From a male LIB reader
My longtime girlfriend and I are expecting our first child together and are planning to marry in December. But I was also seeing someone on the side and she's also pregnant. To be honest I feel bad because she was a virgin and she's very young - just 19. I am 33. I don't know what to do in this situation as her parents are very upset and want me to do right by her. My main girlfriend doesn't know about the other one and her pregnancy and I don't know how to break it to her. In fact I am confused about my situation. Has any guy ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?
Meanwhile, I am going to be MIA for a few hours. I'm flying back home this morning. Heading to the airport now. Will see y'all soon. Kisses
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Oshe badest!2 babies at once aint bad just think of em as twins lobatan...if i waz yo fiance id walk away frm u as fast as i can cos u are a killer
Aboki how is this question, read well joor....all of u are just same
Lwkmd.... see dis brother o, wen u dey form sharp guy abi u invite us ni, now God don bless u instead of u 2 thank him & prepare u dey ask Wetin u go do. Ok make I tell u just kiss d nearest transformer... or u can stick ur eggplant into it since u can't control ur p***k mugu
let them both have d kids, d one that will stay for marriage will stay, children are sweet and enjoyable when given bath to, u will enjoy both kids as they grow,d mistake has been done. but be sure to take care of d mother and kids. then later marry d one u love most and train d other kid
This is not a one man problem, to be logical both you and your side chick are at fault, cause you didn't force her. At 19, sex should not have been her priority. Check the age gap, she is a fool but you are the bigger fool, cos u re more mature. Mr man better take care of that baby evn if you don't marry her b4 God punish u mightily.
Lol! Dimkpa indeed.
Dumb!
Lot of stupid men around
The only thing I see hear is, u don't deserve them both, just take ur foolishness and leave their life after they both give birth, and by the way ur dick should be used for sacrifice
Gud 4 u, Uve nt seen anytin yet, infact u must marry d both girls, bloody cheat dats wat u r
Ask Google. .. Idiot
Mtcheweeeeeeeee
Lindoooo, ije oma. See u soon
I don't think anyone deserves to be cheated on but since the deed has been done u claim responsibility for dem
Oga pls carry your load, bloody cheat. Marry the 2 asap
LMAOOO! Best!
Call two of them and break the good news but make sure u have ur family members around b4 doing dat. Among the two, one must stand by you. Though they will all feel sad. Then start preparing yourself for family planning since you can't hold yourself. Lastly, see a doctor for RVS, HBsAg etc
Just see wat u wish for ur sis...
Are u serious right now?.....Lindiway u Don land ni.......
Yes it has happened to someone I know, he wanted to kill himself or marry two of them and he went for the later. So it's either you kill yourself or you marry two of them as a big guy.. And watchout for another virgin.
Even God says its hard to find a faithful man not to talk of women who auto follow money...
Big fooled.... carry ur cross n die wit it
Oga na aunty Linda dey kiss us not d man so chill
It's a very big mess my brother, though nobody is above mistake, unfortunately pple will be saying things as if they are saints.
However, ur action is very wrong I must confess. But get the two of them informed and beg them for forgiveness. If the younger fellow agrees to go for abortion let it be so that she can start her life n face her studies while d older one (d main wife to be)if she is ready to forgive u could keep hers, well promise never to do it again n maintain ur promise.
If all of this ddnt work, well, u don get two wives b dat o or u lose ur main wife to be. Be ready to carry ur cross.Always think of d result of an action b4 u embark on it n be responsile for ur actions. BRAVO
Eewo d wife is here
It's a very big mess my brother, though nobody is above mistake, unfortunately pple will be saying things as if they are saints.
However, ur action is very wrong I must confess. But get the two of them informed and beg them for forgiveness. If the younger fellow agrees to go for abortion let it be so that she can start her life n face her studies while d older one (d main wife to be)if she is ready to forgive u could keep hers, well promise never to do it again n maintain ur promise.
If all of this ddnt work, well, u don get two wives b dat o or u lose ur main wife to be. Be ready to carry ur cross.Always think of d result of an action b4 u embark on it n be responsile for ur actions. BRAVO
Whenever I hear this kind gist, I can't help but worry about STDs. Guys and babes still ignore the importance of CD?....God help us!
