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Tuesday 28 July 2015

LIB reader reports physical abuse from her dad, shares photo

A LIB reader sent this in and asked me to share. Below is what she wrote;
"My name is Ada.... It's really annoying what some fathers do to their children though for stupid reasons. I bought a love bracelet watch from Konga and when he saw it on my wrist he tore it off  into pieces saying why would I wear love on my wrist. And when I tried explaining that it meant nothing, he blew my eye"

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Unknown said...

Good for u, love at ur age

Anonymous said...

He *punched my eye

SANDRA said...

Madam Ada, fuck off nd keep ur family issue private

SANDRA said...

Madam Ada, fuck off nd keep ur family issue private

Unknown said...

Hmm nawa ohh,tel us d main reason

Joblesshousewife said...

I dont believe this story.. You dad cant be that dumb na haba! I know you dad will read this and tell us the real story...*waiting to read from him*

Anonymous said...

Is Gud u obey ur parents smtin it helps

Spontaneous. said...

No matter how old you are, he doesn't have the right to do that to you, do you have a mum, talk to her.
Cruel man.
You are still under his roof so pls don't do what he won't like. To be on the safer side, take care dear

Unknown said...

Too bad..but putting it on internet! Well I don't know sha


OKORO UPGRADED

Unknown said...

Ur dad is trying 2 protect u b4 u go wild

Unknown said...

After posting it on LIB what next? sympathy, People making jest of it and lots more. What if someone shows you're father this post. What do you think he'll do.

Anonymous said...

Abeg gerrout!!! I'm sure you have been annoying d man before now.... See ur eye.. U obviously r a liar... U never talk true, what did he catch u doing?

Unknown said...

Na Normal thing now.when u don dey follow your papa dey compete lol.you ought to be in your husband house jare!

Bonita Bislam said...

Its either your dad wants to marry u or there is something you ain't telling us.Something is amiss here!

Anonymous said...

This comment tho.Lmao

Rosamaria Mclouis said...

My dad never raised his hands on me nd I didn't get spoilt.. beating ain't d best way to discipline a child it's wrong...
Royalties don't talk much

Lawrence A said...

na real #blew .. hahaha he blew my eye

Anonymous said...

ehn, so what? na America you think say you day? come meet my mama make she tell you how life take be.
you better stop that rubbish and take your correction.

Unknown said...

Na wa,children of dis generation are something else o,in my days how dare you report ur dad to someone else?my dear keep ur family issues private,ur eyes go soon heal.

Anonymous said...

What is wrong with African girls this days??? Trying to follow western way... Na today our dads dey beat us ba? abeg go rest jor

Anonymous said...

Lol funny girl .OK nah where is ur dad make we flog am . and it punched dear .Ada maybe u no agree make him flog u . nah it make he use his hand punch u .sorry u hear

OSINANL said...

Sorry o...

Anonymous said...

Ada sorry for what happened but there is more to this story.. did you exchange words with him? Have you been proving sturbbon? I believe he is not a mad man. He cant just punch you on the eye for no reason. Anyi aburo umuazi ebea o

Anonymous said...

He has been in this world before you. So if he thinks it's not right for you. Your explanation makes no meaning. Secondly, It also depends deeply on how you tried to explain this to him. I know you must have displayed attitudinal face before voicing out. Anyways, lesson learnt in a hard way. Be a good girl. Mentor say so!

Unknown said...

If he punched your eyes without you insulting him, it's bad, but deducing from how rudely your report sounds coupled with how bold you are to have reported this to the world in an attempt to shame your dad, I feel he has a point-he wants to stop you before you become completely rebellious. Next time, don't do what your daddy wouldn't like while he still pays your fees, wait till you're independent. Sorry dear, use cold compression on it.

Anonymous said...

Idiot how old do u know she is of all the things she said it's only u saw

STERN said...

This girl must be very silly. Did she report to any of her family members first before bringing this here?

Anonymous said...

girl caught by dad doing runs. dad smacks sense into her

Unknown said...

Hmmmm!! Even if she's a slut the father shud nat go this extreme...there are better ways to discipline your child

Anonymous said...

OMO Ale jati-jati.. you wont go and face your studies you are busy wearing love bracelet about!!!!!and besides you've got so much gut to come to these forum to report your father ABI? PLS WHAT ARE THIS CHILDREN TURNING TO? pls be mindful of the crowd that you mix with. your mates are busy playing on the world stage making their parent proud and you are busy reporting ur dad to us so that we can crucify him. pls ur dad is ur Dad and their is nothing like child abuse in AFRICA OR ARE U FROM ANOTHER PLANET? U .. beware!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!U DESERVE NOTHING BUT ANOTHER DIRTY SLAP!

