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Saturday 18 June 2016

Would you forgive, forget and stay?

What would you do?

207 comments:

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Anonymous said...

Of course... Christianity teaches us to forgive and forget

STERN said...

I'll get the money and pursue the girl out of my sight..rather I'll bully her off...that's $35000

Anonymous said...

I'll encourage him to cheat more...

BluePrincess said...

See ehnn weda i collect d money or not he will still cheat. Weda i leav him or not, d next man will still cheat so y loose on both end. I will collect d money, forgive him and life goes on

Unknown said...

I will not stay because money is not everything in a relationship but your happiness iis what matters.
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ABBAKLAYS said...

I will forgive, forget, stay but have an alternative.

obiora said...

Accept,Forgive but not forget. But if it ever happens again...it'll be over!

Unknown said...

I will collect d money for d wasted time wit him and move

Anonymous said...

Before he wil finish writing,am already at his door step

Anonymous said...

Linda, why asking this kind of question,i will forgive him million times,infact let him do more and add it. Yes o

Anonymous said...

Can't remember wat she did wrong except if she killed a relation

Unknown said...

Sincerely will be pissed that he tries to get back with money. Will forgive him, stay with him but forgetting is hard because of trust. He will have to work/ re-earn the trust again. Will ask him to keep the cash but make him promise to never let it happen again. After all who owns him and the money? Relationship is not money and money is not relationship. If he does not have the money nko but came back with remorse why not forgive when I love him!what I will actually watch out for is his true remorse. One thing is to say "sorry" another is to "be truly sorry". If u are not truly sorry for what u did(no admittance) then will forgive u(for my inner peace) but not stay.



But come oo. Why is this meme kinda woman targeted? Nah so women like money reach? So if it's a woman that needs forgiveness what tempting thing can she use to beg for forgiveness? Lolzz

Mawin y'all

LIB REP (中华人民共和国) said...

Question for the ladies...oya make una answer

Chibyke O. said...

Hmmmm, Linda, if u can do it I can. I guess that should be $250k * black market rate omo

believemynature said...

Linda.i will forgive and forget sharp sharp.thats real money out there.

Alloy Chikezie said...

I'll forgive and stay.

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Unknown said...

I love u bae will be ma reply

Unknown said...

He will definitely cheat on you again and bring more money to ask for forgiveness when you accept the first one. For me he can take his cheating ass straight to hell

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Lol nope

Unknown said...

who are mine not to forgive when god forgives

Unknown said...

who are mine not to forgive when God forgives

Unknown said...

why not??

Anonymous said...

I don stay finish,d one dat you'll be beaten and not even apologized to and we still stay not to talk more of apologizing with dollars!...i'll say,baby boo,dis apology is not just for this particular gal,u have 2 free cheating with this kind of apology

DADDYSWIFE said...

Sharp!sharp!! No time any person dt say otherwise is a hypocrite and a pretender.I go even tell am say make am continue with d mistake I go dey forgive am.abeg economy hard
#nothankyoui'dratherbeselfmade

Unknown said...

This is no apology anyway...though it can help, but it should come after the main apology. He isn't buying your emotions off

Anonymous said...

I'll take the cheddars buh ain't forgiving shii! 😂😂😂😂😂

Unknown said...

If I hear say n9er babe no forgive?

Unknown said...

In this kind of economic situation, in fact I will encourage her to cheat more...

Kenny said...

Well , The Bible says forgive and forget. Lolz

Folasade said...

If l decided to forgive and stay with him , honestly speaking he must hold on to his money otherwise he would cheat again and look for money to buy my own mind,but refusing the money will make him confuse and might want to be careful next time

Kenny said...

Hold on a second. I have a strong feeling that this money is owned by Lindaikeji and she's only needs with our opinion while she counts her bread

Anonymous said...

I will take the money and still reject his apology. Compensation for a broken heart!

Unknown said...

I will ask her to cheat again.. Then apologize again in the usual way.

b said...

Simple maths, accept it get into a relationship with some1 else, makes sure he catches mi, and breaks up with me. win win!!!!!

Swoosh said...

I will forgive ooo!

Unknown said...

Geeeees!.. With this amount, ur past, present and future sins are forgiven ans forgotten.. Go and cheat again!

Unknown said...

And he feels he can buy my love with money?

shakur said...

Never...

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Yes but if it happens again, I won't


...merited happiness

Unknown said...

in dis Nigerian situation u are still asking dis kind of question?

Anonymous said...

Accept the money first with shakara before any other talk happens

Anonymous said...

Won't just stay...I will b praying she keeps cheating

Unknown said...

