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Friday, 9 January 2015

Question of the day: Which is an easier secret to keep?

A LIB reader wants me to ask this. Which is easier to divulge to Nigerians; that you have HIV/AIDS or that you are homosexual?

182 comments:

Tobiloba Akinyemi said...

Hiv shld b easier

tyokever joy said...

Both

Neekee said...

Abeg none

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Question 4 d gods.

Anonymous said...

Question 4 d gods

tyokever joy said...

Ok HIV is way easier to keep secret nobody kwns excerpt you, taking drugs is normal pple wnt ask both Homo? Lol

Nneji Kaycee said...

ooopss..HIV AIDS

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Linda if u like one topic,u aways bring it up till em tier us.chaii

Victoria Inyang said...

U can hide/tell abt HIV...I no mention AIDS oo....the drugs help a looot!!
But HOMO....u better hide am...cos 14yrs dey wait u...n only prayer can hlp u

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Princess Golden said...

Just tell the person during an intimate chat.
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lilyswt okafor said...

HiV/AIDS

7F098C19 said...

Homo is far better. But sinful. Engr Emy

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Non,tell dem u are gay,u either get beaten or lynched,tell dem got AIDS u are stigmatized, alienated ,pple will tink u are promiscuous,and gossiped about.. D best thing is keep ur mouth shut! Nobody need to know if u are gay or not,ur sexual orientation is no ones business! And tell only pple u trust bout ur HIV status

Tamia lixir said...

Which is less painful, the left or the right horn of a bull? This post brings that question to mind.

tyokever joy said...

In the case of homosexuality it takes two to screw ass hole so

Kelvin Okonkwo said...

That i am none, thats easier.

Neks said...

>>>> That you are Homo, cos they hope you gonna straight one day, HIV/Aids ain't got cure. <<<<

Mz_Fowoshere said...

Homosexual.....

Don Meritson Mba said...

bothat are deadly oo but i thing homo is easy secrete to keep..that thing is sick act!


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joan samuel said...

Ask google lol

Lina Ihionu said...

None! I guess this question is probably taken from my comment on ur post abt Badmus the other day right? 2 huge issues for only one person to deal with!

Cyntilatin Vitamin C said...

None is jare!

Dudumide said...

None!

Queen reign said...

Mehn this is really tough..... NON







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wilheminna moses said...

The easier secret is after receiving a hot slap frm me and I won't tell anyone @LIB reader. Hopeless question!

Patricia Ozioko said...

There is no easy option

Opeyemi Omosebi said...

None...keep your secrets to yourself #Shikena


#Omoh

oladele salau said...

That u are homosexual is better to keep...HIV ke?
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oladele salau said...

That u are homosexual is better to keep...HIV ke?
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ese orji said...

That you are homosexual...is a better secret to divulge,reasons been that people will not run away from you unlike you saying you have hiv.lolz

madam Uke said...

None of the above.

tyokever joy said...

Have yo all noticed the comments are displayed faster now...Tenx Linda cos sometimes I just see a post and all I wanna do is read only the comments.

Anonymous said...

HIV aids mehn

Juliebabe said...

Homosexual is an easier secret to keep

Juliet Iwuno said...

Dat u av HIV/AIDS. Linda take note!

Debbie Chelsea said...

i think its HIV/AIDS......

Bishop Dammy said...

Homosexuality has actually become the order of the day..which shouldn't be so atall..lets say NO to Homosexuality..it is well. 1 Cor 6:18-19. @Bishop_Dammy

Yetunde Akindoju said...

HIV/AIDS

Cute G said...

Homosexuals of course. Nigerians dread AIDS than they do Homosexuals.

Omotele Tele said...

Homosexual

Inside Out said...

HIV

lucky chukz said...

THat you have HIV is an easier secret till it manifest to AIDs though. One can detect gay expecially men easily

Alozie Paschal Okwara said...

Homo is harder. 1. you get to go to jail for 14yrs, rmb? 2. social persecution.
HIV/AIDS is curable now. They have a strong group and can marry and have kids that not only do not have HIV but I predict would be resistant to the HIV virus. Their blood may, in future, be used to treat HIV because their body can generate antibodies that can fight the virus. (you heard here first. lol)

kennedy Ikwuka said...

