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Monday 11 November 2013

Dear LIB readers: I had a fling with a guy and he's now blacklisted me

From a female LIB reader
Have I made the biggest mistake of my life? Did I do something so terrible? I met this guy at my work-out place and found him really attractive. I've never found myself making the first move but in this case it was almost uncontrollable. I got his no and called him and we met up, had drinks and I couldn't control myself either and it all went down. He called me up for a second date and we had sex again. We both agreed it won't happen again since he is in a relationship and wouldn't want to mess that up. I see him everyday at the gym and we just greet passively. I just realized he blacklisted my number on his phone. That hurts. It's not like I was stalking him. Please did I make such a blunder to follow my heart for the first time ever? I'm just really confused here. Did I do something that's unacceptable?

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Anonymous said...

U made a major whore move u dunce! How hard is that to comprehend? First of, u aggressively got into his pants and second of, u knew he was in a relationship. WHich man in their right mind will take u serious after that??

Anonymous said...

what if he's married? what do you want him to do ? Move on - why must women attach unnecessary feelings to sex? Do it and move on.

Anonymous said...

Life's a bitch,it's ur mess so deal with it..

YKiluminating on Yahoo plu$ plu$ said...

Madam ruth of life, his thing must be sweetening u ....

Unknown said...

no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.

Unknown said...

no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.

Unknown said...

no u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.

Anonymous said...

Well done, clap for yourself *claps*
Go ahead girl, do your thing

Anonymous said...

He's got sth good and doesn't wanna mess with it! Move on and change your gym kapish! Oh and ask God to forgive you while @ it..

Anonymous said...

No my dear. U didn't commit any blunder. But u re obviously in love with d wrong person. So I urge u to shove him off n move on. Life goes on #Ozi

Anonymous said...

Yr heart lied to u for the first tym. Linda wts up! Kel

Anonymous said...

WELL DONE CHEERFUL GIVER, YOU DONE SO WELL. YOU NEED TO GIVE TO MAYOR OF LODON AS WELL. BITCH DONT KILL MY VIBE

Anonymous said...

Well done, clap for yourself *claps*
Go ahead girl, do your thing, share the love

Anonymous said...

I wouldn't dwell on it. Mistake number 1: HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Try to limit your hurt to your pride and not your heart then it is easier to let go of it. If he has blacklisted you that's even a good thing, otherwise he may be looking to make you a side chick and one day some Naija babe will come and pour gutter water on you and call you a man-snatcher. You don't need that drama. And I want to assume it was not your 'heart' you followed. It was your loins lol. Let it go, pray for forgiveness for messing with another woman's man and move on with your life.

Bootylycious diva said...

So fucking what if he black listed ur number abegmove on with ur life,u probably stalking him if not how u know you were blacklisted ,u had a fling so forget it and move on

Anonymous said...

Anyaku I didn't blacklist ur numb, u deleted me from ur bbm nd blocked me on whatssap.. after reading this I knw its u, I stil tink about u everyday, saw ur Broda 2days ago wen I was drivin out from my house.. call me, I don't ave ur numb anymore on my phone.

Apple said...

It serve's you right! He just feel's you are a cheap whore! You knew he was in a relationship didn't you?? The guy don chop clean mouth..LOL.

sQo said...

Loool sorry

Livvsreamblog said...

What is the big deal here?u too blacklist his number on your fone

Kenny jay said...

hmmmmmm

Anonymous said...

Hw cn it be acceptable?. Wen u knw he is in a relatnship. Serves u right...

Anonymous said...

My friend,to him you did the unthinkable, do the maths! So what? pls move on jare and stop beating yourself over trivia issues.

Anonymous said...

Dats exactly wat suites u..learn to control ur TOTOmeter!!

Anonymous said...

You are just a whole. That is not our culture, i mean here in Nigeria. If say u be my junior sis, i would have slap u 10 times. Ashawo.

Unknown said...

Oh Sweety!!! Yes u messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold and you expect him to take u seriuosly?? You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. Just move on and when u meet someone new dont be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers

Anonymous said...

Yes u did! u were a whore...if u don't have respect for urself, why should he have respect for u...pple don't often treat things dat comes cheap well n dat includes cheap Pple too....duh!

Anonymous said...

