I would like to share my problem and hopefully get some good advice on this predicament I have found myself. I am 24 and grew up in a Christian home where going to church was the only recreational activity allowed in my house. My parents are pastors and they pastor a large pentecostal church in lagos.Growing up in my house felt like a military camp, friends from school weren't allowed over and the only kids I got to associate with were pastors kids like myself and all we were allowed to discuss was the bible because watching TV wasn't even allowed except its a gospel program.
So naturally not having friends turned me into a quiet girl and I was the obedient and perfect girl to everyone and most parents wished they had me, but what all didn't know was that behind the quiet charming girl I was a totally different person. Years of being monitored and not being allowed to interact socially had messed up my sanity and sexuality, because since I was allowed to play with only girls I had learnt to develop emotional feelings for only girls.
Fast track to 4months ago, I have always kept my sexuality in check because I'm a pastors kid from an influential home and I couldn't just act out even if i wanted to. So one evening I was visiting a friend after work hours and I got introduced to this other friend of hers, and from the minute I set my eyes on her I knew I needed to have her and nature smiled on me and somehow we became an item.
She was everything I wanted and she fulfilled all my guilty pleasures and she was my first, thou I kept my last name and family background from her. Two weeks ago she calls me up and says that I haven't been treating her right that I never told her I was from a super rich home and since I had a name to protect that she needs 5million naira for Christmas shopping.
At first I thought she was crazy but now she's threatening to tell my folks and the entire church. My parents may have gotten it wrong in the child training section but they are good people and it would ruin their reputation if the church finds out.
So do I tell them the truth about my sexuality and impending disaster or do I pay her the N5m or do I just take the long rope and walk away from home and never return. Because either way I can't change my sexuality and I have 2weeks to go before all hell breaks loose.
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«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 600 of 1663 Newer› Newest»Y would u be a lesbian @ d first place...I'll say u shld tell ur parent ur self bfor she tell dem.. Ask for deir forgiveness...Linda...May God bless u abundantly.. For this giveaway thing even if I don't win any... I tink I found sometin to make my heart pace..lol...
Young lady is sooo ok to b gay as long as ur happi wif ursef.
That ur gf cnt do shit,belive me.take ds simple steps bt wat if she reads Lib?
V cin n handled cases like dis fr pple so follow me on twitter wif a fake ID. N I will tell u wat to do cos pple on hea wil confuse ur brain cos dey r sooo homophobic. 5m fr xmas ma a**,nawa fr pple sha.
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First of all. Dont let ur parent hear abt ur sexuality from someone or somewhere else but you.
And I'm very sure d girl in question cant even try doin it. She sef she be human being o.
i dunno
well as for me i think you should
her bluff cause even if you give
her the money she'll still ask for
more
Ask for forgiveness from God
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Tell your parent!...By so doing,you can contain your partner's excesses
Na wa
This is obviously Bullshit
I think the best would be to let your parents know. It's going to be difficult but believe me it will help you get out of the mess and act yourself.
i think you should just have faith, pray for God to deliver you from your addiction to women. #shiloh2014
Never pay for a black mail, dey will always want some more like oliver twist. For all i understand, there is no tape, it just her words against urs, so sharpen your mouth to deny it. Package ur counter lies nd waite for her, after all na two una enjoy am, not u alone
And i seriously think you should get some sort of help & please try change the mindset of "Because either way I can't change my sexuality"
Better you tell your parents yourself. They may be able to break the chane. As for the girl demanding 5million, she's a looser. We could give her 25k here on LIB for shopping, only if she's ready to cause traffic here like thousands of LIBer. Her one week sleepless night here may win her 25k too. Lol.
Linda Ikeji, I'm catching serious headache of two sleepless night. Hope I get to win something?!
David (dave_gino)
Tut dey don't hav gold diggers in lesbianism
Who send you bÉ for
Don't pay sister, once you pay, you will always pay,so find other means +f settling these shit, if it means taking force,your patner asked for it. khoosh_melvin@yahoo.com
This one na gobe oo
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i think you should have faith and pray for God to deliver you from this same sex addiction. #shiloh2014
Wish I can advice u on this, it's really terrible .
