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Friday, 18 September 2015

BeingFemaleInNigeria: Twitter user tells weird story..

Lol, how can you hit a woman's car and request to speak to her husband to resolve the issue? Some people are not well sha! Read the rest of the woman's experience today after the cut...

161 comments:

Unknown said...

Don't mind this uncivilised men.
It can't happen in the western countries..

DIVABEE said...

You just messed it up by crying, ehn.. you should have called the police to handle the matter let him go and be explaining to the male police..nonsense, I would have slapped his face

seyi crown said...

Abi mo ti cry ni, I will let d man knw say I no well





Seyilicioous

Anonymous said...

If only you know what we men face too

Unknown said...

You cant be serious.U must be joking.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Sorry..... But this is really painfull though no doubt.... #NowPlaying bum short: christian krissy O.....
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Bonita Bislam said...

Male chauvinists are littered everywhere in this country & continent.It'll take us decades to reach countries like the US who have regards for women & even animals

hrm paul ojeih said...

Lol d man na mad man he simply is telling u go get married lol bit it's wrong sha d man na prick u bash somebody apologise and go ur way whicj one concern d husband

Unknown said...

Arrant nonsense! U could have taken de Idiot up. Did u allow him to walk away without paying for de damages? This is so unfair meeehn.


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NaijaDeltaBabe said...

I can relate well

QUEEN B said...

Very very hard! Dnt wish to be a woman in my next world?

AC£S said...

Sorry ma

STERN said...

Lol do u girls know anything about a car? Is it not just to enter and drive like that. Most of u even forget to check the oil and water in the radiator. Assuming he called something like crankshaft or valve, would you know what it means? You probably may say "wait lemme call my husband". He just saved you the stress of calling him my dear.

Anonymous said...

Deal with it Linda you are are woman...if you like cry...

Mzz_Mary said...

If na me ehn
I will blow his head
He must repair my car
Wat nonsense

Unknown said...

She stood in d middle of d road n cried? Y wud she do dat? Oh ajebota pikin....way u for tia dat man head wit anythin way u c

Kemi said...

It goes to show that women are still considered inferior to men*smh*

Anonymous said...

Being a woman is hard ko.... enough of all this people who try to sound like victims...if a guy was the one involved it would mean nothing....mtchew...

Obidiyakool said...

Seriously, I think he has interest in u and wanted to know if u where married.

Anonymous said...

One day, i went to fix my nails at a salon, I complained that it wasnt fixed properly but the girls who fixed it said it was fine that i should take it home like that, that my wife will know its fine. I'VE NEVER FELT MORE HUMILIATED IN MY LIFE! #beingamanishard#

Unknown said...

Is that a naija movie cos dis story can't be real!

Anonymous said...

Dear so sorry about that..all this are gonna change in no time....respect for all gender...regardless of marital status..

kemikane said...

Funny but stupid though what if she isn't married.

Unknown said...

He's not well atal like seriously

Blog It With Olivia said...

Illiteracy burns into d brain











#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise

Unknown said...

My Dear, dats the harsh reality of life. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

My Dear, dats the harsh reality of life. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

My Dear, dats the harsh reality of life. Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

Because u ll end up shouting..and he doesn't want noise

APPLELIPX said...

Lol
You shouldn't have cried
He just dint have money to repair it and he knows u will never take a sorry for an answer

He needed to talk to a man with enough family wahala like his

Anonymous said...

Well, you ladies started this. I have, on many occasions, seen ladies whose cars were hit, or who hit other people's cars, prefer not to discuss with the other parties until there husbands arrive. Some ladies will even give the other party the phone to "talk to my oga".

Unknown said...

No! Nononononono dat is stupid! Hee wouldn't dare married or not u hit ma fuckingg car n u ggotta pay I ain't gon take no shit lik dat,u mention husband peren n ur done! Y d fuck were u cryin??? U shlda done somfin!

DIVABEE said...

You just messed it up by crying, ehn.. you should have called the police to handle the matter let him go and be explaining to the male police..nonsense, I would have slapped his face

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Unknown said...

Awful...

Anonymous said...

Most Nigerian men are stupid.
One insulted me yesterday on my way to the bank as I was trying to park.
And their typical insults are "asawo" " this one no fit get husband" " I get your type for house". They are the definition of f?ckery

Unknown said...

Eyaaaa dohhh.

Anonymous said...

