From a LIB reader who thinks no man is faithful...:-)
Dear LIB readers, I have always thought my husband was faithful until I
saw this in his FB box. We have been married and blessed with 2kids and
he acts like a saint all the time. I am shocked at this and more upset
because the conversations are with both married and single ladies. What can I do in a situation like this? Do I just stay mute and move on
like nothing happened or talk to him about it. Even if I do. I know his
still going to deny it..
269 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 269 of 269What you saw was small compared to what I saw in my husband's facebook chat with his friend. My husband told his friend on the chat that a girl fucked him like his wife use to fuck him. I confronted him, yet he denied it, and said is bcos his friend like dirty talk, even got angry that i snooped in his facebook. I trusted him with my life b4, but not anymore. Let me tell you, no man is faithful. Confront him ok, but be polite.
Lord help us women!
Married Men n women aint loyal these days
IF THE MAN IE YOUR HUBBY TAKES CARE OF YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN, I ADVISE THAT YOU LEAVE HIM ALONE, BUT IF YOU ARE SO UNCOMFORTABLE TO LEAVE HIM ALONE YOU, CAN POLITELY ADVISE HIM TO USE CONDOM IF HE MUST PLAY OUT SIDE, IN OTHER TO TO TRANSFER ANY INFECTION TO YOU. BUT HE MIGHT WANT TO KNOW HOW YOU SAW THOSE CONVERSATION.
I DON'T PICK MY HUBBY CALL OR CHECK HIS PHONE, HE DOESN'T PICK MINE TOO, IS NOT BECAUSE I DON'T TRUST HIM JUST THAT I DON'T WANNA HURT MYSELF OR I WANT THAT ASPECT OF HIS LIFE TO BE PRIVATE. MY FINAL WORD IS LEAVE YOUR HUBBY ALONE, SOMETIMES MEN WANTS TO TALK DIRTY, IS NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE GUILTY OF CHEATING BUT JUST FOR FUN OF IT, BECAUSE ASKING HIM MAY TRIGGER SO MUCH DOUBTS AND GUILT.
What about me that my husband told his friend on facebook chat how a girl fucked him like his wife use to fuck him, yet he denied it when I confronted him. I use to trust him with my life b4, but not anymore. No man is faithful! Confront him, but be polite about it, if he denies it, just have it at the back of ur mind that he is not faithful. @isabella_nice
Y bring it on here #smh but men sef eeh I tire
It's a shame.they are not to be trusted.
Parliamentary extension is in Calabar... how Calabar man go dey faithful??????
You are in a marriage with all those creatures your husband is communicating with. Are you okay with that? If not, you have your decision in front of you.
Hmmm. Move on dear. Life is too short to worry about cheating men. And talking to him and knowing that he would deny it. That is another trouble . Leading to etc
Lol.. Is she kiddin me? These chats look virgin 2 me... Lemme show her my hubby's chats with married n single ladies, she'd go home n pound yam 4 her hubby n f**k him senseless 4 being loyal..
Guys ehh,i dnt want any social media wahala oo, he has to agree to be mild with it b4 I accept d ring.
My dear sister,pray oo.all dese fb chats do not end easily.
Who gave you his password? Heart break will soon kill you.
Hmm wonders shall never end social media wahala. My sister just remain faithful if you accost him trust men he would turn the tables , but i think you should accost him. All the best.
Linda, pls post comment naa. I have been checking to see comments on this post yet you re just silent
D guy is enjoying fringe benefits after retirement so u wouldn't really blame him. If I was d wife, I wil confront him, and let him knw so dat he can amend his ways. Keeping silent wil not do any good@all.
There is nofin in dis conversation nau,pls woman tale a chill pill pls
She's very stupid to go through her husband's phone at first...no perfect man! U need to accept their imperfections if u must let ur marriage succeed. What's her gain now? Abeg next story jare.
