From a LIB reader...and this is very interesting...hehe!
Linda please could you pose this question to your male readers. Is a BJ that important to them that they would refuse to be in a relationship with a lady who would not give it to them? I think it is a disgusting act and I've vowed never to indulge in it and so in all the relationships I've been in I tell my boyfriends that I don't do BJs. They seem okay with it initially but after some time they start giving excuses not to be in a relationship with me anymore. I didn't know what the problem was until my last boyfriend opened up to me and said he couldn't stay in a permanent relationship with a woman who would not give him head and said it was probably the same reason all my past relationships didn't work out.
Are all the women out there giving their men BJs? Am I alone in this? Would I ever find a man who doesn't care if he gets head from me or not?
Hahaha! Well, here's my take. If you love a man, and you're in a committed relationship, and he's good to you, and he wants it...girl, you better
take banana till you go yo!...lol. So dear men, is it that important to you folks?
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I concur!
I don't like receivin bh I like giving guys head
BJ is not a big deal in a relationship, if they sex is good, the woman who think all her ex dump her cos she doesn't give head, my dear its either you are boring in bed the type that just lay there or your attitude sucks.the worst is a woman that think pretending she doesn't like sex makes her look desent in a man's eyes, lies!!! who want to marry a woman who doesn't like sex, sex is 70% of marriage the rest is understanding and communication
LMFAO!
If you ain't giving head, licking his nipples, nibbling on his neck, caressing his ears with your tongue, eating ass if he's into that kinda shit then you are doing the sex thing all wrong. Foreplay is key!
Listen oooo, first of all, go down low, abi u be leaner, does he look like Fally Pupa?
dear mr married man up in here, u cnt collect BJ from ur wife but u do from ur girlfrd because marriage is a serious business. now i wonder why u want BJ in the first place, fucking hypocrite!, u get luck say am not that ur gf if not ur dick and bank balance will bear the blunt of this rubbish u wrote
as a man i do not support sex b4 marriage.......i have never had bj until i arrived the united states and discovered that it is a culture here in america........my first experience blew my mind..........
since then to imagine that i would get married to a nigerian girl and stay without it has been hurting me.....generally lack of bj experience is why most naija girls do not enjoy sex.......my prayer is to end up marrying a naija girl who love bj.........with an american girl blow job is certain but with nigerian girl i do not know.......
for me not to receive a bj in marriage...i can manage but for me not to give it to my wife would almost be impossible........there is joy when you see your woman happy during sex.......
i also want to confidently state that if a man is happy with his sexual life ........expcially with his partner......it becomes hard for him to cheat......
but bj is more safe when you are in marriage.....it is also best to take your birth b4 the action......
Pls anon 11.44 how do u knw it is unacceptable by God. Show me where it is in the scriptures and I'll stop it.
I seriously can't believe d way some of u reason... If he's ur bf n u r nt comfy givin him head, pls don't.. He's nt ur husband + how many head will u kip givin for d sake of protectin ur r/ship b4 u finali find ur hubby....
Sex is a sin against God if u r not married..aside dat, u r as good as a prostitute cos hw many guy will u sex b4 u eventually get married? Huh? U gehs give in freely to dis guys dat y dey can b demandin all sortoff rubbish frm u....
My dear,if he was ur husband, den I say u shuld do it.... But don't always do it just to satisfy him, always make sure dat u don't feel disgusted wen u r done....
Point 2 and 7 already yielding............."FG to procure 10 million handsets worth N60billion for farmers" thingz
@ anon 12:18 are u a Learner.
