I would like to share my problem and hopefully get some good advice on this predicament I have found myself. I am 24 and grew up in a Christian home where going to church was the only recreational activity allowed in my house. My parents are pastors and they pastor a large pentecostal church in lagos.Growing up in my house felt like a military camp, friends from school weren't allowed over and the only kids I got to associate with were pastors kids like myself and all we were allowed to discuss was the bible because watching TV wasn't even allowed except its a gospel program.
So naturally not having friends turned me into a quiet girl and I was the obedient and perfect girl to everyone and most parents wished they had me, but what all didn't know was that behind the quiet charming girl I was a totally different person. Years of being monitored and not being allowed to interact socially had messed up my sanity and sexuality, because since I was allowed to play with only girls I had learnt to develop emotional feelings for only girls.
Fast track to 4months ago, I have always kept my sexuality in check because I'm a pastors kid from an influential home and I couldn't just act out even if i wanted to. So one evening I was visiting a friend after work hours and I got introduced to this other friend of hers, and from the minute I set my eyes on her I knew I needed to have her and nature smiled on me and somehow we became an item.
She was everything I wanted and she fulfilled all my guilty pleasures and she was my first, thou I kept my last name and family background from her. Two weeks ago she calls me up and says that I haven't been treating her right that I never told her I was from a super rich home and since I had a name to protect that she needs 5million naira for Christmas shopping.
At first I thought she was crazy but now she's threatening to tell my folks and the entire church. My parents may have gotten it wrong in the child training section but they are good people and it would ruin their reputation if the church finds out.
So do I tell them the truth about my sexuality and impending disaster or do I pay her the N5m or do I just take the long rope and walk away from home and never return. Because either way I can't change my sexuality and I have 2weeks to go before all hell breaks loose.
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«Oldest ‹Older 1401 – 1600 of 1663 Newer› Newest»Don mind her, she's jus threatening u, she's not gonna expose anything, but don't continue that practice cos is wrong. U re not born into it , u jus learnt it, u can still correct it, pray about it too, but never mind that girl. She jus wanna scare u, even If she tells everyone, they re not gonna kill. Learn to be strong
This might sound difficult..... y not talk to ur mum bout it? She's gonna b soooooo mad wit u yes but it will ease d burden off ur neck and she'll support u in prayers and give u d necessary advice needed. Don't even think of paying ur (ex)partner cos once u do, you'll keep paying her till only God knows when. Just see this moment as a phase in ur life and by God's grace, you'll overcome.
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Don't do it!!! Once you pay a blackmailer, they will never stop. My advice is that you woman up and explain to your parent whom who are closer too. Or better still, you said she is your first? So not many people know about your sexuality. It's your word against hers. #justsaying
Sequel to my first comment, walking away wont solve your problem either and you need to desist from that act, because if you eventually scale through this mess another one still awaits you so if you really cherish your parents and the good name they are nurturing please be straight, find a reasonable guy and start a healthy relationship.In other words confide in your folks, don't act silly,take the bull by the horn and desist form lesbianism if you don't want to drag your family's name into mud
If u give her 5 million she ll want 500 million thereafter. So in my opinion, tell your folks everything + the all black mail thing. Now if they decide to pay her off @ least it was a family decision. After they have "handled" the blackmailer likely they ll send you off to some spiritual booth camp for cleansing but at least the head of the snake "the blackmailer" has been cut off.
P.S choose your partners wisely next time.
I will advice you to let your parent know about it and make plan with them to leave town because there's still possibility of her threatening you and your family.
The best tin u can do nau is to go to ur parent nd open up to dem i believe they will find it easy to forgive u since they are christian. But if u choose to pay her the money she will definitely come after u again. Then cry out to God nd accept him again he is the god of second chance.
just tell ur parents because even if u walk away she can still tell the whole church. if u start paying her u will continue to pay. folatush@yahoo.com
My Dear tell your parents!!!..... I'm sure they'll forgive you!! you can even come out for testimony and share it with d entire church members and end it with a song "Amazing Grace"!!!
dats story for the gods,d one way we dey see for linda blog wetin happen.
Madam!say it out...there is no crime.it wasn't your faukt for being a lesbian but your parents fault.they refused to teach you basic sexulity.like what they told all parents in church.start teaching your children about sexuality,let them know the difference btw penis and vagina,let them know it is a sin for the same sex to have intercourse.teach them on how to relate with guys and when to cross the boundary.please parents,intending parents,we have a lot to do to our next generation.dont be carried away like our parents were.dont be too engrossed withh your job.
In all,tell your parents,they will crucify you.its better and let them talk to the blackmailer.thats all
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that's serious. I think u should talk to her and if nothing positive, let ur family know
dont even try to pay her any money cuz the moment u do that, she will keep on demanding.i advice u tell your parents yourself.
My dear, one thing with succumbing to blackmail is that it will never stop. Pay 5million and the next will be 10 million. It never goes away. My advice, pray for Gods forgiveness, confess to your parents, then she will have no leverage.Obialor Onyinye@gmail. Com
How about offing her? It's not that expensive to hire someone to do it for u. If u give her this N5m, she'll be back for more and more and more..... Kapish?
Tell your parents the truth, hopefully they'll have a better idea on how to deal with the gold digger.
