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Wednesday 14 January 2015

Dear LIB readers: My husband is threatening me because I refused him blow job

From a female LIB reader
This morning at work I got this message from my hubby concerning my refusal to give him blow job based on my conviction that it's wrong. Pls I am confused. This thing is unnatural, d**ks are not meant for mouth but vagina.........below is the mail...
D**ks are not meant for what but for what? Abeg woman calm down and do the needful jor...lol. As long as he's your husband. See the husband's mail after the cut

Five years into our marriage. On the issue of Blow job. I beg you every time to give me. You refused blatantly calling my bluff. If I mention it when we are about to have sex or having sex you will turn or stand up dress up and thats the end of sex.Meanwhile I suck your pussy everytime we have sex. You love it you even tell me where you want my tongue to touch so that you can get maximum pleasure. I always obliged. You scream in moan. You most times orgasm from it. I know you love it. When I ask you to give me, you tell me as Christians it's unnatural,dicks are not meant for mouth but vagina and nothing can change your mind about it no matter how hard i try . its a sin and dirty and can never imagine yourself doing it that if left to you, you wouldn't allow me to suck you but I always insists. I have never received blow job before I only want to know how it feels but you chose to deprive me of this experience. Anyway note that the day I stop sucking your pussy and stop beggng you to give me. I have found solutions to my problems. Heaven knows I have tried.

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Unknown said...

My dear, even doe most of us find it disgusting, u dnt ve a choice, am sure God wldnt consider it a sin, its wat ur hubby wnts, give him... u guy can reach a compromise.... bj is a small ish, u shdnt lose ur hubby ova it

Unknown said...

What is good for goose is also good for gander. If the wife allows him to such her pussy, she should have done the same for the husband as well. If she refused the man will go out and someone else will do if for her.

Ife said...

Buhahahahah! This husband is really starved oh! Kpele. But babe what d heck is ur problem??? U bera get sucking b4 u lose ur husband 2 some skinny-legged girls out dere who are willin 2 suck not jst his d**k bt his balls and his asshole gaan sef *straightface*. Mscheww u'r talking christianity? Did u not read in ur Bible where it says ur body now belongs 2 ur hubby and vice versa??? U better b wise. Also love is about pleasing ur beloved so if truly u love ur hubby u will be willing 2 please him in ALL things even wen u dont feel like. Thats exactly what Christ did 4 d Church dat had 2 pay d ultimate price of DEATH!!!

Anonymous said...

u r a selfish woman

Anonymous said...

Sorry to say madam, i usually do not comment on LIB but i have to do it today. You are foolish and selfish, pele o but i cant help it. How can u send a private msg such as this on LIB? What if ur hubby sees it? Am sure some of ur friends will definitely see it and know it is from u, perhaps one of them might even held u do the needful for ur husband. You better apologise to ur man and give it to him d way he wants it. Women can be d destroyers of their marriages! Mind u am a fellow woman.

Anonymous said...

A word is enough for the wise. Madam heed his warning, that alternative he's talking about may just get you packing out of the house. You receive but you don't give, in my books that's called selfish. If it was the other way round, you'd be screaming blue murder. Keep your home intact madam. God bless you.

Miss Independent said...

Anoda Man's Food Is Anoda Man's poison,Sorry Oga.... Me Am Hear Begging Day nd 9t 2giv Ma hubby. Blow job,bt he kips turning Me dwn,nd Uar busy begging Ur wife 4 it...... Heaven Pls Help,Married ppl,is nt rilly easy dwn here.......... babe pls dnt send ur hubby 2all dose Wild Girls oo,if nt get him bk mite b a big problem... be wise I giv him wat he wants....

Anonymous said...

Sorry to say madam, i usually do not comment on LIB but i have to do it today. You are foolish and selfish, pele o but i cant help it. How can u send a private msg such as this on LIB? What if ur hubby sees it? Am sure some of ur friends will definitely see it and know it is from u, perhaps one of them might even held u do the needful for ur husband. You better apologise to ur man and give it to him d way he wants it. Women can be d destroyers of their marriages! Mind u am a fellow woman.

Anonymous said...

This is serious Okamuka, please consult your pastor on this issue. He'll be in a better position to tell madam if it's christianlike or not. Gbam

Triumphant Zion said...

why do men always feel like he can get it elsewhere,do they always think they alone can cheat?marital joy comes with two combined efforts.
my principle,if i can't cheat,i can pray.with my prayer,i will bring you to the man you should be.

Anonymous said...

pls go ahead and do dat my broda..dont mind ur greedy, selfish ass bitch of a wife....i reali dont get some women

Anonymous said...

lol. So funny.

mully said...

Hmmmm so dick is nt meant 4 d mouth buh 4 d pu**ssy buh his mouth is meant 4 ur. Pu**ssy abi c'mon woman don't distroy ur marriage wit ur hands, his ur husband notin s bad in u gvin him BJ more ova he does it 4. U. Don't b selfish

chidinma said...

