Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is that the best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange words with you still because there is nothing you say or write about me that will shake me because those that put their trust in God, He never fails them.
Why are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and justify what you did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and it's hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting me and my family? Continue...You said I used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used juju to hold you, let God who sees everything judge me and you.
You bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it? Like seriously, are they not your kids? Whose responsibility is that? And who is disputing that with you? You said since you married me that I have not given you no love, no affection etc but you forgot the interview you granted to Punch newspaper in 2011 saying that I am the best thing that have happened to you.
You said I never had time for you? When you are always filming in the east and I won't see you in months. I played the role of father and mother to the kids...and I laughed the more when I saw where you wrote that I didn't feed you for 5 days.. Is this all in desperation to justify yourself? Wow!!
You said marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and granting interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon interviews since 2012.. Have I said anything against you? But I won't say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can tarnish my image by putting up this childish and immature behavior.
Even if you say that I am a prostitute tomorrow or a thief, people who know the truth know the truth and God knows everything and sees the heart and he will pay everybody back according to our deeds. So am not shaking!!
I will never say anything against you to gain favour from people! No you can't hide pregnancy. I gave you my life for 12 years, gave you 3 lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say to me then, I was a good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you and never cheated on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things just to make my marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and covered my eyes to so many things.
I remember all the stories I heard about your escapades with other women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you because marriage is for better or worse and when you started your affair with Nuella in 2010, what did you say to me when I confronted you?
I stayed, endured and prayed every night. Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first time you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me. Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people that my marriage is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia Tchidi Chikere till date.
Have you not done enough to me? You are married now and still I wish you and your new wife well. Why can't you leave me alone to face my children and fill up the vacuum this has created in their lives? You say such evil things against their mother and they are hearing it from their schoolmates. Their schoolmates are taking about it and asking them questions everyday and yet your not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet because of them, yet you have been talking and tarnishing my image since 2012? Yet I kept mute. I have not and will never say anything bad against you. Vengeance is of the Lord, unless he is not on the throne.
You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to see in London and I ask you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to London 2 or 3 times yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend.
We started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All these years I have had women as best friends and they all betrayed me, and I decided to have a guy as my best friend. We go everywhere together and he assists me in shopping and buying things for my shop etc I can't deny him. He is my friend. People that know me very well will tell you that I love taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy posted it on his Facebook page and some people copied it and started posting it online. I have also kept mute about it and I would have still keep mute if not that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish my name.
But is well. My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked me to respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful mother and that they know and they are seeing everything and won't say anything till they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three lovely boys that I live for, that am blessed with.
I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my kids with God's grace and help. I wish him the best in his new marriage.I bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them well. This will be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain to paint me black.. I will not respond again.
Thank you
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«Oldest ‹Older 1001 – 1200 of 1675 Newer› Newest»When I saw Chidi's tweets, I refused to comment because I did not believe him one bit. In any case, only God knows the truth, the truth is like pregnancy and cannot be hidden. I think is best all parties move on with their lives and karma take its course. In all these, I still believe Nuella will be the worst hit in d long run, becos when she starts seeing what Sophia condoned, she will be too ashamed to shout for fear of people's wrath.
Just let it go dear. I know how all these movie men can be. Just concentrate on ur kids. Stop talking to him so men won't run away from u.
My dear Sophia God will give you the strenght and grace to train your boys, ignore ur ex hubby and focus. God will see you thru. As for him he will pay someday for the hurt, God is still on the throne
confused.com,only God knws who is saying the truth
I almost shed tears.som men r beast.They think dey hv d rite to do wateva dey want to.God will surely judge u,Tchidi.ur new wife should hv it in mind dat anoda woman must take her place be it in 15yrs to come.May God strengthen u,sofie.
Sophia this is what I av to tell you. Most of us guys don't know once u marry a woman and av kids for us,u are no more a wife but a mother. Love has to be tested no matter how long u guys are in it love just has to come to test. This is ur trying times please am a guy and will tell you Pls try hold ur boys together and don't let it affect them in school cos that's d most important thing. He will come broke and begging it might take a while but watch and see. U gave him 3bois. You are a winner and God will always favour you as long has u keep those boys happy Pls. All the best
I call this an absolute maturity with details, let your ex go to hell for all we care...... Most men are like dat.when they are at fault they will want to turn d table around to you.... Though we all are not perfect but God is perfect...... LOVE YOU MORE SOPHIA
Like seriously this two r so shameless can't even look @ them.wat abt their children r dey dis selfish?
Chidi with a 'T' is a punk! Useless man whore!
Hmmmm, na wa oh! Sophia, it's ok, may God be d Judge, concentrate on ur kids ok. Tchidi I would advice u face ur new marriage too n be matured about this.
Chidi u have been with her for 12years please respect those moment when she was the best thing that ever happened to you.haba upon all of these insult she has never insulted you. Pls grow up!!!!!!!!!!dahhhh
Abeg who we go bliv sef?make una free us wit all these una tori.go nd settle urselves nd leave us out of dis drama pls.
Linda I so mch lovee ur blog.Is one of the best blog ave ever come across.Gudos 2 u linda
Its best one doesn not tlk in these situations...both parties r crying dat they r d victims..nd no1 knws wt rili transpired. Let God be the judge sha..(Linda post MY comment)
Dat guy is just a fool u were wit some1 for 10years and she gave 3 kids and she a badd wife? So how do u get to sleep wit her to ve d 3kids? Even if a married woman is cheating she will be coded wiv it she will never take pictures wit who she's sleeping wit so taking pictures wit a friend now is cheating? Dis guy need to grow up d person holding u wiv juju is ur new wife cos u can now call ur loving wife a bad wife. OUT!!!