My best advise do not give her any money tank god u were not born gay like other would say.u can change,get into a relationship with a guy and use dat against her.
Hmmm
Its surely a disaster..I believe u shud let ur parents know abt wot u av bcom and d impending disaster..They got it wrong in d up bringing section b4 u know it they will get ova it
Tell your parents about it and ask for their forgiveness. Your partner isn't a factor bcos ppl make mistakes. Dnt beat yourself too much over it
First & foremost, have you repented of your sin and have you ask God for forgiveness? bcos, its not the earthly shame that matter but the everlasting condemnation. However, tell your parent and ask for their forgiveness. God will give them divine wisdom to handle the precarious situation. May God have mercy on you.
This has gone beyond the idea of posting comments here, I will rather prefer that you call me on my mobile phone so that we can talk more better on this. 08067028088. Ezekiel Chikamma
Seems to me u got de money..oya waka pay de money sharp sharp..mtcwwwww..next pls
Oh too bad! Paying 5million, will open a road for you to keep paying, maybe when you can't afford her demands anymore, you gonna start stealing or prostituting to pay the bills. Running away still gonna mess your parents up, So be brave an spill it out to them or to a sibling. or maybe an aunty or uncle.
Lesbianism is not good if not what do u gain from same sex when they are many guys out their
Blackmailers are some of the worst sort of criminals as they prey on your peace of mind and persistently threaten you with misery and or disgrace. Unfortunately, nothing is hidden that will not be revealed someday. Tell your parents first to prepare their minds. The crisis that will follow may even make your family stronger as i believe it will open your parents' eyes to reality. Next you should as a family make sure the girl is given the money she asked for in marked bills. This can easily be arranged by any of the police or EFCC. The quality time she will spend behind bars will cushion the pain of your scandal trust me.
Remember there's nothing new under the sun. Your case may seem scandalous and unheard of to you, but truth is, it will barely manage to trend for more than a week in the times we live in. Just think, how many scandals last more than a week on Linda Ikeji's blog?
Just let her.
I will advice u tell your parent about it, yoruba people usually said "Omo buburu osha fe fun ekun paje" and i assure u will be forgive. because the BIBLE SAY CONFESS UR SIN AND SIN NO MORE. u shall be forgive. Also as far as i know we shall all stand b4 the almighty to answer for our own sin, not for the sin of our father neither the father answer for the child. it is OYO
My friend deny it....dat kyn nonsense, Wat proof does sh have? "Bet" y do ppl love dia gender..Abeg can't deal
I don't actually encourage lesbianism tho but there is no way you should give that girl 5 million naira because if she has the gurt to ask you for that huge amount then she never valued you.the best thing is to open up to your parents,ignore the girl,probably change your line so as to discard every prove you actually knew her,don't be afraid let her tell everyone,it won't destroy your parents church,it wouldonly create a little scandal that would die after sometime and you have to deny the allegation when the time come. it's that easy. you repent and start hanging out with guys,you never can tell God mightactually help you back turn straight since your parents made you neglect dudes.wish you the best of luck please ignore LIB comment because most of them would probably insult you and me for this advice which usually I don't care. haaaa sipping my drink and thinking of my future. I walk away
I will advice u don't pay r d money cos if u do she will keep asking 4 more,tell ur parents,dey won't kill u..@least dey will knw b4 dey hear it somewhere else...And surprisingly,she might not even tell your parents...it's a 2 way tin...leaving home s d worse thing u can ever do 2 urself..
Don't give r the money and come clean to ur parents.They may disown u initially Buuuuh eventuaLly wld come around n accept u for who u are.That bitch wld continually blackmail u.So how long would u continue giving r money to keep r mouth shut?It's better handled this way
I'd advice u open up and be strong to face the consequence and 'do not run away from home' bc0s most times we run into the very things we re running away from...soon enough ur parents will realize their own mistake..be strong!!!
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I'll advice u to pls open up to ur parents God will help them to handle it better and for ur partner asking u for money just ignore her because she'll keep asking for more.
My dear in nutshell tell d truth to ur parents and d impending disaster am sure they will handle the matter nicely Cus they are parent and make a uturn in ur life.
Seems to me u got de money..oya waka pay de money sharp sharp..mtcwwwww..next pls...ejezieunited@gmail.com
Let ur parents know of what u av become and d impending disaster ahead cos if u start paying now trust me u will pay till infinito
First and foremost sincerely ask God for forgiveness and tell your parents about it. I believe they will surely understand and ready to forgive you. Please don't pay give that money. It shall be well.
I tink u shld tel ur parents coz no matter wat d consequences are, they are still ur parents
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Hi Young Lady, I undertand Your predicament but you must take a bold step to sit yor parents down and tell them the truth, nothing is new on planet earth. They will forgive you and you will forgive yourself as well as live a better life and champion a change in their perception of sex and sexuality and you would be transformed from that lifestyle. Cheers.
First and foremost sincerely ask God for forgiveness and tell your parents about it. I believe they will surely understand and ready to forgive you. Please don't pay give that money. It shall be well.
tell ua pple first kk
Let her realise that even if she goes ahead with her threats it won't bring her the 5m. Now you know she's a gold digger and a betrayer. Probably dis shock is also meant to jolt you back to acceptable norms in your society. However I don't think you should succumb to blackmail
Sorry state... got no advice for you! Just move towards the right direction!