Anonymous said...

Growing up my papa used electric wire to woooz me, this is nothing. Love bracelet indeed.

snowflix said...

Nne this your story no gel atall and you are proud to put up your pic smh #onelovefromsnow#

Lawrence A said...

linda self no fit help her correct the grammer miss ada #blew my eye lmaooo

Unknown said...

Y would she put dz kind of tn on Internet.. smh

Unknown said...

Ada abeg yarn d truth nah,..Ur old man no just punch ur eyes ova d love watch mata nah.....

Unknown said...

I wonder how u want us to believe ur story ur father has invested so much on u and wht u could use to pay him back is using this platform to report him. Shame on u..... U had better concentrate on ur study

adeoludt said...

nah naija b dis abeg .....next

Anonymous said...

Dear Ada, you did not tell us what you do for a living. How did you acquire the bracelet? How old are you? You cannot tell me that you have a source of income and your father is auditing how you spend your money. Am sure there is something that you are not telling us. Let your conscience be the best judge.

Unknown said...

Something's not right! You probably disrespected him while trying to explain. Be honest about it!

Mademen said...

Beta b kiaful cos if u'r dad getz to read tis blog then more blows await u n more updates awaitz us

Anonymous said...

Hope the dad finds this so he can get another battery lol.

Unknown said...

Laughable.....

Unknown said...

This is senseless pleas explain better or u tell us the truth

SMURF said...

That cannot be the only reason, maybe you are a wayward girl and he is always seeing you with boys, besides how many people beaten by their parents and don't run to LIB to report

Unknown said...

Can't you sought ur family problems IN your house. Please, stop bringing family issues here abeg. Keep private issues private for heaven's sake!

Unknown said...

Ur papa mayweather ur eye

Cynhams Cakes & Pastries, Abuja said...

Wow, what do you want to achieve with this publication? He will even beat you more fir embarrassing him. Thank God you didn't put his picture here too.


If you are schooling, try hard, graduate, get a job or get married or whatever and leave your father's house.
I'm not saying what he did is right, just be more careful and avoid doing things that will provoke him and do not talk back at him when he's talking to you.

Your dad is your dad.



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Mrs Tiger said...

Blew blew blew away!

Anonymous said...

Good for you Ada, you want to be the type of take way ladies on the street. Your dad want you to be a good girl. I am happy for you next time fuck up your dad!

Angie said...

What do we do with this? Parents should not discipline their children?; I'm sure he didn't target ur eye but putting this on internet? It goes to show tht u are a very disrespectful child.

Anonymous said...

I have seen a dad hit a child on the eye with his belt and the child lost that eye. Fathers must discipline their children with love and not with anger. When anger takes over, beating or caining is misdirected at vital parts of the body. No matter the provocation from a child, fathers should be careful not cause permanent damage on their children or death by their actions.

Unknown said...

HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER SO THAT THY DAYS MAY BE LONG. You should not have spoken back at your dad first.

Anonymous said...

I don't condone domestic violence of any sort however, it's a shame that people no longer abide by the "don't air your dirty laundry in public" rule. This appears to be a minor incident that must have happened many times before, seeing as her dad is not averse to providing a whopping to send his point across. Young lady all that you have done is put your face out there for all the wrong reasons, everything doesn't have to be shared on social media because you can't un-share it!

Unknown said...

Ada just do as your father says he knows more than you.

Anonymous said...

Olodo, what were u expecting to see? It's you that needs your English tutor.

Fine Sisi said...

How old are you again? Please focus on passing JAMB. Spending all your time on blogs for example isn't good for you. You have just succeeded in showing the whole world how unruly you are, by bringing your dad out here. Who pays your school fees Ada? Not Linda, I supposed.

Anonymous said...

STUPID GIRL, WHAT ARE TRYING TO ACHIEVE BY REPORTING YOUR FATHER ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND WHY THE HELL DID LINDA KEEP INSULTING OUR SENSIBILITIES BY SOME OF HER POSTS?
ITS GOOD TO SHOW NAKED PEOPLE
TALK ABOUT PENIS AND VAGINA
PUT GAY ISSUES BEFORE OUR FACES
THE LIST IS ENDLESS AND IT'S REALLY ANNOYING. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT SOME COPY-CAT NIGERIANS WILL BEGIN ADVOCATING FOR GOVT TO TAKE CUSTODY OF SUPPOSEDLY ABUSED CHILDREN. I AM NOT SUPPORTING ABUSE OF CHILDREN BUT PLEASE, THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING. WHO KNOWS IF THIS CIVIL SERVANT HAS BEEN OWED SALARY FOR SEVERAL MONTHS AND SEEING HIS DAUGHTER FRITTER AWAY MUCH DESIRED FUNDS... YOU CAN GUESS THE RESPONSE. CUT THESE FOLKS SOME SLACK MEN. THEY ARE HUMAN AND TIMES ARE HARD.

