I read through what brand expert Kenny Badmus wrote on Facebook today where he revealed he told his ex-wife he was gay, but she didn't care and still married him.
"One of those
pre-marriage days, while we were with our marriage counseling team, I
brought up the issue again – that I had always had a preference for men.
I wanted the Ministers to dissuade her from the marriage. I just
couldn’t put a ring on a fat big lie. She was so happy to tell the ministers, as quickly as she
could, that my feelings for men would all be gone, because she believed
it was a childhood disorder. I guess she meant she was going to fuck my
brains into heterosexuality. This is a mistake a lot of us make. We
all want to change people to conform to our preferences" Kenny wrote
Why would a man tell you he's gay and you still insist on marrying him? Is that a sane thing to do? I know quite a few gay men who are married. You mean to tell me the wives don't know they like to suck d**k? I'm not even close to them and I know...so are these women in denial or just delusional?
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To me they re in sane,not denial or delusional
Maybe some woman think that they can change their opinion on gay man
For me I feel they are delusioned o! The thought itself is heartwrecking. How do they cope?
They must have done her from her village! That's the most logical explanation!
Linda by now you should know that in this world crazy, unexplainable things happen.
her love for him overwhelmed her to see gay as an issue
They're are trying to live through the pain, some of them already found succour in another man,but with him maybe for financial.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
She ain't delusional. She's only trying to save
his soul
Lmfaooo....obvoiusly I tink most Gay men are inresistable 2 d women...lol d women can't help than to die follow am.
Mmmm!
D wife is sick or prolly a lesbian....sick pipo
Thats best known to her o.. lol
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Dumb-thing!
Lmfaoooo....Like I said earlier on,most of dis men most especially d cute once ar taken by dia follow men.
But is he really gay?
In a country called Nigeria, the answer is desperation.
Most of them may not know. As per the guy in question, it's possible the woman was Rlly in love with him and didn't want to let go, hoping she'll be able to make him stop
Another thing is; she may have been desperate to settle down so she accepted the only option she had
both in delusion and denial,d man is who he is,yes,he fucks u,but he's emotions are not with u,he likes men! Let him go! dats like a gay guy forcing himself on a straight guy,it won't work,causing urself unnecessary pain n hurt
They re in sane becos those women in question can neva change those men of wat they've choosen to be
Hmmm
Only desperate women
But it's actually a very stupid thing to do. How can a woman live with that? Knowing fully well her husband is into men and doesn't love or cherish her.
To think that she knew bfor getting married, what I see here is desperation.
And he brought it up during pre-marriage course and the church over looked it
D mata tire me o, na real madness be dat one. Linda take note!
Some women are in denial.they don't want to accept d fact that an handsome hunk can not dig them but a man like himself
It beats me!!! I can't say myself. It's a strange world afterall. Bia linda! You know some Gay men that are married? *side eyes*
Lots of reasons, included is insecurity n other useless excuses. Ubanagum
Women we be in the best position to answer it, to me i see it as heavy question but mere answer
Dis guy is a douche bag....y tell d world.
5th January 2015.
The President & Commander -in-Chief
Of the Armed Forces,1
Presidential Villa, Abuja.
Nigeria.
Your Excellency Sir,
A PLEA FOR MERCY
With due respect sir, I, Mr Ayodele Opaleye, who was superintendent oil movement alongside six persons were unlawfully dismissed from NNPC on the 25th day of October 2005. The dismissal was solely based on an alleged product top-up of a vessel, MT Tutuma loaded at Warri Refinery Jelty on the 3rd day of August 2005.
Respectifully Sir, we were not given and/or accorded fair hearing by the NNPC before we were wrongfully dismissed almost ten years ago. We had no opportunity to defend ourselves properly. Thus, our fundamental right was violated.
Sir, on the said day that the alleged top-up happened, i was not around as I was duly authorized and released by Warri PPMC Management to travel on official assignment to Lagos. After our dismissal, we used every method we could to plead with the then GMD Engr. Kupolukun to no avail. we went as far as the House of Assembly where the case was revisited briefly and NNPC was asked to bring the report the panel submitted on the date of the next meeting. But as fate would have it, most of those in charge lost their seat in election and could not continue the case.
Still, we continued pleading with the assistance of Senator M.K. Jubril (2010) and Hon. K.J. Amusan (2009) but also to no avail. Two of us, Mr. I.S. Nakarde and Ms P.L. Odumalo who channeled their appeals through the office of the then minister of petroleum Dr. Rilwan Lukman were reinstated on the 19th of August 2009. The NNPC did nothing about it till the minister left office and they replied that their dismissal was approved by the president (Olusegun Obasanjo) and they could not be reinstated by a minister.
It was after the then GMD of NNPC (Engr. Kupolukun) left the office that the report of the panel was released to us. Therein it was advised that we should be retired not dismissed. Even retirement for a crime we did not commit is unlawful after 18 years of service by I and more by the others.
With all sense of respect Sir, I was wrongfully dismissed at the peak of my career, almost fifteen (15) years to this stipulated retirement age. As of today, two among us who were dismissed are late, homes have been broken, loved ones have been lost and some children are even out of school.
