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Wednesday 10 June 2015

Dear LIB readers: Two women are pregnant for me at the same time

From a male LIB reader
My longtime girlfriend and I are expecting our first child together and are planning to marry in December. But I was also seeing someone on the side and she's also pregnant. To be honest I feel bad because she was a virgin and she's very young - just 19. I am 33. I don't know what to do in this situation as her parents are very upset and want me to do right by her. My main girlfriend doesn't know about the other one and her pregnancy and I don't know how to break it to her. In fact I am confused about my situation. Has any guy ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?
Meanwhile, I am going to be MIA for a few hours. I'm flying back home this morning. Heading to the airport now. Will see y'all soon. Kisses

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Unknown said...

You must be a very stupid and foolish man so your girlfriend is pregnant for you and you are getting ready to get married by December!!@???and all those burden is not even enough for you then what did you do???you went ahead to give other girl pregnant!!!!thats the most stupid thing I have this year.JC.

Anonymous said...

Marry the both, next time never have a side chick.

Dat general said...

guy,u r in a deep shit!....safe trip babe

vickiesmile said...

Hmmm odogwu you can play well o nice short and scour. Well as the odogwu you are since you hard the mind to cheat on your woman that same way break the news to her hu. I hope you learn your lesson

BLUNT said...

Having kids outside wedlock is now the in-thing! Whatever happened to mankind! You shamelessly come here and tell us you screw two girls without protection! Not fair to either of them. Terminate both pregnancies! That is what I would do if I was in your shoes- which I never will. I abhor having a child outside wedlock. Real men don't do that.

Anonymous said...

Yes I know a guy who have been in such situation and that idiot is you.

When you know you have a girlfriend who you're going to possibly marry when then act so stupid and go have a fling worst of all without protection or thinking in your dumb brains that she might get pregnant. Deal with it bro and pray you don't jeopardise the future of those two ladies who are just unfortunate to be a victim of your selfish desires.

Unknown said...

U must marry d two oh! Cos u dey like mixed soup, u must mix am to d end .

skellebobsy said...

On your own

LOLA OLAGOKE said...

That's the consequence of immorality bros. the deed is done and there's nothing we can do about it. pray to God for guidance and marry the one you know YOU LOVE. dont get married to anyone becos you are pressurized into doing so.marriage is a life contact and you are implored to choose your partner rightly.a word is enough for the wise.#GBAM

Emjay said...

Re u for real? U re blowing kisses,u re not serious,mtewwwwwwww


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Unknown said...

U cheatng dog as u can't keep ur dick. I have nothing to advice u on dis

Anonymous said...

Nigga. Do u need advise from US or u want to boss about u flying round the world? Anyway, I'm travelling to American to think of your problem. I'll give my advise when I touch down baltimore. .... smh

knowurway.com said...

Hmmm, ok safe journey lindiway... Guy na wa for u oh! As u know the 19 years old girl was a virgin why did u go ahead to dis virgin her? U re very stupid for doing that. U day mad u no get sense? Why can't u protect yourself when u know ur long time girl frnd is pregnant? U will leave the both oh, don't abort them let them give birth first, before u can beg the virgin to stay away that u can't marry her.

BlackJewel042 said...

congratulation!!! ur tin too sharp. did i hear u say 19yrs old?

Anonymous said...

I READ DS ND FEEL LIKE CRYIING. WHY CANT U CONTROL URSELF OR WOST STILL, USE CONDOM. I HATES MEN WHO CHEAT. WHAT DO U TNK WILL HAPN TO UR LONG TIME GIRL FRND, ND D INNOCENT GIRL U DSVARGN!. U HV RUIN THEIR LIFE .WHAT IF A MAN DO THAT TO ANY OF UR DAUGHTER EVEN THOUGH U DONT HV ONE NOW.BUT I KNOW ONE OF THEM WILL GV BIRTH TO A GIRL. ITS NOT EASY TO MANNAGE ONE WOMAN NOT ALONE TWO.

Anonymous said...

I don't see why you are complaining. You should be praying they don't give birth to triplets.

Kwashman said...

My friend don't be stupid, tell ur father or uncles what u used ur penis for. Ur here talking nonsense. Linda sha, na ur money u dey get everytime u put up plenty nonsense. Enjoy

Anonymous said...