Come clean to your family,ask God for forgiveness,then tell her to go do her worst.
God bless u linda..to d poster hmmmm who am I 2 blame u?!no sin is higher sin is sin.just ask God 4 forgiveness. It is well. nikedesigners@yahoo.com
It's better you tell your parents because she will never stop asking you for more money
Let your parents know, if they love you they will understand its their fault n urs too. For that girl, if there's no agreement of payment of money then don't pay her..if she persist your family will see to it she doesn't disturb you any more..no matter what family is important. The deed has already been done. You are not the first. Even in your dad's church, he who has not sin should cast the stone on you and don't be afraid. Time heal all wound.
First of all how can you say you are a Christian when you practice lesbianism? So my take is I'm not judging you or degrading your status,but you have to outgrow that way of life. We all have sin and fallen short of his glory, so quit that life,get a man.Take the long walk,bone the scum,the church has had its fair share of scandals,so yours is not new. The thing is don't pay her, let her do her worse.take a trip out of the country,by the time you get back with your man,it will all be history and forgotten, if you pay her now.she will always blackmail you because she got you so easy.don't commit further sin by commiting murder.because I know that thot should have crossed your mind too. Just take a walk. Trust me the news won't carry much weight without you being around. Take care and all the best.
Hmmm. This is hard, bt I'll advice u tell ur folks. Uve really messed up bt who am I to jugde u.
my candid opinion : tell your parents. A blackmailer will always ask for more.
I hate when I post comment and Linda deliberately filters it off, even wen I have a name or anonymous. Is it that you have those u prefer?
If u give her once she will ask for more, just confess to ur parent urself
U made mention of ur parent being strict...well i'm of d opinion u hold off telling ur parent cos dey being a pastor would actually think ur possessed and tryna pray d devil outa u..lol...Nwayz call her up,get cozy a bit and den trick her in2 giving u her phone so as 2delete all ur chats et msgs...mind u,she can't blackmail u wvout implicating herself aswell buh no matter what,dont giv in2 her cheap blackmail cos she'd just kip blackmailing u,id advice u cut all ties wv her and prolly get urself a new lover*shinesteeth*...well,u could just go wv d option of telln ur parent cos like u said u can't change ur sexuality and if she goes ahead wv her threat,u cld just easily deny it after all its not like she's got a pix of u both doin it...running ain't an option
I'd advice u open up to ur parents and be strong to face the consequence, do 'not run away from home' bc0s most time we run into the very thing we re running from..Soon enough ur parents will realize their own mistake...be strong!!!
I am promise
Yeye lesbian. Is it not your fundamental human right? Why are you afraid. Moreover as a pastor's daughter hv you not read the book of Leviticus to know that God condemns sex of the same sex. Howevet just repent and all this will be a thing of the past.
ordinarily i wont comment on this cause, homosexuality as a topic disgust me but u r jst justifying ur action, u come out u face 14yrs since u dont ve the fear of God in your life. obviously u dont wanna change i pray God forgives u.
there is nothing God cannot do. No is the judgement of this world , now shall the prince of this world be cast out.
whatever my heavenly father did not plant in you shall be uprooted.
according to my pastor, paint the picture of the future you want to feature from the scripture and so shall it be. cos by faith the elders receive good report. and whatsoever you ask GOd in prayer believing you shall receive.
God bless you.
Linda am not happy wit u, bcos u don't always post my comment.
what nonsense
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Na wa
young giri, i think u shld let ur parents know about it bcos if u pay her the 5million she wil come back for more. is a simple cast of blackmail
The best thing is to tell ur parents first.
Bargain with her or better still deny it provided she's got no evidence to implicate you
This is serious ooo,just tell ur folks. Ollavictoria18@gmail.com
Hello dear,
My advice is simple. Confess your sins, repent of it and give your life to Christ.
Your parents being Pastors will not guarantee you entrance to the Kingdom of God. It is not a licence at all.
Allow Christ into your life and all Crises will be far from you. This world will pass away. The pleasure you derive from Homosexuality will only cause you heartache.
You can stop it. You only need to renew your mind. It is a function of your thoughts. Imagine a bowl of Fried Rice, Chicken and Salad with one piece of 'Goat shit' on it. Can you eat it? No matter how small or little that sin is, it destroys your Glory. Don't let the devil take away your Glory. Your Glory is God.
If you need to talk to someone contact me on aboloye.omotola@gmail.com.
I pray God helps you to overcome this IJN.
Call her bluff.. She can't prove anything (unless u girls have a naughty video), anythin else can be denied. In fact u can even report her for trying to extort money from u, claiming some ludicrous allegations.
Whatever u do, DO NO GIVE HER N5Million. That would be the beginning of he end for you O!!! Cos once u start, it'll continue and eventually, she'll still expose u.
PS: Such a person should not even be ur friend. Bitch ass gold digger.
The best thing is to open up now and shame the devil
Its an empty threat when you deny the allegations. You can only confide in your parents but never admit in front of elders or congregations.
Just tell ur people. Ollavictoria18@gmail.com
linda you don start abi? you no won post my comment again?
rubbish
young giri, i think u shld let ur parents know about it bcos if u pay her the 5million she wil come back for more. is a simple case of blackmail
God just wants to use this medium to deliver you. By telling your parent, they would pray you out of that spirit of lesbianism.