Old news
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Unknown said...

Yes naa, y wouldn't I forgive in dis buhari govt, will I eat love

Unknown said...

I will accept as many as he will drop.. Life is too short to cry over a stupid irresponsible man.. I will not only take the money, I will also leave a "thank you" note for him.. I can't stop kill myself Biko..
My Dear future husband Biko always remember to use condom. Thanks

Anonymous said...

No.money shouldn't make any decent person do anything.mine cheated and begged but I stayed for my kids,something money can't buy.i cheated back any way and men,did it feel good.whenever I remember how he cheated on me, I recall how I cheated back and until now he keeps calling and begging dat we should hook up again.im considering it though,if he cheats again that is.

PrettyGirl said...

Huh? I'll So take the money and Everyday I'll just be like 'Baby please have you cheated today'? Lmfao !!!

Anonymous said...

De money first, e no offend me

Anonymous said...

Intergrity gbakwa oku, (thunder fire integrity) lol will take the cash,while pretending that I'm still angry with her. Times are hard, u expect the unexpected in times like this.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm y will I NT foRgive

Unknown said...

Why not??? The money will make the wounds heal faster....lol

Pretty face said...

If he can buy your forgiveness with money then ure obviously in the relationship for the wrong reasons, your motive itself is wrong

Anita said...

I will forgive, forget, stay, pound yam nd prepare 3 different soup for him lol. Show me a man who doesn't cheat nd I will show u a pregnant 89year old woman. Is better I cry in a glass house dan cry in a mud house...

Obaoye Adekunle said...

I no go collect ooo

Unknown said...

Lol, I will gladly forgive her

Unknown said...

Ofcux I will

Genny's Blog said...

Apology accepted.



says, Genevieve.

Anonymous said...

I will take the money for all of my troubles and walk away. Na gratuity

Bonita Bislam said...

Who anger epp? 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀I will so forgive, forget and forgo

Merit said...

Yes o I will 4give him instanta

drS said...

I would collect it and tell him to f**k off. Spend part, invest part and save part ;)

Merit said...

Yes o I will 4give him instanta

Anonymous said...

Pls ticket for 1 month free!!!! I will sort more flavor a for him! Forgiven

Folashade Idowu said...

Linda, what are you saying, is this not American currency, who unforgiving and unforgettable don epp? As far as the guy is this generous let the relationship continue till when I finish spending the money, then amma kick his cheating assume. good morning everyone!

Anonymous said...

jogunola mercy

Anonymous said...

it depends on d offence

Unknown said...

The relationship will be interesting

Unknown said...

Linda this is not a question. We forgive them without money and u asked when money is involved. Sweetheart, there is nothing to forgive any i never said I was leavin, we are in this together.

Unknown said...

I will even delete my memory and 4get it ever happened .lol
Signed
#LibBadBoy

Proudly African said...

***LINDA NA WAH FOR U OH! WHY WON'T I FORGIVE & STAY, AS LONG AS HE DIDNT GIVE D WOMAN BELLE LIKE SOM YORUBA EJAM BOOs. BUT I WON'T "FORGET", REASON BEING DT D MEMORY OF DS CASH WILL KEEP RINGING ON MY HEAD WITH JOY!

Anonymous said...

Yes I completely accept his heartfelt sincere apologies.
Love him forever.

Anonymous said...

E 2 much sef. Jut one rap and all is well.

Anonymous said...

Who em cheat help....but the dollars do help so much until I get someone better

Anonymous said...

I will over stay

moses joy said...

D bible says we should 4give n 4get, y not

CandyFloss said...

Yes I will.

Prince-T said...

Most definitely will accept buh will never trust her ever again... Just take the money and stay for a short while then take off bruv......

Anonymous said...

It depends on with whom they cheated, how they cheated, where the cheating took place.
If he cheated with my sister or caught in a guy act or cheated by taking the person to a private and exclusive island, no I will not.
If it was however normal cheating like secretary taken to a hotel bought a phone bla bla then yes, why not?

Lyze said...

I'll tell him in d most romantic voice... Baby pls feel free to cheat again.

Unknown said...

Let him cheat everyday and Apologies everyday with de same amount

Anonymous said...

change no bro i we not because if u do than be ready to remain the small man you choose to be careful when you take some decisions.

Sylvia said...

This is a nice one but the problem is finding such a boo... Abeg if u are here drop ur details.... With me u will have 2days off(days to cheat) mind u my love is not for sale but wit the current situation of our economy I will forgive you nd I hope we can even do dis twice in a week for 6months... You can even pay upfront.. Any week u run out of a cheatee pls call me... I will provide u with 1...any week you refuse to cheat ehhh THE THUNDER THAT WILL FIRE YOU WILL COME LIKE FREE WIFI ND IT WILL DOWNLOAD FAST..