Anonymous said...

It is wrong for you to bring your private family issues to a public medium. Most of the people here are not interested in whatever transpires between you and your parents. You have only come here to state your own part of the story, whereas your father has no opportunity to really his own side. Inasmuch as i do not condone physical assault, you must have spoken either rudely or pompously to him to have warranted being punched in the eye.

It is obvious from the way you narrated that you are arrogant, rude and an unruly girl. Whenever you finish reading the comments, take your sorry ass off the computer and apologise to your father.

Anonymous said...

So becos of bracelet u come report ur papa for LIB. U deserve the blow.

Unknown said...

Mayb he had listened to her earlier calls, quietly and kept silent, and then suddenly she appears with a love bracelet, I rmba then, if u wear ring in my house, my mum will beat u, dad will shout, is only training, spare d rod & spoil the child, but it wud hv bin with koboko instead of punching ur eye.

Unknown said...

This story is bull. Btw, love is harmless,its what people should show everyone. All humans now a days including you,Miss Ada,display a level of evil towards your neighbour. Love everyone and you will avoid troubles. Pls,dont fvck,you're too young for that *chubby*

Juliebabe said...

Why would you be reporting your dad to people besides your dad is only helping you, the bible says spare the rod and spoil the child. Next time you want to purchase something buy what(nice bracelet without anything written on it) won't put you in trouble.

seyi crown said...

Y will a father do dat? Thats really bad

Anonymous said...

@Jessica Chidinma u are an IDIOT!!!!!!!!!! Do you think we still live in the stone age what do u mean by" but deducing from how rudely your report sounds coupled with how bold you are to have reported this to the world in an attempt to shame your dad, I feel he has a point-he wants to stop you before you become completely rebellious. Your a First Class FOOL i pray your husband beats the shit outta U. The nerve of some people. Sorry @ the Abused Girl i pray your dad comes back to his senses and apologizes so sad #STOPTHEABUSE!!! All because of bracelet pssss!!!!

Unknown said...

If not for technology and Internet sef... Ds children of ds century are so spoilt, y would even think of reporting your dad on

vero kuku said...

Now i know why your dad punch your face , this this is part of it!!!! Disrespect of the highest order. how can you bring your family issues here too bad please have a rethink and turn a new child!!!!

Fine Sisi said...

How old are you again? Please focus on passing JAMB and stop wasting your time on blogs. You have only shown how unruly you can be by bringing your dad out here. Who pays your school fees Ada? Not Linda I supposed.

Fine Sisi said...

How old are you again? Please focus on passing JAMB and stop wasting your time on blogs. You have only shown how unruly you can be by bringing your dad out here. Who pays your school fees Ada? Not Linda I supposed.

Lanre onwards said...

Useless girls.

Anonymous said...

When we saw the child stabbed by his mum, we were all angry, now a child is reporting a case of abuse early and because of our stupid cultural constraints she's being mocked. Maybe when a report of her death comes in, it will make more sense. Abuse is not acceptable no matter who does or for whatever reason.

HOTGIRL said...

come Linda, dont encourage these youngsters to come here reporting their parents.Grow some sense.
and u smallie,how old are u ? you have the guts to report ur dad to a blogger ?whats ur urpose.Honor thy father and mother so that ur days may be long.this is nigeria not america where anything goes.

Respect ur dad and settle with him in the house.Dont be STUPID.yOU WILL REGRET UR ACTION TODAY AND GUESS WHAT? ITS YOUR PICTURE ON THE INTERNET NOT UR DADS!!!
besises this is not even up to what Abraham did to Isaac by wanting to sacrifice him yet he was obidient.

what yourself you rebellious child!!!

knowurway.com said...

Bonita B, some evil men are like that who use their daughter for ritual they won't allowed their daughter to get boy friend marry or put anything concern love on their body.

HOTGIRL said...

come Linda, dont encourage these youngsters to come here reporting their parents.Grow some sense.
and u smallie,how old are u ? you have the guts to report ur dad to a blogger ?whats ur Purpose.Honor thy father and mother so that ur days may be long.this is nigeria not america where anything goes.

Respect ur dad and settle with him in the house.Dont be STUPID.yOU WILL REGRET UR ACTION TODAY AND GUESS WHAT? ITS YOUR PICTURE ON THE INTERNET NOT UR DADS!!!
besides this is not even up to what Abraham did to Isaac by wanting to sacrifice him yet he was obedient.

what yourself you rebellious child!!!