Abeg Linda it's ok oo. Enough already, let them settle their shits themselves and stay out of this whoring. I mean be classy. Just look at BN and their class.
I admire the spirit of courage u have exhibited by not wanting to pay back, in fact ur type is rare among women. However, if ur story represents what really happened between u and ur ex, u can be sure that God will certainly vindicate you. I wish u all the very best.
Sophia, I feel ur pain, concentrate on ur kids and ur business , God is not asleep, allow him to be the judge.
Sophia, I feel ur pain, concentrate on ur kids and ur business , God is not asleep, allow him to be the judge.
All I can say is dey r Sophia n Chidi r Stupid n Useless...Actin like dey'v gt no Brain xchangin Words,Disgracin Assholes!!! Not Evryman n Woman Deserve 2b a parent I swear bcos I can bth of dem r Dumb Asswipe blamin eachoda. Am sorry for thir Kids!!!
I just feel this woman is not being truthful. But what chidi did was very wrong. Why go on twitter to tarnish her image? That looks childish and immature.
Wow
Wat a World...... My dear, just focus on ur kids n let bye gone be bye gone. God will c u 2ru.
Why r u bin so sentimental here do u knw if she is saying the truth clean ur tears n go get a life,those two r confused being they don't evnknw if u exist.
Razzoids abeg make una leave us alone
time will tell for sure.
eyeah! i got tears on my eyes already. madam take heart. May God reward every man on earth.
Linda I so mch lovee ur blog.Is one of the best blog ave ever come across.Gudos 2 u linda
Like seriously this two r so shameless can't even look @ them.wat abt their children r dey dis selfish?
This man is a BOZO! And God will judge him. Ladies please don't be desperate for marriage, make sure u find a man dat FEARS GOD & loves you more than you do! Then u will enjoy marriage.
This is so unfair, Tchidi did u try teaching her how to show u affection and she didn't learn? I don't beLieve this Tchidi guy one biT. What goes around comes around. You will soon marry another woman. There's no better woman untill you've lived with her.
both of them are using the kids and telling stories to get public sympathy .
First she says she gave 10 years of her life to Tchidi, then she says agin that she gave 12 years of her life to hi,. What are we to believe ma'am? Infact, you and Tchidi are both confusion it's with ur inconsistent stories, no one knows what to believe anymore..
time will tell for sure.
this is just too touching.....like u said dear, move on with ur life nd avoid respondind....God isnt asleep
Dat guy is just a fool u were wit some1 for 10years and she gave 3 kids and she a badd wife? So how do u get to sleep wit her to ve d 3kids? Even if a married woman is cheating she will be coded wiv it she will never take pictures wit who she's sleeping wit so taking pictures wit a friend now is cheating? Dis guy need to grow up d person holding u wiv juju is ur new wife cos u can now call ur loving wife a bad wife. OUT!!!
She is sooooo matured about this. A woman surely knows when her husband is cheating on her. The bottom line is that it didn't work out between them, and she's hurting cause she still loves him. Tchidi is going about this the wrong way, disrespecting the mother of his children. Even if she ran a bordello, he's not supposed to say rubbish about her. I think she's more mature than he is.
Men are heartless! Hummm.na wa.abeg bone d guy jare...u can do a lot better without him.all these men ar so crazy! Once u see dem with a girl its a "mistake" bt when they see u with a guy its a "Delibrate act" mtcheeeeeeeeeew...
Celebrity neva last do they...hmmm hp dbanj n Genevieve is readin ds coz if de try marry de wil neva last coz dbanj wil cheat on her trust me. Abi na
Take good care of the children BUT taking picture with your best friend even when you are married.... check that out !!! We know we all have to be matured in our doings but some married men / husband may not like such. You know the kind of husband you've got.. so why take pictures with other men in your matrimonial home? For me... picture means nothing but everyone has his own opinion to what he or she likes and what he or she dislikes... So painful its over but its terrible and heartbreaking to see a marriage with three kids jeopardize. I love to marry but for how long will my marriage last... everlasting, some years..Only God knows... Marriage nowadays are not just real. Money for hand back for ground. May God help we men and women... be contented with the man you've got
This respond brot tears from ♍♈ eyes,tchidi U̶̲̥̅̊ didnt do well at all, and why on earth will U̶̲̥̅̊ castigate d mother of ƱƦ children without a single respect for ur kids? Hope Nuella read dis, hhhmmm! Karma deysay dis d best dish. Sophia U are still good looking, So fix urself up and move on wit ur life, dont listen to cheap blackmail.God is watching.Linda i knw u won't post my coment, dnt letme block ur blog oo
My dear Sophia put ursef togeda, d wrong shall be punished...God is ur strength pls don't reply anyone further, I understand what u re going tru..
wao.so deep.no comment
my dear just allow God to be d judge.It is well wit u nd kids
Hmmmmm am tired of reading these pple articles. God u know d one dat is true, pay them according to their coins. Sophia pls take care of ur kids. our God is not and will never go asleep.