Anonymous said...

All is forgiven, all is forgotten, stay? NO

nekkymighty said...

Ha linda I have already forgiven,and will stay...At a point I will beg him to go and cheat cos I know he will apologise with more dollar...#@foreal#

Unknown said...

Didn't the Bible teach us to forgive and pray for each other? Abeg o, I'm a good Bible believing Christian, forgiveness is my name.

Unknown said...

Will take the money and still walk away

Layinna said...

I will take the money and go!!! stay ko stay ni.

lioness said...

Totally forgiven....#MoneyTalksBullshitWalks

Anonymous said...

Can accept him back if he would never cheat again not on the grounds of some dollar

Anon said...

Arranged paper wit a dollar bill on top huh?

Anonymous said...

Before#whofightdonepp???!wont be thinking of the Cheating rather be busy calling all the Beareau de change Mallams on my Contact for rates😜😍

Unknown said...

Things like this don't happen anyway but if it happens it depends the condition I am then but if am rich nko no way ooo

Unknown said...

Why not!i will forgive n forget and use the money go find another boo...lolz....to err is human to forgive is divine

Unknown said...

I go take money first cos I wouldn't want to lose on both sides. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

Yes I will surely do.owo ma lape.

Unknown said...

Amnesia all the way... #proudlyibo# who unforgivness epp???

Anonymous said...

I will take the money, then leave

Anonymous said...

He should increase the money. Seriously, most of us forgive for nothing so $30,000.00 would be wonderful

Anonymous said...

Ordinary cheating???

Anonymous said...

Ordinary cheating???

Stephan said...

Infct he shd continue cheatin and apologisin lyk dis,I' forgive and stay,shebi forget is in my mind he won't know.

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

t_boi said...

with open arms.

Unknown said...

I will forgive, not for the money but only if his apology is sincere... then i'll take the money and have the time of my life... as I don hammer... I dey sing.

9ja Parrot said...

$20,000? Some people would even ask for more cheats and more apologies in this way!

Anonymous said...

What is cheating? Immediately if he can be giving me this anytime he cheats pls let him continue cheating. Will forgive him instantly

Unknown said...

In other word, buying u off with money.... This will be the main reason why I will not forgive him?? Lols.... Saphire shut up joorh.... Abeg where this thing came out from, shebi daris more dere?? If yes... U are forgiven lols.... And will never ask u abt it again..... But prays u cheatd again so that it will be finally over lols









............good life or nothing......

Unknown said...

I'll just advice her to constantly cheat and i'll always forgive... dee

Unknown said...

D only reason I would not stay is if am wealthy....N moni isn't a thing.

Unknown said...

4give and 4get u asked? I will even bury the cheat and collect the money. If cheating will make him happy, this wrap of dollars will equal make me happy lol!

JAGABAN said...

I dey crase?where I wan go before?if cheating can bring this,please cheat for a living my dear,afterall if u die from poverty partner go then continue,ha!see blooood money!

Anonymous said...

I will even kneel down and ask for forgiveness and confess all my own infidelity ....#buyingTomatoes and fuel ...

Anonymous said...

I will even kneel down and ask for forgiveness and confess all my own infidelity ..oshe buy8by of tomatoes and fuel...

moss said...

I will be like U never offended me babe. Just bring it sha

Anonymous said...

No need 4 d note d cash said it all I wil beg 4 more cheating

Ms.Nicey said...

Take the money & kick his ass off..

Anonymous said...

Before nko,The Lord said we should forgive

Anonymous said...

Mony cant buy my love....if she does accept it,he wil keep paying ha.i mean, happiness is not bot, erez noffin lik havin peace of mind. Those who married for mony can attest to what am sayin..my opinion!

Anonymous said...

Ofcos I will forgive and forget..loll,infact it never happened.

Anonymous said...

Yes now! I will gladly accept. Na all of

Unknown said...

Like hell I would!! But forgetting he ever cheated on me? That one I can't say though.

Unknown said...

I'll get the money as a ramsome

princess said...

Hmmmm... at this point in time, I'll forgive

Unknown said...

Thank God I'm a man...on the second thought it's wrong to accept it because he's going to do it again all he's got to do is add more money to seek forgiveness..I trust dem broke gals n side chicks sha..na dem way

Unknown said...

I will get the money as a ransom for the sin. Then forgive & forget but won't stay back

Unknown said...

