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Thursday, 24 April 2014

Estranged wife of Pastor Chris Okafor accuses him of assault

Even a man of God is being accused of battery? Wow! The estranged wife of the pastor of Mountain of Liberation Miracles Ministires, Dr. Chris Okafor, has accused him of beating her up at their home in Magodo, Lagos, Punch reports.

Bessem Okafor, who has been separated from Dr Okafor for two years and lives apart from him, said she had gone to her former marital home a few weeks ago to visit her four kids who were in the custody of their father when trouble started.

Bessem told Punch
“I have not seen my children for nine months and our lawyers agreed that I could come see them at home after school hours by 5pm. I went to the house at the appointed time, but my children were not there. I had to wait outside in the compound until 10pm before my husband arrived; the children were not with him. They were later brought home by the driver about 12am. By then it was clear I couldn’t leave again, I had to spend the night. Continue...
The following morning, I bathed and dressed them for school. They pleaded with me to stay back until they returned and since I hardly spent time with them the day before, I agreed.”
A few hours after her children had left for school, Bessem received a phone call from Chris who had also left the house. He allegedly questioned her presence in the house and ordered her to leave.
When Bessem insisted on staying till her children returned from school, Chris allegedly sent a policeman who was part of his entourage to the house.

She said, 
“The policeman told me to leave the house. At that time, I was wearing only my dress. I had washed my undies and spread them to dry since I didn’t come with extra. I told the policeman that I would leave after my children returned from school. Later, Chris came in and on seeing me, he started beating me and dragged me out of the house.”
She said some policemen came to arrest her, but could not go with them because her clothes were torn. The following day after making a complaint of assault at the Isheri Police Division, she was hospitalised at the Solid Rock Hospital, in the Ojodu/Berger area.

A copy of her medical report made available to Punch said Bessem was brought in for treatment after a brawl with her spouse.
It reads in part,
“Examination revealed a middle aged woman in distress with multiple bruises, BP 140/80mmhg and pulse rate 104bpm. There was inflammation around the left knee and tenderness along the spine. She was subsequently admitted, placed on intravenous fluids and managed as case of multiple trauma secondary to domestic violence.”
The report was signed by one Dr. Ametepee T. M.
Chris, when contacted, did not respond to calls and a text message to his phone. However, Chris lawyer, Ubani, said, 
“Bessem has made all sorts of allegations against her husband,  but what she has failed to tell you is that she left her marriage of her own volition. She ended her marriage with her infidelity. She would leave her house, come back at late hours and would not tell her husband where she has been.
“The couple are already in court for divorce. This particular incident you are asking about, it was Bessem who tore her own clothes. Chris never laid a hand on her. Why did she not get a medical report from a government hospital?
“If she was truly assaulted she would have gone to the station to make a report. Then they would give her a paper to take to a public hospital. That of the private hospital is not admissible in court. Chris never refused her access to her children; they were simply brought to the church because his mother and cousin were not at home. After bringing some policemen from Isheri to arrest Chris while he was at the pulpit, she still went ahead to Zone 2 to make another report.”
The PPRO Zone 2, SP Lewi Suleimann, when contacted said, “We are still waiting to get the file transferred from the Isheri Police Station. I would not like to comment much before we get the file.”

Source: Punch

159 comments:

wilheminna moses said...

Madam oh if u ask me, na u find trouble......why wud de ask u to leave and u refused? Ife onye cho ko ofu! Ndo......

kidykuz said...

Anyhow sha..if u lyk beat her if u dnt beat....all ah know is dat jesus wasint rich physically but he has all wat he needs....

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Wish we could also here the man's side of the story.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Eugenia Ekeji said...

I don't believe any part of their tales. Both parties are lying even the said lawyer.

Anonymous said...

Why would she stay over without his consent?
That is trespass, they should have clear cut agreements and stick to it.

Why would you sleep over and refuse to leave?

Am a woman but lets not go looking for issues

bonita bislam said...

The rate at which women are being turned into cows and punching bags is very alarming.And the annoying part is that this same men cannot face their men folk outside.Their flexing of muscles only ends in the house.
And to think that he is a pastor is a big shame.I wonder what goes on in his close with members of his church if his wife can be battered like this!

Anonymous said...

Y u sleep dear wen u no dey marry am again

Anonymous said...

Y u sleep dear wen u no dey marry am again

Anonymous said...

Too bad #bright bravo#

Celex said...

Nawawooooooo,wonders shall never end

Debbie Chelsea said...

No comment

dhobiz said...

Lie lie pastor and attorney,if only people eye go clear for all these new generation pastors full of lies and deceit.

Anonymous said...

Na wa for naija

PLEASE MAKE IT STOP: NUDE BRIDES

CHERRYGURL said...

I have a feeling that, she is not telling the truth.
I am i not in support of any man beating his wife and also not in support of a woman making up stories or allegations just to tarnish her husband's image.
Let God be the judge.