Anonymous said...

Its obvious she is a rebel, spoilt brat,,talking back at her father. You are lucky this time maybe d nest time you sound rude to your dad I think he should get a tool and pluck out your set of teeth and give them to you to count. As if your offence was not bad enough you ran here to discuss your father. You die well, pray your don't see this.

Unknown said...

You should have just removed the bracelet when he asked you to without arguing or trying to lecture him, you look like a strongwilled/stubborn child, no Father in his right mind wld just hit his child, this is obviously an issue of Youthful Exuberance, you can't wait to leave the house & be on your own without anyone telling you what you should or shouldn't do. & I wonder why Linda posted this, you should know better.

knowurway.com said...

Bonita B, some evil men are like that who use their daughter for ritual they won't allowed their daughter to get boy friend marry or put anything concern love on their body.

Unknown said...

You should have just removed the bracelet when he asked you to without arguing or trying to lecture him, you look like a strongwilled/stubborn child, no Father in his right mind wld just hit his child, this is obviously an issue of Youthful Exuberance, you can't wait to leave the house & be on your own without anyone telling you what you should or shouldn't do. & I wonder why Linda posted this, you should know better.

Unknown said...

Nne na today?
I still chop slap on sunday after dropping owo ounje for d month
Mtshewwwww swerve jor

Unknown said...

U are an asshole

Anonymous said...

My late daddy use to say something, if you are rude, it will turn a small thing to a big thing. Your daddy might be angry with you for buying that stuff but how did u talked to him , where you rude or apologetic, if you weren't rude and he punished you just like that, then he is wicked but if u were rude to him instead of soberly explaining the issue then you need that

Frying-Pan said...

1 bottle of orijin. Is it only two of them in the family, no brother, sister, mother, uncles and aunties?
She rush to bring it to LIB.

What should we do now?
Find her dad and punch him in the balls?
Nawa o. I am not supporting her dad's actions, but I feel she should report to her family members, not LIB.

Unknown said...

Well spoken

Enny said...

Wicked Father

knowurway.com said...

Some evil men are like that who use their daughter for ritual they won't allowed their daughter to get boy friend marry or put anything concern love on their body.

Anonymous said...

He 4 punch the other eye sef. Just imagine the nonesense she go don spew out of that mouth to d man. Yeye pikin

Unknown said...

Stupid girl, your type is the types who doesn't allow their parents control them. Who knows the way you responded to your father which provoked him to punch your eye! Anyway this your story is not buy able, shame on you.

kay said...

So make we come arrest ur papa bah? That's what made America the nonsense it is today! Children pick up guns and knives to kill their parents...cuz they started out as you(reporting ur parents). Don't get me wrong o.. am not saying what ur dad did was right...infact he's wrong in all ways for punching u in the eye if he did so! Buh u coming to report ur dad to the world cuz u av a platform to do so is so so bad dear... just settle ur each among ur family.. call ur aunty or uncle and tell them wah happened and dey cud stop by and cm tell him what he did was bad.. not tru this means! Please keep your family ish out of the world and social media please! If I was ur father and see this I will beat u the more!

Unknown said...

Correct African dad...

ary said...

LOL he blew your eyes?! Sorry dear!! I am not laughing at your situation but your expression. Sometimes frustration gets to our parents and they take it out on us and sometimes they look at the world and fear what it would do to us if unchecked and some would resort to the extreme; like your dad unfortunately. Sorry about your injuries.

knowurway.com said...

Some evil men are like that who use their daughter for ritual they won't allowed their daughter to get boy friend marry or put anything concern love on their body. Ada, always pray for your dear life as never before, because I don't see any reason that will make man beat up his daughter just because of Bracelet. Smh

knowurway.com said...

Some evil men are like that who use their daughter for ritual they won't allowed their daughter to get boy friend marry or put anything concern love on their body. Ada, always pray for your dear life as never before, because I don't see any reason that will make man beat up his daughter just because of Bracelet. Smh

zion said...

Madam Sandra learn some manners pls

Anonymous said...

ada, small girl like you...
You don dey follow man abi?
Better act your age or dem go "blew" more than your eye...

Unknown said...

pele,,,me in dos old dead,ma pap use to flog me wit belt,yet i still love em

Anonymous said...

pele,,,me in dos old dead,ma pap use to flog me wit belt,yet i still love em

Unknown said...

So what do u want us to do? Call ur dad out or give u any avenue to fight back. Bringing this out for us to see sef shows u lack wisdom and Linda is just interested in d money she ll make off u I guess. Pls get ur dad arrested and prosecuted or u even disown him.

