Have I made the biggest mistake of my life? Did I do something so terrible? I met this guy at my work-out place and found him really attractive. I've never found myself making the first move but in this case it was almost uncontrollable. I got his no and called him and we met up, had drinks and I couldn't control myself either and it all went down. He called me up for a second date and we had sex again. We both agreed it won't happen again since he is in a relationship and wouldn't want to mess that up. I see him everyday at the gym and we just greet passively. I just realized he blacklisted my number on his phone. That hurts. It's not like I was stalking him. Please did I make such a blunder to follow my heart for the first time ever? I'm just really confused here. Did I do something that's unacceptable?
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Monday, 11 November 2013
Dear LIB readers: I had a fling with a guy and he's now blacklisted me
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1 – 200 of 281 Newer› Newest»U made a major whore move u dunce! How hard is that to comprehend? First of, u aggressively got into his pants and second of, u knew he was in a relationship. WHich man in their right mind will take u serious after that??
what if he's married? what do you want him to do ? Move on - why must women attach unnecessary feelings to sex? Do it and move on.
Life's a bitch,it's ur mess so deal with it..
Madam ruth of life, his thing must be sweetening u ....
no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
Well done, clap for yourself *claps*
Go ahead girl, do your thing
He's got sth good and doesn't wanna mess with it! Move on and change your gym kapish! Oh and ask God to forgive you while @ it..
No my dear. U didn't commit any blunder. But u re obviously in love with d wrong person. So I urge u to shove him off n move on. Life goes on #Ozi
Yr heart lied to u for the first tym. Linda wts up! Kel
WELL DONE CHEERFUL GIVER, YOU DONE SO WELL. YOU NEED TO GIVE TO MAYOR OF LODON AS WELL. BITCH DONT KILL MY VIBE
Well done, clap for yourself *claps*
Go ahead girl, do your thing, share the love
I wouldn't dwell on it. Mistake number 1: HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Try to limit your hurt to your pride and not your heart then it is easier to let go of it. If he has blacklisted you that's even a good thing, otherwise he may be looking to make you a side chick and one day some Naija babe will come and pour gutter water on you and call you a man-snatcher. You don't need that drama. And I want to assume it was not your 'heart' you followed. It was your loins lol. Let it go, pray for forgiveness for messing with another woman's man and move on with your life.
So fucking what if he black listed ur number abegmove on with ur life,u probably stalking him if not how u know you were blacklisted ,u had a fling so forget it and move on
Anyaku I didn't blacklist ur numb, u deleted me from ur bbm nd blocked me on whatssap.. after reading this I knw its u, I stil tink about u everyday, saw ur Broda 2days ago wen I was drivin out from my house.. call me, I don't ave ur numb anymore on my phone.
It serve's you right! He just feel's you are a cheap whore! You knew he was in a relationship didn't you?? The guy don chop clean mouth..LOL.
Loool sorry
What is the big deal here?u too blacklist his number on your fone
hmmmmmm
Hw cn it be acceptable?. Wen u knw he is in a relatnship. Serves u right...
My friend,to him you did the unthinkable, do the maths! So what? pls move on jare and stop beating yourself over trivia issues.
Dats exactly wat suites u..learn to control ur TOTOmeter!!
You are just a whole. That is not our culture, i mean here in Nigeria. If say u be my junior sis, i would have slap u 10 times. Ashawo.
Oh Sweety!!! Yes u messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold and you expect him to take u seriuosly?? You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. Just move on and when u meet someone new dont be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
Yes u did! u were a whore...if u don't have respect for urself, why should he have respect for u...pple don't often treat things dat comes cheap well n dat includes cheap Pple too....duh!
U don't hv to complain dear....koz u really sold urself so cheap.......my advice 4 u is to 4get abt him n move on koz he aint gonna take u back......sowi!
very wrong n really really unacceptable.... he sees you as a cheap girl dat goes for every guy she likes.... moreover premarital sex is still sin it hasn't changed.
I really don't get what your point is?
U hooked up and u both agreed it ended?
from what i get here, u are not over it? cause how else would u no of even care that he blacklisted u?
