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Friday, 3 October 2014

Dear LIB readers: My husband called me ode for texting his mistress

From a female LIB reader
Dear LIB, please advice. A certain girl my husband had sexual relations with kept texting him “hey boo”, “hey hun”, asking for skype dates and such…and he used to reply her. When I found out, I obviously stated it wasn’t acceptable and for a while he stopped. Until she sent him a message recently saying she missed him so much and so on and so forth. So, I sent the babe a message saying it wasn’t acceptable and she needed to chill. She responded saying he was like her brother (they lived together for a while and were in a sexual relationship) and I was coming at “my sister-in-law”..lol. Now the craziest thing is this..she told my husband that I texted her and my husband's response to me was: “why are you going about texting my friends, how can you stoop so low..you are such an ode”. To say I was dumbfounded will be an understatement. Don't know how to react to this

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Bishop Dammy said...

Apologize and pray for the Holy spirit wisdom to restore your home! Fire doesn't quench fire! It is well. Prov 18:22. BishopDammy#

Unknown said...

Eyya sowie

AnnesVikki said...

I do hope dis get posted.Uve not done anything wrong dear. Be indifferent to wat ur husband says. U wuldnt wanna raise trouble in ur home now. Let peace reign!

Unknown said...

And that's exactly what u are nne! Infact u are odeburuku... U dnt have respect 4 ur hubby.

Anonymous said...

From ur write up,u both sound as kids playing "luske". (Sue)

Anonymous said...

what a husband

Meenora said...

You didn't have to text her, but that dosn't make you an ode.

Juliebabe said...

Abeg take several seats jare, atleast he didn't beat you. you hubby is a foolish fool

Walata said...

He is taking ur love for granted, i guess he still loves her (the ex)

Unknown said...

SIMPLY PUT....INSECURITY. BUT CALLING YOU ODE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE CUZ URE HIS WIFE NOT GF. *******QUEENMAYA********

Unknown said...

SIMPLY PUT....INSECURITY. BUT CALLING YOU ODE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE CUZ URE HIS WIFE NOT GF. *******QUEENMAYA********

BONARIO NNAGS said...

He had the effrontery to call you Ode because of the way u handled it from the onset, you caught him cheating on you and I guess you forgave him so easily without letting him know the magnitude of his offence.
If you had threatened to walkout of the marriage or taken other decisive actions,he wouldn't have called you such and he would have warned his mistress to desist from texting him.
You allowed him play god, imagine you doing the same thing you caught him doing. You need to take a strong stand as it pertains what goes on in your home,before he invited the mistress to come live in your home.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family..
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Anonymous said...

I think you deserve the reply....

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family..
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ary said...

Your husband is a complete maga and completely insensitive to your feelings! He might not be doing anything with the lady now but the fact that he keeps in touch says that even if it is not conscious, he is open to the option of infidelity. I mean he should be sensitive to the fact that you need to mark your territory. He should know that!!!!

Anonymous said...

Wow, this isn't funny.so she even had the audacity to state how "related" they re lol..a loving husband should protect n respects his wife's interest first...this na marriage matter I honestly don't know how to advice you to react. But be slow to act...use wisdom.

Unknown said...

you are not an Ode, but sending a text message is not the best way to go about it, men are always looking for excuse to cover up their wrong doing, just don't be bothered so much, make your husband jealous by telling him that guys toasted you in the shop,market or mull but you simply walked out on them because it is wrong for a married woman to play around, such stories will make him come home

JP said...

You shouldnt have sent out the text message in the first place but since it happened that way already, You need to apply wisdom here dear as being vindictive wont help. Be more prayerful also.

Anonymous said...

Eyaa guyz dey r all d same tin......qudratadenike@gmail.com

SUE JORDAN said...

You dont know how to react to it huh??? Dont worry, keep being a mumu and ode ok!!!! Did you force him to marry you.....abi you married him ni?????

Woman better use your tongue to count the teeth you have left.....Rubbish....why are women always afraid to put their foot down....what would he do if you had that kind of conversation with an ex boyfriend.....

Unknown said...

why is cheating common with married me of nawadays huh! nne please try and speak to him in a mild way that what he is doing is wrong,dont use harsh voice

Anonymous said...

Work on the source not the end user. Remember it's Africa & naturally you cant fight your husband & win. Apply Bible principles with much humility...don't bother ever going for the other woman. best wishes

Anonymous said...