Omg!lady please give ur hubby what he wants besides how can u be so selfish,he goes down on u return the favour!Lol.we ladies are so funny!

Anonymous said...

GIVE IT TO HIM AUNTY.

Unknown said...

You are a very selfish wife. He suck ur pussy nd u can't give him bj. Mscheww. Push him outside ooo later u will come back nd start saying ur husby is cheating on you.

Anonymous said...

please do not encourage blow jobs.
I gave my husband lots of blow jobs when we got married however i know better now....dicks in the mouth can spread STDs to those areas and cause more problems than you can imagine. In naija where treatment of illnesses is quite poor you will now give yourself wahala.
The same applies to licking a woman's V.
Yes he is your husband but i would advise you to research on the diseases you would be exposing yourself to, print them off and sit with your husband and explain to him.
Tell him you love him and would not want him to go through pain...If he selfishly goes out to get a blow job then he will be licking other women's Vs. just make sure you are well [protected against STDs.
I wish you all the best.

Unknown said...

Stop whinin Woman. Get on ur knees n blow that DICK. You can bet ur ass (no homo intended pls) that ish will be the sweetest livin thing u ve ever put in ur loud mouth. Shut up n get busy immediately b4 u loose ur Dude.

Anonymous said...

This is the first time I am seeing a woman being selfish with this oral sex thing. He gives you your own and makes you moan and you instead of reciprocating you give him stories of "how you were born a saint" that doesn't s*ck dick. Come on, get on your knees and s*ck that dick girl. Yeah, suck the Lollipop, lol. Another woman will soon give it to him the way he likes it and guess what? You will be the one to come running here to tell us how they snatched him. Hahaha. I am loving Linda's blog biko. Linda has us having fun with words here. Hugs Linda.

Anonymous said...

Wow. The woman is d problem behind it, and she want to break her marriage. Dia is nothing bad in blow job my dear, bcos men enjoys it even more dan sex. D way u enjoys it wen he suck ur pussy dat how men feels too wen u giv dem a sweet blow job nd he will love u d more.

Anonymous said...

Ooooshey. I like this nigger thou. Na stupidity dey worry the ladyy jor. Arnt u married? Ur allowed to do anything 1ce u pple are married

Unknown said...

Lol @ the last sentence

Unknown said...

Dear wife, Please give your husband a blow job o, or another woman would give it to him and she would do it real good. Abeg there's nothing bad about a blow job as long as he is your husband. Try and manage your home well. God help you and grant you grace IJN.

Thelma's cake world said...

Word...give it to him till he gets tired of it...he's ur hubby so Ώ̶̲̣̣̥o̲̣̥ xcuse bikoi

akin_smite said...

Hahahahah. Solution?,

Anonymous said...

woman I am a married woman with 2 kids and I will tell you the blatant truth...you better learn how to give your man a blow job...My husbands dick can go anywhere in my body...He is my HUSBAND. I love giving him blow jobs and it drives him crazy...even if we don't have sex...I give him a blow job. You are a very selfish woman. better heed to his threat and do what you have to do...suck that dick real good...before someone else starts to do it for you. stupid woman. unnatural my ass.

Anonymous said...

If you can't do that then don't ask him to suck yours either.

Anonymous Personified said...

Hmmm...strictly for adults.
Wisdom, understanding & communication is the key.

SalmaLena said...

Suck the fucking dick, nothing bad though...Use it as a means to get why you want from him...believe me you will enjoy it...SAY YES TO BLOWJOBS

omolara sijuade said...

Woman it's better u do ur duty,its ur husband dick nt someone else.d earlier d beta b4 he gets someone dat will do it perfectly

Unknown said...

Which kind wicked wife be this? If u don't know how to do a blow job tell him. Chei, u ve that kind of sweet husband & u re playing wit him. U be start d tin ryt away o.




@Sophia Stephen

Anonymous said...

Lmao... abeg save ur marriage o.

Unknown said...

You are being very selfish and it's wrong,he sucks your vagina and when he begs you for a blow job you refuse,you are being wicked,please I am a pastor's wife but I do it and i don't see anything wrong with it,please don't use your believe that is not in the bible to deny your husband maximum satisfaction during sex,there is no spirituality in sex when you are married...

lina said...

Konji na bastard! lwkmd!

Anonymous said...

That wife is very stupid!!!! U wanna receive and don't give??? He gonna cheat on ur Ass!!!!
TemiD

Jostus is here.. said...

Ungrateful believer... So you can allow a nigga to s*ck you and you can't su*k him in return.. Your love is one-sided my dead, ask God for forgiveness..

You don hear ahm, Oga go look outside if you no do well and I trust my naughty girls out there, they will give it to him more than he deserves.. Shebi them dey tell you now you no hear abi..

Very soon you go write linda again..

Anonymous said...