Expose every works of darkness. Sso good you are exposed so you change. Mtshews lobieke@gmail.com
#myopinion
You need God in ur life.. Evill act hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Hey girl.. u need prayers..lesbianism is spiritual. .u hve to let go and let God
U didn't stated if she has any hard evidence.. Buh here's my advice if she doesn't.. Don't give her a dime because she will definitely keep asking for more.. Let ur parent know, dat way u will reduce intensity of the impact it'll av on dem (if u love dem). Cut all communication with her, she'll want to start piling up evidence.. And seek advice from some close to u.. I mean blood.. ** writing bullshit feelgood tho** seun.badejo@yahoo.com
Congrats to me oooooooo am happy to hear it..
You need God in ur life.. Evill act hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
You need God in ur life.. Evill act hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Repent and b saved
Damn ....here's a tough one...Dont knw wat to tell her...ur partner aint nice at all though...I cant talk abt ur sexuality cos I understand where ure coming from...but even at that...ots really wrong.
Listen, I wont judge you but I will tell you one thing am 100% certain.If you give that money-it wont stop there. Every time she needs money you will be the scapegoat and one day the truth will eventually come out.Be honest with your parents,they will probably disown you or accept you..who knows? But honesty is your only option.
its only the truth that can help you now but if you sure ave the money go ahead and pay it but b sure you'll be doing that for the rest of your life
If u pay her the 5 million she will demand for more tomorrow, I suggest u talk to ur parents about dis, nobody is above temptation, moreover. I believe the girl in question doesn't av any concrete evidence as to nail u.
Let her do it
Tell ur parents.....n pray
Ten years in prison await you
My dear don't worry u won't be the first lesbo ever exposed
Tell ur parents.....n pray
Tell ur dad to deliver yu
Just call ur parents and explain everything to them.
Let her do it
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Why don't you just explain to your parents. Even if you will run away after.
Take a walk Boo Boo and enjoy your Christmas.
If u eventually pay d 5mil,den be prepared 2pay more!.. Talk 2ur mum,it isn't too late.
Try tell yr parents.. And u can still change
It's Kinda Way 2 Far Fetched O, Dough Might Be Disappointing To Your Parents, BUt D Obedient Child Ur Parents Raised And Tell Them The Truth And If It Also Means Blaming It On The Marine Spirits In The Church, Do O.. But If Giving Away That 5M Is Still In Check Pls Bring It To Me D Dude Needs December Money N For D Record I Can U Know Give U Clue Ooo If U Want.. Adios N Goodluck
the truth is the only thing that can set you free
touching story na wa
First of all,you did wrong cause its a sin in naija and before God.so you need to start straightening things up by telling your parents the truth.
Secondly,that chic yo've been with is a b*tch!not just the regular type but a greedy/selfish biatch.so I'll say just confess and apologise to those that matter most i.e parents then tell her to come suck ma furry ballz!...God bless
Linda baby, how u dey
Who said you can't change your sexuality? In the beginning he made male and female not female and female. You also need to talk to your parents. Hiding it and yourself won't do you much good. You need deliverance.
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Don't pay her tell her to go an tell ur family she can do dat. An if u pay her u we continue to pay her for d rest d of ur life. An my dear go an ask forgiveness an conference all ur sins an ask God to forgive u an go for deliverance. An God we for u.
you have to care about what people say...you wont be the first to be a lesbian....
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So u already know what u're doing is embarrassing? Mtchewww
My dear I suggest you tell your parent because if you give her the money she will always come back for more.
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Tell ur parents urself no matter how hurt it may sound
why engaging in such activities when you are from xtian background
Ok.. alameenmkafi@gmail.com
see u, how dat one tke concern me. what u see is wat u get…
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Pele
My dear I suggest you tell your parent because if you give her the money she will always come back for more.
this one is strong!!
Ghen ghen....this ur partner is mean shaa...1million for xmas shopping??...na de whole shoprite she wan go buy???...on a more serious note now,in as much as I wanna castigate you I stil think ur parents caging u ain't the reason u re a lesbian,nd to think ur dad is a pastor,coming here on lib won't help,talk to ur parents am sure dey will know a better way 2 go about it.
