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Thursday, 24 April 2014

Matilda Obaseki's take on husband/wife/bestfriend relationship...

Who agrees with her?

117 comments:

Femi Daniel said...

Very well said!

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Badoo of Toronto said...

A sensible best friend shd just take the back seat.

ONYX GODWIN said...

Who is dat chick complaining bout sex in dream? Hello? Do u knw how many pple will kill 2b u? Enjoy it while it lasts jare! U probably wil never experience such pleasure in ur life again... Wat u bliv in is wat matters, spiritual ni,physical ko.. Who knows if its God's way of mking u enjoy indirectly? My dear enjoy while it lasts...

Alloy Chikezie said...

Too tiny, can't even see a word


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Anonymous said...

I think your friend should respect your friend and willing walk to the back. You can't have a grown man seating in the back, it's not proper

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha. Nice one Matilda
"U own the bed room" #truth jare, loollzz

Anonymous said...

She is so on point. Whats is d big deal?

Anonymous said...

D friends n family Wil take several seat behind abeg...

ONYX GODWIN said...

I've learnt to respect my friends relationship, ur his friends fine ,but es got a girlfriend now,let dem hav dier space. And sum girls/wives can b sooo possessive.. Anyhow,my bff forever

Anonymous said...

K

Anonymous said...

Abge any one

motunrayo olaide said...

Lols....

Anonymous said...

Well said....

@edDREAMZ said...

Any woman that try to share the front seat with the frnd wife must be very stupid and crazy as well..... Women, fyt for ur ryt abeg......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Zenki Brown said...

hmmmmm

famonzo said...

Maltilda is right on point. All correct.

Kamtochukwu Anene-Udeh said...

Lol..
I like that"I own the bedroom which is where really matters"line...She's right kinda


Anonymous said...

Na today I know say dis gurl na fool. U not only own d bedroom u own d whole house and d man sef. See u, na only bedroom be ur own. Mumu. No man shud allow his friend sit on d front seat whole his wf is in d car. It's a no no. Unless he's gay sha

Olaleye Adisa said...

Am not plssssssss. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Doyin Osoebaiyegbe said...

Well said. The friend must not rush to the front-seat until asked to do so. However, for courtesy, the wife should always leave it for her husband's best-friend.

Anonymous said...

No, I disagree with her.....jay_bliss

David (Dave_gino) said...

Brave judgment. Very correct bro. Without compromise, na so e sopos be. Ur head get oil. U know what I mean. Hey Ms Linda, make we hear your view na. Hehe

Doyin Osoebaiyegbe said...
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Tee square said...

What nonsense is that one, if my hubby is doing the driving, the passenger seat is reserved for me alone unless I am not there, but if his BF is driving , my hubby can go seat with him in front while I seat at the back, that is if there are just the three of us, but if we are more, I seat with my hubby at the back or in front with him while he drives. Full stop. No BF is taking my passenger seat unless he was already seated there before I was picked up which case I get let him till he gets down.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Of course after marriage two is company and three crowd
My wife better drop her bff especially if she's a female else she shouldn't blame any of my actions *wink*

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

In a typical Nigeria culture,the bestfriend seat in the front seat while the wife seat at the back..but abroad,the girlfriend and the wife owns the front seat..no matter what..
@AYO

Aby said...

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Yinotinto Juliet said...

i agree with her 100% but if the friend is one am not comfortable with, i will show it in such a way that my hubby will understand the handwriting without any word from me.

Mr. Fantastic said...

Don't mess with ma Angelique! They better not make you take your earrings off. Tell 'em gurl! Especially those Bini oriented boys, all empty but knowledgeable in telling a grown ass woman were her place is. Bitch-boys, I call 'em.

Hey, Linda, how are you doing? Don't worry, no insult for you today - Mimi Blog dished you some already. I ised to cuss her out each time she did but I think the girl's got some damn good reason to be bitching on you...hehehehe! Got more space in your rump? Shove this comment in there too!

