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Monday, 31 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Should I sell my baby?

From a female LIB reader
I am a 27 year old woman. I have been married to my husband for 2 years now and we are expecting a baby. At first, he was very happy about. Now that I am 6 months gone, he tells me that his boss, who has been married for 7 years with no child wants our baby. He said he will give us 10 million for the baby. The offer is very tempting as my husband and I are not very well to do. The money will change our lives. I know I can always give birth to another one.I really do not want to "sell" my baby, but my husband really needs the money. What should I do?

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Mrs M said...

Think of dis two words "price and value " which is ur baby to you ?

Vivy said...

If u sell ur baby, u'll regret that decision for the rest of ur life. There's no money dt quantifies the life of your child. Dt so called money will finish then what? No amount of money is worth the love n life of ur baby.

Anonymous said...

Better take ur baby n run away from that ur husband, cos that man wud kill u for money one day if he can agree to sell his own child.

Candy said...

Sell ur baby, bcos u don't have moni??? What if u sel dis baby, and then u don't get pregnant again, will u go back 2 collect d child u sold? My advice, DON'T SELL UR BABY.

julz said...

Both u and ur husband are very stupid. How can u even consider it? U guyz are not very well to do meaning u are well 2do but not 'very'. So y sell ur child 4money. Who told u u can always have anoda? R u God or don't u knw tins can always get complicated? Its d unborn child I pity,I'll advice him/her 2even stay put n not come out. Married couple o not even a single girl who is scared of haviing a child without a daddy.....u r just annoying. Mtcheeeew

Anonymous said...

U might be selling ur only child for life..u will make ur own money in due season suggest to ur hubby's boss to go adopt a child in d ophanage who knows if u can still conceive after did there are cases like dis remember? Its natural

Anonymous said...

Why on earth shld money b considered wen it cms 2 child not a toy pls stay away 4rm dt temptation coz u neva can tel if dt baby wil b ur last or if dt baby wil bring Joy n miracle 2 ur family. Trust God 4 open doors n nt by sellin ur child 2 ur faithless husband sili boss.. He shld b arrested..babies CAN'T B BOT. Abi na

LizzyH said...

Please don't sell your baby, God will not be happy with u guys and the possibility of having another one is not certain...

fadig said...

Woman..Drogba dey u and ur husband head..

Mrs. D said...

Make a decision you can live with for the rest of your life.
But na you sabi sha.

Anonymous said...

U can always give birth right? Are u God, wat if u are destined to give birth to just one child, wat happens den?Is it that ur husband's boss doesn't know where orphanages are? My dear, u better don't put God to a test.

Anonymous said...

Don't sell your baby. Things are meant to be traded, not humans. 10million is a lot of Money. When u get it, ur responsibility increases. At d end, it wouldn't be enough for u. Besides ur husband's Boss might be lieing to u both. He culd easily adopt a child with much more lesser amount to what he's offering you. Be wise! He may harm u and ur hubby or use u for ritual or something. People don't just throw 10million like that. Nothing illegal wuld ever bring u peace.

Anonymous said...

You are sick. What price did u pay to God before u got this one? If u sell and u dont have another one. Your husband can marry more wives with the money.

Anonymous said...

OLX...... Sell it!!!!

Anonymous said...

Are u mad??? Sell ur baby for what na? What if the 10million gets stolen? A child is priceless my dear.

Anonymous said...

Lin na wa for u sef, u'll publish anything at all!!!!

Immaculate said...

You are a stupid woman indeed, you want to sell your baby because of 10,000,000. At your age you are a fool. You want to provoke God.? What if God want to punish you for the rest of your life after selling the baby he gave you? Do you think your so called husband will not go and marry another woman who will bear him children, infact you are a big idiot and a fool at 27.please tell your foolish husband also to tell his boss to go and adopt a baby, it is legal in Nigeria. Anuofia, I pity you.

Anonymous said...

Sell it! Anu mpam! How can you equate like with 10 million. Linda a beg unto the next one.

Mzz_Mary said...

Dont sell anytin
God will provide wen d time comes

Anonymous said...

Rubbish! Your hubby boss should go to a motherless or orphanage home and adopt a child legally . Sell ur child and watch karma deal with you.

haywhizzle said...

OLX it...when u get enough money later...then u JUMIA it..as u no dey fear GOD again..mtchew.

miss Sparxz said...

Mtcheeewwwww! Stupid situation. So stupid its got to be a joke! Really? Ugh!

Anonymous said...

never sell ur child. this child might be the beginning of greater things for your family. one can never tell a child's luck. please dont

Unknown said...

