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Monday 29 June 2015

Infidelity & home front.. Mrs Fashola, celebrities & notable Nigerians react! (video)

Some days ago, the clip of celebrities and the former First Lady of Lagos (Mrs Abimbola Fashola) reacting to the re occurring cases of broken homes caused by infidelity. Watch after the cut...




This however caused some reactions. Follow conversation via #infidelityinmariage_thevisit
The issue of honesty in marriages, and how couples should ideally be open and talk to each other about everything, as two are expected to become one in marriage.

Can you spot a husband prone to infidelity? If he's unhappy with his wife, he'll cheat, right? Not necessarily. According to a Rutgers University study, 56% of men who have affairs claim to be happy in their marriages. They're largely satisfied with all they have and aren't looking for a way out, yet they still find themselves in bed with other women—and in hot water with their wives.

Now to what extent does this “open” characteristic of marriage allow us to disclose to our spouse? Would you tell your partner you have kids outside your matrimonial home or impregnate a lady (as a man) while your legal wife does not have an issue? To what extent would you condole the excesses of your spouse and what would make you call it quit?
 
 Do you agree with their views?
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43 comments:

Unknown said...

men we always cheat no matter what

Davido's driver said...

Nothing buhari can do about this

Unknown said...

It is well with us in naija. Married or Single. Linda take note!

Jasmine Joseph said...

Ok,cool

Jasmine Joseph said...

Ok,cool

Lilian Fc Barcelona said...

Men cheat because they are covetous and lack self control.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

They should just tell us when the movie will be out at the cinemas.
Nice publicity move, I'll love to see the movie coz of Nse Ikpe Etim. #WCE

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Cynthus said...

Mrs Zeal true talk.

Miz_wendy said...

I wish the issues of infidelity in homes could be fixed. It's like this men are born to cheat. It's in dia nature. Sadly, it's going to remain like this for a very long time.

Unknown said...

Watch it? I'd better pass.

GALORE said...

Eya...the day I lost repeat for @Fashola was when my uncle and wife saw him with their korokoro eyes in Ireland with actress @BUKKY wright..... In a very remote hotel....kissing and hugging

Shameless lots




@Galore

Unknown said...

Infidelity is as a result of what we have come to accept as a norm in the society. Enough with the "Men cheat always". Enough already, let us stop giving excuses for cheating men and watch things change for the better.

Anonymous said...

Mine cheats with everything and we are good at home. Bidding my time. *evil grin*

fumi said...

A cheating man always try to pick a quarel with d wife for just no cost

Unknown said...

Nice move

Unknown said...

Very serious issue. It takes God's grace, discipline, respect, and love not to cheat on your partner. But me I faithfull sha.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Diverse opinions

Anonymous said...

True babes..sure u re talkin frm experience...

Ehiotamen said...

Men cheat because they can and because they have money. A cheating man will tell you that his wife is his best friend and the sun, moon and stars shine's out of his wife's arse but that doesn't stop him from looking for sexual favours outside his marriage or even taking on a long-time mistress. Apart from hormones and the need to spread their seed, men enjoy sex with different women and if he is married because it helps his corporate image, his business and his standing in society, he will get married as marriage is just a project to him. I have a friend who got married in 2010, on the day of his wedding he was in his girlfriend's hotel room a few hours after the wedding. He spent the first 3 years of his marriage cheating uncontrollably. When asked why he said he wasn't ready to settle down yet and got married because of his corporate image, his investors and his business partner. His wife knowing that her husband was worth millions of dollars quickly got pregnant and had a baby to secure her future. She did not confront him about his cheating, because nothing would make him stop. It wasn't until his father died 5 years later that he calmed down. Now he claims he's a good boy. Conclusion: cheating is in the blood. Nothing can stop a cheating man from cheating.

Anonymous said...

Am one of those women that could swear that my husband could never cheat on me. Only to find out last week that he was cheating on me not just cheating but has a secrect life style smoking and drinking. We dated for more that 5years I didn't know. I feel like a fool. hes been apologizing every single minute, it just too much for me to taking in talk more of forgiving.Am broken can't think straight and expecting our 2nd baby in a few weeks. We were even insulting Toke's husband together.guess been a pastor's son don't make u holy. Am lost can't even tell anybody.