Jade8221 said...

I agree with her to an extent. But i have noticed some men no get respect for their friends wife, so the sooner it is known he needs to fly to the back seat the better before it becomes something else.

tomisyn said...

Like totally! Her words were funny buh very true

lgho said...

Wow nice one...lolzzzz

Cute G said...

It's not a debating issue. Its a known course that a wife shd be her hubby's bf and vice versa.But it's also depends on the kind of relationship that existed btw them during courtship.It could also depend on d motives behind getting married. Most men enter marriage cos people feel they are of marriageable age, or they wanna bear children. Same as women

Anonymous said...

True that

dhobiz said...

Lol funny girl but dude will leave that front seat for me o,there's no two way about it

desuamannis beads said...

true

bonita bislam said...

Lols she's too right! Or better still since their position is almost a stalemate,the both of them(wife & bestfriend) should sit at the back seat.hahahah another meaning to the already twisted situation

Shoutozone said...

I dont even knw wat to agree, cus she's talkin from two fronts nd i find it hard to know wich exactly she wants us to bliv

hilary obiorah said...

It's all about compromise

SYLVIA MARTINS said...

I do

Slimy said...

I dnt agree wit her..

Lala said...

It depends on the circumstances. When I'm driving my husband sits in front and his friend sits at the back. When he is driving I head to the back and let the friend sit in front. My husband also sits at the back when I am driving and my friend is in d car. No big deal.

Anonymous said...

My husband and I live apart because of work but whenever I am around, BF scoots behind. It needs no telling.

Ugo Ukam said...

lol, She makes sense sha:)
The Beautiful Eagle

cynthia cynthia said...

Na dem sabi.......

Anonymous said...

Hehehehehe! Ehn ehn ok! Pls I tink d frd shld always sit @ d back cos d hubby now has a partner which by right is soposd to sit wit him

Steve said...

If you want to have a peaceful week or month.. No use front sick joke for women. They love it like mad.. They see it as they are in charge..

Anonymous said...

She is right tho but I am so staying in dat front seat, unless may be they came to pick me up and d guy was already seated in d front while they were coming so I dnt expect him to come down in order for me to sit. My hubby wanted me to seat at d back sometym b4 we got married so his friend could sit at d front but d way I eyed him ehn lol...he apologised and has neva tried it again...we were actually preparing 4 our wedding then...

Anonymous said...

Totally and whole heartedly agree

Anonymous said...

I love dis woman!!! I agree 1000%. I'm not married yet but whenever I have to go out wit my man and his bestie,bestie always gives me d front seat and whenever I can,I always give bestie front seat too,what's 5 mins. I've got d bedroom 24/7. Y do y'all think he put a ring on my finger?

Dance Queen, Kaffy Shares New Photos Of Her Children said...

For me as a man I can't allow that with My wife ...I'm not comfortable with seeing her male friends

BlessedC said...

Wonderfully said, I love this.

Anonymous said...

She's right..... I own the bedroom, the man, the car and that front seat you're claiming. I'm just letting you sit there to show how generous of a friend I am to my hubby's bf. So enjoy the spotlight while you can....its mine anyway and i'm willing to share :-)

Anonymous said...

Matilda should shout her mouth up nd talk to does her boyfriend snatchers sisters razz family.

Anonymous said...

Lol.. I agree jare.

Naija babe said...

I agree. But then, the only way i will seat in d back seat is if dey saw me on the road by chance and gave me ride or if i will alight soon. Many times when i have sat in d back as a girlfriend sef, my husband (boyfriend den) will park and insist i come to d front. Dats so gentlemanly. Besides, na stupid friend go dey drag front seat with wife. Even a man's mother should not drag such.

Anonymous said...

I agree with her. But Linda that second picture is gayish. Remove it or we pass a bill jailing those supporting gays.

Anonymous said...

