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Friday, 27 March 2015

How May D assaulted me for years - Baby mama shares story with photos

Last night, singer May D's baby mama Adebola Olowoporoku reached out to me to share her sad story and how she endured brutal beatings from the singer, real name Akinmayokun Awodumila, for years. She said she broke up the relationship in December 2014 to escape the violence but when they met up again in January to talk about their son who was born in January 2013 (read here), he beat her up again, this she told me over the phone. Read her story which she wrote herself after the cut...


The couple 8 years ago

Hi Linda,
My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m MayD’s baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my story as short as possible. 

I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were together from the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities for and started to do diligently..

Now, like most relationships we had major problems which included the frequent cheating  and escapades with girls which I obviously endured as I was consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good thing in return,  he never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we were in a relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be it business, friendship etc.  

The thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly infront of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I witnessed been close to death, I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me, damaging several properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.

This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself, who will take care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been wasted….

PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that want to comment bullshit)……
PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….

DEBOLA

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PYRAMID TOP said...

I am angry.

igho nelly said...

Common she has been with this guy before he became popular. So this is not about him being a celebrity

APPLELIPX said...

And it took her this long to speak out... Probably enjoying d fame.
This had nothing to do with love; our generation is just lust after affluence

U only told a story; it seems u have no plans of making things right
Get a lawyer or Forgive ursef and move on

princess kehinde said...

HMMMMM. Never knew may d could b like dat ooh
And I like him ooh

Anonymous said...

No wonder he's not making it again in the music industry...continue beating a women u hear nemesis don already dey catch up with you useless thing.

david said...

woah

Itohan Ogbebor said...

This is quit shocking act from a man like May D

Sena Job said...

Wetin kon concern us now....u gave him ur school fee so.....na 2day him dey beat u.....na u wan popular by 4ce date celeb.......for u 2 hav attended babcock I assume your parent are rich.....u no c beta person date 4 ur skool na May D wey manage drop few singles u dey date.......u call linda now sey him dey beat,d tym wey him dey straff u shey u rmbr linda....u 4 no clean dat name 4 ur back.....sori na love

Anonymous said...

@lwkmd_naija is that u cant read or u jst wanna cast stone on d lady? She has bin with May.D way bck wen they were in skl. So pls@lwkmf_naija were does famezin comes in? Abi if na yhr sis wan marry May.D u go tell her nt to cz him be celebrity. Please always think deeply b4 u put up a comment. I no our level of thinking aint the same bt atleast a little common sense.

adanna francis said...

Say NO to domestics VIOLENCE, thats all i learnt from this story. You dont have to take shit ( and stay) just because he is FAMOUS or will EVEN BE FAMOUS, just because he is RICH or has the POSSIBILITIES of becoming rich!!!!! SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!! Fine boy matter sef no suppose make you stay to take abuse!!!! SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

adanna francis said...

Say NO to domestics VIOLENCE, thats all i learnt from this story. You dont have to take shit ( and stay) just because he is FAMOUS or will EVEN BE FAMOUS, just because he is RICH or has the POSSIBILITIES of becoming rich!!!!! SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!! Fine boy matter sef no suppose make you stay to take abuse!!!! SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I am happy u finally found the strength to speak about it. It's been going on for years and u have been silent, no woman deserves to be treated as such. U sacrificed ur fees nd much more. That fool isn't worth it.

elizabeth rantimi said...

I'm sure u can read very well. Bcoz I don't think u understood everything she wrote. Bcoz if u do, u won't say she was looking for a famous broke man, he was nothing when she met him, meaning she did not discriminate. Bcoz she only saw the good in him. Pls learn to read before u post a comment, dont read out of context, thanx.

Anonymous said...

When una go dey die for celebs like say na only dem be human beings... Enjoy the beating more. WJ

Anonymous said...

Don't be ignorant, whether or not she was looking a famous man. NO woman and I mean NO woman deserves to go through ny form of domestic violence... Even if she was a street walker, NO woman deserves to be violated in any form or manner

Anonymous said...

if this is true then violence has to be stopped

Musa Isa said...

Hmmmm this is serious ooo saynotodomesticvoilence

puffylee combs said...

oh... sorry about all that. some people are like that. God give u strength to cater for ur son. Stay Blessed. and for u tramp that just comment bullshit like u, where u wan carry this ur stupidity go? u nor go get sense. the she share the story so a mo'fucker start ridiculing her. abeg wise o for d comment

Anonymous said...

Pls say no to domestic violence. Shame on u. May D

daisy mba said...

No woman should pass tru this,but no woman should put all d blame on d man.d first day a man does that and u don't punish him severely he will surely do it again.u eida suck it up or u fight against d violence. Leave him and help oda women in ur situation

Oluchi Lambert said...

Really sad story, I hope he will not come and bounce on you again when he read this. Pls take care of your boy and forget about him.

Anonymous said...

Debola sheybi u know ure not a saint in this? #just Passing....pple dnt b quick to judge o.