Oooooooooooh,cry for what na???the man should thank his star he dint meet som1 like me,he for hear am.harrant nonsense w

FRESH said...

You should have given him a very dirty slap! Stupid man.

Anonymous said...

i think this is the dumbest i have seen men get.
if our country was developed u could totally sue their asses

aproko manager said...

Doh

Unknown said...

This is funny sha.
Well, I think they just used your head.

Unknown said...

The man is very lucky that he didn't hit the vehicle of a hot tempered woman. It would have been an experience he won't forget in a hurry. Imagine the rubbish.












#TeamBlessed#

Lady C said...

So DAT is d reason behind d woman is hard abi

bummyla said...

The guy must be a Muslim and an Hausa man! http://www.bummyla.com

Unknown said...

Being a woman in NIGERIA is hard!!!!

Northern Princess 7 said...

lol

Alloy Chikezie said...

Smh.

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Unknown said...

One of Dos tins.. I strongly beliv in gender equality
















Lib freak

Unknown said...

Lol. Some men thinks like kids .

Anonymous said...

Chauvinist pigs everywhere in naija

ary said...

Africa is masochistic continent. We still live in the ADs

Unknown said...

Her cup of tea

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yvejohn said...

If u had bitten off the man's ear,he for get mouth dey ask for husband's number. He should come and try that in edo state,b4 1 second,the man's lower or upper lip and ears will be on d floor. Nonsense. some stupid men will be doing like they're superior. U bash my car,u dey ask for my husband number,b4 u know it, all ur sense organs will be crawling on d floor, that's if incoming buses don't smash them b4 he picks them. Trash.

yawanow said...

And a whole lot. If it were possible, men would stop us from driving all coz they don't like how we drive.

FRANCA said...

You should have slapped the mouth he was using to say that. Foolish men everywhere. smh.

Anonymous said...

Sorry about that;i ve been a victim. Mine was a commercial bus and he cursed me and zoomed past me before I could park. Understand hw u feel

Anonymous said...

U are stupid to let a man who hit u get away with intimidating u. Is it ur husband who drove d car? Tell d idiot to ride with u to d mechanic and settle d bills biko. Must every woman be married? When u get to heaven,will God ask of ur wedding ring/husband before u stand judgement? Smhhh

Unknown said...

Dat wot dey do! A is driving & she does a lil mistake ....all dey say is....na woman no mine na woman ..smh.

Unknown said...

Dat wot dey do! A is driving & she does a lil mistake ....all dey say is....na woman no mine na woman ..smh.

Anonymous said...

It must be a YORUBA Man!!!

Juleslouis said...

This is crazy! I think d man did it to shy away from d expense. Nawah! Women run d world but last last its a man's world.

Unknown said...

WTF? If I found myself in such situation en, I ll just get a stone or good stick, hit his windscreen, & I ll tell him t gv me d fone numb of his wife, so as t explain t her ao hurt & humiliated I was wen her husband hit my car.......
The guy is a bastard fr treating her lik dat probably dats d way he treated his wife or mum @hm, bcs if he could do dat t a lady out there.... definitely he can treat his mother in such manner.....

Anonymous said...

That's why you have jack and wheel spanner.
Break his windshield and lights tell him to wait for your husband and talk man to man with him.

obietrezy said...

You're just a fool for crying for no reason....... Abegi go and sleep.... Jor oh

Anonymous said...

Really? Crying? You know first of all seize his car key, then pay some agberos to pound well, then he'll be in the mood to talk.

Golda Awosika said...

Babe, na you dey dull. Had it bn u have showed him madness, e wud ve sn dat dia is no need for a husband to solve d problem. Trust myself tho
#*karlishah*

Ladun Liadi said...

Nahhhhh. Being a woman aint hard just cos idiots exist.

Unknown said...

This is kinda funny....

Chambermoore's Blog said...

Chai!! This is too bad

Spicygirl said...

Girl...being female in. Nigeria means you have to stand up amd fight for yourself,esp against discrimination!! Your crying solved NOTHING!!! My advice?? Next time...MAN up!!

Unknown said...

Being a woman is hard? Like seriously? I wish u can be a man for just one week and see how it is like. To start with, u might not even hav d car u r driving now

Unknown said...

Sweetheart being a woman isn't hard. Those men are just plain stupid and iliterate.

Unknown said...

This must be a joke

knowurway.com said...