U shuld really show him how ode behaves so he knws d difference. Men sha.lol

Anonymous said...

Dnt mind him, he wants 2 use OGBOJU 4 U! U can tel him he is also OPONU

Unknown said...

Lolzz...Hug ur husby tight...niggas are scarce nw.

Unknown said...

why did you txt his mistress???Settle with ur husband cos its not her business.. Men get so mad when you confront their mistress. i did it once and will try not to do it again

Anonymous said...

My dear take heart
no be everything person dey fight wit ordinary eye.
go on your knees and do what u know best.
you are not an ode
youu are only protecting your interest.
fight for your own
but its not by mouth only
pray! pray!! Pray hard!!!

Unknown said...

Lmao funniest thing av heard all week. Babe he is your husband nd honestly he need a lil lesson on respect cus that was an insult to you and your marriage and to say the least the bastard is still cheating. Obviously he respects the bitch more than you. Better do something before something do you

Anonymous said...

You made a mistake also.why would reply your husband chat in the 1st place


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Anonymous said...

Y u go dey check him phone. Heheheehe

Anonymous said...

Her beef is with her husband not the mistress. He's chearing and disrespecting her for his jump off.

Toronto Finest said...

Divorce him lol... story for the jobless lol

horluwatosyne said...

MEN sha.....

Anonymous said...

But he is right. Maybe ode is extreme but really you have stooped low. Never text the mistress, that way you let her know shes winning and disturbing your peace. You are the mrs, she will never win, why bother ya head again? My opinion sha

Anonymous said...

Lol! Eyah.... Marriage prob

Anonymous said...

Don't react to it...

Anonymous said...

no big deal,ask urself,are u one if not then move on.if u want to die young keep on meddling in his affairs.

Anonymous said...

Ωα̍̍̊ wa o! This one pass my power....protect yourself from your hubby anyway you can. He's an enemy within....pray for him too.

Unknown said...

Mind ur business ma.
if ur husband isn't bold enough to tell u, then he s ashamed and loves u.
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Livvsreamblog said...

Ode is a name of a person in yoruba eg Amodemaja,odebummi etc so i dont know what you mean or you dont like the new name ni?

win said...

You gave no business with the said girl. Talk with your husband and let him know how you feel.

adegoroye adeola said...

God will help u out of dis

Unknown said...

Don't take it personal cause you gave him the room of calling you that.........

Unknown said...

D man is d ode for stoopin so low to disrespect u...I just can't deal wit men dis days..annoyin bunch of fools

Unknown said...

Don't take it personal cause you gave him the room of calling you that.........

Unknown said...

Keep praying for them to separate......

Anonymous said...

Ur husband is a serious bastard! He needs to die. What a fool? Gosh! Men? Fools!
Better kill him,

Unknown said...

Keep praying for them to separate......

Unknown said...

Lolz... Love hurts..
Well, texting her wzn't cool buh one could understand ur reasons.. And for ur husband to say that to yu means he doesn't hv regards for yu...

helen said...

Sori abt dat.u jus av To b calm

Unknown said...

Keep praying for them to separate......

Unknown said...

Keep praying for them to separate......

Anonymous said...

The only 'ode' here is your husband for still maintaining a relationship with his ex, who seems hell bent on getting between you too. Very soon she will be coming round thats how it starts. And before you know it in your marital bed! Its better to be an ode now rather than a divorcee later. You need to nip it in the bud now!!!!!!! The girl has ulterior motives.

orela said...

Abeg she be real ode...she should talk things out with her husband.. He has the problem.. He didn't give the girl boundaries...
Some girls sha...I can't imagine myself sending a,message to my ex..starting with hello boo...for what?I can relate well but not hello boo...and no godforsaken ex should try to crap,with me.

iamjavademon said...

Serves her right though any concerned wife will want to do so but it makes her look desperate and men should stop all this cheating.

Anonymous said...

He called you 'ode' and u r dumbfounded ,wat if he nau calls u 'Oloriburuku' u will faint?LMAO. Instead of u 2 trace d gal 2 her house wit any of ur younger ones and tell dem 2 beat d 'ode' out of her,u came here asking dumb questions. Onpe 4 u.

Anonymous said...

This story is on another blog again??? Haven't you gotten enough comments on a previous blog!!
Makes me wonder if the story is true sef *eyes rolling*

Unknown said...

Marriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.

Unknown said...

Marriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.

Unknown said...

Marriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.

Anonymous said...