U don't hv to complain dear....koz u really sold urself so cheap.......my advice 4 u is to 4get abt him n move on koz he aint gonna take u back......sowi!

Anonymous said...

very wrong n really really unacceptable.... he sees you as a cheap girl dat goes for every guy she likes.... moreover premarital sex is still sin it hasn't changed.

Anonymous said...

I really don't get what your point is?

U hooked up and u both agreed it ended?

from what i get here, u are not over it? cause how else would u no of even care that he blacklisted u?

This is the problem with women, its called a one night stand……not a night to plug in your emotions….move on madam!

Unknown said...

hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh

Anonymous said...

Wat were u actually expectin 4rm him.#strife u like a whore nd stil make u his gf#my dear wake u 4rm ur drmz.u made urself 2 cheap nd dat's d outcome.* u no behave like confam naija babe @ all*

Anonymous said...

What else do u expect, he already told u he's serious with someone else... This is a sign that you need to move on with your life.

Unknown said...

hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh

Anonymous said...

Nop, absolutely nottin wrong wt dt, trust me curds been worse ... Atleast it ended early enough..

Unknown said...

LOLZ! You acted thirsty sha. Anyways it is allowed. Best is, gv hm his space. To him u were just gd enough 4 d fun and dats it.

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Unknown said...

hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh

Unknown said...

Oh Sweety!! Yes you messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it.. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold.. You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. When you do find someone new do not be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers

Anonymous said...

Girl,u have to control urself. yes u made a mistake,but it's time to move on,so don't get stuck in self pity,it won't do u any good

Anonymous said...

to me is not bad sha.but always control ur emotions

Anonymous said...

#olobothingz u have done nothing wrong baby don't mind that evil thot wanting to make u feel bad


Ode

promise lawrence said...

its crazy, u followed ur heart bt u executed d plan in a wrng way.. Avin sex with a guy on your first date is like selling ur dignity for chicken change.. So as u see u've automatically lost d respect he'd had for u

Anonymous said...

Common Girl! Trust me, am attraticve too and I need some freebies...crap!

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

You acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
Learn to control your lust

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

You acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
Learn to control your lust

Anonymous said...

Unacceptable is jumping rit on hs bed ma dear...u had alrdy blacklisted ur slf by doin dat, I don't think u wud tolerate ur boyfrnd avn sex wit anoda gal nd here u go doin it wit sm1's...u shld learn frm ur mistk dou

Anonymous said...

Sorry hon. You shouldn't have done it in the first place, knowing he had a girlfriend. Follow your heart, but always carry your head along.

Unknown said...

I don't get it,what kinda advice does she need here? Mtchwww i'm wondering if Linda must publish every cock-and-bull story people send 2 ha.
~AKWA IBOM'S FINEST~

Anonymous said...

U said U guys agreed to stop doing stuff so why all the extra? He doesn't want his gf asking who U are if U call him again (cos he doesn't want to lie to her... LoL). Babe U're thinking way too much abt this. Keep it civil and move on. Or go back for a taste from time to time. U're grown, act like it

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...


U are a real ANIMASHAUN *hiss*

Anonymous said...

And all U hipocrites. Free the babe

Soul said...

Asheeewooooo! Don't use 'follow my heart' to cover it up. Ashewo an ashewo. Smh

Anonymous said...

u need more practice girl...u prolly ddnt put it down on him right

Anonymous said...

Eya sorry o

Anonymous said...

Omo cee question? Babe your matter don pass the one way agbada dey hook wire o! U better leave dat amazing gy for the gurl that deserves him,lansense boifrnd snatcher
#darlyn lara just spoke#

Anonymous said...

No be u give am yourself wen u kno fit control your self so wat do u expect that he should save ur name with Gold or my diamond. Get a life babe & move on as u have done after d fling
EURO VOICE

JustPorsh said...

Follow your heart? And you were okie with a fling?
Lol!
Ok

Anonymous said...

You should feel ashamed sef, go get a boyfriend abeg if u know u cannot control yaself. So many guys out there looking for a relationship, u dey there dey give freely. Nonsense!!!!!

MY TURN said...

first of all how do you know he black list you? and secondly why are you bothered? hope you aren't developing feelings for him o? shit happens move on, you followed the congi feeling not your heart. all the best.