My dear money can be very tempting,bt to even think of selling ur Baby even before it bn born is really evil of u. Do u think ur husband can never make it? If u ar gud wife pray for divine breakthru for ur husband. Lost my new born Baby last month and I will do anything to have him back and u are thr thinking of selling urs. Seriously woman u made me cry dis morning.SMHc

tammy said...

Pls sell and die of guilty conscience. Stupid question!

Anonymous said...

I do not think you should sell your baby, your child is priceless. There are thousands of orphans who have no place to go, that is where your husbands boss should go for free.

Anonymous said...

Tell ur. Hubby not to do that cos of Gods anger

Unknown said...

madam sell it......

Anonymous said...

Sell iittt! #OLX!

Anonymous said...

Pls don't. Your situation can turn around for the better tomorrow and u will regret the decision to sell. Have faith in God....he is a miraculous God!

tamia said...

Sell your baby?are you for real?.....how can your husband's boss afford to give you plp 10million for a baby and you plp aint well to do?@least your husband should be ok or what's the description of his job?.........sweetie,don't sell no baby

Anonymous said...

Ask an Edo person the meaning of "OMONIGHO". That answer the person will give u should answer ur question.

Anonymous said...

I Will advice you do not sell your baby. you never no if that is the only child you are destined to have.you don't know if the child will bring you blessings. you dont know what the future holds for your family. There are so many motherless babies homes where they can get a baby from.Serve your God with all your might and he will bless you even more than 100 folds of 10 million. DO NOT SELL YOUR BABY. put your foot down and say no.

Anonymous said...

My dear,can u just listen to urself talk ? What if u sell out ur baby and u end up not having another ? Or do u intend blackmailing ur husband's boss after a while ? And do u think u as an individual can't make it again in life ? After waiting for 2yrs.......God help u

win said...

You can always have another baby as per God's partner in creation abiiii. And what if
God decides that he will not give you another baby because of you nurturing this idea ..talk more of the act being accomplished. Please do not push God so that you can divert your prayer point to other areas of your life and not on fruit of the womb. God cannot be mocked. You are selling this one to your husband's boss....next one you will showcase in OLX ....if there will any.

Anonymous said...

You know you can always give birth to another baby? Are you God? Pray you will not be like us that are believing God for the fruit of the womb. You better keep your baby. No amount of money can equall a child.

Anonymous said...

dont do it

Unknown said...

Madam, pls sell the baby. But before you do that, kindly give me ur home address and phone number so that i can charge you for child trafficking after the transaction is confirmed successful.

Anonymous said...

Dats inhuman. Dnt even try it bcos dat child is a glorious child (Olu omo). God forbid, who knws if dats is d only child U gonna av? So pls #10million wil eventually finish bt ur child remains 4eva n wil take care of U in ur old age. Av a 2nd tot, don't do it, dat child is bringing goodness. It is well!!!!

Anonymous said...

Sell it. OLX

Unknown said...

If u sell that innocent baby, God will punish you. Useless woman. So you are not ashamed of yourself telling the public you want to sell your child. Are you listening to yourself at all?

Anonymous said...

U r nt a mother! Selling ur baby for jst 10M ? Rethink ur stupid attitude. Why not have this baby for ursef and help ur hubby boss to carry a baby for him. U must not sleep with him. Sperm insemination or surrogate. Selling ur baby is a NO NO for me. MK

Anonymous said...

For the love of monneeeeyyyyyyyyy!!!! Tori Olorun!
Who is to say the money doesnt come and cause mishap in you life? How can you gurantee the money will bring you the same joy a child could bring? People like you don't deserve children. What kind of nonsense is this?

Anonymous said...

Were you sold @ birth??.. Besides why can't his boss adopt children instead...your husband is greedy and it would be wrong for you to do it...better alert your family before the pickin miss kwa....

Anonymous said...

Linda I dey suspect u,u sure say no be Nigerian film be this...

Anonymous said...

These things happen for real in Nigeria?. Woman, thou art foolish!

Anonymous said...

FUCK your husband and his thinking... He should wait for the time of the LORD and he will make money... Please don't agree on selling your baby or you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Okoro said...

UMAD?
I dey fear u o.

Anonymous said...

Ndi nne mama! Hahaha .....I laugh at u .

Anonymous said...

