Dear LIB readers: I'm engaged to one man and pregnant for another
From a female LIB reader
I am desperate and need honest advise from Matured people.
I met this wonderful 32yr Old French guy in a party in PH, we exchanged contacts and we started dating almost immediately.
I like him but I don't love him, but he loves me and can gladly die for me. sometimes I feel sorry for him when he begs me not to leave him. he left Nigeria 6months later and has been gone for 2yrs and all these time we talk, Skype and bbm round the clock so it felt like he is still here. He even shares his salary with me monthly. he proposed to me last year, I accepted he sent down a ring which I have never worn because I know my heart still yarns for a man that I will be crazy over. A man that I can die for. so I met this young politician that I have known all my life but never talked to. he asked me out, I accepted and we started dating, he was nothing like my fiancée, he didn't care how I feel, hardly calls, always busy. so disrespectful, I guess the heart is foolish because I felt for this politician in 1wk what I couldn't feel for my fiancée in 3yrs. I was happy, I was in love, I had everything I wanted. I couldn't tell my fiancée because I was afraid he would have a heart attack to I just kept in there hoping that when my new girl proposes I will eventually let my French guy go either by changing my contact or somehow.
but I realised this month that I am pregnant. I told my bf but the next morning he uploaded a pics of he and his gf. I almost died. I pinged him to ask what's up and he boldly told me it's his gf.
I have never been so heartbroken, what do I do with the pregnancy, what will I tell the French guy, where do I go from here. I just got admission for my Msc in September in Uk. my fiancée will certainly meet me up before 1 week of my arrival. please people help me.
lobatan! you are a selfish girl bae...permit me to say you gat that coming all along! carry your cross hunay. i gat problems of my own & i haven't come to yap about them on here!!!
Gobe! Good for you, ashewo kobo kobo. You had a good man but your foolish heart wanted a bad boy, and that is exactly what you got. My advice - keep the pregnancy so it will serve as a constant reminder of your folly so you wont make the same mistake again. Anuofia!
Babe wise up u might not be in love with the french dude but God knows he sincerely do, just do everything to uphold ya relationship. With u might be running head over heels for dat ya white dude. My advice' love is reciprocal so love him back.
Karma came visiting for the proposed date. You are truly a cursed girl beta go wash ur head with coconut or go look for the person that u offended and beg bcos ur future is dead on arrival
Ashawo kobokobo deal with ur problem I hate your type why date the white if you know you don't love him. You want to suck him dry Abi. God is punishing you in His own way. What is the different between you and Boko haram ?
Ashawo kobokobo deal with ur problem I hate your type why date the white if you know you don't love him. You want to suck him dry Abi. God is punishing you in His own way. What is the different between you and Boko haram ?
Abort that pregnancy fast and move on with your life. as a woman, your priority should be getting smone that adores you, not the other way round cos you'll suffer is the love is more from your end. Be wise oo. or ruin your life! Politicians are womanizers, he only used you or rather still using you, & dosn't have respect for you.
This is God's way of teaching You a lesson... A man is wired to LOVE his wife, You shouldn't marry someone THAT DOESNT LOVE YOU... I'm not saying You should be with the French guy, but U should've waited for someone truly worth of You! Know Your worth girl.. If the pregnancy isn't far gone, I advise to remove it, sadly, it is just reality rather than bring a child to the world who might be confused and feel alone... However if it's too far gone, if u r confident that this French man loves u enough to remain with u despite this misdeed, prayerfully tell him and God will take over if it's meant to be.
This is God's way of teaching You a lesson... A man is wired to LOVE his wife, You shouldn't marry someone THAT DOESNT LOVE YOU... I'm not saying You should be with the French guy, but U should've waited for someone truly worth of You! Know Your worth girl.. If the pregnancy isn't far gone, I advise to remove it, sadly, it is just reality rather than bring a child to the world who might be confused and feel alone... However if it's too far gone, if u r confident that this French man loves u enough to remain with u despite this misdeed, prayerfully tell him and God will take over if it's meant to be.
You are very silly, sorry for the language. But u seem really immature,pls how old are you? To save yourself from a life of sorrow and crying for a man that will never love you or claim ur child, you better have an abortion(ps;i know its wrong-but no point bringing a child you may end up regret having). Being a single mother is so hard. Pls DO NOT break up with the guy in the UK, he may not be all you think you desire, but believe me, he is the best for you. Smtimes love grows, you just have to give it time. He will give you peace and love you unconditionally, which is the most important. You will live a life far from weeping. This politician will destroy you. He has sm1 else to marry. LET HIM BE. Go for your masters,pick up ur old relationship and make the best of it.
Have never commented on lib but I wnt let dis go,are you high on cheap drugs?,I don't support abortion but swithrt my decision is tied on this,the politician doesn't care if you are pregnant or barren in fact he will not marry you,but that French dude will go to d moon and back for you. You are an adult and you knw what to do with your life.
Help yourself by giving birth to the baby. Explain to the French guy the situation you are. Give ur heart to some1 who will nourish it. If the french guy forgives you, he will accept you back.if he does, allow his love to grow in ur heart for love is like a seed. when watered, it grows and when not watered it may fade away. if none accept you, its not the end of the world. Your right man will surely come. Life is beautiful. I wish you goodluck
There is where ur greedyness has lead u..u have a man that is ready to die for u yet u are ready to die for another that takes u just as a runs girl...how can u ever accept a proposal from someone u knw u Dont love and u are plaining to break his hrt once this works for u and unfortunately it didn't now u need advice from people my dear am a girl like u but trust me na God catch u and to be honest even if u try to about that pregnancy it won't come down just have the baby that's ur cross to carry has for the French guy I pray he finds a girl more worthy of his love ........
Wow! Sometimes we are the cause of our own problems. you have a wonderful man who loves you so much and you are in love with someone who dns't care about you and you were sleeping with him up to the point of getting pregnant for him. What were you thinking ? Oh you think that wil make him stay with you ? If you weren't interested in this other guy why didt u tell him so he find someone who is worth it. You are a very wicked girl and if I was dat guy I will dumb your sorry ass, is girls like you dat give the good ones bad names you want to eat your cake and have it i dnt pity you nonsense. I pity that other guy because his so unlucky
You caused it all...I don't know when girls will stop loving boys that maltreat them..you just have to accept it like that oo.. maybe you can tell your french nigga you were raped or sth lol just kidding oo... get ready for single motherhood if your french guy won't forgive you and accept you.. clearly your politician is definitely gone for good..cheers
Kindly abort your pregnancy...your bf onbviously doesn't give a shit about u and ur baby...he seems like he won't want to marry you either...don't give up someone who truly loves u for someone who'll end up abandoning you...and ur man def won't accept a baby who's not his
You obviously like this french guy but you were drawn to the idea of having a Nigerian bobo so that it feels realer(thats what i think though). so darling if you must get rid of the pregnancy and dont tell the french guy. we all make mistakes no mistake is greater or less than another one. we are all humans.Move on with your lief.
You got what you wanted, why do you choose to double date when you knew the french guy loves you and now karma has caught up with you. Whatever you choose to do is all up to you
Big big grammar! Sum gals are so blind dat dey can nva see it cumin...nw u are abt 2 loose a guy dat luvs u cos of one stupid politician!! Well u can 4get abt d french guy n hv d baby or beta still hang d pregnancy 4 d french guy neck,tell him ur village ancestors wia against u dats y d pregnancy has stayed dz long....dats wat u get 4 been so dumb n foolish!
You deserve what is happening to you and much more. u almost died u say ? why didt you die foolish girl. what do you think woud have happened to d french guy if you had succeeded in your plans ? after all what he did for you girl you so ungrateful and wicked. Fish brain
Pray to God for forgiveness, flush the pregenancy but dont go and the aborption oo cuz u might die in the process. Then when you get to U.K confess to your fiancee and i pray God would intervene.