See gobe!!!
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O-ka na kiss sef! Amu gi di nko naaa! So deal with it. Who u ask when u dey insert ur dick? Monkey! Cheaters.com.....
Well d only innocent person here is ur gf so get married to her and other girl rent her an apartment and take care of her and her child but I don't think she deserved better Dan dat coz am sure u didn't rape her and she must have known u can't be dat old without a gf yet she opened her legs for u willingly without protection u both are at fault it's a mutual agreement,in between what u did was very bad but no point crying over spilt milk
Yes it has happened to someone I know, he wanted to kill himself or marry two of them and he went for the later. So it's either you kill yourself or you marry two of them as a big guy.. And watchout for another virgin.
You had a gf you were going to get married to and you went ahead to dis-flower another lady. Now that is wickedness. that being said, you cant trick your way out of this. you cant marry both ladies. Now this may sound mean, but its d fact. Ask the side chick to abort. at 19, im guessing she is still in school. if she keeps the child, her education will be delayed. when she is older and ready to marry, it may be challenging to find a man as a single mother.
If she agrees to it, only tell ur main babe after she has done it.
if abortion cant be done, you have no option than to take responsibility.
you will be responsible for the girl until she puts to bed, and responsible for the child's welfare afterwards. At the end of the day, the Young Girl is the biggest looser in the mess you created.
wow!
Congrats Man.. its a great achievement!!!! Let me be the first to wish you happy fathers day!!!!!
Funny but true..Go to market and buy a very good rope and kii thyself.
What don't kill you make you strong, you are a man and you need to act wisely, don't be discourage by anyone to the extend of killing yourself, go ahead with your marriage plan but you need to let your fiancee know about your mistake and beg her to forgive you, then assure her you will be faithful.
God bless u for dis advice white berry,exactly my thought......odas r jst ranting cos it's nt dem...nmtchew
Don't know why u men are so hard to satisfy. Bcos of this reckless quality, u have tucked yourself in a big mess. My advice to u is to tell ur wife-to- be what you have done and whatever she tells you is what u are going to do. Goodluck to u cos u will need it!!
Face it, simple
well guy,wed ur lover n open up to her,she will understand n to d other gal let her give birth den u settle her n take ur child period, don't mind wat oda people are saying okk
Oh boy ur playground mess has caught up with u n u must deal with it by having both kids!! It's called twinning 😅
I would soon stop reading your blog, coz you don't post my comments, and if you scroll through your old emails, I once asked for an advice on how to invest the money that took me three years to save, and you never responded, today that cash is still trapped.....no wahala daris gods
Hehehehe! Ur reply just killed me...
Ur a num 1 oloshi, havnt u eva heard of a condom, u wan enjoy skin to skin baaa, time to daddy up. Just take it like ur having twins, stepford wives Naija version
Welcome lindaikeji,
Congratulations about job , thks for sharing
Lol @NO!!! Cos we haven't experience this kind of thing before. Abeg make this guy no corrupt person for here ooh lmao lol
I wld say u made a big mistake disflowering d young girl wen u know u hav someone u want to marry. Dis is a great lesson to all men, pls always call off a relationship once u know a girl is a virgin n u already know u hav someone u want to marry. back to u my advice is go ahead wit ur marriage to ur long time girlfriend but be very careful, dnt do a loud wedding. As for d young girl if her parent persist u do it right, talk to ur parent n u go for introduction n u plead wit ur parent for her to put up wit them till delivery, dey wil also know hw to put it to ur wife.pls wen ur wife comes up wot d issue just plead wit her dnt explain, argue just am sorry. Wit my experience, young girls most time love dating big boys but I might nt be right in her own case. To me u hardly know who she really is n mostly such marriages dnt last so I wnt want u to regret going into d wrong marriage dnt think bcos she is pregnant n u meant her a virgin enough reason for marriage. Marriage is neither for boys nor girls, marry ur longtime girlfriend GOD wil c u through.
chai, what a dilemma; but you know the truth? just tell ur fiancee the truth. if she truly loves you, she will forgive u
chai, what a dilemma; but you know the truth? just tell ur fiancee the truth. if she truly loves you, she will forgive u
chai, what a dilemma; but you know the truth? just tell ur fiancee the truth. if she truly loves you, she will forgive u
Congratulations man
it has happened!!...