May God bless that husband for his patience, God damned hypocritic wife. She'll end up putting her marriage in trouble and then run to LIB again to interrupt our peaceful blog-reading lives.

KC said...

Abeg madam give am d blow job as him don do made f̶̲̥̅̊ọ̥я u... U gat to protect ur investment or anoda woman go do am made f̶̲̥̅̊ọ̥я u

Anonymous said...

Linda this your story get K leg, the Guy they settle the babe and Babe no what settle,how is that possible,unless Babalawo don tell her say the day she put the guy dick for month,power from her mouth to control the guy is over,,very simple.the man should force her to do it by fire by force if she try's to bite ,one big slap will bring to her senses ,also let her know that coca cola Na the same thing if you drink for Mushin ,surulere or VI ,Na the same pleasure them they give,because you fit Waka big time,tell her say because she refuse you ,you want to become GAY that you are targeting their Pastor and his Jnr Brother for starters,girls they respect crazy Husbands than a gun to their heads,Quick quick Na She pull your trouser down and start to groove your stick,story finish,they are back in love ,I love happy ending stories,no don't thank me its my pleasure to advice :) - Babalawo(VI Branch)

Unknown said...

do as he said,to keep him

Unknown said...

He is a very good man ,Is better for that woman to act fast and do what he wants the way he wants it.Good luck

esther said...

Nothing. Hard there. Just give him wat he wants nd save ur marriage

JOYCHY said...

Hmmmmmmm.......see open threat to cheat.
Personally I'm not a fan of blow jobs cuz I find it irritating. just hop hubby wldnt be a fan. lol

My dear u just hv 2 find a way 2 give 2him o so he can test it since he said he hasn't tested it b4(if dat is even true).
He feels cheated dough since he gives u & u dnt do same.
Men & Blow Job sef!

Chidinma Onyejiuwa said...

A word is enough for a ....... Wifey be wise because there are a lot of babes waiting to take your place.

Anonymous said...

If she does not want to do it. Dey r many ladies ready to do it. Afterall he sucks her pussy.Selfish woman.

Anonymous said...

Woman you better give him what he wants...

Unknown said...

Dat man is not serious, dat is against the will of God,

Anonymous said...

u must be selfish n u allow him to suck ur pussy common u better get down dere n suck d fucking dick before someone else do it for u.

Ada said...

Wow, his mail is deep. I was in this exact situation 2yrs ago. I couldn't stand the thought of me sucking my hubby and him doing the same. After a while I allowed him do me because he was persistent, we had issues because I refused blatantly to suck him because I felt it was sinful and disgusting. I had to learn the tongue art because I found out I was unable to perform well enough since I was a Virgin when we got together. I read books and watched lessons but I still couldn't dig right, so I learnt how to use my tongue, so that he wouldn't go out to get what he loves the most. And now I'm a pro, he's my hubby so I can lick all his reasonable part girl. Not his butthole abeg o. You need to give him what he wants, the bible even said not to withhold yourself from your husband. It never said giving a head is sinful. You'd even be committing a sin by providing an occasion for him to commit adultery. Tbh, he has tried. U r even lucky he's letting u know how he feels. Some shameful men would just go to their inverters for such dirty sex. I'm always happy when my hubby speaks on how he feels, makes me know where to adjust. My advice is for u to learn the art and surprise him with it, rub a sweet smelling perfume on ur palm and pour icecream on his d**k to make the act bearable as a first timer, that was what I did. And when I suck, I imagine it's a candy bar, or my favourite Coldstone ice cream, so this helps me give him maximum pleasure because I take ownership of my thing and deliver on that job. Good luck on your sucking journey, do it or push him to a Keziah.

Anonymous said...

The truth is that we men are so sexual and we need dynamic women in that area so there is nothing wrong in dat so far they are married,Me sef I like BJ die.

Anonymous said...

lool this is funny. Abeg this woman should chill. Give the man a blowjob. He's your husband. He does the same for you nahh

blessing said...

this lady is just being selfish... per this post

blessing said...

this lady is just being selfish...per the story

Anonymous said...

haaa, this is a tough one. If u love ur husband u should do it, i don't think it's a sin so far it's another way of sexual intercourse & u guys are married. I think both of you should see a sex therapist if u can't come to one conclusion b/4 the hubby goes out ooooo... Wify abeg...

blessing said...

this lady is just being selfish..per the story

Jasmine honeydrops Richards said...

First... Hilarious.. lol
Second... is this woman high ni? If she wouldn't give her husband head because it's not christianly then she shouldn't derive pleasure from sex either she should only do it for baby making purposes.
Blowjobs are pleasurable for both parties (Yh I said it) sure receiving head is hot but giving it is a great turn on gag reflexes et al

Anonymous said...

gbam

Unknown said...

Madam you better start sucking him,he s ur husband,if u enjoy him sucking u den return d favour! When he leaves u now u will say its d devil!

Anonymous said...