This is the problem with women, its called a one night stand……not a night to plug in your emotions….move on madam!
hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
Wat were u actually expectin 4rm him.#strife u like a whore nd stil make u his gf#my dear wake u 4rm ur drmz.u made urself 2 cheap nd dat's d outcome.* u no behave like confam naija babe @ all*
What else do u expect, he already told u he's serious with someone else... This is a sign that you need to move on with your life.
hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
Nop, absolutely nottin wrong wt dt, trust me curds been worse ... Atleast it ended early enough..
LOLZ! You acted thirsty sha. Anyways it is allowed. Best is, gv hm his space. To him u were just gd enough 4 d fun and dats it.
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hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
Oh Sweety!! Yes you messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it.. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold.. You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. When you do find someone new do not be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
Girl,u have to control urself. yes u made a mistake,but it's time to move on,so don't get stuck in self pity,it won't do u any good
to me is not bad sha.but always control ur emotions
#olobothingz u have done nothing wrong baby don't mind that evil thot wanting to make u feel bad
Ode
its crazy, u followed ur heart bt u executed d plan in a wrng way.. Avin sex with a guy on your first date is like selling ur dignity for chicken change.. So as u see u've automatically lost d respect he'd had for u
Common Girl! Trust me, am attraticve too and I need some freebies...crap!
You acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
Learn to control your lust
You acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
Learn to control your lust
Unacceptable is jumping rit on hs bed ma dear...u had alrdy blacklisted ur slf by doin dat, I don't think u wud tolerate ur boyfrnd avn sex wit anoda gal nd here u go doin it wit sm1's...u shld learn frm ur mistk dou
Sorry hon. You shouldn't have done it in the first place, knowing he had a girlfriend. Follow your heart, but always carry your head along.
I don't get it,what kinda advice does she need here? Mtchwww i'm wondering if Linda must publish every cock-and-bull story people send 2 ha.
~AKWA IBOM'S FINEST~
U said U guys agreed to stop doing stuff so why all the extra? He doesn't want his gf asking who U are if U call him again (cos he doesn't want to lie to her... LoL). Babe U're thinking way too much abt this. Keep it civil and move on. Or go back for a taste from time to time. U're grown, act like it
Need a mature lady for intimate relationship. 08063619110
U are a real ANIMASHAUN *hiss*
And all U hipocrites. Free the babe
Asheeewooooo! Don't use 'follow my heart' to cover it up. Ashewo an ashewo. Smh
u need more practice girl...u prolly ddnt put it down on him right
Eya sorry o
Omo cee question? Babe your matter don pass the one way agbada dey hook wire o! U better leave dat amazing gy for the gurl that deserves him,lansense boifrnd snatcher
#darlyn lara just spoke#
No be u give am yourself wen u kno fit control your self so wat do u expect that he should save ur name with Gold or my diamond. Get a life babe & move on as u have done after d fling
EURO VOICE
Follow your heart? And you were okie with a fling?
Lol!
Ok
You should feel ashamed sef, go get a boyfriend abeg if u know u cannot control yaself. So many guys out there looking for a relationship, u dey there dey give freely. Nonsense!!!!!
first of all how do you know he black list you? and secondly why are you bothered? hope you aren't developing feelings for him o? shit happens move on, you followed the congi feeling not your heart. all the best.
Well I will not say what you did was acceptable or not acceptable but you are just too cheap and only God know how many guys you have get down with.
Any way just ask God to forgive you and forgive yourself BECAUSE YOU REALLY OFFENDED YOUR YOURSELF.
Onye ikpu 1 of Ndi okpara LGA. Weldone!!!! I hail oooo(bows with my hat off) . So, cuz he works out and has got packs, your cheap toto could not close again baa? And to top it all, you collected extra akpako for the second time consecutively and you sit there asking if you did anything wrong.... YES!!!! You did, you gave free gifts when it isn't christmas. Mumunatu!!!
PLS AND PLS THE GUY IS CHILDISH LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LISTEN TO SOME FOOLS TALKING FOLLOW UR HEART AND MAKE URSELF HAPPY PLS,,,,,,,,,,,U DID UR PART
My dear it waz neva ur fault so dat get ur self 2 b blamed aftall dis can apen 2 any1 n min yl u neva knew d guyz intentn bt jst mak sure dat it wult apen again.
You followed you heart the wrong way. Getting down on the first date doesn't put you in a good place with a man. Even if he was to choose you over his current girl, you just lost your chance. Hope the lesson has been learnt.