You can't eat ur cake and have it, since you don't love the french dude, tell him ur mind and let him go. As for the politician guy, he wants nothing to with u cos it's obvious he doesn't love u. I will advice you to keep the pregnancy and move on with ur life. One day u ll find the right person that u love and also loves u
Hmmm. Now that you're in this mess, confess to your God and also to the French man. God will forgive you and the French man might forgive you too. He might even adopt the baby but don't think of abortion. It will only make the matter worse. You might die or get something worse. God has only taught you a lesson to be remembered forever. Tell him the truth and God will have mercy on you dear. You're not the worse sinner and Jesus love you above all. Even if you loose the French man, God will be there to help you.
Please tell the french guy the whole truth you owe him that. If he accepts it and still want to be with you your luck but if he choose to move on his luck. You are heartbroken this is just the begin you better sit and make a wise decision if not you are going to regret this stupidity for the rest of your life..
This is so challenging what I can tell u is that if u are sure that he love u too well then explain urself to the French guy wat happen that you think he don't care for u but later u can see clearly that he really love u but now u have made a big mistake of getting pregnant to the worry guy but pls tell him the truth, promise him that u will remain faithfull to him for life I pray he listen you.
I'm sorry to say this bt u very stupid!! Oh now u need advice? Care and concern is one of d most important thing a lady needs in a relationship as that's our nature and u say fell for someone who doesn't give u all that? Darl, uve lost d man who could have cherished u all ur life. Pray to God seriously to forgive and save u,and open up to the poor french guy and if u lucky he accepts u and if not honey u d next single parent around. So next time u can use ur head properly!
Don't even think of putting the pregnancy on an innocent young man. Carry your cross alone. Be a single mother. U wanted to eat ur cake and have it. Rubbish. How I wish I know d french guys number, I would have called him myself to tell him what u did.
This story isn't true it's all cooked without fire. PH girl for that matter, finished your BSc for East or South when your eye go don open like mad then skyping, BBming, and even partying to hookup with some foreign folks, now doing corner marking to enjoy yourself and got pregnant so you want the world to tell you to do abortion? No, we wont. Listen liar, Nigeria Men aint heartless to that stage when we hear belle we dey chill, stop spoiling politicians name. My own advice to this story is go look for a way to fabricate stories this aint for matured minds but to increase traffic.
U ladies ur love is always upside dawn, u allowed a guy, who didn't cares about you to step with you, what are u thinking, planing to hold him down, very foolish, just have the baby and pray for forgiveness,
Hun.. You've made a very big mistake but this is not time to apportion blame.. Ask God for forgiveness den tell d French guy everything that happened not with d expectation that he will take you nd ur baby.. Then focus on getting a new life pls don't think of abortion uve made a mistake already dnt make another cos apart from d fact dt it's a sin u may loose ur life or womb.. go to UK u can study nd work to make ends meet for u nd ur baby who knows you may get a better guy who will accept u nd ur baby but pls don't make this mistake again.. Be faithful.. Faithfulness helps alot if u were all this won't have happened but it's okay dear everyone makes mistakes just prepare for ur new life as u study, work nd cater for u nd ur baby . God will strengthen u nd give u wisdom*big hug
I never comment on this things becos it's always too stupid... Don't you have friends don't u guys talk abt things.. If you don't den don you have a mother??? U can talk to.. How can you b soo dumb having unprotected sex with some1 let alone someone who treats you like crap!! U will probably end up broke and alone single mother in d end because Rili even with your degree u still verry dumb!!!
To me dear, wat is done is done, no man can change back in time. Just ask God fr forgiveness and direction. N call Ur bf whatever, den call him forget abt the reaction he is going to give to u. Just focus on telling him the Truth. If he fr u God won't let him go, n don't u dare abort DAT innocent child. And fr DAT idiot he will regret trust me.
Na oju kokoro dey worry u . U had better inform d French guy cos dat poli guy na miss call secondly dia life can neva be tamed or known let him be unless u want to be a chic all your life.Informing d French guy should be d next thing on your list but its a 50-50 thing.Tell him his absence made it easy for u to fall into anoda man's bed and dat u realy love Him if he agrees,good for u if not na u cos am wait for anoda man.
U feel ur hrt is broken ryt? Buh u fail 2 acknowledge de so many hrts u've broken. Shame on u!! I jst pray de french guy realises soon dat u're nufin but a fraudster
Hun.. You've made a very big mistake but it's not the time to apportion blame just ask God for forgiveness.. Tell d French guy everything but not with d expectation that he will accept you back.. Focus on starting a new life but pls dnt consider abortion uve made a mistake dnt make another.. You just may loose your life and your womb.. Wen it's time for u to travel to UK pls do you can work and school at d same time to make ends meet.. Who knows you just may find someone better who will accept you nd your baby but pls when you do be faithful to him. Unfaithfulness is what led you into this mess now but like I said it's not time to apportion blames.. I pray that God will strengthen and give you wisdom.. Big hug!
you are foolish, very foolish, I mean really really foolish, you had something good from the get go and you had to destroy it all because you want a guy you love, now you just got served, ur eye don clear. better aceppt ur fate and start all over again. MUMU
Marry someone who loves and adores you. All you need as a woman is a good man with a good heart who you can respect and trust his leadership. Then watch your love for him grow.
This is exactly what you get when you go the other way round. Gorgeous women get dumped everyday as a result.
Don't you ever go for abortion before you die in your sins.
I found myself in this same issue last year December. Yes, we all can raise insult on her but I want u to know that there is no one above temptation of Love. My dear the solution I had was to cry out to God for mercies, asking him to take away this shame as my christmas gift. which he did by bringing down this pregnancy,since it is still in a blood form. Please Pray God is merciful, no one can judge but only God cos our body is his temple. Also be open minded to the french man, my man forgave me and now we are planning our wedding. These was the least I can ever believe would happen to me but mercy speak. We all are learning, it can happen to any one it jus God's grace if u r nt a victim
Sorry about dat it can happen to any body, just tell ur fiance de truth nd apologise to he if he is truly ur husband he will for give u nd still marry u
I jst read some stories on here at times nd wonder hw some gals can be so daft, u found luv...a guy dat luved u to d xtent of sharin his salary wit u buh wat did u do,u threw his luv away for dat of a politician dat doesn't knw if u exist...well d deed has been done,tel ur fiancee evrytin nd beg 4 4giveness,if he accepts u bck fine;if he doesn't ur canoe to paddle cos u got served!!! Xo xo blue wit dis lady....
The ways of the heart is strange indeed. The heart always wnts wat it wnts. Dear u have made ur mistake already, I wunt advice u to abort cause His does not permit such act, u r a grown woman u can take care of d baby,d prblm wil be ur studies. Tell d French guy d truth, dia reasoning is a bit diff frm dt of our naija men ( no offence) so he may understand after all 3yrs no b beans. Pls don't forget to come n tell us how ur story ended Lol. All d best
I bet now u will cherish the french guy that would do anything for u. Abort the baby. Go for ur Msc. If things work out btwn u and d french guy,dnt blow it this time. Pls pls pls,dont tell the french guy this. He wont forgive u. Guys dont forgive.
Wilhelmina Moses I gbadun u die!!! My number 1 LIBer! I'm mostly thrilled by ur raw (or is it lewd) comments... Brightens up my day all the fucking time!!!!! I adopt ur "advice" to the girl as mine...
my dear, coming to seek advice from LIB was a very stupid step, people here would only lash you with words, funny enough i read peoples negative comments and suddenly started feeling sorry for you. Take your issue to God and seek pardon from him, he would surely make a way for you.
lol,why would you date a guy that treats you like crap in the first place? and why force yourself on someone you don't love? I'm against abortion so I suggest u keep the baby, come clean with ur French fiancé. if he sticks around, he is for you. if not, move on with your life. And be prayerful cos u definitely need God in every situation. He knows best!
Hahahaha,funny comments,,,na so u lik fork,anyway,anyways dat french guy don't deserv a girl lik u,bcos u wil stil continue cheatin on him,even whn he marry's u,nd d so called politician is a payback to d heart u where cheatin on,he. Is not ur man,dont force it,,so,if u can abort,nd start all over again,wit prayers b4 u start forking,mayb,u may fall inlove wit a nicer guy,or keep d baby nd remain a single mother,married is not for evrybody...ok..
