Na madam naa! Na me dey open for hubby ooo unless I no dey in good moody! But always je says pls swthrt can u open the gate and again unless it's very late in the night, he will say don't worry let me do it
I'll speak for myself. As a lady I'll offer to go open it and then if he says ohhh honey don't worry I'll open it then fine. Don't just sit ur tiny/fat ass like "Chair"lady and be rolling ur eyes waiting for him to make the ist move. Bad home training. But a gentleman wld also offer to go open it while she waits in d car( good home training).
My husband insists on opening it most of the time even when I offer to. Sometimes I just get out before he does. This started when we were dating and has continued till date. He opens most of the time but I do too - when he let's me...lol
Since it's a bae...at least we'r still trying to understand each other better..and you have to try every means to impress her you know ;) ... i'll open the gate... if she's my wife...omo na she go open am..lol
Dear David's driver. Stop being a retard bastard with this unnecessary empty space. Keep this up and your life will grow into this empty space. Thank you for having sense in future.
Linda it's a no brainer. It happens to me all the time and I get down to open the gate, without thinking about it...wouldn't let my woman open any damn gate..
If he is driving out I always open d gate nd if am drivin out he always opens d gate..its jst common sense. Jst bcos hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do EVERYTHING in d relationship. We in africa need to step up our reasoning seriously
So he will open d gate com bk in to d car, drive d car out,com out of d car, shut d gate nd go bk into d car nd keep drivin u...nd wt will u b doin?? Pingin I presume! Grow up dear...help out wen it is needed.
In any case, my man never lets me open d gate. Whether am driving or hes driving, he opens d gate. Its jst there...probably his upbringing. Its not what u cn teach someone
Kiki mudi, stop asking annoying question on K U 92.7 FM. B/c, joor. I should go down nd open the gate for my bab to drive in right? U re not serious. She's the one that will open the gate for me to drive in. As discipline as I'm she must open the gate for me to drive in.
The passenger needs to open it, therefore that'd be the girl. What's wrong with her hands or legs? (I'm a girl btw. Being a girl does not mean you're weak)
And what is wrong if your woman is your best friend and pal you won't see her assisting you to open the gate as nothing only wen there is no friendship you start acting official in a relationship doesn't make less depends on d bond between you two
AS A PRAGMATIC AFRICAN, THE WOMAN OF COURSE, NOT BECAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN, BUT BECAUSE SHE IS NOT THE ONE DRIVING. IF SHE DRIVES THEN THE MAN SHOULD OPEN THE GATE. OYIBO CAN WASTE HIS TIME COMING DOWN TO OPEN THE GATE, DRIVE OUT AND BACK TO CLOSE IT BEFORE GOING OUT, BUT DIVORCES YOU THE FOLLOWING MONTH.
Damn!! Its official!! U are dumb,u just hurry to comment. I would never be shocked at ur dumb comments anymore. FYI: Awol means Absence without leave(like u don't take permission before leaving ur post) in case u don't know d meaning of fyi, it means For Your Information.
Ode question! Every relationship or situation is different. It's not written on stone who should and who should not. Be flexible and stop making up sh*t to fight and be mad about
I will open d gate na. No big deal. So because am a lady my hands are too heavy to open d gate abi? Just imagine him driving, then he will come down open d gate, then come back n drive d car inside. Too much waste of time.
Anybody without an inflated ego can do it. And as long as one doesn't look differently on d other for doing it as well. Guy will be like 'see u, u be dey wait make I come open am for u. As per mugu abi? Lady will be like 'I be ur bae no mean say I be ur slave. Come down nd man up to ur duties' so...dat's d Ish. It all boils down to understanding. And d guy don't have to order 'baby get d gate' nd d lady don't have to demand 'baby u shuld get d gate na. Not me'. My 2cents tho
Pls!!! Someone just said AWOL means missing or not around? Abeg u for not be anonymous make we know your identity nd u still dey open mouth tell person not to be ignorant. Chai!!!