Take heart
If it was you, will u kill yourself?
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@Clara: MIA was Linda (from Paris back to Nigeria - on flight / No Gadget / No Blogging)
Philip, U don't av to sound dat way... U also might av cheated in one way or the oda... One tin bout men most tymz is dat, wen dey av bin dating a particular chick for a very long tym, dey jus suddenly start cheating, no mata how much dey love d main chick...
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Oga are u a universal donor or father of all nations..... Abeg solve your problem
nawa oooo,think well
Too disrespectfuly funny.
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Ask 2face / 2baba
Obviously beg ur girlfriend and marry her. Take d 19yr olds baby and let ur parents take care of him so d poor girl can move on wt her life and find her own husband.
Whatever happens - make sure u marry ur long term girlfriend & make sure u dont force her to raise another womans child. If u dont do these two things, u will know what d saying, "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned", means. U dont want to enter an early grave.
U get sense wel wel
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Imagineeeee. Nigerian women are not rated sha. Tell her after the wedding? God punish you. This country is filled with dishonest people.
If ds dude can de-flowered another little chick yl in a very serious relationship, den he can neva b trusted cos he's an unrepentant cheat!
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he is still blowing kisses...idiot, you dont know what you have entered into, i pray you suffer for what you have done...you will never come out of the debacle, it will hunt you forever...you think you are a sharp shooter abi? you will see
marry both girls. afterall you are an African and it's part of our culture.
Lmao.. I luv dat HIT
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God forbid, he must marry both.
Sorry I can't advise a dog #Jules
This is the best I've read so far...
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO E fit Elohor.
It's Linda that's going MIA.. not the guy!
You encourage him to deceive his fiance. Not all girls are desperate, she could still leave him after the fact
Very good for you. I'm so happy for you. You can't imagine my happiness over this your news. Let me not just insult you on here. Irresponsible twat. No advise for you, only judgement from God and pity for your girlfriend. God bless.
Oh, waoo! What a coincedence, my neighbor's dog, Starboy, was in the same situation as you just last month. Starboy impregnated 2 female dogs from the same neighborhood at the same time. By the way none of the female dogs is aware of each other's existence yet. My advice is, wait until Starboy does something about his dilemma, u then may take a cue from him. Whatever works for Starboy will definitely work for you as it seems, from your post, both of you have the same character.
D guy is way too annoying.. d gal was a virgin and he's in a serious relationship... dat is d mor reason he shudnt av de-flowered her... Young cunt was calling... annoying dude...
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Father Abraham! E fit you!
You think the 19 year olds parents are stupid. Mistake of what
Wow, you guys are making things worse for this guy..He needs ur advice not insults, Fine he is wrong for sleeping with someone else dat he wasnt gonna marry but he made a mistake by not using Condoms...Most of you guys have more than one girlfriend nd u are insulting him, (Pot calling Kettle black)the only difference is that he didn't use condom and I'm sure he has learnt his lessons..My advice to you is dat u tell ur wife to be the truth nd whatever she decide or says will determine it all, ask for her forgiveness nd also God's..Safe journey Linda
Wow, you guys are making things worse for this guy..He needs ur advice not insults, Fine he is wrong for sleeping with someone else dat he wasnt gonna marry but he made a mistake by not using Condoms...Most of you guys have more than one girlfriend nd u are insulting him, (Pot calling Kettle black)the only difference is that he didn't use condom and I'm sure he has learnt his lessons..My advice to you is dat u tell ur wife to be the truth nd whatever she decide or says will determine it all, ask for her forgiveness nd also God's..Safe journey Linda
You would still marry him? The issue with Nigerian women is deep
hmmmmm oga u should go with the one u disflower oh,cos she is innocent wen u met ha n for ur gf tel her d problem but dont let d gal u disvirgin dowm cos dat act of urs will ruin her entire life,she is just 19 brooooooo
people are mean loooool. he has got to keep both babies. but he needs to tell the woman he wants to marry. the more he keeps the secret, the bigger the problem becomes. mans gotta pray too.