I agree with both her suggestions.
I will never walk up to the front seat unless my best friend's wife suggest i do. Even when we are using my car (which we often do when traveling out of Abuja) i always make sure she takes the front seat. Same goes with my sisters even though i bought the cars.

I expect then to treat my "women" the same way! Dazz-all!

Anonymous said...

I just became her fan!

evalsam said...

Errrm I ain't sitn bhind oh... bestfrnd go bhind or hail a cab! #okbye!

Anonymous said...

U're soooo Pathetic&myopic in thicking! God's way indeed. Mtchewww.

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with her

Gaia said...

I totally agree with her; TOTALLY. She keeps it real, nice one!

Anonymous said...

na so I owned d bedroom and bside is not everyday tin dat his frnd will b sitting in d front seat na. abeg post o linda eheh

MISTA SANCHEZ said...

You own the bedroom abi? If you like don't wise up! Stay there make pant the wear u, is it only in your house that there is a bedroom? Other gurls have bedrooms too to own cos men like different bedrooms.

Anonymous said...

pls as an official girlfriend i own d front seat talkmore of when i bcome his wifey. Dats d way it should be.Africans una dey get courtesy for beta tin. Respect and courtsey gba kwa oku.

Anonymous said...

Lol.. I agree. And as a best friend, I allow my friend's chic to sit at the front not to talk of when He is maried. Besides, the three can't always go out together. So kin de? *Next*

Zain said...

100% in support

anonymous said...

I agree wif her 100%. The wife or gf owns d front seat as far as d hubby or bf is driving. Every other attachments get d back seat,infact he's allowed to balance at d owner's corner at d baq.

Anonymous said...

Pls shut up ur mouth. What kind of silly comment is dat, having sex in the dream IS NOT GOOD and her pastor was right, it means she has a spirit husband who won't allow her to get married. That's among the many other havoc he would cause in her life. Gosh

Anonymous said...

agree with her, not a big deal

Amarachukwu. said...

Correct girl.

shilly2k2..... i think i know Naija and i say so... said...

I totally agree with her, i think there's sense in her piece.

Steve said...

Now everyone can see clearly this little gay is mentally deranged.. I pity your poor folks..

Anonymous said...

But a grown woman can sit in the back?'
Why is this even an issue?

Anonymous said...

You must be a retard....

Miss Wow said...

you berra take ur position madam

Cute G said...

Dang! Are you for real?

Ronny said...

How is she sure she owns the bedroom? what if they are partners? you know what i mean, just asking! *confused face*

Anonymous said...

Right on point!

Anonymous said...

It shouldn't be a thing of competition, its just a case of one using his common sense. You don't expect the WIFE to seat at the back while her HUSBAND is driving? How will you feel you so called "best friend". Maybe you never jam some wife nah!! Mkat.

Eche Slimstar said...

i agreeeeeeeeeeeeeee.....


over 100% agree sef.

she's on point!

Anonymous said...

you spoke my mind

Damochedxb said...

Now I just confirmed that you are the one posting pro gay stuffs here under the guise of an anonymous poster. When you were being yabbed and torn apart by libers that time u posted those hideous photos of yours, I thought they were a lil too hard on you. Boy was I wrong. You need to be rehabilitated before you wreck yourself boy.

Anonymous said...

U'r jst d greatest fool of all tym! Stupid boy! Wen marine spirits start giving u hot sex in ur dreams, pls enjoy every bit cos ur lyf will b more miserable dan it is already!

Victor Afego said...

She is right...She owns the bedroom...

But on a serious note, it should not be a problem to a wife who seats where cos' It doesn't change the fact that she is One with her man.

Sex and Relationship said...

She is right...She owns the bedroom...

But on a serious note, it should not be a problem to a wife who seats where cos' It doesn't change the fact that she is One with her man.

AMINA LAWAL said...

I totally agree with her.

Anonymous said...