Madam you are a very selfish person.... There is no story here abeg,do the right thing mtcheew!

Unknown said...

U have tried my brother. 5yrs no be here.


*that igbi girl

Unknown said...

He is your husband, try and settle whatever issue you have with him, cos so many women wont mind giving it to him

joshua said...

i pity this woman,.....this man even tried 5 years. but it is heavenly when he does it to you. i pity her strongly.

Anonymous said...

Yes dear u av really found a solution. Contact me, I will kiss and suck u all over still u are feeling Hot....U will imagine d sensation wen I hit d spot.

****NIFFY OLORI OMOBA****

lgho said...

He his your hubby madam no nonsense jus as aunty linda said do d right tin joor :-)

Anonymous said...

o boy ,sister jxt giv him the blowjob since his ur hubby bt I knw ur type tins like DAT irritate u.dnt lead him to start cheating on u #bebo

Anonymous said...

Yes dear u av really found a solution. Contact me, I will kiss and suck u all over still u are feeling Hot....U will imagine d sensation wen I hit d spot.

****NIFFY OLORI OMOBA****

Angie said...

Dear poster, you'd better have a rethink.., nothing's wrong with it abeg...I do it and me and my God be 1 and 2. You wan deh enjoy alone?; tomorrow you'd label him a cheat.
It's your duty as a wife to sexually please him any way/how he wants it, so he wldnt need to look outside.

Unknown said...

Madam abeg u better pleasure your husband o b4 he seek it elsewhere and thats even worst cos if he gets it somewhere else and like it, hmmm na fasting and prayer mood you go activate o. Do your duty madam!!!!!!!!!! He is your legally wedded husband and you are meant to satisfy him all round... thats my 1kobo advice.

Unknown said...

Little things dat breaks marriage. he's ur hubby why not give him wat him wants by being total submissive to ur marriage.since u re married in any manner both of u uses in having sex is not a sin my dear. Sex is enjoyable wen u re married

Toyin said...

Woman, stop being selfish. So he even gives you head, you give him directions and you're still saying it's cos he insists. Why don't you give him head when he insists then. If the dick is only meant to be in the vagina, what is your vagina doing in his mouth? Swallow your stupid pride. He's your husband. Give him what he wants unless you're fine with him getting it elsewhere sha.

Unknown said...

this woman ain't loyal, u dey enjoy am yet u don't wanna let ur hobby enjoy d experience, it seems Linda love it too
#prince mayor

Unknown said...

Lol she's fucking selfish

Anonymous said...

Madam... U better start giving it to him right away bfr u start to cry everywhere that he is cheating ...Hian

MIKE.O said...

With due respect sir you need not go to hell or let the devil entrap your eternal soul because of sex,oral sex is a craft from the pit of hell to pervert humanity and send many into a fist of wanting more,no amount of such experience will satisfy you after all there will be no sex in heaven,for we shall be like Angels of God all such human cravings will forever be done with,so sir since your wife will not oblige you kindly let go and keep enjoying your marriage which in itself is an institution sex been one of the many faculty or component that make it up.Cheers

Anonymous said...

Read Heb13 vs 4 its not a sin. I am a. Born again christian and I give my husband his maximum satisfaction. Don't be selfish girl or u will learn with tears

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Love dis woman, am not married yet but av planned on doing everytin wit my husband o xept anal cos anal is dangerous... Pls tell women o b4 anoda woman suck d tin 4 Ʊ nd trust me, he will do anytin 4 d woman..

Anonymous said...

U re very stupid woman, so ordinary blow job is what u can't give to ur husband ad u re there claiming Christianity? Let me see or here u in this blog crying that ur husband has left u, I swear I will personally shook my long fingers into ur eyes.U better run ad handle that man d way he want it before I blind ur eyes with hot slap ode. Born twice...

Unknown said...

The whole thing tire me o.

African foodstuff and Raw Materials said...

Madam go down on ur kneels and suck dat tin, b4 anoda woman helps Ʊ wit it..

Unknown said...

Help me tell her

G LUV said...

Do wot u can do to save ur marriage

Anonymous said...

At least u have a man that will tell u wat he wants!
My hubby will be expecting me to initiate sex all the tym, I don't even enjoy the head he gives me cuz he won't calm down for me to show him what to do...Heck I won't bother with a bj either!

Unknown said...

U are the worst and corrupt babalawo ever. Lmao

Unknown said...

Some women can be very stupid sometimes if he go get it somewhere U̶̲̥̅̊ be complaining dat he has cheated,ℓ̊ mean dis is Ūя̲̅ husband

Chudi said...

Your a very big fool to be talking about disease and blow job. If you don't have what to say, shut your trap. It is your type that cause break up in families with your stone age mentality. #Anuofia

Unknown said...

As simple as it is.

Anonymous said...

Give him bj ooo,even more dan dat self,cos wen e go happen na u go dey beg then to give am,every hour

LA' SUNSHINE said...