Adjust. It's amazing how women these days think they can change the nature of men and when you try to talk to them they start quoting their pastors. Women, if you have not caught your husband it cause he knows how to cover his tracks. 97% of men are at it. It is their nature. It is how God made them! And they 'cheat' with other women! If your colleagues are not willing partners nothing will happen.
Seems home *parliamentary* is in calabar... Conversation seems like one with an ex...
Shet!!!!! I hate this....i think you shouldn't ve even gone through his fb inbox at all sef....well for the first chat, I wonder why a married man would be reminding his ex of the past bikonu...if it were to be me I'd denote that he ain't happy in his marriage....nne just ignore him and lift it to God in prayers that's all
Talk it out..
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Let him know that God is watching him.tell you know about his excesses with girls/women!!!
Let him know that God is watching him.tell him you know about his excesses with girls/women!!!
Old flames!
The habinger of all things adultery.
Chances of cheating with an old flame whenever the situation presents itself is almost 90% globally.
Especially if the bang-bang used to be quite memorable, and then mobile connectivity has even bridged the gap of re-union so much.
This generation is on a looong thing!
What a shit...disgrace and confront him....men re wicked cheat.....
Your marriage needs deliverance. Lol.
Lol... I've gotten to a point in my life that shit doesn't bug me any more.. Am too busy to start exchanging words over this with him... If am so bored, I will hang out with friends and dance like it's my last dance. God punish devil.. They never born that man that will make me miserable and give me sleeplessness..
Moving on or leaving the marriage is not the best solution, try to confront him on the issue. There are better ways to solve this. If u try leaving other hungry will maneuver sharp sharp.
Pound yam kwa.....u got me laffin hard!
Cheating for sure. Smh
As in ehhnn... Mi too I fear oo
Women are funny. When their men cheat...they call them dogs. When they themselves cheat...they blame it on the fact that the hubby is not fucking them enough.
Women are oFten the guilty ones. They fuck behind their hubby and are secretive about it and clean their tracks but come on lib to cry wolf when their hubby flirts online.
Afterall.....these hubby's are flirting with women who are your folks.
Abeg....park well.
And this comment is coming from a man whose wife fucked another man for two years behind his back when he was being faithful
You are stupid, did she reveal his name or the lady' name? Anofia!
Clap for yourself for bringing high BP to yourself, what you saw is a child play to others, it's African in-thing, be on your knees and pray to God for happiness or you play revenge!
True talk
Prayer will help too,,,,,, caution your husband
And then when she gets AIDS?? Women architects of ur own destruction. See how men have ganged up against women dat cheat on them. LOL
My friend was in your shoes, her hubby had all kinds of girl friends. She was depressed and even attempted suicide. Thnk God she went bk to school after 4kids. Today reverse is d case. My friend don baff up mennn, u need to see her. She has like 3married men she is fucking for money now. Her hubby caught her and nearly killed himself. She told him dis is revenge time... u too can fuck around for crying out loud... revenge too, abi u no get toto??????????
Hi SALSA!
Z instinctively knew u were married when u failed to reciprocate my (jst friends) innocent advances on LIB cos no gal can refuse/resist the Specie just like that (WORD!!) and i had to switched off my mumu button.
Hope u r OK?
She should never have read his fb mesaages, I have been through that and believe me it's sad, don't ever read your hubby's mssgs cos till date I don't trust my husband one bit, I just pray God bless me with kids of my own and as far as I have taken my mind off his stupid flirting habits with girls I am happy.
Men wud always be men,.cheating is paramount,. Jus take it easy at least he hasn't started discussing u wif dem woman outside,so u sti safe small
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Take care of ur children and take care of urself, hav fun. Cuz men cheatin is inevitable except the very few. And make sure he wears a condom b4 u have sex with him
Men cheat, the women are told to pray and love them even more why he keeps cheating. Men are really enjoying. Women as long as you keep playing the fool, trying to keep a home that the man does not value, trying to be understanding, he will continue to cheat. Either you cheat on him too or you leave him for your peace of mind. Wow the Nigerian man dey enjoy oh.
i ADVICE YOU TO CHEAT ON HIM IN REVENGE.