It is indeed a shame that a man will treat his princess in such a manner. He needs to stop his inappropriate act and the girl needs to know her bounds. Because we expect men to cheat doesn't make it right to do so.

Speak to your husband about it, and explain to him that the relationship with his mistress is inappropriate and uncomfortable, let alone the name calling.

*Justin Case*

Anonymous said...

Lmfao..funny

Unknown said...

Marriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.

Unknown said...

Confirm Ode! don't go near your hubby's phone... didn't your mum advise you before going into marriage? Has he threatened you with divorce? does he not cater for you? Stop bitching around him unless you are jobless QED

Anonymous said...

Yes ur an Ode nah. Lol.

Anonymous said...

I wish you asked Librs before you sent the girl a text, you've given him a chance to watch his back..you need to make him comfortable at home and also keep tabs on him

Anonymous said...

Na wa. 4 men oo; dat was hw sum1 text my hubby on the 1st and @the end of the msg the person wrote I Love U; asked hubby to call the no he refuse. I told him am watching wit 3D

Anonymous said...

Why did u do such?
Mutalyb@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Why not mind ur own bussiness

Anonymous said...

You have made the worst mistake a wife should make, but is not without correction, if only you will listen. Do not see your husband female friends as your rivals that is what your husband means by his statement that you "stoop low" or that you are "ode". Anytime you behave like that, you are simply telling you husband that the other woman is better than you, you need "Resilient".

Anonymous said...

Hehehehe. ...I no fit laugh......swthrt I'm sorry bt he just tld u ur place in his life

Unknown said...

Hahahahahaha. ..omg!!! I can't stop laughing. Abeg...This is soon hilarious! !! Choi!!!!

Chyluv! said...

Since u Don't knw u may truely be an ode! Lmaoo. Anywys I won't Tk that, if he wants an open marriage, il give him a taste of his own medicine. Figure out a way to work it out, n let him knw where it hurts.

Anonymous said...

And d best place to seek advice is on here yea?? Ur jst as dumb as ur husband.. dats y men keep cheating cos some of u are jst brainless

Unknown said...

Well, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead.
For your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.

Unknown said...

Well, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead.
For your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.

Unknown said...

Stop stooping low.

Gentletee said...

What do u expect him to call you after such an unwise move? The mistress shouldn't be ur focus but your husband.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Ur husband is stupid, insane and should be slapped for this single act no doubt.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Your husband is high on hard drugs
You can called him idiot, moron is understatement

BORN TO SHINE!!!

Anonymous said...

Dont mind him he's the real ODE! How would he stoop so low to as cheating after being married?stupid man,And the lady is more stupid how on earth can one sleeps with her brother with no remorse.

Unknown said...

HE CALLED U ODE? U ARE LUCKY HE DIDNT BEAT THE HELL OUT OF U. BIKO JUST MANAGE THAT ODE EHHNN. DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WIF HUSBANDS OF NOW ADAYS.

fynechop said...

Your hubby calling you ode does not mean that you are ode or are you? So what you did i feel you did de ryt tin to at least stop her from textn him, if at all they're doing anything it has to be in secret, and your hubby should show you some respects And stop leaving some controversial text messages in his phone.

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

The Man is an idiot,....leave him, they always regret at last,most of these Men die early due to extra marital affairs, So many widows out there,let him go and die so u could marry a better Man jare..

Anonymous said...

my dear deal with urn low self esteem. he shuddering b d one begging u. urn husband knows urn weak point days why he wants to make u feel guilty nd stupid. but in dis fight keep attacking him nd don't defend ursef or ursef action. d main point is he is cheating . pls am contesting for d miss darling
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Anonymous said...

Leave him,get another Man too.life is too short for living with a stupid Man.

Anonymous said...

You are playing inferior to him, give that word back add more like anuohia,and stuff. Did your parents borrow money from him. He is cheating on u and insulting u at the same time. Make sure u have a work or something doing that brings your own money.

Unknown said...

If you have children please face your children and be happy . Stop going through his phone because it's his privacy and if you go to court , they will say u intruded his privacy. He is a flirt for responding at all to her stupid texts. Yes ! But think of it , what if there more sis-in-law he is banging ? Make urban children the only thing tha t helps u bear d pain. It's well

DondanteScope said...

Yes... He is right... You are a big one.

Anonymous said...