Linda i wrote a reply to this girl's article from my heart and i cant find it. Please publish it. It might be of help to her .Thanks.
It said this comment will be visible after approval. Cheers have a great day
young giri, i think u shld let ur parents know about it bcos if u pay her the 5million she wil come back for more. is a simple case of blackmail
haaa,so u hav 5mil 2 give her,na wa o,som pple get mony o,my questn is does she have any evidence u had sex wit her?if she has try eliminatin all nd get redy 2 deny u a lesbian,deny d shit,comon,which kyn oshofree 5mil b dat,abeg sef even iff she wants 2 report 2 ur parents let her report jor,ar u scared?wil de kill u?ar u livin ur life 4 ur parents,dev got deirs nd uv got urs nd hu cares abt wot d church wil say?na hu holy pass sef?wot am even scared of is wot d law wil do 2 u dats y am sayin u shud deny it flat,deny u ever knew her sef,nonsense girl,thief
Na wwah oh
Just tell your parents!
N5m will turn into a lifetime of paying!
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Oh well, you have the answers already girlfriend... Let the cat out of the bag before she does... Tell the truth and shame the devil, there is always a way out... Trust me, eventually, I see that extorter getting arrested in no time and you need some huge spiritual help and therapy... For your parents, cant say much, it's majorly their fault... They shouldn't have kept you under lock and keys...
But you'll overcome, this is a sign that its coming to an end and will be history before you know it...
It will be better to call your parents and tell them the truth of the issue because giving her 5M will not still solve your problem,we all had past and as long as you seek forgiveness from your parents and God then desist from that devilish act,that is all.If you give her 5M she requested,she will turn you to ATM anytime she is financially break down,do not let you past affect your present and future.There are nothing new under the sun.
best advice by far!....guy u be correct street guy.me go get share for the 1m o
The best thing is to tell your parents
Best tin is to tell ur parent abt d hold issue so even wen to get to know it wouldn't b new to them
You have to confront your parents and tell them the truth... Though it will hurt them,but the truth have to be told...
The best thing is to tell your parents
She is bluffing, dnt tel anybody. Stop d relationship u hv with her, even if she tells ur parent, bluntly deny ever having anything to do with her.
Finally pray dat God delivers u from that spirit.
What is with the "i can't change my sexuality" comment. Been Gay is an aberration otherwise you wouldn't have to hide your orientation. My advice, call her bluff. If she come out with the info,admit it and play the victim of circumstance role. If she doesn't carry out her treat,good for you. Bottom line change cause you're on the wrong path-God says so.
Please tell your parents the truth. The bible says the truth shall set you free.both from this black mailer and the bondage of lesbianism
Hmmm, I wish you could take this matter to a serious LGBT blog like autostraddle or advocate, LIB will only bring you insults and more confusion on this very personal priblem.... wait oh, who said your lack of exposure to boys made you a lesbian?... Even if you had slept with a hundred men, and you are a lesbian, it still won't change you... Don't blame your parents; that's your sexuality....... Talk heart to heart with her, if she refuses give her the money or deny the whole stuff if she ain't got no solid evidence like videos or pictures or even audio.... Deny the text messages and say it's photoshop... Your sexuality is yours to know and own, coming out to your parents due to blackmail will be a huge disaster.......
What if your parents already know you are a lesbian? You never know, they might still love you or come around with time....
You could leave the country, if your life will be in danger... And if you decide not to be a lesbian no more, remember you are entitled of privacy and right to do so without nobody stoning you and pointing accusing fingers at you....
What if someone is trying to extort her too, by threatening to expose her lifestyle? So she decided to get the money from you by doing same?
Does your ex have anything important to loose? If she does, then it's 50-50: Ask her to follow you to the police;to report you, she had sex with you right? And it's illegal in Nigeria right? Guess she will be in trouble before she finish reporting!
Cheers, life is easy! Just make up your mind, you already know what to do.
May the good Lord guide you!
Linda oooo...post my comment na..I be newbie need to chop that money oo.Meanwhile I will like to take you out on a date sha..just dey talk my own..the lesbian people go sort out themselves..you can't give what you don't have
Linda hope u are not doing partial here o!hope dis ur giveaway is for real!i commented before d first person's time of comment but I'm not even seeing my comments in ur two posts!not encouraging tho...g789madu@gmail.com
My dear telling ur folks is d best option u have but don't go directly to them u have uncles and aunts who u can meet nd tell 1st they will now go to ur parents nd tell them dat way it would ease up unnecessary argument from ur parents. Please give room for men nd don't give in to what she is asking u if u do give in she will forever blackmail u till things go wrong.. please rededicate ur self to God cos I see u winning Dis battle.. Safe
If you pay that 5m, trust me that's d beginning of so many 5m to be paid, ( u no they watch blackmail movies) just tell your parent, pray for God to change ur sexuality n MIA.......kalas
Hello! pls, dont tell your parents if you are not ready to be sent on exile. as for ur partner, she should be ignored cus she is a greedy bastard. don't assume u av everything to lose cus it goes both ways. i won't advice u to lie if ur partner decides to go through with her threat. you are old enough to make decisions about how u want to live ur life. what are u still doing in your parents house if you sexual orientation is different? don't live in there shadow hence, u'l always feel guilty expressing ur self however u chose to. you didn't make them pastors and it was never your choice to make them popular. they did that by themselves, so girl, move on and get a life.