Seyi_Jetli said...

Well I will not say what you did was acceptable or not acceptable but you are just too cheap and only God know how many guys you have get down with.
Any way just ask God to forgive you and forgive yourself BECAUSE YOU REALLY OFFENDED YOUR YOURSELF.

Anonymous said...

Onye ikpu 1 of Ndi okpara LGA. Weldone!!!! I hail oooo(bows with my hat off) . So, cuz he works out and has got packs, your cheap toto could not close again baa? And to top it all, you collected extra akpako for the second time consecutively and you sit there asking if you did anything wrong.... YES!!!! You did, you gave free gifts when it isn't christmas. Mumunatu!!!

Anonymous said...

PLS AND PLS THE GUY IS CHILDISH LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LISTEN TO SOME FOOLS TALKING FOLLOW UR HEART AND MAKE URSELF HAPPY PLS,,,,,,,,,,,U DID UR PART

Anonymous said...

My dear it waz neva ur fault so dat get ur self 2 b blamed aftall dis can apen 2 any1 n min yl u neva knew d guyz intentn bt jst mak sure dat it wult apen again.

Anonymous said...

You followed you heart the wrong way. Getting down on the first date doesn't put you in a good place with a man. Even if he was to choose you over his current girl, you just lost your chance. Hope the lesson has been learnt.

Anonymous said...

I pity u my dear ,but don't do that man are animal

Anonymous said...

anon 4:59. I guess u r not better dts why u critise

Anonymous said...

Stupid girl, where u wearing coke bottle before

poker said...

What gym is that pls? I might get lucky as well. *tongue*

Mocherry said...

Babe! For real u messed up. U knw most guys aint matured to dat level of girls making d 1st move, he probly think u cheap forget dat he's in a relationship dat nt d point. Most guys in a relationship still av flings here and der so no biggy.. D best gud u'l do urself is jst to forget it, him, and evry oda tin u'v had togeda. Not easy but dats d best. D guy aint matured enof to handle it so move on. All d best

Anonymous said...

It was wrong for you to hit on a guy for only just wanting a piece of him but then we all have made some silly mistakes in our lives. Dust yourself up, change your gym and move on with your life. But have some self worth next time. Guys are programmed in a way that the moment you sell your self cheap for them, they lose all respect for you. xxx

Anonymous said...

Follow ur hrt anywhere it take...
As long as it wil b fun

Anonymous said...

Lol. I know people will come at you with their usual holier than thou verbal abuse...
Anyways, I believe that what you felt for him was purely sexual and since you met him at the gym, I'm guessing you had the hots for his physique. Why then are you looking for more? You don chop...clean mouth and move on sister.

Anonymous said...

I like that guy, he did well. I do that a lot when girls play hard to get. As most Naija girls like to do shakara even when they fancy a guy, so can a guy use and dump una. The ladies i want to warm in my bed 2014 are Yvonne Nelson,Linda, Genevive, Ebube.

Anonymous said...

I just think he took some precautionary steps, since he is presently seeing someone and doesn't want to mess things up. However, I'll suggest u don't give urself a hard time. Just live life and try to be happy....u'll be surprised he may come back begging.

Anonymous said...

Lwkmd@1st 2 commenters.give me 1 reason y u shudnt be backlisted babe!afta being father christmas or rather shud l say moda theresa.u nid 2 clean up ur mess.

Anonymous said...

MUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u

Anonymous said...

You followed you heart wrongly, you just ended up making yourself a cheap article. Hope you've learnt your lesson... Cheap Ass Chick!

Anonymous said...

Easy come, easy go babe...count ur loss, next time learn some self control!...if u want to get back at him though, u need to totally ignore him, as in not angry or anything but act like uve neva seen him before in ur life..that should get his attention n if he dares to ask why tell him he's really crap in bed n u reli can't over the fact dat he was that bad....

Princess Chinasa Ukaegbu said...

Mumu did I hear you say he's in a relationship? Mumu leave him alone. Go and find someone else to screw. Ukwu-nnu like you. You're not even ashamed of yourself. How I wish it was my guy you were making a move on, then I will tear your skin with razor. Rubbish!

Anonymous said...

