I am a young Nigerian female from the southern part of the country. I am in my early 20s and currently doing my NYSC in one of the northern states.
After I found out my NYSC posting, my parents contacted one of our kins men (a pastor of one of the 'new generation' pentecostal churches), requesting that I stay at his place for my NYSC period. He accepted. I was so excited that 'my accommodation' problem had been solved- little did I know that I was heading for a night mare.
My new guardian, a pastor, is married with two kids; however, his wife and kids are in the southern part of the country where they help manage a branch of the church.
I help-out with errands and house chores; there isn't much chores to be done considering the fact that there are only 4 people in the house (my guardian, the cook, another pastor and myself).
There are enough rooms for everyone; I had a room to myself and often shared it with the cook whenever she was passing the night.
The first 3 months of my NYSC happened so fast because of the number of activities I had to do.
Everything was just perfect until I had this encounter with my guardian.
I usually experience abdominal pains during my mensuration and my guardian soon observed this.
A few days after one of my mensuration cycles, around 1:30 AM, he asked me to come to his room for prayers and anointing especially concerning the mensural pain.
I assumed all was normal and suspected no foul play.
I knocked at his door and stepped into his room, he prayed for a short time and asked me to completely undress so that he could anoint me with olive oil.
I was transfixed and confused for a moment, he was so bold with the 'command', after I reluctantly undressed, he rubbed his palms with the oil and placed them on my two breast.
After a while, he placed one of his hands on my vagina and then rubbed the oil in 5 different strokes.
I was totally shocked and embarrassed, totally confused and afraid of what would happen.
It all seemed like I was under a spell; after a while, I dressed up quickly and hurried out of his room. When I got to my room, the time was already 2:00AM, I stayed alert and awake till day break.
I cried intermittently because of what just happened.I could not believe that a man whom I respected so much could act in such a manner.
I kept the whole incidence to myself, I slowly became sober and depressed, always wanting to avoid his presence. Few weeks went by and then suddenly, one evening, he flippantly asked me to come to his room again for another nude prayer and anointing session.
Somehow, I summoned courage and said to him: 'No, please I'm not interested'. He was surprised but said nothing. The next morning, while I was doing house chores, he started barking and shouting without cause. One of the comments he made was: '...do you think if I want to sleep with a lady, it will be someone like you...'
In the midst of his shouting, I was quiet and calm doing the chores - I said nothing.
Ever since then, he always snaps and shouts at me for any little thing and he has been very hostile.
Whenever I get home 20 or 30 minutes later than normal after work, he would ask me series of questions ranging from: Where did you go to? Where are you coming from? Who were you with? etc'. On days that I am off-work, it is forbidden for me to step-out or leave the house including weekends.
I am tired of the whole thing and I no longer feel welcome in the house.
LIB readers, please, is there any such thing as NUDE anointing? What do you advise I do?
414 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 414 of 414how can u allow yourself to be naive.there is nothing as nude anointing,the so called pastor only sexually abused u.leave that house and look for a corpers lodge to stay.tell ur mother about it and make sure he is exposed because only heaven knows how many ladies he has being abusing in the name of anointing.
May the grace of God. Heal u n break any manipulative power
What in the world is nude anointing...biko inform your parents and move out ASAP
Leave the house quickly. Pack ur things and vamoose. U are no longer safe in that house. He can rape u and kill u thereafter. Nude anointing indeed! How could you have even allowed him to violate u he very 1st time? He wanted to see if u will enjoy The stroking sensation on your vagina. So much fake pastors. This goes to show that these pastors are randy men too just like any guy on d street. They have strong libido and blood flows in their veins. Na real wah ooo. Things are happening ooo
Hmmmmmm. God have mercy on our generation
Babes I understand were ur coming from and this thing happened to me too. It all started in January when I tot I'd found d right church, pastor was so caring in fact over caring, pastor would call text n chat me on bb n here was i thinking oh how caring he is and dat he MST be this caring to most of his congregation untillll he asked me to come for prayers one morning land after d prayer told me to undress n use the water we prayed on to bath n even showed me the way to his bathroom within his office n told me in dat same command tone to undress n bathe myself with the water. I knew that it was wrong although I was scared but I summoned courage to tell him that (pastor, I'm not used to praying in such manner) n he kept asking me why? So I gave enough excuses. We prayed and I left and I knew that I was never going back to that church. Its such a shame really but these things DO happen and we need to create more awareness for people (esp ladies) to be able tell the difference between common sense and spiritual idiocracy. This church is in Ago palace and the name is green pastures pls stay away from it. The pastor only "sees" spiritually for pretty girls with big boobs.....tnx Linda for bringing this to the table.......Regards Amara
Ur a very big fool. I'm sure you don't ever kneel to pray even. And wat do southerners have to do with this? If not for your tribalistic demented brain! Don't worry it wld be your child next. Blamer! So unrealistic it hurts! Olodo! Totally out of context! Pls next time you don't have anything to say, don't comment! No b by force! Ode buruku oshiii. Amara
pls. is better u leave there and never go back
God help u out.
LEAVE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. START MAKING ARRANGEMENT IMMEDIATELY BUT TRY TO DO IT WITHOUT HIM KNOWING. He is dangerous and his actions can escalate. Right now it sounds like you're the only female in a house with two males. If you can, move to a fellow FEMALE corper's place immediately and try to redeploy home ASAP. All the best. Stay strong. AND SMART. [Lock your door at night and whenever you're at home in the evenings]
Indeed may God heal her. This brought tears ;society n church abuse. Where is ur refuge?
Must you be rude about it?
hi writer,
i wouldn't say that i am a very spiritual person but i know i haven't seen or heard of nude anointing in the bible. it is very obvious that this is just an act to seduce and have his way with you, i will advice that you do not keep this to yourself and tell your parents about this.
Regards,
Femi.
Lady Corper, just to draw ur attention to the facts that u are playing wit fire. It could burn u sooner or later if u don't take appropriate actions to vacate that home u called ur guardian's house.
Leave his house & look for an accommodation elsewhere.
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