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Monday 31 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Should I sell my baby?

From a female LIB reader
I am a 27 year old woman. I have been married to my husband for 2 years now and we are expecting a baby. At first, he was very happy about. Now that I am 6 months gone, he tells me that his boss, who has been married for 7 years with no child wants our baby. He said he will give us 10 million for the baby. The offer is very tempting as my husband and I are not very well to do. The money will change our lives. I know I can always give birth to another one.I really do not want to "sell" my baby, but my husband really needs the money. What should I do?

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Anonymous said...

Put yourself in the baby's shoes and what you would think of your parents if you discovered later in life that you were sold for 10 million as a baby.Smh

Anonymous said...

What if u sell the baby and no other baby comes forth? Are u aware that It is not you who determines other babies that might come ur way again? Pls keep that baby. Tha may be the baby that would bring all the money u and ur husband are looking for. In otrher words, the coming of that baby might bring luck and turn the family fortunes around. Think about this woman....

Anonymous said...

My first impulse was 2 type "You re mad!" You can't sell a baby. It's nt Urs 2 sell. U didn't create dt baby. Pls 10mill in sm few years wud b chicken change 2 u n by den u wud look bak n wish wit ur lyf dat u ddnt do it.

Anonymous said...

Dat child will never forgive you cos one thing is sure by and by truth will ever come to light one day,let you and your husband manage cos d'lord who gave u dat baby will ever provide for you people.you dont know if that baby is all the lord will give u in life.

Unknown said...

Una dey craze o. U wan sell d gift God has given to u? U get brain at all?

mentolee1 said...

please i beg yu in God's name...dnt tink of doing dat cos its God dat gave yu dat gift. maybe dat child would bring blessing in to your family...be warned....morning Linda love

Frenchie said...

I'm going to tell you one thing trust me you never know if you will ever have another child. Trust me. This baby might be the only child God will give you.

And do you really think money will bring more happiness to your life?

Be careful, think very well... good luck!

Anonymous said...

In OLX voice, sell it, ode

Unknown said...

C'mon.... Don't sell d baby... Aw r u so sure u can av anoda 1 ? Bysyds, wat makes u tink u can neva b rich? Luk, wat if ur husdands's boss give u d money, and den set u guys up sumhow 2 get d money bak? I don't tink u shuld sell ur baby. God bless u!

pretty mabel said...

u will b a fool to sell ur blood for money,and one day dat husband of urs will also sell u for money too. He has convinced u and u tink u will have another one,wen d tym come he will use it against u.

Anonymous said...

Don't be daft.are you God?if God decides not to bless you with another as you were wicked enough not to keep His gift the first time?
The man will so dump your stupid ass forgetting your sacrifice.home videos no dey joke o.
The man will dump u and GOD Will punish you.you will suffer if you try it.
Your husbands finances will improve.pray,pray and pray.God is forever faithful

Anonymous said...

Go to OLX and SELL IT!

Anonymous said...

My God! Things you hear from some people! Smh

Anonymous said...

Who approves comment? Bia Linda take time, if i no see my comment, i go vex

Anonymous said...

D love of money is d root of all evil ;ur huby boos can go orphanage home nd adopt nd stay away from home

Anonymous said...

Pls dont try it cos one day truth will ever come to light and dat baby will never for give you, d'lord dat gave u dat child will always provide so manage however with your husband. And besides re u God hw will u say u can always give birth to anoda? What if thats ur only chance to mothrhood by God.u can never tell.

Segun said...

Young and senseless couples. They will be haunted for the rest of their lives.

Speakfire said...

Sell the baby and you live to regret that decision.

Anonymous said...

Your husband is a wicked man.tell your family members and his too for the record.this kind of man can sell your body if his boss says I want to fuck your wife,I will pay.

tolupizzle said...

Mumu question posted by mumu linda......u already know wot u want to do.

Anonymous said...

All I have to say is God;not all women deserves to get pregnant

Anonymous said...

Tell everyone you both know cos this kind of wicked husband will harm you and the child one day for refusing to sell

Anonymous said...

Child is a gift from God and not a crayfish.

Ameriestyle said...

10million for a baby?? He should go and adopt from an orphanage home..
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chizzie said...

After you have sold your baby,your husband will sell you one day, Leave that husband of yours,he is d devils tool. And don't underestimate God! He gives Children and can also withhold cos u didn't value that which he gave. My advice is that the future may not turn out to be as you envisage. Keep your child n struggle to take care of it! That's what Parenting is all about,So u won't regret the Future

Anonymous said...

Women go thru all sorts.but my sister trust me,it cannot end well.run with your pregnancy.your husband loves money more than God,you and your unborn baby.

Anonymous said...

Oh I can see u n ur hubby like money more dan d gift of God. God ll block that ur womb if u try to sell that child. Keep d child bcos u don't know what future holds for him. Ur hubby should go n abort a baby like others do.

Anonymous said...

Ohhh...I really know how tempting this is, but pls don't do it. The birth of the child can open doors that will give you everlasting joy.

Anonymous said...

Kids are from God, u have for no reasons to sell your child. Beta still let her adorpt the kid not selling. 10million is still a small money u'll still need more. Money the root of all evil

Bonita Bislam said...

Since you're God and so sure of having another baby,pls dummy sell the baby.But don't you dare come here on LIB next time asking us if you should adopt a baby or go fight your husband's boss for your baby.Bunkum

Frank said...