GALORE said...

The book of Proverbs says and I quote

A Man who commits adultery lacks understanding



@Galore

Chinnybaby said...

Hmmmmmmm..... Different people, different backgrounds, different opinions. Dats y we r humans

ary said...

That Benue girl though just inferred that it is okay for men to cheat and not women! SMH

Unknown said...

And the second lady said, its not good to shit on your wife it can crack the home.#gbosaaa#

prettiyz said...

I don't know if I can tolerate

Freya said...

It all starts by hiding of phone..

Anonymous said...

Proper English please.

Anonymous said...

i cant just place their reason for it even wen u give dem ur all,loyalty unrivaled yet dey go abt wit cheap gals dat re not even fit to tie ur sandals.its a sad thought dat can rip ur heart away wen u find out.

Anonymous said...

my hubby is a fucking cheat and kips looking into my eyes and lying to me that he is a prudent spender so he cant cheat.but alas he is the worse of dem wit smelling girls below his level.all men be dogs i swear.

Unknown said...

All men don't cheat o.

Anonymous said...

Who is the lady from Benue state in this video, she got me cracking with her English. Na wah oooo

Anonymous said...

You sure???

Anonymous said...

Knock Knock.......Toke were are you!

Anonymous said...

Please can we leave Toke out of this haba

beep said...

all is well for the lady

Anonymous said...

Pray

Anonymous said...

One pu**y kills the dick easily# the fun of it is hearing other women mourn loud to your ears..it's really adventures instead of the same person you've been sleeping with for the last 5 yrs# I love my wife so much but I will continue exploring other fine ladies..slim,tall, average, big butt, big boobs really don't know about you but just enjoy your stay on earth

Anonymous said...

you ladies should think and think very well why your lovely husbands are cheating on you guys. men are dogs I have heard that before but have ya'll checked yourselves?
y'all get relaxed once y'all are married, some of you guys are way to busy for your husband. some don't even cook for them just giving orders to the cooks. when was the last time y'all fuck your husbands real good outside the everyday routine missionary or doggy position? when was the last time y'all had a special dinner just for the both of you? when was the last time you wrote him a hand written note professing your love for him, when was the last time u wore a sexy lingerie to tease him? when was the last time you treated him as a king he is? most of y'all nags like hell, men don't like that. some refuses them sex, believe me they will get it outside. some of y'all are so dirty, sleeps with smelly hair nets, bushy pubic hairs, smelly fishy vagjayjays etc. y'all should please pause and check yourselves before y'all reck your homes.
I am not saying cheating is good but before y'all start ranting, y'all should check yourselves.
I am tired of reading about my husband is this, my husband is that... if y'all can't handle him, then walk. but before you give up, think about why you married him in the first place. stop dragging friends to your marital issues, y'all and the husbands loses respect. women are supposed to be home builder...solidify that foundation with God. some of y'all is karmas (what y'all did when y'all were single), y'all have a choice to either let the devil win or shame him. don't forget your marital vows. its forever or worst, till death do us part.

Unknown said...

4:22 now that is what I call a wife.......thats the best possible solution

Anonymous said...

Men who accuse their spouce of cheating if u go deep u will realise he does it.I av experience with my husband we were talking all of a sudden a call came in and he told the babe he was in a meeting.I was angry and asked only for him to pick a quarrel with me.he said he met d lady and in her whatsup she wrote u av a pretty wife and two lovely kids,what baffles me is that just last week this same girl sent my husband a msg telling him how much she misses him and how much she loves him so much.they communicate everyday more than 8times in a day even more than he calls me.i just cant reconcile.God help marriages

Anonymous said...

My dear,I believe u are not married that is why u write this long sermon.its better to advice I pray and hope u do all that u av written to ur hubby if u eventually get married.its easier said than act..I wish u well preacher

Anonymous said...

a man that does cheat and has a kid has no respect for his marriage and so will his kids follow his footstep if he doesnt change his filthy ways.

Anonymous said...

@ "a man that does cheat and has a kid has no respect for his marriage and so will his kids follow his footstep if he doesnt change his filthy ways". That's the part am always afraid of, cos this should not be allowed to continue. i dont want to have a generation of such linked to me.

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