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Sunday, 23 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Would you stay married to him?

From a female LIB reader
This is a question for the women. Watched a movie a few hours ago. A couple got stopped on the road by an Oro group (Yoruba know it as something occultic a woman must not see). The group tells the husband that they have to behead his wife or behead the two of them. The husband turns and starts shouting that he actually does not know her, that she is someone he picked up down the road. So they should behead only her.
My question now is if you were the wife and you miraculously escaped, would you stay married to such a guy?

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Unknown said...

Lai lai, that would be the End Of SOLOMON GRUNDY!! Marriage Kor..

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¤GROWN MAN IN A YOUNG BODY¤

Unknown said...

Lai lai, that would be the End Of SOLOMON GRUNDY!! Marriage Kor..

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¤GROWN MAN IN A YOUNG BODY¤

Anonymous said...

no way!! he is a coward

Apple said...

If kids are involved i will stay. As for my husband, i will continue to pinch him for the rest of his life. I will make him so miserable he will commit suicide.

Anonymous said...

Maka wat naw linda????such a coward n hypocrite

Unknown said...

Question of life.. Since marriage is for better for worst, two wrongs won't make a right so I'll stay in my marriage..

Anonymous said...

God Forbid,I'll say gud bye 2 d man,nothin is goin 2 make me even talk 2 him again.I reject him.

gloria said...

To me there have never been married.

Anonymous said...

THE QUESTION NEEDS NO ANSWER






DR POPE

pamcel said...

Never ohhhhhhhhhhhh!

Purity Diana said...

Any1 who need my nude pic hit mai name.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm no nahhhhhhhhhhh!!!

Anonymous said...

Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

Anonymous said...

God 4bid.....yooo ...1st to comment Chyqueen

Unknown said...

African magic things... lol... its just a script being played out

Anonymous said...

Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

Anonymous said...

There is no way I would stay married to someone who denied me at the time I needed him most. That person is not a husband abeg, probably he was just managing to cope with her in same house in the name of marriage or maybe he had something to benefit from her dats y he actually married her, coz its obvious from the story that he has no love for her

Anonymous said...

Hell no. The truth though is that many people betray their loved ones everyday maybe not this extreme. ..

Mayowa


Anonymous said...

Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

Anonymous said...

Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

Anonymous said...

Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

Unknown said...

Say Wetin happen? My dear Linda, u no need ask that question. The answer is obvious.

Anonymous said...

God 4bid me goin bk to dat kinda person
God as jst used dat medium to make im reveal is real slf to me
God pls,provide for me hubby dat ll LMTHD,jst like Tuface loves ANNIE

..............HJJ...........

Anonymous said...

NEKYNYMOUS said......I definitely will not continue the marriage.

Anonymous said...

Is that supposed to be a question?

DGifted said...

Eheheh. Seriously, I must say diz is thought-provoking. What can I say? To err is human, to forgive is divine. Eheheheh

Anonymous said...

Wen I escape I'll pack my tinz n leave d ouse 4 him

Anonymous said...

God forbid! I can never stay married to such a wicked man If I miraculously escaped.

preteatall said...

Lailai

ozzy said...

Capital No.

Amarachukwu. said...

No no

Dike F(xyz) said...

If you as a lady were in his shoes, would you have given up Ʊя life for him? It's not really Easy to give up this life even for someone we Love so Dearly. However, I think the Man acted too naïve and didn't show enough courage by denying his wife.

My Answer is this: if he Treated you like a Queen and always protected you to the best of his abilities before that incident, then stay married to him!!! That's after he must have apologised for denying you. You MIGHT also do thesame thing he did in such circumstance. Giving up Ʊя Life for someone is not Tom and Jerry.

marvel Edi said...

Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but, Is that even å real question? The husband didn't only agree to the wife being beheaded he also denied being married to her. Wtf? And you're wondering if she should stay married to him? Absolutely NOT! #hellNO.

marvel Edi said...

Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

Unknown said...

No way. After the man saying such a thing.

Unknown said...

Haaaa!!!! Haaaa!!!! Dat man na winch!!! Helll no!!! Divorce! Divorce! * am nt a lady nd i answered, kill urslf if e pain u*

Anonymous said...

lol...... Thats odunlade itself

Anonymous said...

The question should be, would you stay married to any man because 99% of men will deny you and expect you to understand.

Lyndy said...

If this is a movie, then it has no biz being on LIB. But if its ur life and u deliberately changed d story, then pls, forgive the man if he's remorseful. Life is really precious u kno. It must av been a spur of d moment act. But if u can't forgive, then walk out. Afterall, his love for u wasn't strong nd ur action can b justified

Anonymous said...

Wot kind of stupid question is dis?

pumkin said...

Hell nooooooo!

Ameriestyle said...

Hell No
www.ameriestyle.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Capital NO!

Anonymous said...

Linda tot u are out of naija?cos I also watch dt movie ds evening on African magic yoruba.nice1.@ur question,no commt

Anonymous said...

Linda tot u are out of naija?cos I also watch dt movie ds evening on African magic yoruba.nice1.@ur question,no commt

Anonymous said...

he is not a husband, i can't marry him again he is a devil in disguise

marvel Edi said...

No try am ooo because that husband of ur fit kill u for house berry u nobody go no oooo ! Shai men are wicked oooio

ujunwa said...

lol

marvel Edi said...

Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

ary said...

Why would you? It is for best for worst and he left you in dire straits! That ain't a husband material at all.

Cutest said...

Linda, you already know the answer. I will do the same thing you will do.

Unknown said...

No i won't, for the fact that he denied me he even said he picked me down the road can't continue with such marriage

Anonymous said...

Gotta love made in Aba love..#cheezyjayne

Anonymous said...

Stay married? How now? He doesn't knw me, so am so out of that marriage.

Unknown said...

No i won't continue with such marriage,he even said he picked me from the road

BONARIOS BABY said...

Never, not even in my weirdest dreams.. Such a man won't stand by u through thick and thin

Anonymous said...

So u were watching yoruba movie at african magic.watched it as well.

Anonymous said...

Hell no.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm wat a scene!

Anonymous said...

God forbid dat I stay a second with him

Anonymous said...

NEVER!

Janelicious said...

WTH, I will walk out from dat marriage.

maduako akachi said...

poison him... God will understand!!!

phantom said...

Who marries a chicken ?

Anonymous said...

HELL NO

Anonymous said...

Na wao... Dat kind question. Lol
No mata hw blind d love be, am so leaving him #fact

Janelicious said...

Maka WHY. Marriage gbakwaa oku.

Anonymous said...

Jamb question........

Anonymous said...

Lol, something similar happened to my neighbours, they were travelling & some guys stopped @ gun point to rob them, loool....the man started shouting that he was just the driver going to drop oga's wife in the village, lmaooooo!!!! & yes, she's still married to him

Zenki brown said...

₪O WAY. Its GOODBYE to HIM. Cos dat simply means, he can give M̲̅e̲̅ up @ anytym. So A̶̲̥̅♏ definitely bera witout him.

janny said...

God forbid dat I stay married for such a man..

akingbehin murphy daniel said...

nop can never marry such a person o o o o

Anonymous said...

The mumu man shd just say she's blind.

Anonymous said...

NEVER!!

akingbehin murphy daniel said...

nop i can never marry such a person

Walata said...

Ahhh women make una ans dis question but that husband na smart ass man n selfish cos he dnt wanna die with the wife

Anonymous said...

This is a very rare case where one head is better than two. The woman is actually the HEARTLESS one here; why would she want her husband head to roll when either way her's MUST roll?

_marieCruz_ said...

No...why should I biko? Linlin no chop my comment oh

_marieCruz_ said...