He was soo nice. Ode doesn't even begin to describe your stupidity. If you'd taken it up very well the first time and made a big issue out of it, she wouldn't be sending follow up messages subsequently. Foolish lady, after she get belle finish, u go begin dey show all tour craze for Ija Orogun Premier League, quarrelling about whose turn it is to shine his Congo.

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Anonymous said...

Yup tru you are ode number 1. Can't tell you why you are one right now,but honestly,ode ni e.

Anonymous said...

ANGELRAY SAYS
How else do u want to react, u had no bizness texting her, ur hubby was right,, u stooped so low. U are indeed an ODE.

Mr. True talk said...

Well, she told you already he is like a brother to her. do your investigation properly before reacting. behind every successful marriage is honesty and trust.

Debbie Chelsea said...

He is d Ode here......my dear, just dnt put ur mind on dat,if not ur pressure will go high....pray 4 him all d time....

Unknown said...

he is an Odekpe 4 keeping such relationship....men r so full of it oooo.dunno wat wel do 2 dem I swear....ODEKPES's..#mtchhhheeewww#

Anonymous said...

Crios,, its obvious ur husband likes his side chick @abrahamyoung23@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

hahaha haha..oh my daiz...u really shldnt ve texted her..it annoys me wen women comfront d gfriends...like seriously, u ave got no business with dem..handle ur husband..confrontation is like a challenge to dose bitches...it's like u refilling dere tank..

Anonymous said...

Just calm (eleyele1@yahoo.com)

Man Of God said...

i think you should just ignore it since you are not an 'ode' beside he is indirectly calling himself the husband of an 'ode'. i want to believe the so-called sexual relationship is now in the past as the mistress confirmed that she has missed him for a long time! just tighten your grip on him to avoid any intrusion and enjoy! my own opinion

Anonymous said...

mtcheew, all these women something! dem call u ode..so?

Anonymous said...

Ah-ah....I'm confused....did this person ACTUALLY send you this or COPIED AND PASTED from the comments section on bellanaija...na wa

nekysparkles said...

Lmao!wetin una no go judge giv lib readers

dhobiz said...

Lolz you're in hell and i really don't know what you're still doing with such a man,he doesn't have a bit of respect for you.

Anonymous said...

You must be a calm woman, if it's me, all hell will be let loose oo. Don't even give him space to continue because it will only get worse until ur marriage is doomed

Unknown said...

she didn't hv d right to text ur hubby mistress. u could hv confront ur hubby instead of texting his mistress.

Anonymous said...

ode na big deal,

Anonymous said...

Forgive to avoid more problems.



Unknown said...

you didn't hv d right texting ur hubby mistress instead of that u could hv confront ur hubby.

Rahma said...

Hi, my dear, u had absolutely no reason to text her. That's one of ur job as a wife, IGNORE. As long as u hv spoken to him bout it, leave him be. I know it hurts u, but at d end of the day, would u leave ur hubby for a low life? Also stop reading his messages, u only get hurt.

Anonymous said...

U're an ode,oya respond!olodo

Anonymous said...

y would you.seeprince2003@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

then you are.attih8@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

then you we're wat?attih8@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Truly u are an ode though not for the reason given by ur husband but for saying u don't know what to do..hian! Some women sha..stay there till ur 'sister-in-law' displaces u..mrs Odenson

Anonymous said...

Lmao...am sure dis isn't d first time he said such to you, take heart sis

uchay said...

But you are truly an ODE!!!

Anonymous said...

deal with it its your problem. av got more than enough problems already!

Anonymous said...

Dem dun tie his eyez with juju o...do something fast before u lose him. I can help. Out sha in untying it


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Anonymous said...

Linda ooo, this was a comment on Bellanaija, how did t come to being a lib reader's post. SMH.

Anonymous said...

this is stale gist ! i read it on stella dimorkorkus blog...

Unknown said...

hhm das too hilarious ur husby really went far well just settle ou things with and find out truly if da were dating mehn dawgs r really wicked.........

Unknown said...

Just dont quarrel with him pray and do all what a woman had to be done

Anon said...

Looolz!!! Buh men dese days jst thnk its dia right 2act anyow evn in marriages.. Anyways, u shldnt av txted her. Its ur man u av bizness wit. If he isnt replying, she wld av stopped. She's nt talkin to herself.

Unknown said...

Do whateva u can to protect ur home. Save ur marriage. 4get about d insult, Learn to let go of som tins. It is a woman dat kips d home and so dont let dat intruder of a girl snatch ur husband away from u. Make him understnd u dont lik d insult, 4get about it and move on.