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Zenki Brown said...

if a man cannot manage/controll his home, hw can he den control his congregation/church??. gdmoni Linda nd Libers.

desuamannis beads said...

Accusations n counter accusations only God knows d truth

Olaleye Adisa said...

Thank God this one is Man of God not APC member. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Daniel Midas said...

Shame On the pastor if this is true and also shame on the woman if its a lie!!

God have mercy!!

Anonymous said...

B like say na domestic violence dey reign now. Saint pastor chris we hear u. Infidelity my ass. Abeg go settle wit ur wife & stop hookin up rubbish story. Man of God 4 mouth

JO said...

Good thing women now know they have rights and how to go about domestic violence. Let the guilty person be caught and face the law

MISTA SANCHEZ said...

They should just shove a podium in his ass for such act, what nonsense! Pastor for that matter

Sam Ekwuribe said...

I smell foul play in this matter...its almost evident that the woman is going out of her way to look for trouble.

I dont believe she was beaten up based on the medical report. why will someone attack your 'knee and behind your back' leaving the 'face and other more accessible areas of the body?

If you are estranged for 2 years, is it not enough that she was allowed to pass the night, why push her luck further on the 2nd day?

I hope they resolve their issues. But in this case, i clearly think the man is the true victim!

Angie Cape said...

What could she stand to gain if she's lying.
By their fruits, we shall know them! ; not judging tho.


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Steve said...

So now who do we believe? For their pocket.

STERN said...

Na wa! The evil dat men of God do these days makes the devil dance etighi.

Anonymous said...

Marry a bad woman and you are doomed. "She allowed you to come see your children and you decided to sleep over"hmm. You woke up the following morning instead of leaving the house, you decided to stay back after everyone had gone out? What were you staying back for? Were your plans to poison the man's food or do something else in his house on his absence? Then later he called you and asked you to leave then you refused? Na waa oo, woman you never talk wetin carry you go the house. Am sure those men deceiving you while you were married and fucking you has left you and your eyes have cleared. Pls face your life and don't try to bring the man down for nothing.

Anonymous said...

Madam you brought this upon yourself. You know the rules; come by 5pm and don't sleep over. Women are just devils. So you now listen to your children more than the law.

Anonymous said...

this is bad well God will help

Anonymous said...

Mtweee she is a devil, she deserve to be detained in police custody... She is looking for her way back to that innocent pastor... Devil is a lair. Some women are senseless sha

Shoutozone said...

I was about callin Pastor Chris names befor his lawyer came in to change d direction of d whole story... Culd it be dat dis woman is jst lookin for an avenue to damage d pastor's reputation? Dat wud b very bad of her if true, regardin d fact dat she constituted a greater deal to thr divorce. Now I get why d court dint initialy give her custody of her 4kids

Anonymous said...

That lawyer shld stfu, she is crazy abi? There was no altercation abi? She just tore her clothes like a raving lunatic n ran to the police to make a report? Most men that call themselves MOG, I wonder the kainda life they live this days, just imagine!!!! And one stupid bribed lawyer is there ultering nonsense.

Anonymous said...

Ubani contradicted himself! Said she why didn't she go to the police station to make a report! YEt he said she brought policemen to the house! However I fault the woman because she was asked to leave the house and she refused!

Anonymous said...

Any man dat beats a woman is a dog n it shall never b well with him dat is wat i knw...*Amarachi*

Anonymous said...

My coronation to d whole story is dat d woman should take her eyes out of Chris n face her unfaithful live she chose to live, how can a married woman n a pastor wife left home n returned back late? I believe dat d woman av outside date n now dat d hubby av broke up with her due to her undue character let go n face her warrant.

tobechi said...

Smh.....wat is dis wrd turnin in2?

JOYCHY said...

Is a Pastor not supposed 2 be an example?????
Who do we even believe here?? Lies Lies Lies..
WhEn members go 4 counselling 2 dere pastors about dere cheating husbands/wives, u ask dem 2 pray & believe God! Now u cant even handle ur own mess. SUCH A PITY!!

Anonymous said...

i jst hope ur mission is not to tear down his ministry...... Sipping my cold kunnu aya

Anonymous said...

My coronation to d whole story is dat d should take her eyes out of Chris n face her unfaithful live she chose to live, how can a married woman n a pastor wife left home n returned back late? I believe dat d woman av outside date n now dat d hubby av broke up with her due to her undue character let her go n face her warrant.

Milly Pee said...

Why should you sleep there? Just admit u want him back. yeye woman.

Anonymous said...

Dafuq with assaults nawdayz huh!! F**kin world of coward men! #jacksonSAYSsoVIAanonymous#

Anonymous said...

Abeg I don't believe this woman jare why was the picture blurred,we women have to take things easy with our spouse or partner,let's come down from our high horse and beg even when our partner s are the one at fault,am not saying all the time but sometimes. That is how things can't go wrong in our relationships.

Anonymous said...

I hate Nigeria...women have no right!!!! what is wrong with that nation...I am sick and tired of hearing this nonsense!!!!