This is very touching. Men can go to any extent to justify themselves and defame women. I have seen such a thing happen. Sophia ur children are your happiness so jst ignore him n build the best life which is what you worth
It is well. Only God knows who is lying or not
Wtout judging u Sophia, d pics u took wt d guy u r calling ur BF, which ur ex-hubby is using against u now, is not right. A married woman shld not take such pics wt a single man. It is a No-No. u may just b friends but some of d pics compromise u. See d one he was holding ur waist. Haba. B more careful.
Hmmm. All I see is been guilty here, & trying so hard to cover up. Babes. U will leave him to God. U think u have a monopoly of God? Dats just cheap blackmail. The kids are to young to tell u all that crap. Well, i think d problem is u are too controlling, domineering and always want to have things ur way. Unfortunately, is not working. They also leave u for God to judge.
Sophia,I have learnt from your patience and maturity,its the best thing to do. Leaving vengeance for God, He will vindicate u and bless u real good
Only God and time shall tell,Sophia watever the case may be,go ahead and take care of your kids and teach them with the kind of life you lead so that they will become better men tomorrow.
i post this comment with pains cos am a mother and a wife, sofia i pray God givves u wisdom and knowledge to deal with all around u,put ur trust in him and u'll come out smilling at the end.
fist time commentor.beauty.
Why is Sophia lying though? I was about 17yrs old when I used to see her n her group of wayward friends going up n down the place with men. She even tried to sleep with my dad. I am not supporting Tchidi either,but I am pained when people use the name of the Lord to cover a lie up...She was an adulterous wife, he was an adulterous husband, they shld both stop making foolish noise up and down social media. Nobody cares!
Sophia my dear I will not tell u 2 take heart becus dat tin tichidi irresponsible man will suffer all d days of his lif 4 living u & those lovely kids witout fatherly lov,he said u r not caring but d public toilet nuella he pick's cares,let GOD's will be done
Nobody knows what goes on in a marriage unless the stakeholders talks abt it,to me this is a game,the marriage didn't work for the guy,myb it worked for the lady buy the guy is no more interested period.forget the kids,its all an excuse,nobody can substitute anitin for happiness.once r u nt happy.u need to move on,madam is rili divulging to us cuz she feels what her husband did can be discuss in the media.the guy might b silent cuz what he has to say might b detrimental to himself,so he jst said a little.Madam self,u were working on ur marriage n u decided to keep a male confidant,that had d gut to post ur pics on his Facebook,I beg u killed that marriage joooor,stop ranting.if the guy's marriage ends up not been successful,na life n not your curse.
My dear I respect ur courage,Men are so wicked,mean n heartless.Am facing worst dan dis but uptill now I cld not work out of d marriage.May God bless u with anoda love.May God guide n protect ur kids for u.
Tchidi's new movie. 'Family wahala' or Oh husband oh Wives.
Wow! so touching but God knows the truth n what a sows,that he shall reap.
Na waaaa ooooo!God be The Judge...
My dear God will help u and he will avenge for u,u husband snatchers u will reap wat u sow,stay away frm my husband oh...it will neva be well wit who puts asunder to wat God has joined togeda
Thank U madam S. Chikere, God is always there for U. U are sexy, beautiful, Gold and adorable. God is your strength always . Be happy OK. Don't mind chidi he is a looser that why he is complaining. I love U Sophia_ preciois
OMG! Who do we believe nw,abeg enough of this drama sophia & Tchidi.but still luvs nuella shaaaa....oooo".linda post my comment.oooo
I just have one question to ask . Why is it that most nollywood actresses marry peoples husbands?. Sophia juast take care of ur kids joor.
Reading about peoples breakup got me scare to go into marriage, marriage should be enjoy not to be endure, God help us to chose d rite partner.
ok dis two grown up kids need to like ST*U...This drama is gettn too much...We just wont know who is sayin d truth and who is messing with our minds...Dont knw about others,but Tchidi and sophia ur drama aint adding value to my life,money in my pocket etc...Behave like grown ups and stop washn ur dirty linen on linda's blog!!! BETWEEN LINDA WILL YOU MARRY ME!!!?
Sophia I believe you. God will punish tchidi,i know he is jus covering up. My dear God is ur strenght. Tchidi face ur big mouth new wife my foot
May God see u tru. Women re always @ d receiving end. Thank God for those kids, they will wipe away ur tears.
Hmmm..All Is Well
Hnmmm! Fathere help me. All dis make marriage scary but na lie devil dey lie, it will be d best for I n my hubby IJN. Sophia just believe God who sees everything to take d judgement. Its well dear
Second to comment! I'm saying a married man and I love him, he wants to leave his wife and for me but after reading dis! I'm beginning to think twice but I Kno he is unhappy where he is
Its amazing how people can be so close and when anything happens they start talking shit about each other...I bet this tchidi guy has a vagina somewhere in between his legs if not why all this bitching after u've gotten another wife...smh
hmmmmmmmmmm, u like taking pics, and u letting another man hold u like that. even if he is just your friend. haba, the closeness is too much for a married woman.
It's sad when some men try to justify their bad behaviour. Abeg he should leave this woman and face his new wife. He n Nuella should always remember Karma is a bitch.
Sophia u may not be perfect, but tis well forget Tchidi and Nuella and take care of ur kids...
TEARS IN MY EYES!LET D FUTURE WILL JUSTIFY U, PLS WATCH OVA UR KIDS, GOD WILL HELP U.