Lol. The man is a poor man that is why, and he think if he beg u, u won't gree that was why he wanted to speak with ur husband.

Anonymous said...

But you see yourself? A man simply bullied you small and you started crying - for why? Maka gini? You are the people that makes these foolish men try to bully us! Just crying for no reason! Rubbish!

SMURF said...

I still don't get.

Anonymous said...

Den go do transgender na wetin de now

Anonymous said...

Your story sounds so untrue...that is if your car was truly bashed! You didn't hold him by the collar that's why he had the nerve to insult you

Anonymous said...

BUT.....WHY WOULD YOU CRY.....THEN YOU WONDER WHY THEY ARE TREATING YOU LESS THAN HOW THEY SHOULD HAVE........ROLLING MY EYES AT YOU WOMAN.

I B M bolubantin said...

Sorry sweetheart...it is not our fault

Unknown said...

What rubbish!

Y u no give am ur army uncle phone number?

Anonymous said...

Crying keh? I will land him a good slap to jar him back to reality! How has crying helped you?

sleek said...

Well for me, he'll simply talk to my male lawyer. What nonsense.

Anonymous said...

No be small thing-o. It is obvious many Nija men are chauvinists. Next time stand your ground and stop crying....bcos then you feel like crap and they feel like the boss of you 4 nothing..

Anonymous said...

No be small thing-o. It is obvious many Nija men are chauvinists. Next time stand your ground and stop crying....bcos then you feel like crap and they feel like the boss of you 4 nothing..

Anonymous said...

I think this story is false. Didn't happen. Where did it take plc? How did it end? Then she rushes 2 tweet & grab attention & sympathy as she cried croc. LIER-LIER!

Anonymous said...

Lol....i have also heard, "you know I am woman, I don't know much about all this things (e.g cars or anything mechanical/electronics)...."
Women go all "feminist" only when it's suits theeir argument!
So you really can't blame men alone, it's about our society, men and women alike!

Jimoh Rapport said...

Too bad to hear other men agreed to that! Bullcrap who does that?

Ijanyimitch said...

Mehn some things I hear sha

Diuto said...

He's a fooolll!!!! Men could be demented in such situations. Ask for his wife since he doesn't understand. Mugu. I just cant

Anonymous said...

The lady is a mumu sorry to say, instead lash them and say ur piece of mind like does it look like you are jobless and cant afford 1.... abeg thats not an excuse to cry

Unknown said...

Oh no,Damn...Sister i'm very sorry for that but believe me,this is not as a result of being a woman,some men really are primitive FOOLS that really need to be sent to school or better still be taught what a moral exposure is all about.Such local primitive Fools can as well say this kind of Shit to a young man they find much younger than them(who are ur parents?will like to sort it out with them)instead of appologising to him....Damn

Anonymous said...

#SexismInNigeria

Unknown said...

You're actually an Idiot. Imagine If the Woman was the one that hit the man car will he ask for her Husband's Number before dragging her? I'm a man but some things are just too low

Unknown said...

Its crazy... men treat ladies in nigeria as second clas peeps...

Unknown said...

Its crazy... men treat ladies in nigeria as second clas peeps...

Anonymous said...

Its crazy... men treat ladies in nigeria as second clas peeps...

D!D! said...

Receive sense. He hit her car. It's not like the silly man was servicing or repairing it. Crank shaft and valve #pele. Professional mechanic. As for the babe, crying for what? when you should have knocked sense into his head with your koi koi shoe.

Anonymous said...

Why were you crying??! Gosh! You should have asked to speak to his wife or even his child since he doesn't understand the implications of what he did and the process of engagement between motorists when an accident occurs. Thick bush skull! *hiss*

Anonymous said...

As much as I think what the man said is disgusting, I do agree with you that we ladies have brought it upon ourselves. I've also experienced it, where this dumb chick destroyed my car and started crying and said please she wants to call her husband. I'm like b, suck it up and let's handle this 'ish woman to woman! Women! You only teach people how to treat you. Thank God for my strong mother who raised me to be independent. Crying ke??! Lmao!

Anonymous said...

That is an insane response. Does your answer justify what happened? THINK MAN THINK!!!!

Anonymous said...

Don't mind the fools! Most of the mad idiots driving are men who have no business handling a vehicle!

jane o said...