Hey girl, it has "happened" meaning 'past' so it belongs to there and let it go. Move on with your life and dont let it bother you. Please dont stop going to ur workout place because of dat. Better still be more cheerful like never before. The good thing is dat you have realised ursef i mean who you are and keep being 'you'. Cheerup girl and keep smiling to the world. Dont be negative about ursef for any reason, cos mistakes are made to make u a better person. so see it as u are becoming a better person.
Plase go on and conquer d world.

Anonymous said...

MUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u.... Abeg linda post ma comment o

Unknown said...

In M.Is voice "Kelechukwu clap for urslf welldone!!!"

MR CHUKX said...

Givers never Lack.. No worri more guys re coming..

Unknown said...

Hahahahaha..anyway,my dear na six packs wey u see blew u off ur fit abi...u didnt do wrong things bcos since ladies of nawadays sees those things as trend or fashion and not keeping fit things again.it has happened it has happened ooo,but next time check out for d content and not d packaging.. Emegwedi ife furu

Matix said...

babe ........... wait would u like continue ?unless uer nt a complete retard pack ur shoes and were it it will lead u to the right person one day.by the way let me give my pin maybe i might be lucky and am attrctive too o

Anonymous said...

i know this girl, she has a baby for a guy and there are planning to get married soon and she is still opening her public toilet for every tom, dick and harrod.
well done ashewo, when will you learn and change, funny thing is this guy knows her fiance and this story is bound to get out soon, African whore of Europe, you won the award, bravo for you, oloshi.

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Anonymous said...

i wonder why you will post such a story on this blog when you knw the way libers are they will trash u with comments well i'm sorry for what happend to u ooh and i think you should move on... why are u even surprised he blacklisted you didnt uguys agree never to do it again? cos of his relationship?.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind these hateful people. He probably feels bad since he has a girlfriend. He might fin you irresistibly attractive thus the avoidance.

Mz cynthia said...

My dear wat u did was bad,erase every feeling you have for him n stand tall,you can't kill yourself over him besides he has a girlfriend.Linda post my comment or

Anonymous said...

HOE

bitchplis said...

Lol @ cheerful giver...God loves a cheerful giver,in oda words, @poster,God loves u....deal with it babes,u r now one of his has beens/i-was-there.get over it.o ti fi obo se bonanza

Anonymous said...

once you open your kinni for any guy who already knows you are in another relationship, then girl, nothing for you, talkess of respect, you might get fucked over another couple of times but nothing for you, talkless of respect, you are just the laughing stock and object of ridicle, sorry!

Cute G said...

Take the next available flight to Oblivion.

Anonymous said...

you're cheap and easy...he has a girlfriend and you were aware of that YET you made him go ahead and sleep with u...you deserve to be blacklisted...he probably feels bad!!imagine if u were his girlfriend and your boyfriend is doing things like that

Anonymous said...

CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER TOO. WILL GIVE YOU SO HARD YOU WONT HAVE TO GIVE BACK :)

Anonymous said...

Another one bites the dust? Pele, it is happening to Oyinbo people too!

Anonymous said...

the girl na wa for you, how many times, you are not only humiliating yourself but also your family and your fiance and father of your baby, when you know the guy knows your husband already, so cheap, we know you well,well, and you are not suprised things are working out how it should be, whorest

Molurlah's MakeOver said...

People make mistakes. People move on. You wanted something and you went out for it. U might have given it too early but hey! Its ur life, your body ur decision . SO dust your shoulder, keep your head and move on to the next one.
Only this time you would be wiser.

Unknown said...

Just passin by

Anonymous said...

U are cheap...ode oshi

The President! said...

TWO WORDS.... YOU'RE A HOE. OH SORRY THAT WAS THREE. DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON!!!

Anonymous said...

Don't worry my dear he'll be calling you whenever he wants some free pussy

Anonymous said...

emm, move on? clearly he dont want anything to do with you anymore.
And please, for all the saints that have commented here, i can clearly sense the virginity in all of y'all. he who is without sin.....
You dont have to be a whore to see what(who) you want and go for him...

Anonymous said...

You are very stupid to ask this question , Y can't you ask your brain before u fell at love attractin by the time u requested for man's no $ later 1st $ 2nd sex, I'm sure d two were unprotected sex with somebody you aproached urself , I'm also sure u would be the one paid 4 d drinks $ d accomodation. The outcome will teach you a great lesson rather it serves you right 4 being a disgrace to urself $ womanhood

Anonymous said...