I can imagine d woman is just like me but since d husband have spoken up she shuld try it.

Unknown said...

My dear u have to do the needful. Let him experience it, ur hubby is a very patient man! Don't push him out

Unknown said...

Na ur type go dey do like who epilepsy dey worry when their man dey give dem head. #i hate boring s*x.

Unknown said...

Plenty sef.

Anonymous said...

I read all the comment. None stated a NO to blow job....So woman give it a try..

Unknown said...

Very selfish I tell u.

Unknown said...

And who told u God is against satisfying one's partner? As long as they are married then it is not a sin.

Grow up

Unknown said...

And u are against the will of man. Ashawo kobo kobo.

south ockendon said...

Lmfao

Anonymous said...

Wait.
How can you take his penis that passes out urine and semen, probably packed in the toilet when he wants to poo..and u put that same penis in ur mouth?
Are we sane at all again?
Commonsensically, itz not right.
Clap for ursef that u cudnt find any biblical passage to condemn it..buh think! Is it godly?
The same mouth that receives Holy Communion receives penis?
Do you fear God at all?
Is there no need for sanctity even in marriage?
Am nt spirikoko o...buh me I cant put penis in my mouth..wanna puke.
Gross!
The whites have 'koba' us.
It is trendy so I must follow.
Linda (thats if u read comments b4 u post it), pls I beg you in the name of whoever u serve...pls stop promoting nudity, same-sex marriage, pre-marital sex, blowjobs, boob implants, tattoo, babymama babypapa..all because of traffic/money..dont 'hit' Like, shun them right on ur post.
Buh all these are inevitable, buh so we let the wheat and the darnel grow together, the angels will do the separation technique on the last day.
Tomorrow maybe ur own last day.
The world is not coming to an end the way u say it..it has just begun.
Itz your world we talking abt..it can end any day.
PS: wud av loved to mail Linda in private buh I doubt if she reads her mail personally.

Melefe said...

You can start giving him a BJ by buying some ice cream and covering his Dickson with it. Then you start licking and this should help to allay your fears. And before you know it you'll come to like it without the ice cream. The flavour you love the most. Good luck.

Chudi said...

Ewu..tell me what the will of God is..na your type dey use soap and still talk of the will of God.

Unknown said...

Lmao, our wife, our husband have tired, cos ur cheating on him, yu said it all d**ks are meant fr vaginas why den do u allow the mouth to trespass, oh wife do the honourable thing here b4 anoda woman teach yu that.

Mz Naija said...

Seriously ma'am. this is no more a joke, ur jusband really loves you to even warn you beforhand, abeg like Ms Linda said, do the needful joor.

Unknown said...

Wish I had an award to give to u. Best comment ever. I give u 5 star. See me see wahala o. U and u legally wedded husband. I repeat, "I will never marry a JJC".

Unknown said...

Ha...Madam Please your husband o! That's all i'll say.

Unknown said...

Wich kind sex therapist? For what? Did dey visit any therapist before he started giving her head?

Anonymous said...

Lol, is there anything that isn't a sin in Nigeria? Try it first before rejecting it. He's pleasuring you with oral. The least you can do is to return the favor. Even if you don't like it, you will derive your joy from his reaction.

Bis1 said...

Hypocrite! Christian noni, I want your man if you don't cos of that thing he asking for that he shouldn't even be asking for in the first place, Walahi if you loose that guy, you'll never find another like him. I don't believe he hasn't gotten a blow job before

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm Linda this one pass me but I don't think there is anything wrong in giving ur husband full pleasure (BJ).she is not being truthful to herself and everyone.

Unknown said...

Obinna Edi- you are a big mugu and a goat. See how low your sexual IQ is. Men like you are the reason why marriage crash. If you seee truth. You no go talk.

Anonymous said...

To the husband, you're very insensitive to scare her with threats. Sex happens between a woman's ears long before between her legs. Maybe cajoling and easing her into it would have gotten you there five years ago. Candle lit dinner and loving tenderness would convince her to your way of thinking instead of threats. Scare tactics aint working. Try something new.

Anonymous said...

When i was begging my wife 2years ago to please give me a blow job,but she refused me and acting queen for me,,,this time around now she dey beg even much happy to see me hugs her,,i don waka go meet sisi wey dey give me plenty,,before i go reach house i don tired from my sisi nd even eat food from my sisi,get home nd sleep,,,work dey too much today ooo ,abeg leave me make i sleep,her cry no dey touch me becos na me first cry to her but my cry then no touch her too

Anonymous said...

Loool she is selfish...so when he is going down on her, she doesnt refuse and say no to sex...she opens her leg wide and lets him lickk the plate clean. Selfish woman indeed...you better open your mouth wide and suck the thing.

James said...

You are a wicked woman and a hypocrite. How has he threatened you? He simply said that since you won't give him, he won't give you. I see nothing wrong in there. For Christ's sake, he's your husband. You know how to collect but can't give and God will punish you for that. I'd understand if you guys weren't married but now there's no excuse.