I pity u my dear ,but don't do that man are animal
anon 4:59. I guess u r not better dts why u critise
Stupid girl, where u wearing coke bottle before
What gym is that pls? I might get lucky as well. *tongue*
Babe! For real u messed up. U knw most guys aint matured to dat level of girls making d 1st move, he probly think u cheap forget dat he's in a relationship dat nt d point. Most guys in a relationship still av flings here and der so no biggy.. D best gud u'l do urself is jst to forget it, him, and evry oda tin u'v had togeda. Not easy but dats d best. D guy aint matured enof to handle it so move on. All d best
It was wrong for you to hit on a guy for only just wanting a piece of him but then we all have made some silly mistakes in our lives. Dust yourself up, change your gym and move on with your life. But have some self worth next time. Guys are programmed in a way that the moment you sell your self cheap for them, they lose all respect for you. xxx
Follow ur hrt anywhere it take...
As long as it wil b fun
Lol. I know people will come at you with their usual holier than thou verbal abuse...
Anyways, I believe that what you felt for him was purely sexual and since you met him at the gym, I'm guessing you had the hots for his physique. Why then are you looking for more? You don chop...clean mouth and move on sister.
I like that guy, he did well. I do that a lot when girls play hard to get. As most Naija girls like to do shakara even when they fancy a guy, so can a guy use and dump una. The ladies i want to warm in my bed 2014 are Yvonne Nelson,Linda, Genevive, Ebube.
I just think he took some precautionary steps, since he is presently seeing someone and doesn't want to mess things up. However, I'll suggest u don't give urself a hard time. Just live life and try to be happy....u'll be surprised he may come back begging.
Lwkmd@1st 2 commenters.give me 1 reason y u shudnt be backlisted babe!afta being father christmas or rather shud l say moda theresa.u nid 2 clean up ur mess.
MUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u
You followed you heart wrongly, you just ended up making yourself a cheap article. Hope you've learnt your lesson... Cheap Ass Chick!
Easy come, easy go babe...count ur loss, next time learn some self control!...if u want to get back at him though, u need to totally ignore him, as in not angry or anything but act like uve neva seen him before in ur life..that should get his attention n if he dares to ask why tell him he's really crap in bed n u reli can't over the fact dat he was that bad....
Mumu did I hear you say he's in a relationship? Mumu leave him alone. Go and find someone else to screw. Ukwu-nnu like you. You're not even ashamed of yourself. How I wish it was my guy you were making a move on, then I will tear your skin with razor. Rubbish!
Hey girl, it has "happened" meaning 'past' so it belongs to there and let it go. Move on with your life and dont let it bother you. Please dont stop going to ur workout place because of dat. Better still be more cheerful like never before. The good thing is dat you have realised ursef i mean who you are and keep being 'you'. Cheerup girl and keep smiling to the world. Dont be negative about ursef for any reason, cos mistakes are made to make u a better person. so see it as u are becoming a better person.
Plase go on and conquer d world.
MUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u.... Abeg linda post ma comment o
In M.Is voice "Kelechukwu clap for urslf welldone!!!"
Givers never Lack.. No worri more guys re coming..
Hahahahaha..anyway,my dear na six packs wey u see blew u off ur fit abi...u didnt do wrong things bcos since ladies of nawadays sees those things as trend or fashion and not keeping fit things again.it has happened it has happened ooo,but next time check out for d content and not d packaging.. Emegwedi ife furu
babe ........... wait would u like continue ?unless uer nt a complete retard pack ur shoes and were it it will lead u to the right person one day.by the way let me give my pin maybe i might be lucky and am attrctive too o
i know this girl, she has a baby for a guy and there are planning to get married soon and she is still opening her public toilet for every tom, dick and harrod.
well done ashewo, when will you learn and change, funny thing is this guy knows her fiance and this story is bound to get out soon, African whore of Europe, you won the award, bravo for you, oloshi.
i wonder why you will post such a story on this blog when you knw the way libers are they will trash u with comments well i'm sorry for what happend to u ooh and i think you should move on... why are u even surprised he blacklisted you didnt uguys agree never to do it again? cos of his relationship?.
Don't mind these hateful people. He probably feels bad since he has a girlfriend. He might fin you irresistibly attractive thus the avoidance.