That u re homo is beta ooooo, cos with dt, u cn still ve frnd's bt for HIV, o boy ooo u dey on ur own oooo.
#dtsnoneofmybiz

carlos iyke said...

Homosexual is easier to keep.
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ochouba chidinma said...

It has to be HIV / AIDS OO.... #Bad Market#

miss sparxz said...

As a Nigerian, being a homosexual would be easier to hide than having Hiv/Aids. No discrimination against Hiv/Aids patients and definitely no jail time for being infected. If you are a homo on the other hand....

miss sparxz said...

As a Nigerian, being a homosexual would be easier to hide than having Hiv/Aids. No discrimination against Hiv/Aids patients and definitely no jail time for being infected. If you are a homo on the other hand....

Blaq said...

That's a tough one make I read comments but in Nigeria we always want to believe that people should be perfect and have perfect lives but that can't always be d case cos are r all imperfect and people should b accepted with their imperfections

Harrie said...

hehe its as clear as glass, Miss... the moment one spills the beans bout getting the #homo vibes... one's life will never remain the same... guess the deficiency virus is a lot more easy to take in...#justsaying
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sonya said...

To Nigerians saying you r HIV positive is easier than telling them you are gay....i guess.

Crystal said...

That you are homosexual

LAZY READER said...

Ask Google

jaysus said...

HIV/AIDS, nigerians r not afraid of it. but say u r homosexual, u myt end up commiting suicide.

Samuel Okafor said...

Both of them are not cool

Anonymous said...

Easier?id say being homosexual o.cos a lot of nigerians are still in 1970 when it comes to things that concern hiv.once U tell them,Ur already an outcast..besides they know you can still stop being homosexual but hiv is for life.we just need to educate people about those things.

onyinye Gloria said...

Hmmmmm! Questn for the gods!

Awofodu Feranmi said...

Homosexuality

chibaby chidiogo said...

I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

Kolawole taiye said...

It's easier to divulge that u are homo... at least no one is gona get hurt health wise.

Awofodu Feranmi said...

Homosexuality

billy sule said...

That you are homosexual i think

chibaby chidiogo said...

I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

Valentine Nkume said...

i see being a homosexual easy to divulge..atleast use the signs and body language..well its not d case for pple living with Aids/Hiv dont just dilvulge such info..anyways#say_no_to_discrimination.

Daizyyyy said...

Oh meeeen! None of the above. Either way, you are done for.

chibaby chidiogo said...

I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

Anonymous said...

AIDS

Chidinma Grace said...

That u re homosexual is easier for me to say. To avoid ppl running away from u n avoiding I like leper

CHERRY said...

Don't ve any idea!

Eva Michaels said...

HIV Positive

PYRAMID TOP said...

Hiv obviously.

Alozie Paschal Okwara said...

OH! Shoot! I was making a case for the wrong question, (which is easier secret to let out?). Back on track, HIV is easier secret to keep. Just take your drugs and you will be fine. The drugs will make you add weight so if you smile always people will think you are balling. On the hand, Homo is a lifestyle. (wrong and silly lifestyle) Lifestyle is an everyday living issue. How do you hide that???

Mayreeh Martins said...

I think HIV/AIDS is easier

Olusoji said...

Being Hiv/AIDS is much easier to divulge

Ruth Iriri said...

None!

Ruth Iriri said...

None!

Anonymous said...

Lol. I think HIV/AIDS. Cuz quite a good percentage of Nigerians will still interact with u(to a limit sha). Awareness has made that possible. As 4 being homosexual, lol. A low percentage of Nigerians will accept that easily, cuz of belief and how d society criticises IT.

Ask Ralph said...

Definitely easier to come out and talk about AIDS now. At least you don't get a jail sentence for that one and you can keep your head.

Omoye Zenki Moye Brown said...

lolzzzzzzzz...HIV i guess

Ade Uwagboe said...

Is homo, once people notice u hav Aids dey will flee

Sena Job said...

Dat you are homosexual of course

Sena Job said...

Dat you are homosexual of course

Sena Job said...

Dat you are homosexual of course

chigozie lucia said...

See me see questn, no one is good to hear sef

ROYAL PRIESTHOOD said...

None...

Anonymous said...

I think HIV is better cos u dnt go to prison for that, and if u ar the carefree type that does not give a damn about what plp thnk of u, then i thnk u wld live well wth plp knowing u ar Hiv positive

Anonymous said...