Unknown said...

Foolish comment. Same way u dad beats u abi.. Fool

zion said...

Tanx dear for saying that, this shows the we still have some sensible pple in this country

Anonymous said...

you must have been very very rude for him to have punched you and for your information you don't have any reason to publish this rubbish because you don't expect your dad to stand and watch you go rutting, gushhh young girls of nowadays, you keep reporting your parents to the world when they are the gods you see because they brought you to this life...you should be sorry about this nasty thing you have done, if it where to be some dad, pray he doesn't know about this because you dont deserve forgiveness and you are too young and too spoilt for this... RUBISH

Unknown said...

There's more to the story. But he should've talked to you instead.

Unknown said...

E nor beat u reach u stl gt eye see road write gv linda okpetu

Zukk3i said...

It seems that it did not occur to you that the LOVE bracelet watch probably looks like a romantic gift that a guy would give to his girlfriend. That is what your father does not want you to be flashing around under his nose. And I'm very sure that your dad tried to explain to you and you were being stubborn(if not also insolent) resulting in the punch to your eye. Madam, as long as you are still living under the same roof as your parents and they are the ones taking care of you then you must honor and obey them. If you don't like it then pack out and fend for yourself.
And by the way, keep your family issues away from social media.

Anonymous said...

sad children these days rush to social media to report their parents. It wasnt like this when we were growing up. So parents should just sit back and watch their children rot away. I pray he reads this post and beats you even more. And Linda, pls dont indulge this children by posting this their stupid reports. If ur parents didnt spank at one point or the other, you wouldnt be this successful today. Pls always let them know we are in Africa, and in Africa we spank our children to keep them in check. This is not UK or US

Unknown said...

So, wat shuld we do abt it, omokomo

Uzo said...

You must be stupid lady...U have the nerve to put this up on social media so the police can arrest him ba? Reading ur post shows how disrespectful n rude you are,those wings of yours have got to be clipped b4 u fly and crash land.

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Wetin carry internet join this matter nw... Mumu....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

samuel afolabi said...

So, u are reporting ur dad so dat police will arrest him.you are a spoiled child,go and asked my own child who is older than you.Don't try this again in ur life

Josh B'scofield said...

Babe don't take it to heart, he was just having a bad day

Anonymous said...

Maybe u are always on your phone and the man has been watching you..all fathers will assume ur talking to a boy..you now went and bought love watch..and that you can post it on linda ikeji means your very stubborn..secondly if he has been maltreating you before now check if hes your real father..

Anonymous said...

My dear, if you have a problem with your dad, Linda Ikeji blog is not the place to air the complaint. Report to his family members, probably older uncles, aunts or siblings of his that you know he respects. Tell your mother. But not the whole world. Some things are better kept in privacy. Like Jessica said, you must have been rude to have infuriated him that much to punch your eye. Learn to respect your parents, even when they offend you...so all holy books say. I don't think you are telling us the whole truth.You must always remember that you are the child and as long as you are under his roof, you must respect him. Pele o! Go and put ice block on it.

genny said...

Very matured 👍

Anonymous said...

Blew or blewing?olodo ur papa suppose kill u for wasting his hard earn money for ur school fees,blew kwanu,lols blew indeed
Ola Brampton

M said...

Well said

M said...

The problem is that they watch too much Novelas

Unknown said...

There is more this story.
Tell us the real truth.

Unknown said...

Naughty girl! I would ave love to see u! So I can give I two different hot slap!!!! Stupid girl! If your dad beat so wat?!! You just want to be forcefully famous I n a stupid way I swear down! Just short dat thing u call mouth nd go and apologies to ur dad nd also amend ur behaviour 2wards ur dad

Unknown said...

u must have said sumthings,from ur words I can tell u talk to him rudely most times.n bringin ur dad to LIB,just show how mch respect u hav for him.wer u xpecting sori?

ola said...

Dis one don dey fuck dats y d fada beat her. I'm sure she would have been corrected severally in a cool way but since she doesn't want to desist from a wayward way d fada need to take a very harsh step.... dis is Africa..... obey ur parent and don't bring ur family issues to the public

Anonymous said...

Heyyyyyy, u dont hav to put dis up here, am sure as u read tru al d comments u wont be able wit urself for doin dis.uve gained nothin buh insult todai from peeps daht dont worth to talk to ur dad.Give him some respect dear.

Anonymous said...

No matter what your dad must have done to you, you don't have to let everybody know about it now tell me what this is saying about you, Am so sure you are lying and there is more to this. Sorry oooh. It is well

Anonymous said...

she goes to covenant university!!!