Theodora said...

Nawa o

Uyi Ogbeide said...

From all indications, i think the woman is a trouble maker o. I mean You both have lawyers, you were instructed by your lawyers to see them on a particular day, ur stay was extended till d following day, rather than do the needful n peacefully leave the house, you decided to overstay your welcome. She could have easily waited for another meeting day with the kids as will be arranged by her lawyers, besides, after the said divorce, there's provision for you to see your kids at certain times depending on arrangement. If you could stay away from your kids for over 9months or so, i wonder the kind mother you be o. Im sure she's trying to tarnish the man's image by all means because he is a pastor? Not condoning DV but this one looks more like she assaulted herself. My 2 cents abeg.

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately domestic violence does not respect any person, class, profession or wealth

If any one had ever said to me a year ago that my husband would beat me I would have laughed

Please continue highlighting the stories it is a big malaise in Nigerian society especially because the victims are always under so much pressure to stay, forgive and be quiet

SL

Dee Tee said...

Hmmm

Anonymous said...

One can say without further investigations that this woman is troublesome. You were given a time for you to visit and go, not time to come and stay to go when u wish giving excuse with children that would even want you to stay forever. Go and tear your cloth in London or U S. Not here. You are lucky he is a pastor, you would have been playing with fire.

Anonymous said...

She must be regretting her divorced action especially after 2years and no man coming her way. Secondly wen it was 10pm, wouldn't she left for another day? Thirdly, after dressing d kids for sch, what else was she waiting for? Women! She had plan B. Sorry for d assault biko.

juliet ju said...

women nawooo, is only God dat kns d truth, hw can she leave home without letting her hubby to kn her where abt. woman leave police mata and make up w ur family.

juliet ju said...

women nawooo, is only God dat kns d truth, hw can she leave home without letting her hubby to kn her where abt. woman leave police mata and make up w ur family.

Cagey Berry said...

Its obvious the lawyer ιƨ playing a defensive game. Please end domestic violence now. Its unthinkable.

bbm 7439955a said...

I love the husband lawyer. Great lawyer indeed... I wish why I never studied law. Just want to be good in turning black into pink. Cheers. ENGR Emy

Anonymous said...

what is the use of the photo when we cant see anything

Geraldine Odey*geraldopino* said...

Like I really I don't undastand wat is going on

Duhriss Onyinye said...

It's quite sad that pastors who should be preaching against divorce are promoting it. The world is indeed coming to an end!

Duhriss Onyinye said...

It's quite sad that pastors who should be preaching against divorce are promoting it. The world is indeed coming to an end!

The General's Wife said...

It breaks ma heart wen I read stories like dis..all that I can think of is: there was a time dese two warring people were soo much in love....soo much in love n shared everything....n made beautiful kids...now dese two peeps can't stand demselves...all I wonder about is: what happened? How did it be become soo bad it got out of hand?! May God help us n bless our marriages,give us love,patience,understanding n may He keep d devil n his agents far far Away from all marriages.amen!

Q1 said...

This woman is very stupid,is this how things are done with one's ex while still married to another?in fact she deserves sheke ukwu

evalsam said...

She tore her own clothes? Like seriously????? Lady pls get a good lawyer... I av a feeling ur gonna need it

Q1 said...

Linda is like u have some set of people's comment that u post cos I had comment on ur site countless time without it been posted.

Q1 said...

This woman is very stupid,is this how things are done with one's ex while still married to another?in fact she deserves sheke ukwu

Anonymous said...

Stupid woman.

lillycrown said...

y she no go house since d kids no dey house.she sef like trouble .gud for u.

Amarachukwu. said...

Wolves in sheep clothing.

hilary obiorah said...

'Man' of God. He is a man isn't he, being of God doesn't exempt him from the excesses of ordinary men.

ANOINTING said...

May God deliver us

ANOINTING said...

may God have mercy

Opelicious Morgann said...

I wonder why people cannot handle their issues in a matured fashion. The owner of the house told you to go. Why couldn't you lodge in a guest house for the night? Or did your lawyer tell you to overstay?

The so called man of God too should have been more civilized than this because in the end, it will backfire.

LAZY READER said...

Abeg madam u went there to make troubles and u got it!

Anonymous said...

Even if they're divorce,she shouldn't be denied of her kids+ Chris okafor abi wotz that your name agn, biko wot re you preaching? I jst tire for all diz pastors that don't lead by example*Flora*

RHOSE E said...

YOUR AGREEMENT WITH THE LAWYER IS TO VISIT THE KIDS AFTER SCHOOL HOURS BY 5PM ABI? WHEN U WAITED AND U DIDNT SEE THEM, U SHOULD VE GONE BACK AND THEN COME BACK THE NEXT DAY. U DIDNT ONLY SEE THE KIDS, U WASHED UR DRESS, U WANTED TO WAIT FOR THE KIDS TO CM BK FROM SCHOOL WITHOUT TAKING PERMISSION FROM MR OKAFOR IF TO WAIT FOR THE KIDS TO COME BACK. FOR PEACE SAKE U WOULD VE LEFT HIS HOUSE QUIETLY, SEE WHAT U VE CAUSED URSEF NW. ND MR OKAFOR, U MUST BE A BEAST FOR BEATING UP A WOMAN.

omalichaspeaks.blogspot.com said...