1st 1st. This might be a bluff.. But go ahead and tell your parent. Since your are an adult(you are right?), they will know how to handle the situation. Giving her the 5million will just be the first of many more to come
Haha,dnt give her any money o,she shld go ahead n tell dem,afterall its deir fault,nawa 4 sm parents wey no dey allow deir children 2 associate wit oda kids,dats bad na
If you pay 2day.,for how long wil u kip paying? Be like shaggy,in his favorites track,it wasn't Me.
An u should stop dose act tell God u we never do it again. But if u pay my dear u go turn to maga
Nawao,five mil dat young girl is a devil,confess to ur parent 4 a proper deliverance
Stop living in bondage
HMMMMM........... Short of words
But lindodo u no dey post my comments atimes ooo,dats y i dnt win,not fair biko
Just go clean, and tell ur parents, cuz believe me, she will come back later for another blackmail..just face it now, no matter how difficult it is, itz ur cross and u must carry it..
Madam Linda leave gay people alone
confess before she reveals your secret.akinyeleomotolu@gmail.com
This is deep but i believe, you have your integrity and that of your parents to protect.....but the moment you start paying then you will pay forever......why not confide in your parents and tell them about this and travel far away....even if she spills then, the weight of her claims will not be too much.
dis is rediculos! buh since u were not caught red handed u shudnt b scared of her treath
Just act wisely,tell your parents to avoid unnecessary fear or threat! And mak sure u let go of d habit!
Hmm mm mm mm.......that's good for you
Tell your parents the truth, talk to GOD and turn to christ cos only him can help you.
First of all,who says you can't change your sexuality? If you are serious to make it right and if you care so much about not wanting to dent your parent's reputation,then you much strive to change your sexual preference,you weren't born so.
Secondly,your so-called partner is blackmailing you,if you give in to her demands of 5million,her next demand would keep increasing and she will never stop demanding,u will be her ATM. I'm sure she has parents and a life to protect,am also sure her parents don't know her sexual preference,so she would also be exposing herself.
Let it play out,sooner or later,if you don't change your ways and take yield to the word of God and wise counsel,your ways will catchup with you and it would be worse than this Blackmail.
thanks linda.....i hope i win ouanikehi@gmail.com
pls my dear just tell them, it would be bad if they get to hear it from her,u going to be okay n they might use it as an advice to the Church ,pls don't run away from home I beg u,God can do it 4 u n u av a man
First of all tell your parents, don't give her 5 million and make sure there is no proof of the existence between both of you's relationship. you can also try to talk to her(tell her that homosexuality is illegal in Nigeria and if she exposes both of you, you both might end up in jail) (14 years).
God will help u
To me, your story sounds like a well scripted Nollywood movie however if it were to be true, my advice is this: confront your parents first and tell them your whole story. Since you are a family, they will support you better and help you get out of the mess you have placed yourself in. As for your lover, don't give her a dime or you will never stop paying for her frivolous demands.
That's really gud, infarct how can a pastors daughter engage in such an act, this should be a lesson for you, anyways dnt pay her as she would only ask for more next time, why dnt u tell ur parents first u silly girl
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Hmmm..end time
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the best to do is to talk to your parent and i believe they will understand you and help you out
Please don't walk away face it
You better repent. What do u mean u can't change ur sexuality
See Gobe....I will just seat and hear fellow libers sort you out..sorry o
It takes 2 to tango my frnd, am sure she can't.
If the girl cannot prove you guys are an item, then just deny that you know her if she makes any allegations.
I feel for you, but u gotta be careful in any decision you make. All d best
If you pay her she's going to keep coming back for more
Ok.obianuju4anita@gmail.com
Dear hmmm
It's well
I think you shld tell u parents and den go to God for help
Don't say u can't change ur sexualiity
It's not God's intention for you
Don't give in to d lady cos she will keep on coming for more
God's grace and mercy
Nello247@gmail.com. Tell them urself as the lady is just after the money
Well all you have to do is call her, sit her down and talk to her.. the both of you can sort things out..Thanks... motherland02@yahoo.com
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Hmmmmmm dis 1 na gobe!!
