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Sunday, 22 March 2015

Brymo talks having a baby outside wedlock, says a child is a product of love, not marriage

I love how some men say I don't need to marry her to show her I love her - when they're not ready for marriage..:-). Expectant dad, Brymo Olawale talks to Punch about why he chose to have a child outside wedlock
"Because a child is a product of love not of marriage. Marriage was made for men to get assistance from women and vice-versa, but society has bastardised the concept. I would rather pay attention to loving the woman I am with than seek the approval of society about it.
Was the pregnancy planned?
I wouldn’t wait till I am over 30 to venture into fatherhood. So, yes you can say it was planned.
How long have you known your baby mama and when do you plan to marry her?
We’ve been together for at least three years. You’ll definitely know when we decide to get married.

Of all the ladies that have come your way, why did you choose to be with her?
It is the connection. You find someone and you flow with them. That’s something you don’t plan.

108 comments:

Davido's driver said...

My thoughts too.. Lindaobserve

Unknown said...

O se, dats his own biz n nt mine. If is gud n ok 4 him den so b it.

Unknown said...

O se, dats his own biz n nt mine. If is gud n ok 4 him den so b it.

Unknown said...

O se, dats his own biz n nt mine. If is gud n ok 4 him den so b it.

TAMARA SPLASH said...

Baby mama is d in thing now.

vera said...

Hmmm.oloshi.u Don pregnant girl dey talk trash

LIB chairlady said...

Brymo sharrap n take her Home...

Unknown said...

He is so wrong wit dis words "Because a child is a product of love not of marriage. Marriage was made for men to get assistance from women and vice-versa".

Biblically a child is a product of love making when couples r legally married. Our spiritual path in life goes a long way to tell wht and who we live our lives for.

Anonymous said...

Concerning all the talks on single n married issue on cheating matters. Some said u have to be like Kim n Bey. Forgetting those ppl are fake n not even real from head to toe, some part of their bodies* look at so many implants that got ruptured. Gosh. It's disgusting N pitiful. If they had even said Jenifer Lopez. I think n learnt she is all natural. Although she is not presently married. Use if short words from me.

Anonymous said...

Concerning all the talks on single n married issue on cheating matters. Some said u have to be like Kim n Bey. Forgetting those ppl are fake n not even real from head to toe, some part of their bodies* look at so many implants that got ruptured. Gosh. It's disgusting N pitiful. If they had even said Jenifer Lopez. I think n learnt she is all natural. Although she is not presently married. Use of short words from me.

NMaa said...

Shut up dia. A thing of disgrace has become a thing to celebrate without love. Idiot. Every man should honour his woman by making their kids be produced in an honorable way not backyard buisness. I said shut up there.tomorrow now u will say she is not the one for u. Women wont still learn. Mscheweee! Rubbish

Anonymous said...

Concerning all the talks on single n married issue on cheating matters. Some said u have to be like Kim n Bey. Forgetting those ppl are fake n not even real from head to toe, some part of their bodies* look at so many implants that got ruptured. Gosh. It's disgusting N pitiful. If they had even said Jenifer Lopez. I think n learnt she is all natural. Although she is not presently married. Use of short words from me. Men need to be more Godly .

Unknown said...

Your choice.
But marriage is not manmade but was ordained by God.

Subomi said...

he loves his girl and he stepping up to his responsibility so he gets my respect

Anonymous said...

Concerning all the talks on single n married issue on cheating matters. Some said u have to be like Kim n Bey. Forgetting those ppl are fake n not even real from head to toe, some part of their bodies* look at so many implants that got ruptured. Gosh. It's disgusting N pitiful. If they had even said Jenifer Lopez. I think n learnt she is all natural. Although she is not presently married. Use of short words from me. Men need to be more Godly .

Unknown said...

pple keep re writting Gods plan.......No matter how U paint the story.....Having a child outside marriage is wrong...Unless U aint a christian







Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....



Kyke said...

Sorry!!! Oooooooo!!!! Keep decieving ur sef!!!

...My name is simple CALL ME KYKE...

Anonymous said...

Child out of wedlock is wrong? People should stop Woe sin to be d right thing, is always good to bless ur marriage before having kids

Anonymous said...

Child out of wedlock is wrong? People should stop Woe sin to be d right thing, is always good to bless ur marriage before having kids

Unknown said...

U love her enough to pound her toto skin to skin but u are not ready to marry her.Story for the gods.Another mr.single and searching

ANYA IKENGA said...

This is definitely the man. Nice.

Unknown said...