This is too messy. I can't wrap my head around why disgruntled couples choose to air their dirty laundry....especially when they have kids.
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Anonymous said...

na wa o mountain of liberation miracle ministres, seeking for attention from mountain of fire and miracle ministries. lol

Anonymous said...

When did infidelity becomes a crime. Anyways, I cheat on my husband because he cheats too. I just have to be smart and not be caught.

Anonymous said...

God please deliver us all, though you alone knows the truth between this couple

my opinion said...

this woman does not look beaten and assaulted to me o, and besides the story looks one kind.when the kids insisted u stayed, why did u not get clearance from their dad first after all na him house, or better still u can go see them at the church or even better still, get a court injunction that will enable the kids spend holidays periods with you.

Anonymous said...

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!! TIME FOR A CHANGE!!!

damilola fambegbe said...

Its well ooo

Anonymous said...

See how she is.. useless woman. A woman holds her home and keeps everytin together. She mst av done d unexpected for it to get 2 dis level

Okoro said...

Hmmm

Anonymous said...

Na wa o....so who do we believe now?

Uugoluv gracy said...

Ds domestic violence is much in naija...

chemmywalata walata said...

I dunno who to support from what I read up there but e be like say the woman sef na trouble maker lol anyway man of God u shouldn't have beat her for what so ever she did to u

Anonymous said...

Did u agree wit d lawyer dat u wil pass d nite? A house u left 2yrs bak. Som women like to heap wahala on demselves sha. Maybe she came to pour juju in d house. D man is vry right to use any means to throw u out of d house. Oniranu jati jati. Onirinkunrin obirin. Mtcheeeeeew!

Neino brown said...

Is there life let them live it when there were enjoying them self we never new them by dan

Anonymous said...

wow i love it wen a woman is being beaten up with thier stupid sturborness.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY

Anonymous said...

Nawao! Pastor Ƒσя that matter why beating up her what of the wound she had from beating you people shld allow her τ̅☺ seee her children that's all I have τ̅☺ say.is not easy τ̅☺ stay without seeing your kids her children Ƒσя that matter

MOST HANDSOME said...

LOL look @ this Anonymous slut.
Well back to the matter, my judgement is this.


WOMAN what do you want from the poor man?
Are you tired of fucking around?
Your boyfriend won't marry you?
Do you now see the importance of family?
Why did you refuse to leave when asked?
Why did you wash your pant?
Do you want to move into the house?

Well that been said, I say you LIE
Go away Jezeebel and never return..
Pastor don't beat her again. She wants to bring you down. She has failed. Amen.. (Ladies take note)

»»»Heir to the throne of Zamunda«««

James Eniafe said...

It is called and spelt are "hear" Oga. Guess you are not up to speed yet on the AutoCorrect function on the Nokia Lumia

Anonymous said...

Bless u!!

Eche Slimstar said...

i dont know who to believe...

but do not ever beat a woman, men!

Julie mama said...

U cheat on ur husband and ur proud to say it??? U are a promiscioz beast hiding under d umbrella of him cheating on u ,a woman is supose to be praying to God to change her cheating husband in order to keep her home ,and ur there partnering in his crime, u are a disgrace to women and will surely be caught and throne out idiot. As for dat pastor wife, she deserve all she got, u no evenhappy say dem allow U sleep ova and U want to ova stay, so wat if he is a man of God, is he not a human? Rubish. Linda if i find dis coment, u go hear wi!

APPLE said...

Another man of DEVIL!!! That lawyer is an IDIOT!

Julie mama said...

U are a fool for cheating ƱƦ humband, u will soon be caught

Julie mama said...

U cheat on ur husband and ur proud to say it??? U are a promiscioz beast hiding under d umbrella of him cheating on u ,a woman is supose to be praying to God to change her cheating husband in order to keep her home ,and ur there partnering in his crime, u are a disgrace to women and will surely be caught and throne out idiot. As for dat pastor wife, she deserve all she got, u no evenhappy say dem allow U sleep ova and U want to ova stay, so wat if he is a man of God, is he not a human? Rubish. Linda if i find dis coment, u go hear wi!

Ada Nnewi said...

The poor woman was only trying to stage a come back into her estranged hubby's life. She went and waited till night,then slept over,got the kids ready for sch and decided to stay again d second day. But the whole thing backfired

OLAOPA ABIODUN said...

That ur husband cheats is not a liberty for u to cheat o. You will face your punishment from God just as your husband will face his. You don't have to destroy your body just because your husband is destroying his. Christ may come while u are at it leaving your husband to live longer to enable him repent and make heaven while u rot in hell.