Ah, congrats on your coming twins.....

Anonymous said...

U beter let both of them know the situation now and make a good and wise decision.

Unknown said...

U have to go to a pastors for proper canseling if u are a christian aas no one on dis blog will u d right answer. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

Just clap for yourself!

Anonymous said...

You should be proud at the potency of Ur sperm.
~D great anonymous!

7f098c19 said...

ask 2face and not me. idiot. @linda dear safe trip. will be at ur home by weekend ok. Engr Emy

Anonymous said...

Kill urself

Juliebabe said...

You just have to marry the two women and it suits you well

Unknown said...

In Tony Montana's voice
FUCK YOU mehn!

Unknown said...

Sorry for you. All men should not just listen to Tu face's Raindrops but should heed the message in that song to the core, in order to avoid stories like this.

Unknown said...

Experts strike in situation like dis pray dey will not cut off ur neck

Unknown said...

Ya tried very well, a round of aplouse for you... Lili welcome back jor. Hope you bring some goody bags for us...

yawanow said...

marry the two. ewu

Anonymous said...

Awww congratulations,your having twins

Anonymous said...

Repent from your evil ways, if the ladies were your daughters would you be happy with any man who treats them the way you have treated these women in your life now? You have deceived these women. you need to come straight now and start doing things right. Go on with your marriage plans but take full responsibility for the 19 year old girl's baby. Aby

prettysinnee said...

So u have been fucking the both without condom...silly ass.God will punish u fool.better tell the both.

Anonymous said...

DS IS D SECOND TINE I AM POSTN A COMMENT WTOUT SEEN IT LINDA

Anonymous said...

Selfish. Greedy. Paedophile.

Marry both of them.

Ode question. We dey there when you dey enjoy the two booty?

MUSTY said...

OYO IS UR CASE!!!! WHEN U DEY DO AM U NO KNOW ABI??? DONT LET UR D..K CONTROL YOU.

Unknown said...

Marry if there will accept. By doing that one will definitely quite, but let both have their babies.

Unknown said...

U still dey blow us kiss, u be ode. Make sure they both keep the baby and pls tell each lady about the other, it saves much pain. The earlier the better bro.

Unknown said...

Marry if there will accept. By doing that one will definitely quite, but let both have their babies.

Unknown said...

Marry both if there will accept. By doing that one will definitely quite, but let both have their babies.

Unknown said...

Another ode talk

Anonymous said...

eish baba... you are in it ... Marry dem both

Unknown said...

have a safe trip sweetheart. love you

Anonymous said...

Marry d 2 of them

Unknown said...

Dumb Fuck.
Dude; u r done for.
Carry ur cross fool.

Unknown said...

have a safe trip sweetheart, love you.

Anonymous said...

Marry the both of them .wen u were fucking nd spreading the young girl's leg u didn't know.i will u the best of luck!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

you are mad first of all...God punish you and your evil ways second of all..now you are asking us, did i help u have sex with both of them? polygamy is not an abomination marry them both..oloshi!

onyi said...

have a safe trip sweetheart, love you.

APPLE said...

You don't have any problem my dog, sorry, my guy. Just marry the two of them…..Do Nigerian men use condom at all???

Unknown said...

Over to the guys


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Royalty said...

Nah u sabi.

Unknown said...

Have a safe trip sweetheart, love you and pls by me chocolate.

Anonymous said...

Kisses to your foolishness.

Unknown said...

first advise..stop sending us kisses..you already have 2 girls pregnant..u dont want another one..

Unknown said...

Oloshi, deal with it. men always cheat. mtcheeeeew.

Unknown said...

Wahala...Why did u cheat at first? U better tell her before it's too late.

KC said...

Dnt want to abuse Æ”☺U̶̲̥̅̊, guy Æ”☺U̶̲̥̅̊ gat to tell ur girlie º°OO°Âº. Æ”☺U̶̲̥̅̊ both have to work it out. Marry dem both... Joking

Unknown said...

Cong bro u on ur own.. at Linda save trip buy something for me o

Anonymous said...

na your head correct now... yeye man wey dey use hin kini think. Ewu gambia.

DON said...