Haha, these days terrible things just pass for "well what do you think, Is it bad? I always wonder if senses are still right in our generation. Sorry girl, you really had a fling

Anonymous said...

Oh shut up you guys! later, ya'll will be the one saying women should not over think things when it comes to love.YA'LL BLAME WOMEN FOR KEEPING "IT" WHWN THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN OUTSIDE. AND SAY THAT'S THE REASON THEY ARE SINGLE. NOW THIS WOMAN DECIDED TO LIVE A LITTLE AND PUT HER HEART OUT THERE. NOW YOU ARE BERATING HERE...TAKE A SEAT JOO

Lovety Aderibigbe said...

Sorry is ur surname....y on earth wud u av sex on a first date? Smh 4 u ooo

Anonymous said...

Just be your self things like this do happen just forget him and move on

Anonymous said...

not only blacklist, very soon he will pass your number round to his friends who will start calling you saying you guys met somewhere you cant recollect and you should meet up, knowing you whorish ass you will obliged after your normal feeble resistance, then gbosah again, anyway your are a just a recycled shit!

Anonymous said...

Please what does 'blacklisted' in this context mean mbok?

zinny said...

Question of life!!!

Anonymous said...

CHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER...

Anonymous said...

You have done so well my dear, please i am good looking too o, tell me where we meet so you can give me mine too.

Anonymous said...

Dis is a warning to moi. Cant take my eyes off one young man where I gym in kpeyegi. I even dream of him kissing me.. fleees*

Anonymous said...

Pick another person and fuck. My guess is you were a lousy fuck. What did you expect? Relationship?? Lmao

Anonymous said...

Haaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway

Anonymous said...

U know aw it feels like to b on d other side of d road. When gals do dat to guys wat do u call dat..

Damilola said...

Some guys hate it wen girls make d first move, and girl u didn't go after ur heart, u went after his pants

Anonymous said...

Haaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway

Unknown said...

It has happened alrdy move on, and all dos calling u names have done worst, jus say na who dem catch be d thief

Anonymous said...

Yes my dear, u messed up big tym! Its sombody's boyfrend oo... So leave them let them be. Do unto others wat you lyk others to do unto you

Unknown said...

It has happened, jus move on. And dos pple that wld call u names do worst, jus that na who dem catch be d thief

Anonymous said...

Lol lmbao, Shai You gave OSHO FRee, Didnt he know he was in a relationship before he "Dadubule"
Babe you need to kiss and tell on this fool He used! used!! you, Its not entirely your fault so spill the bean to his girlfriend.
You never know you might win him in the end

Anonymous said...

Abeg d guy is a big fool! D gal did wat she felt was right and will make her hapi all of u judging her I don see una expensive pple rubish! My dear 4get d guy he can't handle a woman like you. Gbam!

Anonymous said...

oh puleez, yall acting so holy, abeg quench the matter abeg. please ignore this man as well, count this as one of those bad decisions we all make. move on with your life abeg, you cant erase the fact that you did the deed with him

Anonymous said...

In life we all at some point make unbelievable blunders. Yes everyone! The question/advise I av for u my dear is 1. Did he use protection? 2. Go for HIV test. 3. Pick yourself up, Move on quickly.

olarh! said...

Cee dis didirin o! U knw even cee beta place 2ask 4advice na on top LIB...you're on a longest tin cos dem go yab u die! shior

felly411 said...

Am sure d guy must b very handsome dat y

Tank said...

You Guys are Harsh oh! Truth is without doubt , she messed up and she hopes someone will say otherwise! Truth is my dear, there is nothing otherwise to say. He sees you as cheap and doesnt want you to ruin his relationship! Let him be and learn from this.

Unknown said...

go chop shit. when you dey fuck u nor call us yo join.now u need our advice

Anonymous said...

Nawa

Anonymous said...

Babe its okay. ur not a whore. Guys do this all the time and get pass mark.

Your mistake is you're clingy. Stop clinging to the guy if you ignore him, he'd be the one pestering you.

He has to blacklist your phone so his woman will not know he has a new sidechick na.

U want make the guy lose his main squeeze?