OLAOPA ABIODUN said...

Exactly my mind. She has been abandoned like piece of trash by he men friends and now she wants to force her way back to the Pastor's house. If d man wants. To take u back, it has to be willingly, not by u forcing your way in. Outside is sweet, see it now.

fidelis fred said...

Clash between two Groups over Girl-friend Snatch.........@fredfidelis.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!! TIME FOR A CHANGE!!!

Anonymous said...

It's high time women started making their own money and building their own house since Nigerian men doesn't have the common sense to know that courtesy demands that they leave the house for the woman and kids when problem arises. When they marry u they will know that u re a woman and should stay at home to mind the kids but when problem arises they won't know that u re still a woman and should stay and mind the kids, rather they will throw her out after wasting ur precious years and reducing u to nothing. May God help that man...treat me right, u'll see an angel; treat me wrong, u'll see a bitch!!!

Anonymous said...

It's high time women started making their own money and building their own house since Nigerian men doesn't have the common sense to know that courtesy demands that they leave the house for the woman and kids when problem arises. When they marry u they will know that u re a woman and should stay at home to mind the kids but when problem arises they won't know that u re still a woman and should stay and mind the kids, rather they will throw her out after wasting ur precious years and reducing u to nothing. May God help that man...treat me right, u'll see an angel; treat me wrong, u'll see a bitch!!!

Assem Bassey said...

there is no smoke without fire

Assem said...

there is no smoke without fire

Anonymous said...

That is not the first time she will be beaten if you do not belive her ask their former landlord at no2 akintoye close off sule abore ojodu Berger Lagos or any of there co tenant the only think that I will advice her to do is to stay away from the man life is too short ask the parent of funmi

Anonymous said...

Trouble in the of house of God.

Steve said...

Lazy reader,, u suppose be lazy writer.. ''Make Troubles'' oh RIP English..

Anonymous said...

That is not the first time she will be beaten if you do not belive her ask their former landlord at no2 akintoye close off sule abore ojodu Berger Lagos or any of there co tenant the only think that I will advice her to do is to stay away from the man life is too short ask the parent of funmi

Anonymous said...

That is not the first time she will be beaten if you do not belive her ask their former landlord at no2 akintoye close off sule abore ojodu Berger Lagos or any of there co tenant the only think that I will advice her to do is to stay away from the man life is too short ask the parent of funmi

Anonymous said...

That is not the first time she will be beaten if you do not belive her ask their former landlord at no2 akintoye close off sule abore ojodu Berger Lagos or any of there co tenant the only think that I will advice her to do is to stay away from the man life is too short ask the parent of funmi

Anonymous said...

That is not the first time she will be beaten if you do not belive her ask their former landlord at no2 akintoye close off sule abore ojodu Berger Lagos or any of there co tenant the only think that I will advice her to do is to stay away from the man life is too short ask the parent of funmi

Anonymous said...

Why should she not be allowed to have access to her children. That's the question. Under the child's right act, of which Nigeria supports, the children at that age are to be with their mum until when they are in their teens. The pastor didn't say she was a bad mum only a bad wife - allegedly. The children miss their mum. Why are they kept at the church until midnight because no one can carefor them? Abuse.

Anonymous said...

How do you know she was unfaithful. All it takes is for a man to accused a woman of infidelity when there are marital issues and gbam! Most people believe it. That is the African way.

lawyer said...

this lawyer is not serious. someone was beaten a man and the first thing she should do is go get a police report before going to the hospital. is this a joke. and who gets to tell her what kind of hospital to go to. of course there are injuries on her knees b/c they were dragging her out of the house.

and those saying why did she stay. The man didn't let her see the kids till midnight. After she had seen them for two seconds, they went to bed, woke up the next day and begged her to stay. She said yes. the man didn't say don't stay in my house. after she decides to stay, washes her panties and stuff, he tells her to get out. I bet if all this didn't happen, when the kids got back, he would have told them she left on her own. and she's a bad mother

Anonymous said...

I hate batterers. They are cowards in my book. Even a supposed "man of God" a%%oles. I'm not interested in his side. The fact that he raised his hand against her if enough to tell me that the man is.....I don't even know what to call him.

Salem Dikalu said...

I wish people will read the story properly before making comments. I am privileged to know both of them very closely. I have spoken with both of them this morning when i saw this stories flying. The woman have had to use me to get close to Pst Chris's mentors. I know their response at one time or the other. Truly, its painful, but we all know how it is when we take an action with an intended intention but it turns out bad. She moved out on her own volition...which is a normal things with women and even marriage, she was only trying to "famz" but it backfired. Now, she is employing scandals to get back at him. We all know how this works, She just doesnt want to go without a fight. I wouldn't say Pst Chris is totally innocent, after all i am not in their bedroom, but i am 100% sure it was a wrong move gone sour. She thinks hitting him will affect the church.

Anonymous said...

Its 'as' not 'are' oga correct! Tnk mi later!