Well boo is a gentleman, it's one of those things he could do automatically, like opening a door for me, tho I could offer to if I'm wearing flats, on heels I can't lol.
Awol, is a military term, which means "absent without official leave. Im saying this as a formal paramilitary commander, we use the word "AWOL" when giving a report mostly on parade ground after headcount
Ehhhh...see, as long as I am driving, the lady should have the decency to open the gate if she is familiar with the house and the gate. But if she is a new chic, then i'll open it up myself the first few times. But as a married man, wifey dey go open am, except we quarrel small and she dey vex for me. Lol. She knows herself
Well for me and my bae, at day time, I do...and at night he does cause of security reasons. Also if am gorgeously dressed, like on heels etc, he does. It's never an issue for us. We know who should at different times.
Oh common! If d guy is driving then the babe shld open d gate n vice versa. The only time d babe shld sit in d car while d guy opens d gate shld be wen she,s visiting for d first time!
Well woe be you if you suggest the woman does that in today's world, yep it would make more sense if she opens it hut remember a gentleman would not let a lady open her own door, so it follows that he too must come down and open his own damned gate. Because for her to go open the gate, he must first go open her door, so why waste all that time?!
If he doesn't offer then it Depends on what I'm wearing. If I'm wearing jeans I could open it. But if I'm wearing my life savings then we just have to wait until security comes back from his AWOL.
If am driving and the gateman is not there he opens the gate and vice versa but if we r going out I do but sometimes he says don't worry hon I will do it
There shouldnt be an "of course". I dont even know why this is a question.if you and bae are really into each other,opening the gate shouldnt be anyone's responsibility.i'l def jump out to open the gate tho unless bae doesnt let me.if he wants to do it,i can also tell him not to bother,i'l do it.Life goes on smoothly.
Like seriously???Is this actually up for discussion???? I would get down and open the gate without thinking twice.. Any sane girl should do.Unless bae says otherwise.
well no biggy in dis, i open the gate if my guy is driving and he does if am driving as well, but at night i dont even bother, he wodnt even allow me cz of security reasons. its all about understanding.
Ally berry, u r very intelligent. I'm a man and I will not allow a woman/lady/girl to open gate for me. Its jus a respect I have for female. My neighbour's younger sister often attempt it but yet I still come down. If I respect a lady she sud respect me back too. Ally berry, I respect u for ur comment.
Well I don't see the big deal in who opens he gate..Nigerians sha. Stop sending wrong signals oh. That's how girls will now be expecting too much in a relationship instead of facing reality.
Well in my case, my bf always opens the gate, he usually ask me to take on the wheel while he does the opening and closing of the gate. In few cases, I offer to do it, but its a strong gate that requires some man power so you can understand when he does it himself.
i really do not see what the fuss is all about. we have two people in a car, the third person who should open the gate is unavailable. it is only normal that one person comes down and open the gate and it certainly shudn't be the driver but the passenger who had been sitting all through the trip. it will be inconsiderate to do otherwise
Bae should be a gentle man n act well.He should kindly open the gate,this act of reasoning will make me see no big deal in opening the gate anytime the gate man is not around. I have had an experience b4 the so call guy asked me to hlp open the gate n while leaving he ask i open the gate again,immediately i knew this is the end. I do not need this kind of man, no decency to establish a relationship first before acting out of place.NOT ALLOWED!
I think it should be the man, it's not right for a man to watch his woman open gate for him, when it's not like she is his gateman. But if the woman's car is closer to the gate, there is nothing wrong with her getting her ass outta the car and opening the gate, after all it's women like that that scream for gender equality. That's what I would do.
Abeg this shouldn't be an issue. As a lady, I'll go open the gate. Like Anon 2:17 said, if it's a first time, then he will open it, but if u are familiar, den just open it. Thinking too much about these things lead to bigger issues that shouldn't be there in the first place.