G̶̲̥̅̊O̶̲̥̅̊D̲̅ knows best. Jst take heart
So this Tchidi is who someone will proudly call husband? Writing rubbish about the mother of your kids to score cheap points. It was common knowledge that he slept with actresses for roles, so what's with the lover boy hes claiming now? You were crying your wife didn't give you food? Are you not a human being with two hands? He reminds me of my father. Very mean to his family, but 1st to throw the infidelity card cos that's one issue people will always insult a woman for yet hail the man. Sophia, better face your children and move on. We only have one life, and he's not worth the bitterness.
Tears ke? U r easily brain washed o! Am not saying she is lying o, but this can't bring tears to my eye cos i wasn't there and everyone ll judge the way it ll favour them.
Round of applause for this! Absolutely loved it. She responded with grace and dignity, mediocre wld always try to bring excellence down. To be honest I met Tchidi i can justify to say that dude is a womaniser this is a true exprience. Sophie just live ur life and live d dude. Stay strong and God bless u n ur kids
So sad thou?????
Everybody take cover before d normal war starts.
Any time men want to drive them wives they'll accuse her of cheating. 'MEN IF U DON TIRE, JUST SAY U DON TIRE' . No need for any excuses. U don't owe any body anything. On d day of judgement u'll stand alone before God. So live right.
I LOVE HER!!! WHOEVER SOPHIA IS I LOVE HER... I FELT SO MUCH HURT IN MY HEART BUT SHE IS ON THE RIGHT TRACK.. SOPHIA UR EX HUSBAND IS AN ASS.. SHOVE HIM DOWN THE PIT OF UR LIFE AND MOVE ON... AND BY THE WAY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.. IF I WAS A MAN I WOULD MARRY YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN...
Wow!!! What's up with guys named Chidi, my late aunt was accused of cheating by her husband, he said the twin she had, one was his and the other was for another man. I really can't judge, cause I know nothing about it. All I know is the truth shall prevail.
Hmmm! It is well o!!!
This is a very mature reply. She didn't diss him or insult him. And the thing is, the pics he posted of her and dat guy, no be say he dug it out from a hidden place. Its on facebk for all to see. Tchidi u are trying too hard. Makes it look like you are not yet over her. Concentrate on ur new wife n forget her.
i feel for u my dear sophia.mmmmm.
abeg i tire sef, haba!! who is saying the truth now sef. I have things to do jare. May God help us all......... marriage is definitely for better or worse though.
Wow Sophia u dnt rily need 2 bug urself abt ds,am nt ur frnd bt I know everytin dts happpenin,Tchidi is jst a coward,tarnishin d wife's image jst 2 gain sympathy 4rm ppl.Tchidi has always bn a womaniser,travels a lot cos of his directin n den turn arnd 2 claim d wife doesn't hv time 4 him.its jst so childish 2 say d wife didn't give him food 4 5days,how is dt possible?abeg he shld go n tk several seats.he shld jst face his new wife n stp mkin himself look stupid in d eyyes of ppl.Ewu Gambia.....
Chidi no excuss fo u to leave ur first wife,but as fo u Nuella,time we tell shaa,all de single guys wey full naija,none of dem enter ur eyes na man wey get prob wt his wife u go marry,Life go taya u latr in life don't wory,wen his 3 bois go becom man bot chidi and Nuella go hear em
My dear it is well. God known the best n I wish u well
My dear Sophia,God has blessed you with 3 soldiers that pple are looking for,just stay calm and be close to ur God he will surely help u and see u thru, leave Tchidi to be jumping around, who cares, thank God u are not a lazy woman, God will increase u on every side,Amen.ps121.
Its only God dt knows d truth,sophia move on with ur life n allow God to fight for u dts if u ar saying d truth.but I must say dt u goofed by allowing tchidi to ve evidence to accuse u of!
I really wish this woman is innocent of all these allegations , then God can really fight her case. I hate it wen men mistreat women who ve been there for them. May God be d judge in this case.
men are animals.....
So touching..God will see u nd ur kids tru sophia...men ar jst animals no doubt..
Wow,who's report should we believe?
who r we goin to beliv?u guys should suit urselves abeggg.
Only GOD knws d truth btwn dis two ppple
THIS IS THE ONLY STORY ON LIB THAT I VE READ ALTHROUGH.........
YOU DID SOUND LIKE A GOOD WIFE,,,
BUT YOU KNOW,,,,,,EVERYONE TRIES TO JUSTIFY HIMSELF/HERSELF.
IF WAT U SAY ARE ALL TRUE,GOD BLESS YOU THEN
This is so touching. I am not a Prophet but i think there are a lot of truth in this write up. She was so open. I her comment made me shed tears. When will people ever come to the realization that Marriage is not bed of roses. There is no perfect one, people make it work.
I honestly feel sorry 4 ha! Men, dey neva cease 2 amaze me
Whom r we to believe now?