Anonymous said...

d woman is evil.

Anonymous said...

Nigerian men doesn't? Honey plurals don't always follow. Nigerian men DON'T.

Anonymous said...

James Eniafe,na WA for you ooooo,jealousy wan finish you die,habaaaa

Anonymous said...

Ladies and gentlemen on lib. This common gbagaun people shell should be dealt with. There's nothing like 'some people DOESN'T'. If it's plural, then it's don't.

Maggie said...

@Eniafe Mr. Oxford Dictionary...it is spelt *as* and not *are* thank me now.

Anonymous said...

What is new about that. There is one here in Maryland that was always beating up his wife. He says he has stopped.

Initialspark said...

Lol, English master James. Please read what you wrote again. In an attempt to correct Bonario, your English came out worse. Mcheeweeee

Anonymous said...

wow!!! all pastors are demonic

Anonymous said...

a LAWYER IS PAID TO VINDICATE A CLIENT, HE IS DOING HIS JOB BT LIEING AND APINTING AN UNWORTHY PICTURE OF THE WOMAN IN ORDER TO PROTECT AND COVER UP FOR HIS CLIENTS. sOME PEOPLE SAY RUBIISH WITOUT CAREFULLY ANALYZING THE SUBJECT MATTER.sHE WOULD STILL HAVE LEFT BUT WOULD SHE LEAVE NAKED? WHY DO NIGERIA CULTURE AND SYSTEM FIGHT THE WOMEN, EVEN THE WOMEN FIGHT THEMSELVES. THE MAN IS GUILTY OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND SHOULD BE PUNISHED. HE COULDNT KEEP/MANAGE A WOMAN THAT SHE HAD TO LEAVE, HE HAS FAILED AND FAILURE IS HE.

Anonymous said...

the only thing that can make me lay my hands on my wife is only if she insults or touches my mom for any reason, there are better ways in treating a woman's f*up....bros in d house abeg make una no dey beat women. na beg oooo, Pastor Chris Okafor is a bleaching idiot like dencia...they all stink. his hell fire is different to non-bleaching pple..as for bleashing pple, na crude oil fire go burn them. smeelling idiot, make him go fight tinubu or jonathan abi na boko haram if him get mind. oloriburuku pastor

Itohan Tlove said...

Serious wahala.

Anonymous said...

Olaopa you will rot in hell. Can't you give advise without swearing.

Cute G said...

False prophets.

Anonymous said...

Linda i just saw this on your blog. I know them very well. I lived in the same compound with them before. This woman has jumped from a storey building before because she was trying to run away so she would not be beaten. She was even pregnant at the time she jumped. It was God that saved her.

Sokari Dappa Andrew-Jaja said...

Madam, when you did not find the kids at home, you should have gone back to your husband and repeat the visit the next day. While you were waiting,your former husband returned by 10pm and the children returned by 12pm. What were you doing with your former husband for 2 hours?

You even had the boldness to sleep over at your former husband's house and to remove your undies to wash them. Could you not tell your current husband; Dr. Chris or any church member to come and pick you up with a vehicle? Your excuse that it was late is very lame.

Your lawyer can arrange for you to visit your children in school, park or eatry or for them to come and visit you periodically.

Anonymous said...

Madam wetin na? Stay house overnight, agree to stay next day, wash undies. E get wetin u dey find? As for you 'man-OF-god' deceive all the mugu wen go fall o. I nor even know weda I be mugu for one person 'church' self.

Anonymous said...

You anonymous 2:54pm, what is 'shell be dealt with'. All you grammatical pedants, as you try to correct one error, you fall into a new one. What's your excuse? Typo? Now, search for my error because I am one of thee!

Sylvia George said...

I am sure you men who stupidly sit and give your baseless comments dont have daughters or sisters or aunties who are victims of these kinds of assualts,the sad truth is that majority if our nigerian men do this only that most the victims are always scared to come out and speak out,but this one was brave enough to do so,then why the castigating?this brings us back to the banker lady who was murdered in cold blood by her husband,if she has come out to speak like this I am sure she would be alive right now.

Sylvia George said...

I am sure you men who stupidly sit and give your baseless comments dont have daughters or sisters or aunties who are victims of these kinds of assualts,the sad truth is that majority if our nigerian men do this only that most the victims are always scared to come out and speak out,but this one was brave enough to do so,then why the castigating?this brings us back to the banker lady who was murdered in cold blood by her husband,if she has come out to speak like this I am sure she would be alive right now.

Anonymous said...

What does she stand to gain by bringing her husbands name down is the question that should be on your lips,not castigating the lady who has come out to speak,at what point do you men stop and think,what if she was your daughter,sister or aunty?I am sure you all remember the banker lady who was murdered in cold blood by her husband,if she had come out this way to speak out then she would have been alive.

Anonymous said...

@anonymous 9:17 you forgot to mention the gbagaun too Abi that one too na English? Since you noticed the 'shell'. Oponu aiyerada. You're probably one of those people that commit those common blunders like those who never went to school.