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What is awol first of all?? People cnt just speak English. Lindaobserve
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The man of course. Why even ask? What kind of man will let his woman open a damn gate while he's there?
If its a new bae (someone i havnt f*** before) i would pretend to be a gentleman and open.
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The guy na, it's all part of bein a gentle man. For AjeButters thu o.lol
Actually dnt knw wat to type... wil wait to see comments lata
The babe(lady) of course
The bae, like the gentle man he is.
Bae me (woman) will open gate for my Bae (man)
Hmmmm, it depends on individual perspective. Well for me I don't mind to step down to open d gate.
No big deal there, and as d saying goes wht doesn't kill u makes u stronger. So, d guy should open d gate. Case close!
Except am heavy or sick
Hmmmm,but i think it will be me na...I will open it since my bae is driving *just saying tho
Na madam naa! Na me dey open for hubby ooo unless I no dey in good moody! But always je says pls swthrt can u open the gate and again unless it's very late in the night, he will say don't worry let me do it
Na wah O...Woman nor fit open gate again?
Fool!! It means absent without leave
I'll speak for myself. As a lady I'll offer to go open it and then if he says ohhh honey don't worry I'll open it then fine. Don't just sit ur tiny/fat ass like "Chair"lady and be rolling ur eyes waiting for him to make the ist move. Bad home training. But a gentleman wld also offer to go open it while she waits in d car( good home training).
He can't even speak good English smh
Well the person that's not driving whether man or woman should open the gate
Moron! AWOL is English acronym for Away With Out Leave. I'm sure u will not ask wt acronym means.
D man.sha buh me I don't c anytin wrong if I do,davido's driver y cnt u open d gate after all u r a driver
If I hear sey the man...of cos any body can open
Its no big deal,I can help him..
My husband insists on opening it most of the time even when I offer to. Sometimes I just get out before he does. This started when we were dating and has continued till date. He opens most of the time but I do too - when he let's me...lol
Bae should go open the gate, WTH! Linda take note!
Depending on the individual,as of me I won't open the gate
Use Google!
Ps: "cnt" just....isn't proper English!
You are welcome!
The woman should open the gate of course, why must u even ask?
I'll open the gate for bae, unless he decides to open the gate himself..... (Lisadeeva)
Nawao! The lady ofcourse, what's there in opening a gate,
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
The man shuld open d gate
AWOL means "Away without official leave"..... ...the babe of course Lindiway
D girl na
D girl na
Since it's a bae...at least we'r still trying to understand each other better..and you have to try every means to impress her you know ;) ... i'll open the gate... if she's my wife...omo na she go open am..lol
Dear David's driver. Stop being a retard bastard with this unnecessary empty space. Keep this up and your life will grow into this empty space. Thank you for having sense in future.
Any1 can abeg!!no biggie
The man should be the one to open the gate
It's you that can't speak English. AWOL means missing or not around. Don't be ignorant
It's not something a particular person should do. It all depends on the kind of relationship or ones personality.
AWOL is English, dumbass
A - Absent
W- with
O - out
L - leave.
#okpara_De_Sam
Definitly shud b d man. If it were me aint leaving dat car
Yes oo ure vry correct! U spoke mi mind already lol
Awol is a military term, it means out of sight...thanks.
Disloyal women everywhere, they can even expect u to wash their panties sef...
The woman should open the gate, it shouldn't be a big deal
Of course we stil hav gentle men in Nigeria dat wil open d gate except for d local men dat wil not dare such mostly d money miss road dumb ass men.
The man, come damn on!
Linda it's a no brainer. It happens to me all the time and I get down to open the gate, without thinking about it...wouldn't let my woman open any damn gate..
The man!
Anyone of them can open the gate. I don't see anything wrong with the lady helping bae out. My thoughts though.
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So d man should do d opening of d gate if he is truly a gentle man except otherwise.
the man should. becuz its a date.
