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Saturday 8 February 2014

Dear LIB readers: My bf flogged me with wire after I slapped him

From a female LIB reader. Kinda funny...
I'm a 19 year woman that has been in a relationship for 8 months with my boo, who is 34 years old. Every time my boo and I have a heated argument, I usually  slap him and then he would apologize to me, we'll then have make up sex. It's really the best time to have sex, make sense tinz. But 2 days ago he and I had our regular fights at his friends party because he was trying to collect one stupid girl's number. So while we were arguing, I slapped him in front of his friends and this guy didn't do anything till we got home. 
As I'm writing to you now, I'm at a local hospital close to my parents house because this bastard boy tied me to his kitchen door and flogged me with wire, because of a slap that used to make us have the best sex.
Libers this bastard man reads this blog, he as a matter of fact introduced me to it. Anyways he has been begging since yesterday. Should I forgive him or just fashy him. Heard once a beater always and forever a beater. advice me please because my parents have never flogged me with wire before. 

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Anonymous said...

Him go kill u

Anonymous said...

Linda this girl dey possessed

Anonymous said...

Gosh stupid girl

Anonymous said...

U need prayers Ho lo shi

Anonymous said...

Idiot girl

Anonymous said...

No. This girl is really foolish

Anonymous said...

Doing like a child. Stupid child

Anonymous said...

Common sense

Anonymous said...

God forbid. Stupid girl

Anonymous said...

Bastard

Anonymous said...

Bastard ill abuse u to the level way them go ban me from commenting

Anonymous said...

Omo radarada

Anonymous said...

Some advice. Get a life

Anonymous said...

Many of you are screaming about the age difference. I don't see it as a barrier. Prince Charles was 33, while Diana was 19 when they got married in 1981.

Anonymous said...

Lmaoooooooooooooooo foooooooooooooolllliiiissshhhhh. yayyyy nsg blogreaders need to read this!!

Anonymous said...

Once a slapper...always a slapper he should dump her

Unknown said...

The guy no beat u wella sef. No be in u still get finger type message so? Chai!!! At 19 u dey slap a 34 yr old mumu u called ur bf. Wen u 30 weytin u go do? Tell us abeg

Anonymous said...

Na all the kind things no make even ppl like linda see husband marry

Anonymous said...

U do slap him just to have sex but for once he floged u not to have sex. Get that into ur head its lovE!

Anonymous said...

Na all the kind things no make even ppl like linda see husband marry

Anonymous said...

Sh*t. That's cold. Lol

Anonymous said...

how can you slap him in front of his friends and expect him to do nothing??
im not condoning his behaviour but you shouldnt provoke him.

Anonymous said...

lol! ok this girl is a big foooooooooooooooooollllll.... this story must be a joke. too stupid on every level. laughed my butt off. Gaddammmiitt!

Kay

Anonymous said...

You slapped him in front of his friends? What were you expecting...? Grammy award?

You're silly. And your bf is silly too.

You better find a way to better your future instead of spoiling it at 19.

MUMU!


Linda...ABEG...post this

Anonymous said...

First of all why would you be dating someone that is old enough to be ur ancestor? and fear nor dey catch you, you dey slap am, the bros try self, he took you home and gave you something to hug while he peeled ur back...well served, you got what you asked for!

Anonymous said...

loool...once a beater always a beater like you said, slapping him anyhow,lool...you got what you deserved ooo,but leave him....and don't go slapping your next boyfriend.

kevs said...

Dis one na jobless fool wallahi

Anonymous said...

Dear 19 year old poster you really should keep your kinky shit between your grand daddy and you and not make his friends a part of your show. Better know which page your on. You are thinking 50 shades of grey and he is thinking 12 years a slave. Get out while you can.

Dear 34 who reads this blog and is dating someone 19. You should be married, not cradle robbing.You shouldn't beat someone you let slap you because you let it escalate. You are supposed to be an adult.

I don't care who she slapped you in front of, you beat her. To me you have a thing for kids and beating women. If you don't get a grip of your righteous mind, you are bound to be named and shamed someday soon and very publicly because of these two hobbies.

last baby said...

Linda u didn't post my comment? Hope there is no. problem?

Anonymous said...

hahahaha

Anonymous said...