Anonymous said...

THAT IS NOT THE ISSUE HERE. WHETHER SHE CHEATS OR NOT. SHE MISSES HER CHILDREN. THEY ALSO MISS HER. WHY DEPRIVE THEM OF EACH OTHER? REGARDLESS OF HOW HE FEELS ABOUT HER, SHE IS THEIR MOM AND UNDER LAW (CHILD'S RIGHT ACT), SHE IS TO LIVE WITH THEM UNTIL WHEN THEY ARE 18 NOT HIM.

Anonymous said...

SEE MUMU OF THE HIGHEST ORDER! DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE MOTHERLESS? OR TO BE DEPRIVED OF YOUR CHILDREN FOR AN AMOUNT OF TIME? ITS ONE OF THE WORST FEELINGS EVER. PLEASE READ SOME COMMENTS BELOW OF PEOPLE WHO SAY SHE ONCE JUMPED FROM A STORY BUILDING WHILE PREGNANT TO AVOID HIM FROM ALMOST KILLING HER WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. HE JUST WANTS TO MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN TO SO CALLED UPGRADE HIMSELF

Anonymous said...

WHICH KIND PASTOR BE THAT? SHE IS NOT DEMANDING FOR MONEY FROM HIM. SHE JUST WANTS TO SEE/ SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HER KIDS. HE IS A BEAST AND FAKE PASTOR IF HE PREVENTS HER.

Anonymous said...

FREE THE WOMAN O! ITS NOT EASY KEEPING AWAY FROM YOUR CHILDREN. EVEN IF SHE IS A BAD WIFE HE HAS NO RIGHTS TO DEPRIVE HER OF HER CHILDREN. ITS ENOUGH FOR ONE TO BECAME DEPRESSED AND DO THINGS WITHOUT THINKING IT THROUGH.

Anonymous said...

I and my wife used to attend that church until i discovered that my that prophet chris okafor invite my wife to his office telling her that her husband was in danger, He ended up forcefully having sex with my wife. She was so shocked and went back to confront him and maybe give him a chance to explain himself. he did exactly the same thing to her. She told me and i stopped her from attending the church. He walks around with security so i cant even get my pound of revenge on him. He is a beast and a very fake man of God.

Anonymous said...

Tnx hun...my bad *typo*

ZeeZee said...

All these domestic violence stories are really makig it easy to see that Satan is working on people and he has entered a season

Anonymous said...

Okafor ur choir mistress is the one warming ur bed now what a shame u even gave her a car she has been staying in ur house for months now amaka joel what a shame we the church members all know about that

Anonymous said...

Okafor after u finished with ur deaconess chioma u promissed her marriage now its amaka and oge

Anonymous said...


Many of u are just judging the woman wrongly, the mans lawyer is a professional in his job to defend his client but that does not mean he is telling the truth. I don't think the woman left her matrimonial home becos of infidelity, but becos of beating or maybe it is the pst that sent her packing. I think pastor is cheating on her with the church members, then when she complain he will beat her . Think about this, if she left the home by her self she wouldn't stay behind when she got the opportunity to visit her children. We can all see that she don't want to leave her matrimonial home, by staying back to wait for the kids to come back from school. The pastors eyes are outside. He thinks he has arrived and now sent his wife out of the house. Now u are paying lawyers to help u to lie, WHAT A SHAME.

Nellie said...


Many of u are just judging the woman wrongly, the mans lawyer is a professional in his job to defend his client but that does not mean he is telling the truth. I don't think the woman left her matrimonial home becos of infidelity, but becos of beating or maybe it is the pst that sent her packing. I think pastor is cheating on her with the church members, then when she complain he will beat her . Think about this, if she left the home by her self she wouldn't stay behind when she got the opportunity to visit her children. We can all see that she don't want to leave her matrimonial home, by staying back to wait for the kids to come back from school. The pastors eyes are outside. He thinks he has arrived and now sent his wife out of the house. Now u are paying lawyers to help u to lie, WHAT A SHAME.

Anonymous said...

I was in that womans shoes at one period in my life.The mistake she made was to sleep over and washing pant and when you were asked to leave you refused..why cheapen yourself in the first place .you have dignity to protect.Now the lawyer is accusing you of infidelity because thats one loopehole the church can accept for divorce forgetting that there are children in the marrage who grow up angry for destroying their mothers image..You are lucky becos in my own case I was not able to have access to my children for three years becos they their father was relocating them from one place to the other and being a military man and military regime he got away with a lot of things but I waited patiently and now I have all my grown up children with me..So don't push it, get your life together and live your life well.Its not the end of life. BE HAPPY.

Kharis said...

Shame on u woman dnt u hve any fear for God.Why try to disgrace the man of God like tht.U hve decided to leave ur matrimonial home be content u cant hve it both ways

Kharis said...

Shame on u woman dnt u hve any fear for God.Why try to disgrace the man of God like tht.U hve decided to leave ur matrimonial home be content u cant hve it both ways

Anonymous said...