Bishop please school this guy on the
Implications of sex b4 marriage according
To the bible.
As for me, no further comment.

Eze said...

Supported, a child is a child, it doesn't matter how the child came about

Eze said...

Supported, a child is a child, it doesn't matter how the child came about

Unknown said...

Bishop please school this guy on the
Implications of sex b4 marriage according
To the bible.
As for me, no further comment.

NovenaIcon said...

Brymo lyk seriously...is dat what ur bible told u..or is dat d way ur forfathers lived n had u...Good radiance to bad rubbish

Unknown said...

You love her so much.You pound her toto without condom and pour ur **** inside her.But marriage is not on ur mind.One word.Liar

NovenaIcon said...

Brymo lyk seriously...is dat what ur bible told u..or is dat d way ur forfathers lived n had u...Good radiance to bad rubbish

Unknown said...

Good to know


OKORO UPGRADED**

Adeiza said...

Very silly thoughts. D boy go school sef?

Paris said...

"Marriage was made for men to get assistance from women and vice-versa"
What does he mean ?
So he's trying to justify baby mama trend ?
Akuko!

Unknown said...

Good 4 him

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Unknown said...

Well said

Anonymous said...

Fuck marriage, I need a piece of paper to prove my love... Marriage is over rated

Unknown said...

Silly excuse,i dnt blem u guys but d ladies dat decide to born for u!go and pay how bride price..and stop dis silly excuse.

Anonymous said...

VERULE Says-nice one.

Ethel said...

Now that's a matured guy speaking not flavour who doesn't know how to talk mtchewww but make sure u marry her Brymo.

Ottawaguy said...

Sorry Brymo or whatsoever your call yourself, that some bs logic. Some other dude then can argue that a child is a product of sex not marriage or love cos the last time I checked that the act that brings forth a child. If u love her so much to make love to her and put your child in her tummy then I don't see why u can't take it to the next step and marry her.By your logic, it simply means u can impregnate as many ladies as you like as long as you LOVE them...smh for all this ladies opening their legs for people like you sha....same bs came out from Olamide not too long ago.

Lucious Jules said...

You don't need to marry her to show her you love her abii? But you need to fuck her to show her you her. Banza kawaii

Unknown said...

Love? Nope anyone can be loved in a true definition of Love. Child should b a product of a man n woman join togeda thru marriage n those who stick to d principles of marriage

elo tasha said...

Love is divine, if u find it, preserve and keep it

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elo tasha said...

Love is divine, if u find it, preserve and keep it

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Anonymous said...

It's amazing hw pple justify d nonsense dey do.....R u supposed to av sex b4 marriage?Not judging buh dere are sum tins u don't cum out to justify wen u knw u're on d wrong side.He shuld av jst kept quiet

slimshaddy20 said...

And later u will find another ad still flow wth her too.may ur spam continue to flow oh

Unknown said...

Guys be looking for excuses to justify their fornication. A sin is a sin no matter how you justify it.








Busy Fingers.

Anonymous said...

My dear shut up . You are not wiser than God that has ordained marriage and one of the reasons is for child birth. He told a married couple Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply. Don't drag people into your sin.

Unknown said...

Apparently he's confused. Love means commitment and Marriage is commitment. Without marriage, that love is absent or perhaps incomplete. Please people should stop trying to justify irresponsible actions. God set everything in place perfectly. A child should be a product of marriage because marriage as it should be between a couple (I don't mean brothers/ sisters/ friends) is love itself. Just that in this day and age marriage has been constantly abused and misused and so has the word love. 0nly wise minds will understand. ---- C21

Mesky Da ImoFirstSon said...

But his dad married his mom...Okpo

Unknown said...

Agreed but raising a child is a product of what?

Unknown said...

Apparently he's confused. Love means commitment and Marriage is commitment. Without marriage, that love is absent or perhaps incomplete. Please people should stop trying to justify irresponsible actions. God set everything in place perfectly. A child should be a product of marriage because marriage as it should be between a couple (I don't mean brothers/ sisters/ friends) is love itself. Just that in this day and age marriage has been constantly abused and misused and so has the word love. Brymo in his words has equally basterdized the word love and marriage exactly like the society has. 0nly wise minds will understand. ---- C21

Anonymous said...

Love ko? A baby outside marriage is a product of lust...may God help you to set ur priorities right. Mrs O

Unknown said...

Story for the gods! Another baby mama alert.

Nky said...

Ok

Juleslouis said...

The person asking these questions is nosy biko.
Which one is why did u choose her, why do u want to marry her? Tsheww

Anonymous said...

