OAP Freeze gave his take on the speech given by Olori Wuraola on Gender equality. He wrote:
The Olori of Ife, Her Majesty, Queen Wuraola-Zynab Ogunwusi, spoke what I consider words of absolute wisdom, when she stated her belief that gender equality is hardly achievable in the modern world.
While speaking at the Emerging Women Forum on Thursday, June 16, the queen said; I am not a huge fan of gender equality. We can’t be equal, We can’t be men. We have our roles to play. She can't be more correct and my respect for her has risen 100 fold, hence the proud smile on my face in this picture with her royal highness.
Although feminism in itself is a noble cause, and by definition is "a range of political and social movements and ideologies, that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, personal, and social rights for women, the way many of my Nigerian sisters are going about achieving this is becoming counter productive. Although I agree that men and women have equal rights I absolutely disagree that they are equal. Each gender was beautifully created by God, to serve a purpose and assist the other. However saying they are equal is like saying a cap and a pair of boxers are equal. If you are in doubt, attempt wearing your boxers on your head and your cap on your butt and then brush your teeth with your belt and hold your trousers together with your toothbrush, then perhaps, my point will be better illustrated.
There was a certain young lady I was once courting, I remember trying to pick her her up and carry her, only to be corrected very sternly "don't you EVER carry me, I'm a feminist!" ah.... Lobatan! After that day, I hastily put an end to both the courting and the carrying.
I used to know a guy called Akin who was quite unhappy with his marriage, because he had a very controlling, argumentative wife. This guy was posted to warri by the oil company He was working for, and his wife, who was well educated decided against settling with her husband in warri, choosing to return to the uk to work with an investment bank. Since he didn't want to lose his marriage, the guy found himself traveling back and forth, visiting London on a monthly basis.
While his wife worked on her career in investment banking, he still paid most of her bills from Nigeria, surviving on noodles and sleeping on a cold bed..... All that changed however when he met pretty Ekaete, who was content with her BSC, wanting her home to be her major investment, indulging Akin in the world of Edika Ikong, Afang, Ekpan ku kwo, piom piom and the likes, tempting him regularly with her 28 inch waist and 44 inch hips; today they have 3 children.
Though some men like feisty, argumentative 'my way or the high way' kind of women, I unfortunately don't fall into that category. I don't enjoy relationships where women stand up to me all the time, putting their feet down, as it's something I consider a major turn off.
This is one of the reasons why my work relationship with the gorgeous @kaylahoniwo has been so great. she always knows how to get what she wants, without being rude, cocky or argumentative, making me constantly tell her how much wife material she is, and how lucky the man that would make her his Olori would be. *Disclaimer I delete comments that are either insulting or negative on my Instagram page and block the authors. However, if you must be insulting and negative, please go to www.daddyfreeze.com and enjoy yourself.
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All man has right to his or her opinion.
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GOD BLESS AND REPLENISH YOU FREEZE. YOU are among the very few sensible ones on earth. I gast borrow these idiots my own sense free of charge since na wetin dey lack
Yes Inasmuch as I agree with the woman, freeze or freezer is just an attention seeking asshole ! Tak several seats man!
Una get time
What I believe is, women are not better than men, and men are not better than women, we complement each other. The mistake feminists make is to want to be like men. It is impossible to be like a man if you are a woman. Just be a woman. But ofcos, the role of the woman in the society should be respected, but they can't be like men, just like we can't be like women. There is a reason men have biceps and pacs, and women have boobs...There is a reason why women are naturally more emotional than men. We were made for different purposes.
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They want gender equality and yet Nigeria women are not willing to split mortgage, rent and every other bill 50/50 abi?? Yet most of them gat the mentality of a man taking care of them and 90% of everything smh I laugh them, truth must be told,most African women depend on their men and yet they won't equal right,they are not serious.
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They want gender equality and yet Nigeria women are not willing to split mortgage, rent and every other bill 50/50 abi?? Yet most of them gat the mentality of a man taking care of them and 90% of everything smh I laugh them, truth must be told,most African women depend on their men and yet they won't equal right,they are not serious.
~glo rule your world~ cos I do•
Hmmmmm dis tin go trend now till next wk.
Eziokwu ka ina ekwu daddy freeze
Hian!!
I won't backlash Freeze cos everyone is entitled to his/her own views. Linda take note!
