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Thursday, 20 August 2015

Dear LIB readers: My boyfriend does not like sex

From a female LIB reader. Read below...
"After reading all comments about the lady who found condoms in her hubby's car, I wondered if my boyfriend truly doesn't want us to have sex or is getting it somewhere.
We started dating in Jan, in which he claimed he was a virgin. I never even believed him until later. He feels we should wait till we get married before having sex.
He eventually had sex with me in May because I wanted and forced him. After then, he insisted we should just wait till marriage and gave his reasons (to avoid pregnancy, so the love won't fade away). I appreciate that but it still baffles me why a guy will be the one that doesn't like it, when many guys will even be sleeping around. So are there guys who are ready to wait till marriage or is he is only pretending and getting it elsewhere? Though we do a lot of smooching and touching and he comes.

235 comments:

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Medicc said...

Gbam correct

Unknown said...

@stern: you are just so dumb!

Anonymous said...

Is ur boyfriend a banker?

Anonymous said...

Ur rite @aproko manager

Atha said...

stern,u r shallow minded

Anonymous said...

You're an incredibly dumb fella

Unknown said...

He's not d only one.


OKORO UPGRADED**

Miracle Eze said...

My dear....Be happy for dat na

fola said...

Hmmmm!wot z dis world turnin 2?stern u ar d 1 dat z so stupid!!bcos d guy is more wiser dan u!as 4 u my dear sis u ar so lucky nd consider urself lucky.d guy truly loves u#fact either u take it or u leave it#b wise dat z ao it shuld be!nd dat z d kind ov manI want!no Sex till weeding 9t!dont tink am an SU ooo I knw wotxup,my dear am expose but not 2 rubbish!!!!

Anonymous said...

He's so gay.. Investigate him.. He's probabky using u as a cover!!

Unknown said...

Lolz u said u guys are doing touch touch n he comes dat one is sex oooooooo. Me I like dis kind man ooooooo dat will say after marriage

Miss Ferragamo said...

What some girls are praying for. Hian! Different strokes for different folks indeed.

Miss Ferragamo said...

Stern does it mean you love all the prostitute you've had sex with?

Unknown said...

Can Someone tell this Dumb bitch the Truth, you boyfriend is A fag

Anonymous said...

I don't usually comment on here but I will since ha e read bunch to fools and hypocrites comments.. Raise your hand here if you are a virgin or not sexually active .. Bunch of asshole spitting rubbish.. Two things dear.. It's either he's Gay or he has erectile dysfunctional I'm speaking from experience.. And probably the first time u guys had sex he had to use drugs which isn't good for his heart.. No man not even a pastor will advice you to marry a man you are not sure of his sexuality..he wants you to marry him before telling you he has a problem.. Be wise o.. Don't be trapped..

Unknown said...

He's gay

Anonymous said...

He may have HIV and would prefer to marry first before spreading it to the wife. For conscience ( of sorts) sake. I have heard of someone like that.

Anonymous said...

Ashamed for what Nigeria self. You people just want to sit on we women. In the future if there is problem same you will turn around and say did you not check when you were dating? Nonsense

Unknown said...

Sx outside responsibility is an iniquity. Why not celebrate a celebrity. That guy is very rare, appreciate

Anonymous said...

Look before u leap oooo, cos it will continue in marriage. And that will be more frustrating than this

Anonymous said...

Look before u leap oooo, cos it will continue in marriage. And that will be more frustrating than this

Unknown said...

Believe me he masturbates a lot and it kills his urge for sex..

jamal cojo said...

Stern is right *far too kind*

Anonymous said...

There re so many guys who do not want sex till marriage. Just sit back pls and love ur man. U have ntin to be scared of.

Anonymous said...

It is two ways,it may be he is pretending or born again Christia. If it is one you are in danger but if it is two congratulations. If you love sex alot pray for a partner that loves it too. If not before and after marriage you will have sex with another man. by Mr. B. Olumide.21/8/ 2015. 3:47am

Anonymous said...

Hon, he is gay. Just move on with your life. Bu dont force people to have sex. There are other ways to enjoy closeness without sex. In this case though, i think he is GAY or impotent

Anonymous said...

BEST COMMENT EVER GOES TO "STERN"....I ALREADY LIKE YOU...ADD ME ON BBM 58ED3A19

Anonymous said...

STERN...YOU ARE A TRUE MAN. ADD ME 58ED3A19

Anonymous said...

He is gay. That is the way they get wives now. They look for good Christian girls who t will not want to have sex and when u remarried, u are now stuck. Run ! It has happened to some people I know so get out now. May the Lord give u strength.

Anonymous said...

He is gay. That is the way they get wives now. They look for good Christian girls who t will not want to have sex and when u remarried, u are now stuck. Run ! It has happened to some people I know so get out now. May the Lord give u strength.

Unknown said...

Okponku stern

Anonymous said...

PLS INVOLVE GOD IN YOUR DECISIONS, SHOULD THIS EVEN BE IN THE FIRST PLACE(SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE) HE HAS NO PROBLEMS, HE JUST HAS PRINCIPLES

Anonymous said...

It's funny how people analyze issues. What's "born again" about a guy who engages in foreplay to the point of ejaculation? I simply think he probably has HIV and is worried about infecting u. It's obvious something is amiss.

Anonymous said...

U re just a foolish person, so sex is a sign of love. What is even wrong with you?

Unknown said...

If your guy is not a gay, then wait but try and investigate him well

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