This is a follow up to the story I sent less than a fourth nite ago. I had to open up to my wife about the whole thing (according to libers advise). As I write this to you, my wife is out of the house with our daughter and promising never to come back and that I will die a miserable death for making her life a hell... how I'm going to live without her, is completely unimaginable but it's the reality I face now.
Her family people are even threatening that I will not see my daughter again and if I come close, they will get me arrested.
On the flip side, my own family are really upset with me but are asking me to stay away for now and allow the wound heal.
Back to the devil of a woman
that has made my life a hell as she promised. I have told her that I
have confronted my wife with the whole truth and that she can do her
worst.
And that if she is going to
keep the pregnancy... I will only wait till she has it and will never
marry her. The worst part of the story is... that she told me that she
won't even keep the baby and that she has achieved what she wanted.....
crash my marriage.
She told me how we had a
quarrel one day and I told her that my wife was sweeter than her (which I
didn't even recall saying) and that she has paid me back... how wicked.
In all I still feel relieved
and hopes she makes do of her promise not to keep the child. I know it's
a sin, but may be that would at least bring back my wife.
Finally, thank you to all
those who sent their comments when you first published the story. And
for all the curses and insults I received, well... Thank you as well.
Regards.
237 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 237 of 237Like seriously, I doubt this guy would have told his wife had the woman not threatened. Fault is all his. Go for STI test, advise your wife to do the same. Be there for your kid, do not pressure tour wife to take you back (that is her choice)
You get sense die
pleas3 try to keep i. touch with u wife no matter what
This Amakadarlyn@yahoo.com dey try sha, she deserve something
U did d right ting by telling ur wife d truth, she is just angry now she will get over it n come bck to u, as for d other woman severe any relationship u've wit her, God will pay every man in their own coin, I guess u've learned ur lessons. Be strong and pray against further temptation.
Dear poster, also open up to that married woman's husband so that he will throw her wicked ass out of his house.... Tit for tat
Old boy chill, could be an opportunity to get a better wife than the one that left you. Do not panic some people are in a more serious problem than you are right now.
I don't think d lady was pregnant in d first place. I think ur wife will forgive and come back when she eventually knows thr is no pregnancy from d home wrecker....just wait a Lil and pray. Ur wife will come back.
Dis one na big wahala
Sorry o...#Bringbackourwife
God hlp u in dis situation
u hav done well by tellin d truth... it will hurt her buh she'll heal... show her how truly remorseful u r... she'll eventually come arnd.. unless she nvr, i repeat, NVR loved u
@mjabdulk all you've said is good but I say a big no about you telling him to go remarry, that's not an option yet.
Is good he opens up 2 d wife and his free..
majority of you females here are delusional. I promise you many of your men, husbands, etc will never confess to your face that they are sleeping with other people's wives etc.. and you are busy here cursing out this man.. funny what this world has turned to.. people celebrate every bad deed, and cannot commend someone like this who is sincere enough to ask his wife for forgiveness. abi u think say na when u go church ask God for forgiveness, na for there e end? if your neighbor has not forgiven you, God will not oh.. make una carry on they curse other people
if she wants to play dirty then you too should play dirty. she made it her mission to ruin your marriage...you shouldn't go soft on her.... be resolved that you want your own family back and dig up enough dirt about this woman. the other way would be to forgive her and just move on... trying to getbyour wife back
Much respect. May God guide you in your decisions.
Only God can save and forgive.if your wife wouldn't forgive you,no matter what,you are not save.
your wife may return back to you but the trust i fear may not come back.However you've confess openly and have also repented i believe.Be strong and prayerful the storm will be over.
You're such a low life wine.. what kind of advice is this?? I'm short of words I swear! Shameless fool!!
Oh dear! This is tough situation that no man would pray to find himself in. However, it may seem like you took a wrong decision by telling your wife, but given the antecedents of the other lady, you did the right thing by telling her yourself. Let your wife think it through. She will come around.
Water that is meant for your consumption will not flow beyond where you stand!
Good decision u made bro, the lord is ur strenght
Anon 4:22 u nor well
Oga dont worry let ur wife heal she will come back to you
Atleast you have said the truth, just pray and faith that she will come back.it's well.
Go for prayers for reformation
Wats dis mumu segun saying abeg
You did right by confessing to your wife, am sure she is still in shock that u cheated on her but with tym she will come around & forgive u.
Your wife is so much in love with u, i guess that is probably the reason she freaked out & as for the lady who crashed your home, there is a reward for everything anyone does just let her be. Don't let her commit abortion pls, cause that might b another trouble.
Above all, pray earnestly & look for a way to get across to your wife even if u've to go to her parents & slp on there doorstep all week for them to know you didn't mean to hurt ur wife & dt it'll never happen again.
U Neva followed my advise, u so collible of a man, I knew that was her sweet plans, I told u to be d good bad cop, make her feel ur wife is aware, go to her home sef, she will bend.....anyways nice move and embrace d loneliness...dude, forgive ursef first so d healing process will start.
For all of u holy than thou, he who got no see should cast d first stone, retards!
Gab2shoessaysso
so you see its a mans world. if it were a woman, you all would have blasted her to hell nd back.
It is well, be rest assured that she will come back she only need time to heal the wound by herself cos u can't do that for her
Leed us not into TEMPTATION!! is better than Deliver us from evil....
felt sad 4 u bro..bt u jst hv 2 b strong ok. pray n evrytin wil b bck 2 gud, we also wil b prayin 4 u
Time heals all wounds.
Pray and be truly repentant.
dis asampokoto dat jst replying each comment stupidly....wats ur own sef....each individual has a right to their diff. opinions....so pls chill
I told you to wait until you were sure what was going on oh. She might not even have been pregnant.
That woman is a demon from hell.
and all of you trolls still abusing. your time will come. nobody is above mistakes.
Please no matter what you do, dont stop apologising and give up on your wife. Pray and do everything possible to get her back. get arrested. text and call. seek advice and speak to her parents. make it right or you wont forgive yourself.
Best of luck
the deed has been done and your paying for your sins, adultery, philandering and all what not. You did not expect to tell your wife and she would give you a hug for it(sics)...........You disrespected her and lost all trust she had for you. If you are really sincerely sober, then all you have to do is to get forgiveness from God first( because believe it or not his the only one that can revert all wrongs and touched the heart of your wife) Every one makes mistake. David in the bible sinned against God when he slept with uriah"s wife and he paid for his sins (his house was in chaos and he lost his son)
hey ladies dont ever leave any devil incanate of a woman to destroy or make u leave ur marriage. Remember that is what she wants , for u to leave so she can come in and take over, dont give her the room and also remember that men are babies, when they mess up we (women) clean up their mess. That are where we are stronger than them because the weaker vessels we are is in physical might. Rather take that child if she is willing into ur home and nuture, u may never know on which child's head a crown is rested and that child serves as her weapon to fight that marriage. Men grow up for they say that the devil u know is better than the angel u dont know, be content with the woman u have because the one u are leaving ur wife for u dont know very well.
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