I agree with dem 100 percent ...so called "feminists" are alredy demeaning the term and in the process forgeting the values of women...they are making a big deal and ignoring the essence of feminism ...we are women, strong and powerful and d way ppl go abouh dis equality tin dis days is nofin to write home abouh! "the uniqueness of beign a woman" is pushed to d side and we are chasing what is not ...I am one Feminist and proud, I am a woman and not a man and I do not wanna b "like" one(think,work etc), the fact that I can do alot of tins dat a man can not do is beign unique and women dis days are forgetting that!...all the wanna do is "be a man"
I agree with dem 100 percent ...so called "feminists" are alredy demeaning the term and in the process forgeting the values of women...they are making a big deal and ignoring the essence of feminism ...we are women, strong and powerful and d way ppl go abouh dis equality tin dis days is nofin to write home abouh! "the uniqueness of beign a woman" is pushed to d side and we are chasing what is not ...I am one Feminist and proud, I am a woman and not a man and I do not wanna b "like" one(think,work etc), the fact that I can do alot of tins dat a man can not do is beign unique and women dis days are forgetting that!...all the wanna do is "be a man"
Na them sabi.. I don talk my own
Na me talk am!
Long Live Lib!!!
Nice one.
says, Genevieve.
This man is full crap
Story for the gods.
AM NOT SURPRISE.
FREEZE OR FREEZER WHY won't U SUPPORT HER BECAUSE U KNOW THAT IF THIS IS SIGN INTO LAW U WILL SUFFER FOR BEATING A WOMAN.
MY QUESTION IS THIS CAN GOD JUDGE MEN DIFFERENT AND WOMAN DIFFERENT?
ONLY A FOOL WILL BELIEVE THIS.
#sad indeed
No wonder you are abusive freeze... Contradicting your self. At least the investment banker Is a complete woman, she would find another man in the UK... Nobody loss. Women are equal to men. Equality Is different from gender roles... Men who are insecure in their musculanity always have problems with women who want to be complete human beings....what is wrong with a woman reading to get a PhD? So she should be content with ordinary BSc? Not strive to achieve her dreams because a man is the ultimate goal?... It's a shame someone like freeze gets to speak ignorance all the time on radio... See him trying so hard to paint Nigerian feminist as dumb, but freeze is the dumb one.
So a woman shouldn't argue even when she is damn right? See yourself... Like, really? How does a woman function as a human being when her voice is silenced and her opinion tossed away?
I feel pity for any woman in a relationship with freeze, he won't let you put your foot down, he is damn insecure in his musclulanity.
Ofcourse they can never be equal, men are lesser beings, they are made out of dust, women are are out of a more refined product. God had to subject man to spiritual humility just to make his master piece product. The woman, how can u even compare ori to nivea or akamu to cerelac. If only women will know and behave as the higher beings dey won't be fighting for equality when natural God has made you higher .
"Although I agree that men and women have equal rights I absolutely disagree that they are equal"...king of confusion... He must talk, even when it is obvious, he must talk... Mumu freeze.
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The whole talk strikes me as incredibly pointless. The more I read to dis crap the more it starts to send me into a depression cycle.....som1 shud pls send dis Jerkwad back to where he crawled out of.
Freeze haba, why r u always talking nonsense naa? Why r u always satisfied with being ignorant. Don't u see that is why u r totally irrelevant? And yes the word is totally. Abeg stop, ur nonsense yarns have got to stop
Sadly grey hair doesn't always mean wisdom, and this guy has just demonstrated that. too bad!
I've always known freeze 2 be a damn fool. Before making a statement on social media, why don't u try to read up and understand what we mean wen we fight for equality... we do understand that both the male and the femal have special unique roles to play... no dispute on that. We simply want to be given equal opportunities and not denied certain things becos we r female. We do not want to be forced to conform to societal selfish standards. I'll give u a few examples... refusing a lady a job simply because she's "female" even though she has the qualifications or saying things like a woman should not speak her mind in public... there r a lot of things gender equality embodies. Foolish Nigerian men r thinking it's about physical strength. It really isn't. For all those men with myopic minds that would come after my comment," wa joko" i'm waiting
Is English so difficult to understand? Equality and roles/responsibilities are two different things. If Olori isn't smart or bright enough to know this,should a so called OAP do d same? Freeze u fall my hand😑
I am a woman and I still back the fact that there can not be gender equality in so many ways, in some other ways we say we are equal but not in lots of ways it's batter we know that
I wonder my dear
Freeze abi freezer, abeg go and sit in the toilet...
Don't get him wrong, there's a difference btw argumentative and to argue once in a while. An argumentative woman questions and argues with her man every time over everything.