My dear wat u did was bad,erase every feeling you have for him n stand tall,you can't kill yourself over him besides he has a girlfriend.Linda post my comment or
HOE
Lol @ cheerful giver...God loves a cheerful giver,in oda words, @poster,God loves u....deal with it babes,u r now one of his has beens/i-was-there.get over it.o ti fi obo se bonanza
once you open your kinni for any guy who already knows you are in another relationship, then girl, nothing for you, talkess of respect, you might get fucked over another couple of times but nothing for you, talkless of respect, you are just the laughing stock and object of ridicle, sorry!
Take the next available flight to Oblivion.
you're cheap and easy...he has a girlfriend and you were aware of that YET you made him go ahead and sleep with u...you deserve to be blacklisted...he probably feels bad!!imagine if u were his girlfriend and your boyfriend is doing things like that
CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER TOO. WILL GIVE YOU SO HARD YOU WONT HAVE TO GIVE BACK :)
Another one bites the dust? Pele, it is happening to Oyinbo people too!
the girl na wa for you, how many times, you are not only humiliating yourself but also your family and your fiance and father of your baby, when you know the guy knows your husband already, so cheap, we know you well,well, and you are not suprised things are working out how it should be, whorest
People make mistakes. People move on. You wanted something and you went out for it. U might have given it too early but hey! Its ur life, your body ur decision . SO dust your shoulder, keep your head and move on to the next one.
Only this time you would be wiser.
Just passin by
U are cheap...ode oshi
TWO WORDS.... YOU'RE A HOE. OH SORRY THAT WAS THREE. DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON!!!
Don't worry my dear he'll be calling you whenever he wants some free pussy
emm, move on? clearly he dont want anything to do with you anymore.
And please, for all the saints that have commented here, i can clearly sense the virginity in all of y'all. he who is without sin.....
You dont have to be a whore to see what(who) you want and go for him...
You are very stupid to ask this question , Y can't you ask your brain before u fell at love attractin by the time u requested for man's no $ later 1st $ 2nd sex, I'm sure d two were unprotected sex with somebody you aproached urself , I'm also sure u would be the one paid 4 d drinks $ d accomodation. The outcome will teach you a great lesson rather it serves you right 4 being a disgrace to urself $ womanhood
Haha, these days terrible things just pass for "well what do you think, Is it bad? I always wonder if senses are still right in our generation. Sorry girl, you really had a fling
Oh shut up you guys! later, ya'll will be the one saying women should not over think things when it comes to love.YA'LL BLAME WOMEN FOR KEEPING "IT" WHWN THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN OUTSIDE. AND SAY THAT'S THE REASON THEY ARE SINGLE. NOW THIS WOMAN DECIDED TO LIVE A LITTLE AND PUT HER HEART OUT THERE. NOW YOU ARE BERATING HERE...TAKE A SEAT JOO
Sorry is ur surname....y on earth wud u av sex on a first date? Smh 4 u ooo
Just be your self things like this do happen just forget him and move on
not only blacklist, very soon he will pass your number round to his friends who will start calling you saying you guys met somewhere you cant recollect and you should meet up, knowing you whorish ass you will obliged after your normal feeble resistance, then gbosah again, anyway your are a just a recycled shit!
Please what does 'blacklisted' in this context mean mbok?
Question of life!!!
CHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER...
You have done so well my dear, please i am good looking too o, tell me where we meet so you can give me mine too.
Dis is a warning to moi. Cant take my eyes off one young man where I gym in kpeyegi. I even dream of him kissing me.. fleees*
Pick another person and fuck. My guess is you were a lousy fuck. What did you expect? Relationship?? Lmao
Haaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway
U know aw it feels like to b on d other side of d road. When gals do dat to guys wat do u call dat..
Some guys hate it wen girls make d first move, and girl u didn't go after ur heart, u went after his pants
Haaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway
It has happened alrdy move on, and all dos calling u names have done worst, jus say na who dem catch be d thief
Yes my dear, u messed up big tym! Its sombody's boyfrend oo... So leave them let them be. Do unto others wat you lyk others to do unto you
It has happened, jus move on. And dos pple that wld call u names do worst, jus that na who dem catch be d thief
Lol lmbao, Shai You gave OSHO FRee, Didnt he know he was in a relationship before he "Dadubule"
Babe you need to kiss and tell on this fool He used! used!! you, Its not entirely your fault so spill the bean to his girlfriend.