This is a no-brainer...imagine that child becomes the next Dangote tomorrow, what would be 10million compared to what the kind of wealth he would be willing to lavish on you.

Anonymous said...

U r an idiot oh what kind of woman r u how can u even be asking this, there must be something wrong with u ur husband boss should adopt a child do u know that child is a gift from God do u know how many 10 millions that child can bring u in the future if I were u ill divorce thatz ur husband for even suggesting such so u plpl have no consience becos of money u want to sell ur child u and ur husband r fools

Anonymous said...

Are you okay? Are you God to catergorically say that who can have another one?? I suggest you dry fast and pray for that husband of yours. 10million is spit compared to a child. God, at this time has blessed you with a child. If he wants to bless you financially he will, in his own time. I'll pray for you guys.

ADANNE

Anonymous said...

My dear dont be foolish.. when you go through that labour pain you wont even consider it. Children are gift and blessing from God. The blessings of GOd maketh rich and add no sorry. . The presence of that child in your home can turn things around for the best. Dont be greedy and in a haste to make money.

Anonymous said...

You hv two already...n the child will be taken care of very well I don't think is a bad idea to give it out

Anonymous said...

Hmmn, I dont know whether its linda or the people who send them...I Sincerly believe some of this stories are fake, doctored and simply to gain traffic...just like dis particular one now.....anyway to the sender of this annoyin story why are u so sure u will give birth to another....can u cheat God or do u think he is a fool?

Anonymous said...

Cwiously I think u r going bunkers. U can as well sell urself mtcheeewwww.

Anonymous said...

That means u don't deserve to be a mother... how can u even think of such. Na wa for some women ooooo

Doo said...

Ur a funi lady,u kn u can always giv birth rite?r u God dt decides if an egg shud fertilze or nt abi?wt if dts d only child u wil eva have?na 10million dey shark u abi?He dosnt whr to adopt? N wt makes u tink dt ur conditn wnt get beta?u want to trade dat priceless baby 4 10mill.u haVe a choice

Hypertek IshOlawale said...

Don't sell the baby.....Ooops! CAUGHT BETWEEN THE DEVIL and THE DEEP BLUE...Well there is no guarantee that 10m will change your live for good...Oh: tho You never mentioned if the money is in DOLLAR , NAIRA Or POUNDs....I want you to believe that tomorrow will be fine so "Dont Let Your Worries Take Away The Beauty Of Today" Keep the baby Hope is not lost Believe in God that child might be a source of blessing to you and your family or let's say generation tomorrow....Hence, Why are you WORRIED, take the good with the bad please
DONT THROW THE BABY OUT WITH THE BATH WATER.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm ur first child...tell dem u will give d nxt one nt the first one

Mo Lawani said...

What a ridiculous thought, this Woman and her husband should be closely monitored, if possible the man should be arrested for such evil intent on an unborn child. Sad, The Love of money is the root of all evil, I fear for that innocent child.

Unknown said...

Please do not exchange a heavenly gift for a worldly paltry.... Babies are God's Blessing...Wealth will arrive in itz own time... plsz

Anonymous said...

Please do not exchange a heavenly gift for a worldly paltry.... Babies are God's Blessing...Wealth will arrive in itz own time... plsz

Anonymous said...

You hv two already...n the child will be taken care of very well I don't think is a bad idea to give it out

Anonymous said...

Imagine d nonesense dnt try it dat ur husband must be a coward am sorry to say. dat means if he see an oppurtunity to use d both of u for rituals for mayb 20billion he will gladly jump into it. Babies r gift from God, do u knw wat future dat baby has or y God gave u dat baby? For u to even think abt it makes u a big fool protect ur child nw flee frm temptation oooo

Anonymous said...

Bear dis in mind,ur husband is a smaller fool dan u are. Ur even considering selln ur 1st child,ur a disgrace to womanhood. Wot if u die at child birth and ur stupid hubby render impotent.fab

Anonymous said...

Don't sell my dear, no amount of money can be compared to a child u bore.. God will open doors and money will come. This child will be a blessing to you

Anonymous said...

Please don't sell ur baby.what if u didn't get pregnant again after ds one? Think twice babe,God will open ur eyes to his understanding. Peace.

Unknown said...

Apart from the fact that such action is despicable, It is a criminal offence to do so.
Who said you will not make it in future? All you need is faith in God, endurance and patience to overcome your present hardship. Your hubby is too desperate. He can even use you for ritual in his attempt to get rich quick. God will see you through. Do all you can (legally) to save your child. You don't know if your little child will grow up to be a governor or president in future.

Anonymous said...

sell ya baby fast! but first sign a contract that you will collect 5million upfront and d remaining 5 when d baby is delivered. Regardless of health o

Anonymous said...

My dear dnt succumb to dat temptation,it might b a trap,ur hubbys boss might b tempting him 2 knw d length he will go cos of money.taking dat money might lead 2 his dismissal cos his boss will believe dat if anybody offers him huge amt of money to kill him dat he will. besides he shud go and adopt,I bet u after giving birth to dat child I can't let it go.pls b wise cos of repercaution in d present and in the future

Unknown said...

Your child might bring you unprecedented open door... Keep your blessing.

Kisses and Huggs Club said...

Well, no matter how 'profitable' that may seem, you are dealing with a human life. You don't even know whether the baby will be used for rituals or something. I don't think you should sell your baby for anything. You could be selling a future president for all I care. You should trust God to provide for you and not sell a human life instead. It's not a good thing to do.
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Anonymous said...