HIV is not that stigmatized as such and people are now less ignorant about it. But being gay in Nigeria, you will be treated worse than an outcast so better to stay in closet until you move to Europe not Russia or USA

KINGING said...

I think hiv/ aids

Elvis Ebuka said...

In Nigeria they can digest that your HIV+ than that your a homosexual. It wouldn't go down well on their throat.

REXOVIC said...

GUESS THE 1ST IS EASIER...HIV/AIDS...HOMOSEXUAL NEWS NA 14YRS STRAIGHT!

queeneth rain said...

I think dat u hav Hiv is better cos being guy is not a good thing @ all. Hiv is not ur fault d society and d govt may accept u. But being gay mennn

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ary said...

They are both just as heavy! On the one hand if you are broke and HIV positive, chances are you are gonna die soon and with that your "shame", but if you are rich and can manage it, well you might get stigmatized! So they are just the same.

temmi said...

whos asking? godwin ongx? cant spell his name properly tho

Dauda Aliu said...

Abeg, no come infect us with HiV oo.




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cynthia cynthia said...

HIV/AIDS is more easier dan homosexual cos homosexual is something that has to do with feeling.


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igwe Adaobi said...

Homosexual is easier

Anthony Dugbo said...

The latter.

Favour belle said...

Aunty Linda you are the one indirectly asking us shey? After yesterday's drama.smh

Anonymous said...

Kenny'a actions have answered that one na... It is clearly easier to admit to being HIV positive than a gay man. But i'm betting the reverse would be the case for women.

james flames said...

Please ask the faggot Badmus

Nkemdilim Christabel said...

aids,infact none,lolz

EDDY WIZ said...

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Your region matters a whole lot. U dare not discuss to anybody in Nigeria u are gay. Wo ur area people will kill u faster than Ebola.
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chimmy onyewuchi said...

I guess homosexual is easier to divulge

Shirley Shalokpe said...

None is easy to me

damsel lohi said...

homosexual.

Miss indomie says so

Moi said...

HIV is easier to divulge

Chikaodili Ndife said...

OMG, this two secrets ain't easy to divulge ooo

Chikaodili Ndife said...

OMG, this two secrets ain't easy to divulge ooo

ed DREAMZ said...

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That yu have hiv....
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Omotosho Deborah said...

That his hiv/aids

Bibian Obunse said...

None of them

Anonymous said...

None. I'm both and no one knows. Only my bf

Njeakor Chineze said...

None of d above
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Da rosy said...

Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

Da rosy said...

Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

Da rosy said...

Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

Yusuph said...

Hiv

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That you are homosexual.


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Shina Shine said...

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christie benjamin said...

I think HIV\AIDS is easier to make known to the public in all African country because as Africans they claim Gay is a disgraceful act and shouldn't be made known to people....vut personally I would've prefer Gay so that people won't make mistake of marrying a gay man
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GALORE said...

Homosexual is better


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christie benjamin said...

I think HIV\AIDS is easier to make known to the public in all African country because as Africans they claim Gay is a disgraceful act and shouldn't be made known to people....but personally I would've prefer Gay so that people won't make mistake of marrying a gay man
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JENNY NKEM said...

HMMMM THE TWO IS VERY DIFFICULT BUT THE TRUTH IS KEEPING SECRET INVOLVE A LOT OF THINGS!!IF YOU DONT HAVE THE COUREAGE YOU MAY NOT KEEP SECRET SO I WILL SAY KEEPING IS MORE DIFFICULT!!JC

JENNY NKEM said...

HMMMM THE TWO IS VERY DIFFICULT BUT THE TRUTH IS KEEPING SECRET INVOLVE A LOT OF THINGS!!IF YOU DONT HAVE THE COUREAGE YOU MAY NOT KEEP SECRET SO I WILL SAY KEEPING IS MORE DIFFICULT!!JC

Subomi said...

HIV

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha, non. Nigerians are very judgemental!

awats inyangs said...

HIV-stigmatization
GAY- 14yrs jail term
The truth is that these days, some nigerians are indifferent abt homosexuals. Its not freakish anymore
I go with homosexual

Anonymous said...

None of the above.

ijaybabe nneoma said...