Anonymous said...

who gave you the money to buy it...

Anonymous said...

Linda this girl no talk truth at all she carry boyfriend enta her room na reason be that

Anonymous said...

IS HE A BOXER??LET ME RECOMMEND HIM...TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

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Unknown said...

Na just ur eye and u de tell us. I wish he has spank ur back side with a strong cane. As u tell us now, Wetin u gain. I pray ur dad sees dis and breaks ur head. We are waiting for ur next report cos his yet to start. Anyway domestic violence is not supported by me

Anonymous said...

Oh shut up you sound stupid. African mentality is the reason for this stupidity developed countries no parent does this

Unknown said...

I wonder oh @rosamaria.. Just for using a Love bracelet watch, hmmm lemme not say what i wanna.
Dunno how dt spoils a child, hisss

Anonymous said...

Lol at *blew my eye.

Anonymous said...

there is no justification what so ever to what he has done, there are many correctional ways of bringing up a child especially female.. when her siblings(male) start beating up their spouse in a bid to correct them.. then am sure you all will see it as wrong.

Unknown said...

Munachi, is this you?

Anonymous said...

You must have explained rudely abeg!

Unknown said...


Why not seek for another name? Copycat ole..

Anonymous said...

@ blew my eye... that shit got me cracking up! Lmao...But on a serious note.... Pele, next time listen to your dad... if he says take it off u do so immediately without attitude then when he is jovial n calm u explain to him the reason for the bracket... simple!

iyke cindy said...

I wonder....na wa ooo, see her fry pan nose sef...evryone's cravin for attention on LIB....

Anonymous said...

Such a child..How about telling your mum or family member?

treasure said...

majority of u have been so unfair in your choice of words! no matter what, he has no moral right to hit his child that hard. if the man is in his right sense he should know he can gently ask why she is wearing it and if he still doesnt like it, he should explain why to the daughter with love. no matter how old a father can be or mother he cant be older than God. and am sure God our indeed father wunt do this no matter what. its until he uses knife to cut off her hands before u pple will talk wit ur conscience and not wit ur tongues. a child that will be wayward will be and a child that will be odawise will.

Unknown said...

Maybe ur one of those notorious girls with numerous boy friend and ur failing in school and wasting his money so that's y he is harsh on you so he can get you under control please I said maybe oh

Anonymous said...

Such a spoilt brat , fathers beat their daughters for being naughty, obviously u are for bring dis issue public msteeeeewwww

Unknown said...

OMG! Dis act is so out of place except if she is not telling us d main reason behind dis. Parents caution wit hitting ur children in d name to penalise them.

Unknown said...

EVERYBODY COMMENTING RUBBISH BECAUSE U HAVEN'T EXPERIENCED A DEAD BEAT DAD.

Anonymous said...

Bla bla bla will u ever agree u r spoilt cmon gerrarahere mehn

Iambae

Godwin said...

+Jessica Chidinma, I like your response. You have made all the points. Children of nowadays are just something else. She wouldn't want to tell us how she went about doing the explanation

Anonymous said...

Pele.

Timi Da Uyi said...

This girl is rude!!!

Unknown said...

go fuck urself bitch.... so what if yo dad whoops ur ass.. #ItsAllowed...

Anonymous said...

SHE WANTS TO GROW UP FAST, LOOK AT HER HAIR DO. THIS GIRL IS STILL IN SECONDARY SCHOOL. ANUOFIA.

Anonymous said...

Best comment

Anonymous said...

many of you dont know what it feels like to suffer abuse from ppl who u call ur parents...my dad is rich,while my mum is just an housewife,from my 8yrs old,i suffered beatings upon beatings from my dad,he hits u at every little thing,hes coming back from work and u dont run upstairs..ure a gonna,he slaps,punches,hit and match u with his shoes until ure unable to feel ur legs..u cant even run cuz u become so feeble,numb and weak with marks all over.my mother only watch bcuz she was afraid of him.to outsiders we are the rich man kids but at home we are like dummies..i was 13 when he died,i didnt even shed a tear..i tot i was free after his death but no. i was traumatised,depressed,and always cry when am alone and it happened for years,i had no self confident,afraid to speak out my mind,etc.you dont know the harm ABUSE can cause..the man has no right to hit the daughter in such a manner..absolutely no right.there are alot of ways u can punish ur kids without hitting them.the more u hit the more u push a child to d outside world.

Anonymous said...

U are not in the position to tell us if u r spoilt or not....i know alot of people like you that say they are not spoilt but are a heap load of bad attitude

Anonymous said...

How old are you oh Ada????? That your father's reasons have become stupid

Anonymous said...