I wounder if dis written really comes from a woman or if it comes from a man who doesn't know how to push and d pains dat comes from pushing baby! How can u be tinking about a tin like dis? Simple tell ur husband dat is never done, tell him dat u can't do it, nt with harsh tone bt in a pretty way so dat problem may nt rise from it. Also pray to God so dat dis woun't bring disaster upon ur home. Don't let devil destroy all ur gud planes in ur home. Please don't even agree to dat who knows what dat baby wil be in future? Besides if u try God's anger hmmmm let me reserve my comment. U can always hv baby is d fact bt rember dat u are nt God. LOLO1

Anonymous said...

Ndi nne maaama! Hahaha .....I laugh at u .

Anonymous said...

my dear if you agree to selling your baby, it'll be the biggest Mistake of your life. Money is not everything.i pray and hope that you make the right choice, for your baby. Perhaps your husband may not be strong enough to do so, you should be able to know to keep your baby, even though things might not be alright now, dont forget that there is a God in heaven, and he put d life of that baby in your hands, rather in your womb. PLEASE DONT SELL YOUR BABY

Anonymous said...

Why not sell urself join so ur husband will hv all d money dat he needs,Ewu.... Wateva hapns to motherless babies home... Money d root of all evils

SWS said...

Hian! The curses people bring upon themselves because of money!!? Hmmmmm.........

Anonymous said...

You don't know who God is if you sell that baby. You're not fit to b called His child if you sell that baby for money that is just temporary.

mgasagcute@yahoo.com said...

your just so insane to think of selling your baby? Are u crazy??? really that's u & hubby's solution to get money? u need to think out of the box what if u have other babies who are not to grow as this one? what if he became's tommorow obama u will start telling people he's ur son? stop the lazyness and get to work for money, how can u sell ur first born? Ur such a karma and karma is a bitch!!!

Anonymous said...

sell ur heritage from GOD

Anonymous said...

Be a surrogate. You can have their dna injected in your womb and carry their baby for them. Be sure to test both for HIV.

Unknown said...

U and your husband can kill for money if u can think oof selling your own baby. In facy, u will do much worst thing to another person's child. You 2 are heartless.

Anonymous said...

SO YOU HAVE NOT SOLD YOUR BABY YET?? BE FAST NAH BECAUSE YOUR MUM SOLD YOU WHEN SHE GAVE BIRTH TO YOU. I WONDER THE KINDA QUESTIONS PEOPLE ASK. MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU.

Unknown said...

Best comment ever.

Anonymous said...

Child trafficking is a crime. You are committing a crime if you sell your child.

Anonymous said...

Did ur parents sell u?nw u want 2 sell ur baby bcos of money???try it n see d reperculsion

Okoro said...

Have u asked urself why the so called Boss wants ur baby when they can adopt.

Anonymous said...

Are you even sure it is ur hubbys boss that wants the baby? Might be ur hubby wants the child 4 rituals, woman any hubby that has mind to tell you this evil will have mind to use you 4 rituals! Run

Anonymous said...

Are you even sure it is ur hubbys boss that wants the baby? Might be ur hubby wants the child 4 rituals, woman any hubby that has mind to tell you this evil will have mind to use you 4 rituals! Run

Anonymous said...

Are you even sure it is ur hubbys boss that wants the baby? Might be ur hubby wants the child 4 rituals, woman any hubby that has mind to tell you this evil will have mind to use you 4 rituals! Run

Ann said...

Hello dear. Its understandable dat u feel dis way cos of your financial situation. But then again... whats the probability that you wud have anoda child. That aside, u could decide to sell d baby for your husbands sake and at the end of the day you loose both ways.. cos your husband might enlope with the N10million cos from yr story your husband ia a very greedy n selfcentred person. Hes more interested in the money than your unborn child n d growth of your family. If he doesnt enlope, he might turn you into a baby making machine for d purpose of getting quick money. Think about this. Babies are gifts from God. Hold on to your unborn child n do not sell your baby. God doesn't sleep or slumber... God would meet you at your point of need. DO NOT SELL THIS INNOCENT CHILD.

Anonymous said...

Mbok tell him to go n adopt..may God give u strenght to over com dis.amen.

Anonymous said...

Hello mv friend you can not eat your cake and have it back if GOD say, that child is the only one that will be GREAT among your children you and your husband will cry in future Assumed ppl like linda ikeji, dangote,Gbenga Odubena,Adenuga, parents have sold them for 10 million,by now they will be blaming them self, 2 may be your husband boss is already know the future of that child,my own advice dont do it

Unknown said...

And when U̶̲̥̅̊ die won't he use d mony α̲̅πϑ get married to anoda man??????are U̶̲̥̅̊ for real?pls dnt sell dat baby cos when U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt get pregnant again dat same man will taunt U̶̲̥̅̊ day α̲̅πϑ nite

Anonymous said...