There are some things that money cannot buy and those things are gifts from God. Hw can u even think of a thing like that?pls dnt b misled by ur hubby,u should even b correctn him.never sell ur conscience cos of money.God who blessed you with this baby will bless u with wealth in his time.please stand for what is right.dont u feel attached to ur baby?pls don't even consider it.

Unknown said...

Hmmmm wat a delicate situation.Buh am sorry I won't sell ma bby jst bcos of 10 million, if ur husband boss wat a child so badly he shud go 2 orphanage n adopt as many as he want n if he wants 2 help ur husband let him, nt d other way round.N dat ur husband is a suspect I dnt trust him mayb he purposely went 2 his boss for d adoption of his own child already.wat if u can't ave another baby again? wat if dat bby is a blessing 2 ur family?Think ahead ma dear.Money could be evrytin@ a tym buh ma dear is nt evrytin.Tell your husband 2 wait patiently for God's tym bcos is alwys d BEST.# I rest ma case#.

Anonymous said...

Y on earth will u sell ur baby no matter wat u shld nt sell ur baby do u know maybe dat d one GOD will gv u?ur baby will gv u more dan dat money u better go out look for some tin doing

Anonymous said...

It was mother's day yesterday, if u celebrated in anyway,know its cos ur mum didn't sell you......

Anonymous said...

is bad to sell ur baby, is against the law. dont sell woman

CHARLES said...

JUST LATE THE MAN BUY YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND BECAUSE YOU TWO ARE STILL KIDS.

Anonymous said...

Pls don't sell d baby.... Just trust in God, you will surely live fine

Anonymous said...

I know the offer might be tempting. But think about your child. How will she/he feels when he grows up and learns that his/her parents gave his/her away for money. Wouldn't she/he feel betrayed or hurt by the very own people who gave him/her birth? How will you feel if your parents did that to you? Pls, think about this. Family is more valuable than money. Pray to God to guide you through this, seek His help and have faith in Him ♥♥

Anonymous said...

Question of life??? Even if it's 10million dollars you shouldn't be thinking of selling your child. Can't his boss adopt?????

Anonymous said...

There are some things that money cannot buy and those things are gifts from God. Hw can u even think of a thing like that?pls dnt b misled by ur hubby,u should even b correctn him.never sell ur conscience cos of money.God who blessed you with this baby will bless u with wealth in his time.please stand for what is right.dont u feel attached to ur baby?pls don't even consider it.

Anonymous said...

is bad to sell ur baby, is against the law. dont sell woman

Anonymous said...

U kno wat to do. Selling ur child is a sin against God, morality and sanctity of human life. It is also an offence against person which is punishable under the law. I'm sure u dnt want 2 go 2 prison. N hw much is #10m. It isn't up to $1m. N dt child wil neva frgv u. Wat if sth hapens n u cnt bear anoda child. If ur hubby's boss realy wants a child, dia r a lot of motherless babies home, he cud adopt frm. he's heartless 2 av suggest such a thing n doesn't deserve 2 b a fada.

Unknown said...

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?? SINCE IT'LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.. Feel free to sell the baby but never you dare to come close to that baby when he or she is grown and well to do.. #My2kobo.

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Unknown said...

WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?? SINCE IT'LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.. Feel free to sell the baby but never you dare to come close to that baby when he or she is grown and well to do.. #My2kobo.

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Anonymous said...

don't do it because nothing is worth sell ur baby for.

Anonymous said...

Die!!!

Anonymous said...

Pls don't sell your baby to them. How do you know you can always get pregnant. What if this is the only child you will ever have,you don't know so pls don't sell your child.

Anonymous said...

U know u can always ve another baby,who told u?pls don't do dat even dat ur so called husband will use it aganist u wen d chips are down biko don't sell Gods gift,pray dat God answer his boss prayers,u are nt god,his boss can adopt,why particular abut ur unborn child.tufiakwa.ijay

Racheal said...

U can't be so sure about giving birth to anoda baby,are u God who givs children?abeg let her go look 4 sum1 else.selling a child?I am not part of it.its ur baby,decide wat u want.its not even ur husband who s carrying it.when u can no longer give birth nd ur husband marries anoda woman,afterall ders 10milla,dats wen ur eyes would b clear

last baby said...

You r so stupid to even contemplating it. Y must u sell ur baby, are u God? Do u know if u will conceive again? Pls font hate ur baby bcos of money? That baby worth more than that pls. U and ur husband must be very crazy. Then do u know what that child will be in future?

Unknown said...

You're even giving it a thought? What's this life turning into? Let your husband's boss go to the motherleSs babies home. There are millions of kids looking for a home and parental care.. I can understand the man habouring the thought but you a Woman? That's madness

dd said...

Shame on you to even ask for advice idiot. Go ahead and sell your baby, you will be the one he would be selling next.

Anonymous said...

U nd ur husband should be hanged . selfish is wt I called it

Unknown said...

and what if that your only child? or better still the 10million naira get stolen. As for me my child doesn't have a price tag, no matter the amount.

Anonymous said...

Do you know if by keeping the child, the Lord will open the door to a N20m unexpected blessing? What then? If you know you really want to help your husbands boss, then give the child for free.

Anonymous said...