S'awa lo ye'o ro'jo fun. Melo melo iru e nigba ewe. LIB da lati ro'jo fun nigba tiwa.

Unknown said...

Chai!.....

Anonymous said...

Sorry

Anonymous said...

Sorry

Anonymous said...

Why do u pple dnt tink before saying ur rubbish talk,na wa oo for ds pple Wey dey reply sef.

Anonymous said...

Na wa for ds pple Wey dey reply sef,u pple dnt tink before sayin ur rubbish talk.

Anonymous said...

Are u sure it's your eye he punched, ur nose looks punched too tho! Lol
Dis is wat Yoruba call: Omo'jati jati.

Unknown said...

Your dad made a mistake hitting ur eye but reporting him on social media ain't a good one. You ought to have reported him to a close family member not social media....

Bleu said...

Reading pplz comments on here sometimes makes me sick.. It just shows how ignorant Nigerians are. Ada your dad has no reason punching you.. He is a man and obviously strength wise, he is stronger than you are. Even if you were talking back, he could have punished you differently. Parents plz stop hitting your children when they get to a certain age. Treat them like adults.. But really tho, there are some things my mom will say to me back then when I was in my early twenties when I misbehave that hurts more than beating.. As in I will prefer a whooping than the prep talk.

Anonymous said...

Obey your dad. Simple!! your dad can't just smack u like that. U must've done something wrong sha..Good thing u are in Africa. Ur father is tryna protect u b4 u get out of hand...if it was here in the U.S.A, you would have called 911 for ur dad right??? Spoiled generation...OBEY YOUR DAD and stop bringing ur family issues online

Anonymous said...

No Mata wat Ada must Av don.he shldnt Av gon dis far...dere oda waays of dealin wit a child,she no animal.plssssss

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Giftie said...

Wait make ur papa catch u here, youthful exuberance! You think say u dey abroad?

Anonymous said...

This is exactly why we r backwards in Africa. Cos we have a belief dat all elderly ones are always right. We believe that so long as they are parents they are right. Look at the comments rolling in. Can u imagine? He almost blinded his daughter's eyes is he a boxer?. this is bull shit! There r many ways to correct a child. My father was so violent with us boxing us kicking us, and guess wat it didn't change us. Infact we started behaving like him. Having temper tantrums that it took the grace of God for us to change. Compared to my friends whom their parents never hit violently. They are so calm. My dear Ada your dad was WRONG. He shldnt abuse u. He can punish u in other ways. Please try to avoid him when he is angry. So that he wld nt disfigure you and scar you for life. I was in your shoes trust me. Read your books work hard, graduate and get a good job so that you can be independent and leave his house. That is the only way out. Sorry my dear. You would heal. Kisses.

Unknown said...

you no like take the issue to police? make we see if that swollen face no go increase by two...

Anonymous said...

In fact well said.....good for her. I hope she has learnt her lesson.

Sweet malo chic said...

I wonder y some father's are like that. I can relate to your story.

VICKY DARLING said...

You should be ashamed that you brought that in a social media, you are blaming your dad when you doing exactly worst, "GOING TOO FAR"

Unknown said...

So you had to report this to blog???

Anonymous said...

Lmao...rotfl @ he blew ur eye hahahahahaha lwkmd but! she u know his going to blow ur other eye now for pulling this ish on LIB? i dont know if linda is ur grandfather that u r reporting to abi u think commissioner of police will see it and come and arrest ur dad abi? if i was ur older brother ehnn,if I catch u...

Anonymous said...

Lmao...rotfl @ he blew ur eye hahahahahaha lwkmd but! shey u know his going to blow ur other eye now for pulling this ish on LIB? i dont know if linda is ur grandfather that u r reporting to abi u think commissioner of police will see it and come and arrest ur dad abi? if i was ur older brother ehnn,if I catch u...

Anonymous said...

Lmao...rotfl @ he blew ur eye hahahahahaha lwkmd but! she u know his going to blow ur other eye now for pulling this ish on LIB? i dont know if linda is ur grandfather that u r reporting to abi u think commissioner of police will see it and come and arrest ur dad abi? if i was ur older brother ehnn,if I catch u...

Elciee said...

What kind of protection is this, funny how people support domestic violence claiming it's a form of protection. No matter what a father actions shldnt result in punches. If he needs to punch sth he should get a correct punching bag. There are better and more civil ways to correct or scold a child rather than this barbaric act mentioned above. Plsssssss

Anonymous said...

It is for ur own good ok? The earlier u realise d good they are doing u, d better for u ....and stop coming here to look for sympathy.

Unknown said...

good for you.smart alec! u wan xplain wetin?

folorunso @folorunjay said...