Linda nwa Ikeji, pls make an even greater effort to draw close to God this season. You are at a crucial phase where you could grow really, really big but the opposition is also really really tough at that level, so hug your God like oxygen.
Emm, young lady who likes ladies, tell your parents the whole truth and call your blackmailer's bluff. Furthermore, you need to accept some of the responsibility for where your life is, trust me there are worse things than growing up in a closed privileged home. Don't worry, by God's grace, this too will pass.
Signed: Linda's rich admirer.
Tell your parents.excel4sure@gmail.com
The best thing to do is to talk to your Parent and make sure it is your Dad you tell first. be Calm and settled,everything is gonna be fine
Hmm
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Tell your parents the truth, stay away from home for a while and let the wound in your parents hearts and the church heal. Pls you are not a lesbo, the devil only makes you believe that!
mymary said...just come out clean to ur parents becos even if u give her dis money, she will still blackmail u for more n more n more n more, and the truth will still come out.
she is a criminal, Don't give her any money.vennvee@gmail.com
Hnmmm....u nid open up to ur parents reason bn dt if u gv her d said sum, she'll STL com bk 4 more....she won't stop extorting u. U nif open up to ur parents.......i believe dey won't forsake u.
Also, get in touch with a gooo...d! counselor cause changing such orientation is as difficult as changing one's gonads.
I think you should pray about this and ask God for forgiveness, talk to your parents and explain truthfully everything that has happened and is happening. Please DO NOT pay the blackmailer anything else, you will keep paying. May God help you.
5m!!! The girl no serious. My dear, tell your parents.
My dear tell ur parents don't pay d maga
First tell your mum abt it then later ur dad.
5million is a lot of money and trust me she will come back again
I dont think concealing it from her parent would be a good idea, cause it would be more disastrous if the parents get to hear about it from the public.
first of all repent from d evil act.asked God to forgive you of your sins.get connected to him again by having some days of fasting and prayers.then go straigth to your folks confess everytin to them.let them know where you think they've failed in their child's up bringing,in which affected you.express how sorry you are.but take note of one thing in the process of all these ensure all the confession thing is being recorded on your mobile phone so that you can play it for the demon you allowed into your life.as an evidence that she can do her worse cos now your folks knows about your dark life. but ensure you dont go back to your vomit otherwise something worse than this will happen.(dont forget this; go to God first for purification before going to your parent) just summon courage and confess otherwisee the devil will continue to cheat on you
God help you o. don't kno what to tell you. God giv me an early birthday present. I neeed it!
I have perfect solution to your problem..u ll nt pay her kobo nd she won't tell a living soul about it. Contact me on my eboraosha@gmail.com
I think you should pray about this and ask God for forgiveness, talk to your parents and explain truthfully everything that has happened and is happening. Please DO NOT pay the blackmailer anything else, you will keep paying. May God help you.
Tell ur parents and pray they understand where u come from.also ask for god forgiveness for the sin u commited an repent.
But wait oh...you get the 5 million to pay ni?? for four months of relationship..abegi go tell you papa and mama use the 5 million enter another country jare
Thank God you're afraid of being exposed, it means you've acknowledged that u committed a sin. If u're sorry for this sin God in His infinite mercy will forgive you. Since u're parents are gd pple, confide in u're mom, confess everything to her. Of course, she will be disappointed at u, ask for her forgiveness for threr is no sin that's beyond pardon. Then turn completely to God, He is beckoning u to come to Him. Do not succumb to blackmail cause God will see u through when u do the right thing.
If u pay her nw she will always come bk 4 more, if u tell ur parents heaven will fall make sure u av a good n trust friend she will help u sort things out I swear dia is always a way buh u jst av 2 sit down n think very well
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Make up your mind to start a new life and am sure your parents will be of help in correcting the past wrongs. Take up the challenge and resolve this issue now so you won't cry 'had I known' at the end.
Wow you can easily afford 5m,Damnnnn,guys in Ur school are f*cked up to the epic.Look sweetie I love you so much right now and can't lie to a darlin like u,beleive me all you need is a lovely D*ck never missionary,that would bore us since we both been in the church,and for the other case Don't be scared,she's only a hungry deceived thief,let her do her worse n Denny it,then accuse her n her friends for always harassing u.u don't runaway from home,that's for cowards n u doing pay 5m,that's for losers.here is my digits 07019151...ask for more.i have loads of advice for u,not for money tho
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May she do so in Jesus name.Amen
Confide in your parents, don't give her anything and desist from lesbianism since you are not proud of it, walking away will not help, take the bull by the horn.Mind you, if you pay the ransom will rise in a geometrical progression so be wise and take heed
susanblacky@ymail.com
Pls dear, tell your parents the truth , they will still love you...
Every pastor or man of god have their own skeletons they are keeping from the public....
Plesaseeeeee.... open up to your parents...
Do you really know what you are talking about?
Her parents are at fault here....stop making excuses for them
oranebochioma@gmail.com.........MY DEAR you have really done a bad thing,no body is above mistakes and don't say u cant be physical attracted to guys,first of all ask GOD for forgiveness and let him order your step owards the righ direction
2ND Don't give anybody the money,because she will definetly come back for more confide in your parents and tell them everything they have to no and ask for their forgiveness they would be disappointed but trust me they wont expose you ok....