No argument 4 dis kind questn...is d man joor
If he is driving out I always open d gate nd if am drivin out he always opens d gate..its jst common sense. Jst bcos hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do EVERYTHING in d relationship. We in africa need to step up our reasoning seriously
U as bae abi u as gateman?
The lady can open the gate. Why not
So he will open d gate com bk in to d car, drive d car out,com out of d car, shut d gate nd go bk into d car nd keep drivin u...nd wt will u b doin?? Pingin I presume! Grow up dear...help out wen it is needed.
Anyone Can, opening Gate shudnt be a biggie
U shd have asked Google b4 ur comment mate. AWOL- Absent Without Official Leave. Thank me later
The man
In any case, my man never lets me open d gate. Whether am driving or hes driving, he opens d gate. Its jst there...probably his upbringing. Its not what u cn teach someone
Awol means Away Without Leave
It all depends on my mood.
Shud definintly be d guy. If it wer me I aint leaving d car
If u ask me who I go ask.
So u use such name as @lwkmd and u don't knw AWOL, inshort u shuld be the gate and they'll be opening u
D man nah shoooo
Ethics demands that the gentle man should open the gate or door for the lady.
Sule,awol is absent witout leave.Go n watch van damne episode of it.as 4 me,cnt b doin 2 tins @ a time.d woman shd go n open d gate yl i drive out.
As a gentle man, and based on impressing....d guy should
Kiki mudi, stop asking annoying question on K U 92.7 FM. B/c, joor. I should go down nd open the gate for my bab to drive in right? U re not serious. She's the one that will open the gate for me to drive in. As discipline as I'm she must open the gate for me to drive in.
Of course you are a single girl from multiple relationships.
Get comfy in single life waiting for your kind of man.
Of course you are a single girl from multiple relationships.
Get comfy in single life waiting for your kind of man.
Sharrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrap!!!! Anon 10:36 PM. Lazy mofo!
Depends on how bae is bae. New bae, the man opens, Bae of more than 6months abeg open that gate NNE.
Definitely not me.
Bae have to open the gate himself.
The man
The girl of course.. Unless she's using crutches😄
Awol means missing or someone is absent without leave
I'll open the gate... it's only a sick man that will ask his wife to open d gate..
Stupid of course the woman! In a woman n iWork open the gate as he's driving sorry what's the big deal? AWOL means (absent without leave)
ff
AWOL means Away WithOut Leave.
The girl should open and close the gate just as she does during sex.
-Lord Phil
Of course the lady can open the gate. What does it matter. Why do people attach to much to nothing...chai
A gentleman will neva allow his babe open d gate
The passenger needs to open it, therefore that'd be the girl. What's wrong with her hands or legs? (I'm a girl btw. Being a girl does not mean you're weak)
Why can't the girl open the gates??! Are her arms not functioning??! Smh
Well for me I might as well open it.
Becos the man will always do anything to enter... dee
Awol means absent without leave Oya reply now wen I don teach you
Google it!!!
And what is wrong if your woman is your best friend and pal you won't see her assisting you to open the gate as nothing only wen there is no friendship you start acting official in a relationship doesn't make less depends on d bond between you two
I always come down n open d gate as long as my hubby is driving. Or y am I his help mate in d 1st place
I could sluggishly, hesitantly, manage to go open it. But just that one time :|
The gentle man in us shouldn't allow the lady to do that, it'll look weird tho.
Women are the weaker specie, no matter how they talk about equal rights they still d weaker links.
the guy should open the gate of cause , even if it a one night stand ...try to be a gentle at all cost.....
D lady na. She should help.
@lwkmd awol it's just like mia(missing in action).anyways ask for me I will open d gate it's not dat big of a deal tho....
Society demands that we (men) do all that no matter the situation.
Have seen a man jacking his car to change his tires while his wife was still in d car
Abokiwarriboy!