U women need to be satisfied with side chick, play your position and stop blowing up ni**As phones 4real.

Anonymous said...

Well, I don't tink u did wrng by makin passes at a guy u like, tho I tink sleepin wit him was a lil overboard tho shit happens, don't drool over it..I think I understand where he's comin from, but sis, u av to man-up nd get over ds dude. Ure worth more dan ds ;)

Unknown said...

That's what you get when you throw yourself @ a guy,first impression matters & u've already given the impression that you are cheap so what do you expect??? Dude won't definitely take you serious.

Anonymous said...

just move on, he might have a relationship to protect and not knowing how to handle this situation.
He has conscience and he does not want to continue taken advantage of you.Is not better than you.

GODiswatching said...

never make the first move.............not every guy can handle it..............probably one in a billion can appreciate the fact that you made the first move and still hold you in high esteem.........

men are natural hunters and unless the suffer sometimes, dey wont appreciate wat they have.........

not an excuse but fact.............sorry u had to go thru dat

Nonso. A said...

what did u expect ? ode

Unknown said...

Your mistake was following your heart. All that stuff you hear on TV and Movies etc is total bull. Use your head theres no harm in approaching someone you find attractive, however theres everything wrong with jumping into his bed just because you find him attractive. If you act as a slut you get treated as such. Plain and simple. Sorry you had to find out this way.

GODiswatching said...

never make the first move.......never go after someone in a relationship except he comes after you and its for the long term....................probably one in a billion can appreciate you making the first move.............

men enjoy the thrill dan the prize at the end........few enjoy both equally.............sorry u had to go thru dat

Anonymous said...

I work out too.why don't such ladies come to the gym where I work out too?*sad face*

Unknown said...

Abeg go and sit down my friend,who are you to judge her?people make mistakes joo....it's up to them to learn from it.....i'm sure if you were in her shoes,you'll do worse......mtchewwwww

Anonymous said...

Forget d fool

ST. KIZITO BOUTIQUE IG: @stkizitoboutique said...

Gbamest!!! Baby girl sowie, u ddnt do bad. Buh you should deal with that cos he's in a relationship and you are aware of that. Sowie again

oyemen said...

Hey Libers why una de always form saint ehen wen most of u r worst, She asked 4 Advise not witch hunting and condemnation *Shiiiooorrr*.
Sweety life is Beautiful,GOD IS MERCIFUL.
Delete His Number and Move on ok.*Hugs*.

trusty said...

U didn't do anytin wrong., it jux dat tinz didn't work out d way u thaught. Cheer up gal ur urnt d first and certainly won't b d last! dats part of findin d right partner....till u find one. Forget d sex ur are CHEAP!!!

Anonymous said...

y'all are too damn judgemental !! shit like this happens, sometimes the chemistry can"t be ignored, she made a mistake and hopefully she has learned from it. as for him blacklisting you well its called cause and effect he's in a relationship and it was just sex ! blacklist him too and move on .#we live ...we learn

Anonymous said...

Hehehehehehe! Abeg com collect my number too na... Anu ofia! Ikeyencha mu ibiakwa kenyen kwo my frnds kwa since afagi bu keziah...
***datigbonicca***

nance said...

@Godiswatching @5:52 well said.not every guy can handle it...

Unknown said...

Abeg go and sit down my friend...who are you to judge her?people make mistakes and it's up to them to learn from it....if you were in her shoes,i'm sure you'll do worse

Anonymous said...

Won ti lu e ni jibiti obo ( you have been defrauded sexually)

Anonymous said...

Madam u followed ur estrogen not ur heart. Get ur facts ryt. FYI if u were in his shoes u ld also blacklist his no.

Unknown said...

See all of them....SAINTS..please close your mouths let me hear word..you are criticising her just because she had the boldness to confess....have many of you have confessed of your evil deeds before?please leave the poor girl alone jooo..

Anonymous said...

I cant believe the comments i am reading here, are people so bitter within themselves. My dear please i just want to ask you a few questions...........
1 - How was the sex
2 - Did he make you go gaga.... like hope you really enjoyed it.