U wouldn't knw wat favours this unborn child might bring to u n ur family in future if nurtured by u.life is not all abt money.u both were living even without d millions.n wat makes u tink after this u can stil hav another baby?u don't sell God's gift to u.u might be telling God u ar ungrateful.God gav u opportunity to hv children n d other man to hv money.that's it.u both keep ur gifts

Anonymous said...

How on earth can think of selling ur child for money.u don't even know d luck d poor child is bringing to u.pls don't try it o.sell ur child for money toooooo baaad

Anonymous said...

1stly I want u to know ur husband does not love u! If he loves u he won't even bring such discussion to ur hearing... and 2ndly if u go ahead to sell that child ur husband will use that 10million naira to marry another wife I can bet my life on this, 3rdly are u God? what if that's the only child God want to give u? Cos u are there saying u can always av another child... I pity u... if u love ur life don't try it pls... the love of money is the root of all evil... I don talk my own o...

Anonymous said...

You must be a fool to think dt God will give u anoda one,how much did u pay God to give u dis one? Sell d baby n he'll be a still birth.yeye dey smell

Anonymous said...

Are u crazy? Wat if u sell dis one & never get pregnant again? No try God oo

Anonymous said...

You think because your first conception was easy, the second would follow suit? How do you know if that's the only child God has in store for you?

bie said...

U n ur husband are mad.n who told u u will v anoda child?wat if God closes ur womb forever? N wat if ur husband's boss sends armed robbers to attack ur husband n collct d money as well as d baby? SMH 4 u!

Anonymous said...

You must be a fool to think dt God will give u anoda one,how much did u pay God to give u dis one? Sell d baby n he'll be a still birth.yeye dey smell

lady3cia. said...

27! Old? Hmmmmmm, der is nuffin to think about dear. Cos dis might b ur only baby for life. Even if not, do not try selling d innocent child pls.

Anonymous said...

U are a fool 4 even gven it a tot in d first place & u wl remain barren 4 life if u ever do it. Ewu

Anonymous said...

Olosi nio,eri re o si pe. How re u sure 10 million can change ur lives? Eleribuuu obinrin. For u to even think or consider it is absolutely insane, Beyond imaginable!!!! Ur husband is the worst human being ever. Ko ni ye yin

Anonymous said...

SELL it on olx sef..papyamanda

Anonymous said...

Hian. Tins dey happn o. If u sell and u can't get pregnant again nko, and how will u feel seeing ur child in another man's home, wnt u spill wen ur 10m is finished. Make Una fear God na.

Unknown said...

Money is definately the root of all evils..... Pls and pls, park ur load and run frm that ur husband, he doesnt want ur happiness at all..... *Sorry to say this* yu are mad for even considering the idea of selling ur own flesh and blood.......
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Anonymous said...

Ah! U will die of depression if u sell that child... God sef will punish u! infact that ur husband na mumu... if u are not careful eh that ur husband that is so desperate to be rich can even use u for money Rituals! #gbam# ur head go straight!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm .... Money is not every thing sha.... But 10m am confused too #okbye

folamama said...

Sell d baby, u can always hav anoda 1. Since u are nt well to do, money is very imp. Moreover,think abt what if sth happens 2 d baby afterall.

Justyswt said...

This should tell u the kind of husband u got married to. Pls, run for life b4 he will use u for money rituals.

Anonymous said...

Please dont do it, itz Unethical.... Why Cant ur Boss Abort? Hw wud u feel if ur Mum sold u? No condition is Permanent! That money u're looking for, will come!

Unknown said...

Well, if only goverment will provide adequate jobs none of this nonsense will even exist at first place..... Mehn, i just cant even digest the idea that my own mother will sale me out bcos she needed money but thank God she no sale me shah.....
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Anonymous said...

Hello my sis don't give up your child couples go thru financial challenge in their 1st -3yrs of marriage and when they stay strong and hold on to God things usually turn around. 10m can't be compared to the joy that child will bring to you. And who kws the birth of the child could be the the begining of your financial breathru. And pls try and empower yourself learn a skill.

Anonymous said...

You must be very Stupid. As a Mother I know what it means to carry a Baby for 9months.Don't Ever post stupid Qustion like this.STUPID Question from stupid Woman

Anonymous said...

pls dnt sell ur baby no matter what. 1..ur not selling 2a neutral person but sm1 u know very well and every time u see that child with them u'l yearn 4him. 2. if u feel this way now then its definite that in future u'l do evertin u can 2get him back. 3.there r some things in life that 10m or 10b cant buy no mtter wat e.g peace of mind,a mothers bond to her child etc. Think of d future not of now. Besides if they are so rich y dnt they go 4 medical procedures that can give them a child instead of trying 2turn ur world upside down.

Anonymous said...

Lol. This has to be a gag so please sell your baby. I can't wait to see yall arrested on the news.

Anonymous said...

#angry,,, aw on earth can u even tink of hurtin dat child dat way??? No matter wat,dont ever sell ur child. I would rada die dan sell my child for d world even if i can still produce thousands,besides ur not God to determine if u can still av more.... Babes give urself brian ooooo. ¤Su°cre®

Anonymous said...

Your husband is dangerous,He wld sell you if he needs to..Don't sell that baby,if your husband's boss needs a baby,let him go and adopt or use surrogate,when your hubby gets dat money,I am sure he wld abandon you sef..Run to your husband's and your family and tell them,that's after you must have argued well with him and he's still refusing.Let's even forget what pple wld say,you as the mother,dnt you have a conscience..If his boss has dat kinda money,let him look for babies else where.