I will get the money as a ransom for the sin. Then forgive & forget but won't stay back

Angelcolly said...

Espeakilekwe linda over forgiveness go get worry me. I go forgive and forgive in advance the ones he hasn't even done.

Anonymous said...

Why won't I forgive, d stress in dis earth is enough already, I can not come and kill my self in ordinary thing I can ignore , I will just forgive nd use the money nd take care of myself . After all he is sorry , dats wat matters

Unknown said...

SHE WOULD EVEN PAY HER BRIDE PRICE HERSELF WITH PART OF THE MONEY. AND GO BACK TO HIM WITH ALL HER HEART.







AUNTY LINDA....

Unknown said...

Linda ikeji. But why asking thus kind of question...well for me boo can keep cheating as long as d apology is tag with USD..after all da are all ??

Unknown said...

No church rejects tithe even when the member seldom attends that parish again. He is over forgiven sef

Unknown said...

No church rejects tithe even when the member seldom attends that parish again. He is over forgiven sef

Anonymous said...

Anytime he cheats let em keep increasing d money I will stay....!!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm Linda, just forgive nd forget? I will forgive, forget, delete,traditional marriage, white weeding,hav many more children wit her self nd even ask for more..lol

Unknown said...

Who anger epp



#PeterObiForPresident2019

Unknown said...

Money can neither buy love nor trust.

Unknown said...

I'll tell him to go buy another bitch and not me.

Anonymous said...

I would take d money n forgive n pray to God to kill his libido towards me so that we won't have sex,or we use a condom, just live like room mates and be enjoying cash cos if I catch HIV, d cash won't appeal to me.

Unknown said...

Can do ohh!!. Love cannot be bought with money. But i know some ladies will collect sha and a consolation price. LOL <B

kennybravo said...

Money is not everything #lindaseemee

Jude Akinwole said...

I guess giving you the money with the apology kinda means he's really sorry.... but I'll advice you take him back, keep the cash, study him over a period of time, and if there's no change, give him back his money & kick his sorry ass out!

Jude Akinwole said...

I guess giving you the money with the apology kinda means he's really sorry.... but I'll advice you take him back, keep the cash, study him over a period of time, and if there's no change, give him back his money & kick his sorry ass out with his money!

Anonymous said...

If I were a woman, I will forgive. Since got has made me a MAN I no fit. Sorry.

Anonymous said...

Sipping my beer while waiting for the hypocrites to wake up.....linda take note

Anonymous said...

Linda though I cnt b bought; I'll accept it if d figure in naira makes sense n runs in millions.But I wnt 4get or forgive,will stay pending when he commits again cos once a cheat,always a cheat.And I go catch am pkichikom like fly.So I go use dis one as excuse,waka go enjoi my millions wey I been hammer.Cnt shout ooo

Unknown said...

With d condition of our economy now,i will say a BIG YES nd accept him o,after all,men cheat,its dia nature
















Lib addict#just passing#







Lib addict#just passing#

styles said...

sipping my beer and waiting for the hypocrites to wake up...linda take note

Mirabel njung said...

Take de money (as pension) and leave 😏

Bitcoin miner said...

I will forgive and forget, but I will not stay because of money, but genuine repentance and faithfulness

Anonymous said...

Is my heart on hire purchase? Why does he need to buy sorry? If I want to forgive him, he has to show recompense that he won't falter again.

Chizzy Liz said...

*****************************************If dix wee come as an Apology gift each time he cheats ****************i wee officially place a tag on hix road ****************** balls for rent !!!!!!!!!!!! Omo*****************I go jux look into hix eyes and say !!!!!!!!!!! Baby !!!!!!!! Pls cheat on me again n again ************go ahead cheat !!!!!!!!!!! Is it not jux to dig???????????????? Dig every hole n report back to me baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chizzy Liz said...

*****************************************If dix wee come as an Apology gift each time he cheats ****************i wee officially place a tag on hix road ****************** balls for rent !!!!!!!!!!!! Omo*****************I go jux look into hix eyes and say !!!!!!!!!!! Baby !!!!!!!! Pls cheat on me again n again ************go ahead cheat !!!!!!!!!!! Is it not jux to dig???????????????? Dig every hole n report back to me baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chizzy Liz said...

*****************************************If dix wee come as an Apology gift each time he cheats ****************i wee officially place a tag on hix road ****************** balls for rent !!!!!!!!!!!! Omo*****************I go jux look into hix eyes and say !!!!!!!!!!! Baby !!!!!!!! Pls cheat on me again n again ************go ahead cheat !!!!!!!!!!! Is it not jux to dig???????????????? Dig every hole n report back to me baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Depending on the level of cheating... if it's at the highest level and for the umpteenth time. Then I will take the money and after 2 weeks or 1 month, I will still leave his cheating ass...