Hi, this is the first time am posting a comment here and I'm doing this because I care about you and your predicaments. I'll implore you not to condemn yourself, it's neither your fault nor anybody's fault. You have a low self-esteem, so I understand the fact that you aren't okay telling your parents about this issue. Find a confidant, someone you can confide in and obviously ready to help you out. Tell that person every bit of the story and let that person be the one to confront your parent on your behalf..so, your confidant should be very close to your parent and must be a person who would rather encourage you than to condemn you...Please don't abscond and leave your parents with no other option than to involve the police to search for you, that'll be the greatest mistake because you may end up considering suicide as an option...The earlier you talk to a confidant about this, the better for you, your family and your reputation...Your parents are pastors so they won't kill you, they'll have no other choice than to cater more for you and start helping you with prayers..This is the time you need to be bold. Be the one to tell your girlfriend that it's over between the both of you but be smart, make sure there's no trace, no evidence, so if she decides to expose you, there won't be any evidence to proof her point. Please don't panic and help yourself re-build a better life...Gracias!!! (You free to contact me: bunmidavids194@gmail.com)
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Tell ur parents and ask dem 4 deliverance
So true
Don't fret, she can't do shit!... Exposing u will also cost her (14yrs) so I seriously doubt she will. N if she decides 2talk 2ur parents alone, just deny it as long as she no get evidence(pics, mssgs)
i think indirectly her parents are the cause.but leaving that aside,u need to open up to them.giving her the five million is just opening more space for her to threatnen u.come out plain and go for rehab.i think u will be fine after that
hey, as a pastor's daughter, u know d truth wc is repentant, yes we r human we r bound to make mistakes, but realizing it is another tin. my dear go to ur parents n tell dem d truth dey will forgive u. And dont go bk to dat sin again, as for dat blackmiller don't mind her, can she ever in her life cough out 5m for herself.
Let it go, let it go! Can't hold it back anymore. Let it go, let it go! Turn away and slam the door!
I don't care, what they are going to say, let the storm rage on!!!
The cold never bothered me any way!
GO TO CANADA, IT'S COLD THERE...
I don't av a girlfriend at the moment, I would like to date you and subsequently fu......c....k lesbianism out of your brains. Don't give in to that blackmailer.
Her parents did everything wrong. Stop making excuses for them
tosiney27@gmail.com
it is well
it is well
there is God o
I don't av a girlfriend at the moment, I would like to date you and subsequently fu......c....k lesbianism out of your brains. Don't give in to that blackmailer. Send me an email, diss_skirt@yahoo.com
Please Linda make sure she reads this comment: My heart bleeds for you. You can not give her than N5m because, she will ask for more money to the point where she will squeeze you dry.
The best thing to do is first come clean to your mother. Pour out your heart and express yourself to her, let her know the situation. Then either way, your dad will find out.
Don't expect them to happy about this, they will be hurt. But it is now their choice to either accept that this is you or reject you.
With regards to the church - There have been bigger scandals with pastors, the loyal congregation will stick around!
Hope all this goes well - please let us know. Good luck
Please Linda make sure she reads this comment: My heart bleeds for you. You can not give her than N5m because, she will ask for more money to the point where she will squeeze you dry.
The best thing to do is first come clean to your mother. Pour out your heart and express yourself to her, let her know the situation. Then either way, your dad will find out.
Don't expect them to happy about this, they will be hurt. But it is now their choice to either accept that this is you or reject you.
With regards to the church - There have been bigger scandals with pastors, the loyal congregation will stick around!
Hope all this goes well - please let us know. Good luck
Please Linda make sure she reads this comment: My heart bleeds for you. You can not give her than N5m because, she will ask for more money to the point where she will squeeze you dry.
The best thing to do is first come clean to your mother. Pour out your heart and express yourself to her, let her know the situation. Then either way, your dad will find out.
Don't expect them to happy about this, they will be hurt. But it is now their choice to either accept that this is you or reject you.
With regards to the church - There have been bigger scandals with pastors, the loyal congregation will stick around!
Hope all this goes well - please let us know. Good luck
my dear, i think the first step is to admit and accept that the act you engaged in with your partner is not appropriate in any manner, religious, normal human thinking or what have. you have to resolve to change that mindset of attraction to females and fill your mind with the word of God (this is where Chaz B would be very helpful, may he RIP). then you come clean to your mum or dad, whoever you are closer to. tell them what has happened and guarantee it wont happen again. im sure your mum would be there to give you guidance and support although she would be disappointed.
as for your partner, dont give her a dime cos she will definitely come for more. it wont end there.pls own up to your mistake and be ready to face the initial scolding and lashing you would get and move on cos it wont last forever.