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Amaka irozuru said...

Haha money wahala... Pls dnt do it ur husband is crazy.

Anonymous said...

See ogbe

kwansa said...

U re mad

Unknown said...

A quick question for you, how would you have felt if you found out your parents sold you for quick cash???

Adeniyi Joy said...

Please don't sell your baby either for money or for anything in the world. Because it will later tell on you.. You never can tell if the birth of that child will bring you great fortune. As for your husband's boss, they can always adopt a baby at the orphanage. The boss even is a wicked being, they are not humane at all to want to have your money in exchange for money. If you agree, then yourself and your husband will be slaves forever because you will lose your dignity and integrity.

Jumyk said...

Yφυr hubby boss shd go adort a baby nawwww, not yφυr own baby. 10m??! Dø yφυ know if dα† yφυr baby will give yφυ 10m X 10000000000.... ȊΩ d nearest future? Be wise, dø yφυ know d pains ‎♈☺ΰ'll go thru ȊΩ d labour room? Aπϑ ‎♈☺ΰ'll now sell d baby after all. It's unbelievable. Huhhzz

Anonymous said...

You most be a Foolish Mother.If ur Man have that Money he will still live you ,he will use that money to live a better life with a new Woman.With ur foolish statement that ur can always have another Child,you think so? there are some Sins that God Almighty will not for give,even as He is a Mercyful God.Like this ur type,if ur Man dont live you he will now use you for Money Rituals because a Man that can bring this to the Table before you selling a Child that U carried for nine Months.You Guys are Greedy Couple have fun Evil Mum.If you dont stop that thought now you will have Miscarriage ,oleeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Anonymous said...

dnt try to sell ur baby bcoz of any fullish money

Anonymous said...

You should think well before you take any action because there is no going back. Pray hard and discuss the advantages and disadvantages with your husband only both of you know what is best.

Anonymous said...

Sell it! #OLX

Unknown said...

you are a witch,aje oshi,ole,oni jekuje,olojukokoro...so,u and your husband cannot make N10m if u dont sell an innocent child,you and ur husband should be jailed for asking such question,eyin olori buruku.

Unknown said...

If ur husband is a graduate, let him live dat man and look for another work. Don't sale ur baby for anything o.

Anonymous said...

Who told u u can always v another baby? Dnt try God ooh!

Anonymous said...

Answer ur Question ur self greedy Mother.

NONY said...

DO NOT SELL UR BABY OR U WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE...NOT ALL MONEY IS GOOD MONEY...10 MILLION IS CHICKEN CHANGE AND WILL DISAPPEAR IN A HEART BEAT!!!

Francis said...

Kneel down everyday n pray to God to help ur husband find a solution.Selling. Ur baby for 10 million isn't worth it.

Unknown said...

A quick question for you, how would you have felt if you found out your parents sold you for quick cash???

Nneka said...

What of When the baby grows and hear you sold him/her for 10million??

After you answer that, you shuld know wat to do.

Anonymous said...

Owu(poverty) na bastard.....kai!!!

Anonymous said...

Ok first of all, lets answer your question. Should you sell your own flesh and blood? NO!
Why?
#1. There's something called secondary infertility, look into it. The fact that you've gotten pregnant with a child before doesn't guarantee that you can or would get pregnant with another in the future.

#2. There is an extra special blessing that comes from the first fruit of the womb. Are you sure you are willing to trade both your destinies for mere cash?

#3. Your husband is an idiot. Plain and simple. If he's willing to sell his own flesh and blood for money, abeg sleep with one eye open. Because this dude is definitely not to be trusted with your life.

Anonymous said...

Don't throw ur future away bcos of moni oooo u neva can tell wat dat chlid will become n he/she may neva 4forgive u cos one day d truth will be revealed. As 4 dat family dey shld kip oraying 4 dere own baby, God will do it.

Anonymous said...

Mumu, go sell ur pikin na. Do u know d destiny dat child is carrying, that could be d future president you want to sell out. He could be a world changer, what if dey have deir own kids tomorrow and start maltreating your own child? This is my candid advice, collect d money, yes, I say collect d money, don't sign and contract, don't go into any formal agreement, at this point they are desperate, u have dem by d balls so you can call d shorts. Tell them to pay but u will still have to nurse d baby for a couple of months. Arrange with your husband and JA out of the country. Take d 10 million and run. Your husband is a fool sha, anyway suffer-head dey scatter head, so i don't blame him too much, d poverty has stolen his brain. I wish u gud luck o. Linda post dis u hear, Biko, no swallow am. Nagode

Anonymous said...

I wonder why the boss want to have the baby at that amount,can't she go to motherless home and request for New born baby, or go for surrogacy,I will advice you not to sell your baby for you don't know what might happen in the future.and as for your husband money is not everything.

Anonymous said...

Onuku! Go sell na

Anonymous said...

What a question? Should you sell you baby? Do not limit God's potential in your life, because today is gloomy does not mean it would be gloomy forever. Please do not sell your baby ooo.

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Anonymous said...

Do not sell your baby even if its for a million dollars, you can never put a price on God's gift to man. You'll regret it for the rest of your life even if you havr 10 children afterwards or you may never have. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Every child that God gives is a blessing.

Anonymous said...