Linda, must u report every dumb story? How can she report her father to the whole nigeria and SHE WILL STILL SLEEP UNDER his roof. Haba check am now. Even if this is true, this girl must be very stupid. If she knows her father can no longer slap her, then she can elope with the boy that bought the bracelet for her ... silly girl

Chicago princess said...

Dad or not...he has no reason, whatsoever to punch a lady in the face it's totally unacceptable...who does that? He could b jailed for that..Smh..Nigerian parents tho..nd u girl, perhaps u'v nt bin a good gurl..try to be respectful ok..peace

Unknown said...

Spot on

Unknown said...

Simply use "hit". And this ur story sounds off. Are u sleeping with ur father? What transpired if it's true sounds like jealousy to me. Just saying

Anonymous said...

sorry o don't do wat he does nt like next tym.choi dis ur face e bad o try wrk on am.

Anonymous said...

Little girl, u are so stupid and as little as that ut fish brain. So bcos ur dad beat u, u sent the pix to linda? Just go and buy goat and yam to do thanksgiving. To thank God dat my father is not ur father or u are not my sister bcos I will personally kill u myself. Anu ohia, see ur head see love bracelet. Why didnt ur father cut off that ut hand self?

Anonymous said...

Thanks for your bold comment as people and hypocrisy are one such that The Lord Jesus give us hand... so people pretend till now that father who wants to marry his own daughter and mother her own son are still news... Sick pretenders.

Anonymous said...

OK WHERE IS YOUR DAD AT LETS ARREST HIM...MUMU GIRL GO SLEEP JARE...

Richie said...

This's #Africa oo..if u don't want correction or chastisements, get ur own house..don't do sh*t with the man who brought u into this world..and pls don't post ur family stuffs on the internet..

Unknown said...

All these comments from uncivilised people. How does it help to suffer pain in silence? That is why many Nigerian women suffer domestic abuse and lack the courage to confide in people to help them. My dear, I am very sorry for what your father did to you. My father used to beat me a lot for the silliest reasons. I worked very hard to be independent and be far away from him. I am on a scholarship and I also have 2 part time jobs to maintain my lifestyle. I don't depend on anyone and my confidence and happiness has improved since I became independent. Try and find a legitimate job and move out of the house. I have noticed that Nigerian parents show their children more respect when they are self sufficient and don't live with the parents. Take care my dear.

Unknown said...

The net is not the best place to wash your dirty linens.
My Dad beat me as a child, I'm not sure I would have had the effrontery to put up pictures on the net if it was available then.
Please be matured. your dad wants the best for you.
This is a family thing. it is not for the whole world to share.

Arizona said...

So what do u want us to do to ur Dad now??? Bringing d issue to LIB was wrong now Ada I will go n tell ur Dad

Anonymous said...

Pause. I hope this is not Adaorah Andriana Kalu from Lead city. LIB ers please confirm.

Unknown said...

The net is not the best place to wash your dirty linens.
My Dad beat me as a child, I'm not sure I would have had the effrontery to put up pictures on the net if it was available then.
Please be matured. your dad wants the best for you.
This is a family thing. it is not for the whole world to share.

The Villager said...

Liar!Stupid girl!If you can do this to your dad,I just pity the guy that is going to marry you.If you keep speaking english like #blewmyeye#,isn't that enough reason to flog you,when it is dawning on the old man that you are wasting his hard earned money on your school fees.Linda,I beg,nor dey encourage these kain children to come dey disrespect their parents here o,report cases of rape and other abuse cases,nor this type i beg ehn.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Linda its not everything they send to you that you must share. Haba

Anonymous said...

Is this a free advert for konga. Ha ha ha ha

Anonymous said...

You are indeed a stupid girl. I mean you Ada! Keep on selling your values for the English man's value, ewu. Your father is now a fool. you better go back to basics, cut your wings and find the legacy all Igbo race have.

Anonymous said...

If this is the Ada I know, she won't do this. Maybe someone is trying to set her up.

Unknown said...

Eiya pele Ada

Anonymous said...

This girl must be a liar. No sane father would just punch a daughter in the eyes. If na slap, maybe I for agree.
I am 90% sure you have not been sleeping at home, you must have been moving with men/women of ill repute. probably your dad must have gotten wind of you sleeping around the place, hence his sadness and deep concerns as to where you get such items. You would also have been exchanging words with him.
If so, then enjoy your blow... Next time learn to be a child to your parents and act your age.

Unknown said...

Dis lil gurl never talk wetin she do! Ok u don report ur papa to linda as police woman abi? Oya linda wen u de go arrest d man?ada biko gbafuo here b4 nkukpoo d remaining eye!

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