Hi, this is the first time am posting a comment here and I'm doing this because I care about you and your predicaments. I'll implore you not to condemn yourself, it's neither your fault nor anybody's fault. You have a low self-esteem, so I understand the fact that you aren't okay telling your parents about this issue. Find a confidant, someone you can confide in and obviously ready to help you out. Tell that person every bit of the story and let that person be the one to confront your parent on your behalf..so, your confidant should be very close to your parent and must be a person who would rather encourage you than to condemn you...Please don't abscond and leave your parents with no other option than to involve the police to search for you, that'll be the greatest mistake because you may end up considering suicide as an option...The earlier you talk to a confidant about this, the better for you, your family and your reputation...Your parents are pastors so they won't kill you, they'll have no other choice than to cater more for you and start helping you with prayers..This is the time you need to be bold. Be the one to tell your girlfriend that it's over between the both of you but be smart, make sure there's no trace, no evidence, so if she decides to expose you, there won't be any evidence to proof her point. Please don't panic and help yourself re-build a better life...Gracias!!! (You free to contact me: bunmidavids194@gmail.com)
My dear, there is nothing God can not do. Just open up to your Parents. mariahotsai@yahoo.com
Let her biko.
Open up 2ur parents. Linda u dnt like posting ma comments, Y na Wetin I do u.
Make i tell you the truth dont give no money and tell her to simply do whatever she wana do cos she is also gonna end up in jailif you pay such money its a big sin she is also in trouble so let da game beggin na she go taya u too should be bold and stop being fool
fear not for the Lord has konka da world
bittertruth85@yahoo.com
I have told you before and am saying it again,do no pay any money if you do ?she will turn you to alhaji bringi bringi and you will become her maga for life.
Linda I don't know why you are not posting my comment bikonu weti I do you?
Let ur parents know the truth and ignore the blackmailist because she'll come back asking for more.
pls open up to ur parents
Hmmm... I concur
I dnt think there is any need informing ur parents.Confess ur sins to God,call the bitch nd let her know ure repentant nd sober abt ur past actions,give her some money if she persists.And if she ends up exposing u,deny it and sue her for defamation...Ur parents might not be too understanding to handle it well,except ure ready to die for ur sins like Jesus did for us.
falling for a blackmailer is not d way out. she will definately come back for more
shit happens, the girl actually set you up from the get go, she kept her cool and played nicely so that you won't figure out their evil enterprise, I don't think the lesbian act was as a result of playing with girls only, something actually went wrong somewhere, just check urself.
I advice you open up to your parents, becos if you dare give that girl the 5M, then you will continue to give it to her till kingdom comes,becos she will ask for more with futher threats if you fail. Forget reputation and save ursef now that there is time else.....
I no even know wetin 2 talk. Anyways Anty Lililn Chitune60@gmail.com
Truth is better,however it need to be told,bcos along the line it will still surface.d earlier the better miss leabian.tell ur parent the truth.lochigbo@yahoo.com
Linda nah wah o. Does it mean u choose comments 2 post here I commented dis since morning nd till now I can't see my comment here
My dear u beta tell ur parent bfor dat bitch will expose u after dat u go to God in prayer, it is well. Adajesus. Jannygold378@gmail.com
I hate it wen people are afraid from threats, make up ur mind to tel once d bubble boast, don't tel now, blank her and delete her,, u read d other guy who slept wth d married lady, play hard too don't reveal ur weakness.
U too pretty for this, come and taste me ur quilty pleasures will turn to righteous pleasures.
Gab2shoessaysso
Then tell the truth first
Don't show the bitch ur weakness, act like u dnt care wateva happens and then find a way to put her behind
My dear, tell ur parents d truth. It won't get worse than that. Nobody is above mistake.
Ask God nd ur parents for forgiveness.
Shaniquapatty@gmail.com
And yes get a boyfriend asap and let every1 know abt your relationship wit him. That wld leave people doubting wen d truth comes out
Fight dirt with dirt look for something to blackmail her back that is ur own way people like this don't go down early if possible get some other chic to set her up possibly on camera that will be ur lifeline. All the best
My dear if I were u, I wil ignore her cos I knw she can't do notin. 1. Lesbianism is a culpable ofence in Nigeria and shd wudnt want to expose her self and risk 14yrs jail term 2. If u giv her d money, she wil com bck for somtin even bigger! So d best tin to do? Tel her u wil neva sucumb to her threats, stay away frm her and amend ur ways and ask for God's forgiveness and Grace for future abstinence. Bless u
i dont know what to say will read from other comments. njkalu@yahoo.com
Sweetheart... It is not ur fault... it is entirely ur parents fault... they kinda isolated u to their detriment...instead of setting u free BUT guiding and advising u on the decisions and action u take or r abt to take. What kinda parent isolates their child... ur story is just one in a million...at least urs is just attraction to same sex...others are way worse..not gonna give any instances...
MY ADVISE
Firstly...u r an adult, do not show fear to that 2timimg bitch
secondly...tell the bitch to do her worst.. it's always ur word against her...u can argue shes just a friend trying to extort u
third... tell ur parents(just mom'n'dad) the truth let them know its their fault and beg forgiveness frm them & GOD
Lastly... choose ur friends male n female very carefully... trust no 1 but urself.
F.O.B sayz so... holla me to kick d bitch ass or turn d tables on her
Never ever pay a blackmailer. You will be milked dry. Call her bluff.she has something to lose too. If you make the mistake of paying, then the next ransom will be higher
u nid deliverance period
First & foremost, have you repented of your sin and have you ask God for forgiveness? bcos, its not the earthly shame that matter but the everlasting condemnation. However, tell your parent and ask for their forgiveness. God will give them divine wisdom to handle the precarious situation. May God have mercy on you.