See who soon u wan impregnate us too? Well bro anything that goes up must surely come's down. it has happened , its fate, U have to convince that 19 years parents you already married , But due to some shit going on that's Y u v to cheat with her . They might wanna abort it for her.V bn in that situation 8 years ago. Her parent's did abort it for her. as we know the world is changing things must v changed now. wish u the best bro.

Anonymous said...

Marry the one you wish to but take responsibility for both children. Also make sure you tell both women what you have been up to. At this point they both deserve to know.

Livvsreamblog said...

Congrats bro,u r hero!

Anonymous said...

Marry the both of them..wen you were fucking nd spreading the young girl's leg u didn't know..wink!!!! I wish u the bst of luck..God bless!!!

Unknown said...

U re a womaniser,dis is y staying honest is beta,u sleeping around nd wit d guts sleepin wit a virgin while u knw u av a galfrnd,its ur cross bear it,cos in life wateva u chuses 2 do dr's always a consequence,sheooor yeye talk...

Anonymous said...

ask 2face

Jagaban 1 said...

1st of all God punish u...n u r stupid!!!face ur predicament,stupid men won't kip their pricks in 1 place.ashewo kobo kobo

Unknown said...

Idiot! Marry d both of them.

Unknown said...

Safe trip dear

Kiki said...

God punish u I hope and think this is a lie....kisses u lieing ass cheating ass scumbag cut ur d**k off that's wat u should do mtscheew

Ugomma said...

You are on your own! I pity the girls you deceived.

Anonymous said...

U are as good as dead, marry both of them together now.u fail to keep ur thing 1 place,womanizer.

Anonymous said...

Marry both of them same day cos its obvious one woman is not enough for you...Congratsss

Tchid said...

Two women pregnant for u at thesame time simply means u're a dog!!! go cut off ur eggplant..

Angie said...

Safe travel Linda...

Mr, marry them both!!.
You've got to take responsibility for both of them; as you make your bed.........

Edwin Akwudolu said...

Dear writer, why did you impregnate 2 girls at the same time?

Anonymous said...

Useless man

Unknown said...

Men dese days en, must u have side chick? As if it's not enough u were fucking her without condom mtchwww u need to be flogged. U have to tell ur babe if she forgives u den stop such act nd thank your star Becos if na me I wil never ever have anything to do with u again.

Unknown said...

Hmmm did you seek for liner's advice while u were doing the side piece??? its your cross....

Unknown said...

Tell ur folks. They shd know better.

Unknown said...

Omo olope....we don change ur name to Godwin

LSFA said...

First of all, double tuale for you. Secondly, marry the one you really wish to marry but make sure you take care of the other child and the mother till she gets married. Also make sure you break the news to your girlfriend... she might be of assistance to help you solve your problem. Once again, tuale!!!

Breanna Blogs Life said...

Shameless excuse of a man....

You're very mean... No advise for you

Leebee said...

Who sent u to go and defile the young innocent girl. How wld u feel if same was done to ur sister or even ur daughter? U have no choice, marry the two women. Go an explain to ur longtime girlfriend, get ready and marry the two of dem. Who does dis in this age, having sex without condoms? Bros na wa to u o. God don catch u.

Anonymous said...

U are seriously pathetic

Ebby said...

How can u be sleeping with all without protection... U are in for a big trouble .. Marry both of them after all u are an African man that can't stick to a lady... That's the price u pay for being careless

Leebee said...

U r still taking flights when u are supposed to be buying baby things for ur children. U r not a serious person. Better accept ur responsibility

Unknown said...

First abortion of the world and it's evil, for God said and I will avenge the blood of the innocent, be careful, you will have to take responsibiities for your actions, you were also very careless, doing two women without protection, you could have put your life on the line. Lastly if you are a Christian you only entitled to one wife, but if opposite is the case you lucky.

Unknown said...

sai gobe nigga.. #MallamMaiShayi

Unknown said...

sai gobe nigga.. #MallamMaiShayi

Unknown said...

sai gobe nigga.. #MallamMaiShayi

Bad_girl_riri 4 life said...

Dis guy is notin buh a male prostitute..dese are d kind of guys dat will xpect ladies 2 be faithful 2 dem while dey fool around...#onyoshi

Anonymous said...

Have d two babies.

Anonymous said...

You are still doing kisses mtscheeeew

Unknown said...