So she will be happy that her daughters (if she has any) in some cultures is not entitled to inheritance? Gender roles and gender equality aren't the same thing oooo. It's about allowing women and girls to have the same opportunities that a man has and in fact it even supports men and empowers men to step away from this tough I AM THE MAN attitude. Being housewife isn't a sin or a crime but no girl should be told that that is the only option she has. I went to secondary school and there was a girl there who couldn't speak English !!! (this was a private expensive school) her parents only sent her there to up her bride price. I fear for Nigeria if this is what women are trying to brainwash girls into thinking. Also in God's eyes man or woman, boy or girl we are EQUAL and will be JUDGED equally
He is so senseless my goodness. Imagine him saying he can't stand a woman who talks back at him....... he is so dump like his name.
But why are you minding Freeze? He's an ugly underachieving piece of shit. Have u ever heard this goat called Freeze say something sensible? Ignore him! Man Bitch
Ass licker
pleeeeeeze just freeeeeeze.
By and large, I still maintain my stand dat men and women r equal in d sight of d Lord.
So gender equality is d best tin dat can ever happen to d Human race.
Here... There is a clause "all the time" read again and understand his POV
I was enjoying the write up till I read ....content with her bsc...common freeze....so women shldnt empower themselves. Well I hope Akin enjoys his calabar wife he will eventually still cheat on. Men like to eat their cake and have it...im not a feminist or non feminist but I bliv in fairness and equality
Proud feminist......
Please what does freeze know. No wonder he doesn't have a wife at his age and I guess he is waiting for linda. Been equal is different from wanting equal rights can't people read anymore. Linda everything wey freeze talk u go post. HIAN!
This man and his likes are the problems we have in Nigeria. Yarning dust all the time...Rubbish
Freeze you're a huge disappointment. And you're bringing ur personal rship here as though it would give meaning to ur backwardness. It's a pity. A woman's major investment should b her home? What about I tell you to go back to school and study that way you could understand the term gender equality. You've shown how far your self esteem goes and pray that ur girl is not milking u dry n waiting 4 d next guy to pop up. Mtchewww. Nigerian men and their insecurity issues, always thinking the women want to take over their rubbish lifestyle
Daddy freeze your examples have nothing to do with the gender equality bill. The ambitious woman didnt hv her priorities right. Even with gender equality, the bible still says women should submit to their husbands. The man knew what he was getting into when he got married.
Ekaette being an "o yes" wife doesn't necessarily make a model wife because she is not ambitious. Gender equality is more than that.
Dumbo....he never mentioned any of that...can't u read or eye dey pain u???
Am tired of this freeze..it's not everything you should put your mouth into and you are man..And enough of this Ekaette shit..not all cross river and akwa ibom women bear the name Ekaette which means father's mother.it's like saying nnenna or whatever and mostly first daughters bear the name
One thing is forsure men and women can never be equal...God did not creat us to be equal after all it's from a man ribs we women were made...dias no two ways about it...
That olori of ie is a fool. Next time she shouldn't make that kind of statement in a western country, she ought to wait until she's in Nigeria to spew that rubbish. To think that she doesn't even understand what gender equality is all about boggles my mind. Her first public statement was to show how unread that she is. Backward people!!
This daddy freezer that hate women,I knew u will support her,yellow pawpaw.
Kk
That's y you'll never get married. People like you won't last in a relationship talkless of marriage.
I swear. I don't give a hoot about feminism of whatever. All iknow is, if you don't want it done to you, don't do it to another. If your penis is all you can bring to the table as a man. You are a failure. As for the olori, as early as 50-70 years ago. As a black woman, she couldn't even stand in front of ordinary Caucasian men and deliver speech. She won't have been able to use their toilets. Women like Rosa parks, Harriet tubman contributed to make that happen. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
This is a sad endorsement for the olari. Just confirms she uttered rubbish. He only thinks and utters complete rubbish premised on acute ignorance.
Signed: female who does not want to carry male parts but wants to be able to be considered for a job without been sexualized.
Some of these men need to be reayly educated on the meaning of gender equality.
I agree with freeze on this one, 100 percent!! Women by nature are not modified for aggression! The term 'feminism' is being taken overboard by nigerian ladies. A feminist hardly submits to her husband bcos of her beliefs. Even amongst the feminist movement, women ain't equal! Politicking is prevalent! Y'all should read and set your priorities right!
Hmmmm
Some people will never understand, we can never be thesame but that does not make us any less of a human.
Freeze needs to go take several seats
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Look @ them. The so called educated people! Shame!