Your inner instincts failed you, You acted on a the very script wrote by you and maybe thought you are watching a movie! Or maybe you were just not able to figure it out. Your thoughts through out this period had been always on the surface. The Mistake's already done. You know what to do, now that you are ready to fix things. Roger Linda!
I pity d gal. I experienced dis but am not dumb to d extnt of gettin pregnant. I av ambition. I dated d guy in Germany for almost 2yrs . Met him in a party but he travld 3wks later so i nvr had d chanc to knw him well. He askd me out ova der nd i was singl at dat period . I told him yes . Although i nvr lovd him. But gradually i start gettin use to talkin to him. He discus marriag (hes quite older) nd told me i wil move to Germany wit him wen m ready . Howevr dis guy is quite controllin nd lwz tel me am rude.but he love me lik no man ever has. Der is nothn . I mean nothin i ever ask him dat he doesn't give me. We bcam so clos dat we startd discusin meetin family wen he coms hom. .... But den unfortunately i met som1 here nd fell inlov wit him. Gave him my virginity . But d mistake i made is i didnt tell him immediately dat i ws seein som1 .i didnt want to break his heart. I told him to stop sendin me money sinc January. Cos i knw its wrong. Den i broke d relationship 2month ago wen he said he was comin hom by December to meet my family. . I panicked cos am stil wit d guy i love . We re goin strong nd he cares for me too. Just dat i thnk d one at Germany cares more. But I won't b hapy wit him. D day i hate myslf for causin him so much pain was d day i broke up wit him . He told me he made me his priority .where wil he start frm. He begged me not to leav him. But i already made up my mind. Nd den he said one painful thing. dat God wil judge. ....... I pray i dnt regret my actions. But sincerely i was nvr ready for d marriage he want so badly. I dnt want to make a terrible mistake. Pls ladies wat u knw u cant do dont promise a guy nd deceiv him bcos u dnt want to b alone. U might hurt som1 lik i did. But i pray God forgv me...... But abt pregnacy i wil nvr make dat mistake outof wedlock
Well babe wat is done is done, no one can turn back time, just ask God fr forgvness n take a deep breath n also call ur bf n tell him d truth, d truth will only hurt BT won't kill, when u HV already reveal the truth just get ready to take d reaction he will gv BT don't gv up. If God has ordain him fr u, he will cum back to u n don't u dare abort DAT innocent child, DAT idiot will n must regret it.
Your frolics with the politician and your selfish interest with the French guy be clouded your sense of reasoning. I think that the Pregnancy gives you an opportunity to appraise yourself and define what you really want. Warning! That unborn child should not be flushed. He or she is the answer to your many confusions of life.
Thats too bad, guess u wanted more instead of looking for love why dont you give love back to the one loving you. anyway my advice speak the truth at all cost in what ever the result keep the baby. he or she willbe a reminder to always love what youve got not fantacising.
I'll tell you what hurts me the most. It's the way most ladies treat guys that throw themselves for you and show you how much they love you. Why do you ladies do this? What else do you want? I bet that at some point you wished and prayed for that type of guy. Someone who will love you and treat you like a queen. Now you have him, you decide to frolic with a jerk. My advice for you is, call the guy and apologize. He genuinely loves you. He'll find a place in his heart to forgive you. And if you don't want to move on with him, tell him and stop elongating his pain. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
Girl,it is better that a man loves the woman than the woman more than the man my advice is tell the french guy all that happened if he can take you the way you are and if not God will show you another.
Well, you messed up but I'm sure u already know that. You fell for ur bf bcos he wasn't really paying attention to you. I get that feeling. people are more attracted to things that seem out of their reach. Anyways I would advise u to break up with the french guy cos u don't love him so that he can find someone who does. He doesn't deserve what you are dong to him. Then as for the baby, U can keep it if u think u can handle being a single mother for now or terminate it and move on with ur life. I hope you find someone you will love as much as they love u. goodluck.
You have made a mistake by having sex with the politician. it is a sin and why having unprotected sex. Despite the fact that he doesn't care, u can see now that money isn't everything. The French guy has been extremely nice to you and you were careless. You have to tell him the truth and he will forgive you. You can see the father of your unborn child didn't even care whether or not you are keeping the baby. Abortion is a No No my dear. God will take care of your situation, just hold on to him. Tell the guy when you are in the UK.
U really made a stupid mistake bt d mistake av bn made so I'll advice you to follow ur heart along wt ur brain cos no matter d amount of advise we give you here, if u are not content wt it,u will still follow ur heart.
Ha! Girlie O, na one chance u dey lee o, try and talk to ur white manny o, he might forgive ur cheating vjay-jay lee o. Some white men r dat understanding...but don't try dat S*** with a full blooded African man.....cos na die u dey so. And yes I think u should put dis politician on blast for wat he did (his full names, pictures and where una dey meet :-) ) , has he pour sand in ur garri....pour for him own too.....but pls tell Linda so she can gist us....sorry I can't help it ...ur story is funny and sweet...carry ur child and born am for UK...doesn't mean u will get a Stay ooo!
Mr Ben abi uncle or Big ben u ve FISH brain!!! For sure, So d politician is d very kind loving sweet gentleman ba? His not wicked for playing BF and all? #shitface na ur type dey cheat on their wife and call it "big deal"
First,its better a guy is head over heels 4 u than ure 4 him reason been its saver. Secondly call ur fiancee up nd explain 2 him,if he stays he is urs if nt move on#d man will definitely accept u d way ure wen he comes around#
“Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. (matt 11:28) all you need now is to surrenda yourself to God for him to take over.. dont be deceived you cant handle things yourself. allow the spirit of God to lead from now on. you have not done what a human being whose flesh still controls wont do, so be steel and let's this mark a beginning of a new life for you. for more advice seek your pastor if you have one.
I wish i had a french bf, den imagine when hes now loving caring and matured. And he now proposed and shared his salary with u. Girl ur jst greedy. avnt even got dat n am faithful. What is wrong with you? Deal with ur mess. But my advice, tell him d trut, tank God hes french, he shld forgive, coz u mite regret aborting it. N d baby dosnt deserve dat toture, coz its innocent. Buh d fada is an idiot so dnt boda involvin him. Thank God ur travellin out, so u can stat ur future from der. D future is in ur hands, u av a concience and u already hav d ansa in ur mind, so deal with it.
I wish i had a french bf, den imagine when hes now loving caring and matured. And he now proposed and shared his salary with u. Girl ur jst greedy. avnt even got dat n am faithful. What is wrong with you? Deal with ur mess. But my advice, tell him d trut, tank God hes french, he shld forgive, coz u mite regret aborting it. N d baby dosnt deserve dat toture, coz its innocent. Buh d fada is an idiot so dnt boda involvin him. Thank God ur travellin out, so u can stat ur future from der. D future is in ur hands, u av a concience and u already hav d ansa in ur mind, so deal with it.
lol Babes you cant eat your cake and have it serves you right you go what every woman want in dis strangest times and u spat it out like a silly girl u are deal with it ur cross and dont even think of trapping the innocent love sick man with dat baby cos am sure the politician wud have nothing to do with it just pick up cloths from where u left dem and think straight Thanks Linda
how can some pple be advising her to terminate the preg? abeg make she born am jare if she looses the french guy,its all her fault go and get a job and start a fresh life....
Shurup don't Lemme hear if he truly loves you again! #picks up a bat... after all d French guy did to show her love, u are still saying if he truly loves u, u need a fire slap... She deserves Whatever that's happening now and if She can see dis, commit suicide and die.. Mstcheww...
Abegi...Who know weda u don comot d belle sef? cum dey gve us yeye story wey no mk sense... Make we dey pity u? Abi dey advise oursef tinking say we dey advise u.