The girl is obviously living in the 50s. Who doesn't give head these days? She should wake up and smell the coffee!
my dear it's very important. it gives me a sense of power esp. the way my man makes those loud noises when i start. whoop!! it even makes me horny. so, i say yes! to BJ
Corrrrect!!!!thank you so much Martins Aboy u have spoken well. It is highly disgusting...and its so disgusting if guys do dat to ladies too....ewwwwwww....the acts r so disgusting. Hey people if God is in ur marriage SEX will always be sweet. Forget this stiupid WORLD and their stupid IDEOLOGIES. All of u dat do these things. Its wrong and can gives diseases. Do u knw some times sperms or discharge can be swallowed in the process. GOSH...feel like puking...ppele dat do dat r irritating. U'll find out dat dey r dirty even in their hygeine. U can observe. Those dat like blow job and all dat rubbish r not neat asin their rooms and cloths are always untidy and dey r lazy too. Case closed!
@Pealie, do u feel comfortable writing such with ur picture?
Anon 12:40 . Oh please? So u can use d mouth u use for faith n praise to kiss and have him suck ur boobs. Like I said if anyone can show me where in the bible BJ ws prohibited, I will stop it and I bet my hubby would understand cos we are both Christians.till then keep searching the scriptures while I continue to give my hubby his well deserved Bj
hmmmn, im scared oo. Im a V thats getting married to a very wonderful man. we've talked about sex a couple of times, but i hvae never had teh guts to ask him if he likes BJ or not, and i pray he doesnt. although ive read here that women also love being licked.... im not sure if i'll like it and im also scared that if he loves to give a head and i end up liking it then i'll look wicked not to do the sane for him. pls i need nice and reasonable advice here.
linda i normally dnt laugh at ur jokes but trust me dis ur take banana till u go yo is reli cracking me up big tym.nice one gurl.
U r a wife indeed. A wife wt no worth
WORD!
I'm not really a sucker 4 it but my gurl need 2 have d skills....jus lik I got mine..*winks*....so gurl stop whining n do it as DJ Khaled put it..#takeittothehead....yea yea
Thank you. Thought i was the only one left on this planet that feels that way. I broke up with ex boyfriend cos he wanted it. If it'll make me feel dirty, uncomfortable or ashamed afterwards then nobody should make me do it. I dont like it and my husband doesnt like it either so end of story. And no he isnt getting it from anywhere else. His friends think he is weird. He thinks its dirty and ungodly i just think its dirty and thats what works for us.
Anonymous 1:45pm, I was agreeing with ur conversation until I got to the linda part. Pls don't come online to expose ur ignorance like this abeg.
"Linda" is not a Nigerian name, it is not even an English name...it is a Spanish name and it means "CUTE/BEAUTIFUL GIRL"
I know cos I have Latino friends who sing with my name always. Does linda mean anything in ur Nigerian language? No. It is a latin name biko.
Besides, google is ur friend, use it before exposing ur ignorance here...Linda is a beautiful spanish name given to beautiful baby girl. It's like naming ur baby 'beauty, or nma, etc"
Pls visit my non-religious but Christian blog...www.thebanquethall.blogspot.com. you will be blessed. God bless y'all in Jesus name.
I havnt given yet but I'm nt so averse to it.I'm in a relationship n no 1 has brot it up yet so wateva.
bj or not, make sure you are married before taking that road. Fornication is a sin too....even tho we act as if God does not frown at it.
Better wait till u say I do.
www.thebanquethall.blogspot.com
Linda sometimes ehnnn i feel its charly boys alter ego that is talking tru uuu. u to spoil joor lmaoooooo evaniaja.blogspot.com
I hate blowjob. It make me sick
No bj no pocket money.period.
I just feel like throwing up. Very disgusting and unhygienic. I dont really like that for anything.
I just left a guy because of this BJ. The guy so much love it and i dont fancy it at all. So we have to go our separate ways.
What in the process and he releases inside ur mouth or the semen enters, what do u do.
Lmao she tripping.. Put some ice cream on it.. and have fun boo..slurp!