Exactly, bt am sure she only said tht cos of her current status... God! Yes but unless all those again gender equality on d basis of God/ tradition says can abide by other rule God/tradition laid down, dey should hush cos dey jus prov tht dey r selfish...
Until u can abide by d 10 commandments, ur opinion is meaningless
U want to b d head and she do ur all chores yet (in most cases) she burst has ass at work to shoulder ur "manly responsibility" while u take some buzz wit whores
Bur wait oo, why must the substitute always be an Ekaete?
U ARE NOTHING BUT AN UGLY BITCH WITH INFERIORITY COMPLEX
Spot on...im not a feminist too but that content with bsc got me...like wtf. So if a woman goes for a higher degree...she is trying to be a man? She shldnt empower her self? D role of a woman is to cook soup and give birth to kids...As exposed as I wlda assumed Freeze to be...u have a sister who is a doctor another a lawyer and ur mum is in academics. Y did dey pursue their dreams? Men r spoilt and selfish human beings. I will advise all women to empower themselves if not u will become slaves to men who will treat u like dey please.People shld treat each other fairly. This is one of the reasons y I want Hillary Clinton as the next president. We are all humans and equal in the eyes of the almighty.
Lol true....the bsc part got me too. Freeze is one of those insecure men. If u r married to him and u r more successful...they will feel threatened and look 4 a more myopic woman to flaunt for. Just like Tiwas husband. Teebillz. Immediately Tiwa became more successful he started hating her and going fo edible catering who didnt know d real him and was able to flex 4 that one. Insecure piece of shit! Bunch of failures.
Olori wuraola is right
I support that too
Shut up anonymous...she is right u insecure being! She will marry a man who respects her not one who thinks her role is confined 2 d kitchen.
A woman should be given equal opportunity. Full stop.Do not limit the girl child. Our roles should not end in the kitchen.
Women don't allow men make u redundant,let your hands finds something to do, channel all your energy there u will be outstanding.
Whether tall or small, rich or poor, man or woman everyone is equal in the eyes of God. God doesnt judge differntly i dont tink anyone should.
"Anonymous Anonymous said...
Is English so difficult to understand? Equality and roles/responsibilities are two different things. If Olori isn't smart or bright enough to know this, should a so called OAP do d same? Freeze u fall my hand😑
June 18, 2016 at 9:03 PM"
Thanks for the above, Anon 9:03 PM. Well summarized and succinctly put. Please permit me to repeat a part of what you stated above. "EQUALITY AND ROLES/RESPONSIBILITIES ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS."
That this olori woman couldn't understand this common sense fact shows how EMPTY-HEADED she is. It's surprising also that none of her handlers knew better than her either. Pathetic !!!
Repeat: "EQUALITY AND ROLES/RESPONSIBILITIES ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS."
Men and women are EQUALS even if they have DIFFERENT natural roles and responsibilities in the evolution of humanity. They are EQUAL and they MUST HAVE EQUAL RIGHTS in the society.
Freeze is only agreeing bcos of d part that favours him as a man. Considering he has had a failed marriage like d serial wife cum Olori. Very unintelligent girl who should stick to keeping quiet. I was embarrassed for her bad English n uncoordinated gibberish. Somebody should hire a teacher for this girl. Who advised her to speak in public without being tutored? Wat a big disgrace
I no sure say d babe enter school at all. Na so so runz she sabi. Disgraceful element. See her teeth.
I expected it coming from a sissy man whom his ex wife beats. Freeze shut your freakn trap or else we would send for your ex to whoop your ass.
From what Freeze just said, it shows he has issues with women. So you want a servant for a wife not a help mate as the bible put it? All these men like Freeze that shout wife material is not really wife material they want, it is a slave. Abeg i dont need a stupid man in my life. As long as i have my children, i am ok. Rubbish!
Freeze is irresponsible and childish that's why no woman can stand him. I have long unfollowed the idiot.
Women will work and help the men put good on the table. Women will still be the ones to cook, take care of the children, clean the house and do all sorts of chores. So what do men do apart from sleeping with a woman and working (women also work too) to put food on the table if i may ask??
I am a man and i dont blame women that are feminists. Some men can be very irresponsible, lazy and irritating
Women became feminists and began to fight for equal rights because of the behaviour of some men. So it is we men that caused it. I am a man and i know what my kid sister went through and experienced in the hands of her useless husband.