There is absolutly nothing wrong with going after what you want, as long as you enjoyed yourself with multiple orgasim. If he blacklisted you then forget him, let him think over and over about how great the sex was..... he will definatly contact you but dont go back there. Let him remain as a booty call for a much needed massage. No sweat, no need to be embrassed for every girl does this, only a few admit it. I met my fiance on day 1, day 2 we were at it like animals and we were engaged 3 months later.

Unknown said...

some of y'all here should actually shut up! its not by force to comment. why must nigerians be insultive? you all just want to say something, i know y'all might have done worse, even the stupid boys with STD here would open their gingivitis ridden mouths to talk shii. Hypoctrites.

Morlard said...

LmDo!!!!!!!!!!

Mrs E said...

Aunty Linda, please create a machanism where we can 'Like' a comment that we LIKE, I so LIKE @AnonymousNovember 11, 2013 at 4:59 PM's comment

Soul said...

Emmmm, she didn't say she's in love with him. She just wanted to know what it feels like to be the first to make a move to straff a man, she did it, so I don't know why she's cashing feelings now. Home breaker.

Anonymous said...

FOOLS forming they are righteous ...una no dey do the same thing? Eyin oloshi ...

Move on my dear, e dey happen and you cant kill urself..

Anonymous said...

I really think things like this is luck am 23 i met my fiance last year it was even my colleagues in the Office that drew my attention to him hes really attractive,he was wit his neice so i talked to her so i would nt say i Made d First move n the next Day i tried kissing him he refused me.then we started dating n not long we Had Sex now we getting married next year by God's Grace...

Anonymous said...

Bitch thats what you get. cheap things go like that VIAM

Anonymous said...

same happened to me, i had sex with this guy cuz i find him attractive and he hasnt called me since.he text me a few times after that night and i thought we were cool but he just suddenly went cold, i was high as fuck, i keep trying to replay that day in my head but cant remember d whole scenario and i regret that day everyday.

Anonymous said...

You moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned

Anonymous said...

You moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned

Anonymous said...

don't sweat it jo..move on..all you idiots calling her names, am sure you are all sex starved!!! hypocrites..

Unknown said...

a responsible girl wont act the way you did, u seriously need to learn frm your own mistake

Anonymous said...

YOU MADE NO MISTAKE HUN, IT WAS A FLING RIGHT? FLING IS THE SAME AS TOSSING A COIN, IT CAN EITHER LAND ON HEAD OR TAIL. TO HAVE A FLING YOU SHOULD EXPECT THE WORST POSSIBLE. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT MOVE ON YOU GOT THE SEX YOU WANTED WHY WORRY YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR POSITION IN HIS PHONE. HE S TAKEN YOU SAID SO YOU DONT ACTUALLY WANNA KEEP HIM SO MOVE ON, ITS DONE ITS DONE EXCEPT YOU ASKING FOR MORE THEN IN THAT CASE YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. GIRLS FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT SEEING A GOOD LOOKING GUY AS GUYS SEEING A PRETTY GIRL, THE TROUBLE IS THAT ONLY MATURED GUYS RESPECT A WOMAN STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK THE WALK FIRST. YOU MET RAY J IN THIS CASE (KISS AND TELL) AND THAT IS THE THING WITH WRAPPED UP GIFT, YOU NEVER KNOW WHATCHU GETTING. ONE LESSON LEARNT LIFE MUST CONTINUE AND FCUK ALL THESE PEOPLE CURSING HER OUT ON HERE, YA ALL BED MARRIED MEN AND YOU ARE HERE THROWING STONE AROUND. SHE ASKED FOR ADVICE, YOU GOT ONE DROP IT RIGHT HERE AND IF YOU AINT GOT ONE SHIT THE FK UP AND KEEP MOVING. LINDA POST THIS O

Unknown said...

any truelly responsible girl wont act the way u did, you just need to learn from ur own mistake

Anonymous said...

You got want you wanted. so my dear move on and forget it happened....!!!! it must have been worth the risk for you to go for a second time. Don't flog your self it was great S.. you had so again move on.

Anonymous said...

Nne I tire o......

Anonymous said...

Babe you shoulda been more careful.love is kind, patient ,is not boastful of wrongs, does not seek its own:see where im going with this you certainly didnt love him nor yourself.however when life shows you pepper, omote, make peppersoup.dont dwell on the past the sun will definitely set and shine again.move on and let go .make better choices next time.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Shattap dere....acting Lyk ur life is all perfect.... We all go astray sumtymz

Anonymous said...