So you think you can always give birth to another baby. Mumu you want to sell your child because of money. Your mother should have sold you and your husband when the gave birth to you.

Unknown said...

Woman are u even considering this? Hmm.. try it and face d consequences... u might not evn put to birth again. God forbids. . But u will definitely want ur baby bck one day if u try it. . Lord can't believe u wud even think of it. . Smh

Anonymous said...

You are an idiot o think of selling a prcious Gift from GOD! Jeezzzz money is nothing and has no guarantee. Ode sell ur baby and live with the guilt forever.

Anonymous said...

Don't sell that baby. You will regret it. The money you think you need will come some day. You don't need to do something stupid to get it. You can instead offer to surrogate for the couple with their own sperm and egg if okay (after your baby is a year old). They can pay for that (surrogacy)

NMA said...

Trading your baby for money?ur husband is sick in d head,don't give it a second thought pls

BONARIOS BABY said...

My baby worths a fortune,even if u want to give me 1billon dollars I'd never sell my child besides it sounds absurd for ur husbands boss wanting to pay 10m for ur baby wen he cud easily go and adopt a child for somthg far less than that,I suspect smthg fishy abt it.I suspect he has seen d destiny of child is very bright, what if that child becomes d president of 2moro? U'd for ever regret ur actions.

Anonymous said...

Yah sell d baby and go to HELL FIRE bitch 4 gudness sake who sells dia baby now this man know u n ur husband to keep his little secret he will just eliminate u and ur husband the moment u get the money bcos he know 1 day u will let the baby know ure his/her parent u may end up not enjoying the money either dead or leaving with horroble nightmares so is simple don't sell ur baby

Anonymous said...

Pls don't sell ur baby

Anonymous said...

Pls don't try it, u will always feel ur loss no matter hw many times u confess ur wrong. If they had as much as 10 million to pay y didn't dey try external fertilization or even adopt for as low as 300k, their offer is too sweet to be true, has it crossed ur mind dat complications may arise(not ur portion) and u may not be able to conceive again and u sold ur only child? Money isn't everything, work hard and u shall make it

Anonymous said...

What da hell? Are u kidding me.Okay ooo

Anonymous said...

Do not sell ur baby. This baby is d 1st fruit of ur womb and needs ur motherly love.

Anonymous said...

My dear God will not take you to a place where his grace is not sufficient. Please do not sell your baby. I have a baby and my husb and I have been trying for another for a while yet no luck. Please there are motherless baby homes where they can adopt.

Anonymous said...

Are you serious? Do you think babies are for sale in the market? If you and ur husband decide to sell that child for money tht alone is called child trafficking. Even the so called boss may need that child for something else other than having him or her as his own. God assigned this child to you and ur husband for a reason. And the same God who gave you this child will provide for you. As for the boss he's been childless for 7 years. He can wait another 7 more. God hears the prayers of his children. People have been married 20 something yrs without an issue. So he can wait and u and ur husband enjoy this precious gift given to u by God.

Unknown said...

Please don't change the destiny of your baby. God didnt make a mistake by giving u the bundle of joy. If your husbands boss wants a baby badly and with DAT amount they can pay for surrogate .do IVF etc they have a lot of option. Plus I think your husband is way selfish and greedy. Babys come with good fortune and luck and if u give urs away u throw away ur good fortune. Pls be wise

Anonymous said...

Gush!!! No amount of millions is worth sellin ur child 4. Tink of if God is provoked & does not give u anoda child, wat will u do? Pls my opinion is NO.

Unknown said...

So u r now God to know if u can have another or not. Anyway advice is what u seek wen u already know what you want to do.

Anonymous said...

Are u asking me? Ode go n sell ur baby,is it not ur baby? Tomorrow ur stupid n greedy husband wil label u a bad woman n get married 2 anoda..ur useless concience wil prick u 4eva

Anonymous said...

U are a stupid woman and mother

Anonymous said...

Madam I think u must b sick upstairs. R u God who gives kids or u think its by u n ur husband's making? Children r gifts 4rm d lord and if he gives 1 to u he will provide 4 u to take care of ur child n a child comes with blessings. So if u sell ur own 4 10 million I bet u wud use 20 million to look 4 an imbicile or even a miscarriage and u wud neva see any. Sell ur child n sell away ur glory!

Woomie said...

4 u to even come to Linda to ask this question, u don sell am already. Good luck. God will ask u oh lol

Anonymous said...

My dear money is not everytin in life. As long as u r not starving 2 death(even if it were, selling is not an option). Say no 2 ur husband, pray 2 God 2 give him understanding.

onyiiasa said...

BLOG ANALYSER: Hian? Is this for real? Why does he want to sell a child of destiny for just 10m, pls don't do it okay. God can change ur destiny nd this could be a temptation from God.

Anonymous said...

Madam are u normal? Hmmmm u want to sell dat wonderful gift d Lord has given to u. Sum pple up till date are still crying to God 4 such gift. U will live to regret it if u try such. If u do wat ur hubby says n den live u 4 anoda woman wat will ur story be? Hissssss

Anonymous said...

Na wa oh . Money can turn pple 2 hungry monsters . So wat if u dnt sell d baby nd God blesses u guys wit more dan 10m or u sell nd in 1 sec d 10m disappears , dats how u start selling ur babies anytime ur pregnant . Minyl dey can use d 10m 4 treatment 2 get pregnant.

Anonymous said...

