Saturday, June 22, 2013

Guy with feminine look, Tosin Silver, replies his critics

Tosin Silver Damolekun sent in a mail a few days ago asking LIBers to help him with an issue - he's a straight guy who is labeled gay because of his feminine looks...but instead of advising him, some of you insulted him...Lol. Well, Tosin has replied you all. Oya, read below...
"Nigerians can never change, I saw my story on Linda ikeji's blog and I was like "oh finally maybe Nigerians could help on what to do and how to overcome these challenges" but to my own surprise it was all negativity from people who are also sinners, please check yourself and see if you're "clean" before you judge others cus nobody is perfect. I was sexually molested by a man when I was a kid and I was looking for an opportunity to fight it so that such won't happen to our children because there men whom are animals out there.
Everybody is judging me, Can a sinner judge a sinner?  You don't know me so don't judge me, so many of you giving negative comments do worse than any man could imagine. Am feminine and I act feminine doesn't mean am gay or looking for some useless gay men to date or spend their dirty money on me, i am a young entrepreneur and I work hard for my money and my parents extremely satisfy me.

With all these negative comments, I guess you expect me to go commit suicide and that will make you all murderers cus you've killed a human being who needs your advise and not curses and irrelevant gossips and mockery. Am so inspired with all these unnecessary negativity.

You call me an attention seeker? Lol! I know so many of you wish to be on Linda Ikeji's blog, well your time will come and I pray it won't be your downfall that would be all over the internet. You call me a gay? How am I sure you're not also gay or lesbian, or are you a virgin? So many of you practice worse, armed robbers, fornication, adultery, drug dealers, masturbation, abortion, twosome/thressome/groupies, being fetish, husband snatchers, yahoo yahoo and so many horrible things.

Nobody is perfect...
Tosin Silver Damolekun
Dear Tosin, the issue is not the way you look, it's the way you act. I mean, look at these photos for goodness sake. What you put out is what you get back. So work on yourself. All the best! L

383 comments:

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★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

You can't have shit on you and not expect flies to follow you around, change from your femininity or shut up!

Anonymous said...

Shorop gay! Infact sharap!!!  dis gay o!so u knw u ar a sinner n u searching 4 advice. igiot berra go 4 healing sch wif love wrld int...GAYbriel oshi.
|Estrano Lala

Sasha North London said...

Don't mind them Tosin.Live your life and ignore all dem haters that do worse things.

Keep loving yourself for Self love...is the greatest and most important love one could ever bestow upon oneself... It is the foundation of true love...the barometer of all love given and received... It is the love that determines your understanding of love...defines the care and experience of love...the measure of love...as you live a life of love... In a world that often misshapes...deceives and abuses love... Belittles...dismisses and takes advantage of love... Self love protects and restores loss love...damaged love...forgotten love... Recognizing the goodness and the grace of love...the true benefit and power of love.
We all need love...acknowledged or not...love is the embodiment of both our greatest weakness and unmeasurable strength... Self love gives us the ability to honor...respect and embrace the responsibility of love...to love and be loved in return...is the miracle of love... So get some self love and see just how good found love can be...it's contagious...

Anonymous said...

Lindodo,Jah bless u 4 dat last paragraph..u hv said it all.Young man abi na woman,u r drawing all dis negative comments 2 ursef!judging 4rm ur kinda pics sef,u have already decided 2 b a woman so let us hear word**yawns**

Anonymous said...

Mate! Seek to improve yourself and not to prove to anyone about who you are

Anonymous said...

Lina plz stop giving this dude attention abeg!!!!!! Yack! Macayo

Anonymous said...

Fcuk'n gay guy lookin for attention on LIB to get gay from his fellow retarded gay men to toast him... Silly ass... Abeg linda thanks 4 d last paragraph joo! Need I say more? That says it all...
-Gayslayer-

ForexPro said...

Linda comot ur mouth for the matter. You should be an umpire and unbiased but ur tone and comment will influence your readers.

Bamgbopa Folarin said...

Ogbeni guy don vez, sorry na, not sayn d bad comments were good, but jeez!! See ur poses na, who won't think gay of u, d look is enuf, u need not add d pose mehn
Mabinu

Anonymous said...

Eeeya!!lipz sealed!shut f wrdz.

Anonymous said...

you look gay... I bet u r one. idle fool!

Bamgbopa Folarin said...

Oh boy!! See para mehn, dude no offence but I really won't blame d so called "negativity" ,ur looks have done enuf, d pose is just not right??in boxers again?hian!!
No vez

Anonymous said...

Highnez

Anonymous said...

you are a fool. Animal like u. C d way human being dy behave nd yet he dy talk rubish. Y den do u behave like a female if u dnt wnt dm (gay) to notice u. God purnish u. God canot create a human like dis. U dis useles gay go nd repent nd stp confusing urself. Mtseeew.

Ugo Dosh said...

Hahaha, my guy don charge oh. Hope you guys haf hear o.Don't call Tosin gay anymore.

Lafter is the best medicine....visit LOLDEY.COM to laugh and tear your belle with the funniest naija pic on the net.

Anonymous said...

Na U̶̲̥̅̊ go find trouble, Wat do U̶̲̥̅̊ expect 4rm dis ppl, they neva say any tin nice even wen its good.. & i guess U̶̲̥̅̊ wanted 2be on d blog as well so Y complain.. go see a shrink & get good advice

amaka Anudu said...