I really hope he vexes and looks for it elsewhere.

Anonymous said...

Dear Edith are you listening to yourself cos you sound foolish

#KING_KHALIFA said...

I feel you @Ada u know wats up.... She cud also do the nija romantic style by putting stew on de d*ck to make it easy for her LOL

Anonymous said...

Linda, abeg tel the that woman say people dey with me here to help her out buy sucking the hubby's d**k ohhh.i fink she ll be hapy when he finds solutions to his problem.haba. sum women sha.smh

Joy(sharonlady002@yahoo.com said...

Ma girl pls give it to him ooooo

Zexyzorlia said...

lady...most ppl have advised you right stop feeling self righteous and do the right thing...you know the answer deep down. you dont have a good reason for refusing him if your real reason is dat he stinks down dere n you cant stand it tell him gently and he ll happily comply and oblige you so long as he knows that the reward will be great...i m not married but i m writing from xperience wiv my bf and we have a healthy life in dat aspect...save your marriage and dont mind ppl dat are saying it is wrong..he is your husband and it is yours to enjoy nyhow you like. A word is enough for the wise.

Anonymous said...

You are a deluded idiot. There's no disease that can be passed through blowjobs that cannot be passed through penetrative sex. All you faux doctors spreading false info. No wonder you have below average sex lives

Anonymous said...

some women sef...if he goes outside now, u'll say hz cheatin, give wah he wants joor afterall hs ur husby


missvee

Unknown said...

lady havent you heard, that it is more blessed to give than to receive?

Maye73 said...

Na wa o,this is not right inthe sight of God,both the head and the blow job .they need to see a counsellor.

Anonymous said...

Please what about hubby's who do not get a common kiss. no hug, no cuddling, sex at a very long interval. not to talk of getting a blow job. Talking with experience. just in the marriage due to our children and its obvious to both of us.

Unknown said...

Please go and consult ur bed.

SMURF said...

Dear wife, you are indeed a stingy person, he has been pleasing you with his tongue down there and you don't wanna return the favour!! Is his tongue a PENIS that needs to be down there for you while your mouth is sacred! If he cheats now, everyone would blame him but won't know that it's your fault! Please your man in bed very well, except if he is not clean down/shaven there and you don't like it!!

Da Epic Pen said...

Its pure selfishness and self-centredness on her part by refusing to give her husband a good head, while she enjoys the wet tongue of her willing husband on her p*ssy. Benefit of doubt, some women are not used to it, thus at first it could be uncomfortable. But with patient practice, the couple can both attain max sexual pleasure. Best wishes.

great phyzik said...

I think you should pleasure each other, you should learn how to pleasure him with your mouth and be happy doing it for him.

DIVA CHILEE said...

LOL,maybe d hubby cheat alot n she always gt her infectd with some STD..have u guys thot abt it. but i must say d wife is selfish,since u always enjoy it whn he go down on u,then u need to do d same to him. Assuming u dont allow him do so to u thats when u complain but since u dey enjoy d something abegi kukuma give him head joor....besides d earlier u start d beta for u oooo else some oringo girls will snatch ur hubby from u oooo. Wise up!



diva-chilee

Unknown said...

She is very stupid na! Den tell him it's not right to go down on u Either Mtcheeew.

Anonymous said...

Hey, don't to married man, I am here

Anonymous said...

Woman it is just a simply thing 2 do dat for ur man not just ur man ur husband! I can teach u if u don't mind, come with ur husband ad the lecture will take place. #make sure u come with him#Silming# LOzzz

Chief Ayo said...

Putting mouth inside vagina? Some men are very dirty.

Anonymous said...

Advice?
get a divorce...you clearly don't like/need/value your marriage...or your husband

Anonymous said...

Please do it for him as they enjoy it well. My hubby thought me and I became an expert. It is one of the things that make them go gaga. So my dear, learn

Unknown said...

This woman is funny, you enjoy it when doing it for you but to return it now na wahala

Unknown said...

Buh wen he was doing shii wiv ur p****y u did nt think it was unholy funny u..beta give him wah he wants yea..

Anonymous said...

Licking his ass? U r dirty maam

Unknown said...

To my future wife, mk sure u learn how to gv special blow jobs ooooooo 2 avoid getting a helper.
#dtsnoneofmybiz

sara said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

LINDA .make we come for tutorials?lol

Unknown said...

Hehheheheheheheh see mata.....madam abet give ur hubby a bj even suck down his anus��������

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Lmfao. Na therapy?

Anonymous said...

LINDA PLEASE TRY TO CENSOR SOME WORDS, KIDS READ YOUR BLOGS TOO. BE SENSIBLE

Unknown said...

lol. suck n drink woteva u find der. its urs naa...

Unknown said...

Abeg Abeg carry ur wahala go ur blog. Discuss what abeg?