GET BACK AT HIM, I CAN EVEN LEND YOU MY BIG ROD SOMETIMES. I AM SURE IT WILL ENTER YOU THE WAY YOU WANT IT.
YOUR HUSBAND IS A CHEAT! PERIOD. I WILL HEP YOU GET BACK AT HIM.
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Like your wife would cheat on you if and when you eventually marry
i wish dere z a way to like comments here linda, cos doris27 jst said my mind. God shud send me a woman like her to marry#verymatured#
But by the way, who are these men cheating with sef? Or is it not with d same bitches in here who hv all crawled out from their perfidious holes and are forming holy nweje. Abeg make we hear word! Nobody don table ur matter na I'm give mouth to yarn.
This girl must you always comment ten times. Madam "linda take note"
But by the way, who are these men cheating with sef? Or is it not with d same bitches in here who hv all crawled out from their perfidious holes and are forming holy nweje. Abeg make we hear word! Nobody don table ur matter na I'm give mouth to yarn.
Its bound to happen jare....
Oh oh, please please, a man cheats emotionally, verbally, literally, mindly and a woman is asked not to get angry so she doesnt push him into their hands. WTF are you for real right now? Men have suddenly become immortals,untouchables because you dont want to push him away.Fuck that, a man be disrespecting a woman and she gotta hold on tight. MEN where are your manners? I know where it is right there in your dick veins where y'all get messed up real. Sadly, the society makes it so.Woman calm down so he wont go and bang one of the ladies by the way he will bang them regardless of what you do.Thrifling ass motherf*krs
Parliamentry, omo Calabar oshi
Pls ma'am try to overlook this and move on. MEN are adventurous by nature,,,i am with one too. He likes chatting with babes just to catch some fun, he ll never arrange for meetings. I read his stuffs without his knowledge but i av never spoken about it. He has never treated me less dan he should treat a wife. If you attack him and he leaves then you ll see the number of women that ll grab him. Be wise AND PRAYERFUL!
Parliamentary???
No be calabar???
This isn't evidence of an affair. He is an adult and entitled to privacy. Fighting with him will only make him hide better. Trust and believe that.
This isn't evidence of an affair. He is an adult and entitled to privacy. Fighting with him will only make him hide better. Trust and believe that.
Lmao!
If you love cheating...then you are a fool....hope you don't get STD....you love cheating see ur self there.....do to others what u like others to do to you....you think this world is a joke....better go and fuck yourself there
If you love cheating...then you are a fool....hope you don't get STD....you love cheating see ur self there.....do to others what u like others to do to you....you think this world is a joke....better go and fuck yourself there
Babe,. After reading both chat messages I concluded that you are not emotionally close to your hubby of late. You are engaged with being a mother and. Wife. Try be a lover as well play your part and leave the rest to God. Be loving and sweet and sexually exciting to your husband. Make sure you always look attractive to him cos he is getting bored.
Dear confront him...we are all human beings you don't deserve less. So he shouldn't get less.. Ask him if you were the one doing this this if he will be okay with it. You are a strong lady , and am sure you are beautiful... You have two beautiful children so no you don't deserve it...if he doesn't love you anymore he should tell you and stop leading you on...you need to know where you stand in this your marriage
Seriously davido's driver...just keep on being a driver and go fuck yourself
Seriously davido's driver...just keep on being a driver and go fuck yourself
God will bless u with every desires of ur heart for that awesome reply. Manage your home girlfriend!!!
To all the ladies cussing men out on this issue - NA WOMEN (most times at least) MEN DEY CHEAT WITH O. I nor go talk pass like that.
JeeeeeeZ it is wa o.
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