Linda I don't agree with this post. He has the right to be himself. People should learn to stop criticizing one another because nobody is perfect at all at all.

Anonymous said...

Wandafull

jason michael said...

Linder dear I so much appreciate ur advice to tosin cox na wetin we see we comment about as in those gay pix

ec said...

Linda has said it all.TOSIN its not how u look but how u act.u say u want ppl to help u how? We shld help u tell u to pose more like a man? Or are u too dumb to know ur poses are like a woman.its not ur fault that ur feminine but its 100percent ur fault that ur pouting ur lips like a woman and tushing ur hips like a babe.act right dude!

BONARIO NNAGS said...

arrgghhhrrrr!!! I feel like beating dis dude mercilessly,its not your fault ,its Lindiway that gave you attention.stupid attention seeker.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Chinedu Mgbemena said...

ok.... Oya LIBers comment again and wait for tosin abi toyin's reply... Me no get anything to say on this matter

ade baptista said...

I tink linda has said it all...bt 4 tosin LIB readers re tellin u dnt luk lyk a female jst change d way u act

Anonymous said...

LMAO!!! U̶̲̥̅̊ got exactly wat U̶̲̥̅̊ wanted & it comes w̶̲̥̅̊ɪ̣̝̇τ̩̩̥ħ a great price.. Only d strong can stand.. Next pls

Anonymous said...

He has α̲̅ point tho!

blackgold said...

Lwkmd... Choi dis guy don enter all of us meeeeehn. Nice analysis but it doesn't change d fact that u are as gay as dey come. So d mN molested u and put some girly attitude into u. Puhhhhlease.

Anonymous said...

Lolzzzzzz!!!!! He doesn't even look dat feminine but acts it. I'm with linlin on dis, work on urself beieng molested as a kid doesn't make u feminine, ur features are masculine.

Anonymous said...

you are talking shit you look fagy queen boy haaaaa
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somadina obi said...

The way you dressed was the way you were addressed.

Anonymous said...

Linda you too dey critize am because he is unpopular and young.What of Charly Boy pictures. Tosin Silver, you shouldn't call anybody names or get mad at them like that.
I observed that sinners criticize the most. Good people judge less and are more empathetic

Anonymous said...

This guy disgusts me.
From all you have written, all I can decipher is that you were raped by the man who introduced you into the world of gay and ever since then you have been gay. Maybe now your numerous boyfriends has bonked the pile out of your yansh and nobody wants you anymore hence you have decided to advertise on LIB.
Young (Wo)man, I strongly urge you to go get a life and save your yansh only for pooing. Am a sinner cos I f*ck (girls), but been gay is just an act of stupidity.

Louis Obiora said...

K. Not sure what he meant when he said, "my parents satisfy me".

Anonymous said...

have you looked at your pictures?...i dont think you have, but when you sit down properly and analyze these images, you will see that it isnt normal...end of discussion.

Anonymous said...

Is like u ar not satisfied with the previous insults...... Get raedy for the bigger one lol.

Anonymous said...

...you should not seek for solution to a personal problem from a public blog like this ..dont you have a pastor or counsellor to talk to???? have you not seen how homophobic LIBs are???i think for you to send your problem to lindas blog as well as several pictures shows you want people to know you. don't expect sympathy from the public forum..cheers

Anonymous said...

GBAM! @Lindas reply to him. Take a look in d mirror jare after that, take a chill pill. Peace out.

DATSHAPIBOBOY said...

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Dot Baba said...

Free this guy abeg...if he says he is not gay then he is not gay!!! Maybe all his siblings are female. I have met guys that grew up with like 4 sisters and they act feminine but they are not gay. If he grew up like that there is no way he can 'work on himself' but to accept himself the way he is.

At least this guy is not considering a sex change operation!!!

In other news check this out Lesbians caught having sex in McDonald's

Anonymous said...

This guy thinks being on Linda Ikeji's blog is an achievement. You must be demented. Better get your priorities right and your act together. Nonsense.

Anonymous said...

Lmaooo d guy don vex ohhh.....but bros if U needed advice U shudnt av sent so many gay pictures naaa...we talk am as we see am ohhh...see as he give us list sef

Anonymous said...

Mumu tosin

betty said...

I totally agree with this guy. Linda what anyone does in their own privacy is none of ur business. You shld try researching on what these politicians do which cld even be worse.abeg leave dis boy alone

Anonymous said...

Nigga STFU, wit ur gay acts, Faggot!yanz.

Anonymous said...

Sorry about how ur post was treated, who knows u better thank ur self? Nobody! sorry about the abuse u had to suffer from an animal when u where young. Stay strong and don't let any negative words frm people who dont know ur heart trouble u. Stay with God, take charge of ur life

Anonymous said...

Very lame reply.shei we al av issues bt u decided to trumpet urs.unintelligent ass fucker.attention hunter.long hiss.Ann#

Dozie said...

Tosini am reading this for the first time, i am straight young adult, but i like to inspire people i have one word for you,

Your not disabled, its shape and you can rebuild your attitude gesture and posture, its an act,

let me give you example, i met a doctor here in London with autism, she shared an experience with me, of a young autistic kid who got tired of been bullied he made a shirt saying is people like you who make people like me disabled.