No!!! why should I biko? Linlin no chop my comment

Anonymous said...

Lindodo u now watch african magic yoruba!

Anonymous said...

No way #bright bravo#

Anonymous said...

Looooool see Lucas and Naomi - old eastenders cast.

Anonymous said...

No........I would not.......u dnt knw wat can apen next.......it is beta to run away for ur life.

Anonymous said...

Linda,if Ɲa̶̲̥̅ Ɣ☺ΰ,Ɣ☺ΰ go marry A̶̲̥̅♏???

Anonymous said...

That is not possible my dear

Anonymous said...

Are you mad?!!!

Anonymous said...

Nope,I won't.

Anonymous said...

Whatever for would I stay to that .......thing???

Anonymous said...

Mchewww!!! Movie that they didn't finish showing

Anonymous said...

Neva.........

Anonymous said...

A husband is meant to protect the wife in every situation. So any man dat can't protect ♍ƺ cannot remain my hubby. Divorce straight
DIAMOND

Anonymous said...

Difficult. I will ask for separation for a while to digest well the whole scenario and to give the relationship a new definition. Obviously he is not a reliable and dependable husband!

Anonymous said...

dis 1 na capital NO...i no fit again oo,denying me in my presence..lindodo abeg view my post

Unknown said...

Mehn....it takes God to forgive such a stupid act.

Anonymous said...

hell no!!!!

IVORY CHI said...

LINDA IT IS NOT EVERY QUESTION YOU SHOULD POST

BTW IM YET TO SEE YOUR RESPONSE TO MY EMAILS O

wildflower said...

Aunty Linda i also saw d movie ooooooo, i wont even think about it twice. marriage ko marriage ni

Anonymous said...

Is there even a question? Only a fool would stay

omaahhonda said...

NO nooooo

Unknown said...

I will marry his best friend

Anonymous said...

No!

Anonymous said...

My answer is NO. Y would I stay with a man dat cannot protect me no matter wat.

Anonymous said...

What kind of question is that everyone knows d answer which is capital NO

Anonymous said...

4wetin na lin lin,I day madt?? Lol

Anonymous said...

Hell No! !! I won't

Anonymous said...

I won't,he's a coward and doesn't deserve me.its better to be alone than to be denied everytime the going gets tough

Anonymous said...

Linda 4 what na? A man than can kill me, he didn't even at least beg them first

Anonymous said...

Na this kind questions dey vex me! Is the answer not obvious enough? Abeg jor! *Nkey*

Unknown said...

Haba!no I wouldn't.dats jst plain wicked nw.

kclub said...

Honestly, as a man if I do that and you still stay married to me, I go vex you sef.

Anonymous said...

Africa Magic Yoruba, Odunlade Adekola n Ireti Osayemi. Abi I don stay married ni.... lmao

Anonymous said...

I probably would've reacted the same way, had I been in his situation. I can't say I wouldn't stay married to him, but I don't think the marriage would be the same.

Anonymous said...

4wat naa????? GOing straight to pick and kids and back to my father"s house. of what use is a man who cant take a bullet for his wife????????

Anonymous said...

NEVER

Anonymous said...

The man was tired of the marriage and has now found a legitimate way to get rid of his wife

Unknown said...

I reject such thou, but back to the question..God forbid me staying with such a man, I wont even be able to face him on a daily basis talkless of staying married but men on a second thot sha, na fear catch d guy, I fit do d same thing to am.

Anonymous said...

4 whr game over

Anonymous said...

Ild sue him, make his life miserable and steal everything he has... mmshew. What, that niggur be history afterwards. .

Anonymous said...

Never,whn he wants m dead

tomisyn said...

The answer is just simple and it's hell no! If such man were given an opportunity to kill her himself,I assure u,he wouldn't wait a sec

Anonymous said...

Stay married ke! divorce him from ur life pata pata not just marriage alone

Anonymous said...