All the commandments God Gave Us is for our own good!...Flee Fornication 1 corin 6 : 18!!..........#Y'all Need JESUS!!

Unknown said...

See gbege!!! U deflowered a girl when u knew well u had sum1 u wanted to marry. Y ruin dat poor girl's life? U r a wicked being. Don't know what u want us to do now

fransix said...

The man with the gun....omo, u shoot well oh. now wey kasala don burst, na im we go know the kind food u been the chop for secret!

Unknown said...

Make sure u marry ur long time babe

Unknown said...

O boy.......how didyou handle the bothof dem nd got them pregnant??? who adviced you on dat???
Keep searching for advice...

Safe fly Lindiway.....dont forget my Chocomilo



Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......

Anonymous said...

And ur still flirting wt female lib readers. Wt dis ur predicament. Kisses ko kisses ni. Oniranu.

Abisola

Unknown said...

U try. Don't worry another one is on the way.

Unknown said...

shiiiiiit!!!! fucked up bro!the situation needs to be handled with extreme care. u were quite careless but no one is above mistakes.consult ur family and join heads on what the next step shud be.

Anonymous said...

Sharp guy, God don catch u!!!!
Marry the main girl friend as senior wife and the smallie as 2nd wife. ntooooooo!!!
hehehehe

Dobzi fingers said...

If you were man enough to be sleeping and cheating on two women, then be man enough to own up to your responsibilities

http://www.dobzifingers.com/?m=1

nnukwunwanyi said...

Marry ur girlfriend, if not u will regret it if u marry ur side chick out of pity,...but try and open up to ur girlfriend now,so she won't find out thru another person, beg her for forgiveness, and promise to stand by her no matter what,....you guys will work it out, my kid brother was in dis ur situation 2yrs ago,but his was dat only d side chick was pregnant but his girl wasn't pregnant, we all forced him to marry d pregnant one because she was 18 and he disvirgined her,...Now we all regret it cos his very unhappy in d marriage and it's showing outside,d girl in question is not helping matters,no week passes without him complaining of one thing she did or not,now am even tired of picking his calls,. According to him,his wife is always chatting with unknown males on fb,and giving them her real phone number,dat he has talked and talked,dat she is also so lazy and dirty,.....and now I think my brother is secretly seeing his old girlfriend,as all he talks about is divorcing his wife,and am not in support of that, ..please don't make d same mistake he did.

Omo Papa said...

Ti e ba e

Omo Papa said...

Ti e ba e

Unknown said...

Ur john thomas no get brake @ all. U now askin for advice, u start it u should confront ur first babe.

uche said...

Sorry Bro, the deed is already done- the parents are involved and you're in deep shite!
Had the same situation a loong time ago, luckily parents were not involved.
One of the ladies did not keep hers and the other gave me a now 16 year old who I am proud to call my son.

Ogechi@ afakos@yahoo.com said...

Learn to keep your manhood in control. Don't be a dog. You will marry the two of them.

Anonymous said...

eya this is quite unfortunate for you. you are in a terrible mess. why cant you guys just stay faithful to ur partners? now what do u intend to do about it? this 19yrs old girls future is at stake n ur gfrnd will be hurt..marry both of them

Anonymous said...

I have been in your situation before. The best option is to leave the whole thing to play out naturally. In the end, you will eventually know who truly loves you between the two girls. Invariably, both of them will either leave you, or you will loose one of them and end up with the one who truly loves. Don't worry, life has no guide book. We all learn from our mistakes.

Anonymous said...

olori buruku somebody......... chai Men are evil

Pinochiodee said...

A 33 year old man sleeping with a 19 year old girl, and you have your own girlfriend! Just marry both traditionally or keep both as baby mama's! Just be ready for serious war with your gf cos she's going to take it very badly. Breaking such news to a pregnant woman! He'll hath no fury like a woman scorned!

Pearls said...

I just pity your soon to be bride, maybe if u kept your di*k in one place, u would not ve been in this mess

Gabriel Hugo said...

U are a very big fool!!!! U don't deserve advise from anyone

Koko^^Effi^^ said...

Safe Journey Sweetly beautiful linda.

This is my first official comment. .please show me. Some love libers.

Koko^^Effi^^ said...

Safe Journey Sweetly beautiful linda.