Anonymous said...

Mr may D is irresponsible. He doesn't care how the child is being fed and where the money is coming from. I don't think the child should bear his surname. Am sorry debola for the domestic violence but u shld have arrested him long ago.Smh

Oluchi Lambert said...

Really sad story, I hope he will not come and bounce on you again when he read this. Pls take care of your boy and forget about him.

vivian ajiye said...

This is really bad. Pls just take good care of your child coz he needs you more than ever

daisy mba said...

No woman should pass tru this.but she should not blame d man alone

beautiful said...

Debola!u're a pretty girl,pls leave dat dead beat looney tune alone n run 4 ur life

mountn cino said...

I guess area fada's article must av gotten at her.say NO to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.Linda post my comment or...

abimbola Akinbolade said...

Am not surprised though with that his Igbo dark lips....awww,Debola,I feel so sad for you....just let go of the stupid relationship, nay God heal ur wound
We all know where likes of the Yeye May Z ends eventually #Say no to violence

Victoria Morgan said...

May D now I hate you

Anonymous said...

he beat u up, you stayed back. I can't blame u, d things we women do for love. Dearie, u have to forgive and let go, cos this bitterness impacts negativity. And to all d girls out there enduring rubbish in d name of love, pray for wisdom to forge ahead, and stop praying for your partner to change

ASAMPOKOTO said...

Olodo. Did you not see she was with him before fame. As in you can't read ni?
And as for our dear writer, PLS refrain from calling yourself a 'baby-mama'. Don't know when it became a title to behold. Like isn't it condescending? What happened to his child's mother or may-d is the father of my child.

ASAMPOKOTO said...

He still has a career?

MRS CHI UDE(Baby Face) said...

May D
May D
May D
May God help u,dont know what men gain from domestic violence,it just shows how weak u are as a man. Madam MayD tnk God ur eyes don open,now ur love don wear eyeglass,pls go take care of ur self and ur son.

Anonymous said...

What an ignorant & clueless statement u wrote. Am sure u didn't read & process d message she was passing across to d public. It's not a must that u should reply to everything on this blog. Think & change !

Anonymous said...

Observe the relationship started way before you knew his name

Blackgold said...

You retarded cunt. I'm sure u skipped the part where she said she was there from the get-go. Y'all just come here and open that septic tank u call mouth and ooze filth.

Subomi said...

Why come out now, why was this never reported to the police, why call yourself baby mama.. that said, I dont condone domestic violence, if this is true, I am truly disappointed, I’m not a May D super fan but i just always thought the guy was cool and easy going

aloysius anne said...

mayD is not fair u r not suppose to be a public figure if u practise domestic violence

Chilaka Christian said...

No stay, continue they draw useless tattoo BigFool

Deborah Utit said...

Shut up! Did u even read the story or where you just in a hurry to be the first the comment. Ass wipe.

nnenne adani said...

Am glad she left.

Anonymous said...

U left him for a good cause...ur son!!

Femi said...

So MayD wasnt a sure boy anyway, why beating up a woman unless he(MayD) grew up in an abusive household triggered by his past.

Anonymous said...

No.Really things we do stupidly for love.Ask for forgiveness from God my dear and MOVE ON.

prettiyz said...

Wow,8 fucking years of domestic violence, babe u really do love him but that is not a good enough reason to be a punching bag,am glad u were finally able to make the right decision if not for urself at the very least u did it for ur son so kudos

Anonymous said...

The point is that the dude should take responsibility of his kid and desist from hitting women!!!

Domestic Violence just has to be the worst!!

Only WEAK MEN indulge in such!

Anonymous said...

She should go and relax first abeg

Anonymous said...

She no talk since ooI na now way the boy done move ahead na hom she dey talk

Anonymous said...

Make she go pack sand chop abeg

tsalz c.e.o said...

plss alwys put the dude in ur prayers plsss..

Anonymous said...

Chai....Debola abi what is your name.......this is sooooo not true....can the beat u up with so much makeup on your face, and scratches on ur chest.....

Mr. Mayd.......#Ibadi#Sureboy#confam

Debola....please remove your tattoo and get a life

Anonymous said...

Like she said . She was with him before the fame . Cut her some slack . That's a girl that was in love . In love we endure , accept and try keeping things in a piece .

preshy debbiez said...

Thank u for speaking out! God bless you!!!

Anonymous said...

Hello Mr MayD. Hear the voice of the Lord, u are Doomed. U beat a babe who has done so much for u? Have always known u are a tout, frm ur rough look. Am not interested in ur side of d story ooo so don't bother.
Debola u are a foolish woman too. U don't hang with a broke guy, highly irresponsible man. I kn u might go bck to him. Gud luck ooo if u go back.

Patience George said...

So sorry dear

Anonymous said...

I will say this as a woman who has witnessed a friend cry wolf when it comes to domestic violence. Please give both parties a chance to tell their side.

Antonia Osadugba said...