Lmao she tripping.. Put some ice cream on it.. and have fun boo..slurp!
just coz u dnt want ur BF, nt Evn fiancé to leave u( cos GIVIN bj is no1 priority 2him) u tk d advice of 99.9 % of Ppl here n give him bj. Well u v kept him yea in disobedience 2 God Hu says NO to pre-marital sex Whicheva way u paint( jx lyk linda dat said if its a committed relationship,- wic one isnt btw.)
he marries u 2mrw n after 1 or 2 kids, Which wld become a bit tedious cos u hv to manage ur house n career, n myt not meet his needs at ol tym.( dont 4get his yardstick 4 a gud wife is bn good in Bj tins) he starts messing around cheating. And then run to libers again 4 a help. Trust them, ol u get is Pray to GoD etc.. U then turn prayer warrior then..
The point of my blabing is to keep God in d center of ol, so u can alwz have somethin to fall back on, wen its becoming tough n unbearable. Yea, God is a mercifull God is nt a reason to disregard his commandment.
has GIVIN BJ eva stopped a man dat wants to cheat?? U gals shld stop GIVIN men excuse to be irresponsible... As 4 bj Being a sin?? Ol i will say its, married folks are free buh 4 d unmarried ones it is a SIN in capital letters
Bj can make hard man cry(speaks in tongue) but u have to be sure about him.
i tink if u love ur man u shld do it since he likes it. i do evrytin i can to satisfy my boyfriend (minus threesum oo). he loves when i go down on him, sumtimes he cums in my mouth and i looooove it. he does d same 2 me
TBH, I came here for the comments :-)
babe, it is a pervertious world we live in. There was a time it was about having sex or not in a relationship. Now, it is head or not. Very soon, i can guarantee it would be Threesome or not. Cheating is already on the cue. Left to me, define yourself, you would definitely be found by the right one. They say, it's a "coming soon" situation but be sure, one way or the other, satifaction derived from achieving your goal cant compare to a compromise. In other News, my dog just gave birth to 8 puppies.
Have u put up ur picture again?
I thot they yabbed you enough to take it down?
Since you've done so,remember not to insult another person again o,saying they're'nt beautiful and all that.
Lol @Bolaji Johnson
Most guys will be willing to reciprocate if your south pole is in a good state of hygiene.Giving a head to a woman is fun but trust me,a lot of girls smell down there,even the very fine ones that behave like their shit don't smell.I know cos I hav had several encounters with girls that look like goddesses but whose punnanies smell like carcasses.
Oooooh, the one true observation here!. You want yr spunk in someone else's mouth? Well you need to taste it too, give them a full tongue kiss after the BJ girls! Insist!
Nearly all men love it, though some might not request it but if you give it to your man. Whao, you will see he will appreciate it. It's well enjoy in 69 position-all about give and talk. Visit my blog to learn more.
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U hav an amazing sense of humour,why dont I meet funny chicks like you,if you are a girl that is.you are really funny.nice one.
give it to him like ur life depends on it,suck him dry till u need a stomach pump
Whats soo yucky about it my dear.nothing wrong with swallowing its good for the body come correct or dont bother come at all
Correct
If the lady wants "cunnilingus", she should be ready to "fellate" her guy! I strictly recommend this for married couples only because of the level of intimacy involved. A guy would not want to go down on a gurl who has several guys taking their turns "burrowing" and vice versa. Abi no be so?
i do 69 with my hubby a lot n its so sweet, fun and crazy!! i mean the sensation that runs through our bodies at the time is inexplainable. the fucking afterwards is hot and vigorous leaving us breatheless.
if u find it disgusting it means one of two things,ur pussy or his dick smells and thats wat u regard as irritating (wash clean c'mon!)