This is my first official comment. .please show me. Some love libers.

Anonymous said...

Sharp shooter ... Everyday is for thief one day is for the owner. Go and jump into lagoon if u don't know what to do. Anu ofia

Unknown said...

You don get 2Alert be that... Marry both.

Anonymous said...

Yeye dey smell

GALORE said...

Oya slap yourself

Brother ode.




@Galore

ujunwa said...

Okotigba...

Anonymous said...

Good for you young man. You want to eat your cake and have it. Cheating is BAD! You need to be contented with one girl. Truth be told, cheating is in the nature of most people, so much so that they find it normal. Now go deal with the consequences and the mental deterioration that will plague you for some time.

Unknown said...

OK u did all that without thinking about your main chick.. Well mistake is bound to happen wife them both .. Polygamous ain't a bhadd thing

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Big boy... Congrats in advance though...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Dis dude is jonny o, Infact dis is original gobe. U wl tell ur long time gf ni o n marry d 2 simple.

Unknown said...

Dis dude is jonny o, Infact dis is original gobe. U wl tell ur long time gf ni o n marry d 2 simple.

Unknown said...

Ok

Unknown said...

you put your sef in trouble,and dis is not ise aiye,it is ur own afowafa.my advise to u is to take of both of them and take it as ur cross.kosohun titun labe orun.this is a small case.ok

Damy D said...

Hmmm...shey u no dey confused wen u dey chop rice n beans...ma dear face it*itz tym to dance 2 d tune*

Damy D said...

Hmmm...shey u no dey confused wen u dey chop rice n beans...ma dear face it*itz tym to dance 2 d tune*

Anonymous said...

From what u r saying here money is not D problem. If u like D two of dem marry dem. After all, dis what D yoruba an hausa is looking for. UGO-GOLD.

Anonymous said...

From what u r saying here money is not D problem. If u like D two of dem marry dem. After all, dis what D yoruba an hausa is looking for. UGO-GOLD.

Unknown said...

Marry the two women. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Marry the two women. Linda take note!

Juleslouis said...

Congrats bro. Marry them both. Mumu! U seeked our advise when u were gbenshing her. Tshewwww

presh ijay said...

u should be able to bear the consequence bcos wen u were enjoying u did not seek our opinion

Anonymous said...

Distributor of SPERM. welldone, I guess you and condom are at war with eachoda. Why not marry the both of dem,since 1 woman cannot satisfy ur sexual urge.

shuga bae said...

Hahahahah u b sharp shooter nah lol c u u still dey form dey talk abi? Still caving Style upon ur situation abi? Gud 4 u ooo still dey say c u all soon kisses shew! Face it ooo cos na u lik better tin pass abi?

Unknown said...

Na thunder go fire you and that stupid question......marry both of them

Unknown said...

Rest in peace bro.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#

Unknown said...

That's not a problem the problem is not being able to take care of them

Unknown said...

Baba ibeji noni! Whatever you sow...

Unknown said...

Guy, u playd sharp ball n u hv scored 2 excellent goals,so pls tk ur trophy sharply n honorably. Abeg let me hear word. #Linda kisses ryt bk. Hv a safe trip.

Unknown said...

lol!u be flavour naa

Unknown said...

lol!u be flavour naa

Unknown said...

Clap for yourself badoo. Marry the two of them now. If they are good to sleep with, they should be good to be made wives. I don't know why most men are never contented. Them do una? I only pity the long time girlfriend who will feel cheated, betrayed and heart-broken. See what 5min pleasure has caused u? Whatever happened to using protection? In fact bro, I don't pity u one bit! The best purnishment for u is castration.



#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

@Linda safe trip home dear



#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

Clap for yourself badoo. Marry the two of them now. If they are good to sleep with, they should be good to be made wives. I don't know why most men are never contented. Them do una? I only pity the long time girlfriend who will feel cheated, betrayed and heart-broken. See what 5min pleasure has caused u? Whatever happened to using protection? In fact bro, I don't pity u one bit! The best purnishment for u is castration.



#TeamBlessed#

Dare said...

Madt man, you're still sending kisses. Ashawo oshi. Well its a tough situation since the recently disvirgined girl's parents already know. But then you don't have to get married to her. You need to take responsibility tho. Come clean to your woman and hopefully she'll still marry your sorry ass.