Anonymous said...

Discuss what Nne? U never do blow for ur man b4? Her p**y gud to suck without discussion but her husband own dey against bible n up for debate. Der is God O

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

dami said...

Young woman, u re mean and self centered. So u enjoy d way he sucks ur pussy and you're giving him attitude just to suck his dick! Abeg amend your ways before other person satisfy his blow job urge for u.

Unknown said...

I can't wait to get married to ur type o.. Choi. See over excitement.

Stephen said...

Read some scholars view on blow job
click below
http://TheWeeklyJob.com/?id=309250

Brown bear said...

Laide you dey for here lol! Guess who haha

Anonymous said...

Ok O!!! Ur ukwu good to juggle but ur bobo own na sacrilege for una community. Dey der make pant dey wear u by the time d guy get am outside you go ready to become rag cos even uur pastor no go fit pray u out

Unknown said...

So are u trying to tell me that it's only the woman that's suppose to enjoy the better side of the marriage and the man the worst? U must be super mean.

Unknown said...

Over 500 comments on this Ish!!! Chai!! my people like this kyn gossip.
as for me....... i comment my reserve.

LezRock via Old itel mobile

Unknown said...

No be small Na wa oo. She dey enjoy bt no want make hubby enjoy.. abeg do ur duty or someonelse will do it for u

Unknown said...

Gbam!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

People will crucify her for not returning the favour to her husband but nobody crucifies men when they receive blowjobs and don't give back claiming they are Africans that can't go down on a woman cos it's "degrading"

Of course we can make sacrifices to please the one we love but we have to admit that oral sex is a very sensitive issue for some people. Especially old fashioned people.

Importantly, note that she didn't ask the man to go down on her, she didn't even want it. He INSISTED.

I don't support her but I won't condemn her either.

Goodluck to them.

SWAAG said...

ABI NAU... THIS GUY JUST SAID MY MIND.... THE WOMAN IS OWNED BY THE MAN THE MOMENT THEY GET MARRIED..... IF YOU USE YOUR PUNANA AS A WEAPON FOR YOUR HUSBAND, THEN SOMETHING WOULD BE SORTED OUT.. HE IS BEING GENTLE AND MILD WITH YOU NOW O... YOU BETTER CONCOR...AND TRULLY, IF HE FINDS AN ALTERNATIVE, HE WOULD SO HATE TO DO THE THINGS HE USED TO DO...ITS A NATURAL THING.....WOMAN... JUST TRY IT ONCE FIRST AND STOP ALL THESE ITS UNNATURAL SHIT... SO HE DOING YOU, DOES IT LOOK UNNATURAL AND UNHEALTHY TO YOU NI? YOU BETTER ENJOY YOUR SEX LIFE BEFORE SOME OTHER WOMAN START ENJOYING IT FOR YOU....

THAS ALL

SWAAG said...

I KNOW THIS KIND OF WOMAN....SHE IN THE CLIQUE OF THOSE WOMEN WHO ASKED THEIR HUSBANDS WETHER...IS IT EVERYDAY NI.... OF COURSE ITS EVERYDAY.... AS LONG AS YOU ARE NOT SICK O

Anonymous said...

And my own baby loves sucking my fat dick. Talk less of a wife smh.

Amisa said...

Lady give him the damn BJ!

ebonyz... said...

The wife in't being fair nah!!! He gives u head and u do not want to give him a BJ... My dear, better start oh cause he means what he said....

Anonymous said...

Awww eyaaa! Eni eleni...tryna get his balls licked....is nor easy..oloun :(

!!BBUZZ!! said...

Over 570 comments and only 1 man said the guy is wrong... Best comment: "so please understand that blow jobs are not given with the mouth but with the heart...now get down on your knees and put your heart to work!"LMAO

Unknown said...

Pervert. Na u sabi give blow job pass, can't u just comment and leave? U want to give somebody's else husband a blow job with ur pkomo lips

Uzo said...

Thank you!! Why would you not give him BJ?? There are many willing ladies out there on!! Be warned!!!

Anonymous said...

if u dont give another person will give me and dats when u will start regretting it......i dont think religion goes against it after all he sucks urs

emmylyonsignature said...

chai!PEOPLE BAD OOOO

emmylyonsignature said...

chai!PEOPLE BAD OOOO

Unknown said...

No long thing my people. .she dey use her husband...

Anonymous said...

So u can't even spell simple English words.. And ur all over media and internet ..smh...go back to primary one..

WOG said...

There are health implications from oral sex e. g thrush of the mouth throat infection. So I rather advise that she gives him the BJ but on the condition hussy wears a condom.

lynda slick said...

Woman this is your husband for God sake. He is yours n he gives it to you so return d favour back. Put that dick in your mouth it doesn't bite.

African Icon said...