I would turn the party to mine and tie you to the table and flog you right there and then. He was merciful to get home first

Anonymous said...

people should learn not to judge. people ask for our advise her and not our insults. y'all can advise peeps without spewing insults on them. the gal is only 19 so obviously she needs guidance

Unknown said...

my advice to you is 1. stop slapping him ( how would you like it, if you guys are arguing and he keeps doing that to you)
2. don't let sex be a tool to fix your argument or relationship
3.if you know you love rough sex then you might as well make it clear to him rather than indirectly slapping him.
4. it is your own decision, follow your heart and your brain. if you still want to be with him, be with him , if you don't want to then walk away. don't let people or the world be the judge of your life.

Anonymous said...

Lmfaooooo. @ 3.35 Dead! Tooo funny!

KEMS said...

LOL, LOL, LOL, LOL,

YOU ARE TOO YOUNG FOR THIS.....FACE YOUR STUDIES.

HE WOULD KEEP BEATING YOU OH

PELE OH

Anonymous said...

let the slapping and flogging continue... thats the foundation of ur freindship.... bcos he wanted to take a number from another girl... foolish college insecured girl like U 19 and Wild Already.... Playing Rihanna and Chris Brown

MissBusyBody said...

OMG! Linda!! I swear I cried from the mere stupidity of this silly girl, OMG...!! I have no words...

Anonymous said...

No be only make up sex. Oyo is ur case! (In Rita Dominic 's voice)

Anonymous said...

Instead of facing your studies and charting a course for your life, you are busy being a sex experiement to a man old enough to be your uncle or father.

Come to think of it, You have the boldness to slap someone old enough to be your father just to end up having sex. (Are You Kidding)

Do you still have parents and do they train you about what is called RESPECT! (If they do, You are a disgree to them.)

Rather than ruin your life at your tender age, I will advise you zip up and open your brain to your studies.

You don't need to rush it, Sex is not gong anywhere.

Go Face Your Studies!!!!

Debbie Chelsea said...

You deserve more!!!! Retard

Anonymous said...

stupid yeye girl

Anonymous said...

You must be very stupid, try that with me you re dead

Anonymous said...

ur a very stupid girl....becuz ur chopping sex u cant think again...hiss...

Anonymous said...

Was the wire connected to electric circuit? If no, then he didn't do anything to you.

Anonymous said...

Is that really a question? Stay and find out what is coming down the pick

Anonymous said...

Is that really a question? Stay and find out what is coming down the pick. That is an idiotic question

Anonymous said...

gurl!!!! if you keep slapping a man wathcu think is gonna happen?....you shouldn't go back to him and you should stop slap men...and try dating someone in your age range else you just goon be treated like a child....#i'm out!

Anonymous said...

Young lady, u are just too young to be in such relationship, at ur age u supposed to be thinking of something clean and soft, and most and for most if u grow up in an environment of violence I think at ur age u can say NO to that, walking out is not the issue here, but self discipline, try and discipline ur self and everything will be fine, and I think this man is old for u.

Anonymous said...

I hope u have learnt

Anonymous said...

are u high! your going out with your daddy's mate n u didn't expect that?

Anonymous said...

u need a rehab girl. at 19, u talk about sex so freely even when you find it difficult to construct a polish grammar...then to your case,who derive joy in slapping him ehh,and make up with sex,while let me tell you,sex isnt it any longer,some girl somewhere do not slap him but still sleep with him.so grow up, izuu

Anonymous said...

NOTE: l hope both of u get to read dis.

At 34 u r sexually "abusing" a 19yr old, is dis some kind of paedophile tendencies or are u just a retard or sth? I'm not surprised she slaps u. Why wouldn't she slap u, wen u have taken d food meant 4 d gods to serve children. If l can, I'd ensure u r properly prosecuted for child molestation and assault cos d man who fetches an insect-infested firewood should not complain wen cockroaches gathers for a feast. U r a man, at least by age standards, advise and help urself. Leave her alone and find someone who can impact on ur life. l speak to in dis manner cos u r of age.

And to dis my littl sister, is dis some kind of boldness or just sheer public display of immorality and lack of proper upbringing and focus? Are u now celebrating promiscuity? l must say u have guts. Not only 4 having a sexual relationship and also wit a 34yr old, not only 4 slapping d "idiot", but also for shamelessly coming to announce to d world of ur disgrace to d pride of the girl-child (cos u r not yet a lady, let alone, a woman)....theses were d thoughts dat first came to my mind.