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Firstly why will you take the virginity of a girl when you know you are in another relationship leading to marriage? Let's start from there. When something bad happens to you in the future now, you'll be wondering what happened.
As for the pregnancies, that's your cross to bear. You idiots love to fuck without thinking of the consequences. I hope they both leave you. But knowing Nigerian women it'll turn to a competition of who can hold him down.

Anonymous said...

That's the price you pay for cheating on your girlfriend and being heartless to dis-virgin a young girl of 19 without conscience or first thinking of marrying her. if everyone in this world is like me you will bear your cross alone because you are heartless not minding if you will be hurting your girlfriend and the innocent little girl before you commenced

Anonymous said...

Marry d 2 of dem! It's ur fault

Unknown said...

I laugh in naija currency, I blame d 19 year old what wah she doing wit a man 14yrs older @ such a young age was she expecting you to be single. And as for u there is surely a kiosk 4 u in hell. MR Sperm Donor. #walksaway

Anonymous said...

seriously though, how stupid can people be? its not your fault...asking rubbish. Did we help you impregnate the girs? Asshole. Its people like you that make guys look bad. gtfo

Anonymous said...

I wonder why you never thot about this kind of situation before you got involved with the other girl. Guess you deserve it, cos you can't eat your cake and still have it. Marry both of them now since you chose to get them both pregnant! If u really cherished you long relationship with ur present girl, then you probably wldnt have gone astray. May God help you, better zip up and stay focused!

Unknown said...

Go sidon....yu no get yawn.

Anderson FOX said...

Congrats, at least you are TESTED AND WORKING FINE. Now pull down you pants, lift up you Hard Drive and ask it what should be next.

Anonymous said...

You are very heartless and selfish. You wan use style abandon your long time babe because you dis virgined another babe and her parents dey disturb you. Marry the two of them naa since one woman no fit satisfy you. Anuofia!

Unknown said...

Ghen ghen,marry d two.case closed

Unknown said...

Ghen ghen,marry d two..case closed

Anonymous said...

I wonder what happen to condom, if you don't want to be in this kind of dilemma. Guys una wicked and mean.

Anonymous said...

You are very heartless and selfish. You wan use style abandon your long time babe because you dis virgined another babe and her parents dey disturb you. Marry the two of them naa since one woman no fit satisfy you. Anuofia!

Anonymous said...


Dats wat i cal palava. Ode be dre doin kisses, na thunder wan fire u so

Anonymous said...

Men, you are such an irresponsible! Do you realise that you could have brought STDs to your wife and that you have just messed up that youngster's life. So selfish are men, always putting their third feet before the brain and the interests of all the parties involved. Someone did that to my cousin and she she found out very late in the pregnancy. The bastard humiliated the other woman, claiming that it was a one off and that the lady had planned mischievous against him. He went on to marry my cousin because her parents are well off and could help him secure a good job after uni. They found him a good job indeed and a house for him and his wife. The guy has not changed his way though, still a cheater and irresponsible man. The other woman is happy in another relationship where she is shown love and respect.

One meet another irresponsible married man who claims to be single. They start dating and the lady asks whether he is married or a parent and the guy respond none of the above. The woman start thinking that the man is a good deal and deeply invest in the relationship that she takes serious. The guy is very mysterious and emotionally distant though, never seen his friends or family. He is only affectionate when you have sex and even then, there is a distance. The guy does not spoil with affection or gifts, he takes your love for him for granted. Whenever you have unprotected sex, the guy panic and rush you to get morning after pills. One day, off guards, someone called to wish happy father's day. You realise the guy is a heart breaker and deceitful and you want it over. The guy said he was ashamed to talk about his fatherhood because he was not sure that the children were his, the woman has been cheating and so and so. You are a fool and you carry on with him. So much doubts now, the guy still emotionally detached, still unwilling to take the relationship to another level. You put the pressure on him and you break up for 3 years. Weakness makes you fall for his lies yet again. You find out that the guy is married and living with the wife he claims he cannot stand, the mother of his kids, the one he has been stabbing and calling all sorts of names.You realise that you are of no consideration for this guy, just a liability. The guy says bad things about you to his friends, the slightest neglect, he exposes. He finds ways to make you feel bad about yourself, such a wicked person i have waisted many long years with. He cheated me, but worse, he connived with my inner self to cheat and confuse myself. I am at loss for words to have allowed such to happen to me. From the beginning i saw hints that he was deceitful, but i ignored it cos i wanted somebody to love and be with me at all cost. I was not loved or appreciated and i knew it all along and yet i let it continue. The guy is a gigolo, he does not deserve me or his wife. Imagine i had a child for him, i will be shedding tears right now and struggle to raise my child all by myself.