Don't throw ur future away bcos of moni oooo u neva can tell wat dat chlid will become n he/she may neva 4forgive u cos one day d truth will be revealed. As 4 dat family dey shld kip oraying 4 dere own baby, God will do it.

Anonymous said...

Wonders shall never end o sell ur baby for 10million?ure a wicked woman fr even considering such a tin.no amount of money is worth selling ur baby

Angie said...

God I'm sorry for what I'm about to say.
You are very very stupid for even asking such a stupid question.
Don't you have a conscience? ?...How do know God will trust you again to give you another child. These are things people do and when karma remembers them, they'll start crying witches and wizards.
All for what?, money... You'd better beg God for forgiveness for even thinking about it.
If your husband insists on selling the baby, leave him; divorce is allowed in cases like this and watch God do wonders for you.. what the hell!!!!!!!


*My R1.50c comment *

BONARIO NNAGS said...

For you to harbour such thought already shows how selfish you both are. And to think you've been praying for a child all this while. Don't ever sell that baby.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

OnyeKachi said...

Please don't sell the blessing God gave you! The love of money is the root of all evil....you might never have another and 10million naira will finish. If his boss wants to lay him off because of refusal, let him go ahead. Wait on the Lord please. Ahnahn that boss though! May God have mercy #endtimes

Anonymous said...

Young lady. Are you for real???? Are you actually considering this?? Hmmmmmmm.

Chyachebe said...

Are u listening to ur self? Who told u, u can always have another baby? Is not as If the baby is illegitimate, my candid advice is that u forget that offer, it is not even tempting enough. This is ur first fruit, don't even think of that shit. As for ur husband that even mentioned it, I think he needs psychological evaluation. U can give away d baby, take the money and never get pregnant again, God is a consuming fire, he chose to give u fruit of the womb and give ur husband's boss money. They should go for legal adoption and leave u guys alone. This is coming from someone who knows n understand how difficult it is TTC.

Anonymous said...

U will make the worst mistake of ur life by selling ur baby. All is vanity. God will never forgive u. And what gives u the impression u will have another baby. Are u God? Don't try God. And tomorrow if u don't have another baby, ur husband will leave u for another woman who will give him kids. Ur husband needs the money , u don't exchange. Ur blood for money. This is money ritual. U thinkis only when one kills that its called. Ritual. U r selling ur blood, so u will be tagged a ritualist as well. Be wise womanM many women are still looking for the fruit of the womb

Anonymous said...

You wanna give out God's Blessings to you ,just bcos you need the money??????Do you know if the child that you are carrying can be President tomorrow ??? What if your mother did same thing to you???? Think on these things and decided if to sell or not

Anonymous said...

Don't o my sister e go betta.if u had been sold out by ur own parent m sure u won't forgive dem

Anonymous said...

Which type of stupid question is dis naw,y wil u sell ur baby?ibere ofo#mtcheeeeeew#

Unknown said...

You are as greedy as your husband.

Anonymous said...

Ode! Sell your baby na! Broke ass mumu!

Angie said...

Good morning y'all and may we all have a blessed week!

HisElect said...

Oh and he might kill you guys afterwards so you won't have to claim the baby in the future! These people are evil, think like them. Please keep your baby, please. May God give you wisdom. Amen

Adeemmanuel said...

Never try to contemplate such thing a child is a gift from God. Plz don't jus look at today but also look at the future if the child eventually finds out about his/her story, how well with it go down with the child, u might even be caught in the process, who told u dat u might give birth to another child, perhaps it might be a temptation from the devil who knows something bigger is coming your way.

Honsylglobal.com : UK Global Online Financial Advisers said...

Go for it not necessarily for the money but to help a family in distress. it also involves a simple adoption process.

Babycake$ said...

God have mercy! Are u kidding me?! Pls DONT.plssssss u guys shld b managing, money will come, believe in God.

Anonymous said...

Take decision on ur own this is a sensitive issue, only u can decide u don't need anyones opinion

Unknown said...

Seriously? Count down: 40yrs later,ur child mayb a son bcms d next president. Wd u av d guts to walk up to him nd tell him u sold him 4 10 million. Ur husband is greedy nd u too bt ur conscience is stl workin. Keep ur child nd tell dm to adopt a child 4rm an orphanage

Eya Ayambem said...

Can't he go to an orphanage to adopt properly??? >:(

Anonymous said...

how can you sell your baby, for just 10 million, God in heaven will not be happy with you at the end of the day, 10 million will still finish, my dear please be wise if your husband is considering, you shouldn't dare consider such evil.

ify said...

Pls don't sell ur baby ,its a wonderful gift from God that's more than money,ur husbands boss can go and adopt one,

buks said...

Mi o ro bo ya girl yii gbadun sha....I don't think dis babe is aii...sell ur child? Is dat a joke? After going thru d stress of pregnancy and giving birth...well mayb u think labor is beans sha,wait till u av d baby den u knw dat no amount of money will make u sell ur child. Pls don't even think about it. God will provide the resources u and ur hubby need to take care of the child in Jesus name. Also my advise is dat ur hubby shuld leave dat job and dat boss dat does not wish him well oooo.may God also provide her with child too ooo .Amen.

Eya Ayambem said...

And how are you sure you can always have another baby???? >:(

Anonymous said...