When you see a black boy that smokes his a** off, with his stupid black lips and all. Girl, the number of years doesn't matter, what matters s who you are in a relationship with. MayD of all pple. #AnythingIsPossible

Wokacity said...

Hmm! Why will a man beat a woman for no reason?! there must be a reason for all this.

Chidalu ihetu said...

Hmmm! I wonder what men derive from beating women! Cowards! Mtcheww!

Malaysiame said...

My dear pls your life is more important, run and don't look back... I had the same experience with my ex... But in my own case he would give me money after beating buy expensive gift....until my younger sister advice me that I'm too young for the messy boo boo situatio

Anonymous said...

That's if he had a career before.

Endy said...

Say no to domastic violence, Sorry girl u did the right tin

grace yohanna said...

It is well with u my dear. Thank God u had the courage to leave. U r beautiful, so u will find someone who will love you the way u deserve. Kisses to you and your son.

Anonymous said...

May D would never do this, she is just obsessed and frustrated. Baby mama drama!

Anonymous said...

OK, lady you have only yourself to blame. You gave ur life to a man for 8yrs for free.No one values anything that comes cheap. Am a lady and I identify with giving your all to a guy. For your sons sake coming on Linda ikeji to put this story out here I'd fawl!!!. Move on with your life

snow-white said...

U are a strong woman, u are courageous and brave may the Almighty God strengthen u more. U will find a better person who will love u and ur son as if he were his. Hold on strong dear .

Saosao said...

@lwkmd_naija you and Royal Priesthood drop the DUMBEST comments on here. Can't u read how long they have been dating even before he made it. Gosh just so u can talk u come here to say jargons about ppl. Shake my head for your naive life to say d least.

Anonymous said...

omg all the things wrong with these so called naija celebs! I feel her pain! being with a man for that long and sacrificing your life for him only to be treated like trash by the imbecile who doesnt remember who you are or what yo have done for him. May God bless her soul and be the father to her precious baby boy and use that boy to bless her but as for may d may God judge him and may he regret his actions in due time.

Malaysiame said...

Messy boo boo situation, omo I look for admission I left naija, thank God for my life.., so Nne better run for your life and live the fake ass nigga.

Anonymous said...

This story is smelling 😷. All lies...even the photos show it... If Una break up and e no work out well, why claim violence?, he ain't no woman beater.

Anonymous said...

Love gone wrong. He was beating you and you still stayed for 8 years ???

Anonymous said...

the bobo wey be like tooth pick dey beat peron i nknow dia kondo in magodo na weed and frustration joor sadly u don go tatoo im name for ur body pele ooo.
shynenar

OYELAJA YOSOLA said...

No to domestic violence!!!!! Dnt worry God will give u d strength to nurture ur child nd for dose guys dat think beating up a woman is a show of power shame on u u shld try men ur size

Eniwealth said...

I hope it does!

Anonymous said...

Before jumping to conclusion , let's hope we hear may-d's own side of the story.

hawtness redifined said...

May D.. no more endorsements for u.. as skinny as u are, u lay ur matchstick hands on a woman... I would have sworn u were immunocompromised.. ode.. skeleton of the universe.. biceps, mba, toned abs,mba.... nothing...mchewww.

Aladetan Idowu said...

Some time most girls get what they asked for, they r so insulting mostly when they know they r d favorite one.

Anonymous said...

The red flag was obvious from the get go. Women there is a level of help that you should be able to give a man, anything else is a no no! Why would you pay his school fees and studio fee Etc I cannot see myself doing these things for any man, pple are cold hearted. Let this be a lesson to other girs ... The worst past is that you let yourself get pregnant... It would have been so much easier to move on had a kid not been involved

Anonymous said...

Am dissapointed in this girl, see the broom wey dey beat am. Looool

Anonymous said...

Kai! Women they suffer o

Oyibo said...

You never saw anything good in the relationship. He was cheating on you. Enjoying your money. You didn't have freedom and you still decided to get pregnant for him. All out of wedlock. I don't support dv but in this case, you were enjoying it all. You have made your bed. Please lie on it.

iyke cindy said...

Say NO to domestic violence!!!!btw she tried oooo,cant tattoo a guy's name on my body oooo* #noooo in Helen paul's voice...

Anonymous said...

it is quiet unfortunate. I just confirmed from friends of Mayokun 'May D' and they said her story is true. that the beating has gone on for years and they wonder why she stayed this long. domestic violence is a no no!!! and that guy should be in a rehabilitation centre, he definitely needs help.

Anonymous said...

Eeeeya....I know you are making this public so we can know the kind of person he really his right? My dear dnt worry he is a nobody and will never make good music not until he ask for your forgiveness. Babes move on not too many women like you are around this dayz to stick to a broke ass and get beat up in return. Infact let me tell you more single men are looking for after one ,divorced women to marry so stick your head up you will be fine at the end.

Anonymous said...

Hw stupid can u be mr first 2 comment? Wat part didn't u read and understand that she's been wit his broke ass b4 he was a star. Mr I must comment

Anonymous said...