Terminate pregnancy,Kill for him. You are evil sha and I'm sure u married this husband of yours based on material things. Killer like u. Call me pweetie
You have been very selfish to the French man by cheating on him you don't deserve him,and I don't understand this nonsense of the politician treated you bad but you still wanted him that is complete bullshit, let this Frenchman marry someone who is going to love him how he wants to be loved, not a bitch(you) that stayed to share his salary with him this is why they keep calling Nigerian women goldiggers, I'm embarrassed for you pray to God and ask him for your next course of action
Is the name of your politician boyfriend Basil A. If yes, please try to contact me.
Politicians ain't loyal at all.
Lady please keep the baby and ask the White guy to forgive you.Give him back his ring and start a new life afresh. But babe you no try oh! I know how you feel trust me. I've walked in your shoes before. Just walk away and start your life all over. You will meet that guy you will die for and do anytin for. But trust me, is better for the guy to be the one loving you super well than you being the one loving him because he will make a mess of ur life. Am talking out of experience. There's no gain in loving a guy super well, but there's gain when the guy is the one loving you a great deal. That was how I treated a guy who loved me so well badly and loved the one who treated me lyk a nobody. When I realised myself through the help of my elder sis and friends I walked away. Thank God for alwz being that merciful God, he gave me another chance. Now, am happily married and my hubby loves me more than I do. Am still learning to love him. But I won't treat him less again. In fact the little love I have for him, I can make me do anything for him. I learnt my lesson in hard way that's why I won't misuse this second chance again.
Please start your life all over again. Love/another chance will come to you again.
Sweetheart just ask God for forgiveness then talk to your french guy about it what ever he says don't remove the baby okay? You made a mistake everyone does stupid things sometimes and you regret it just do what is right don't remove it God will help you okay
why cant we be scincere for just a day...even when d white guy gives you all his salary u go still fall hand...NAIJA guyz whey nova get money go come say him dey suffer because him no c money give him girl...THAAAAA...even if u give am u no save...GOD LEAD US...
humans are really funny......she realized her mistakes and she decide to seek for advice and what most of you could do is rain abuses on her .it's really ridiculous!my advice to you dear is to seek God first for is mercies cos i tell is the only one that can never reject you after which you explain to the french guy and ask for his forgiveness and i believe things we turn out for the better.
@Ahyanfe tru talk. As I was reading this I can see that u r not only stupid! U r so Stupid and Heartless. How can u say u will let go of the French guy if the other guy propose... Sis u r a fool and not mature.. A guy dat doesn't give u attention what do u think? FOOOOL. Accept ur fate
MY DEAR,,,, THIS IS A WARNING TO YOU 'DO NOT REMOVE THAT PREGNANCY IF YOU INTEND TO' COS U WILL BE DISOBEYING GOD'S COMMANDMENT IF U DO, FOR THOU SHALL NOT KILL. THAT CHILD IS SO INNOCENT, THEREFORE DO NOT ABORT. THIS IS A SILLY MISTAKE U HAVE MADE, THEREFORE CARRY THE CROSS. WHO KNOWS, THE CHILD MIGHT COME OUT TO BE SOMEONE SO GREAT IN THE WORLD. MY STAKE...
Nigeria Girls same old story..dis season wey men no de u won turn Sagem my ex 1...Babe if u born u remain single for life or 2nd wife to one alahaji.. Cos na regret remain like dis so choose one..Get dat preggy off Move on with life in UK or keep the belle den turn second wife...i believe d Ansa is clear to us all....SEX ADDICT Oshi
Thank you very much for this comment.... she's selfish and doesnt knw what she wants. U got a sweet guy, you screwed him over nw u making excuses. Ode girl
Although I don't support it but please for your own good, go and find a way to get rid of it. We all make mistakes and can be naive and stupid but its not too late. And please go and pray about it too, don't know how religious you are but you can go out to good people of God to see if the French guy is really your man.
Go to your French boyfriend and try and make amends with you if he doesn't accept go to that politician and sue him for child support he wouldn't want his image to tarnish and try very hard to find his girlfriend and tell her everything so he can also loose what you have lost
The reason why people ask for advice when they know what to do is beyond me. And to you poster you are a mumu your parents don waste money because even with all your education you still no get common sense. That politician isn't your problem YOU ARE you had low self esteem because if you truly value yourself you will not let a guy treat you like trash. Better abort that child and go back to the French guy if you like still dey mumu for there.
All of you are somehow. Talking like illiterates. Most of you may be. Baby girl, tell the French guy , threaten the stupid politician. These men are callous. Just tel the French guy sha. Whatever comes, whatever it may be, trust me. It shall pass. People make mistakes. All of you judging are probably worse. She has made the mistake already, why not just assist. These things happen, her case is not even the worst, it could happen to anyone again. Baby girl, let this teach you something also. Thread carefully. You should check out my blog, would probably help you . Ogelifestyleandpassion.wordpress.com
You know in your heart that you will cheat on the French guy from day one. Your feelings for him are that bad. Leave him alone. As for the baby, your business.......politician says he doesn't want it.
Babe, go for abortion. The 9ja guy doesnt care about you and wont care with your baby. Dont try to tie a guy down by being pregnant even if it was unintentional. After abortion go for your Msc and meet up with the french guy with an open mind the feeling will grow. Love alone doesnt sustain a marriage. You need more than love for a marriage to be a success
Ask God for forgiveness tell your fiancée and ask for his forgiveness too and see if he will take you back above all give ur life to Christ and pls keep the baby no matter what happen
"From french guy to politician. It just says a lot about you. You dnt love him but be collecting his money. Later you go turn transgender. If that ur fiance was a Nigerian guy, bet u for just rush go sleep with am and hang the pregnancy on him. But God no gree for u, he is white and the pikin must be atutupoyoyo."
The best comment of this. I culdn't help but re-post it
Remove that nonsense bastard you're carrying and marry your French fiancé. What an arrant nonsense from this your small boy politician boyfriend... Next time buy some sense on your brain.. That's my humble advice..
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lobatan! you are a selfish girl bae...permit me to say you gat that coming all along! carry your cross hunay. i gat problems of my own & i haven't come to yap about them on here!!!
Don't go to the UK that's my advice. Figure the rest for yourself.
Gobe! Good for you, ashewo kobo kobo. You had a good man but your foolish heart wanted a bad boy, and that is exactly what you got. My advice - keep the pregnancy so it will serve as a constant reminder of your folly so you wont make the same mistake again. Anuofia!
Babe wise up u might not be in love with the french dude but God knows he sincerely do, just do everything to uphold ya relationship. With u might be running head over heels for dat ya white dude. My advice' love is reciprocal so love him back.
no advice coz na God dey punish u,fellow girls should learn from her experience.
Honest advice,terminate it. Else u will suffer
Karma came visiting for the proposed date. You are truly a cursed girl beta go wash ur head with coconut or go look for the person that u offended and beg bcos ur future is dead on arrival
Ashawo kobokobo deal with ur problem I hate your type why date the white if you know you don't love him. You want to suck him dry Abi. God is punishing you in His own way. What is the different between you and Boko haram ?
Go abort the pregnancy den and learn to grow Up next Time.
Ashawo kobokobo deal with ur problem I hate your type why date the white if you know you don't love him. You want to suck him dry Abi. God is punishing you in His own way. What is the different between you and Boko haram ?
So sorry for u oooo so u ar carried away with matirial things, am sure the man dat pregnat u is a married man ur eyes go open ole
The only way a girl can love u is only if u treat her anyhow, show her love and she will tk u for granted
Bitches can never be loyal
Delete the baby asap
U are a cursed child
Ok,i understand...
I guess D&C will b better in dis kinda situation
So sorry for u oooo so u ar carried away with matirial things, am sure the man dat pregnat u is a married man ur eyes go open ole
Abortion sharply
This one is hard....
Ashewo oshi..... Longer throat.... Is beta u hang urself. Ladies kips doing same mistake. Luv d guy dats luvs u not d 1ce dat treat u like trash
It's certain that fishes are beta than women in reasoning . They should now be referred to as goat brains...... Meeeeeeeehhhhhhhh
Very simple abort it, Buh sincerely u are very foolish oo, God gave u gold and u said Na silver you want Na wa for u
Take the baby off since its still at the early stage.girls we just have wahala,we are too complicated.