Mtcheeeeeeewww...

Anonymous said...

When God said be fruitful and multiply, he said it after giving adam a wife, so yes, it is a product of marriage and love but not love alone.

ary said...

Whatever rocks your boat! Just a shame that something which was frowned upon years ago is being celebrated today

Anonymous said...

Goat. Not all pregnancies are the product of love. Some are the product of rape, incest and just simple unfettered knacking and promiscuity. if you love her, take her for your own to love and to hold. No man Will want her after you've disfigured her. How is that loving her? for those of us now clocking 15 years of marriage, sex wanes and the point is eventually that ya small Prick that You've put to work on her Will get bored. Marriage and respect for the institution and each other is what Prevents wanderlust. Stop lying to yaself

Anonymous said...

Na 2face cause all these things, it's now normal to have kids outside wedlock, Una dooooo!!

Unknown said...

HELP ME LOUD IT, #Word

Anonymous said...

Linda, She's the one that doesn't want to marry him, not the other way round. I've been saying this since but you're not listening. I know her very well, she's Annie Idibia's bestie

Nkechi J. said...

Seriously, it seems with a little cash people feel they can vomit whatever rubbish that comes to mind.
Yes children are product of love but they need to be nurtured in a healthy, united environment to maximize their potentials.
This mumu that's making this comment, apparently doesn't consider the fate of the child when other parental figure enters the picture. What happens to the child when he eventually gets married, have kids with his wife? His love child will still be with the baby mama abi; he'll leave after every visit to go back to his wife and kids as though those are better.
The kids he'll then have with his wife will appear more privileged to his time, love and attention for obvious reasons...
I can go on and on but no point responding to this senseless comment that simply glamories of this vile behavior wild seed sowing.
You made a mistake, accept was a mistake advice others better, simple. That in no way means your child is a mistake.You can't sit up there now and tell us you and your girlfriend were trying for a baby because that's planning for the baby. Ode
People need to realize there's so much more than pregnancy at stack with this new glamorization of unprotected sex.
Last I checked, HIV and a host of other STI's are still uncurable, and those curable still have major consequences.
Finally what happens when the love goes sour? Everyone wants to believe their relationship will last, but what happens when it does not and you leave that baby mama for another woman? Many result to painting you black to your child, which makes for a more unpleasant relationship with your child.
Give me a break, this guy sounds like an arrogant fool. And I say "sounds" because I don't know him and am hoping this is just a blunder!

Unknown said...

I give credit to Brymo for such a thought.But if one really loves his woman, marriage shouldn't be seen as conformance to society but rather as a pledge of self to her. Its more like burning the bridge and living knowing its just you and her against the world.

Unknown said...

Yea marriage isn't a sign of love, neither is getting her pregnant. If you truly love and value a woman, the alter would be the first place you take her to. The woman you love shouldn't be tagged as a baby mama. She deserves to be called your wife. #OkBye

Unknown said...

Brymo ure wiser than God abi. Idiot! Keep fornicating

Anonymous said...

He is trying to justify his stupidity...by saying A child is product of Love...how many bastard children out there ? U can do a lot to produce a Child out of love and also raise them in Love,peace and harmony as a Family..now this is where the Marriage comes into play .... Speak for urself..I'm married and I can never love my Kids better ..everyday with them I keep thanking my God

Flora said...

Deir lives, deir biz...

Chidinma Grace said...

Nice talk. But I hope u will end up having only one baby mama since u av claimed dt a baby is a product of love bc u can't love more dan one woman. So stick to one baby producing machine.

Unknown said...

Anuofia! Nywaz every man with his believe. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Anuofia! Nywaz every man with his believe. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Anuofia! Nywaz every man with his believe. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Anuofia! Nywaz every man with his believe. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Brymo Plz don't get it twisted, you're dead wrong. Like Fela will say, teacher don't teach me nonsense. Don't spoil our youths mind thinking that's d best way to go... Pls go back to your bible.. You've missed d point and I don't agree with u.

Anonymous said...

More power to her. Hope she doesn't regret it.

miz bonita said...

I do not believe in children outside wedlock, but then again every man to his own.

Anonymous said...

Bastardized the concept, see the irony of this statement.

Roman! said...

Brymo my guy* so much respect

Unknown said...

Hmmm

Grace n Truth said...

And the proof of love is marriage. Anthing else outside of that is lust.

Unknown said...

Issorai...

Unknown said...

U r wrong brother!
This is d kind of thinking that badtardised marriage in d first place

Unknown said...

True talk my brother

udezeobumneme@gmail.com said...