See d ugly guy sef mtcheeew,i won't even consider dating dt ugly tin if my life depended on it.madam d very 1st day he laid hands on u dts d day u shd hv run 4 ur life,get a job n take care of ur son,u hv ur life ahead of u...irresponsible idiot!he'll meet his match

Anonymous said...

He must be an annimal.

dr walter said...

@lwkmd.dnt be a fool,they have been 2geda even before he becaje famous(dat is if he is sef).for all i know MayD is an animal.he looks it though.n u madam,i wont judge u for being a baby mama,but i know ur type.if u like crawl back into his arms,d next one weylinda go post na ur obituary

shomo p said...

You are not a very smart person. Why on earth would you give any man your school fees? Very dumb. Why on earth would tattoo a man that is not even your husband's name on your body. i assume your parents gave you money for school fees and you decided to give it to your then boyfriend. That's unfair on your parents.
I don't have any pity for you since you didn't pity your parents who worked so hard to provide your school fees only for you to give it to a man.
Shame on you.

okike Godwin said...

Hi Debola,since u are good in staying with up coming superstars,pls I am an up coming actor and am single looking a woman who will believe and support my career....can pls b my boo I will not beat u like mayD does

Anonymous said...

This blog is read everywhere...May D, your own don finish OOOOOO

Anonymous said...

Sorry about this Debola love. I know how long you've stood by this man. The sacrifices aren't worth it!!

chee bassey said...

We girls what we do for love for this fucking idiots called men

Anonymous said...

Please ladies stop giving men money,stop it stop it stop it, staying with him when doesn't have doesn't mean he will stick with u Nooooo Nooo he wont, use d money to build yourself, all this Nigerian men don't deserve help, ladies sticking with a man for yrs thinking u ve got him to your side is a lie oo, use d money to build up your self, so many ladies suffering from this but NO they won't listen, if this men get d money d two of u have been pursuing he will leave u to another lady, and that lady will be the one spending d money with him getting her all sort of things buying her Brazilian hair paying for d fixing self, u that suffer with him u won't get any of this! But they keep complaining Nigeria girls are bitch, u see dis mayd gf she did d right thing but some brainless people will still insult her even mayd family and friends too and most of this things happening to most ladies are coming from the guyz parent especially d mother in laws because I feel is something they are suppose to talk to their sons head because they were not blind when he got nothing who was there for him but no they will put pepper, pls ladies spend wisely for them if u re a victim, helping man is not bad but not for this Nigeria men becox they act like they ve not seen money before in their life if they make it,most of this ladies getting married within 6month of relationship are the one spending the money another woman has built up for the man! So why d hell will you kill your self becox of all this I NEVER SEE MONEY BEFORE! Mayd gf u look a little bit classless please get your self some designers clothes learn how to draw eyebrows dress well and your man will come who will care for your kids within some months u might even get married sef Lol, na vice versa oo Monkey work bamboo chop

Anonymous said...

Beautiful young lady like you i hope you got your degree from Babcock.Don't waste your life with a Stupid man as a main chick. you have the whole life ahead of you. you could be the next Mo Abudu, Oprah, Linda, Tara of House of Tara, Vice president,Governor, but no you settle for a low life who you are more intelligient than. You are a Queen. You can be so much more than a baby mama and a free fcuk...

the fashion engineer said...

Sigh,no one deserves to be treated like this

Anonymous said...

Are u daft?didnt u read wia she said they ve known each other 8 yrs noW?

Chinenye Lorreta said...

Things women do for luv...Glad u left d 'relationship'.take care of ur child

Courage Mbon said...

Dear May D, real men don't beat women! No wonder your career is a wreak!

Anonymous said...

So u cant read again she sed dey v been together for 8 years before d career,fool like u,always quick to insult.

nekkyville said...

Debola ma friend..hmmm so u wnted to stay so dis boy wud kill u abi?..all in d name of I want to reap d fruit of my labour abi?..tank God ur eye don open.as u fine reach n dose fine boys were chasin u den in skool,na tout u c to follow.

Anonymous said...

Thank you for speaking out Debola. It takes a lot of strength and I wish you all the best as you move on and take care of your life and your son.

May D, would do either of two things after this publication: frustrate you, or turn around to take care of his son.

My opinion May D - look after this lady who was with you through thick and thin. Look after your son. The laws of karma can be very harsh, don't start wondering what happened to your mojo years down the line.

God with you Debola.

Dayo said...

Better late than never. Good move. Concentrate on being there for your son. Focus on your life and make the best of it. Leave the past in the past. Don't look back.

abigail nnanna said...

My dear move on with ur life,he wil definitely cum for u

bethany paul said...

My dear u did the right thing by leaving...Pls do me a favour take good care of ur son...he will grow up and be the one wipe ur tears and put a smile on ur face

daisy mba said...

Linda u never post my comment. I just started commenting on ur blog.is this how u will encourage

Chikaka said...

