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Tuesday, 15 September 2015

Parents release photo of daughter born at 24-weeks saying 'She's not a foetus

A grieving mum has released a heartbreaking photograph of her premature daughter who was delivered at the 24-weeks which is legally the abortion limit in the UK.
Born just 24 weeks into her mother’s pregnancy, the baby who was named Adelaide was too small to survive.

The image of the tot reaching up as she let out a cry is the only picture her parents have of her alive.
Service Advisor Emily Caines, 25 from Yeovil, Somerset and husband security guard Alastair Caines, 29,  released the photograph in a bid to open up the debate about abortion.
The current law allows babies to be terminated up to 24 weeks gestation, the same as Adelaide when she was born.
She said:
"Our picture shows Adelaide was not a feotus she was a fully formed human being and to think that a baby like her could be legally terminated  on grounds of a lifestyle choice is to me is horrifying. Medical grounds is a different matter.
"Our hospital was amazing and did all they could but Adelaide suffered complications which made it impossible for her to survive but many babies born at 24 weeks do live.
"That makes a mockery of the 24 week legal limit."
Tragically Mrs Caines had already lost her first baby daughter Isabelle at 23 weeks after going into premature labour in September 2011. She died during delivery.

It was in the agonising weeks after her loss that she met and married her current husband who is Adelaide's father.
Mrs Caines explains: "I was grieving and dreading the first anniversary of losing Isabelle so when Alistair suggested we get married on that day at first I was surprised but then I agreed it was a lovely idea."
The couple married on September 8 2012 at her parent’s villa in Portugal.

Soon after marrying the couple began trying a baby together but after struggling to conceive, doctors found scar tissue blocking Mrs Caine’s fallopian tubes.
They were told their only chance was IVF and she fell pregnant after their first try.
At 20 weeks they learned they were expecting a girl and were relieved to pass the 24 week stage, when medics are legally obliged to help save the life of a premature baby.
Mrs Caines said: "Only then did I buy her a baby grow and Alistair bought her a pink cuddly bunny."
But just three days later she started to bleed and was rushed to Southmead Hospital in Bristol which has a specialist premature baby unit.
Mrs Caines was rushed into theatre for an emergency section on December 27 2013 and her husband was at her side when their tiny daughter was lifted out by medics and let out a cry.
That’s when a doctor took the only picture of their daughter alive at the birth on the couple’s camera.
Mrs Caines said: "That cry filled us with so much hope. Her little fists were waving and I could see the doctors working on her."
But after an hour they told the couple that it was proving impossible to get a line into their daughter’s lungs to help her breathe.
They agreed the kindest ting was to let her go.
Mrs Caines said: "Thinking of my daughters together was the only thing that got me through arranging another funeral.
"We were utterly heartbroken again."
Five months later they started another round of IVF and Mrs Caines is now 20 weeks pregnant with what she calls her ‘rainbow baby.’
She hopes that following a stitch in her cervix the pregnancy will progress normally. Her son is due in January 2015.
She said: "The theory of the rainbow baby is that something beautiful will follow the devastation caused by the storm.
"I hope sharing our story gives hope to others and helps other parents who have suffered a loss."

35 comments:

Unknown said...

Wow!

Unknown said...

Am I the only one that think this woman looks like Katy Perry!😳.. What a resemblance

Unknown said...

So babies @ the stage of 24weeks is already form like this?
So inspiring.

Unknown said...

So babies @ the stage of 24weeks is already form like this?
So inspiring.

Blog It With Olivia said...

†ђξ baby is soooooooooo tiny....doubt if I can carry her, will just slip through my hands....always scared of carrying new born babies, wonder how I will cope with mine...
Αи∂ †ђξ story is quite touching...












#it WiLL onLy gEt beTTer
#iT muSt End In PrAise

Gabby said...

Wowww, its horrific to think its legal for selfish people to get rid of such beautiful souls..

LETTER TO THE FRIENDZONED 

www.glowyshoe.com said...

Wow this is really a full blown baby... She will rejoice with the birth of her child..

Glowyshoe blog

Unknown said...

Hian

Unknown said...

24 weeks, haba! Dis is a fully formed Baby na. I hope their government looks into the law dat allows abortion at dat stage. Linda take note!

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

God is faithful

aproko manager said...

If na 9ja d man go don run since e go say na juju or witch for vila

Unknown said...

Oh!

Precious baby and I pray d Lord keep dis baby alive for testimony unto mount zion IJN.

I B M bolubantin said...

Such a miracle

Anonymous said...

what is graphic about that pic?

ary said...

wow, they get that big at 24 weeks?! That is definitely no foetus.

Unknown said...

This world is really coming to an end, 24 weeks baby legal for abortion, that's killing. May God forgive us.

Anonymous said...

Omg omg!
I ve got tears in my eyes reading this.
Dear rainbow baby, plssss wipe ur mum's tears

Unknown said...

Linda, this remind me of my loss at 23wks triplet early this year. I wish we had better health care system here* and

Unknown said...

This heart wrenching.....it is well.











#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

This heart wrenching.....it is well.











#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

eehhaa. this baby will not die but stay to bring joy and laughter in the family.it is well here

Anonymous said...

Ofcuz a 6 months item in the womb is not just a foetus. Its an actual baby. That one na news ?

Anonymous said...

Amazing story. Truly encouraging. May God bless the rainbow baby and cause him/her to be born safely.

Unknown said...

Quite touching story....

Unknown said...

Yes. She has the same blue eyes like Ms. Perry...you're so right!

Juleslouis said...

My thoughts exactly. D resemblance is uncanning. Ladies pls stop abortion!!! Stick to abstinence, pills or whatever but pls stop murdering your babies!

Anonymous said...

She undermines her point because the baby couldn't survive in spite of appearance. Though she claims the contrary, the point she really makes is a pregnancy at that stage can be terminated because the faetus can't survive outside the womb.

Anonymous said...

Yes oh,,"is already form like this"....

Ode!so u shld stop aborting already..Mumu

Queen Romzy said...

Eyah

Unknown said...

Oh she try

Unknown said...

Chai!

Unknown said...

Wow, that's nice

Unknown said...

I can teach you how to carry yours...
In your stomach and how to carry with care....lol

Anonymous said...

Was the insult necessary??? Linda pls stop posting comments from cyber bullies. Classless bunch!

Unknown said...

It's well

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