But then, l do not knw ur story, so l will not b in a haste to condemn u, but l must say dat a premarital sexual relationship is highly abominable, much less with someone 15yrs older dan u are. Understand dat regardless of ur reasons, they cannot justify dat "messy" relationship. U r a very young girl, full of life, opportunities and strength. Channel dis to more fruitful purposes, including education, skill acquisition, service of God and u will b miraculously enriched. Sexual relationship should not be ur concern at dis stage of ur life. Move away from dat relationship cos it has no meaning for ur life now or in d future. Now is d time to take dat decision.

First, accept Christ into ur life and He will make all things new. If u must have a relationship, let it b platonic (devoid of sexual activities) and one with positive prospects for u. With prayers and a little effort, u'd be surprised at how u will transform. Trust me, l have "been there and done that". I'm not good, I'm not perfect, l may not evn b better dan u, but l always pray 4 d grace of God and dat grace is sufficient 4 me.

Remember, by no means I'm l suggesting dat ur messy relationship is bad only cos of ur age, but dis factor makes it more abominable.

Further, d Bible, to which l subscribe (and which l pray and advise u subscribe to as well if u haven't) has a standard and dat is absolute a NO to pre-marital sex (and also extra-marital sex) regardless of ur age. And dat is my position. By no standard or reason can u justify odawise.

Some peeps may call u conservative or "old school", but den, no mata d level of legal and societal development, transformation, civilisation, or globalisation, it CANNOT make moral what God has made immoral.

I hope l have been able to help.

Anonymous said...

the boy na very sure boy. I no for mind buy am JD

Unknown said...

Idiot!!! Na so ur mama de slap ur papa abi? U no get 1 respect...ewu!!!

Unknown said...

Idiot!!! Na so ur mama de slap ur papa abi? U no get 1 respect...ewu!!!

Unknown said...

Idiot!!! Na so ur mama de slap ur papa abi? U no get 1 respect...ewu!!!

Anonymous said...

loooooooooolllllllllll..... this cracked me up. I'll be back later to give another comment.

Anonymous said...

NA ONLY IGBO GIRLS WEY GO DATE 34 YEARS OLD MAN.

Anonymous said...

You have a bright future ahead of you, please change your ways and surrender your life to JESUS CHRIST.

Anonymous said...

You deserve the flogging

Anonymous said...

just read dis post, can't stop laughing, at 19 u r dating a 34yrs old guy. I hope u know he is using u sha. its not right for a guy to hit a girl buh in ur case I think u deserve it 'u usually slap him' what manner of arrogance. u acted ur age. go and learn more about being in a relationship, so that u can handle it better.

kelvo said...

you better change from that character of yours,how can you on earth slap a man in a public simply because you are dating him,it simply shows that you are not a wife material,even if you want to slap him as you normally does,you would have wait to get home before a treatment you want to give hive,but in a public it is bad,even the guy went too far by beating her with wire.

kelvo said...

you better change from that character of yours,how can you on earth slap a man in a public simply because you are dating him,it simply shows that you are not a wife material,even if you want to slap him as you normally does,you would have wait to get home before a treatment you want to give hive,but in a public it is bad,even the guy went too far by beating her with wire.

Anonymous said...

Why should you slap him in the first place..... well the flogging is just like a stripper flogging you b4 sex too so accept it as a way of hot sex too

kbrown#dench said...

i cant say anything but laff @ this bitch...i will flog u more.

Anonymous said...

father and daugther be dat na>>34 19

Anonymous said...

u're an Idiot.......mtchewwwww

Anonymous said...

He should have done this earlier before now. Go back to Europe or America where u belong

Anonymous said...

He should have done this earlier before now. Go back to Europe or America where u belong

Anonymous said...

walahi, u are so foolish. the guy should run for u instead. just hear yourself "always slapping him" infact you lack manners+home training. if you treat all men like these you will ending up going in and out of marriage. you better work on yourself and your morals. he should have used rod to beat the living day light out of your. spoilt brat. mtcheew. Guy abeg run o, go for a humble home made gal. am sure u dont even no how to cook or do house core. Na only fucky fucky u get master degree in. thyna speaks

Anonymous said...

Oh i love Libers! there's a yoruba adage that says "omo ta ba ti ko nile, ita la ma ti ko wa" that lesson ur parents didn't give you, the guy has taught u the hard way. You are 19 and you could actually talk about sex like u're talking about 50naira. u're a fool. I like that ur bobo, you will never slap a man in ur miserable life again be it old or young. Besides, the guy is a fool for begging to have you back. I can't really blame him sa, it's all because of the hot sex...lol.