Foolish Nigerian..can't you comment without insults?? Abi dem swear for u?

Anonymous said...

I just had a baby, I can never I mean never sell my baby not even 4 d world. Children bring so much Joy. So my advice don't sell ur baby, cos u will 4ever be depressed,guilty,fustrated and worst still u may never ve anoda. Are u God?

Anonymous said...

Don't sell ur child but u can propose to them to be their surrogate mother if they wish.

U don't have to have sex with the man. Doctors can either transfer his sperm into u using ur egg, the wife's egg or a donor's egg.

Unknown said...

Advise yourself.

delson said...

Please Linda, do not post this kind of story as it irritates. Both herself and the husband are the greatest hopeless couple of the year.

Wise man said...

Babies are God's gifts and NOT for sale. Thanks

Anonymous said...

Supposing you sell your baby and after some years, he becomes a governor or a president, would you still claim him/her as your child?
Your baby is worth more than any amount of money. Pls don't do this else you will live with the guilt and also regret it for the rest of your live.

Unknown said...

U are a very stupid woman, love for money, u and ur husband can do money ritual with the way u reason, greedy people

Unknown said...

Tbh no amount of money is worth your child and dis is like an exam from God.. God has everything so nva give up on him if is d money I noe it will surely come

Anonymous said...

I can't agree more

Oby said...

Is so sad this is coming out from you a mother!! What if this is your only chance of being a mother? How are you sure you can have another? How will you feel eating that money with your irresponsible husband knowing is a blood money cos u sold your child? What will you say to him that made you sale him or her when karma comes hunting you? And if later you have a child and she brings him home as her husband to be what will say to them? What if this other couple later have a child and mistreats him or her? If u have good answers to these and feel the money is above all of these. Then go on, if not and your husband insists pls leave that man and go. Cos if u do and u have a good heart u will die b4 ur time.

Utonwa said...

how do you know that you can always have another baby? hmmmm fear God!
if you give in to the pressure of selling your baby,you will be selling your peace!

Anonymous said...

This is unbelievable!!! You wanna sell your child for 10m. We need to send you and ur hubby to Yaba left...that's where u guys belong....Idiots!!!

Anonymous said...

Rubbish qestion. She goat pls sell ur baby, Am begging u to do it. Ophranges don finish abi, linda pls stop asking dis kind of question ooooo

Anonymous said...

O my GOD can't believe we still have dis kind of pple on this planet earth,why will you come on this blog to ask a foolish question,you don't know what this innocent baby is bringing for u guys if is true GOD will judge u pple.infact u guys make me sick to my stomach

Anonymous said...

Sorry 2 say dis but honestly u are foolish hw do u know dat u can always hv anoda pls bcos GOD dnt sell (pls publish my commen)t

Anonymous said...

Please this is not a good idea, no matter how stranded you guys are its not a good one, in that case if you guys doesnt have option of 10m that means u guys can even think of ritual, pls do not trade your future otherwise you will regret it.

Asamkpotoko said...

Madam poster,u are nothing but a thief,a disgrace to motherhood,a tin of shame to nature. Wat an ungrateful human being abi beans u r? Money s just a paper,so u can't work to support ur home? Come 2 think dat many ladies pray day n nyt 4 a husband to build wit n maggots like u n ur husband s planning 2 sell ur 1st child after 2yrs of waiting,I weep 4 ur generation. The fact u don't hv 10m 2day doesn't mean u can't,work Oga n madam,infact ur husband shd resign frm dat ofis b4 greed make u a widow!

Anonymous said...

sell itttttttttttttttt foolish woman u will regret it if u sell dat innocent child

Racheal Banta said...

The sad part of this story is, wether or not you sell this baby, the guilt of considering it in the first place will haunt u for the rest of your life. you're not even ready to become a mother because u dont understand a thing about motherhood. I am not a mom yet but I'll never think of selling my child even if they offer me the rank of president in a developed country.

Jemimah Adé said...

Please, don't give that baby up. Children are a gift, the heritage of God. And the fruit of the womb is its reward. God has blessed you, and if He can give you a child, He will surely provide for you to take care of that child and more, you will be amazed. It might be tempting at this moment, but time will unveil everything God has planned. You can't see the future, only God can. That child just might be the greatest source of joy in your life. A child is worth more than any material thing, a priceless gift, a blessing. Blessing is way better and more rewarding than money, and when you are blessed, even money does not matter. Think about the future, and not just now. Look past your present situation. My parents didn't have a lot of money when my older sister was born. My mother only had two outfits that she could wear to church, and they once had so little money, that she had to feed my sister the water from garri one day. But today, she is happy and content, and proud of who we are today. Please do not make a rash decision you will regret in future. No amount of money can bring you even a quarter of the joy a child can bring. Keep your baby and you will be truly blessed. This might even be a test from God, hold on and be strong.