The cane they used to beat the first wife is hotter than the cane they used to beat the subsequent women. The guy needs help. Violent and abusive moron.

Anonymous said...

@lwkmd_naija.... just wondering weda you ever stepped the forewalls of an institution whatsoever. Pls before you post ridiculous comments try read what the young lady wrote once more.

chukukere chikaodi said...

Hmm.. Interesting.

Anonymous said...

@lwkmd_naija.... just wondering weda you ever stepped the forewalls of an institution whatsoever. Pls before you post ridiculous comments try read what the young lady wrote once more.

donald obi said...

Sorry for ur loss lady. But why does it seem dat women these days marvel at the 'baby mama' title??? Beats me bad

Anonymous said...

I am glad dt u re out now. Bt I dnt pity you at all. What were you doing with him? A man dt hits u. Am sure he don dey beat u before u put dt stupid tattoo on ur body. Better late than never tho. Your son is sooo cute.

Anonymous said...

this is sad again it shows how some so called CELEB behave in their closets....she's not a fame monger as some have said its been long they were together...shes just speaking out to say NO to domestic violence.which i thing we all should

Anonymous said...

So touching! Some men are wolves in human clothing

Anonymous said...

Uhmm! All dis stories,on & off..Beta leave alive b4 it's too late.. Apply wisdom o'geh.

Igbine Jane said...

She was with him before the money note that. Sweedy diaris God and he will stand by you, concentrate on taking care of y
our child

OGUNDIRAN OYINDAMOLA said...

C wat sm of we ladies do 4 love, love ws blind bt now it sees, ao can u b so fooled 2 dat extent? Thank God u r out of d hell called relationshp. Ur case wl b a lesson 2 oda ladies out der dat think dey can tie down a guy or make him der own by bn pregnant 4 him. Baby mama 2 celebrities everywhr thank God u learnt ur lesson bt in a vry hard way

phunmylorlar said...

Any man that has balls will never lay a finger on a woman

Anonymous said...

U are a big BASTARD for dis comment.so insensitive!wat makes u think u re decent?dumb ass!

DukeLala said...

If u dont know shit abt debola do nt comment shit,hw many ppl hv u hlp in ur life to be famous.....

ummyten said...

No man should ever lay a hand on a woman, no matter d circumstances.

seriki Abimbola said...

No wonder the idiot is struggling with his career. Am sure he would be one of those coward men that will come out and conderm domestic violence where as they are deeply into the shit!!! Nice one debola. NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

CeeBee said...

well, I think all women were duly warned by May D himself when he sang, ..."the love wey I get for you na Jackie Chan" you just chose to overlook such a serious warning or misinterpret it to mean he will fight for ur love. Hope u know the difference now girls.

Anonymous said...

You are an aboki so i dont expect you to be able to read and understand. Did u not read where she said they have been together for 8yrs b4 he became famous and she supported him even financially. And why will she not share her story to warn other girls and those going through domestic violence. Mumu like you

Anonymous said...

I said it that with ur name, u cnt even knw what sch is all abt not to talk of u reading n understanding smthn. Pls Aboki, next time, just shut up or type lyrics instead. Pele dear

Ify Ng said...

We need to hear both parties out.Judge not so u wont be judged.
ifesco99us@gmail.com

bee said...

Some people are fools dat they only read the Last paragraph....must u comment?

DukeLala said...

To my frnd debola u jst did what u shuld hv done yrs back bt still I appreciate u doing this now cos it nt too late...I know all u went thru even frm d start,u missing a semestre n all,u a gud person glad u happy n as for u ur son he'll be fine with...most ppl wont understand wat u went thru bt dey jst gonna keep say shit...say no to domestic violent.. says famodu femi

Good Person said...

OMG!! Debola I am so sorry for all you've been through, words cannot express how much I feel your pain. Please take the next step and report him to the police, let it be made official that he is a man that beats women.
I do not care what she did to instigate his beating, no man should lay his hands on a woman for godsake!! Some have you have no compassion whatsoever, I pray you never witness this sort of violence or injustice in your life. The heart of man is so wicked!! Gosh!!
I perfectly understand why it took her this long to come out, because you cannot phantom this kind of treatment from someone you've know for so long, let alone the father of your child.
I hope the music industry is taking note, please let's all boycot may d, his shows, his music, everything. Let's say no to violence against women.
Males that beat women are not fit to be called men.
Thank you for your bravery, Debola. I hope you have your degree now so you can support yourself and your son. God be with you both. Amen.

Anonymous said...

All this women sef.

Anonymous said...

stfu dude! Who una help?

LAZY READER said...

Election on my mind not mayd

ALUMONA said...

It's so unfortunate how most men fail to acknowledge very rare it is to have a woman who can stand by you when you are 'nothing.' Very rare it is to see ladies who can believe in you and support you. And so shameful for men out there who with their eyes wild open raise their hands on their women. #Shameful!!