You never know you might win him in the end
Abeg d guy is a big fool! D gal did wat she felt was right and will make her hapi all of u judging her I don see una expensive pple rubish! My dear 4get d guy he can't handle a woman like you. Gbam!
oh puleez, yall acting so holy, abeg quench the matter abeg. please ignore this man as well, count this as one of those bad decisions we all make. move on with your life abeg, you cant erase the fact that you did the deed with him
In life we all at some point make unbelievable blunders. Yes everyone! The question/advise I av for u my dear is 1. Did he use protection? 2. Go for HIV test. 3. Pick yourself up, Move on quickly.
Cee dis didirin o! U knw even cee beta place 2ask 4advice na on top LIB...you're on a longest tin cos dem go yab u die! shior
Am sure d guy must b very handsome dat y
You Guys are Harsh oh! Truth is without doubt , she messed up and she hopes someone will say otherwise! Truth is my dear, there is nothing otherwise to say. He sees you as cheap and doesnt want you to ruin his relationship! Let him be and learn from this.
go chop shit. when you dey fuck u nor call us yo join.now u need our advice
Nawa
Babe its okay. ur not a whore. Guys do this all the time and get pass mark.
Your mistake is you're clingy. Stop clinging to the guy if you ignore him, he'd be the one pestering you.
He has to blacklist your phone so his woman will not know he has a new sidechick na.
U want make the guy lose his main squeeze?
U women need to be satisfied with side chick, play your position and stop blowing up ni**As phones 4real.
Well, I don't tink u did wrng by makin passes at a guy u like, tho I tink sleepin wit him was a lil overboard tho shit happens, don't drool over it..I think I understand where he's comin from, but sis, u av to man-up nd get over ds dude. Ure worth more dan ds ;)
That's what you get when you throw yourself @ a guy,first impression matters & u've already given the impression that you are cheap so what do you expect??? Dude won't definitely take you serious.
just move on, he might have a relationship to protect and not knowing how to handle this situation.
He has conscience and he does not want to continue taken advantage of you.Is not better than you.
never make the first move.............not every guy can handle it..............probably one in a billion can appreciate the fact that you made the first move and still hold you in high esteem.........
men are natural hunters and unless the suffer sometimes, dey wont appreciate wat they have.........
not an excuse but fact.............sorry u had to go thru dat
what did u expect ? ode
Your mistake was following your heart. All that stuff you hear on TV and Movies etc is total bull. Use your head theres no harm in approaching someone you find attractive, however theres everything wrong with jumping into his bed just because you find him attractive. If you act as a slut you get treated as such. Plain and simple. Sorry you had to find out this way.
never make the first move.......never go after someone in a relationship except he comes after you and its for the long term....................probably one in a billion can appreciate you making the first move.............
men enjoy the thrill dan the prize at the end........few enjoy both equally.............sorry u had to go thru dat
I work out too.why don't such ladies come to the gym where I work out too?*sad face*
Abeg go and sit down my friend,who are you to judge her?people make mistakes joo....it's up to them to learn from it.....i'm sure if you were in her shoes,you'll do worse......mtchewwwww
Forget d fool
Gbamest!!! Baby girl sowie, u ddnt do bad. Buh you should deal with that cos he's in a relationship and you are aware of that. Sowie again
Hey Libers why una de always form saint ehen wen most of u r worst, She asked 4 Advise not witch hunting and condemnation *Shiiiooorrr*.
Sweety life is Beautiful,GOD IS MERCIFUL.
Delete His Number and Move on ok.*Hugs*.
U didn't do anytin wrong., it jux dat tinz didn't work out d way u thaught. Cheer up gal ur urnt d first and certainly won't b d last! dats part of findin d right partner....till u find one. Forget d sex ur are CHEAP!!!
y'all are too damn judgemental !! shit like this happens, sometimes the chemistry can"t be ignored, she made a mistake and hopefully she has learned from it. as for him blacklisting you well its called cause and effect he's in a relationship and it was just sex ! blacklist him too and move on .#we live ...we learn
Hehehehehehe! Abeg com collect my number too na... Anu ofia! Ikeyencha mu ibiakwa kenyen kwo my frnds kwa since afagi bu keziah...