Lmaoooooooo

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

I was at my tailor's place yesterday ooo. One oda girl dat came to measure cloth b4 me packed her vehicle infront of d house where d tailor's shop is. So d caretaker of d house came bk and blocked d girl at d back ooo without askin cos d girl packed in his space. D funny part is dat d man used his audi to block d girl's Mercedes 4matic 350 lool. D girl came out and wanted to go and saw dat she was blocked, she begged d tailor to Luk for d person dat blocked herr. So d tailor called d man and den told d girl dat she packed at d man's space. Dats why d man blocked her. Chhoi!! D girl flared up. Wen d man came out he saw d girl, instead of him to remove his car ooo, he looked at d girrl and entered back inside his house. Maybe cos she is a girl and luks small, dat was why he tink he can intimidate her. D girl entered keke, went home, brought anoda wicked car ( mercedes 4matic ooo, but dis one luks Lik a jeep), blocked d man. Nna mehn d street closed. Choi! D thing just dey sweet me for belle. She ttold d man dat if he tries nonsense, shee wil bring anoda car and block d street more. Nna mehn d man shut up by force. Dey started beggin her to remove d car. D man shamelessly removed his carr oo wen pple started blamin him. Lol.

Anonymous said...

Huh?
Gerrarahia mehn

Anonymous said...

Cave man

KWEEN said...

Can you just shut the fuck up? This isn't about crankshaft or valve! The bastard hit her car according to her and from his stupid reaction, he was at fault and Just wanted the easy way out. It is because of shallow minded men (fools) like him and you that this kind of rubbish is prevailing. Msheeeeew.

KWEEN said...

So dumb and dry *yawns*

KWEEN said...

Seriously! I'm so pissed right now. We will remain there o. I will seize his keys if I can, let's see if he'll beat me and collect them. Cry ke! I'll cause such a mighty scene that will eventually attract the police or soldiers. Then he can talk to them since they're men. But Jesus Christ knows there ain't no how I'd let that nigga move. I will delay his destiny there till he yields. See rubbish. It's just unfortunate he met a softie. Kai.

Unknown said...

Were d he'll are u from

Unknown said...

Hell

Anonymous said...

What if You r not married.

success sholly said...

i can't just belive some men are still under the kids mentality.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm. U are a strong woman. Not all of them are like dt d one dt hit my mum's car on sunday came out begging and she told him to go.

Anonymous said...

You're a very backward man.

Mrs CJ said...

This here killed me
Lwkm.
Linda your children are cray.

Anu Funke said...

Aswear

Anonymous said...

He didn't meet a cray cray woman cuz if he did he will he won't say that gibberish.




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JayBeyBlu said...

Gosh! The people that comment on this blog are so thick! What is this one saying?

Unknown said...

Your brain must be shalow to think everyone is as dumb as u re...cos even I as a woman will give u a lecture on all the parts of the car. Dumb

Anonymous said...

My dear u go go heaven!!! I'm wondering y she was crying... Ahhh me na police for come separate us!! Not everytime diva.. Sometimes one must bring out the agbero side :D

Udybabes said...

You must be on a high for writing this . I wonder how you treat your wife and kids @ home . Ode okunrin

Anonymous said...

Crying really. U shd have opened ur boot, take your wheel spanner and break his windscreen. Den he will stop asking for ur husband. A trailer driver tried dis wit me and he forked out the cash to fix my car immediately

annieslight said...

Dat man is simply a fool to say a thing like dat, without finding out if u were married or not

JaCkSoN said...

Lol dear, I feel u tbh
Buh na still woman cause all dis tin we dey suffa

Anonymous said...

Thunder fire your father...

Unknown said...

Who understands this confused fellow,u went to groom ur nails or fix ur nails? Are u insane

Anonymous said...

One word to define you. *MUMU HEADMASTER *

Anonymous said...

That's how most men are. We live in a very patriarchal society. Recently, I got into a verbal fight with a bus conductor who refused to give me change because to him I had change and refused to pay with it. I told him I had the right to pay with any denomination I had. He and the driver threatened to drive off with my money until I started yelling. Everyone in that bus supported them and cursed me with all sorts of nasty words. I fired back with the same nasty words. He eventually gave me the change. It's not always good to join issues with such disrespectful and uncivilized people but sometimes one can't help but fight back or better still involve the police.

Anonymous said...

Hahhhhhaaaaaaaa

Anonymous said...