Am proud of you Debola; am proud of your quality to have supported and believed in your man. Have no regrets, be alive and take care of your son. Fate has a way of running over events in our separate lives.

Anonymous said...

No its not him o, dat orezi! Try buy tv keep for house!

Anonymous said...

Any man dat rise his hand on a woman is not a man and can never make it. MayD go ask forgiveness

Anonymous said...

There r always 2 sides to a story.

@lwkmd_naija - follow on instagram/twitter said...

Amen and may God shut the mouths of my fans tellin me to shutup. Lindaobserve

Anonymous said...

U didnt have to comment really! U didnt have to!

Anonymous said...

Debola,

Your son looks angelic and you're a beauty yourself. Please talk to someone, a spiritual mentor, or something, so you can move on from this horrible experience. God will help you and your son.

Anonymous said...

Lol confirmation manager! So we shld clap for u na. Atulu ewu

SWILL MARTIN said...

My dear God will bless u 4 speking up a lot of women drown in such relationships.

Anonymous said...

Say no to violence, but some of us know this story is not as she storied it up, when things don't workout well between two people, some of you start claiming violence. This story is smelling of lies 😷. For the sake of your son, talk true debola!, some us know he takes care of his son well!.

Anonymous said...

I BELIEVE HER - IT TAKES A BRAVE WOMAN TO BE STRONG AND TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Anonymous said...

Y laying blames? Is dt d issue?..Born fool

uzo stelly said...

May d or watver his name is called, who know am outside Nigeria? God bless u finish den all u can do to show gratitude is by beating up ur wife before the very presence of ur child. U must be high on shekpe! Bloody fool! Wish he sees ds post..Mugu. Girl u better tk care of dt child, pray for God to gv u a better man dt will bring out the woman in u...

vivian ajiye said...

Are you dumb?! Don't you knw how to read? Too bad

SandraGee said...

But you know you are very very foolish tbh.

Oskirin said...

well,may d..let's hear ur own side of d defend.
1. women can b a pain in d neck @ times.
2. dere's currently a law against domestic violence in lag.
3. may d,no matter d provocation u dnt av any right 2 raise up ur hand 2 beat ur woman or baby mama.

Summary....women can b naughty at times, pls whn dey start dere wahala,kindly leave home immediately n cum back whn her tension has reduced.but dt doesnt giv u any justification 2 raise up ya hand on her.pls report him 2 d apropriate authority 4 d law 2 take its due cause..

Anonymous said...

Mayd God will reward you. I'm sure he already is, cos your career don dey gutter, all you people saying two sides to the story god will reward you too, all you people abusing the girl god will reward all of you one by one. and una go dey wonder say who do you from your village when you sef be wickedness. a man that beats woman is an animal that should be in jail. if na america he go dey jail right now. nigeria lawless country oshi

Anonymous said...

Shut up mofo...does anytin she did deserve fr ha to b battere like ds?

SandraGee said...

Very very foolish. Must you comment.

mummy said...

woman beater!!!!!!!!!!!1

SandraGee said...

I don't support her for that, but she is not the first, neither will she be the last to display such stupidity. She doesn't need your scolding

Anonymous said...

Did you miss the part where she said she started with him before he became famous?

Anonymous said...

Pick up d pieces and move on with ur life. Learn 4rm ur mistakes and engage ur self in something meaningful. A bitter life will only ruin ur life.

Uchenna... said...

Dear Linda,you shouldn't approve certain comments.even if she started dating him after he blew does it mean he has the right to beat her up,celebrities b Chineke?i don't understand o...That hungry looking vampire sef can beat somebody.You'll think when you stay and hustle with a man when he has nothing,he'll treat you like a queen when he blows...smh...my sister,catch d cockroach and drill a 6inch nail on both sides of his skinny ass,everytime the guy sits down he'll remember you.God will bless and keep both you and your baby.

Anonymous said...

Now am a bit confused, what is the motive behind this. You already moved on so that means you didn't published this to get our opinion or advice but rather to dent his image. Women with their little brains. You all are cursing and shouting without even hearing from MayD. Most of these girls are unbearable and bad mannered. when a woman start using violent words and cursing on a man, what should he do? some will say walk away or keep silent. Some women will even drag his shirt and refuse him from leaving. Mothers should train their daughters properly and teach them how to comport and carry themselves respectfully. I am very sure this girl is bad mannered and wicked. Because obviously since MayD has fallen out of love with her, she just want to tarnish is image, but that wont work. This so called modern day women is what is destroying marriages today. Most LIB female readers are just too underage bcos most of their comments sounds childish and stupid. RAPH

Anonymous said...

Stop lying madam.u just need pity and nw you are popular nw or maybe you need people to donate money for you.begger and please don't spoil people's name and don't forget is still the father of that child you are lying against.wicked woman go get a life

Abayomi Ayoola said...

I sympathize with you. But of course, u enjoyed the beating too to have stayed beaten for 8 years. Congratulations on your decision to live free.

Anonymous said...