This guy is foolish....
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The wages of cheating my fine man. Well done, now you must tell your fiancee. Nigerian women are usually desperate so she will try to win you over more. If you want you can make,it a competition. The 19 year old needs to be told the truth but I will not blame the parents if they lock you out of her life. I wouldn't let an irresponsible man like you near my teenage daughter even if you infect her with HIV. Not that you will stop sleeping around but next time practice safe sex. At your age, you can t tell me you do not know the diseases lurking around. What a fine example you are to your children,
u cant get a good advice from this blog, they wil only end up insulting u.. and U are a very wicked man, may God Forgive u,is ppple like u that actually cheats on their wife. But my advice, is to let d first woman know abt d other girl and if she forgives u fine but d 19yrs old, take responsibility for d child but pls don't marry her o(unless she is a northerner) cos u wil simply waste her life, she is too immature for marriage now, she shld be in school, unless u want to nature them both til she is matured enough to settle down in ur home... she never open eyes o, na u be d first, abeg let her drop and explore, if not she go show u pepper for house when she start to de open eyes..lolz
That was Linda in Mia and not d culprit o
It's a pity!! Open up to ur finance tell her D whole truth and for d other girl u hv to takia of her simple but u can't marry d two cos it won't be easy on u.hope u hv learnt ur lessons d hard way.
marry ur long time girl friend first then make the 19 yr old the second wife bcos u have laboured for the two..good luck
do not let the 19 year old and her relations know about your upcoming wedding. do not let your wife know anything about the 19yaer old girl and her present condition.
Since the 19th year old and her people will not give in to abortion, I suggest you first of all rush your fiancé's introduction, traditional wedding and then inform them that you have a wife and also let your wife know that you are expecting a baby from another girl. Any way you decide to deal with this will not be easier.
Did u seek for LIB readers opinion b4 u had sex with a 19yr old girl while ur gf was pregnant for u??? Guy abeg carry ur cross
Hmmm, ok safe journey lindiway... Guy na wa for u oh! As u know the 19 years old girl was a virgin why did u go ahead to dis virgin her when u know that u re not going to get married with her? U re very stupid for doing that. U day mad u no get sense? Why did u not protect yourself when u know ur long time girl frnd is pregnant? U will leave the both oh don't abort them let them give birth before u can beg the virgin to stay away. Mtcheew!!!!!!!
Roberto Carlos, have d babies. Children are a blessing.
Is it that u lost ur mind. But why Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ u rebellious, wicked, stupid and at the same a chief architect or ur failure. When you were busy licking d teenage tomatoe, u forget u have a real girlfriend. The annoying part is that u put her in family way, cheated on her with a teenager, woooooo, na God disgrace u oooooooo. Marry the both, bcos, na ur unfaithfulness and wickedness put u into this. Enjoy the rid. Eunice
Is it that u lost ur mind. But why Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ u rebellious, wicked, stupid and at the same a chief architect or ur failure. When you were busy licking d teenage tomatoe, u forget u have a real girlfriend. The annoying part is that u put her in family way, cheated on her with a teenager, woooooo, na God disgrace u oooooooo. Marry the both, bcos, na ur unfaithfulness and wickedness put u into this. Enjoy the rid. Eunice
Mumu u be don for ur face,idiot keep pregnating dem na ur future u dey use play
U don do shino daran
Roberto Carlos, have d babies. Children are a blessing.
Mine is not to judge you, ok....
Suffice to say that you did not furnish sufficient info about yourself, save to say you are 33 years old...
I would like to know:
1. Are you a Christian or a Muslim?
2. Did your 19 year old side-girl have notice that you do have a fiancee to whom you are to be wedded in December?
If you are a Christian, then you can only but marry one of the ladies in the picture...
If you are a Muslim, you are permitted to marry as many as four wives, hence you are free to settle down with both ladies in turn...
If you are a Christian, my question would be: did your side girl know of the currency of your relationship with your fiancee?
If the answer is yes, then your obligation to your fiancee subsists; the only obligation you owe the side girl is to take care of her financially both pre- and post-partum; and take care of the baby as well when it arrives...
If your side girl does not have notice, then we must apply the rule of equity in you case, which is to the effect that 'if there are two equities, the first in time would prevail...