Jst try and take a new leave.. put it into prayers and ask GOD to see u tru this and ensure u change for good because if u pay her that 5m u will kip paying
Pay me 1m outta the 5m then I can advise you.
uanikehijoshua@gmail.com
My dear,u hav 2 tel ur parents nw,cos dis blackmailer will neva stp blackmailing u. Nd try 2 change ur ways. Jay-B
good for u. hotada90@yahoo.com
Tell your parent your story and i believe they will help in any ways to save you from the situation...May God see you through
I'll @dvice u open up to ur p@rents th@n subscribe to che@p bl@ckm@il.
I think you have 2 tell d truth
This is a serious issue, if u give her d 5m now the treat will forever continue. Just tell ur parents the truth n invite her to come get the money but make sure ur parents r aware already. Am sure they wldnt leave u to this. Bisp
give her the 5m
You had better tell your parents and repent fast.
Abeg let her expose u joor.. Not a biggie.. After they shout n condemn u.. They will shit the fuck up and it will pass. If u give her 5 million, next month its 10 million oo.. Just face it.. U will be fine
they better expose each other
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You had better tell your parents and repent fast.
What a life? Better take as your fate........why scared something that you were enjoying and like doing it........what a shame.
Waoh! This is serious o. Just tell ur parents about it, they will know how to handle it
Your partner s just a thief
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Tell the truth, tough choice tho but, its the best choice
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there is something real here I can relate with. First and foremost, call your girlfriend and talk to her, then give her money. Its hard but do it. Make sure its in an open place where there will be crowd to avoid her filming. Confide in a trusted very trusting friend to meet that blackmailer so that the latter will know how serious the ish is.
Now end it with her right there, you, its over between you two so that any allegations she makes up in future is lie, arrest and sue her for it. Make sure none of your sex moments were filmed.
Why should you pay her? Give ceaser what belong to ceaser, gbam. Plead though if she would take 3m. Yes, it seems you have recieved you judgment and punishment.
Now, understand that i didnt judge your sexuality. I though do not encourage homosexuality. What am against here is fornication for i bet if she was a guy, he may still redicule you one way or the other.
Now please, if ever you read this, please come back to lib and answer these- are you naturally a lesbian? Was it caused psychologically. From the look of things, it seems it grew out of proportion. Cause am sure you aint a lesbian. Mingle freely with guys, do not run away from home, go out; swim in the same pool with them, appear seductive, eye their manliness, hook up with them, get married and your friendblackmailer shall die of defeat. It may take 1yr, 2yrs, just mingle with guys.
***Imo state born uniben babe***
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In my opinion, paying her will only make her ask for more. So develop d courage to discuss things with ur family nd make dem believe u dnt mean to put d family name in shame that's d reason you have tell them.
I ll advise u to tell ur parents personally so dat dy ll pray for u nd dy wnt b surprised if dy gt to knw
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Let d truth come out
Let her expose you now. Both of you will suffer the consequences.
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If u pay her now, she will always blackmail you. So i suggest you come clean with your parents. They will help.
Blessing.ezike@yahoo.com
Let her expose you now. Both of you will suffer the consequences.
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This is the time to set yourself free from all entanglements of the Devil my dear. Give in to her demands and u gonna have rest of mind just for few dayz. But let her help u in revealing your greatest nightmare and you gonna have rest of mind eternally.... Gorzman
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i think ur parent's should know the truth
Tell your family the truth my dear ,she wld keep asking for more cash.
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Blackmailers are never satisfied with the first amount they ask for, they keep asking and asking till you are drained and either way your parents are still going to find out, so I am of the opinion that you should tell them and let her do her worse, everything will die down and just be strong.
My dear, for how long would u pay d money? U can tell ur folks abt it and let her do her worse. As long as u don't go back doing it. My opinion tho.
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Dnt mind her, let her do her worst
Na wa oh,the girl is so so greedy anyway, my candid advice is for you to tell your parents, they won't kill you they will only be upset and disappointed for a while. After that you quit lesbianism esebeauty21@yahoo.com
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I guess you should let you parents know about it.