Tchidi claimed she didn't have time for him and the kids wen they were together and yet he left the kids with her. So does this mean he has the good of the kids at heart ? This woman didn't give u love , yet u impregnanted her thrice . Only God knows how many times she wuld ve been pregnant if she had love for you. Let God judge
Wow! Sophia.. I had tears in my eyes reading this as a mother. The kids are the ones that suffer most at times like this especially at the hands of thier friends.. so many unanswered questions and confusion. I feel maybe u ve made a few mistakes growing up. Looks like u got married really young but truly no mother deserves these type of comments from the father of her kids. It's painful to see love once shared and so sour today. I like ur reply to your ex husband. Shows a lot of maturity. Those kids must come first. I like for the fact u shared everything thier dad wrote about u with them. It will give them the strength to defend themselves among thier peers. I like for the fact again that they said u should reply thier dad n tell the world that u are a good mummy! That's whas most important Sophia! In all this pls put the boys first n make sure they have a good relationship with thier dad! They will never judge u as a wife but it's only when u fail as a mom that it becomes a problem to. Pls no more press replies for d kids sake.
I pity d kids cos wen two elephants are fighting,d grass suffers.
Uhmmmmm!God help dos of us dt r yet 2 b married ooo..like seriously?people dat shared evrythn dy had com out 2 rubbish themselves ds way b4 d whole world?Love trully goes sour!!I hope ur kids 4give u both tho 4 ds MESS u puting dem through...
Buh let's be all frank! We've all heard abt tchidi and nuella for atleast 4yrs now and I only heard abt sophia and her 'bf' last year. Truth is Nuella sent Sophia on an errand yesterday which he did. Nuella is known for sleeping with people's husband. Tried it with Yul Edochie, thank God Pete's family isn't d type to mess with. Sophia still loves her husband, women do everything to protect a man they love, if she didn't, I'm sure she has evidence of Tchidi cheating. Does it matter now anyways? So it's ok for her husband to cheat on her to her face and then cries wolf when he sees her with another man years later? That's double standard. Women are their own enemies. My neighbor left his wife and seven children; six boys and one girl to live a woman who has 3 children from a previous marriage n started training them while his estranged wife was left to train her seven children with her civil servant salary. Today, 5 are graduates and working, the man is claiming father. Tchidi, some day the scale will fall outta ur eyes.
Devil used nuella to destroy this home period, but no matter how u see it God has d final say,i know one second wife who came to see a man of God for a prayer after 2 yrz,and d revelation d man got from God, was she should move out of a other woman's house,God is not an author of confusion, man's thinking is different from Gods,His judgement is real,God works in mysterious ways,dont use ur hand to bring his judgement upon urself,as far as I know wat u are doing there is adultery, heaven knows dat,thoes people dat gave u wrapper in d villiage, will not save u wen God will judge youoo,He is a consuming. Fire,he who has ears let him or her hearooo
funny when a man acts like a woman and the woman in turn acts like a man, Mr Oga you should cover your face in shame, if you were my father i for done give you poison chop since, she is the worst woman and she had three boys for you. your such a disease.
Its even difficult to tell who's tellin the truth. Everything is jst wrong. They shudv settled this privately. I mean as a married woman i dnt think she shudv taken dt much pics wth dsame dude. Even if derz nthn btw dem, ppl r bound to think dffrntly. And Tchidi himslf shud nt have done the twitter stff he did. Kiraa.
This Sophia is a pathetic liar,u post pic of urself and ur malebest friend on fb??? N u r a married woman? Pls don't come here to insult our intelligence. U hv no defence or justification for ur infidelity,dis reply has just shown how clueless u r
I still believe Sophia, when a man start ranting like a woman, then u should know he has something up his sleeves. If he had posted the pix in 2011 or 2012 I would have believed him, doing that in 2014 is uncalled for, this guy is jealous and still like Sophia. I just wonder why he dumped her for Nuella. Sophia wipe your tears and focus on your kids. Karma will soon cone knocking.
This is heart breaking...Men are evil. May God assist you in training your kids Sophia Love. Leave vengeance for God OK?
God will give u da strength to live for ur children!
Only God can judge
Okotorigba! Nna na serious war o!
I cnt believe dat I cried while reading dis.
No matter wat d truth is,dis is a mother dat is hurt n I feel her pain.
Even as a guy I'ld advice women not to depend on men's money cos imagine how this women would have suffered if she wasn't into business. Yes we are unpredictable but you have to let our money be a bonus to you.
Men always want to be right all the time.he has forgotten his early beginning...the broom when he take beat first wife dey back of door dey wait for second wife...
well I believe the fault is from u woman. I don't think a responsible lady would do what u have done, ok look at the pictures they are said everything even if u don't mean it but ur hubby wil and any other person. if there shld be any motive of coming back to u but for those pix he wont. "agaracha" U must come back naa
Just like u said God who sees from heaven will judge, it is well sophia take care of urself and ur kids. He is not worth de stress, ¶ know how diffcult it can be, stay strong for children cos that's wat is more important. Tchidi go screw urself u are not a man. Onyi
Men always want to be right all the time...he has forgotten his early beginning...the broom when he take beat first wife dey back of door dey wait for second wife...
She should just shut the fuck up pls no body is perfect, she has her own fault too so she and chidi should stop playing the blame card sophia pls chidi has a right to get married to someone else after leaving you every one deserves to be happy same goes to you. You cannot tell me you did not do most of the things he is accusing you of doing, and you better not spoil the kids minds against their father it could back fire.and to u chidi the only people you owe an explanation to are your kids you do not want them to grow up hating you.forget all this hypocritical nigerians, if u say nuella makes you happy and you are at peace with her carry on only time would tell us.finally to my hypocritical Nigerians i have a question for u guys. Now that we have heard from both chidi and Sophia who is lying and who is telling the truth judgemental beings
How can you Sophia a married woman be taking such an intimate pictures with a friend and you claim people should not read meaning to it.