It boils down to this: your obligation to marry your fiancee subsists; and the only obligation you owe the side girl is financial care for her and the bay when it arrives...
You must man up to the consequences of your action and unfold your failing to your fiancee...her reaction would also point the way forward for you...
Note that your action is irresponsible, reprehensible and utterly condemnable...
If this experience has not taught you as yet anything about fidelity and its supreme import in a relationship, then I must warn that if you do enter marriage and dare attempt a repetition of this sordid narrative, your neck might go for it....
Pls I need you advice I met a guy in camp nd we started dating he told me he has a gf in lag buh she is engaged to som1 else so we started datin was goin tru his phone nd I saw a text he sent to her dat there is no future between dem dt he needs to move on since she is engage. Duh he said he wants somtin serious wit me. I asked him if u stil love her. He said he had feelings 4 her not have dt he loves me, buh d p is dt he is not ready to quit his relationship wit her yet dt I shud give him time. He ask me if it will be fair for him to just quit wit her Bcoz he met me so pls. Advice me
O boy you b chairman, i hope you will not creat a community with this altitude.
Linda pls how do I get to send u a message
Hypocrites be like
Ah ah chairman you be oga two at the same time.
Waitin be MIA again linda explain abeg ?
Congratulations, just marry the two girls because you have long pennies,
Kisses again???? you wan impregnate us for social media too???
brother oghene na Anty linda dey kiss u no be thr confused bro
smh
Na Linda dey blow kisses oh.. nor be d free sperm donor lol
U ar wicked o, Chai, can u do that to ur sister, definitely not .dear poster, it's Better to tell her now, she can choose to still marry or not to avoid divorce in future, it's your mistake so whatever the outcome is, u have to bear it.
What you are looking for is what you got,all you need is total repentance because at your age,l don`t know what pushed you to 19years old girl,and may be the girl has just finished secondary school.In short,you need deliverance.God will help you.
i cant believe people are even talking about condoms...why should u have sex...any form of sex with someone u havent yet married....if people will fear God, there will hardly be any crime.....God is really merciful i say...when bad things happen now some people will blame Him....Thank God He is not human like us....oga...abeg just give ur life to Christ and dont abort any child...confess to ur fiance n the 19 year old go and tell her people too...u r now paying for what u would have avoided if you obeyed God's word on fornication and adultery...to all men, whether u get caught or not, God see....u aint fooling nobody but urself...dont wait until His wrath comes upon u before u decide to please him in all ur ways including in ur sexual life
Bro, first of all ask God for mercy, den ask him for direction, cause only God can direct u and guide u on dis issue, HE is a merciful God and I know he will see u tru. In my own mortal wisdom will advice u tell ur fiancee about it.. wish u all d best bro.
JESUSlovesus.
I won't join the band of those calling for head cos of this situation.Although I haven't been in such situation before,i believe it could happen to anyone so my dear,be bold and face the consequences of ur sin now.U had cheated ur current girl,confess to her and if she truly loves u,she'll be disappointed but join u later to make a plan concerning the situation.If she refuses to forgive u and opt out,keep calm and still give her every support she needs for the sake of ur baby.As for the other 19yrs old boldly approach her parents and face whatever they might throw at u.U must not marry the girl if they insist on that but u must take responsibility of her before n after the child is born.
The bottom line is,take care of both girls and their babies.If ur sure u could put up with any of them as ur wife and she forgives u and move in then go ahead.But if not,they are not ur wife but the children are urs.Repent of ur sins n move on.Such is life.
U no well... can't stop laughing
Your cup of coffee so deal with it useless boy!!!
The MIA thing was from linda not from the guy, try to understand what you read before replying
foolish boy. what were u thinking shagging a 19 year old? pedophile. u hv made ur bed so lie on it
Something will work out
Cut ur Dick simple
lol.abi o
*fornication* and not *adultery*. He ain't married yet!
lol..nigerians
19yrs to 33yrs, first of all shame on you for that, secondly, u can never be sincere, so you should be thrown into a dongoen, while they remain just your baba(the reigning thingy for now).Gbam!