God forbid

Anonymous said...

Na wa o

Anonymous said...

No wayyyy oooo...God forbid bad thing

Slimy said...

If i hear sey i marry am? Marry gbakwa oku..

Unknown said...

Not even in another world !!!

Unknown said...

My question is apart frm ur kid wat equalz ur own life? If u die wnt she straff smone else? She suppose to knw datz nt love but life. U nd to be alife to show love.

Anonymous said...

No way..seun

Anonymous said...

The fuck did I just read?

AnnMarie said...

Hell no. who would stay married to such guy?

Anonymous said...

No please!!! He should have even pleaded small

Anonymous said...

haa Kojo rara, dat means he doesn't luv me niyen

Anonymous said...

NO!!!!!!!!! Is that even a question?

Angie said...

Hmm...well, mm first of all; there must be a logical explanation as to why he left me for dead like, he escaped to find a way of rescuing me... for better/worse doesn't mean we should die on the same day...lol.
I'd still stay married to him but he go hear nwii for sometime; my foot mat and servant for as long as possible until I pass tht traumatic experience. ..

*My R1.50c comment *

Anonymous said...

Nigba ti Mio ya were....stay married to who??

Anonymous said...

Ofcos not! Its over! He wouldn't think of it too am sure!

Anonymous said...

Though as human dat we r,if I was 2 b in shoes(though I'm a guy),d reachn @ 1st will b not 2 stay wit d man again,but I know wit time,I'll 4give him.

Anonymous said...

I will quit d man

IBK said...

Even for me as a guy d marriage is DONE!!!

Anonymous said...

Definitely not. But fear can do a lotta shitty things 2 a persns mind----C21

Blesyn said...

Hilarious! God forbid that this kind of man be my husband. But,my advice for the unfortunate woman is,you can still be his wife,but make life a Lion's den for him,show him pepper before you finally leave him. He has to be punished!

Anonymous said...

No I will park my load nd go

Pels said...

Stay married ke? Oloun maje, dat kinda man can allow 20men to rape his wife if his life is @ stake. Na to pack ma load commot after warning him sternly never to show his face in my life again!

Miss bee said...

A man that can't lay down his life for his woman is not worthy to be called a man !! Heck no I'm leaving his ass

Unknown said...

Eeeh, ekwensu kpokwa nwoke ahu oku. Satan shud punish him. I won't marry him oo

Anonymous said...

4 wetin na linda, which kind nonsence be ∂ατ̲̅ na, abi dem bury our placenta 2geda? God punish ∂ατ̲̅ kind husband

Anonymous said...

Omo mehn.anybody will do such in such condition buh No,i no marry again oo

Unknown said...

Yoruba movie part one!

Unknown said...

Yoruba movie part one! What if twas vice versa?

Utonwa said...

i know that movie. to answer ur question:mba!

Unknown said...

God forbid!!!

Anonymous said...

I hear....Marriager's club ni.

Anonymous said...

lailai, That's the end

Unknown said...

God forbid!!!

Unknown said...

If his intentions truely ψås to behead her, hell NO! ßut if its save the situation yes.. Afterall our father Abraham lied and denied sarah in the scripture when the situation wasn't right.

Unknown said...

For better for worst linda. If he doesn't give U̶̲̥̅̊ over to death, U̶̲̥̅̊'ll still die one way or the other. People may profess undying luv but only in very critical situation will U̶̲̥̅̊ know who they truly are. Only God deserves our 100% trust.

Anonymous said...

What a retarded question! Common!

Unknown said...

Its crazy. You might loose it and stay away from him.... Its complicated.

Molurlah's MakeOver said...

Who would stay married to him?

Anonymous said...

Never!only a stupid person will stay married 2 d guy.

Anonymous said...

Errm nope..how do we want to continue the marriage?

Anonymous said...