Make I laff small,, better act fast or else??
Make I laff small,, better act fast or else??
Abort that pregnancy fast and move on with your life. as a woman, your priority should be getting smone that adores you, not the other way round cos you'll suffer is the love is more from your end. Be wise oo. or ruin your life! Politicians are womanizers, he only used you or rather still using you, & dosn't have respect for you.
go kill your self hoe....
i could have say something, bt reserved it. i tot u are still a secondary bed. u no d worst part the FRENCH hears. abort it, bt depend d month.
This is God's way of teaching You a lesson... A man is wired to LOVE his wife, You shouldn't marry someone THAT DOESNT LOVE YOU... I'm not saying You should be with the French guy, but U should've waited for someone truly worth of You! Know Your worth girl.. If the pregnancy isn't far gone, I advise to remove it, sadly, it is just reality rather than bring a child to the world who might be confused and feel alone... However if it's too far gone, if u r confident that this French man loves u enough to remain with u despite this misdeed, prayerfully tell him and God will take over if it's meant to be.
This is God's way of teaching You a lesson... A man is wired to LOVE his wife, You shouldn't marry someone THAT DOESNT LOVE YOU... I'm not saying You should be with the French guy, but U should've waited for someone truly worth of You! Know Your worth girl.. If the pregnancy isn't far gone, I advise to remove it, sadly, it is just reality rather than bring a child to the world who might be confused and feel alone... However if it's too far gone, if u r confident that this French man loves u enough to remain with u despite this misdeed, prayerfully tell him and God will take over if it's meant to be.
You gotta tell your French bf the truth.. If he's meant for you he will stay...Note. He might decide not to come to Nigeria again or even see u again
you are a very stupid, selfish and disgusting individual.you dont deserve anything good. a disgrace to women.
You are very silly, sorry for the language. But u seem really immature,pls how old are you? To save yourself from a life of sorrow and crying for a man that will never love you or claim ur child, you better have an abortion(ps;i know its wrong-but no point bringing a child you may end up regret having). Being a single mother is so hard.
Pls DO NOT break up with the guy in the UK, he may not be all you think you desire, but believe me, he is the best for you. Smtimes love grows, you just have to give it time. He will give you peace and love you unconditionally, which is the most important. You will live a life far from weeping. This politician will destroy you. He has sm1 else to marry. LET HIM BE. Go for your masters,pick up ur old relationship and make the best of it.
Have never commented on lib but I wnt let dis go,are you high on cheap drugs?,I don't support abortion but swithrt my decision is tied on this,the politician doesn't care if you are pregnant or barren in fact he will not marry you,but that French dude will go to d moon and back for you. You are an adult and you knw what to do with your life.
Help yourself by giving birth to the baby. Explain to the French guy the situation you are. Give ur heart to some1 who will nourish it. If the french guy forgives you, he will accept you back.if he does, allow his love to grow in ur heart for love is like a seed. when watered, it grows and when not watered it may fade away. if none accept you, its not the end of the world. Your right man will surely come. Life is beautiful. I wish you goodluck
There is where ur greedyness has lead u..u have a man that is ready to die for u yet u are ready to die for another that takes u just as a runs girl...how can u ever accept a proposal from someone u knw u Dont love and u are plaining to break his hrt once this works for u and unfortunately it didn't now u need advice from people my dear am a girl like u but trust me na God catch u and to be honest even if u try to about that pregnancy it won't come down just have the baby that's ur cross to carry has for the French guy I pray he finds a girl more worthy of his love ........
Wow! Sometimes we are the cause of our own problems. you have a wonderful man who loves you so much and you are in love with someone who dns't care about you and you were sleeping with him up to the point of getting pregnant for him. What were you thinking ? Oh you think that wil make him stay with you ? If you weren't interested in this other guy why didt u tell him so he find someone who is worth it. You are a very wicked girl and if I was dat guy I will dumb your sorry ass, is girls like you dat give the good ones bad names you want to eat your cake and have it i dnt pity you nonsense. I pity that other guy because his so unlucky
Evil spirit
You caused it all...I don't know when girls will stop loving boys that maltreat them..you just have to accept it like that oo.. maybe you can tell your french nigga you were raped or sth lol just kidding oo... get ready for single motherhood if your french guy won't forgive you and accept you.. clearly your politician is definitely gone for good..cheers
Kindly abort your pregnancy...your bf onbviously doesn't give a shit about u and ur baby...he seems like he won't want to marry you either...don't give up someone who truly loves u for someone who'll end up abandoning you...and ur man def won't accept a baby who's not his
Darn.... Harsh .
..oro nla....Anno 9:53
Trèschique
You obviously like this french guy but you were drawn to the idea of having a Nigerian bobo so that it feels realer(thats what i think though). so darling if you must get rid of the pregnancy and dont tell the french guy. we all make mistakes no mistake is greater or less than another one. we are all humans.Move on with your lief.
Eyaaaa,pls don't ve an abortion, jst give birth to d bby..
Simple
You got what you wanted, why do you choose to double date when you knew the french guy loves you and now karma has caught up with you. Whatever you choose to do is all up to you
Eyaaaa,pls don't ve an abortion, jst give birth to d bby..
Big big grammar! Sum gals are so blind dat dey can nva see it cumin...nw u are abt 2 loose a guy dat luvs u cos of one stupid politician!! Well u can 4get abt d french guy n hv d baby or beta still hang d pregnancy 4 d french guy neck,tell him ur village ancestors wia against u dats y d pregnancy has stayed dz long....dats wat u get 4 been so dumb n foolish!
*lib's namesake*
Lady makes it sound like she was doing all for him but SHE WAS CHOPPING HIS MONEY!
BABE tell ur fiance the truth in person or if u can tell him skype too, go ahead
Congratulations sha, ur now baby mama to future president.
You deserve what is happening to you and much more. u almost died u say ? why didt you die foolish girl. what do you think woud have happened to d french guy if you had succeeded in your plans ? after all what he did for you girl you so ungrateful and wicked. Fish brain
Pray to God for forgiveness, flush the pregenancy but dont go and the aborption oo cuz u might die in the process. Then when you get to U.K confess to your fiancee and i pray God would intervene.
get an evac n move on
You can't eat ur cake and have it, since you don't love the french dude, tell him ur mind and let him go. As for the politician guy, he wants nothing to with u cos it's obvious he doesn't love u. I will advice you to keep the pregnancy and move on with ur life. One day u ll find the right person that u love and also loves u
Hmmm. Now that you're in this mess, confess to your God and also to the French man. God will forgive you and the French man might forgive you too. He might even adopt the baby but don't think of abortion. It will only make the matter worse. You might die or get something worse.
God has only taught you a lesson to be remembered forever.
Tell him the truth and God will have mercy on you dear. You're not the worse sinner and Jesus love you above all. Even if you loose the French man, God will be there to help you.
Oloshi,onijekuje,olojukokoro, see your life, abeg commot make I see road,rubbish.
Please tell the french guy the whole truth you owe him that. If he accepts it and still want to be with you your luck but if he choose to move on his luck. You are heartbroken this is just the begin you better sit and make a wise decision if not you are going to regret this stupidity for the rest of your life..
This is so challenging what I can tell u is that if u are sure that he love u too well then explain urself to the French guy wat happen that you think he don't care for u but later u can see clearly that he really love u but now u have made a big mistake of getting pregnant to the worry guy but pls tell him the truth, promise him that u will remain faithfull to him for life I pray he listen you.
i know abortion is very wrong. but darling thats the only way out.
Abeg y dis story dey here, u never hear of D nd C
I'm sorry to say this bt u very stupid!! Oh now u need advice? Care and concern is one of d most important thing a lady needs in a relationship as that's our nature and u say fell for someone who doesn't give u all that? Darl, uve lost d man who could have cherished u all ur life. Pray to God seriously to forgive and save u,and open up to the poor french guy and if u lucky he accepts u and if not honey u d next single parent around. So next time u can use ur head properly!