Oloshi story sender. Imagine the start to your life as a husband??? I only pity the longtime girlfriend that u brought this upon with ur trifling ass, since you feel bad for the other girl then divide yourself and marry them both nah...asking for advice from similar situation handlers...kmt! Oponu cheater! Since being faithful was too hard for u then deal with ur pathetic situation, no easy way out o, u got urself into it so again DEAL WITH IT!!!
Lolz...like first kill urself wasn't enof...I pity dis guy
As an adult you have to consider and weigh every actions you want to take in order to avoid repercussions. You have to open up to your main girl friend about the other girl and apologize to her. Also you have to take care of the second lady and her pregnancy. Let from this mistake and try as much as you can to avoid it repeating itself in the future.#landlady
Chief advisor, up u! U got it all figured out cos probably u av been in d same situation b4. U want him 2 rent a house 4 d 19 year old gurl and let her mum take care of her. How bout her future? Sebi d side chick's mum has become a nanny that he can 'get to take care of her and the child?'
I dey feel you
What you are looking for is what you got,all you need is total repentance because at your age,l don`t know what pushed you to 19years old girl,and may be the girl has just finished secondary school.In short,you need deliverance.God will help you.
shoro niyen
congrats my guy,,, ur eye don clear u now abi?
congrats my guy,,, ur eye don clear u now abi?
Is dat the stupid advise 2 give. Mayb u 2 shuld have been aborted.
Bros u no try sha ooo
I think u are very silly 2 b asking us d highly esteemed LIB readers 4 our opinion on ur inability 2 control ur wanton manhood. U are a disgrace 2 men in general and shud carry ur cross urself. U shamelessly deceived a 19 year old and must b punished. U av 2 keep both babies and provide 4 dem. If u are a xtian, 4get about a church wedding cos u cannot marry 2 women as it is tantamount to bigamy. You can however marry dem according 2 native law and custom. U must start working hard 4 extra cash as ur baby factory is about 2 begin. Good luck!
You had nothing to offer a 19 year old at your age, yet you took her virginity &got her pregnant! Don't you have nieces? How irresponsible can you get? Just take adequate care of her pregnancy & baby. She does not need a useless man like you, although I'm sure she doesn't know that yet. Mumu, Agbaya. Oniranu. Get away!
guy welldone . bt u hav to man up n clean ur mess. goodluck
God bless u for dis answer.
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bro. weldone, bt e don hapen b say e don hapen,, u hav to man up n clean up ur mess.....
dont worry about it...You Just Bless from GOD....*SMILE*
Exactly what I thought
Well, you are following in the footsteps of Flavour. I know the thing to do is to avoid the situation. But the saying about honesty being the best policy is very appropriate. Tell both the truth. It will save you in the long run.
No child is a mistake.
Meanwhile na like dis una dey carry spread and catch disease. As easy as to give belle na di same ease to catch or give pesin sontin.
Funny...Ur one silly fool
Funny...Ur one silly fool
The guy is very creative fellow.. Linda Abeg update us na... more than 10 hours now no update.
are you allergic to a condom?
are you allergic to a condom?
are you allergic to a condom?
simple... go and jump into d lagoon.
cheating freak
Dooooooo......happy fucking, next nw Ur mama u go give bele
A girl that young? Hian!!!
lol
since ur dick sweet, i get another babe for u to impregnate to make it 3
Oh u didn't knw she was very young wen u were pouring inside abi? Ur just mad. Camman u must marry both of them. Idiat
My brother.If you sincerely love your longtime girlfriend more than the 19 year old lady then tell her the truth and apologise not to disappoint the trust again even when you both get married.For the 19 years old lady,please you have to apply wisdom and maturity to it.Take your family and your pastor to meet them and explain to them your readiness to cater for your child and mother till she give birth.Ask for their forgiveness too.Bro,we all make mistake but try and move closer to God especially now your starting a family
Lmao Anonymously
Ur own womaniser no get part2 o, only u dey skelewu two women at d same time e no do u, u still dey give dem belle join. Ur prick go give you money den u go marry two of dem. Good luck to you 😅
Tell the truth to both of them, whoever wants to stay will stay with you, maybe both will leave, maybe both will still want to marry you.