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Oooh! U need God grace,I mean.. GRACE.nnekadeborah@gmail.com
I really dunno what to advice u ooo, if u tell ur parents they might disown you sef
I would have said put her in prayers but well I think that one has k-leg too
IJ.LaLa
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tell ur parents, let them handle the blackmailer themselves. running away from them won't solve anything cos she can still tell them. is better it comes from you than her
It's not strange to hear something of such coming from a pastor's child....Bridgezz007
Things sure happen
Hmmmm ds is interesting..well to be on a safer side trust u should open up..yes u would b crucified buh truth is u would keep been blackmailed till d truth is known..so better to tell d truth bout ur sexuality..ur parents would b dissapointed..so own up n get ds done with cos if u pay da 5m b ready to pay 7m then God knows wat u would pay next b4 u get exposed e
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Na wa oh,the girl is so so greedy anyway, my candid advice is for you to tell your parents, they won't kill you they will only be upset and disappointed for a while. After that you quit lesbianism esebeauty21@yahoo.com
Abeg who know the title of this home video?
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nawa ooo
Eiyah,,,, dheneafollyjnr@yahoo.com
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Don't pay her just tell your parents the truth depending on the way u tell them they might have remorse on themselves for the wrong upbringing
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Hard
Well my dear, d did has been done what we can only pray for is remedy... I'd advise u to talk to ur parents behind a closed door n let them know abt or satanic sexual orientation. Since u said dat ur dad is a pastor. I believe he will arrange deliverance for u. From my understanding God is merciful n forgiving so those who worship him must be like him. Secondly from d bottom of ur heart rediscover that wat u r doing is a classified evil. Seek the face of God before it is too late for God is not a respecter of person(s). Tnx
Please tell ur parent and walk down to d altar and make an open confession to save Your parents from the pains and stress and get d necessary scolding now before its too late
THE TRUTH SHALL SET U FREE
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Mmmm. Not sure of what to say. Elliottwinnifred@yahoo.com
She will ask u for more money, so if u like urself, just let d cat outta d bag and b a changed person.
If u give her d money, she'll keep coming back for more..I tink you shld take the long rope and walk away from home, go to a country where homosexuality is allowed, take the 5million naira with you instead of giving it to her
I guess u should let your parents know about it first.
None of the above.. Silent is golden, just cut off from her and ofcourse no one will believe her cos it's blackmail..
I think you should sit ur parents down nd confide in dem,if u pay d 5million,she'll kip coming to u
Gurrl it is time to pray.i dont root for the gay club because i think your sexuality is your business.but how come you let the devil use you this far.i honestly dont know d right advise to give.over to you guys������✌
Tell dem my dear
You r a grown up now
Dnt let it cm to dem like a Shocker
Blackmailers never stop
Pay her d 5m and new year she will ask for a house from u
Dnt fall into d trap
please don't hesitate to tell your parents cos they'll understand you need deliverance and for lesbian partner she will still ask for more if you give her the cash. I just hate blackmail.
Just calm down.yo folks r xtians right?they r required2justify dat wit forgiving u.twas once said dat mayb by fluke of nature we hav born les?but most r just sexual adventurist,dont get lost get a man,retrace yo steps,pray,fast&ask God's forgiveness.dont b scared her rep for life is also at stake.All d best
Do u believe she wld really do that? Is she ready to expose herself too? Tell her it's okay for her to Spill as long as it's u two going to Prison as she was Part of it. And whatever you say to her make sure she has no way of keeping the Record. Say it to her face, not chat or call...have fun breaking her heart...Lol
God will help u
Linda i am 1st to comment...cheers.
blackmail is never an option, i think u should let the truth out
Pray hard ivyglory75@yahoo.com
don't give o pls
Lol..ur parents tho..lmaooo
But either ways...fuck ya gf na..it myt change ha mind
What a sinful world. tounforever@yahoo.com
Just repent nd confess ur sins to ur parents lyk d prodigal son nd u will b accepted nd forgiven
Let the sin be exposed and hav rest of mind
I think you should let your parents know about it. They have a fault here
Don't pay her cos no one would believe her. My advice is for you to repent.
Report her to the police and hope u dont ve an indiscriminate hard evidence that she can pin on you....finally relocate
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you just have to tell Ur parents urself. cos wen u give her d money she will keep asking for more, confess Ur sin and ask God and Ur parents for forgiveness. dey won't kill u
Na una sabi
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