KEEP IT REAL!WHAT TIME DOES DR. PASTOR CHRIST OKAFOR HAS FOR ALL THIS NONSENSE.BELIEVE IT OR NOT IT IS WHAT IT IS.THIS WOMAN IS VERY STUBBORN.SHE HAS A MISSION,AS A WOMAN SHE APPROACHED THIS WRONGLY.MAY THE GOOD LORD FORGIVE US.

CARDENAS NAIDA said...

My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

CARDENAS NAIDA said...

My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.
i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.
Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

Anonymous said...

I noticed someone posted here on 24th April 2014 and accused Dr Chris falsely of being " a bleaching pastor". Its sad the extent people will go to write false inaccurate things about people they've never met face to face. If this person has ever met Dr Chris Okafor face to face or seen any of his 4 kids face to face, then you will know that DR. CHRIS OKAFOR DOES NOT BLEACH HIS SKIN. His fair complexion is all natural. This is evidenced by the fact that his 4 kids are ALL EXTREMELY FAIR in complexion to the point that his last born daughter called Amarachi is an ALBINO. How would he and his ex wife been able to give birth to such beautiful light complexioned kids if one on them did not carry this recessive gene of albinoism? Again to the point, if you have ever seen him face to face, you will notice that his eyes are extremely pale light brown in Color, a very light hazel Color. Not the normal black or brown iris a black person has. The Iris part of his eyes are like Caucasian light hazel. One of his eyeballs shifts to the left like albinos. This is possibly because he may carry this recessive gene. Its simple biology people not bleach. I think whoever posted that owes him an apology now. Amarachi his last born is living proof that Dr Chris Okafor has never bleached his skin. There are also inaccurate comments on here regarding sexual scandals and cars given to female choir members. Why was there no mention of all the cars he has given to almost ALL the male pastors in the church such as the Prado given to Pastor Henry or the Camry given to Pastor Kevin and almost 22 cars he has given to his other male pastors & church members generally? Why is there no mention of all the widows he presents with one bag of rice & cash of N100,000 during Sunday service to feed themselves & pay their children's school fees. Why is there no mention of all the young men & women he has empowered through COWOM by providing them basic training in hair dressing, makeup artistry, tailoring, paying their University fees. He also buys them the income generating equipment they need such as sewing machines, makeup kits, barbing clippers etc Why is there no mention of the gentleman he and a few other members donated N1,500,000 to during a live Sunday service to pay for his certification as an airline pilot. Didn't we all see that live on Liberation TV with our own eyes. How many pastors give away such to total strangers on live TV? What of the Reggae musician we all saw him give N250,000 cash on Live Liberation TV to go and pay for the production of his Christian album and to pay for rent & cut his waist length dreadlocks etc. Please watch www.liberationcity.org/liberationtv/ & see. Why is it only the money he and other church members donated collectively to Amaka the choir lady for her album launch that is always falsely used to falsely accuse this kind & compassionate Man Of God of sex scandals? Why is he falsely accused of sex scandals with Amaka if at all he gave her a car? He frequently gives cars to his pastors whether male or female. When people give him these cars/ things as gifts, he does not keep them, gives them out to ALL his pastors & other needy church members. If you go to his church, it's almost impossible to see him, security & protocol is tight, even if you have an appointment, he will not ever agree to see you without other pastors being present and most times, he will bring into his office upto 5 or 6 people that have an appointment AT THE SAME TIME and attend to all of them together with 2-3 pastor in attendance in the room so I don't see any truth in the allegations here by the man that posted on April 25th falsely accusing him of sleeping with his wife in the church office. This cannot be true. Thank you for reading.

yembi said...

Human nature is such, it looks just the wrong side of others to speak ill, especially when they are the servants of God. Therefore, a servant of God must strive to be irreproachable, as they are always watched their slightest actions. May the Lord help them to have a life of near Chris.

yembi said...

Human nature is such, it looks just the wrong side of others to speak ill, especially when they are the servants of God. Therefore, a servant of God must strive to be irreproachable, as they are always watched their slightest actions. May the Lord help them to have a close life of Christ. I pray that this year 2016, the Lord restore the marital life of 3 pastors Chris. It is not good that man should be alone, even if he is God's servant.

Monica Threatt said...

I want to share a great testimony on this website on how great Priest Babaka help me in falling pregnant,me and my husband have been trying to have a baby for over 4years,but they where no luck so we decided to contact the family doctor and after all the test have been done,he said to us that my fallopian tube is not functioning.then one day i was in the office when a friend of mine who have the same problem with me, fall pregnant after she contacted Priest Babaka .she directed me to him and when i contacted him through his email and he did the purification on the pregnancy spell and in 2weeks time i was feeling some how and i went to meet the family doctor who told me that i am pregnant.if you know that you have a similar problem like this, or any fertility issue and you want to be pregnant you can contact Priest Babaka via Email:babaka.wolf@gmail.com

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