Pretty woman.. Please report your husband to the right agency. No woman deserves to be laid hands upon. The freak??!

Anastacia Alex said...

Most men re beast...nd they can Neva change....NNE biko run for ur dear life, b4 he destroys ur life..if he hasn't already...My God will punish dat bastard for treating a lady so badly...retarded old maggot

Anonymous said...

It happens.. He knew her Mumu button and how to press it.

What am I saying sef? Are you justifying him? Must she do something to warrant him laying his filthy hands on her?

Your mentality reeks foolishness to say the least.

Anonymous said...

Nah,Orezi sang rihanna.

UJ COOL said...

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR SAD STORIES SO LONG YOU NIGERIAN LADIES HAVE DECIDED TO COPY THE NEGATIVE SIDE OF WESTERN CULTURE.
YOU PEOPLE HAVE DEMYSTIFIED THE IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE AND CHOOSE TO BE PROUDLY CALLED BABY MAMAS. YOU ARE A BABY MAMA. A WHOLE AND SO SHALL YOU REMAIN AND YOU SHALL BE TREATED AS SUCH UNTIL YOU LEARN TO DO THE RIGHT THING. IDIOT

debbie dave said...

imbecile!! even if she did anything, is dt enough reason for him to turn her to his punching bags? I guess you are not only a woman beater but a retard.Anu mpama

Anonymous said...

Stop lying.must you tell the world lies.i hate ladies like you don't you know you have a son for him did you tell he world he bought you a house for you and your son.why didn't you mention the good things he has also done for you.this is pure wickedness madam.just say you are pained he broke up with you.will he just beat you for no reason....just shut up

Anonymous said...

Stop lying.must you tell the world lies.i hate ladies like you don't you know you have a son for him did you tell he world he bought you a house for you and your son.why didn't you mention the good things he has also done for you.this is pure wickedness madam.just say you are pained he broke up with you.will he just beat you for no reason....just shut up

Anonymous said...

Exactly. I used to think I could start up with a not so rich man, and build an empire with him, but these men ain't loyal.

Start Witt him small, when he's made, all those things he didn't enjoy back then, he'd want to enjoy them then. That's when you'd know that money brings about a new level of attitude.

Smh!

Anonymous said...

You are an idiot! I am debola's friend and I knew when she started dating this scumbag who didn't even have money to buy indomie. I told her to leave and gave him a good warning when he slapped her the first time but she instead stopped talking to me and the broke ass didn't even have a dime yet. She reached out to me again almost 2years after when she was heavily pregnant and almost suicidal cause of his ill treatment of her. Her mum bought her the car she used when she was staying in magodo be cause he took the car he gave her after 3months and she had to be cabbing, trekking and busing around or begging for rides and he only paid a year's rent in the flat at magodo because his mum and grand ma mandated him to, after which she moved back to her mum's house. He borrowed money from her 900k which she was to add to buy herself a new car and refused to pay back after 2 months till she got the police involved. Mayokun is a horrible person and his life won't get better till he changes. He can't deny her story cause everyone that has known them as long as I have knows this is true!!!

Anonymous said...

Dude! She once loved dis guy & jst waking up 2 open his secrets would nt ve been dt easy. It takes time 2 make dt decision.

Anonymous said...

You are a mumu ooo.you are reporting to Linda is she you mother,do you think Linda will give you a solution or change him.he is using it and getting her own money ooo.why won't he beat you because you are a mumu and ode other.has it change anything nw.but lowkey u are ugly you look like a cute monkey thank God you son didn't take you head and big mouth ��.

Anonymous said...

Everything is poverty, nigerian girls give birth outside wedlock. How can u live with a man without marriage, because you collect money from men to feed your family. You wasted your life because of a man that ain't love it's stupidity. He will be where he is today without u f that's his destiny. If you want to help go to homeless. Take ur daughter not to sell herself cheaply to a man

shomo p said...

Thank you for the clarity you have provided on this matter. Linda please get your facts right and stop being unprofessional. And as for you debola or whatever your name is, you need prayers

Anonymous said...

Debola was my roommate back then in sch, she was foolishly in love with dis stupid guy, She would miss school and give her school fees to Mayd. She was never in class and it affected her academics so much that she had extra extra year.Everyone in the room spoke to her and advised her to stop dating him bt she turned deaf ears, and now look at what she got in return . Thank God u have come back to ur senses now

Monica Lawrencee said...

you know the character of a man when he has money........linda I have spoken

Emmanuel Apalowo said...

MayD looks it.


Tho we need to hear his own side of the story before any conclusion

dami llionaire said...

Things we do for love sometimes pays us or pains us....Its a good thing that you're starting afresh dear. God is your strength. There are always two sides to a story but no matter what, its not good for a man to hit a woman. To all the women out there, If he hits u; *RUN A WAY* #RAW#

Anonymous said...