You didn't do wrong following your heart dear... your heart just did wrong leading you to the wrong person. He's attached for crying out loud!

FK said...

Thats what we call "DOH FREE".looooll

Emmanuel Ayeni said...

You didn't follow your heart as it were, you were messed up by your emotions, you allowed it from the onset!..wake up! and smell the coffee

Anonymous said...

i hate the fact that so many of u this foolish retarded people just open your mouths and talk trash its so unfair and stupid

Ares said...

The person dat sent in this post must be my ex ify,no1 is dat cheap except 4 her & she forgot 2 mention she's also in a relationship with some1 as well.
WHORE!!!

Unknown said...

I use the gym too! How do you gals do that? For me before I will f#ck a man, I have thought of the worse that can ever happen, so when it happens I don't feel it, Bcos I wasn't forced! I did it willingly, so if he feels like a pro, it's for his pocket!

Unknown said...

Nigerians and their mentality.... U guys don't need to criticize her or use abusive words on her... Juz advice and let her knw whr she went wrong... Well I think she was only deceived by her mind... Juz try and forget about that and move on... And never make such mistake again... We are all learners! We learn lessons from one thing or the other!

Rough Diamond said...

U shldnt feel backlisted cos u got what u want! Move on abeg! He didnt promise u anything!
It was jst a fling!

Unknown said...

Wat are Æ”☺ΰ waiting for? Æ”☺ΰ too Redlist his number na shoo..!

Rough Diamond said...

Hehehehe @bitchplis comment.

Oluwadamilola said...

Life is a bitch yea? Well...they rape bitches in my neighbourhood..

Oluwadamilola said...

Buhahaahaha! Bitchpls, oti lu ni jibiti obo.. #coversface

Anonymous said...

What are u for real, but since u have a woman why would she call u

OHIO ERANKO said...

YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY MISTAKE , AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FRUSTRATE YOURSELF,
LIFE IS A GAMBLE, AND A TREASURE HUNT, YOU ARE A HUNTER, SO YOU NEED TO BE A SEARCH MACHINE AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE, PLEASE IGNORE HIM, AND MOVE ON , I CAN ASURE YOU THAT SOMETHING GOOD IS LYING AHEAD FOR YOU

Anonymous said...

Do u mean whore, thank me later

Rough Diamond said...

Cheap how ??
Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
Na me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!

Anonymous said...

One word girl, cheap! Keep sleeping around, then turn around to ask if you did blunders. Mtchewwwww

Rough Diamond said...

Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
Na me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!

Diary Of A Lost Girl said...

Abeg shut up there... Did she say she wntd d man to tk her serz? If a man can hunt, y cant a woman?

Dear writer, wats ur own problem sef? U wntd d hot bod, u got it nw its time to move on joor. Abi are u wanting more of wat u can't av?

Anonymous said...

‎​​Чε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊Ñ’ sex is not love but most girls misunderstand DAT !! Ɖ guy is even nice 2 have told U̶̲̥̅̊​ but some guys won't tell U̶̲̥̅̊​ dey just keep forking U̶̲̥̅̊​

Anonymous said...

*thumbs up*

Anonymous said...

girl why you worried, you were good pussy and he was good dick, dont even sweat it. I hope you used a condom? cause that will not be funny if you get preggo or an STD.

Anonymous said...

Pretty, u didn't do anything wrong, just that d guy is in a serious relationship. Love to know u more. U can add me on dis bbm 282514F8 if u don't mind. Thanks

BEN said...

LmaO! Who the hell's Anyaku and who da hell's dis niggur dat typed dis shii!...

Rough Diamond said...

Na every girl be ashewo for una eyes!
All of una wey dey open mouth call anoda pesin pekin wey u no know ashewo o, if u be girl, u too be ashewo, if u be married woman u be ashewo b4 marriage, if u r a guy dat means every female in ur house na ashewo! Except u r a virgin!
Having feelings for a man now is ashewo tinz for ur own book abi?

Rough Diamond said...

@anon 5:07 One of d pretenders!

BEN said...

What! She'z just a 'whole' .... This week, by God's grace it should be called off.. Chai!

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