I feel both of you should stop this unwarranted publications and move on with your life's.
Guys no blames to one person becos it takes two. The blames goes to the man and the woman everyone contributed one way or the other just tell ur inner man the truth. And stop listening to outsider and writing shits for the sake of ur children drama king and queen.
no matter what.............tchidi,for better for worse.my God pls dont let d heart of my hubby turn against me........Typical men....na una go start am since 2010 den wen she finds solace in a friend u use it as ur excuse and justification......Sophia i feel terrible for u.....but be strong.God will see u thru.
It is well my dear,U are entitled to have a friend,Biko.Will u now kill yourself because he left.This reminds me of the saying "while you are busy abusing your woman,There are men that wish they have her.Biko ride on with your life.Thank God you have all boys,They will surely understand.I believe the Cain used on the first wife,Will definitely be used on the second.It is well,Pls be happy.Look up,Look forward,Don't look back.Take heart oo madu anwuro
If a man is trying to justify his misdeeds, he will say anything. The same man you have lived wivfor years will turn into a monster just to justifyhis actions.
A lesson to some married women,neva do anything to hurt or get-on ur husb cos u will end up hurtn ursef.it is possible dat nothn may have been going on btw Sophia and d oda guy in d pix,but pix speaks and do not lie.how then can u prove ur innocence wit all diz evidence.washn of dirty linens in public
It's amazing how our "so-called" celeb men behave so childishly and irresponsibly.. God keep these kids...
Haha... The saga continues
Men, i call them risky hunger, cheating is just part of them and whn u confront them the will turn it on U. Mo pa lu fun yi. My people say pasan ti won fi na iya ile (sophia olomo meta) si bee lori aja fun Nuella
Pls wat kind of friendship does a married woman keep with another man? and even at that wat kind of pictures are those abeg? even as i dont support chidi, cos marriage is for better for worse but sophia u played into the devil's nest with that friendship as you like to call it. even if all the women betray u as friends, u should have sought ur husbands friendship instead. and u talk abt ur kids, if u had respect for thier feelings, u wldnt take those kind of pictures wit any other man even ur brother sef!!!
U realy need move on o and leave d rest to God..leave ur life and bi happy
I am team sophia..dt man was jst full of lies..the fact he never mentioned God in his rant meant that he is a bloody liar..sophia dnt mind him..live ur life and ave fun....LONDONGAL
I can see maturity here, not like that Tchidi, God will help u to take care of your children . Ireally feel this lady pain, like u said Sophia, God will judge everyone at the very right time.
Fucking Rubbish.. My friend, my friend.. She don deny the guy.. These hoes in't loyal.. Haha
Baby don't cry' u got to put ur head up!
I pity d kids cos wen two elephants are fighting,d grass suffers.
I can see maturity here, not like that Tchidi, God will help u to take care of your children . Ireally feel this lady pain, like u said Sophia, God will judge everyone at the very right time.
For real, u guys owe nobody explanations. I hate it wen adult come on social media to wash their dirty linens.
I hope am not judging you guys. My little deductions from the whole drama is dat 1. The pics of Sophia and the other guy kinda shows they are more than just "friends". She probably did that to get back at tchidi but now it has backfired. He has evidence to show now and it might not be the initial cos the their quarrel. Tchidi might have been messing up too but Sophia does not have any evidence to show for it. You can't defend things u heard but with pictures, he seem to ve won oooooo.
You don't pay a cheating husband with his coin cos women always suffer the consequences in the end. Is so Africa and I hate it.
My advice to both of you is to stay away from media. Common u guys are adults and there are kids involved. The things u put up on the Internet stays there like forever. They kids will grow up to read all this rubbish about there parents and to Sophia, pls keep mute!!!!! Stop explaining. Two of u can't be going wrong at same time. He has moved on, just pick ur pieces and move on. What u do with ur life is not my business cos u r an adult. Be a mother to ur kids, am a good one. Leave everything to God. Truth will always reveal itself. (same goes to tchidi too)
Keep it classy guys. There's no need to wash your dirty linen in public; someone needs to take the high road.
May GOD bless the innocent party and send HIS wrath on the guilty one, l weep for the innocent kids who is at the receiving end of their schoolmates because of two adults that cannot control their emotions. Please the kids are now from broken a home is that not enough harm from you Tchidi and Sophia, SHUT UP BOTH OF YOU FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR KIDS!!!
Na wow! 4 some man o... His tarnshing d image f d woman 4 us 2 beliving his shit abi....
This is the same husband you claim was a wonderful husband and you will not say anything against him. Abeg Park well. Now u are blessing them.
tchidi and nuella u people are hypocrites ...see such a luvly wife u got with luvly kids
Chidi u are married now with new wife dat u ve been dating while with sophia,so allow sophia to rest o and stop writing to public jst to justify ur self.
Ma'am,let God fight 4 u,Nuella might tink she is married but she doesn't kno dat any woman who breaks a home is cursed.Train ur kids nd let ur God fight
may God pay u back tchidi chikere and nuella
So confused rite now.God know nd sees all
Her piece actually touched me not cos I feel she is justified or dt tchidi's statements are lies but on d contrary,I actually found some faults from Sophia's statement particularly where she decided to chose a male best friend and went photo shootn with him. even though tchidi had left by den but she still wanted her hubby back so she shd have maintained a low profile and prayed back her man.howeva she loves her man and has prob learnt sum bitter lessons from past actions which he might have forgiven but def didn't forget as we can all see. Tchidi shd have given d marriage a 2nd chance particularly since dere are kids involved but he chose d easier way out and can neva be right in d sight of God no mata wat he says(true or false) abt his ex wife.he is inexcuseable-my Bible tells me so.true love forgives a multitude of sin!