OR u are on a long thingggggg (u never start, ur sex life must be drab and dry)
Hahahaha..Ok People!calm down with the whole BJ ish..ryt naw Celibacy is the best tyn dat has eva happened to me..y'all single ladies,Celibate!its the Best..umm as for d B.J issue,lyk criusly its a tyn of choice,if u lyk it,den do it..if u dnt,den dnt..B.J shuldnt be a topic in a relationship,Guys we knw y'all love it,buh u shuldnt be in a relationship cos of dat..No woman is a slave,all u need do is teach her nd let her knw it satisfies u aswell nd den ur woman wud knw..As for d Head..Who dsnt love dat head Lane..We all do people,d feeling is CrayyYyyyyy!at the same tym if ur not married,leave sex..CELIBATE Oooooooo..join me #biggrin
Sex or lovemaking is as much about 'giving' as well as receiving. If you agree, then it's whAt your man (or woman) enjoys that you should do. Those should be the limits of the sexual experience. preconceived limitations and expectations are so much like a transaction.........unwilling acts done as a favor. If your man wants bj or your woman wants head, you better get used to giving it. It's part of learning to understand what a relationship means
Pls ladies if you can't give bjs, don't try it unless you want to learn... it's so annoying when you can't give head but try to just to impress the guy....You start using ur teeth and shit .. Pls i repeat don't try it oh
Speak for yourself
Thats why i married my wife,no woman has ever headed me like her.
It was the game changer and she onde too.
Nne where is she sef?
Lol
My dear, he or she may not be joking oo that she doesn't knw wat bj is, because I remember me and my friends when in a car and dey started talking about their guys giving them head, me I raised my hands and asked the pls wat is the meaning of head, I didn't even know wat cum meant, and I was 25 yrs.wen I think abt it, I just laff, but now I'm not a learner,I'm 28.
Umukoro felix aka NANI
Yes oooo it is very important( BJ make the love to grow on )
Thank you Biko,gbam
1st of all .......... go down low
Thnk u o my sister @ anon 1:39...dated 3guys before I got married n Neva had To give any a bj! Bin happily married now for 7yrs wit 2lovely sons n hubby dsnt ask for it...if u guys feel he's getting it outside na ur toro b dat n gud luck to d headmistress cos dats all she will Eva b! Lol
Hmmm...am into d medical profession n ladies if u knw d amount of guys walking around wit d STD called HERPES...u will Neva give any guy a BJ..it is totally unsafe..Esp as herpes is an STD wit no cure o! Evn guys giving thr babes heads n licking everything u r prone to Herpes too..does any of u knw who else ur partners r sleeping wit..b wise oh dis is 2013..
if she can not take the yori yori,then why is she into that ship for first place_?menhh some woman can decieve there self,she like it but she dont like to do it,frm swiss
And u r stil thr asking jamb question...don't just stop d bj liv d fool...
Taking Banana makes you have a taste of what heaven feels like..Damn..
Its very Necessary oo..chei !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't like giving head but I will readily do it for WAJE!!! I am ready to lick her dry. I love that babe. She is turning my head!!! LOL!!
Plane truth, if U̶̲̥̅̊ dont Give ur man, he ll get it else whr and if U̶̲̥̅̊ dont collect, someone else will recieve it on ur behalf #noTym.. Remember its ok 4 a guy 2 try out several girls buh if a girl does, she's called a hoe. So if ur man is askin U̶̲̥̅̊ for it, Y not satisfy him in every form rather dan cry nd nag wen he gets it else whr.. First it starts wif d BJ elsewhr and den sex and wen he find out d oda babes tosky *winks* is sweeter dan urs, U̶̲̥̅̊ re gettin dumped gradually ♏Ɣ dear. Dats usually d process.. Thank ♍ƺ later.. #Bless
If you are a lady with smelly pussy, and you like receiving head, please SHUT UP!
And if you are a guy with bad hygiene and you want blow job-SHUT UP!
Your private part must be clean and odourless.
If you think you are a saint, don't come to this blog, Linda Ikeji is a horny babe and we like her that way. Linda, dont worry, hand go soon touch you, you go hear wen!
@Yomslaw. Who is talking about handset for farmers here? Abi you drink?