Mr Tosin you are able not disable so change your kind of cloths if that would help and attitude adopt better more suitable life style, i mean what you are confortable with. not what people say. we passed those earlier when people commit suicide cos they been bullied.
Tosin biko think like a man you are one. and i dont see much female feature in you apart from your sense of styling cos i only see picture of you.

Anonymous said...

Well if u aint gay....start acting lyk 1 cos if u luk feminine n act lyk 1 ur sending wrong messages n I agree wit linda....act lyk a guy @ list dat may ova shadow ur feminine side.

Eniola Busari said...

@ tosin dude take it easy nd stop behavin like a fool

Anonymous said...

Tosin, its not wat u think dear. B'cos u look feminine does not mean u should act it. *EVE*

KIKIS said...

Act more manly. Maybe the attention from men will reduce.

Eniola Busari said...

Dude calm down nd stop behavin lik a fool

Anonymous said...

Hi tosin am glad ur Straight,it does nt matter what pple say or do 2 u,what matters is dt ur nt gay n would never be,but appearances sumtimes says more than words so 2 avoid harassment fr men I suggest it is high tym u started dressing like a grown man n nt lik a lady,u look so beautiful 2 be a man so act like a man

Anonymous said...

lool...THIS!! make una read. #Yimu

Anonymous said...

Linda you are giving room for this guy to get insulted more

Anonymous said...

Dude if u wnt dem gays to stop chasing u then b a man nd stop snappn ur self in some sexy feminine position I cud av puked buh I thut hey ur human u feel hurt too so here's my advice reduce ur feminine behaviour nd get in touch wit ur man syD gudluck dearie

Anonymous said...

He doesn't hv feminine looks, he acts like a girl, even as a man he's ugly nt 2 mention feminine....rme

Anonymous said...

He is just using Ur blog to advertise himself and Linda u keep giving him attention.
He has a masculine physique and dosent even look feminine for crying out loud.
If he needs a gay partner he should go else where .
Pls Linda make we hear better gist.

Anonymous said...

Linda you are judging the poor dude indirectly!

Dot Baba said...

Nigerians can be so hypocritical yet you can't but wonder Why is gay porn so popular in Nigeria?

Adetunji O. Adekunle said...

So you feel everyone is like you, I hate when a culture-deviant give flimsy and stupid excuses such as: 'Everyone is a sinner' 'Nobody holy pass', etc as a cover-up to what the larger society condemn, you want us to keep silent using 'make-them-look-dirty' strategy, you need to your head examined and if you dont know let me remind you that it is 14years jail term Mr. Impostor!

EDDIE~SYFAR said...

Wait, who is he

Anonymous said...

Fucking Retard..Ur 15minutes is over.
I hope U now have Customers tho ( -_-)

Anonymous said...

For God's sake linda some people are that way, they act like girls not because they want to.stop judging him aleady!

Lil miss sunshine said...

Aww sori luv, buh lindi iz ryt its nt d way u luk, its d way u act.. Seriously... Try nd act more lyk a dude, den pple wud take u serious ...i kinda lyk d way u luk... Its perfect 4 me.. Buh add a lil masculinity 2 it

Anonymous said...

Pls Linda, why r u even answering this person nau!! Na u dey cause all these things na! Why r u giving him attention???
And as for u Mr. Silver, u don't look feminine! U r forcing it! U r soooooooooo GAY!!! FOH!!!

meggi said...

You got negative results here bcos it seems you are not making an effort to be normal; y don't u start by dressing like a man, stop wearing female clothings etc cos there is a name for men that do that which is gay. I feel ur pain bcos some pple r born diff. Make an effort to be who u want to be, cos it will be difficult for someone like u whose lifestyle is confusing to find it easy in life.

Anonymous said...

Too many ignorant people who write crap on this blog, God help you all...Amen

Anonymous said...

Linda u nailed it! guy is not d way u look is d way u act...u acting gay urslf. so plz try 2 change d way u dress and act, dat will go along way. thanks and God bless!!!

Anonymous said...

Tosin, pay no attention 2 d bloody low life, shallow minded, fools saying al sorta negative tins....u wer born dis way, dis is who u re....u gata love ursef 4 u n wear ur personality like an amour. Give no ears 2 d talk of fools

CHIBUZOR IGWAH said...

Nice one there Linda, I think you have says it all, and that’s my opinion as well. Tosin, you need to take correction from the Linda advice as that’s the best help you can get here for now. We all are sinners and no one is perfect indeed.

Daughter of Zion. said...

From my sincere heart, I wish to say this guy is a dead chicken. Thanks for telling him deres sometin wrong wit his pictures. Bum shorts n tees like my big sis wears n u say u aint a lady. He even said he's feminine. Come of it guy, u pass for a gay mofo anyday, anytime. Take better shorts with manly wears and U can help urself.

Anonymous said...

He is a very stupid GIRL

Anonymous said...

Just sounds to me like som1 who is trying 2 defend his stupidity, of cus we r all sinners, but I v not put pictures of my self sleeping with a married man, or having sex with my boyfriend, or masturbating, or doing drugs,being fetish nd all dat u classified as being immoral so I don't expect 2 b judged, u put up pictures of ur self acting all gay,even touching urself, nd u really expect people not 2 say anything, my dear open ur eyes, dis is Nigeria, if u r looking 4 advice u should see a psychologist, no display ur foolishness for d world to see

Anonymous said...