Racheal Banta said...

Lol aswear u no well.

Anonymous said...

I laff in french, pigeon, english and german. What if you are destined to have just one child? If you want to bless them with a baby or find a good home for your child, must it be financially rewarding to you? You can bless them by being a surrogate for them and if they want bless you with money, but giving your baby willingly becauseof N10mill.... hmmm your husband like money o and you leaning towards the idea ma sef get as e b.

What if God forbid you lose this baby....wo, let me tell you, you will regret it for the rest of your life, you would HATE your husband and if you end up seeing the pikin of photod of it on social media, you will blame yourself for the rest of your years. Guilt can kill more than anything in this world.
Its your decision anyways and all the best with you. God be with you and yours.
Pray for your husband and yourself to be blessed by God.Only u can change your situation

tonye said...

Abeg sell d baby oo! At least u knw where ur child it. She is not worse than people aborting there unborn babies or givin birth n dumpin them. So if u knw u need that 10m. Better sell d child. Period

Gaia said...

Selling that baby will be like selling your soul; you will never get over it and it will haunt you for life. The money will not fill the void neither will having more children... it will literally damn you for life (no exaggeration)

Anonymous said...

My dear,can u just listen to urself talk ? What if u sell out ur baby and u end up not having another ? Or do u intend blackmailing ur husband's boss after a while ? And do u think u as an individual can't make it again in life ? After waiting for 2yrs.......God help u

Anonymous said...

u won sell ur pickin for ten million.....go ahead na....... Otey woman..pple can b so senseless oooooo

Louis said...

I hardly make comments on blogs but I have to say that if you must comment about something this important don't make a joke out of it these couples are really in desperate times so preaching morality won't help! My opinion is that if you really need the money go ahead and make the exchange legally and you can ask for parental rights too (get a good lawyer to help you with the legal intricacies)and negotiate, you May have to reduce the reimbursement. Meanwhile most pediatric moralists are highest among the low socioeconomic class, so what says the child will survive if you can't take care of it, why do you think Americans have child welfare schemes? So whatever you decide make up your mind that there is no room for regrets irrespective of the outcome!

tolupizzle said...

Mumu question, posted by Mumu linda.......u already kno wot u want to do...idiot

Anonymous said...

hahaha.. maybe both of them were also sold by their parents...mumuus. "I know I can always give birth to another one"..are You God? what if you don't. the boss that has no child for 7yrs, do you know if they sold their. and now they are paying for their sins.

OK have you also thought of this, what if you both have accident on your way back and both you die, who will spend the money? you better be Wise. Madam.

Anonymous said...

Offer to be a surrogate mother for your husband's boss' baby and keep yours.

Life is evil...don't sell that child, you will forever regret it.

Mia says so

Anonymous said...

It is very rare that LIBers are united on a topic like we are on this one. Apart from the few people that made the OLx joke. Madam that should be glaring enough for you!! How dare you? 10million naira might seem alot to you but if you can't have another child it would seem like pennies and you will give anything to return it. Sell your child? Ypu are heartless and your husband is a foolish man, please consider leaving him coz that man will kill you one day. Maybe you can ask this because you have not gone through labour and carried your child... If after that you still feel the same way then by all means sell your child because then ill know you were never meant to be a mother. 10 million, God forbid

Doo said...

So u n God dey negotiate wen it cums to fertilizatn abi?hw dare u tink of trading a priceless baby 4 10mill?u dnt hav a say in dt marriage?he shud go to d orphanage home whr kids r hopin to hav soMe1 show dem luv.ur husband is a fool

neca said...

Ask for more money..... 10 million is too small. And if eventually you and your husband can't have any child you can always adopt.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, sell the baby cos where else will you see 10m? Then when the 10m finishes, your husband will sell you for the next amount of money offered. Then finally sell himself. Hissssss

Anonymous said...

to even consider that as an option no offence is silly. fair enough you may be in a difficult position in life, but what if this is the only child you will ever have ... Good things come to those who wait.

Aviky said...

Read up... this is her first

Amarachukwu. said...

You n your husband are VERY selfish! Y shld u even think of that?God!