Anonymous said...

The only ode for this matter na ur husband, I wonder why men can stick to one punnani at a time.

Zubby said so

Unknown said...

exactly! y u texting her? is it in your powers to stop her? y not talk to your husband? you are a wife not a fellow side chick, some women are so used to losing that they don even realize when they are winning,.

bumble bee said...

And like the ode you are, your problem is that he called you an ode, not that he is cheating and still has the guts to even confront you for talking to his mistress.. mschewww

Anonymous said...

My dear.. I understand how u feel about this but must u tell the whole earth dat ur Hubby called u an Ode... Dia r tinz to be kept personal..... Preshy

Anonymous said...

Sorry.Sound funny though....*MHIZSUPREME*

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to say that you are actually an Ode! Many things is better of when ignored than stood so low replied your hubby friends, it's madness, moron....

Anonymous said...

A man insults u n u r seeking fr advice on hw to respond? Aren't u an educated woman! Wht is wrng with u. If u dnt knw wht to do....keep staring at him.

Unknown said...

Over sabi house wife

Unknown said...

how that one take concern price of garri for market

Anonymous said...

u should be! I advice dat u shld kneel down nd bring ur marriage @ d feet of our Lord Jesus (i mean in prayer).

APPLE said...

He is cheating on you and still has the nerves to insult you???!!!!! Women don suffer!!! ( some )

Anonymous said...

Jst let it go, reactin wld cos more ish. Play ur role as a wife, dress charmingly, do a nice hairdo, luk gud 4 him, live ur life to d fulest n don't let ny man pull u dwn. Hope u nt a house wife sha, some men tink dey can misbehave cos dey d ones providing 4 d family. Get sth doin, don't depend on him, be submissive n respect ursef, some guys r nt worth ny ish, weda u married to dem, al dis sha depends on d husband u married. We don't knw him, u do, so don't xpect best advices here. Dere r some guys dat u jst av to respnd to save ursef d stress nxtym by nt bodarin to read his text. 'Kayliebanks'

Anonymous said...

You are stupid, your spouse will cheat on you, every one u relate will will cheat you, business partner or whatever, even your children and then they will call you ode

Anonymous said...

Ladies the only communication you should have with a side chick is the blow the thugs you hired give her.

Anonymous said...

SMH at nigerians. The same people who say westerners have no morals. Can this happen in a white marriage?
What is marriage in nigeria but a wedding day and a title?

Anonymous said...

Well, he doesnt cater for me. I do the catering

Unknown said...

Sorry but this write up makes no sense

Anonymous said...

this is straight from the comment section on bella naija from yesterday !! LINNNNNNDAIKEJI...

Unknown said...

Hmmm Bonario, she threatens her hubby dat she's gonna leave n he says ok... Dat wil b d real slap. Wud say she rily shudn't hav sent dat msg in d 1st place. She has no issue wiv d girl buh her hubby hu has her n stil wants odas. Experience n pressure has taught me differently...

Unknown said...

Eyaaa poster! Na so d tin pain u reach? Ehee atleast 2mr u dnt go to ur husband's fone and even wen u do confront him n not his gf. Ode + anuohia raise to power failure! Idiot.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry that he did, but u acted as one because he expected you not to have be-little yourself before his mistress..
You are higher than her in all sense, so act like it n let your act of the knowledge of who you are to him n his life, give him the remorse to apologize..

- Bliss

Unknown said...

Moses u a big fool..i pity ur wife cos it shows u don't ave respect for women...

Anonymous said...

Contract expired

Unknown said...

Sorry

Unknown said...

U shldnt hv send ur husbands mistress a. Sms na,anyways pele,do u evn hv 2 chk ur husbands phone???

Olameedey said...

Try n talk finz out wiv ur hubby.....men tho'...smh

Anonymous said...

Wilheminna marry? Na who wan marry bad market??

Unknown said...

First of all,in case you don't know what "ode" means,it means you are a fool.....that truly wouldn't have happened if you didn't text the girl(that's practically so wrong)....you deal with the issue with your husband not the girl,your husband is the problem and you need to also check yourself if you are doing things he does not like that needs immediate stop not limit.

Anonymous said...

Dis is 2 strong even though d@ comment was stupid

Anonymous said...

Dnt mind him jaare
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Anonymous said...