Ur man needs lessons from me. I love giving head. It's a wonder that my name isn't Edward
Immediately you notice my early morning erection, you better start exploring and exploiting the banana like a company searching for crude oil.
Beware of throat cancer from std viruses. Dont give no fucking dick a blow job. Will they lick your p for you? Shit ass MOFOs
Head aka oral sex is important. Idk of any man who doesn't like it, it spices things up and leaves him very satisfied and happy. Not all women give head but the number who don't are very few, plus u knw how men of these days are ....if u are not giving him head, don't be shocked wen u find out that there is anoda woman doing it. So my dear, if u love ur man, please him, it's something u don't like, we understand but u can start doing it and get used to it for the sake of ur relationship
Linda, u too like 'banana' things. U go eat sha!
I agree with Linda. I have never met a man that does not enjoy having his dick sucked, licked, and stroked.
If you're a woman that doesn't like giving a blow job, develop a TOLERANCE for it for the sake of your relationship.
***Lush
Na wa.. BJ kwa.. Maybe I'm alone here.. But I don't like it.. Even when she offers it.. Which she found embarrassing at first. I'm down with the real thing.. Any other thing na unavailable time u they waste be that.. + no time to say no time.
Ladies, be warned, giving blow job to a man can be extremely dangerous to your health. Just like you can catch std by having vaginal sex, you can get the same diseases from oral sex. Some of this diseases have no cure. You can get gonorrea, syphyllis, Chlymidia, throat cancer from hpv and hiv from giving or receving oral sex. Frankly, it isn't worth it. A guy who insists that the future of your relationship with them is based on your willingness to give them oral sex is not worth. No one heard of bj in our society 30 years ago. Now, that's what everyone talks about. Giving bj is not normal and should not be the basis of any relationship between a man and a woman. Don't risk your life to please a man or you will leave to regret it. Hear it from a guy.
LINDA!!!!!! u go fear take banana til u go yo hahahahahahaha
Lindiwey!!!! U funny die!!!!!
My sis better chop banana till u go yo!! I do it for my man o though am married! Even though is nt enough to end a relationship!
Libers rock!!!!!!!!
U guys ar so funny!!!!!!
I cam here 4 d comments n I was nt dissappointed at all!
some nigerians are just ignorant,what is the preaching about its disgusting to give head?whats all the bible preaching?the bible condemned fornication,homosexuality,adultery,but never said anything negative about oral sex,it never specified what you should do in sex with the opposite sex,as for all those morons saying they dont give oral sex,its a shame,because most of you are fornicating,so whats the disgusting holier than thou attitude?you all just disgust me,there is nothing wrong in oral sex,maybe adam and eve give eachother,bible never told us that the dick should go into the pussy as in missionary style alone,sex is beautifull and natural,be it oral,doggy,horsie,sheel barrow,69,anal if you can handle it,did the bible teach us how to have sex with the opposite sex?it was created to be pleasurable,so why are all these bush people making stupid noises,i like to give my girl head,especially when i pin her down and go yo on her,she struggles screams and moans,she holds my head and runs her finger trough my abolo,it gives me joy seeing her being satisfied,at the end of it all,they have this look in their eyes that says take you in a sexy way,same way they get down on me,especially when i am saying stop,they continue on gear four,damn,thats when i get like crazy,and she continues till i go yo,at the end of it all,we both cuddle and feel happy with each other,it brings a strong bond,nigerians should get real and stop all the acting shikena.
U all have been callin my name anyhow, pls who truly want my name should holla me up, stop callin it plssssss
Errr..ur a guy & ur name is "Sasha Fierce"? TF?
Er...... Pealie, why are you telling us THIS?