AS A PRAGMATIC AFRICAN, THE WOMAN OF COURSE, NOT BECAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN, BUT BECAUSE SHE IS NOT THE ONE DRIVING. IF SHE DRIVES THEN THE MAN SHOULD OPEN THE GATE. OYIBO CAN WASTE HIS TIME COMING DOWN TO OPEN THE GATE, DRIVE OUT AND BACK TO CLOSE IT BEFORE GOING OUT, BUT DIVORCES YOU THE FOLLOWING MONTH.
AWOL means Absent Without Official Leave. Get your facts right before talking trash.
Come mind yourself o! What's this space for? Attention seeker!
It is no big deal, i will open for bae if he is driving, if i am driving he will open for me.
olodo, dint u hear d man is driving? or is dat how untrained u re?
i bow o.....stupid question...dont be polite n open ya gate ...
Awol- Absent with out leave... That is the meaning
Damn!! Its official!! U are dumb,u just hurry to comment. I would never be shocked at ur dumb comments anymore.
FYI: Awol means Absence without leave(like u don't take permission before leaving ur post) in case u don't know d meaning of fyi, it means For Your Information.
Ode question! Every relationship or situation is different. It's not written on stone who should and who should not. Be flexible and stop making up sh*t to fight and be mad about
olodo, dint u hear d man is driving? or is dat how untrained u re?
I will open d gate na. No big deal. So because am a lady my hands are too heavy to open d gate abi? Just imagine him driving, then he will come down open d gate, then come back n drive d car inside. Too much waste of time.
I will open for boo if it was me oo
Anybody without an inflated ego can do it. And as long as one doesn't look differently on d other for doing it as well. Guy will be like 'see u, u be dey wait make I come open am for u. As per mugu abi? Lady will be like 'I be ur bae no mean say I be ur slave. Come down nd man up to ur duties' so...dat's d Ish. It all boils down to understanding. And d guy don't have to order 'baby get d gate' nd d lady don't have to demand 'baby u shuld get d gate na. Not me'. My 2cents tho
Correct boo!
absent without leave @lwkmd_naija....depends on the relationship, my wife opens the gate for me wella{70%} n i do thesame{30%] it's nothing
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Pls!!! Someone just said AWOL means missing or not around? Abeg u for not be anonymous make we know your identity nd u still dey open mouth tell person not to be ignorant. Chai!!!
Ah ah,the person that's not behind the wheels ought to open it now.....which translates to me the girl
Hahhhhahahahha......hahhhahhhaah..*faints* leave that official dumb idiot! Hahhaaahahhh
Ode!!! Even at ur age,u don't know what AWOL means? Better go to school NOW
Well boo is a gentleman, it's one of those things he could do automatically, like opening a door for me, tho I could offer to if I'm wearing flats, on heels I can't lol.
Question don't make sense....it can be anyone one
ABEGI....WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL IN OPENING A GATE.
TOO SILLY FOR ME TO EVEN ANSWER THIS YEYE QUESTION
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Awol, is a military term, which means "absent without official leave. Im saying this as a formal paramilitary commander, we use the word "AWOL" when giving a report mostly on parade ground after headcount
Ehhhh...see, as long as I am driving, the lady should have the decency to open the gate if she is familiar with the house and the gate. But if she is a new chic, then i'll open it up myself the first few times. But as a married man, wifey dey go open am, except we quarrel small and she dey vex for me. Lol. She knows herself
Lol. ..
Well for me and my bae, at day time, I do...and at night he does cause of security reasons. Also if am gorgeously dressed, like on heels etc, he does. It's never an issue for us. We know who should at different times.
Oh common! If d guy is driving then the babe shld open d gate n vice versa. The only time d babe shld sit in d car while d guy opens d gate shld be wen she,s visiting for d first time!
I go open oooo,wetin dey there.
Sadly my gate can be opened at the flick of a button from my car...appx 20meters away...why all these fuss anyway?
UK Tog
The girl na
The girl na
The girl na
That's why your girl should know how to drive, You open the gate she takes the wheel.