***datigbonicca***
@Godiswatching @5:52 well said.not every guy can handle it...
Abeg go and sit down my friend...who are you to judge her?people make mistakes and it's up to them to learn from it....if you were in her shoes,i'm sure you'll do worse
Won ti lu e ni jibiti obo ( you have been defrauded sexually)
Madam u followed ur estrogen not ur heart. Get ur facts ryt. FYI if u were in his shoes u ld also blacklist his no.
See all of them....SAINTS..please close your mouths let me hear word..you are criticising her just because she had the boldness to confess....have many of you have confessed of your evil deeds before?please leave the poor girl alone jooo..
I cant believe the comments i am reading here, are people so bitter within themselves. My dear please i just want to ask you a few questions...........
1 - How was the sex
2 - Did he make you go gaga.... like hope you really enjoyed it.
There is absolutly nothing wrong with going after what you want, as long as you enjoyed yourself with multiple orgasim. If he blacklisted you then forget him, let him think over and over about how great the sex was..... he will definatly contact you but dont go back there. Let him remain as a booty call for a much needed massage. No sweat, no need to be embrassed for every girl does this, only a few admit it. I met my fiance on day 1, day 2 we were at it like animals and we were engaged 3 months later.
some of y'all here should actually shut up! its not by force to comment. why must nigerians be insultive? you all just want to say something, i know y'all might have done worse, even the stupid boys with STD here would open their gingivitis ridden mouths to talk shii. Hypoctrites.
LmDo!!!!!!!!!!
Aunty Linda, please create a machanism where we can 'Like' a comment that we LIKE, I so LIKE @AnonymousNovember 11, 2013 at 4:59 PM's comment
Emmmm, she didn't say she's in love with him. She just wanted to know what it feels like to be the first to make a move to straff a man, she did it, so I don't know why she's cashing feelings now. Home breaker.
FOOLS forming they are righteous ...una no dey do the same thing? Eyin oloshi ...
Move on my dear, e dey happen and you cant kill urself..
I really think things like this is luck am 23 i met my fiance last year it was even my colleagues in the Office that drew my attention to him hes really attractive,he was wit his neice so i talked to her so i would nt say i Made d First move n the next Day i tried kissing him he refused me.then we started dating n not long we Had Sex now we getting married next year by God's Grace...
Bitch thats what you get. cheap things go like that VIAM
same happened to me, i had sex with this guy cuz i find him attractive and he hasnt called me since.he text me a few times after that night and i thought we were cool but he just suddenly went cold, i was high as fuck, i keep trying to replay that day in my head but cant remember d whole scenario and i regret that day everyday.
You moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned
You moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned
don't sweat it jo..move on..all you idiots calling her names, am sure you are all sex starved!!! hypocrites..
a responsible girl wont act the way you did, u seriously need to learn frm your own mistake
YOU MADE NO MISTAKE HUN, IT WAS A FLING RIGHT? FLING IS THE SAME AS TOSSING A COIN, IT CAN EITHER LAND ON HEAD OR TAIL. TO HAVE A FLING YOU SHOULD EXPECT THE WORST POSSIBLE. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT MOVE ON YOU GOT THE SEX YOU WANTED WHY WORRY YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR POSITION IN HIS PHONE. HE S TAKEN YOU SAID SO YOU DONT ACTUALLY WANNA KEEP HIM SO MOVE ON, ITS DONE ITS DONE EXCEPT YOU ASKING FOR MORE THEN IN THAT CASE YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. GIRLS FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT SEEING A GOOD LOOKING GUY AS GUYS SEEING A PRETTY GIRL, THE TROUBLE IS THAT ONLY MATURED GUYS RESPECT A WOMAN STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK THE WALK FIRST. YOU MET RAY J IN THIS CASE (KISS AND TELL) AND THAT IS THE THING WITH WRAPPED UP GIFT, YOU NEVER KNOW WHATCHU GETTING. ONE LESSON LEARNT LIFE MUST CONTINUE AND FCUK ALL THESE PEOPLE CURSING HER OUT ON HERE, YA ALL BED MARRIED MEN AND YOU ARE HERE THROWING STONE AROUND. SHE ASKED FOR ADVICE, YOU GOT ONE DROP IT RIGHT HERE AND IF YOU AINT GOT ONE SHIT THE FK UP AND KEEP MOVING. LINDA POST THIS O
any truelly responsible girl wont act the way u did, you just need to learn from ur own mistake
You got want you wanted. so my dear move on and forget it happened....!!!! it must have been worth the risk for you to go for a second time. Don't flog your self it was great S.. you had so again move on.