Don't even think of putting the pregnancy on an innocent young man. Carry your cross alone. Be a single mother. U wanted to eat ur cake and have it. Rubbish. How I wish I know d french guys number, I would have called him myself to tell him what u did.
pray to GOd. and its always best to marry someone who loves u more when u get married and start having children u will actually find out u love him.
Haba, if u were in her shoe u will even do worst, she just need advice not condemnation.
This story isn't true it's all cooked without fire. PH girl for that matter, finished your BSc for East or South when your eye go don open like mad then skyping, BBming, and even partying to hookup with some foreign folks, now doing corner marking to enjoy yourself and got pregnant so you want the world to tell you to do abortion? No, we wont. Listen liar, Nigeria Men aint heartless to that stage when we hear belle we dey chill, stop spoiling politicians name. My own advice to this story is go look for a way to fabricate stories this aint for matured minds but to increase traffic.
U ladies ur love is always upside dawn, u allowed a guy, who didn't cares about you to step with you, what are u thinking, planing to hold him down, very foolish, just have the baby and pray for forgiveness,
Hun.. You've made a very big mistake but this is not time to apportion blame.. Ask God for forgiveness den tell d French guy everything that happened not with d expectation that he will take you nd ur baby.. Then focus on getting a new life pls don't think of abortion uve made a mistake already dnt make another cos apart from d fact dt it's a sin u may loose ur life or womb.. go to UK u can study nd work to make ends meet for u nd ur baby who knows you may get a better guy who will accept u nd ur baby but pls don't make this mistake again.. Be faithful.. Faithfulness helps alot if u were all this won't have happened but it's okay dear everyone makes mistakes just prepare for ur new life as u study, work nd cater for u nd ur baby . God will strengthen u nd give u wisdom*big hug
I never comment on this things becos it's always too stupid... Don't you have friends don't u guys talk abt things.. If you don't den don you have a mother??? U can talk to.. How can you b soo dumb having unprotected sex with some1 let alone someone who treats you like crap!! U will probably end up broke and alone single mother in d end because Rili even with your degree u still verry dumb!!!
You just have to open up and tell the French guy all he needs to know. Dis is a result for ur greed.
To me dear, wat is done is done, no man can change back in time. Just ask God fr forgiveness and direction. N call Ur bf whatever, den call him forget abt the reaction he is going to give to u. Just focus on telling him the Truth. If he fr u God won't let him go, n don't u dare abort DAT innocent child. And fr DAT idiot he will regret trust me.
All u need now is Jesus my dear, but if u asked me I will say u should discuss it with ur fiancee
Na oju kokoro dey worry u . U had better inform d French guy cos dat poli guy na miss call secondly dia life can neva be tamed or known let him be unless u want to be a chic all your life.Informing d French guy should be d next thing on your list but its a 50-50 thing.Tell him his absence made it easy for u to fall into anoda man's bed and dat u realy love Him if he agrees,good for u if not na u cos am wait for anoda man.
U feel ur hrt is broken ryt? Buh u fail 2 acknowledge de so many hrts u've broken. Shame on u!! I jst pray de french guy realises soon dat u're nufin but a fraudster
The truth is you cant always eat your cake and ve it back
Hun.. You've made a very big mistake but it's not the time to apportion blame just ask God for forgiveness.. Tell d French guy everything but not with d expectation that he will accept you back.. Focus on starting a new life but pls dnt consider abortion uve made a mistake dnt make another.. You just may loose your life and your womb.. Wen it's time for u to travel to UK pls do you can work and school at d same time to make ends meet.. Who knows you just may find someone better who will accept you nd your baby but pls when you do be faithful to him. Unfaithfulness is what led you into this mess now but like I said it's not time to apportion blames.. I pray that God will strengthen and give you wisdom.. Big hug!
you are foolish, very foolish, I mean really really foolish, you had something good from the get go and you had to destroy it all because you want a guy you love, now you just got served, ur eye don clear. better aceppt ur fate and start all over again. MUMU
Marry someone who loves and adores you. All you need as a woman is a good man with a good heart who you can respect and trust his leadership. Then watch your love for him grow.
This is exactly what you get when you go the other way round. Gorgeous women get dumped everyday as a result.
Don't you ever go for abortion before you die in your sins.
❤❤❤ THE PROPHETESS ❤ ❤ ❤
I agree
OMG!
I found myself in this same issue last year December. Yes, we all can raise insult on her but I want u to know that there is no one above temptation of Love. My dear the solution I had was to cry out to God for mercies, asking him to take away this shame as my christmas gift. which he did by bringing down this pregnancy,since it is still in a blood form. Please Pray God is merciful, no one can judge but only God cos our body is his temple. Also be open minded to the french man, my man forgave me and now we are planning our wedding. These was the least I can ever believe would happen to me but mercy speak. We all are learning, it can happen to any one it jus God's grace if u r nt a victim
Sorry about dat it can happen to any body, just tell ur fiance de truth nd apologise to he if he is truly ur husband he will for give u nd still marry u
I jst read some stories on here at times nd wonder hw some gals can be so daft, u found luv...a guy dat luved u to d xtent of sharin his salary wit u buh wat did u do,u threw his luv away for dat of a politician dat doesn't knw if u exist...well d deed has been done,tel ur fiancee evrytin nd beg 4 4giveness,if he accepts u bck fine;if he doesn't ur canoe to paddle cos u got served!!! Xo xo blue wit dis lady....
The ways of the heart is strange indeed. The heart always wnts wat it wnts. Dear u have made ur mistake already, I wunt advice u to abort cause His does not permit such act, u r a grown woman u can take care of d baby,d prblm wil be ur studies. Tell d French guy d truth, dia reasoning is a bit diff frm dt of our naija men ( no offence) so he may understand after all 3yrs no b beans. Pls don't forget to come n tell us how ur story ended Lol. All d best
Na greed, selfishness n lust kill u, y do u v 2 date two guys @ a time? I no pity or envy u @ll.
Great comment, didn't know such deep people existed here, nice one makes a lot of sense. Very practical. Kudos.
tell her o. she shud kip asking.
I bet now u will cherish the french guy that would do anything for u. Abort the baby. Go for ur Msc. If things work out btwn u and d french guy,dnt blow it this time. Pls pls pls,dont tell the french guy this. He wont forgive u. Guys dont forgive.
Wilhelmina Moses I gbadun u die!!!
My number 1 LIBer!
I'm mostly thrilled by ur raw (or is it lewd) comments...
Brightens up my day all the fucking time!!!!!
I adopt ur "advice" to the girl as mine...
my dear, coming to seek advice from LIB was a very stupid step, people here would only lash you with words, funny enough i read peoples negative comments and suddenly started feeling sorry for you. Take your issue to God and seek pardon from him, he would surely make a way for you.
lol,why would you date a guy that treats you like crap in the first place? and why force yourself on someone you don't love? I'm against abortion so I suggest u keep the baby, come clean with ur French fiancé. if he sticks around, he is for you. if not, move on with your life. And be prayerful cos u definitely need God in every situation. He knows best!
Hahahaha,funny comments,,,na so u lik fork,anyway,anyways dat french guy don't deserv a girl lik u,bcos u wil stil continue cheatin on him,even whn he marry's u,nd d so called politician is a payback to d heart u where cheatin on,he. Is not ur man,dont force it,,so,if u can abort,nd start all over again,wit prayers b4 u start forking,mayb,u may fall inlove wit a nicer guy,or keep d baby nd remain a single mother,married is not for evrybody...ok..
Your inner instincts failed you, You acted on a the very script wrote by you and maybe thought you are watching a movie! Or maybe you were just not able to figure it out. Your thoughts through out this period had been always on the surface. The Mistake's already done. You know what to do, now that you are ready to fix things. Roger Linda!
Did you read that the person she loves doesn't love her and is with someone else?
Go and abort the pregnancy and move on with your french guy.