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Well,that was my story.Were planning to settle down with my long time boyfriend of six years,and along the line we decided I should take in for him,since we had just 2 months down to the wedding day.I did take in but then I noticed this strange attitude in him.To cut long story short,I got to find out that a much younger girl of about 18yrs old and from his hometown is pregnant for him.He asked me to abort the pregnancy or become second wife,I however,left the relationship with my baby and now I am getting married to a man who is willing to be a father to my child.And as for him,he is looking for a way to me back,which will never be possible.
So man,handle this case with care,marry who really love,and not for sympathy.
When u were doing without protection was it a flat screen or dstv that u were expecting? Carry ur cross bro....U didn't consult anyone before so y after??? V fun in sorting ur self out
As a christian I strongly believe you need to b
Orn again. Ask for forgiveness of sin. Tell your girlfriend the truth. I believe you should do a paternity test too. God be with you.
Can someone introduce Condoms to this he goat.
In my view, I think you should stand for what you did. These are the consequence of your actions, thus, stand up as a man to the challenge. I won't advice you to marry the two women rather, I will advice you to allow the two ladies have the babies. The babies are purely innocent, thus, do not kill any of them.
However, I will advice you to stay put with your long time partner, go on and make your confession, tell her how sorry you are, beg her and let your family know what you have done. As for the young lady, it will be wicked of you leaving your long time partner for her because of your immoral act. Stand up to it by telling the parent you already have wife of your own, therefore, you can't marry two women but you will be responsible for the pregnancy, you will take care of their daughter and the baby through out the pregnancy period. But you can't marry her.
Pls let someone introduce Condom to this He-Goat
Watin concern us , no be you sleep with dem, you dey enjoy
Onuku. Kill yourself too. What a stupid advice to give someone. Anu mpama
Did u notify me when u r digging them....the answer is go fans pregnant another one.
How is this a problem? Ur penis is superactive so, marry both.
Fellows, I hope that Linda is alright for not updating since oo
I like this .
Abdul malik, u spoke my mind. He's an asshole.
Bro you have absoluetly no problem at all. You'll be having two kids at tje same time. Just like having twins. Own-up!! One of the mothers might chose to leave but pls take care of your children. Its a privilege. If not marry both ladies its allowed in Nigerian Law. We live and learn. Cheers
Linda! Employ people to work for/with you!!!
Such a shame...
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Congrats to you for a job well done. Keep getting them pregnant since there are no condoms ni. Jor oh
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Dats wat u get 4 bein a bloody cheat don't knw y u men find it so hard to b faithful
Brother The mistake is done already what you need to do is to seek for forgiveness and repent from such act
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Lmao!!! Dnt mind d silly boy!
Dis is simple... since u flying back hme, go impregnate ur mama... #smilez#
#nanapearl#
Malik... I think simultaneously is d answer..
#nanapearl#
u wan chop clean mouth,God don catch u.u must to marry 2 wives b dt.
Msheeeeeew, guys, they never cease to amaze me. u old papa de deflower small girl of 19 and you ve a gf. pls marry the one you ve deflowered and don't let her life become miserable so she wont live wt d agony of ow she lost her virginity. thank you
Msheeeeeew, guys, they never cease to amaze me. u old papa de deflower small girl of 19 and you ve a gf. pls marry the one you ve deflowered and don't let her life become miserable so she wont live wt d agony of ow she lost her virginity. thank you
Mayb he should ask 2baba hw he manages his own stuffs like dis
#nanapearl#
Open up to your girlfriend and find a solution together
Bros i need to tap into ur anointing....
Bros i need to tap into ur anointing....
Bro is cruelty?¿?? Odi kwa serious
i think you should carry your pastor along. you can not marry both as its against the xtian ethics. from your mail or post,i do not think you are remorseful. you need to be sorry about this so that you can discipline urself to stick to one lady. may God help you anyway and i pray the ladies will understand when they get to know.
Safe flight love
what a man sow he we reap
Hmmmmmmm,did not see ds post Linda welcome!
Do traditional marriage for the 2 of them within one month, starting with the longtime baby. Hehehehehe
You're a babyboy
Guys a da chi
Stewwwwpeed comment....you need some serious whipping for mis-commenting.
Oloshi Onidokudo
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