Anonymous said...

d arrival of a baby usually brings breakthru 2 d home, just kip seeking God,cos hes d rewarder of dose dat seek him

Anonymous said...

Lmao...

Anuoluwapo said...

No darling don't sell. Speak with them on the possibility of being a surrogate mom to their baby after the birth of your baby. They can get donor sperm/egg. Enter into a valid legal agreement.
Anty Linda, I sent you an email when you were in the States. Kindly look at it

Anonymous said...

why are Nigerians nasty. she asked for advice she didn't say she was going to do it she said she was considering it so stop attacking her. do not judge people unless you will be judged. someone called her an ode, said she could kill for money. that is not right at all. we have to apply maturity in answering questions involving marriage so we don't destroy peoples homes. you all need to sit down and think about your lives, pray you never get into a situation like that and GROW UP

SLEEKREEK said...

Poster,,you are mad,,,,how can u give the idea of selling ur own baby a thought for just a second because u want to be nice to ur man???what makes u think this same man will not see u as a heartless and wicked mother later in future and walk away from you to find a woman who will know that her own child is worth more than trillions??? how are u sure that u will have another child after this baby,,,are you God that gives children???how are u sure that even after u sell that baby,,u and ur hubby wont be duped and all that money will just vanish into thin air?? madam,,,pls stop showing the whole world that ur foolishness is so cheap.....mtchewwww.

Anonymous said...

Ure a big FOOL!

Anonymous said...

offer to be a gestational carrier for the same amount of money...., dont sell your baby

Anonymous said...

Look at you, are u d one that gives babies to say u will get another? My dear God may not give u another if u sell this baby, just have that in mind. Btw let ur mother inlaw catch you

Anonymous said...

LISTEN! You do not know what your husband's boss intends to do with YOUR baby! Also if your husband is selfish and evil enough to tell you that he wants to SELL the purest and most innocent of souls, do you really want to be married to such a man? Leave your husband because only someone who is part of the occult would suggest selling GOD'S GIFT and blessing to you. If your husband can suggest that, then one day you will be the next sacrifice.

Listen to the message God is sending you. He is revealing the evil ones around you. YOUR HUSBAND IS EVIL.

Ese said...

Kia Kia Kia am sure there is sumthing wrong with u...for crying out load na u create yoursef to no dat u will bear anoda child...dont u no children are ablessing from GOD...ow are u soooo sure that when this baby cums ur life will not turn around for good eh...u beta give yoursef brain..children are the mose precious and ur husband mst b very selfish rubbish see the amount sef 10m for a bundle of JOY EH...U LYK MORNING SICKNESS AND ALL ABI.u r a mad man walahi

Unknown said...

SMH

eviliciouspepe said...

If your husbands boss has 10mill to give u guys for ur baby, why can't he put that money towards adoption, IVF treatment for his wife or surrogacy? And how sure are u that u will always have another child? Pls keep your child, I smell a rat! He can easily go and adopt. Why is it your own baby that he wants? If he wants to help u guys why is he asking for something in return like your child? That is so precious and a gift from God? Pls let ur husband quit that job. I no trust that boss. #RitualThings

bisi said...

OLS SALE IT

bisi said...

OLS SALE IT

Anonymous said...

Madam, 10m is not worth the torture and torment you as a mother will go thru if you sell your child.
Nothing can be compared to raising and taking care of your baby yourself. Please do not commit what is before God and men, an abomination.

AnnMarie said...

this is the most stupid thing I've heard this year

Jade8221 said...

Don't sell ur baby...
Speak with ur hubby, and u guys can go to the hospital and they insert his bosses sperm in u, than to carry their child its better than selling ur own BABY......

REMEMBER MONEY ALWAYS FINISHES ...ALSO WHO KNOWS IF UR HUBBY WILL TURN AROUND AND DIVORCE YOU AND KEEP ALL THE MONEY...SHINE UR EYES MEN ARE WONDERFUL CREATURES....

HAVE THEM INSERT THE DUDES SPERM EXCEPT IF NA HIM GET THE PROBLEM...IN OTHER WORDS U WILL BE THEIR SURROGATE MOTHER....ITS EASIER TO GIVE IT UP THAN UR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD

aHKMe said...

as ridiculous as the question sounds, i won't judge you. Sometimes, money has a way of challenging sound judgements/reason. If your husband's boss has that much money, he can afford IVF or an extreme option like surrogacy....his sperm, his wife's ovum, but your womb (if you so choose). That way, the baby carries its parent's dna

Anonymous said...

you guys must be mad..........