Talk about law of karma. Lol
well she is an adult she shld do wat is ryt and follow her hrt
Haha so why is ur huband useless?
Hmmm for dus situation dear use ur head not ur heart do wat u will be comfortable with no one righteous pass.
I pity d gal. I experienced dis but am not dumb to d extnt of gettin pregnant. I av ambition. I dated d guy in Germany for almost 2yrs . Met him in a party but he travld 3wks later so i nvr had d chanc to knw him well. He askd me out ova der nd i was singl at dat period . I told him yes . Although i nvr lovd him. But gradually i start gettin use to talkin to him. He discus marriag (hes quite older) nd told me i wil move to Germany wit him wen m ready . Howevr dis guy is quite controllin nd lwz tel me am rude.but he love me lik no man ever has. Der is nothn . I mean nothin i ever ask him dat he doesn't give me. We bcam so clos dat we startd discusin meetin family wen he coms hom. .... But den unfortunately i met som1 here nd fell inlov wit him. Gave him my virginity . But d mistake i made is i didnt tell him immediately dat i ws seein som1 .i didnt want to break his heart. I told him to stop sendin me money sinc January. Cos i knw its wrong. Den i broke d relationship 2month ago wen he said he was comin hom by December to meet my family. . I panicked cos am stil wit d guy i love . We re goin strong nd he cares for me too. Just dat i thnk d one at Germany cares more. But I won't b hapy wit him. D day i hate myslf for causin him so much pain was d day i broke up wit him . He told me he made me his priority .where wil he start frm. He begged me not to leav him. But i already made up my mind. Nd den he said one painful thing. dat God wil judge. ....... I pray i dnt regret my actions. But sincerely i was nvr ready for d marriage he want so badly. I dnt want to make a terrible mistake. Pls ladies wat u knw u cant do dont promise a guy nd deceiv him bcos u dnt want to b alone. U might hurt som1 lik i did. But i pray God forgv me...... But abt pregnacy i wil nvr make dat mistake outof wedlock
Well babe wat is done is done, no one can turn back time, just ask God fr forgvness n take a deep breath n also call ur bf n tell him d truth, d truth will only hurt BT won't kill, when u HV already reveal the truth just get ready to take d reaction he will gv BT don't gv up. If God has ordain him fr u, he will cum back to u n don't u dare abort DAT innocent child, DAT idiot will n must regret it.
Make sure you keep the pregnancy tho....The french guy mind leave you but the baby wont....its yours
Your frolics with the politician and your selfish interest with the French guy be clouded your sense of reasoning. I think that the Pregnancy gives you an opportunity to appraise yourself and define what you really want. Warning! That unborn child should not be flushed. He or she is the answer to your many confusions of life.
Sweetheart so sorry about but d truth still remains that u made a mistakes. U just think and think again before taking any step stay bless.
u are just a big fool,my dear get an abortion and move on.
Thats too bad, guess u wanted more instead of looking for love why dont you give love back to the one loving you. anyway my advice speak the truth at all cost in what ever the result keep the baby. he or she willbe a reminder to always love what youve got not fantacising.
Lol
I'll tell you what hurts me the most. It's the way most ladies treat guys that throw themselves for you and show you how much they love you. Why do you ladies do this? What else do you want? I bet that at some point you wished and prayed for that type of guy. Someone who will love you and treat you like a queen. Now you have him, you decide to frolic with a jerk. My advice for you is, call the guy and apologize. He genuinely loves you. He'll find a place in his heart to forgive you. And if you don't want to move on with him, tell him and stop elongating his pain. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
Girl,it is better that a man loves the woman than the woman more than the man my advice is tell the french guy all that happened if he can take you the way you are and if not God will show you another.
Well, you messed up but I'm sure u already know that. You fell for ur bf bcos he wasn't really paying attention to you. I get that feeling. people are more attracted to things that seem out of their reach. Anyways I would advise u to break up with the french guy cos u don't love him so that he can find someone who does. He doesn't deserve what you are dong to him. Then as for the baby, U can keep it if u think u can handle being a single mother for now or terminate it and move on with ur life. I hope you find someone you will love as much as they love u. goodluck.
Lol!!! Best advice so far!!!
You have made a mistake by having sex with the politician. it is a sin and why having unprotected sex. Despite the fact that he doesn't care, u can see now that money isn't everything. The French guy has been extremely nice to you and you were careless. You have to tell him the truth and he will forgive you. You can see the father of your unborn child didn't even care whether or not you are keeping the baby. Abortion is a No No my dear. God will take care of your situation, just hold on to him. Tell the guy when you are in the UK.
Ladies don't love guys who love them!!! Why?
U really made a stupid mistake bt d mistake av bn made so I'll advice you to follow ur heart along wt ur brain cos no matter d amount of advise we give you here, if u are not content wt it,u will still follow ur heart.
Tell d french guy,if he love u he will forgive u and accept the baby but u will have to give him time and pray to God for his guidaince
Ha! Girlie O, na one chance u dey lee o, try and talk to ur white manny o, he might forgive ur cheating vjay-jay lee o. Some white men r dat understanding...but don't try dat S*** with a full blooded African man.....cos na die u dey so. And yes I think u should put dis politician on blast for wat he did (his full names, pictures and where una dey meet :-) ) , has he pour sand in ur garri....pour for him own too.....but pls tell Linda so she can gist us....sorry I can't help it ...ur story is funny and sweet...carry ur child and born am for UK...doesn't mean u will get a Stay ooo!
Oai
I hate it when people ask stupid questions...When they knw d answer to their questions
Mr Ben abi uncle or Big ben u ve FISH brain!!! For sure, So d politician is d very kind loving sweet gentleman ba? His not wicked for playing BF and all? #shitface na ur type dey cheat on their wife and call it "big deal"
Oai
First,its better a guy is head over heels 4 u than ure 4 him reason been its saver. Secondly call ur fiancee up nd explain 2 him,if he stays he is urs if nt move on#d man will definitely accept u d way ure wen he comes around#
Tell the French guy. Since he loves you, he should be able to forgive you and accept the pregnancy
“Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. (matt 11:28) all you need now is to surrenda yourself to God for him to take over.. dont be deceived you cant handle things yourself. allow the spirit of God to lead from now on. you have not done what a human being whose flesh still controls wont do, so be steel and let's this mark a beginning of a new life for you. for more advice seek your pastor if you have one.
It is a serious matter.
I wish i had a french bf, den imagine when hes now loving caring and matured. And he now proposed and shared his salary with u. Girl ur jst greedy. avnt even got dat n am faithful. What is wrong with you? Deal with ur mess. But my advice, tell him d trut, tank God hes french, he shld forgive, coz u mite regret aborting it. N d baby dosnt deserve dat toture, coz its innocent. Buh d fada is an idiot so dnt boda involvin him. Thank God ur travellin out, so u can stat ur future from der. D future is in ur hands, u av a concience and u already hav d ansa in ur mind, so deal with it.
I wish i had a french bf, den imagine when hes now loving caring and matured. And he now proposed and shared his salary with u. Girl ur jst greedy. avnt even got dat n am faithful. What is wrong with you? Deal with ur mess. But my advice, tell him d trut, tank God hes french, he shld forgive, coz u mite regret aborting it. N d baby dosnt deserve dat toture, coz its innocent. Buh d fada is an idiot so dnt boda involvin him. Thank God ur travellin out, so u can stat ur future from der. D future is in ur hands, u av a concience and u already hav d ansa in ur mind, so deal with it.
U don't no how to talk atimes# it could u, so let's mind our utterances
lol Babes you cant eat your cake and have it serves you right you go what every woman want in dis strangest times and u spat it out like a silly girl u are deal with it ur cross and dont even think of trapping the innocent love sick man with dat baby cos am sure the politician wud have nothing to do with it just pick up cloths from where u left dem and think straight Thanks Linda
Dis gal u no go kill me!!!
how can some pple be advising her to terminate the preg? abeg make she born am jare if she looses the french guy,its all her fault go and get a job and start a fresh life....