What about women that pay the bills more than men and the men still go outside with their little salaries to chase other women and spend on them just because their wives are assisting with the bills? This is the reason why some women refuse to split the bills 50-50. The man will use his remaining salary to spend on girlfriends outside the marraige. Women need protection. So i dont blame some women that are feminist
Freeborn this is the only statement that you have made that makes 100% sense. One million likes for this your comment joor
Abi oh. If a women decides to pursue her dreams to become a PHD degree holder, a good husband should encourage and support her. Don't cut off a woman's dreams just because you feel you are a man. It is so wrong. If her father did not train her to university level, i am sure the man wont have married her. It is insecurity and lack of confidence that will make a man take another wife just because his wife is pursuing her dreams. A good husband should help his wife actualise her dreams and be patient with her. God is a God of patience.
I stopped taking Freeze seriously when he supported Teebillz (Tiwa Savage's ex-husband), A drug addict and a man that fraudulently takes money from his wife. Those are the kind of friends that Freeze keeps. Stmcheew
I stopped taking Freeze seriously when he supported Teebillz (Tiwa Savage's ex-husband), A drug addict and a man that fraudulently takes money from his wife. Those are the kind of friends that Freeze keeps. Stmcheew
There is nothing wrong with a man supporting his wife to pursue her dreams and actualise it. I know of a man and woman that work in different countires and their marraige is still intact because the woman married an understanding husband. The wife in the story that Freeze gave could stop her work in London and join her husband in Warri but then, what if the husband gets sacked from work? What will they fall back on? Hr should have seen his wife's job as security and help in times of emergency. Also, if his wife quit her job in London to join him in Warri, it is thesame man that will call her a liability someday. That is how men are. There needs to be a balance in every marraige. It doesnt have to be one sided. It doesnt have to always be what the man wants. The woman should also have a say in the marraige because she is not a slave.
If u can afford to travel to London to see your wife and children, there is nothing wrong with your wife working in London and training your children in London with the best education while you work in Nigeria. It is called understanding and security. The man that followed another woman because of food is not a christian. He is a fornicator and adulterer. The woman married the wrong man. A man that cannot sacrifice for you is not your husband.
@Stern I totly diagree wiv u on dis one...as for Freezer or whatever,its obvious he has serious issues wiv women..he nids to go see a shrink cos he disgusts d hec outta me wiv his yellow paw paw face...nyama
@Freeborn u talk well...gbam!
Now I know why his wife was beating him! Anu mpama! Some men wants slaves and not wives. Women need to stand up for themselves o! Oge adiro.
Yes o...u don talk am finish...chop kisses!God has d final say
Men and women are equal in the eyes of God. It is the roles and responsibilities that they play in marraige that is different
Men and women are equal in the eyes of God. It is our society that see it as a man's world. If a man or woman commits adultery, it is equal punishment that God will give both of them. God will not say the man should take a lighter punishment because he is a man. When a man sleeps with many girls, society will hail him and call him correct guy but if a woman is sleeping around, society will call her a prostitute. Meanwhile na thesame hell fire two of them go land. The moment we start seeing life the way God had ordained it for us, the better for all of us. A word is enough for the wise.
So who was cooking for the man when he was a bachelor? So did he marry a wife because of food and because he wants to make her a slave in his kitchen? I pity the Ekaete because when she travels, the man will look for another cook to be sleeping with. So the man did not learn how to cook as a bachelor or didnt his mother teach him how to cook? Must you wait for a woman before you eat good food? Na only indomie he sabi cook. What stops him from learning how to cook or getting a good cook or chef while his wife studies abroad? It is African mentality that makes the kitchen a woman's place. Rubbish!
Stern be like who go beat him wife
Who was cooking for the man that Freeze mentioned in his post when he was a bachelor? So na food make am marry wife? He is selfish and self-centred. He wants his wife to be a slave to be cooking for him in the kitchen. An ideal man will look for a good chef or cook to be cooking for him while his wife studies abroad. Some men just marry women because of food. Who was cooking for the man when he was a bachelor? Why didnt he learn how to cook from his mother? It is African mentality that sees the kitchen as a woman's place. White men assist their wives in the kitchen and with home chores. Thats why white men are referred to as the most romantic men in the world. Blacks are too babaric. Freeze get problem sha. Kai
Abeg i dont need any man in my life. Technology has made it easier for women. I will just look for a sperm donor or buy from sperm bank abroad then look for a surrogate to carry my baby for 9 months or i carry the baby myself through IVF. Then take care of my children myself so that they can aslo take care of me when i am very old. Men can go and hang including Freeze for all i care. Nonsense!
No mind the olori of a person. Na localness and backwardness dey worry her
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