It is a wa ooo,now who do we believe! Sophia u dnt hv to put ur life on hold bcus of this shit,u re a beautiful lady wit three lovely kids,u guys jst have to move on wit ur lives nd leave everytin in the hands of the creator,like u said"they dnt cover pregnancy"watever is the truth wen the time is right we shall know and as for Chidi try nd be matured,tweetin abt ur family isn't the best solution.
My father has a saying that "the cain wey them take drive first wife dey under bed dey wait for the new one" simply means time will tell
Why have men chose to do things that are not right. Sophia dont worry God will see u throuh. just give them the few time they will get tired and fight the figt that will bring shame to that husband snatcher.
Sophia it is well d Lord is ur strenght..
May GOD bless the innocent party and send HIS wrath on the guilty one, l weep for the innocent kids who is at the receiving end of their schoolmates because of two adults that cannot control their emotions. Please the kids are now from broken a home is that not enough harm from you Tchidi and Sophia, SHUT UP BOTH OF YOU FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR KIDS!!!
Na wao too many stories on dis issue...Tchidi go na make up wit ur wife Sophia.....no mata wht d 3boyz wil alwz bound both of u 2geda for life so chidi tink twice....marrige isn't easy....omotola nd her hubby stil hav issues but both of dem are stil 2geda...go nd learn frm dem nd plz stp talking rubbish abt d lady dat gav u 3 lovely boyz
Mehn i wouldnt know what to say on this but snapping with a guy and the guy posting it on facebook, when you are still married is bad and can justify your husband when he says u r cheating. those pictures Strongly Justifies Tchidi
Hmmmmm,dis is just 2 childish..Sopy 4get him,tk kia of ur self nd kids..I v dis feeln dat Nuella's marriage 2 Chidi wnt last..*winks*
God knows who is Saying d truth,buh I believe Sophia is lying she is Wayward. Snce ve known her
am almost crying, sophie u are blessed indeed. tchidi is a disgrace to fatherhood and nuella a legendary husband snatcher. so no bachelor could even toast u all ur life.well how can dry wen ur lips be like pkomo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NUELLA D LEGENDARY HUSBAND SNATCHER AND TCHIDI CHIKERE D LEGENDARY FOOL
FROM PINKY BERRY
Shut up-anonymous 11:30. Women lie a lot, but I guess u a lady and u all made of the same feather. As a man, my wife can't have such affair and pictures taken and then tell me they just friends. That's enough reason for divorce.
Seriously dnt knw who to belive and more over the man shld b mature here not to post all that. Only God knws the best n I belive itz a law of cama., what he did to the first wife will surly be done to the second wife. Sophia pls ur children are more important than all this rants and focus on them cuz will still be said to them in school, as u said God will fight for u.
Its well dear, Thank God u have your kids, trust me u loosed nothing but Chidi did....
NUELLA ARE U A WITCH????????????????????????
A DISGRACE TO UR FAMILY
(919)
GODKNOWS
WHEN COUPLE TAKE MARRIAGE VOWS
AND SAY "to love and to cherish
until death do us part"
YEARS LATER THEY ARE SEEKING FOR
DIVORCE, ARE THEY DEAD?
IT IS A PITY IT HAS GONE THIS
FAR, BUT YOU PEOPLE NEED TO
RECOGNISE CHRIST IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
BY THE WAY WHO ARE THOSE THAT SAT
ON THE HIGH TABLE AT THE WEDDING
RECEPTION? The Chairman,
Friends,Elders, both family,
etc A BIG SHAME TO THEM ALL
Okay some hw am on d guy's side. Her word scream lies all over it, jst imagine d part she said "for 12 yrs I was with u, ineva cheated on you" where u suppose to cheat on him... She shud ask herself that too. Both of dem re d most childish people av seen in 15 yrs naw...
Please Sophia, don't reply him again. leave him to God and continue to pray for him. The heart of the king is in the hands of God. obviously he is operating under some spell. Concentrate on the children and your business. Don't allow these children to read all these mess,it can affect them psychologically.
Let him say all the negative things, it's a matter of time. Time heals,time reveals the truth and only time can avenge you of this adversary called Nuella.
Please don't post anything again. Most times we regret what we say when we are emotional about some particular issues.
Buy Joyce Meyer books,be active in the work of God and let God have His way.
It is well.
The Lord is ur Strength ok... The Truth will soon come to light.
Waooo!!! I don't know who to believe now buh sophie sure seems to be telling a lot of true stuff rite dia! Tchidi hmmmm God is watching u in 3D!!!
Wow! Life!! Well-spoken Sophia. @Tchidi, there is no gain in exposing marital issues to social network. I pray we all pass the tests of life with flying colors. Be matured all...
Linda y U̶̲̥̅̊ no dey post my coment, do i need to pay or sometin?
We've had enough of the 2 of them abeg.. Linda dear, NEXT!»»