After reading this whole thing; i conclude............... He's gay. And its wrong....... Gay is wrong. I'd rather have a five-some than be gay. Lol sorry silver

pealie said...

Jesus loves you no matter what...

Anonymous said...

I had a feeling he was molested..im glad he stated it ...Dear tosin i didnt comment in the previous post .....but my dear try and see if you can go for counselling...even if it mean travelling abroad for it ..and also read on stuffs online.......the molestation affected your psyche and your still see yourself that way...im glad you are confident .....i pray you get your heart desire ...goodluck dear........i was also molested/raped when young but im female and i can tell you the psycholgical effects are bad......thats why i always pity all these libers that blame rape victims .....it doesnt matter how you look or dress a man that wants to rape you would rape you girl or boy

Anonymous said...

Sometimes I feel linda you encourage people to say nasty things about people.next time research on his kind before writing that your ignoramus statment "its not the way you look,its the way you act".

Anonymous said...

With his lip gloss... Tufia

Anonymous said...

On a more crious note, dis blog is full of insultive pple deh said post a comment nd nt post an insult but yet sum pple wil stil insult, evrybdy hav got his/her own opinion so we shuld learn 2 respect our selves pls.

↭PRINCE JOBLESS↭ said...

I know a GAY person when I see one.. So yup, he's definitely gay... Linda and he doesn't look like a woman. He looks like a hardnut about to shit himself.. Haha! First grade cunt.

Anonymous said...

Tosin, werrin u bin dey expect? Take a closer look @ d pictures u posted...d patra short, d tigh exposure n d poses. U sure dnt luk lyk one who 1ts a soln 2 hs prblms. I advice u 2 strt acting n behaving lyk a man...ask doz 'tom-boyish' girls hw dey do it. U cn also strt gyming to improve ur physical appearance. Abeg no dey pose lyk dt 4 pictures agn. All d bst

Coco said...

I don't think he has accepted that he is gay yet. Because the way he poses in these pics are very gay-like.

Tosin Silver, you're gay. Come out the closet and stop deceiving yourself.

Anonymous said...

Boring reply....no hard punches except Linda's.

Dalton said...

Most Nigerians are so shallow in their reasoning. I am sorry to say this but it's the plain truth. And that's the main reason for our backwardness in this country. Even if he is actually gay, is that a good enough reason to Judge him or are you the God who created him. As the saying goes, remove the spec in ur eyes before removing the log in another person eyes. Frankly speaking, I am totally ashamed of Nigerians.
My Advise to you Tosin, is to do what you feel is right and accept who you are and don't think about what anyone says afterall, it's ur life and don't let anyone live it for you.
GoodLuck.

Anonymous said...

Story Story, guilty conscience dey kill d guy! Abi see how him dey vibrate, abeg Tosin abi wetin u call urself go 4 deliverance while it is day abeg. ~Ritty~

Anonymous said...

U come here put on rubbish boxers and shirt dey claim,yet u say u aint gay,u resemble scorpion.

HighJ Udeh said...

na true u talk Tosin but look @ those pic of yours nah,aby u be Chalie girl ni?sorry no mind them...

Ernest zane said...

U come here put on rubbish boxers and shirt dey claim,yet u say u aint gay,u resemble scorpion.

Anonymous said...

i just saw his fb pictures, i think the brother got excess female homones. I think health scientist should say something about this...he has breast dam it!

YINXS said...

gbam..well said.libers let d comment section begin.hehehe....

Anonymous said...

Look tosin ur pictures clearly show ur gay. How can u b straight n yet ur pictures r saying something different?
See how straight dudes take pictures and learn from them. No girl would look at this picture n want to go out with u cus u just exude 'gayness'.

Anonymous said...

This guy needs to shut it. How do you expect people to believe you are not gay when you pose seductively like a woman? What's with the lip gloss and underpants you put on? Is this how straight men act? You are GAY... and you should not try to insult our intelligence with these comments of yours.

You need to act what you preach if you want people to believe you.

Anonymous said...

hi tosin am not goin to judge you cos am not God buh really u need to work on your self just look at the way u posed on the chair? dats how a lady would sit and pose for a snap shot try and do what guys do am sure u will be able to learn how to walk like a guy and do fings guys do. let mi ask u do u hv a girl friend? if u do dats a start u dont need people's help at all buh ur own help so sweerie do something about it ur sef

Anonymous said...

Guy thank GOD u can defend urslf, words 2 u fake readers.. Bigmouths sabi sabi fan u guys ar worse than him any guy my word 4 u is go on wearin more men native than english wear lookin lik a lady is not a crime...

Anonymous said...

stfu boy, u know you got sweetness oozing out ur pores...infact you're so sweet that some people got diabetes just looking at ur previous pics...

Anonymous said...

Oga park well juurh, first to comment, *yaaay*

Anonymous said...

Seriously,if u nid advice then u shld act like one who nids it nd nt pose as if u dnt av a trouser to wear or sometin...even if u model,dis outfit is definately nt a model like...appearance matters a lot..wat u give is wat u get..

TOLU MAKEOVERS said...

in other news??????......on to the next thing abegi. If u don't wanna be tagged Gay, then act manly, how hard can that be.....