Anonymous said...

I HAVE BEEN IN THIS KIND OF SITUATION BUT I MARRIED BOTH. INITIALLY IT WAS MAD BUT WITH TIME,THINGS STARTED WORKING OUT WELL BCOS, B4 I MARRIED THE MAIN GIRL, I HAD TO TELL HER SO THAT ANY DECISION SHE WILL TAKE, ITS WELL WITH HER. I MAD THEM TO UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH OF THEM ARE SO DEAR TO MY LIFE AND ANYONE THAT WUD NOT UNDASTAND ME MEANS SHE DOES NOT LOVE ME.

NOW AM HAPPY

Unknown said...

Finally another opportunity to comment on LIB.. Ahahahahahaha dude u re very funny.. Hw cn two women be preggy for u.. . Well u shud bear d consequences.. more over i think u like being a polygamist, if nt how cn u be having sex with two men.. no its #wrong

y said...

haba why are some men just useless.......... u disvirgined d gyal,got ha pregnant, wetin do condom nau, abeg beta start confessing to d main chick

Anonymous said...

You can start dancing to Tony Tetula's song, "I'm in love with two women, and I don't know which one to take....

Unknown said...

Oga clap for yourself well o. U try, see ur life? U've destroyed a poor girl's life by ur selfish interests and ur girlfriend will be so heartbroken, when u are not contented with what u have, this is what happens. Tell ur family so that they will call both of them together nd tell them nd u can't marry either of them.

Unknown said...

Visit Fr mbaka in Enugu for deliverance. if not women re in soup

Unknown said...

Wow! Linda, wish u, and ur sister's safe trip back to d country. God bless u abundantly, and everytin dat concerns u.

Abt dis dude dat impregnated two ladies, hmmmmmm dis shows he never had any plan to b faithful to his wife to b.

Any intention to let d wife to b knw abt dis, is surely going to spell doomed for him, and d end of d wedding bcos no lady wil accept dis nonsense.

If d wife to b by any chance hear abt dis, and goes ahead wit d marriage dat means she has given him d license to cheat since dis is who, and wht he is b4 d wedding.

If I am in his shoes, dis is wht I wil do which is go on my knee, and seek forgiveness frm God for tasting d forbidden apple's b4 wedding.

After going thru dis repentance come out clean irrespective of wht criticism u r going to face by confessing ur wrongs to both parties, and promise ur wife to b dat such wil never happen again dat u r a change man.

Follow dis steps, and it wil b well wit u. Case close. Nice LIB super story write up.

exciting lifestyle consult blog said...

Ur very stupid and wicked! U hav main chic and fuckin an innocent 19yrs old witout a condom? Wht happened to withdrawal method? Oloshi! Wht if u are already married to ur main chic? Plz do d same tin u wuld hav done if u wer already married and stop disturbing us wit ur problem cos we didn't enjoy wit u. U shd even b ashamed posting dis? @ 33? Ode!

Unknown said...

As harsh as ur reply is u just spoke my mind.... He even bleeped the 19 year old girl without protection!

Anonymous said...

When u were sleeping with them and enjoying it, did u tell LIB? biko park well

Anonymous said...

Hahahahahahahaha,dis comment got me rolling on the floor, nice ansa bro *thumbs up*

Unknown said...

Hahahahaha mehn I busted serious laugh at work hahaha "be there chopping ur money" hahaha

Unknown said...

Wow! Linda, wish u, and ur sister's safe trip back to d country. God bless u abundantly, and everytin dat concerns u.

Abt dis dude dat impregnated two ladies, hmmmmmm dis shows he never had any plan to b faithful to his wife to b.

Any intention to let d wife to b knw abt dis, is surely going to spell doomed for him, and d end of d wedding bcos no lady wil accept dis nonsense.