Well woe be you if you suggest the woman does that in today's world, yep it would make more sense if she opens it hut remember a gentleman would not let a lady open her own door, so it follows that he too must come down and open his own damned gate. Because for her to go open the gate, he must first go open her door, so why waste all that time?!
The good mannered one will attempt. But generally the man does it. One good enough reason, gate metal is heavy na
He as good home training, thank his parent
Depends on my mood..anyone could open it..it's no biggie
The wife no get sense.....
The lady of cos....
If he doesn't offer then it Depends on what I'm wearing. If I'm wearing jeans I could open it. But if I'm wearing my life savings then we just have to wait until security comes back from his AWOL.
Girl friend,I'll open it...My wife,She better get down and open it :p
If am driving and the gateman is not there he opens the gate and vice versa but if we r going out I do but sometimes he says don't worry hon I will do it
There shouldnt be an "of course". I dont even know why this is a question.if you and bae are really into each other,opening the gate shouldnt be anyone's responsibility.i'l def jump out to open the gate tho unless bae doesnt let me.if he wants to do it,i can also tell him not to bother,i'l do it.Life goes on smoothly.
Like seriously???Is this actually up for discussion????
I would get down and open the gate without thinking twice..
Any sane girl should do.Unless bae says otherwise.
well no biggy in dis, i open the gate if my guy is driving and he does if am driving as well, but at night i dont even bother, he wodnt even allow me cz of security reasons. its all about understanding.
Ally berry, u r very intelligent. I'm a man and I will not allow a woman/lady/girl to open gate for me. Its jus a respect I have for female. My neighbour's younger sister often attempt it but yet I still come down. If I respect a lady she sud respect me back too. Ally berry, I respect u for ur comment.
The man should, if he is a gentleman.
The man should, if he is a gentleman.
Well I don't see the big deal in who opens he gate..Nigerians sha. Stop sending wrong signals oh. That's how girls will now be expecting too much in a relationship instead of facing reality.
Well in my case, my bf always opens the gate, he usually ask me to take on the wheel while he does the opening and closing of the gate. In few cases, I offer to do it, but its a strong gate that requires some man power so you can understand when he does it himself.
@ary woe be unto you too who doesn't have hands and legs to go and open the gate, looking for a fool as husband.
@ary woe be unto you too who doesn't have hands and legs to go and open the gate, looking for a fool as husband.
i really do not see what the fuss is all about. we have two people in a car, the third person who should open the gate is unavailable. it is only normal that one person comes down and open the gate and it certainly shudn't be the driver but the passenger who had been sitting all through the trip. it will be inconsiderate to do otherwise
i will open the gate since my man is the one driving
Bae should be a gentle man n act well.He should kindly open the gate,this act of reasoning will make me see no big deal in opening the gate anytime the gate man is not around. I have had an experience b4 the so call guy asked me to hlp open the gate n while leaving he ask i open the gate again,immediately i knew this is the end. I do not need this kind of man, no decency to establish a relationship first before acting out of place.NOT ALLOWED!
and in the process of him trynna open the gate,some bad niggers got in and zoomed away with both bae and car ,whom do we blame?
The other person not driving. That's the proper thing to do, however,if the guy is truly "gentle", he will go open the gate
aunty go and open the gate joor... shey you are supposed to be help meet.... anyways before the start dating tho ...it is the other way around
I do open the gate and I have never seen anything wrong with that
I think it should be the man, it's not right for a man to watch his woman open gate for him, when it's not like she is his gateman. But if the woman's car is closer to the gate, there is nothing wrong with her getting her ass outta the car and opening the gate, after all it's women like that that scream for gender equality. That's what I would do.
Abeg this shouldn't be an issue. As a lady, I'll go open the gate. Like Anon 2:17 said, if it's a first time, then he will open it, but if u are familiar, den just open it. Thinking too much about these things lead to bigger issues that shouldn't be there in the first place.
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