Don't give judgment cos u're not in dis womans position, if I were in her shoes, I will arrange 4 thugs d@ will beat her real gud cos she knows d man is married, she just wanna cause another woman pains but pains awaits her when she 2 will say I do. Women! We are truly d problems 2 ourselves

Anonymous said...

my hubby has done worse not text messages alone but i've seen used condoms and lubes.. my dear keep praying for him and take your mind off his infidel business karma is a bitch and will teach him harder lesson. you can have your own side nigga too if your strong enough to do that.

mummy3 said...

Telling him she wld walk out nd d guy says okay wat will she gain? Babe y send d txt in d 1st place? U have got no business wit d chic. I have done dis b4 and belive it dint go down well, d chic insulted d life out of me and she said I came looking out for her nd not d oda way round. When tinz like this happen babe take it easy, talk to him abt it wen u are calm and if possible try make it like a joke but a straight 1 and laugh it off. Ur husby wld somehow know dat it gets to u wen he does dat but don't pick a fight

SalmaLena said...

You are a very big FOOL....apologize for what?

SalmaLena said...

You father is mad....you are the ode....BASTARD

Anonymous said...

My dear it has happened to m b4. Its a way for him to cover up. A kind of attack b4 u r attacked thingy. Ignore him. But pls leave the girl alone and face him

Anonymous said...

I thot I was the only one that noticed.. Linda Ikeji this is so unethical.. what if the lady didn't want the story posted here. Haba u would just go and lift stories from comment sections of Bella naija.. Dear LIB my foot

Unknown said...

oh nah he got you all types of fucked up. you no wrong that bitch should have gotten her ass beat #justsaying

Anonymous said...

You know... iv always thought you're a girl... now tha sunmola made reference to "your wife"... i'm like... is wilheminna moses a man or a woman... please clarify that! *no pun intended*

Unknown said...

Yu hv spoken d truth @Adaobi...

Anonymous said...

You stole this from Bella Naija...lol

That's weird.

Unknown said...

Hving the same issue.

Anonymous said...

Sunmola, u do realise Wilhemina is a woman? Sunmonu like u. Lol

smallbutMIGHTY said...

your husband was wrong for calling you an ode...and as long as ur'e not one(an ode) ignore it and move on(you can't convince a monkey that honey is sweeter than banana,but let him know how much the statement he made because of the girl hurt your feelings.

Anonymous said...

Bona, u r clearly not married. My wife once told me, some years ago, she would walk out. I offered to send a driver with a truck to pack her stuff. I was very serious too! She's still in my house....

Anonymous said...

men and the way they treat their better half

visit waitingmothersnigeria.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

LINDA THERE ARE CERTAIN STORIES THAT DONT NEED POSTING ON YOUR BLOG AND THIS IS ONE OF THEM NANSENSE

THERE ARE THE STORIES OF THE IKOSI KILLING PLEASE POST

THANK YOU

Anonymous said...

Lwkmd @ Lazy Reader's comment.

Anonymous said...

Spinsterhood becomes u, Faith.

Anonymous said...

Ur mother is full of wisdom! U should listen to her more...

Ada said...

I have almost been married for 10 years and I have to say I do not like Nigerian Men. The most arrogant and selfish human beings on earth. Instead of this man to cut off this his "supposed sister", so his wife will be happy, No. He had to curse her out instead. It shows where his priority lies. If this woman had a "brother" would he like it. Biko, the nonsense Nigerian women go through is unbelievable. Abuse to the highest level. Yet the same man will open mouth and tell his people and friends that his wife is a witch. This is why I tell women to talk. Madam, go and tell his mother, sister, friends this story and trust me, he will take a different stance. Men read you bible, it says love your wives. It also says stay away from the "sisters" you have on the side.

Another thing, women and their wahala. If this so called "sister-in-law" was married and her husband had a "sister" he used to live with, would she be so accommodating. Her type person will make sure all hell breaks loose and God help the "sister-in-law", she might be a corpse in the near future. After, they will be wondering why horrible things happen to them. Madness!

Anonymous said...

you are a really big ode.

Anonymous said...

@wilheminna moses or wat eva cud u listen to urself for just a second.... a man who can b sleeping with anoda woman n still insult his wife on top d matter has lost respect for himself n his wife and obviously doesnt valuee her..dat saying bros over hoes sud follow even in marriage soo u need to recheck ur logic. no offence

sisi said...