Shurup don't Lemme hear if he truly loves you again! #picks up a bat... after all d French guy did to show her love, u are still saying if he truly loves u, u need a fire slap... She deserves Whatever that's happening now and if She can see dis, commit suicide and die.. Mstcheww...
Karma is a bitch.
talk to your man about it, na wa for you sha you dated your man for 3 years and you never took in for him.
Abegi...Who know weda u don comot d belle sef? cum dey gve us yeye story wey no mk sense... Make we dey pity u? Abi dey advise oursef tinking say we dey advise u.
Y u disturbing us here as if you don't know what to do? Go take care of yourself please... Royalties don't talk much
Terminate pregnancy,Kill for him. You are evil sha and I'm sure u married this husband of yours based on material things. Killer like u. Call me pweetie
So u dunno Gold circle condom abi .stupid geh
Abort d pregnancy n move on wit ur life
You have been very selfish to the French man by cheating on him you don't deserve him,and I don't understand this nonsense of the politician treated you bad but you still wanted him that is complete bullshit, let this Frenchman marry someone who is going to love him how he wants to be loved, not a bitch(you) that stayed to share his salary with him this is why they keep calling Nigerian women goldiggers, I'm embarrassed for you pray to God and ask him for your next course of action
Take off dat thing u re carrying don't be a wicked person that french guy deserves better joor
Whoever this lady is, I really feel like giving you a very hot terrible slap right now.
Is the name of your politician boyfriend Basil A. If yes, please try to contact me.
Politicians ain't loyal at all.
Lady please keep the baby and ask the White guy to forgive you.Give him back his ring and start a new life afresh. But babe you no try oh! I know how you feel trust me. I've walked in your shoes before. Just walk away and start your life all over. You will meet that guy you will die for and do anytin for. But trust me, is better for the guy to be the one loving you super well than you being the one loving him because he will make a mess of ur life. Am talking out of experience. There's no gain in loving a guy super well, but there's gain when the guy is the one loving you a great deal. That was how I treated a guy who loved me so well badly and loved the one who treated me lyk a nobody. When I realised myself through the help of my elder sis and friends I walked away. Thank God for alwz being that merciful God, he gave me another chance. Now, am happily married and my hubby loves me more than I do. Am still learning to love him. But I won't treat him less again. In fact the little love I have for him, I can make me do anything for him. I learnt my lesson in hard way that's why I won't misuse this second chance again.
Please start your life all over again. Love/another chance will come to you again.
All the best Dear.
Just keep fucking around. That would do. Get tested for AIDS. Ewu.
B!$Th you a Whore/Hoe. "Never make a hoe a housewife". I feel sorry for whoever will marry you.
Sweetheart just ask God for forgiveness then talk to your french guy about it what ever he says don't remove the baby okay? You made a mistake everyone does stupid things sometimes and you regret it just do what is right don't remove it God will help you okay
Fix it, Jesus. Fix it....LOL!!!
why cant we be scincere for just a day...even when d white guy gives you all his salary u go still fall hand...NAIJA guyz whey nova get money go come say him dey suffer because him no c money give him girl...THAAAAA...even if u give am u no save...GOD LEAD US...
humans are really funny......she realized her mistakes and she decide to seek for advice and what most of you could do is rain abuses on her .it's really ridiculous!my advice to you dear is to seek God first for is mercies cos i tell is the only one that can never reject you after which you explain to the french guy and ask for his forgiveness and i believe things we turn out for the better.
You were/or greedy. Anyway, tell d french guy d truth. if he truly luvs u, he'll still accept u. and pls, don't abort i beg u!
funny people lol
@Ahyanfe tru talk. As I was reading this I can see that u r not only stupid! U r so Stupid and Heartless. How can u say u will let go of the French guy if the other guy propose... Sis u r a fool and not mature.. A guy dat doesn't give u attention what do u think? FOOOOL. Accept ur fate
MY DEAR,,,, THIS IS A WARNING TO YOU 'DO NOT REMOVE THAT PREGNANCY IF YOU INTEND TO' COS U WILL BE DISOBEYING GOD'S COMMANDMENT IF U DO, FOR THOU SHALL NOT KILL. THAT CHILD IS SO INNOCENT, THEREFORE DO NOT ABORT. THIS IS A SILLY MISTAKE U HAVE MADE, THEREFORE CARRY THE CROSS. WHO KNOWS, THE CHILD MIGHT COME OUT TO BE SOMEONE SO GREAT IN THE WORLD. MY STAKE...
Nigeria Girls same old story..dis season wey men no de u won turn Sagem my ex 1...Babe if u born u remain single for life or 2nd wife to one alahaji.. Cos na regret remain like dis so choose one..Get dat preggy off Move on with life in UK or keep the belle den turn second wife...i believe d Ansa is clear to us all....SEX ADDICT Oshi
Get a DnC. Asap.
Gal u knw u f**kedup so let ur white guy knw abt dis so da @ last no fool will hunt u or make ur life miserable
Clap for yourself.
~D great anonymous!
Thank you very much for this comment.... she's selfish and doesnt knw what she wants. U got a sweet guy, you screwed him over nw u making excuses. Ode girl
Abi oo! The girl mumu die.
Although I don't support it but please for your own good, go and find a way to get rid of it. We all make mistakes and can be naive and stupid but its not too late. And please go and pray about it too, don't know how religious you are but you can go out to good people of God to see if the French guy is really your man.
Take care and don't beat yourself up..
Go to your French boyfriend and try and make amends with you if he doesn't accept go to that politician and sue him for child support he wouldn't want his image to tarnish and try very hard to find his girlfriend and tell her everything so he can also loose what you have lost
Shebi u talk say u dy look 4 person u go die 4...well now it's tym 4 ya burial... Y r galz like dis..?
Shebi u talk say u dy look 4 person u go die 4...well now it's tym 4 ya burial... Y r galz like dis..?
The reason why people ask for advice when they know what to do is beyond me. And to you poster you are a mumu your parents don waste money because even with all your education you still no get common sense. That politician isn't your problem YOU ARE you had low self esteem because if you truly value yourself you will not let a guy treat you like trash. Better abort that child and go back to the French guy if you like still dey mumu for there.
All of you are somehow. Talking like illiterates. Most of you may be. Baby girl, tell the French guy , threaten the stupid politician. These men are callous. Just tel the French guy sha. Whatever comes, whatever it may be, trust me. It shall pass. People make mistakes. All of you judging are probably worse. She has made the mistake already, why not just assist. These things happen, her case is not even the worst, it could happen to anyone again. Baby girl, let this teach you something also. Thread carefully. You should check out my blog, would probably help you . Ogelifestyleandpassion.wordpress.com
You're very correct
This nor be all those aristo when dey hang out for PH GRA looking for man?
You know in your heart that you will cheat on the French guy from day one. Your feelings for him are that bad. Leave him alone. As for the baby, your business.......politician says he doesn't want it.
lol.lmao
Babe, go for abortion. The 9ja guy doesnt care about you and wont care with your baby. Dont try to tie a guy down by being pregnant even if it was unintentional. After abortion go for your Msc and meet up with the french guy with an open mind the feeling will grow. Love alone doesnt sustain a marriage. You need more than love for a marriage to be a success
Ask God for forgiveness tell your fiancée and ask for his forgiveness too and see if he will take you back above all give ur life to Christ and pls keep the baby no matter what happen
"From french guy to politician. It just says a lot about you. You dnt love him but be collecting his money. Later you go turn transgender. If that ur fiance was a Nigerian guy, bet u for just rush go sleep with am and hang the pregnancy on him. But God no gree for u, he is white and the pikin must be atutupoyoyo."
The best comment of this. I culdn't help but re-post it
Remove that nonsense bastard you're carrying and marry your French fiancé. What an arrant nonsense from this your small boy politician boyfriend... Next time buy some sense on your brain.. That's my humble advice..
U don't need any advice, u know what u want.
I just found reading the comments interesting. Mist people here are suggesting abortion but if legalization of abortion is still a taboo subject
No advise for u cos u didn't act like a mature lady
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