U must be crazy!infact u are!wtf does the crankshaft or valve have to do with an accident? Some men in nigeria are just bullies!Thank God he didn't meet a woman like me,I would have wrecked his bloody car and asked him to call my husband to settle that!fuck boy!

Anonymous said...

You're a misogynistic bastard. Sexist idiot!

Eze said...

Please speak English dear.........how do u communicatie with ur boyfo/husband
All i could read was fuck and shit.....

Eze said...

Please speak English dear.........how do u communicatie with ur boyfo/husband
All i could read was fuck and shit.....

Eze said...

Please speak English dear.........how do u communicatie with ur boyfo/husband
All i could read was fuck and shit.....

Joan said...

Oh really, just cause your mechanic once mentioned "crankshaft" to u, u think your now a mechanical engineer...... U're disturbed.... sure u don't have a car sef

Unknown said...

Are you speaking english too? What is boyfo?

Anonymous said...

Imagine trash oh.dat was how one man tried getting to my front in traffic nd I refused...d next thing dis animal screamed at his own Mother "I blame you?' na ur husband wey buy motor give u wey I blame. Trust IGBO babe na- I Screamed bk " Atleast my husband buy motor give me' ur ashawo fada use him money wey him for take buy ur ugly mama car go use am buy Viagra. Omo! !!! MY guy just COLD for traffic oh.

Unknown said...

So how did wuna solve the issue, what happen at the end since you no get husband?

Anonymous said...

Why did u cry???? We IGBO chicks don't cry like dat oh.next time pick up a Rock nd use it to smash his prick den calmly ask him " can I speak to ur wife/gurlfrnd or sidechick bcz as a man u won't understand wat just happened to thy blokus. Then rally round and gather ur fellow women nd all of u should ask him to quickly call his wife so u pple can talk woman to woman.

Anonymous said...

That's the thing, how are we even sure he hit ur car, am sure for everyone around to agree that a third party should intervene, means probably you were claiming he hit u,meanehile u were probably the one who hit him. And he needs to speak with your husband. The law works with evidences, next time provide evidences(pictures) before you confuse people on social media. And for y'all talking about gender equality....SMH.....

Anonymous said...

True talk @ Stern

bimi said...

its really hard.that man is mad,i will not allow him go scot free,will show him what me,a woman is made off

Unknown said...

Babe, sorry oo. You for call any person you know in the military

Anonymous said...

Here is the thing, if a woman said that to a man, nobody would agree with her. In fact they would say she was rude. So if you don't know what it's like to be a woman in nigeria, If you someone doesn't take you Seriously because you are a woman and even in business all they see is someone they can potentially date, do not try to down play someone else's story like it's nothing.

Anonymous said...

And "fuck" and "shit" isn't english? Es español or c'est la lange français? Boy bye!

Anonymous said...

Really, u went to fix ur nail in the salon?

Anonymous said...

It depends on your perspective though he might have been trying to be respectful.

Anonymous said...

Is life my dear, yes is Nigerian crazy mentality with the classification and all but you still have to look it the other way round: being a man is hard too! how many women are scammers "YAHOO"
How many women are are going for blood money, how many women are swallowing dollar or drug... most that does these are MEN.
life is crazy, if they tell you women not to marry ... you will say is hard.
Okay, you have seen what Nigerian thinks of you women then and face it with all courage.
I am a man and I don't think so of women but you women should start teaching your children how to live like men in the society no matter what people say.
If you can't stand the pain, you don't deserve the fame.
jk23401@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

GOOD MAN!!

Unknown said...

you ownt understand, HE IS MARRIED TO A DUMB WOMAN that's why he thinks all women are same

Anonymous said...

Am sure the man that hit you is a yoruba man.

Unknown said...

Some people cool sha

mira cookie said...

Drag queen I guess

teetee said...

Even the western world dat u say is so called gender equal ask urslf is it really gender equal? If so y hasnt there been a female president in d US till date. Tk it or leave it, God never made us equal. Women were created frm d ribs of Men. If He the almighty so wished He would have created us frm dsame stuff He created the Men.

Unknown said...

Oh shut up. Your mouth like evidences.

Anonymous said...

@teeteegarko..so how you got here, did your father shit you out of his ass?

Unknown said...

you no first gather and cover his face with slap maybe hi sense will comeback.stupid man

Unknown said...

They take women for granted.....too bad

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