•«~ Alagba #richpikin!~»•
Lol! 100% childish..... Social network is no place for good relationship, though this relationship is soiled, I don't think I believe either of you. Anger begot hurt and harsh words
this woman you are strong.... .. i never believe that man for a seconds ,his battling with his consince and trying to justifies his evil deed he try 2 bring this woman down.....God will fight your battle .
Wanna make a film with this emotional piece:
Title: 10 Years A Slave!
Story: Sophia Tchidi Chikere
Screenplay: Tchidi Chikere
Producer: Me
Executive Producer: Linda Ikeji #multiple streams of income
Director: Tchidi Chikere
TO GOD BE THE GLORY
Sophie is indeed a mature lady.i love her reply. so kids also read lindas blog too, nawooo for dis generation. tchidi see d trauma u caused dis innocent children...
BITTER LEAF CYNTHIA..NUELLA
#cough# just passing bye then notice that another episode has already started.
y last respond sophia, when the episode is just starting. nuella appear to the scene now.
then sophia u now have a guy as a best friend? no comment after all body nobi firewood.
via official intercom
All Dis drama. . .i jst tire. . .How We Go jst dey concentrate On one family Problem. . Dis whole tin doesnt even add To the Moni In My bank acct So Wat da Heck. . Dey shld Go n die 4All i care. . Shior
They are both silly, spreading their dirty linen in public.
Ola-Henry
See tears coming down frm my eyes, it,s well wt u and ur children is only God dat can fight for u,as for chidi and d new wife pls u both shld let her be, nawa o, marriage no easy o.joyous babe
Honestly Linda, can you stop? I have had enough of these two already!!! Let them sort themselves out biko. The man should get on with his married self and the woman should move on. I am tire of all these pity parties here and there. What is this self? MSTCHEEEEEEEEEEEEEW!!!!!
Seriously all this are not needed and the shold b mature than posting all this to the whole public. well law of cama wat he did to the first wife will surly be done to the second 1 if itz tru. As for Sophia whea itz tru or lie as the years goes by the truth will b revealed jst stay claim and as u said God will fight u weda true or flase.But d4 nw ur priority are those kids due to the fact the they will hear a lot in school and the started cuz more will said. Good luck n stay blessed.
Tchidi is a fool. Sophia pls Remain strong for urself and for ur kids, God will take care of u and ur boys, don't even allow those rubbish he said about u affect u. I live in ur area and we all know d truth.
Judging from the write-up by the two. I can say that the lady is more mature. Can Tchidi and Sophia just stop all these public rantings for the sake of the kids. Look beyond today, and think of the effect this rubbish will have on the children and stop it please.
Empty show of nothingness. Both of you are remarkably immature. Having a guy as a best friend and confidant when your marriage has not been legally dissolved? Haba mana! Both of you should stay off social media and stop creating bad precedence.
Sophia God knows best. please follow who makes you happy and live happily for your children.
Do I really hv to cry? Is proper for a married man to hv concubines just because he's d man of house,den is an abomination for a married woman to hv male friends... Sophia biko ozugo God is ur Strength, bring ur kids up in d fear of Lord. It's well I can say.
Life has no duplicate so y' guy should do what makes you happy. Both of you said the truth but God knows the hole truth .something lead to something ."simple"
Now this is the truth. I've been hearing of this guys escapades for years. Chidi after all the actresses you've been sleeping with, so it's this one boyfriend your wife had after you guys separated that qualifies her a prostitute. I knew that your actions yesterday was screaming guilty conscience.
Oga am waiting to see you use the same hand you used in catching fly to catch bee(just try with Nuella what you did with Sophie). Now that you've gotten a new wife Pls allow the old wife to have some peace.
Breezy
Am tired of commenting on dis husband and wife issue. U people shuld sort una self out than all dis public tinz. I respect tchidi so much and I love sophia too. Had it been he married another person aside nuella I would not clapped for him. But gush I hate nuella. Sorry tchidi dat am saying dis am a big fan of urs. Stop responding to ur ex pls for d sake of those kids
Abeg Sophia stop disgracing yourself. I believe you had the opportunity to fix your marriage but then you thought the world is in your palm. Even before your husband got married, you were dating that guy so why cry now? The guy should marry you too nah so that this all will end.
PLS where is dis NUELLA from, i suspect say i don jazz up dis tchidi chikere, see as he day act like mumu. i know he will now come on twitter to open his faeces of a mouth to talk. i now HATE TCHIDI CHIKERE AND WILL NEVA WACTH OR BUY HIS MOVIES. i neva knew he is so shallow minded
kudos
Sofia the lord is ur strenght dnt mind ur wicked ex hubby
God bless u,u r a wish woman and ur price will be far more than rubbies?God will neva dissappoint u,He loves u
So moved by this story. It takes a very kind heart and God fearing woman to endure and not attack back, Let God be the Judge of the case. Just focus on the kids. God has never falled before even though He is slow in judgeing.
God deliver us from stupid immature men o. Hmmmmmm.
Tears flow,hmmmmmm!!!!Really touching but d truth is he Shldnt have done dis comin up with pictures just to justify himself,dats immature n dat shows he's not man enough..Only both n God knows d truth but for d sake of d kids u Shldnt have
Na wa o! My dear God will help u raise ur kids in d right path. As for ur ex and his new bride God is still God and will handle them appropriately. It is well.
@Anon 11:30. You clearly have excess tears to waste. Both of them should settle their issues inhouse
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