MEDICALLY GIRLS IT IS DANGEROUS TO GIVE A BJ.. U CAN CONTRACT ORAL STDS, PLS ABSTAIN FROM IT.. DONT MIND WHAT D WORLD SAYS...MORALLY ITS WRONG COS D PENIS WAS DESIGNED FOR THE VAGINA NOT D MOUTH OR ANUS OR ANY ODA APERTURE... AND WHEN U ARE DATING USE A CONDOM IF U CANT ABSTAIN... PLSS GUYS BE WARNED..
THERE ARE ODA FUN STUFF U CAN DO WIT UR PATNER APART FROM SELF-DEBASING ACTS LIKE BJS... HOPE I HAVE IMPACTED SOMEONES LIFE WITH THIS..GUDLUCK
U WEAR A CONDOM TO HAVE SEX YET U RISK UR HEALTH BY GIVING A BJ..TOTALLY UNPROTECTED.. BE WISE DATS WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS
Blowjobs are amazing especially when you get feasted on in return…….#FoxyBee said so#
it is gud to give it,but u should b carefull of who u give it to. Am married but i give it 2 him anywhere nd anytime, both left nd right, back nd front i enjoyed it well even b4 i got marred to him.
If guys leave you because you Dont do that. I Dont see it as love. Let them go . I d maintain my stand If i were you. All guys Are Not the Same
4 me it is very complusory my baby must give me blow job b4 we commence proper into d koko
Please does this Pealie of a girl annoy anyone the way she annoys me? Gosh!!!!
I like this, there will always be a justification for doing something, like do it or someone else will. Just define yourself simple. We keep copying them yet the keep going back to our old way of life, perhaps while it gets more popular here it will start fading over there. So Linda ikeji is also a fan of this song that insults women "take banana till u go yo" are we still sleeping or what? We have to let our girls know that it is not acceptable for someone to sing "take banana till u go yo" as if its a command, cos soon they begin to think it's reality. Women say things like "if my boyfriend / husband wants it I'll give it else he will go and get it outside" what won't u do for that your man?
Why not give it to him if he wants it . Most men,I inclusive ,who knows what bj is all about would want it . However some precaution need be taken . Make findings on it to ascertain its safety and precautionary measures
Am married for 13years, never cheated in my life, though I mt my wife a virgin and trust her.
BJ? when I even take visa at times before the real thing. When I asked her for it she used to say NO.
if you want very good head (Females only) orgasms guareenteed. mail nuel1983@gmail.com :)
I eat coochie a lot from the side,back n 69 n infact I don break up with many gurls bcos dey no fit gimme head at all or dem dey form and dey give me head like say dem no wan gimme,she must blow me passionately n shamelessly,regardless of all other great trait she posses madding bj must be part of it its an act of honor respect n submission n not sinful #maddingcrushonu
That is exactly why he hasn't married you in 5 years..... Lol
2898AEEA
just suck the damn dick girl!!!
U b kolo y do it in the first place when u don't knw hw to do it? Oun pe ko to swallo
linda nor go wise up,i posted something real,she rejected it,why did you bring up the topic in the first place?fake girl,try wise up.
Its sooo disgusting....like wwwheeeeewwwww
What do WOMEN really want from Men: SEX and MONEY.
What do MEN really want from women: Blow Job and Silence.
Go figure!
LMAO!
when i hear of girls that don't give head i'm like'they still make those' common now its the 21st century.... u better go and watch porn n learn....lol
Doesn't make a difference to me. If a girl is giving it then i'll gladly accept it otherwise it's whatever. Watching her shiver with each stroke i give while creaming me up is satisfaction enough for me. Different strokes for different folks
Hi
Tell your self the truth.pratice wat you preach.am sure your life is centered around blowjob and if I may ask wat has education got to do with BJ.please smell the coffee and stop living life of deceit
Please. Snatch me oh
Carry on jareeeeee
Please oh give me your number
Plain truth
Good wisdom
She is certainly getting a helping hand, u know wat I mean hmmmmmmmm
omo na bj naim sure pass oh #winkz
omo na bj naim sure pass oh #winkz
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