Unknown said...

If na the man cheat accept but if na the woman then na total rubbish.in na slap she go chop.

Anonymous said...

I will accept it, forgive and forget but I won't stay. He will do this again and again and try to use all kinds of gifts to tempt me. God please don't give me a cheating man.

Anonymous said...

I'll accept the cash gift,forgive you, but i won't get back with you. If you demand for the money back, i'll already be long gone where you can't find me!

Mr 47 said...

Ehhh!!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm...I swear after collecting d Money I Cant just remember she cheated on me buh will eventually av my out stylishly

Chinedu said...

My forgiving her and staying will depend on if i really love her, as we all know forgetting is hard..it will never be about the money...

Chinedu said...

Moreover her begging with the money is insulting,that alone might make me not want her back..

Linda emeafu said...

I will collect and forgive but will never trust again.

koolemmy said...

Y nt Ders condition lik dnt cheat on me or be wit me alone on d letter so I will accept +she go gv see join aha @lindaikeji ds na full package na

Esther Dangana said...

Eh, you are asking Linda? Sharpaly I will forgive and forget. What did the Lords prayer said?

princess Stella said...

Yes, I'll stay..

Unknown said...

Bitches would agree! after all that's what they need men for right! only a foolish man would give his heart to a woman

Nneka said...

Hahahaha.... no comment.

Unknown said...

With or with out the money. I will forgive him if I really love him.

Anonymous said...

Aunty Linda please where is the boyfriend? Am looking for him please

Anonymous said...

I would ask myself why I am really in the relationship. If I do love him, I would forgive but won't get back with my partner.
Money is not supposed to replace a contrite heart.

..... C'est moi. .....

Unknown said...

Why not,forgive,forget and disappear!lol

Tito said...

Forgive him with all my heart and also tell him to offend me once more n come with such apology

Stephan said...

Infact he shd continue cheatin n be apologisin dis way,I'l forgive and stay shebi forget is immma mind,he won't knw naa

Anonymous said...

Lol 😂😂😂😂

Kunle Ola said...


Lol...collecting the money is not the issue, Bi cos breaking your heart for the first, second time is coming and it we pain.Now is rest my case..

Aka Magunda...Kunle Ola..

Kunle Ola said...


Lol...collecting the money is not the issue, Bi cos breaking your heart for the first, second time is coming and it we pain you.

Aka Magunda...Kunle Ola..

Anonymous said...

Oboi right now for naija money is everything!

Stephan said...

Abegii, na lie,its only a daunce or a person woman wit demensia or amnesia dat wil forget.. #cuddlingmybaby#whilexpressingmymind#

Stephan said...

Bia u dis stern,I'v noticed u enof dis year,gez ur on trail for dat end of year giveaway...anyways kedu????

Stephan said...

Abegii, na lie,its only a daunce or a person woman wit demensia or amnesia dat wil forget.. #cuddlingmybaby#whilexpressingmymind#

OBA'S BLOG said...

It good to forgive so dat u can be forgiven. Bk was here!!

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Anonymous said...

Yes i'll stay for only 30 days and be gone. $1,000 for each day.

DADDYSWIFE said...

Lwkmd.u no well
#nothankyoui'dratherbeselfmade

DADDYSWIFE said...

Lwkmd!
#nothankyoui'dratherbeselfmade

Anonymous said...

N u'l rather b selfmade? Hian it's contradictory. Hp he won't bring some kind of disease to u, since u'v given him go ahead to cheat.

olythopia said...

Hey getaway u! U will be dia talking what u can't do.

olythopia said...

U will be preaching plenty rubbish dia! This is real life not mills and boom novel.

olythopia said...

Oooh plsss be real! Even Dangote's daughter will collect the money. So who are u?!

olythopia said...

Over correct dey worry you, u too sabi!

Anonymous said...

That's y I like Bible, just forgive and forget immediately as a Christian. D package remind me my Bible. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Anonymous said...

I will take the money and tell him fuck you...

Kay said...

meeeeen, that's some dough right there, i'll take the money and forgive but I don't think I can forget. but all the same i'll stay.

LYN said...

Lol @ not mills and boom novel

Anonymous said...

$30k x 365 aboki rate nah 10.9 million oooh,she cheated for a good reason nah.Even if stone dey my heart i go forgive her

Unknown said...

Lwkmd here.Sylvia....u just made my night.lolz

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