Well said brymo... Love ur response in "was the pregnancy planned"

Anonymous said...

Mk them dey there dey deceive themselves. Marriage was not created by man, but by God. So mk una dey there dey focus on man than God. Pls get ur priority & thinking straight. Do it 4 God not men. I wonder how 1 can love humans without God.

Unknown said...

Nonsense!!! When ppl make mistakes instead of em to accept the wrong, dey build a theory just to. Make their wrongs seem right

Anonymous said...

Dnt mind him.

Unknown said...

You are wrong, having a child out of wedlock is not acceptable in sight of God

Anonymous said...

People n talk chai! Am sure if u went to school u will understand his comment in his interview, he neva said he wan not going to marry but he will let u know when it's time. U guys judging n quoting bible pls tell me d man or woman here who is not of sin. Pls stop d silly comment and stop been an hypocrite. We all v sex n do soo much abortion so which one is now good. The bold step of bringing a child to d world is not easy if u don't know. Anyways u say what u like, Brymo does what he likes. Like he said he does not v to to listen to d society , he will focus on loving his lady.

Anonymous said...

People n talk chai! Am sure if u went to school u will understand his comment in his interview, he neva said he wan not going to marry but he will let u know when it's time. U guys judging n quoting bible pls tell me d man or woman here who is not of sin. Pls stop d silly comment and stop been an hypocrite. We all v sex n do soo much abortion so which one is now good. The bold step of bringing a child to d world is not easy if u don't know. Anyways u say what u like, Brymo does what he likes. Like he said he does not v to to listen to d society , he will focus on loving his lady.

Unknown said...

I don't agree wit him

Unknown said...

👍

Anonymous said...

You are as confused and ignorant as the guy himself. For your info, not everyone have sex outta wedlock and aborts. Some of us are sane like that.

Great Man said...

A life without God is like a plant without water, wish our generation will understand the need to live right and follow God's direction.

Anonymous said...

U r an irrevocable, irretrievable and irreversible fool. Go study ur holy books.

Great Man said...

Deception from the world standard.
Pls lets do the right thing.
Money is not everything.
you can be rich and still live right.

Anonymous said...

I can see u r not ready for marriage but ready for death and hell...fool

Anonymous said...

Real?Marriage was made for men to get assistance from women and vice-versa".I am disappointed in this guy, he not only disrespect his woman but all women. so women were only created to serve You men. wao no wonder some African men always enslave their wife,no wonder my hubby will always ask me why did I marry you whenever told him not to keep the house untidy.God help women.

Kanyinsola said...

Brymo swit, I really love ur lyrics dey r so so so so, m short of words, buh on this I totally disagree with u #pricknogetshoulder#

Unknown said...

"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge". (Hebs 13:4). He should better stop the blasphemy already before the anger of God will befall him.


Christ is coming sooner than we expect! Pls let's be ready.

Unknown said...

I agree wif him

SWILL MARTIN said...

#mumu assumin dem dash am hiv I'm eye 4 clear say e no good to de fuck 4 marriage

Unknown said...

You better get married and stop committing fornication

Anonymous said...

Is dat hw u came into this world? No wonder u talk rubbish. Bastard son

Anonymous said...

He can say this because it is so easy to get free sex and bring innocent children into an illegal relationship. It is like bring a child into a house without a foundation or roof... The bible calls it creating a a monument for your sins (fornication). That child is a product of fornication and it is not pure love but lust.

Nkechi J. said...

Really, am not even going to use the biblical argument, just remember we are still Africans and there are rights illegitimate children are not entitled to (even as first child) in this side if the globe.
Secondly, how can you say you love a woman but you can't commit to her, who's deceiving who? If you love her enough then give her the privilege and respect, honour her; again we are still Africans, this is not some Angelina Jolie/ Brad Pitt movie.
A woman you're not married to does not have much say in your family, this we already know.
At your demise, she gets nothing (legally), not even you're dead body, so what nonsense love is he talking about?
Someone should advice his girlfriend o, not 15 years later when he meets and marry's someone else she'll come and make noise about how heartless he is. Girl he's telling you now, you don't deserve the wife title; you better run for your life!

Unknown said...

Arrant nonsense. If you can flow with her y cant u marry her

Anonymous said...

Foolish you brymo. Go and marry. Then tomorrow u can easily day u no do again abi? So Wat r u teaching the younger generation? Ewu...

Matchfinder Katy said...

Brymo is brave to express his opinion and as long as he takes care of the child, he would be a good dad no matter whether he marries or not.

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