Anonymous said...

please dont leave this guy, he is obvious made for you. God put him in this world to FLOG! some sense into you.....MUNTULA! BONGO LIKE YOU! YOU ARE SO STUPID you could be hit by a parked car! GOAT! by the way may we talk better thing.....who get blackberry charger????

Anonymous said...

hahahaha, e supposed to beat u to d xtent of psychiatric hospital, no b only local hospital. i tink u inherit it frm ur source u knw wot i mean, useless girl...

emaodianatters said...

ROTFLMAO.....Some Nigerian '50 shades of grey' tyns in d works, she got the hot sex not just how she expected it ....lol.

Anonymous said...

Once a "Slapper" always a "slapper"...D manshld be d one to leave cos d poster is d violent person...Man beater!She need psych evalution..rubbish girl

ebonyz... said...

Na wa for u oh!!! First and foremost, you are not serious. What kind of relationship are you into? You slap your man!!!! that's not right madam and the what you did by slapping him in public was so wrong and by the way, why would he collect a girls number in your presence? Meaning he does not have any respect for you. No matter how mad a lady drives or frustrates a man, he isn't meant to lay his hands on her so what he did was so wrong and trust me, there is no need thinking twice about going back. Leave him move on and look for a man u respect and also respects you.

olajumokeee oyedepo said...

how about ,you stop slapping your boyfriend and see if he will beat you. Very dumb question to ask .

olajumokeee oyedepo said...

how about ,you stop slapping your boyfriend and see if he will beat you. Very dumb question to ask .

Unknown said...

Well dat guy luvs u alot dat was y e resperted u in public so u need to apologise to him and stop the slap and i promiss u, e will never hit u agin and e will always luv u.

Unknown said...

Well dat guy luvs u alot dat was y e resperted u in public so u need to apologise to him and stop the slap and i promiss u, e will never hit u agin and e will always luv u.

Tolulope said...

Y U ASKIN FOR ADVICE WEN U KNW WAT TO DO, BABE U R VRY YOUNG ND AN SURE U R BEAUTIFUL PLSSSS LEAVE ALONE ND GO FND SUM ELSE DAT WILL TREAT U RIGHT COS A DAY WILL CUM ATFER BEATIN U, U WON'T LEAVE TO TELL THE STORY. BE WISE GAL

Tolulope said...

Y U ASKIN FOR ADVICE WEN U KNW WAT TO DO, BABE U R VRY YOUNG ND AN SURE U R BEAUTIFUL PLSSSS LEAVE ALONE ND GO FND SUM ELSE DAT WILL TREAT U RIGHT COS A DAY WILL CUM ATFER BEATIN U, U WON'T LEAVE TO TELL THE STORY. BE WISE GAL

Anonymous said...

Y U ASKIN FOR ADVICE WEN U KNW WAT TO DO, BABE U R VRY YOUNG ND AN SURE U R BEAUTIFUL PLSSSS LEAVE ALONE ND GO FND SUM ELSE DAT WILL TREAT U RIGHT COS A DAY WILL CUM ATFER BEATIN U, U WON'T LEAVE TO TELL THE STORY. BE WISE GAL

Anonymous said...

dis babe na real dick. u get luck say na only wire im use flog u.

bugacious said...

u for just take sex finish your beating too.....idiot

Anonymous said...

Lol, next time you wont do it again.

Unknown said...

u must be a very useless girl to be slapping a guy. one thing u must know is that u guys are not compatible. in life there must be a guy that a girl will lie low for and in return a guy will love and pamper. so if non of this is found in ur relationship then get ur stinking ass out of the relationship. Look for ur mates and give him a breathing space to get a wife material of his class and age. u r not mature enough to be in a relationship let alone with a guy of ur father's age

Anonymous said...

u r 18 n sld focus on ur career not having sex.

Anonymous said...

u need help as u dating an OLD man dat will most likely kill u in no time if u keep disrespecting him plus u need to focus on ur studies and building a career

Anonymous said...

Look at dis little girl.... Dating a grow up man ..... You shld still be under ur parent .... U are following man up and down ..... Is d man ur book ..... U better go and face ur study..... Silly girl

GiDiBoi said...

Only the strong will continue.

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