YOU ARE A DOG.
Lmao.. U will not get any advise here ... We are all pained by your infidelity and misappropriation of ur restless cock
All these self righteous girls ranting and abusing this dude, can u all swear that u haven't ever slept with two guys same time ever. My guy, e don happen be say e don happen. Man up! If u get small money shaa, the gbege no too much, but if u are struggling, then u need to brace up for a long journey of yawa. In any case, open up to both ASAP,every other things will start happening on their own. But just keep focused on your life dreams, no be woman matter u come do for this life. Small small boys for Ibadan don handle this kind scenario before talkless of old gee like you.
All these self righteous girls ranting and abusing this dude, can u all swear that u haven't ever slept with two guys same time ever. My guy, e don happen be say e don happen. Man up! If u get small money shaa, the gbege no too much, but if u are struggling, then u need to brace up for a long journey of yawa. In any case, open up to both ASAP,every other things will start happening on their own. But just keep focused on your life dreams, no be woman matter u come do for this life. Small small boys for Ibadan don handle this kind scenario before talkless of old gee like you.
U r a big fool, I'm sure ur father was a useless man for u too have dis kinda mentality.
My dear brother pls talk to d 19yrs old girl n ask forgiveness ,then abort d child.becos she will also regret it in future. Pls do her that favour n then move on with ur life.
You better allow them born the pikins or Children when you pay School fees for internationa School you go learn.
Stfu fool...
Them never swear or do juju for u???ewu
Hmmmm guy you really need to sort for advice else where because nobody here will support your actions #but my advice is - Marry the one you love and not the one you pity i.e if she will forgive your excesses #to every body reading this 'Learn not to condemn'
married the two of them......idiot
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