Anonymous said...

Lmfao @ OLX... na real ode. sell it and answer to God on judgement day.

Anonymous said...

.......I'M JUST GOING TO WALK AWAY BC THIS IS ANNOYING. GIRL, GIVE YOUR PIKIN TO SOMEONE ELSE. WHEN THAT 10MILLION FINISHES AND YOUR HUSBAND GOES, YOUR EYE GO CLEAR. BYE! INSTEAD OF YOU TO MANAGE THE GARRI UNA DEY DRINK; THE CHILD WILL BRING YOU LUCK AND NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.

Unknown said...

You ever wonder why people say mothers are priceless?

Unknown said...

You ever wonder why people say mothers are priceless?

Anonymous said...

Poverty is a disease. There are mistakes made in life that one regrets 4d rest of his life.this is one of them. Don't let poverty rub u of ur true identity in God. U r a king. 10mil is nothing compared to ur blood. The gift of life is worth more than rubies. Be wise not dumb

Anonymous said...

Who says you will be happy after the exchange? 10 million cannot make you happy if u don't have your baby to share it with. Such actions will be the beginning of hate, fights, anger, sleepless nights between you two. And it doesn't end well. U prolly will end up killing yourselves for it.or not spend it at all. What if it gets stolen when you get it? A gift from God. Let his boss go to an orphanage.

Anonymous said...

I think this post is a joke. I actually thought there would be more to the story, then i saw I want to sell my baby for 10M because I can have another. Who says that? who does that? lol mtchew. Linda mind yourself o

mary said...

can you hear yourself, don't you think that you are mocking God. because you are 27 and you think you can have more babies, this may be the only child God is giving you, and the child might open doors for you and turn things around for you and ur hubby, you really think 10M will last forever, my dear it will not. Keep that child, and do not yield in to pressure from ur bubby

Anonymous said...

You are really mad as well as cheap sha. 10m is chicken change. It will fly in a minute. U better keep your child.

Viola007 said...

Lol. Se d oga no fit gi adopt
Baby ni ? Nonsense.

MY TURN said...

u r a foolish woman. 10 million naira for a soul. even considering it makes it sick. you are so undeserving.

Anonymous said...

you know what. i don't think that most of you on this blog have sense. it is like there is a competition for who can insult and curse more. y'all need to grow up she asked for advice.i will say if they actually dont have the money to take care of the baby, they should give the baby to them and allow the boss adopt the baby LEGALLY and she should arrange it herself. I am so sorry but you shouldnt trust your husband on this issue. to the rest of you God is frowning up all of you right now she is not wicked or a witch or an oloriburuku like all of you make her out to be. if she was wicked do you think she will actually ask for peoples opinions. no. all of you need to think before you spit fire and hail. Just like what happened in the bible, whosoever that hasnt been pushed to the wall or hasnt been asked to compromise should be the only person allowed to curse. You say she isnt God.ARE YOU GOD? all of you are still backwards you have a childs mentality. My God GROW THE HELL UP. all of you between the ages of 17 to 40 still act like your Freaking shoe sizes(Uk). talk to your God. some of you are worse than the devil himself some real ekwesu's out there. e lo toro aforiji lodo olorun.awon alaini lakayi daroshas oshi. Yes other people can insult as well

Anonymous said...

something is wrong wit u...d tot of it alone means ur mentally derailed,....hw long will u spend d 10mills??den ur broke again,nd dis time even worse,..den u get pregnant nd sell again,...?

Pamela A. said...

You are stupid! You are an idiot!! You are a useless human being!!! Tufia!!! God punish you there! Thunder fire that hand and mouth you used to type and say this abomination.

How dare you? How fucking dare you?? Some people would give an arm and a leg and much more to have a taste of what you have and here you are, oboribo!! you want to sell your own child!!! If the man is so rich and can offer you guys 10 million, tell him to pump that same 10 million into fertility treatments or a surrogate service, why your baby? Have you ever asked the man why he doesn't have a child? Do you know what he did??? I wish I could see you, I'd have slapped you silly...10 million my ass. Idiot!!!

Anonymous said...

End time things sha you think d future of DAT unborn child is not worth more than 10m u neva can tell d fortune d baby is bringing to d family. follow your heart period

Apple said...

When you sell your baby go and buy puff puff with the money you hear? WHORE.

ThatGirl said...

Hi there, I just wanted to say YOUR HUSBAND and YOURSELF are FOOLS and BLOODY RETARDS.

Anonymous said...

omgt! please dnt do it.