Anonymous said...

Tosin or wats ur name, abeg shup up ur dirty mouth. Who askd u to advertise ur self here. Go n sleep jor

Anonymous said...

Linda, I'll have to say I'm disappointed with your sub comment. For Christ's sake, there are guys that act and look feminine and yes! they can't help it. Its a question of hormonal inbalance and he doesn't have control over that so pleasé spare him of the criticisms and let him be. This only shows how enormous his problem is if you guys all see his 'other' side. I can only imagine what he goes thru' daily. ~Breeze

Anonymous said...

Dis guy have lost it completely!.. I pity ur ass cos is already on fire!.. He is a confirmed gay!!! QED!

Anonymous said...

Aaaaaawwww Tosin ,i feel so sad for u,cos u don't realise how foolish and stupid u sound. U go about acting like a gay,nd u need advice cos gay guys think u gay. Pls stand infront of a mirror and say that to yourself,only then will u realise,u v been fooling urself. U need help desperately ...u better go c a pastor. #chai! No sense at all.

temitope anisere said...

Lol, this is serious, libers make una leave tosin alone oooo, abeg

Anonymous said...

Linda good response!

Anonymous said...

1st to comment + nobody shld give this Anuofia attention abeg

Anonymous said...

His obviously a confusd fag... Fagilolo!!!! *booos* go nd seek attention smwhr else. Fool.

shonni said...

Let the hate begin.......!!!

Anonymous said...

Tosin Silver watever... R u expecting us to praise and worship u...change ur ways abeg... Many pple were molested wen dey were young bt dey had to fight against it. So do the same.. And stop blaming pple For ur ways.. Mschewwwww #bee

Anonymous said...

Gehn gehn!!!*jus passing*1st to comment dancing antenna

Anonymous said...

Don't listen to people. U need to work on urself and pray for God's grace to carry on. I was molested too and was a lesbian in high school. I told myself I can't live my life like dis,i seek God and he answered me. Parent always kip ur eyes on ur kids both male n female. Tosin u can leave ur past behind u and start acting like a male,dat pic says a lot.

Anonymous said...

Get a life! next please!

esimobi ebube said...

ya linda just sais everything dude i hv big tighs too o just go to d gym or work out @ home .u r ur problem period

Anonymous said...

Tosin ooooooo.pls stop posing and pouting like a woman who is seeking attention from men and no one will call u gay.dats the first key to solving your problem.

Beatrix mac said...

Why will u want to show ut feminine side to d whole world u as for the publicity so deal with it.and as for ur parent I don't think they will be happy with u .honestly u are jobless

Gold Emy said...

well m a med student n lookin at it from dat perspective, probably he just has medical issues making him have female features....just sayin

tuffcookiey said...

Dear Tosin, u look and act gay, so don't get upset whn ppl call u gay... cos d way u present urself, is d way u will be addressed. If u r not a gay, then dress, sit and look like real men do..and believe me, no one will call u gay.... unless u r down with a gay disease or rather curse... then u need therapy.

Anonymous said...

How can you pose like this and expect people to not comment. I am thinking you are still in the closet and afraid to come out.

Anonymous said...

Linda,I don't think u shld give a comment if u don't have a nice thing to say. This guy seems emotionally battered,there's somthing off about him.I agree,d first time he seemed like he was seeking attention but dis second post doesn't seem like a joke to me,it seems like he needs help but he doesn't even know it. Linda people look up to u,u shld have said something encouraging.it would have gone a long way.

Anonymous said...

Tosin i hate to say it but i think you may give thesame reply as those people as many nigerians would if this wasnt about you. The best advise i have for you is to draw strength from the lord and i believe he will help you overcome any difficulty. No need to think along the line of suicide eh, its totally not needed.

patalex said...

Lol, I love this drama

Anonymous said...

Lolllll.......tosin if you had the solution to your problem why put in the internet?and if truely u had a problem u know the right people to talk to,ur just an ass....
Just a cheap guy seeking for attention,oopsss u got it happy now?you have feminie side so what(are u the first)?your now calling names pointing fingers,gays,lesbian,fornicators,adultery,drug dealers.......so who's judging now??
Please,get off this blog we don't need dry stories like yours.

Anonymous said...

Toyin abi Tosin,infact Tosomething hit the gym and build ur muscle,the muscles will eat up the fat in your body and you will look like real Man....and slow down on female cosmetics and frozen chicken(they contain estrogens that make u look feminine).

Anonymous said...

N linda how do u help wit tht ur last comment?u well so?

Lois Smith said...

He's a joker...

Sunshine Tzu said...

Take a cue from how other 'manly' guys dress and copy some of the good ones. As for the abuse, when you go around wearing bum shorts meant for girls and posing in agirb fashion that shows off all your laps, you do have yourself open to insults. Cheers and Goodluck on your makeover.

patalex said...

I just had a rethink of this boy's issue. Truth be told, if he was molested as a child then he needs our help. At such a tender age, it might have damaged his pychology and confused his sense of sexuality. I think he needs to see a pychologist to help treat him of his infirmity of the mind.

Anonymous said...

THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR CONCLUSION LINDA, WELL SAID. NIGGER,ALL YOU SAID IS BULLSHIT. AND AS FOR YOU BLAMING IT ON THE FACT THAT WE ARE NIGERIANS AND THATS WHY WE REASON THE WAY WE DO, WELL NIGERIANS ARE THE HONEST PEOPLE YOU'LL EVER MEET. YOU CANNOT PRESENT AKARA TO US AND EXPECT US TO CALL IT BREAD,LOL. YOU SAID IT UR SELF THAT UR A GUY AND PEOPLE THINK YOU ARE FEMININE, LOOK AT THE STUPID WAY A GUY IS POSING FOR A PICTURE AND YOU EXPECT TO BE ADDRESSED AS A MAN. U KNW YOUR PROBLEM, WORK ON IT AND STOP SEEKING FOR ATTENTION, YES I SAID IT!!! COZ U OBVIOUSLY ARE. A WORD IS ENUF FOR THE WISE.

Bola Olagunju said...

Yeah I know not all effeminate men are gay but most nigerians don't know this...I wish u success in your fight against paedophilia and life generally

blaqmagikman said...

Lol. You had 15minutes earlier, now another 15minutes. Hope you enjoy your 30minutes of fame. On the real though, if you're not "Gay" as you claim, then you need to make some changes. Your dressing being number one, and you might want to hit the gym. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

Mathew 7:1-5

Anonymous said...

Abi o Lin lin, go advise.

Anonymous said...

Dear tosin. Nobodys perfect, yh we get. Buh c'mon. U cnt b postin pic lik tht nd expect us to not think u gay. Well to each his own. I hv nothing agnst gays n bisexuals.. We all answer to Eledumare....#shikena#

Anonymous said...

so true Linda.

That Girl said...

Why pose in such a provocative manner?
Oh u want us 2 hail u after that rambling piece?
You definitely are "on a long thing" !!

*Near me n see if I no go use stone break ur head

famous amos said...

dis guy na kur ihe na gba ka motor your femine looks aint abvious so stop creating awearness about it.my advice for you is to wear sometin more heavier like baggie.

Anonymous said...

Dear Tosin... I see your point and hpw the negative comments can be hurtful. Truth be told we all judge others every min, hour, day and you can testify to that. Unfortunately thats d world we live in. Ur apperance at a job interview wud be judged which is y most pple take their time to dress and act in ways that wud generate positive/good judgements. So my dear, the truth is ur pictures and the way u carry urself all points to being gay. You cant hold it against anybody to call you gay cos thats what you put out there. Also you have come to a social media to discuss it with pple who dont know you personally so ofcourse they would pass judgements based on ur pictures. Dont take it to heart, read the positive side of some messages and move on withur life bearing in mind that if you really want to be treated like a man, you have got to act like one. Pls pls pls dont allow the sickness and fleshy desire of an abuser determine who and what you are. If truely you arent gay, try and i repeat try and learn hw to act more manly okies. God be with you in all ur endeavours!
*Sorry you had to go through such abuse* God be with you!
Ms Chi

Anonymous said...

@Linda what's all dis undeserved attentions u r giving dis faggot? Hian!!! Can u pls stop posting anyfin abt dis ugly kid? So disgusting....

Hush

Anonymous said...

Useless boy. If u pose like this why wouldnt someone molest u? Ure a big fool. Ure reply makes no sense. Or are u ashamed u were caught out. Ppl will judge if u put urself out there to be judged. Ppl with sincere issues are advised. U just wanted attention so pls just shut it

SomebodySpecial said...

If you didn't want people to talk about you, you should never have sent the story to linda. You are seeking attention.

mariam adeleke said...

Actions speak louder than voice. The problem you are have is as a result of wrong actions. You can expect a goat to be called a sheep because that is what the goat wants.No! It is the outlook apparance that makes the animal goat not sheep. Once you change your dress sense, people will address you well. You are addressed, the way you dress.

Queen Bee said...

Lol
Lol
And Jesus said:He without sin cast the first stone.....and now LIBers with many SINs have casted stones!
What we do now'?
Bros no vex joor!
But na wetin dem see dey use judge u#kapish?

Rakel Mbang said...

Nigerians need to learn to criticize in a constructive way. Tosin, what advise do you need, just stop acting feminine. Like Linda said, there's a difference between looking feminine and acting feminine. What do you want people to say? Just stop acting feminine. Tosin abeg, while at it, visit my blog biko, it's raqueldaily.blogspot.com
I have fashion tips for you and you can also share your male but feminine fashion sense.

Anonymous said...

e don be for dis girl sorry emm dude.......linda for d umpteen time weldone,na look i dey look u

Anonymous said...

LMAO!!!!

Anonymous said...

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!!!!!,next pls????

Anonymous said...

your right man! they've got no right to judge you even the linda for all we know sins way more than you and shes talking about how you posed for photo. good luck keep your head up high. may God bless you!

Hrm paul ojeih said...

JUST ONE WORD FAG

IfyCynthetic said...

Who cares really?

IkwerreBoy said...

hahahaha laff wan kill me ok ooo well make una know say if this guy commit suicide all of una wey give negative comments na murderers ooo... He says masturbation is a sin please Mr Tosin verify from Pastor Chris before making such claims... lol

Anonymous said...

Oh! Common shut up. Hw can u pose like dat and u say ur not gay! What kind of impression are u creating. Young man go and find out what ur problem is and deal with it, ur as confused as u look.

teeto said...