Well said, totally agree

edee said...

U don't need to insult her....just write ur opinion and move on

Anonymous said...

Alloy y is it dt everytime u comment whether here or d other side I go see "ur comment will be visible after approval" shuo! Guy na only u dey comment for blog ni? Uzooo don talk finish

Anonymous said...

FOOL !!!!! JUST SHUT UP IF U HAVE NOTHING GUD 2 SAY MUST U TALK!!!!!!!!!!

damilola fambegbe said...

I agree knw big deal sitting @ d back seat its just for few hours.

Anonymous said...

Na u know. Anyways is that your baby? She's so cute

Anonymous said...

GIRL, HE DID'NT MARRY HIS BEST FRIEND. EVERYTHING BECOMES SECONDARY. YOU ARE BESIDE HIM ALL THE WAY. NO BACK SEEAT. YOU OWN THE BEDROOM AND THE FRONT SEAT. CHEERS!

Anonymous said...

All correct. Absolutely!

APPLE said...

I have been married for many years. When my husband's best friend is around he always say's, madam sit with your husband but i always insist he sit's with his friend my husband.

Anonymous said...

Hiaan. Sit at the back? As what na? I totally agree with the fact that marriage makes the wife the bff no1. The friend should respect himself and their marriage by sitting at the back.

β£αɱɱɨɛ Alhaji said...

Respect!

Anonymous said...

Otondo...u no get head to comprehend say d bf na man? Nd na u go always wan comment twice...anumanu

Anonymous said...

Sometimes u tink frm ur anus...

Anonymous said...

Otondo...u no get head to comprehend say d bf na man? Nd na u go always wan comment twice...anumanu

Anonymous said...

That was the Same Problem I was having with my mother-in-Law. She wud always sit in Front. But After about a year into our Mariage, she suddenly Changed and started sitting at d back. I guess she I had somehow earned her respect. I had planned 2 Politely Tell her 2 be sitting at d back, but am glad it didnt come to that.

zibaintl said...

situation determines who sit in front...besides is it evryday ur husbnd's frnd comes around?....furthermore, no b front seat de mak marriage last,,so stop d emphasy of wife sitting in front.

Id said...

Truth!!! My hubby makes everyone around him.know how we are...be it his bro or friend, he makes them know he values me...so we do exactly as u if stated up there...
No calling of his friends 'uncle this or that'...

If the friend is driving, hubby sits in front with him...otherwise I sit with him in front...even if the friend was in front before they picked me up, as I smile and d me out, you buy yourself a.brIn and get to the back...

Anyways, na me be him bestie and he is mine...so no struggles for.anything

Anonymous said...

Im guessing her husband's bestfriend is a man abi bcos if she were a woman, your mouth wont be this sweet. This is a one sided article. Have u ever observed the closeness btw a man and a woman ho are bestfriends? Chances are theyv known ech other forever to foster such a relationship. One wife will now be CALM and sit in the back when others mistakenly address the friend as madam. All dis one na gist

nekilicious1 said...

U're BIG FOOL 4 insulting her,evry1 is entitled 2 their opinion,idiot lik u,mscheeew

Chika Cherry said...

Bia onyx, what r u doing here? NECO is yet to come! Better go n read!

Chika Cherry said...

Very annoying bush meat!

mamma mia luv said...

It is ur family and generation dat is razz who da bloody hell are you to call d Obaseki family Razz
Mtcheeew hiding under anno to voice out rubbish

Anonymous said...

Onyix,I think u need help.Sex in dream is from the demonic word and brings hard luck.

Mr Kev said...

No comment

Mr Kev said...

No comment.

Anonymous said...

ONYX GODWIN, u and ur friends are too young to be in a relationship so SHUT UP!!!

Emmanuel Ayeni said...

Nice one. Good judgement

Emmanuel Ayeni said...

Nice one. Good judgement

ZeeZee said...

Well said, true talk

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