Perfect reply. The girl is an idiot. Expose her first and make sure she has no proof of what she's accusing u of. She'll look really foolish.
My dear go to your Parent and expose urself. It is not the end of the world and i am very sure they will forgive and accept u if they are truely serving God. After all teh prodigal son was acceptd by the father. If u give her the money u will continue to give and she will still expose someday. God will have mercy on you
A scammer on the loose looking for free money not earned. This is job for a fixer and an influential couple. Oliver pope and Mr & Mrs Frank Underwood get in here. Contact me for a fix and the job is done. Story and a small jobs for the gods. We dont negotiate with blackmailer and low life b***h. This is the kind of case we buy into.
A 24years old pastor's daughter...
Where did you get N5m to pay a blackmailer? I hope your parents are not giving you tithes and offerings that you intend to spend so foolishly.
Please tell the so called lover to go to hell with all her claims.
If she even confesses, she' s agreeing to go to jail for the number of years the National Assembly law stipulates.
Let her go ahead and expose herself as there is a law for her type.
Hmmmmm.pedrotoki80@yahoo.com
Does she have proof,if no,call her bluff. If she has, jejely confess to your parents,because if you pay that 5 million for christmas shopping,be ready to pay 10 million for new year shopping,and 15 million for valentine shopping and so on.
My dear, to b honest wif u, u have to burst d bubbles to ur parents, cos dis is a cheap blackmail, she will continually ask 4 more cash and wen u dnt comply, she will still cast u, so open up to ur parents, dey knw how best to handle such matters.
Tell your parents about it dey wud surely forgive you
Good talk
Dear LIBer I don't know if U'll see my response but apart from telling Ur parents, d babe will still come out and talk and she may force ur parents 2 pay her, ur parents aren't above blackmail
That being said and am truly sorry 2 say this, I don't understand Ur saying about Ur sexuality but the babe in question here is wicked and d less of them we have in this world d better for the world
Use that 5M and find very good hired assassins to roughen her up a little and mutilate her or KILL her so U can have rest of mind
Lastly, I was raised in a similar way as U were but I didn't turn out a lesbian because of d grace of God but I understand U perfectly because I even went to a girls only school
Go on Ur knees and sincerely ask God for liberation and he will liberate U
Also ask for permission to kill d gold-digging foolish girl
My opinion and I pray U see it and pick out an advice
Dear youth of twenty-four u should neither terminate ur life nor change ur sexuality because none of them u exercise the right. Just ask God for forgiveness and alert ur parents of the confronting problem.
never give in to a blackmailer because they are like a bottomless pit that never gets filled. if you succumb to the cheap threat, she would keep sucking you financially and otherwise, until she sucks you dry and then let the unwholesome cat out of the bag. the way forward is to confess to your parents. you might be shocked as they might just understand and forgive you without any fuss.
What you are doing today has nothing to do with how your parents btought you up. There is still virture in good upbringing of children in the way God wants us to. Stop ridiculing your parents who worked hard to bring you up unspoiled and undefiled. Let me ask you, if you were your parents how would you have brought up your children - alow them to go to night clubs, have boy friends, smoke and drink and party all along?
Concerning your situation, the most important thing niw is nit the blackmail rather it is that you have failed everyone that trust you in God and your parents. So start the repentance by confessing your sin to God and your parents nd ask fir forgiveness. If yiu do so sincerly, God will firguve you and touch your parents to do the same. This is the truth and anything different is just deceivung you.
Email me!!! I've handled this alot of times...so I know exactly how to make this all disappear.
You sound like a child! At 24 u shud knw better. It's just a mere threat! The girl can't do anything because her image is also involved and she will tarnish herself. Do not pay her a dime! Just block her off ur phones and lose contact with her also tell ur parents ahead of time that someone is trying to blackmail u. Let them knw that whatever comes frm anyone else but u is a lie. This issue is not even that major! U can handle it dear, just cool down and do as I have said, also save msgs and record her calls if possible for police evidence, if worst comes to worse, just threaten that u will get her arrested! Simple!
Hello< dont pay a dime, tell your parents and be prayerful as you ask for forgiveness but after all is dusted, you need to see me so that i give you a good f..k and then you will know that you have been missing alot by looking for same sex rubbish.
Break d news 2 ur. Parent Dnt walk out u will b killing dem hardly. If u do
56Deny everything. Even if she's taped you, allege that it was not you. If you give it to her now, you will continue to give...
ode,pay her,as if u can afford d money urself,oponu oshi.
Unless she has proof, DENY THE MOFO!!!!!!
Like someone rightly adviced up there, sms her to call her bluff, inform her you already told your parents and they plan on shipping you away to the States. Thank her for opening your eyes and then give her the goodbye forever. Just dont tell your parents in reality cos it'l break them and may never trust your judgement again. Just on your own, turn a new leaf, get edifying books to read, read the bible often too and change your ways!
Paying her the money is not guaranteeing that she will not come back for more. If she gets broke again, there is a 100 percent chance she will threaten u again, so just tell ur parents the truth and what is on ground so they can know how to deal with it. In that way, u no more have a secret to hide and will be free from every guilt
You just need to tell your parent the gospel truth about yourself, the real you. If is what the enemies want to use against their ministry, they will be able to pray against it, and prepare for whatever come. Try to confide in them so they can take you through some prayer of deliverance.
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