I am against anything other than penis and vagina doing the work. My question for her though is why allow him to suck or finger you when you know it is wrong or sin?
For people that are thinking about modern time, sorry, God's standard does not change. it is same yesterday, today and forever.
Again for those who still don't know, St Paul talked about people that have left the natural use of women and are carried away by vile perversion. this includes anal sex, fingering, blow job, and pussy eating. you can still add mastubation, use of dildo and vibrators etc.
.
We are entitled to our opinions sha.
.
.
.
..Her Majesty

African Icon said...

I am against anything other than penis and vagina doing the work. My question for her though is why allow him to suck or finger you when you know it is wrong or sin?
For people that are thinking about modern time, sorry, God's standard does not change. it is same yesterday, today and forever.
Again for those who still don't know, St Paul talked about people that have left the natural use of women and are carried away by vile perversion. this includes anal sex, fingering, blow job, and pussy eating. you can still add mastubation, use of dildo and vibrators etc.
.
We are entitled to our opinions sha.
.
.
.
..Her Majesty

Anonymous said...

Dis woman is not serious! I wish am in your shoes. You are even lucky your husband can suck you n make you com , dat is the reason alone you should blow job him till he can't sleep without you by his side. Be wise!

African Icon said...

I am against anything other than penis and vagina doing the work. My question for her though is why allow him to suck or finger you when you know it is wrong or sin?
For people that are thinking about modern time, sorry, God's standard does not change. it is same yesterday, today and forever.
Again for those who still don't know, St Paul talked about people that have left the natural use of women and are carried away by vile perversion. this includes anal sex, fingering, blow job, and pussy eating. you can still add mastubation, use of dildo and vibrators etc.
.
We are entitled to our opinions sha.
.
.
.
..Her Majesty

Unknown said...

Selfish! Selfish!! Selfish!!! And you just bout lose a good man mehn

Yusuph said...

Chill man n let it be

Anonymous said...

I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion but since you asked : I'm yet to meet a bigger fool than you... Learner

Maslow said...

The man might not be clean down there or the woman is doing it else where pretending to be saint at home cos i have seen instances of such and the husb later caught her sucking their neighbor

Juleslouis said...

Wifey is bn selfish. Don't drive hubby outside o. Give him what he wants he's υ̲̣̥r̲̅ husband biko. Small small u'll learn and get used to it. See me see naïve girl o.

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha. Silly wife.
Bros go and get your dick sucked outside. No need for threats. Enough thirsty babes ard town. Rotfl

Anonymous said...

Please Linda please send this message to the reader I need to educate her and share a very important message about blow-jobs.
I am sooo surprised at what I am reading has sexuality fallen to such a state that we all do wateva gives us fun.
Primarily I am a catholic and follow my doctrines so from day one, I told my hubby that there is no way I will do blow jobs and I don't want blow jobs done on me.
Mind u I have had that experience and it is very pleasurable but as I leaned closer to my faith I found out there are limits to everything.
Sodomy for instance is actually forbidden in the bible but a lot of married couples perform this act.
From the science point of view I had to research why my faith will consider this act wrong.
Herpes virus which causes a percentage of cervical cancer cases is usually transferred from direct contact with the mouth and a penis or vaginal opening. It is so unsafe health wise to engage in such an activity because of the spread of this virus which could cause throat, mouth or cervical cancers. A well known celebrity case was Michael Douglas, whose doctor told him that BLowjobs caused his throat/ mouth cancer.
As we know most viruses are precursors for a lot of cancers so please play safe.
Secondly the proximity of the urinal region to the anus is so close and spread of some awful bacteria can ensue, streptococcus, eshericia coli, pseudomonas, staphylococcus etc. these bacteria can cause a varying amount of symptoms and illnesses if there is transfer to the mouth or even to the vagina/womb. Some women can suffer bacterial infection deep in their vagina/ womb, that is why it's is encouraged that u be clean before sexual intercourse.
So please the dick playing in the vagina is enough can we stop complicating our illnesses by adding the mouth to those areas. It is such a dirty act the digestive system and reproductory system do not connect (apart from during pregnancy) so please let us not connect it by force.
My dear lady please stop receiving blowjobs from your husband and lovingly plead with your husband about the risks of you doing a blowjob on him.
Then my dear pray to God that he helps your husband and marriage so it doesn't fall apart over this issue and your husband should see reason with you.
Linda I am very passionate about this topic and will very much like that you spread the word to the lady who asked this question. May God bless the work you do thanks

Dotted lines said...

Gerrout

Anonymous said...

Thank u!! Finally someone to agree with me.

beauty said...

Exactly

DeeD25 said...

She's just a selfish wife!!!

BlaQchinny said...

You receive but you don't wanna give....should I call this wickedness? If you don't want to give him then stop receiving from him. You are just one selfish bitch! !!!!!

BlaQchinny said...

You receive but you don't wanna give....should I call this wickedness? If you don't want to give him then stop receiving from him. You are just one selfish bitch! !!!!!

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