Seriously? Do people still think like this? Were u and hubby not ready for the reaponsibility of a child when you got pregnant? Must your hubby work in that company? Why are nigerians so quick to consider the easy way out? At 27yrs,you have already sentenced yourself to no good and think the 10million is the best that can happen to you. What brought about such conversation in the ist place between a boss and an employee. I am beginning to suspect ur husband sef. Cant you work with your hands. You speak good english so i can assume you got an education. If he kills the baby for rituals,what will you do. Common get up and make a living for yourself. I cant even believe you gave it a thought.

ify said...

Pls don't sell ur baby ,its a wonderful gift from God that's more than money,ur husbands boss can go and adopt one,

Unknown said...

run from that husband of urs ... jeeezzz he can sell u if he has the chance .... the boss should believe God for her own or go adopt... shuooo what happened to orphanage homes naaa *confused* those are the pple that needs to adopted for free sef if she follows the proper channel ... na wa ooo this matter shock me gan

OnyeKachi said...

Please don't sell the blessing God gave you! The love of money is the root of all evil....you might never have another and 10million naira will finish. If his boss wants to lay him off because of refusal, let him go ahead. Wait on the Lord please. Ahnahn that boss though! May God have mercy #endtimes

OnyeKachi said...

Please don't sell the blessing God gave you! The love of money is the root of all evil....you might never have another and 10million naira will finish. If his boss wants to lay him off because of refusal, let him go ahead. Wait on the Lord please. Ahnahn that boss though! May God have mercy #endtimes

leecia said...

Sell it,if u dnt ave conscious.

HisElect said...

Oh and he might kill you guys afterwards so you won't have to claim the baby in the future! These people are evil, think like them. Please keep your baby, please. May God give you wisdom. Amen

OnyeKachi said...

Please don't sell the blessing God gave you! The love of money is the root of all evil....you might never have another and 10million naira will finish. If his boss wants to lay him off because of refusal, let him go ahead. Wait on the Lord please. Ahnahn that boss though! May God have mercy #endtimes

Oge Nsimah said...

Both you and your hubby needs a hot slap( manual reset of your brain). No codition justify your action if you eventual do such. Shea you know u can alwayz give birth to another one? So what kept you waiting two yrs after marriage. Will this one still receive mothers day gift ? God forgive you and your unless hubby. Like seriously some guyz are not man enough. Your Boss needs your baby and you have the gut to say that.

Unknown said...

You must be insane! You and your husband must be crazy! If I were that baby and I know what you guyz are planning to do with me, I will run away from you as in you having miscarriage. If you sell that baby, you re neva gonna get him back cos I belive it will be a boy. You might have a girl and sell it belive me you'l give birth to boys and no girl then you'll remember you have a a child outside that won't know you and you can't claim! perhaps you sold the baby out. My dear be wise! Money doesn't have value. That money could just vanish over night cos it's not even your money! This is child abuse!(Tears drop) do... Donnot deny that baby the joy of. Being with his real family and remember, you can't have him back ever again! Please don't!!! (Crying...) I felt something hit me hard when I saw this post. If you sell your baby, that money will be useless to you and your husband and you'll be on the loosing end plus God will not forgive you!!! I rest my case

Esther Nky said...

please do not b tempted to sell your own baby, ur baby is worth more than 10million naira. The money is nt even enough for the 9months u carried ur baby and the labour pains you shall pass through. Children are priceless. what if this is the only child God is going to give u in this life, what if the favour and blessings that would b given to u n hubby lies on the baby. please do nt be tempted to give away ur child because u r going to regret it for the rest of ur life n it wud torture n torment u. let ur hubby's boss go and adoption with the 10million naira. ur hubby's boss is wicked and mean. mschewww

Anonymous said...

got me some slack woman if u can exchange money for human life then u re ritualist in a closet, mchewwwwwwww.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY

Anonymous said...

How did the boss know you were pregnant? How can you even consider that option. Are you crazy or is your husband hypnotizing you? When did you become his bosses keeper? Are you the ist person to get pregnant in that company? So why the offer. Please move away from such a man as fast as you can and ur husband too if possible. Thats why i tell women to get an education and means of living instead of hoping and waiting on a man for their sustenance. See how far it has gotten you. You know what to do except you are telling me you dont see yourself ever prospering in life.

ucy said...

U are mad madam 4 asking (sorry I said dat). Dis is ur 1st baby ryt and u considering selling. Woo u better not try it cuz God can punish u for life by not answering ur prayers of getting pregnant. I knw d money is tempting but please give birth and take care of ur baby YOURSELF and after that u can get pregnant for ur husbands boss if they are still interested.

Eya Ayambem said...

What makes you think your lives will be spared after the baby sale?

You think he is a fool to let you and hubby live and watch your child grow up as his??? >:(

Anonymous said...

ARE U STUPID OR WHAT? HOW DARE YOU WANT TO PLAY GOD?

Anonymous said...

hmmmmm life!!! who get cap no get head, who get head no come get cap. na wa o!!! poster wht is 10m compare to ur child? keep ur child n see hw God will open doors of blessings to u. pls dont sell him o...

Senator said...

I don't believe a would be mother asked dis questn. Seems u nd ur hubby are criminally minded....if u cn sell ur child 4 money then there's nothin u cn nt do 4 money. Ma'am pls dnt sell ur child....u nd ur hubby shuld hustle harder ok. Riches come thru hardwork not by pawning ur baby

Eya Ayambem said...

Is he trying to take advantage of your situation?

OPPRESSION OF THE POOR!!! >:(

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