Seems this homosexuality of a thing is out shinning lesibianism, which confirms to me that it is not natural at all. Only bcos men mostly think with their dicks. Men are so imature.

ijaybabe nneoma said...

Seems this homosexuality of a thing is out shinning lesibianism, which confirms to me that it is not natural at all. Only bcos men mostly think with their dicks. Men are so imature.

Juliet Godwin said...

Lol. Linda what a question!

Richard Ebaju said...

Both are almost the same

Okoro said...

The Other...

kelly nnadozie said...

I THINK LINDA Z A LESBO...................................... Such a waste of pussy

kevwe dollor said...

That u have HIV/AIDS. With d right drugs pple may neva know. But wt being a homosexual, sooner or later pple are gonna wanna see u wt a woman, either dating or married 2 her. How do u hide dat? Especially 4rm ur caring mother.

akogun derrick akorede derrick said...

Homosexual. 14yrs imprisonment dats if police safe u4rm d hnds of angry mob ,HIV /aids life sentence wit stima n tinkin ,both of dem hard o

Ms. Nicey said...

I could keep both anywayz. U can't force it off my mouth.

Anonymous said...

I think HIV/AIDS is easier to hide than homosexuality.... Everybody needs love

Maureen said...

Hiv /Aids

DeeD25 said...

NONE! almost same stigmatization! people will generally look at you and treat you like you are unclean and unhealthy!

APPLE said...

NONE.

ijeoma ikebudu said...

Linda non for me...

ukwumaka theophilus said...

Better HIV/AIDS.





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akogun derrick akorede derrick said...

Homosexual. 14yrs imprisonment dats if police safe u4rm d hnds of angry mob ,HIV /aids life sentence wit stima n tinkin ,both of dem hard o

kingsley iheukwumere said...

hiv/aids

LAURAAUJ KAHI said...

None

babayemi azeezat said...

If you tell your friend that you have HIV, consider your self dead already.

ENNY said...

Non.

Anonymous said...

The both will be better to be disclosed

amarachi chukuw said...

Homosexual I think

VANESSA MUSA said...

I don't want to think about a situation like that but being HIV positive is easier.

grace alexander said...

That u have hiv/aids

Anonymous said...

It's homosexuality becos no body is actually gay it's a choice so if u don't want it you can just change

genius jinee said...

Na aids oo.

ebonyz... said...

I can keep both oh but the safer one to let out is the HIV positive own

Anonymous said...

Hard one- but there's hope for both in Christ Jesus.

Princess G said...

Homosexuality

kingsley njoku said...

Paraphrase, the question should be: Which is harder to divulge...?
Cos none of the two scenerio are EASY ( talk less of easier) to divulge in our clime called Nigeria.

Kyzi's mum said...

HIV/AIDS

Chop Chop said...

neither

Anonymous said...

homosexual is easier to be divulge. homo is something you live with if you are.there is nothing you can do to it.let appreciate each others feeling.

Ushiesj said...

Hehrhhehehe die with your secret ooh

Vivian Chekwube said...

Being Hiv/Aids positive is easy

theresa urateh said...

Abeg na HIV cos d stigma is less. Neva will I accept Homo.

Sophia stephen said...

Homo

Anonymous said...

None oooooo linda cos both na bad thing in dis country... dee

odinaka ogunwa said...

None

joseph chidimma said...

My dear non of the above

diamond berry said...

Homosexual biko

Mo16 said...

I think it is easier to say you R HIV +ve in Nigeria of today because of the law on homosexuality.

olivegrey said...

Definitely homosexual, cos a lot of Nigerians associate hiv/aids with death. Once u tell people u are hiv+ they stop being ur friend and start avoiding u.

Yemi Ijeoma said...

Both!

Jules Louis said...

Hiv is easier. Depending on who υ̲̣̥r̲̅ divulging to sha.

Jolly Saft said...

Both

@lwkmd_naija - follow on instagram/twitter said...

Hiv ooo cuz there r lots of nigerians living with hiv yet the public knows less than 20

udeze obumneme said...

HIV joor.

Anonymous said...

Most definitely HIV/AIDS, trust me I know.

Obed Nwafor said...

HIV/AIDS.

Anonymous said...

Both. Once u tell me you are homosexual,i take it to mean that you are HIV positive.

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