Adipom said...

Why on earth would you want to sell your baby, and who gave you the impression that you can always have more kids? Are you God ni? in Ibo they say Nwakaego meaning Child is better than money. You better keep your baby and you and your husband should work hard to take care of him/her.

Anonymous said...

dont sell the baby oh!!!!!!! haba#!

Anonymous said...

meanwhile there are many porphanages around the country. let him buy from ther. at least the money will go to other orphaned children

Anonymous said...

Well, if they r good people and u sure they go treat pikin well, why not!

Anonymous said...

Sell am. No be your type need am.

Anonymous said...

U be serious eleribu ur once u get dat money trust mi ur hubby ll look for anoda woman to marry so if u get sense born ur pikin

Anonymous said...

Hmmm... if u r srz abt this questn & it isn't a test.
1. If u husband's boss ofters him 10m 2 sleep with u or buy u. Wud he sell. Moreover, he can marry another wife.
2. Cant he adopt or buy d baby elsewhere?
3. Since u considered selling ur child, what if God makes u miscarry? Wud u hv wat 2 sell?
Ur husband's boss maybe desperate, ur husband is ur a rituality. And u r.... fill in the blanks

Anonymous said...

The man ll kill the two of u after collecting d baby, mark my words!!

Anonymous said...

You are very stupid for asking such a question. How will you even be considering it. IDIOT. Mtewwwwww..... I wish i could find u and beat the hell out of you for such a mumu question.

Anonymous said...

This is 2014!!! Can a couple where the breadwinner is working even consider this????? I mean if the boss comes back tomorrow and want to sleep with the wife for a certain amount will she consider that too. Money is really the root of all evil. Unbelievable!

Anonymous said...

That is how that child will grow up to be a lucky child. Wealthy like Dangote and Adenuga. You and your selfish husband will lose out for life.

Anonymous said...

Wowwwwww please don't. Learn from my parents. They didn't have anything when my mom conceived. The day I was born, my dad won a US lottery. He started getting contracts from top companies in Nigeria. He had to ditch america to stay in Nigeria. Oil money things. I am 26 years old now. Still the only child cause my mother couldn't conceive again. My advise. Don't sell your baby. That child is a lucky child like myself. You might not be able to have another one. Plus God knows what he's up to.

Uvygirl said...

My Dear, d baby you are carrying is a gift from God for you to care for. Parents are just care-takers of children that have been given to them. So if you eventually sell the baby, you are simply telling God that He didnt do right by choosing you to care for His gift to you. You get that?

Anonymous said...

Ah! Nnkan be! Do not sell your child, NEVER!! Money is not everything

Anonymous said...

Pls God should just help us take his child back. You and your husband don't deserve to be parents. This is what happens when irresponsible people f¿¿k get married and get pregnant . Irresponsible i say! Baby factory.

Anonymous said...

is it legal to sell a child in nigeria. cause this is rubbish

Anonymous said...

While that is a tempting sum, it is not morally right to sell your baby. Don't do it.

Anonymous said...

Yes. everybody's life (including the child's) will improve.

Anonymous said...

are you kidding? go and sell your baby to babalawo if that will make you and your stupid husband or spam donor feel better. what type of question is this Linda?

Anonymous said...

The mere fact that you ask this question means you have considered going through with this arrangement with your husband. For that alone, you need to be psyc evaluated!

Unknown said...

whatever happened to child adoption??? missy?????

Anonymous said...

If I was sold to bill Gates or dangote I would. Be happy. Find my poor parents and thank dem

Anonymous said...

In anoda scenario dat baby u refused to sell might grow up to bring d parents torture n anguish or turn in a gay paedophile

Anonymous said...

All of u dat commit abortion daily do u think about d child. Fake double standard human beings. Smh

Aby said...

My dear, remember God did not collect anything from you before He gave you that child? So, dont let him get angry with you


He gave you that child for a purpose and you're not the 1st couple that will be inneed of money.

Anonymous said...

That child might be d future president and might also end up as a tout. It's your choice to make but what ever you choose, just know that 10 million is peanut. He can do better

Unknown said...

U must be high on crack if u r really considering selling ur "unborn" child.. #MyOpinion

Anonymous said...

Sell it..........! But know that when that money finishes (it definitely will), you would wish u never did!

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Anonymous said...

DON'T DO IIIIITTT!!! That child is a blessing, a gift from God and NO amount of money is worth sacrificing that for. Only Heaven knows the blessings God is going to use your baby to manifest in the lives of you and your husband. IT IS NOT WORTH IT.

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