@ moses, you are the most irrational fool I have come in contact with In recent time. It's my sincere pray that your loved ones would cheat on and also call all sort of names.

Anonymous said...

Ode

sisi said...

@ moses, I don't know if you a man, but if you are, you must be a very porous character.

Anonymous said...

Best comment everrrr

niffyt said...

You find the dumbest comments on LIB. Tactless n tasteless comments. Chaee

Subomi said...

Thats soo wrong for him to say that, he could jokingly call you other names for other reasons but not ode for this particular reason.

Anonymous said...

Sunmola, she's female. She just obviously doesn't have respect for herself as a female.

Anonymous said...

Babe he is cheating on you...same tin happened to me. Him nt callin the number simply meaans ur nt dt important. I went through a long phase of denial....its been 5months and am still nt over it...when people show u who dey are believe it, don't wait for dem to show u over nd over again...I saw the signs frm the beginning but I chose to ignore it cuz I loved him..am sure u saw the signs too.....I Wud advise yung ppl to date for a long while before getting married...cuz if u marry the wrong guy u re doomed nd wnt be ever happy

Anonymous said...

Oh wow, such disrespect. Unacceptable.

Anonymous said...

@Sue thank you, I dont know the women that marrythese type of men. On second thot may be u make him feel he is ur whole world.

Anonymous said...

U r super smart onyeka! Works everytime. Ignore both him n d babe. Act like u don't kno d mistress. Let him b aware of d admiration u get outside. Lol. He will turn around and start tracking u. Mistress ko. Nb:- dis only works if ur hubby/bf is terrified of losing u. If u r d type dat chased/manipulated ur man to marry u out of pity, OYO is ur case.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm, Naija women and this suffering and smiling while I prove to the world that I'm happy, depressed as hell, oppressed-to-the-core syndrome they keep exhibiting and encouraging whenever their husbands treat them how a wife shouldn't be treated sha. Although it's not completely their fault but the society they live in. The biggest issue there is the acceptance and enabling of wrong and home-wrecking behaviors and attitudes from husbands to start with. If you don't try to stamp it out now, what legacy are we going to leave our daughters as a culture for a happy and wholesome home in the future? Or how would a man be motivated to change for the better and for the happiness of his family when he goes out to chase and sleep with different things but knows his wife will be encouraged/advised to adore him more, pray for him, exercise patience until he's tired of running around and decides to come home? For that kind of man, there is NO motivation whatsoever to do the right thing. His wife seems to support his behavior and so does the society in general. Any human being would choose to eat his cake and have it too if that was an option and Nigerian women seem to always make this an option for their men. It can't be easy for men like that to see women as fellow humans with feelings just like them. As far as that man is concerned, he's happy and his family is doing just fine! Of course until he brings diseases home to his wife or his concubines start getting jealous and they try to wipe our his family so they can move in or the "fine sharp girl" one way or the other cleans him out financially and emotionally even mentally in some cases. Women need to start acting and showing that they have human feelings and start encouraging their husbands to treat them as such.

Unknown said...

Rotfl hahah
Sue.....its been long I heard dt word o

Anonymous said...

Fix ur home stop looking outside check ur self well if u r d course e.g may slim when he brought u after eating all the food in d house u turn to orobo why won't he look else where?

Mirabel Osaheni said...

U are not different from her husband. Your wife should be careful cos ur type go beat woman blue-black if she raises an eyebrow on ur cheating ways. Smh for ur African mentality!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

first of all, calling u ode is not good, u texting the chick aint good either but nne, do u know about this bae before u got married cos there r some problem that would be avoided if it is been handled ealier.

Anonymous said...

LoL... Wilheminna, na you fit that pessin wey carry long mouth chuk inside your comment. Chisos!!! Hehehehe...

Cute G said...

Spot on.

Anonymous said...

Looooolllll. Madam/Oga, no harsh for the woman na. Ode + Brainless will be equals to what now ooo... Hehehe. #Ode things

Anonymous said...

Hehehe... Never a dull moment.

Anonymous said...

That rubbish, I was having issues with my husband and at the same time discovered that he was having affair with a very close friend of mine whom I help throughout school n even her family,when I confronted her, she reported me to him, we'll I moved out of the house for them and the relationship didn't last, he now desperately what me back as everybody was against him.He is telling pple that the girl is a gold digger.Well for men,they should kn that it is not every girl that is a wife material , Ezi nwanyi di uko,onu ahia ka ruby ( in Patty obasi's voice )

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