Nne I tire o......
Babe you shoulda been more careful.love is kind, patient ,is not boastful of wrongs, does not seek its own:see where im going with this you certainly didnt love him nor yourself.however when life shows you pepper, omote, make peppersoup.dont dwell on the past the sun will definitely set and shine again.move on and let go .make better choices next time.
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Shattap dere....acting Lyk ur life is all perfect.... We all go astray sumtymz
You didn't do wrong following your heart dear... your heart just did wrong leading you to the wrong person. He's attached for crying out loud!
Thats what we call "DOH FREE".looooll
You didn't follow your heart as it were, you were messed up by your emotions, you allowed it from the onset!..wake up! and smell the coffee
i hate the fact that so many of u this foolish retarded people just open your mouths and talk trash its so unfair and stupid
The person dat sent in this post must be my ex ify,no1 is dat cheap except 4 her & she forgot 2 mention she's also in a relationship with some1 as well.
WHORE!!!
I use the gym too! How do you gals do that? For me before I will f#ck a man, I have thought of the worse that can ever happen, so when it happens I don't feel it, Bcos I wasn't forced! I did it willingly, so if he feels like a pro, it's for his pocket!
Nigerians and their mentality.... U guys don't need to criticize her or use abusive words on her... Juz advice and let her knw whr she went wrong... Well I think she was only deceived by her mind... Juz try and forget about that and move on... And never make such mistake again... We are all learners! We learn lessons from one thing or the other!
U shldnt feel backlisted cos u got what u want! Move on abeg! He didnt promise u anything!
It was jst a fling!
Wat are Æ”☺ΰ waiting for? Æ”☺ΰ too Redlist his number na shoo..!
Hehehehe @bitchplis comment.
Life is a bitch yea? Well...they rape bitches in my neighbourhood..
Buhahaahaha! Bitchpls, oti lu ni jibiti obo.. #coversface
What are u for real, but since u have a woman why would she call u
YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY MISTAKE , AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FRUSTRATE YOURSELF,
LIFE IS A GAMBLE, AND A TREASURE HUNT, YOU ARE A HUNTER, SO YOU NEED TO BE A SEARCH MACHINE AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE, PLEASE IGNORE HIM, AND MOVE ON , I CAN ASURE YOU THAT SOMETHING GOOD IS LYING AHEAD FOR YOU
Do u mean whore, thank me later
Cheap how ??
Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
Na me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
One word girl, cheap! Keep sleeping around, then turn around to ask if you did blunders. Mtchewwwww
Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
Na me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
Abeg shut up there... Did she say she wntd d man to tk her serz? If a man can hunt, y cant a woman?
Dear writer, wats ur own problem sef? U wntd d hot bod, u got it nw its time to move on joor. Abi are u wanting more of wat u can't av?
Чε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊Ñ’ sex is not love but most girls misunderstand DAT !! Ɖ guy is even nice 2 have told U̶̲̥̅̊ but some guys won't tell U̶̲̥̅̊ dey just keep forking U̶̲̥̅̊
*thumbs up*
girl why you worried, you were good pussy and he was good dick, dont even sweat it. I hope you used a condom? cause that will not be funny if you get preggo or an STD.
Pretty, u didn't do anything wrong, just that d guy is in a serious relationship. Love to know u more. U can add me on dis bbm 282514F8 if u don't mind. Thanks
LmaO! Who the hell's Anyaku and who da hell's dis niggur dat typed dis shii!...
Na every girl be ashewo for una eyes!
All of una wey dey open mouth call anoda pesin pekin wey u no know ashewo o, if u be girl, u too be ashewo, if u be married woman u be ashewo b4 marriage, if u r a guy dat means every female in ur house na ashewo! Except u r a virgin!
Having feelings for a man now is ashewo tinz for ur own book abi?
@anon 5:07 One of d pretenders!
What! She'z just a 'whole' .... This week, by God's grace it should be called off.. Chai!
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