Ahhh,Tosin eyaf taken dis issue muscular!!as a girl ℓ̊ cannot pose †ђξ way you do..maybe u shld start acting lyk a guy..its like u even used lip gloss..loooool

Anonymous said...

Tosin why are you causing all this commotion? You know the type of homophobic country you live in! You act like you don't know your people! Nigerians can't accept anything that deviates from what is considered the "norm"! So stop trying to impose what you want others to think about the way you look and act! If you don't care about what people say or think about you, then why all this??? For your own good, focus on your life and stay away from the Internet!

Anonymous said...

Wots on his lips like that?..lip gloss ,vaseline abi mmanu akara lwkmh..let he who is witout sin be d 1st to cast d stone*angel*

Anonymous said...

Loooool

SIMPLYCOCK said...

You're so interesting Fag...bet you, the way your girly looks invite, your tonnes of toasters are ready to pay up their lives just to drive home their aching shaft up your tight vagina..sorry, anus!

Anonymous said...

Hey Talkative, u dress n pose like gay and u expect not to b judge, u'r so not OKAY ewu owerri. Get a life and dress, walk, act like a man.

Anonymous said...

Ur feminine and u act feminine, u were molested as a kid and u want to fight against it? Haba! How! By taking des pics holding ur breast! Oh! Damn it!! Ur are just dumb, stupid and confused. Ur trying to build emotions but sorry guy it did work. If u like commit suicide it does not add value to d society. U just reduced d nigerian population. Go get a life, pity ur family ur just disgracing them.

T said...

A marriage shall be considered valid only if the wife is a virgin. If the wife is not a virgin, she shall be executed.
(Deuteronomy 22:13-21)
...Tosin you can use this as a weapon to those who think just cos the old testament said homosexual are abominations...new testament has come out and preached about love for all. All people do is to pick and choose whatever suits them.

Melvina Owoh said...

Lolz... Pélè my guy! I'm happy u saw positivity in all the negative comments! I have only one advice for u... If u dnt want to be labeled gay, stop acting it... When I first saw ur pix on this blog, I was forced to call u gay until I read ur story!though u said u're not gay, ur pix is saying otherwise!U know everyone won't be patient to read ur story... The pictures we paint tell a lot about us! Paint ur pictures STRAIGHT and u'll be called STRAIGHT!

skillz said...

how can u pose like dis n accept positive coments

Anonymous said...

Tosin hi,I don't usually respond or comment abt pple stuff bt urs got to me.when u listen to some pastor.sam adeyemi's messages u hear him saying dat telling pple ur problems will only increase it rather tell it to God who won't judge bt forgive.

skillz said...

how can u pose like dis n xpect a positive coments

Anonymous said...

Linda, you are a journalist, the first thing a journalist should learn is professionalism and that comes with being objective. Your personal view about your story should be kept to yourself. Report the story the way it is and please, learn to keep your comments to yourself, stop putting word in your bloggers' mouth. I really dislike the way you have handled Tosin's issue, am very disappointed.

Grace Ndifon said...

Dis shemale go and rest biko... I have better things to worry abt, u don't want to be labelled gay? Then stop acting like 1.. Linda u don make this guy overnight celeb o...

Anonymous said...

those pics were nasty and I think you should see a psychologist.

Grace Ndifon said...

Dis shemale go and rest biko... I have better things to worry abt, u don't want to be labelled gay? Then stop acting like 1.. Linda u don make this guy overnight celeb o...

mike said...

My guy, i don't know about the other comments that people previously posted about you oh! I am just seeing your pictures today on Linda's blog. The pictures you posted indicate a guy posing in a feminine way and it makes you look like you're gay or promoting that lifestyle. If that is your lifestyle (Being Gay etc) that is your business & no one should judge you but God). But you cannot expect to post such pictures and not expect Nigerians to give you hell about it. Are you a Learner? You basically put yourself on blast! Did you really expect Nigerians to be sympathetic towards you after posting such pictures looking like a guy carrying on like a woman with lipgloss on and very tight shorts posing with legs crossed n all! come on man what the fuck!

SO LIKE LINDA SAID......

Dear Tosin, the issue is not the way you look, it's the way you act. I mean, look at these photos for goodness sake. What you put out is what you get back. So work on yourself. All the best! L
Dont straddle the fence. If you're gay, then be that, many Alahaji's go like you. If you are confused then seek counselling. If not Gay, then don't act like it. Especially not in naija of all places. Best of luck brah!

Anonymous said...

This attention seeker is back again. Thats what happens to attention whores when you give them a platform to air their dirty laundary!
Linda, pls dont pay any attention to this c$ock sucker anymore; LIBers dont care about him and so should you. X OUT!!!

micky sampsons said...

Came across Sum Gurl Lastweek...was actually finking shezz the most stewpid person av seen all ma entire life..Buh Ah WaZ Wrong..This Tosin Boy Is...Geh A Life!!!

Anonymous said...

Linda ow much did dis dude pay u for dis publicity abeg free him he can be whatever he wants to be who cares am tayad of seeing his ugly face

Bunmi said...

My friend put some clothes on and stop all the half naked pictures. People will relate with you based on the way you present yourself. You can't change who you are but if you carry on acting like gay its only normal that they treat you as such. Stop posing like a girl and looking like "come and do".