I'd rather die... What kind of sly husband is that? That just shows that he doesn't love me and can sell me for a plate of food. God forbid!

Debbie Chelsea said...

See question sha,u sef ,will u stay?

Anonymous said...

There is so nothing that will make me stick to such ɑ̤̥̈̊ man.

Michael Babatope said...

Nope, I will not, though, I'm a guy, if she can deny her in such a sin, then he can kill her for ritual if situation demanded it not even thinking she has a sister who is a woman! Gosh! Some men can be callous and coward. Not me oh!

Unknown said...

Stay married ke? I will not only run but make sure he is ruined for life. There is no marriage in heaven.

jummy said...

Never I wouldn't

Ramson Jay said...

No husband will do that. Linda, when u get married u will knw better.

mercy said...

U just hav to thank God first nd pack ur bags,becos it show dat d man whom u call husband can't protect u

Anonymous said...

First,I will ask him the reason for his action but if the reason is invalid then I will go my way.

Anonymous said...

that man is a betrayal, so for me o NO NO and NO

Unknown said...

Godforbid neva

hapi gurl said...

No way,I wud rada rmain single dan get back wit him

joli said...

never..he is even more dangerous than d killers

Dee Tee said...

@lindaikeji, this's a movie jor!!! #NewsBlist

Anonymous said...

Stupid question.

Anonymous said...

God forbid,continue ke! Dat wuld b d end of d marriage o.

Anonymous said...

It is God that miraculously save her. therefore, she shld obey that same God and forgive the man.

Anonymous said...

Never

Apple29 said...

Lailai...never!. It means he himself can kill the wife then

Anonymous said...

Neva !!!! Am so goin for a divorce d nxt day it shows I'm of no importance 2 him

Anonymous said...

Useless post

Anonymous said...

IS THAT AN HONEST TO GOD QUESTION? I DONT KNOW HIM TOO. SIMPLE

Unknown said...

If I happens to be the woman, na to pack my things and take off immediately..

victor said...

That's the last I will do oo. I will never try it.

NK said...

Dis question is nt called for, hell No!

♥ ȊƦȋƺȟ ƘƦȋϻ ♥ said...

God 4 bid stay married linda abi d@s if I dnt kill him 1st..I wil nt stay married 2 a guy lyk d@ nd I wil also kill d idiot masef...

Anonymous said...

Linda, I have just one word to answer your question.......NEVER.

Anonymous said...

Capital No.

Anonymous said...

Sista linda, Afrika Magic Yoruba Dis Afterng... Weldon Ma... Lmao

Unknown said...

Stay married kwa, if i luckily excape am paying touts to beat the hell out of him and kick his ass off my life

Anonymous said...

stay married to who? God forbid, the marriage ends there immediately

Anonymous said...

Continue wif d struggle




Afrocandy asks guys to come ask suck her pu**y Asap

Gaia said...

Which kain mumu kweshun be dis? Stay married to him ke? Someone that left you for dead??? And someone is saying if kids are involved... WHEN THEN NKO? You wan wait till he kills you? After that another woman will come raise your kids. If you like stay sho gbo! *long hiss*

ZeeZee said...

LOL To a man who won't defend me? I rebuke it in the mighty name of Jesus but it's possible I could, I'm hesitating I don't know why.
Marriage I guess is different from a relationship, and what if you're already old, you'll go searching?

Unknown said...

I pity u, cant read or write.

Unknown said...

Who wants to die? On that day one will know its for worse for go. True love will be tested . We are humans anyone can betray you , judas sef betrayed jesus . I will not be surprised if my future wife does that

Anonymous said...

African Magic things,so Linda you watched that movie too,just finished watching it and am like,all this Yoruba people with their nonsense culture,that is so bizarre,there's no way i will stay with such a wicked man.God knows.Sandy Berry.

Anonymous said...

BET Y WUD I STAY...I Would delete you from my memory an fly to the other Side of the World#loveniLove ko!

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