Nawa oh dis debola can lie was. That not ow ur mother (tomec) dumped ur dad.. Nd nw u ar scared of him selling ur ouse at ilu peju.... Wicked ppl keni mani .. I knw u tOo well nd ur sisters and ur mum's last born... Ife nd doyin... U wicked ugly bitch go get a life.... Debola is rude and violence in her mums company, she saw her mum's factory worker putin on dsame cloth as hers.. And she sacked her 4 wearing dsame designer's with her

Anonymous said...

I don't believe her story . She just wan run the hommie down . Women are evil .

Anonymous said...

You would have dropped your account details too so we would know you are begging for money and attention. The is not the best way to go about it.

Umoh Essien said...

So on point, thanks Linda

shomo p said...

You sound like a semi illetrate prostitute

JENNY NKEM said...

Lol.. very funny. Why did you bring your shit to us when you dont want us to tell you the truthany way the things we do for love may God help women.Jc

Allanah Philomina said...

You are a FOOL for this rubbish u typed...didn't you read that they ve been together before he became famous??? #shitbrain #dullRat

Anonymous said...

What career does he even have?

Anonymous said...

No matter what she did, violence should never be an option. #SayNoToDomesticViolence

Anonymous said...

If you know MAYD personally kindly tell him he is dead man walking!!!. Na girl whey I like him beat like this??!!!! Chai diaris is God O!

MAYD.....YOU DEAD!!! SOOOO DEAD!!!

JDee said...

Most men behave the same and I wonder why

patricia ogele said...

You can still make it dear,,,,, is never too late

Anonymous said...

Aboki u suppose dey sell suya...read again she had being with him before he became famous ....Haaaaboki

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm!!!! So may d was the reason why u didnt pay ur school fees! God u really dnt deserve dis from him cos I knew bk den hw much we hated wat you were doing! Mehn guys dnt worth the stress! Hez a fool! Wen u have a supportive woman and u wanna kill her itz lyk killing ur dreams!

Anonymous said...

He will still beat you again for running your mouth!!!! When you cheapened yourself by making yourself available at all cost and enduring his bullshit!!!! Sacrificing your school fees , paying his rent and still enduring his beatings and cheating a my dear , I am not being insensitive but it's been a long time coming!!!!! Nigga never wanted you buy your tired ass was willing to die for him!!!!!!! You better take your child and hide because that low life thug you call a man would come back to beat you and then beg you again!!!!! .... Right after he puts another baby in you and a few others

happy chiq musings said...

U r an idiotic crap piece of shit!!!! I am tired of ignorant people with goat heads typing shit off their computer.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind her!!!! It's usu!!! The boy had found another moneybag and has left her she is now coming here to say all these things!!!!! Say no to violence..... Not after 8years, say no at the first punch

Mrs said...

Shame on you MayD idiots. I've never experience domestic violence and pray never to experience it. I've said this before and i'll say it again, if your man raise his dirty hands on you, all you have to do is organise some area boys to beat the hell out of him, beat him blue and black and then take him to the hospital urself so that the idiot will know you're behind it. After that report his smelly ass to the police, that if anything happen to you even if it's a scratch he and his entire family shld be held responsible. Stupid idiot MayDickhead

Anonymous said...

NOW DEBOLA YOU EXPECT ME TO BELEIVE THIS STORY WITHOUT HEARING HIS SIDE ?? YOU MUST BE DAFT.....LISTEB TO YOURSELF AGAIN .YOU PAUSED YOUR LIFE FOR HIM .....LOL ...ODE !!

Munachimso said...

I've always enjoyed your comments cos u sound reasonable most of d time. But with this ur stupid myopic statement, you've shown ur cut from d same cloth with May D and his fellow abusers. Which is a shame. A big shame. Say HELL NO to domestic violence

uwa said...

WHAT A BLOODY COWARD !
ANIMALLLLLLLLLL mayd or mad-day, you're a classifiedmonster . Only the weakest of low lives beat up women just to feel big and above .
Oloshi ! A very ugly, hungry looking monkey whose face that cause heartattack to children and very old people .

Mad-day the vulture, The computerized village masquare , I spit on your dirty fish bone body !
LUCIFER ! ! !
Babe, if you ever come across this comment, I want you to know you've a friend in me something far from you,you're alone sweetie.I wish i've your contact .
If that monkey crawls back to you,make sure you break his palmkennel head .

just take care of yourself and baby .
I may the may goat met a woman that will knock off the teeth in his mouth !

WOMEN ! WOMEN !! WOMEN!!!!!!!! Can you all hear me ?
Some of this bitch men don't deserves our time not to talk of body . sit up , take a deep breathe and relax
If all you said here really happened, then let God slap his face hard with same thing .

Anonymous said...

Applelipx whatever, it's obvious you are really dumb n don't have sense. Do you think it's easy to work out after all the sacrifices. I bet u r one of those shameless girls that sleep around and don't have any real commitment. What stupid fame if I may ask? How much is he making! Can he feed a nation and not go broke! Love and time makes it hard to work out of any relationship, dumb applelipx! Before you judge, use ur brain

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