If d wife to b by any chance hear abt dis, and goes ahead wit d marriage dat means she has given him d license to cheat since dis is who, and wht he is b4 d wedding.

If I am in his shoes, dis is wht I wil do which is go on my knee, and seek forgiveness frm God for tasting d forbidden apple's b4 wedding.

After going thru dis repentance come out clean irrespective of wht criticism u r going to face by confessing ur wrongs to both parties, and promise ur wife to b dat such wil never happen again dat u r a change man.

Follow dis steps, and it wil b well wit u. Case close. Nice LIB super story write up.

Asiwaju TY said...

Ur case is a case of corruption. You are gaddam corrupt. You shld be probed.

Davido's driver said...

Oh boy how foolish can you be? Wait, dont you fear hiv?

Unknown said...

I see that most people here are claiming to be saints while hiding behind Linda's blog saying rubbish in d name of commenting why are you all acting like you have never cheated before I can bet my life on it that 95 percent of you all here are blood mofo cheats who hv cheated and still cheating it takes d grace of God to be faithful not by mere rubbish talk of insulting dis guy let's even assume this is all a joke and ur all saying trash some of you are cheating right about now and you hiding behind your borrowed phones to say craps. God forgive una bloody pretenders nd hypocrits.

Unknown said...

GOOD FOR YOU, SINCE YOU GOT THEM PREGNANT AT THE SAME, MARRY THEM AT THE SAME TIME TOO. ODE OSHI

Anonymous said...

Get two extra jobs

Unknown said...

Na die u dey

Unknown said...

Honestly

Anonymous said...

it depends on how your wife takes it. tell her, some people would appreciate the truth being told and then solution comes. for the 19 year old, you have to take care of the child eventually fulfill your duty as the father of the child if she is willing to keep it.then as for you, you have to be a man and not run away from your problems, the did has been done. its easy to say all this, but you have to face the music and solve the issue at hand.

Golda Awosika said...

Aah oloriburuku ni e o, dos gals ought to swear for u, useless person
#*karlishah*

SunnyBriggs. said...

Oga ur so strictly on your own. I mean this is madness. What happened to condoms? You dumb cheat. Abeg safe trip Linda.

Anonymous said...

I luv answer yusuf

Anonymous said...

Abandoning your longtime girlfriend is callous.. explain to her and plead for her forgiveness.. as for the 19yr old girl,, tell her parents u will take care of your child. no body should force you to marry against your wish. she's only 19 and has a long way to go.. don't steal her childhood from her( though u've stolen some part)

Anonymous said...

Ewu Gambia. How can you say such? if you've got no sensible advice to give, then STFU. Silly boy.

Anonymous said...

Super Stud!!! Na only you get prick!

Anonymous said...

Marry who you love best, who you feel is best compatible with you. open up to both of them and braze-up for the outcome of that. best of luck bro.

Anonymous said...

marry em both,tz high time we re-invented polygamy,our forefathers were stupid whn thy wr practising it...it'll be supercool
aittyfinest xyz

jyde Enilolobo said...

wetin dey chop no make u wise. wen u dey blow wit out condom, wetin u dey xpect? an iphone? olodo oshi

Anonymous said...

*were'nt*
aittyfinest xyz

dammy said...

Its official....you are a fool

Anonymous said...

1. Y ask 4 advice from us now.
2. At ur age u dont know wat a Condom is, wat if u had caught AIDS or sumtin, e no de show for face ooo Virgin or no Virgin. Men n Women shud always know this.
3. Am sure u must hav washed that girls brain wit all ur lies knowing she is a novice.
4. u just hav to say the truth to both parties, the 19 yrs old parents must know, ur fiancee n her family must know and then as tins unfold u know wat step to take next cox now, the 2 families are involved.
5. Be a man n take responsibility on watever fate dat befalls upon u, cos u r d only architect of ur future. No call devil or God in dis mata Period. People should learn to take responsibility for their actions n nt use spirituality to console or gain solace.
GOOD LUCK TO U COX I WUD NT WANT TO B IN ANY OF DIS PICTURE B IT THE MAN, 19YRS OLD OR THE FIANCEE COS NO MATA WAT, SUM1 IS GETTING HURT. SO SAD

Anonymous said...

this comment killed me 😂😂

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