Anonymous said...

Silly faggoty boy. Yes we know that there are other sins. The topic here is homosexuality so we will condemn it to the end. Same as other topics being for other days. Faggots are scum of the earth. Period.

Ameriestyle said...

looool
www.ameriestyle.com

Anonymous said...

Linda the way uve spoken is not the way others have spoken. I mean go back to the post and read all them comments again. Its well tosin. GBU :-)!

Anonymous said...

Linda the way uve spoken is not the way others have spoken. I mean go back to the post and read all them comments again. Its well tosin. GBU :-)!

linda's nemesis ..*BITE ME!!* said...

Linda ikeji!! You are so bias in your comments cos you lick ass too much and I don't blame you... You are so unprofessional and annoying gosh!! Leave the comments to us please, jeeze!! Don't worry I won't comment again! I just wanted to get this out of my system... Silly girl.. If you like don't post my comment, just read it that's all!!

Anonymous said...

On Facebook, he says he's bisexual when people were asking questions about a provocative picture w another man. The story shifts depending on the audience.

TOLUWALASHE'S BOO said...

This guy get time sha.
When you could have easily cursed their generations and their unborn childern.
Foolish goats.
Walahi, na murderers full this blog.
Nobody is perfect you bloody pigs.

QWERTY said...

Go grow a beard son...

jacquelyn said...

Why is he just mentioning now he was molested by a man as a kid? Cnt remember reading that the other time he wrote. Plz he shld get a life, body build and stop catwalking or acting like a girl. And for attention oh yea u are definately seeking it. So pack well jooor.all the comments I rwad about your last mail I cnt remember anyone potraying any holy @ thou attitude so what ever they are atleast they are not pretending and covering up with pretense.

Sweetest Honey said...

Oya elenu razor LIBERS make una dish out again as usual round two of all diss of life!

Chei! Ah i pity ds boy ooo d kind yabof life him go receive today ooo!

Oya make una start i dey here dey observe! *grabskulikuliandgarriŴi̶̲̅τ chilled water*

Anonymous said...

Nice Advise Linda,u r addressed the way you dress.work on urself n be d best

BARBIE said...

Gay nigga pls shift from our faces,ur just boring *yawns*

Anonymous said...

Linda, u don talk am finish. He shud work on his packaging else he remains a fag in my mind

Anonymous said...

Aunt Lin,i go give you mob to go mob river-Niger if u bring this guy matter up again. Abeg we need better story not this IKD Native fowl Gay.

BelLaBomba said...

Lol,e painam. Well tosin,truth is bitter. And as de say,seen is believing,u don't nid an advice from people here am pretty sure people u know tell u wht to do about ur look,bt u still won't take it. Y wait fr advice in aunty lindas blog fr u to change. Plss and pls work on urself and stop looking fr attention stylishly.

Anonymous said...

This guy definitely want a sex change. He seriously want to be a woman. Crazy punk ass nigga. A nice place is reserved for you in hell if you don't change your ways.
Why is this nigga not even arrested yet or is he not in Nigeria?
Olu.

Anonymous said...

Exactly. Nobody is perfect. People here may practice a lot of d things u mentioned but they don't pose the same way in pictures. Jst like linda said, its not d way u look, its d way u act.

Anonymous said...

i'm not dissing this dude, but there in no way in hell u r straight. feminie is Kanye West your my brother is in the Closet.. You are who u are bro embrace it

Adora said...

To be sincere Tosin, u dont even have any feminine look. it is how u act that makes u think so.

Anonymous said...

where is the feminine looks, you made yourself look that way.personally I doubt if you are straight.

oje said...

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) tosin don vex any way nigerians insult 2 much dier bad mouth no b here at all all u sinners criticising tosin check urself 1st

Anonymous said...

You are do right Linda, it's the way he acts. If you don't want to be labelled one, then don't act it. Jeez is it too act to grasp. Why do you have to wear body fitted clothes,. Advice- wear masculine clothes and possible work out. #peaceout

Anonymous said...

Exactly. No one is perfect. A lot of people do a lot of the things u mentioned but u don't see them posing in pictures in the act of those things. Just like Linda said, its not d way u look, its d way u act.

Anonymous said...

Guy you don't look feminine in any way, you just act like a chic and not just any chic a whore for that matter, so forgive me for calling you GAY.

Anonymous said...

linda you did not make it any easier on the guy right now, you of all people sill judging him y na? its between him and God you have no right to judge but that wont stop people smh

Anonymous said...

Linda its ur fault because u keep approving stupid comments including that "first to comment" nonsense.

chukwu chuddy said...

m nt gonna beef u mr tosin buh on a more seriouz note! u jst av 2 accept urself d way u are coz u are amazing jst d way u are!! gay or no gay, bisexual or no bisexual u are gurlish buh straight!!! shikina. ms lindi listic xup na?

esan abiodun said...

Guy just TRY not to act lyk a girl... Expect more yabbing sha...#sits back and eats popcorn#

Anonymous said...

Dear tosin silver I think d advice given to you is worth a try,u knw ur appearance determines the way people interprete you,but if your character displays a different background of you then, you will make it difficult for them to interprete you as gay just try to act masculine n feel d masculinity deep inside you and I am sure people will regret insulting you

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