This is however a plea for mercy - the mercy your Excellency, is widely known for. The generocity and the fear of God that you are known for. We plea that you will recall us all and save our lives that has nose-dived, down the pinnacle of success.
Thank you sir.
Yours faithfully,
A. A. Opaleye
For; Mr. M. S. Okafor, Mr. C. B. Ekoja, Mr. O. N. Ihaza, Mr. B. N. Nneli, Mr. I. S. Nakande, Ms. P. L. Odumah and Mr. A. A. Opaleye
Gay people chose to be gay....they aint forced to the union ....I don't know why Nigerians can't understand this and let them live their lives.....a lot of wives are losing their hubby to gay guys because of our so called culture and tradition. Its denial not delusion
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Dats crazy, God help us
There's actually no sense in it ...in short you will be putting yourself in more danger.. 1 thess 5:17. @Bishop_Dammy
The fact is that pressure is on the female folk in our society to get married and when they see a window of opportunity, they grab hold for life, knowing some of the pitfalls of the said relationship, they still go in with the mind that they are "the one" who can turn this man around and often times it works and sometimes it doesn't.
Any woman that still goes ahead to marry a gay man has herself to blame if she begins to experience problems in her marriage as regards sexual...satisfaction. I will call it desperation not love cos love isn't blind to that extent.
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I guess a little hope that he would or could change. Think of this, you meet your dream man, you have never met anyone like him, he is everything you are looking for, you guys start dating and when you are about to marry, he announces he is gay. Or even flip it around and put yourself in that shoe as a man and the woman says she is a lesbian.
I think you would consider staying and trying to change the person. At that moment I don't think your mind would be at the right place. All you would be thinking about at that point is how to end up with your dream man and everything that he or any other persons says to go against that possibility would be invalid to you. It's life I guess...
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>>>> Such women are so desperate to be married and also hoping their men will change (straight) with time. Some others don't mind, better cheating on her with a man than a woman. <<<<
both denial & delusioned
They are delusional
They marry for the money n affluent
Women can marry a pig provided there is monetary benefit attached
Then to some people it mayb cos of shame n wat pple may think especially if u haf been with that person for a long while
They marry for the money n affluent
Women can marry a pig provided there is monetary benefit attached
Then to some people it mayb cos of shame n wat pple may think especially if u haf been with that person for a long while
Haba Linda some of d reasons are some women bliv they can change them y some are after d cash that's if d man in question is loaded it can also b d lady in question is bisexual d world is full of evil deeds God let ur kingdom come
Both d man n d woman are stupid, u have preference 4men n u have bin dating her? I guess fu*king her too n making a lot of promises during dat period nw DAT it comes to marriage u dscova u can't b wit her. n 4 d stupid woman a man told u he has preference 4men during u counselling u can't run anyway wait d gal no knw same him get HIV?
LINDA THE TRUTH IS SOME WOMEN ARE DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED THAT THEY CAN DO ANYTHING TO ANSWER MRS SOMEBODY,JC
LINDA THE TRUTH IS SOME WOMEN ARE DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED THAT THEY CAN DO ANYTHING TO ANSWER MRS SOMEBODY,JC
They are Both in denial and delusional. What joy is there in marriage, tho some ladies love to be tortured.
It is well oh ijn
They are in denial big time and they only end up hurting themselves or they don't care, they do it to appear 'Normal'.
its optional
Their problem though, cuz I can't tink of any reason why a man would prefer his fellow man to a woman...
Both jare.... women are just desperate so they can marry anybody just to change their status from single to married. I call that stupidity #onelovefromsnow#
Lack of husband and the quest to be a Mrs somebody. When a man is gay pls let him go, it the end you see that it's not worth the problems you face
Jeez irritating .. i cant imagine a guy sucking dick
they hav closed their eyes bcos of the thinmgs they stand to gain from a sham marriage....things like fame,wealth e.t.c
Lili,
U spoke well abt d issue@hand.
D gospel truth is dat some women feel dey can change d man after marriage which is d wrong mindset dat place d marriage into failure.
Pls take not of dis, in marrriage u don't try to change u only accept and love d other person for who and wht he or she is.
A word is enough 4d wise.
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When I got home that night my wife served dinner. I held her hand and said, "I've got something to tell you." She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
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Pple and dere choice, I don't blame d lady because she tink she could change him, bt. Her effort was nt enough!
Desperados
It is called "I must marry or I die syndrome"
I must be Mrs or I faint syndrome... So any available men.be it gay...they are welcome
Na here we go siddon see @Uti nwanchukwe marry...Abeg who no nko say @Uti na gay?
Or even @Gbenro?....
Or even @Alex ekubo.
Dem no get girlfriend?... Sure they do
SMh
@Galore
It is called "I must marry or I die syndrome"
I must be Mrs or I faint syndrome... So any available men.be it gay...they are welcome
Na here we go siddon see @Uti nwanchukwe marry...Abeg who no nko say @Uti na gay?
Or even @Gbenro?....
Or even @Alex ekubo.
Dem no get girlfriend?... Sure they do
SMh
@Galore
Really, I don't see any reason why a woman will marry a gay cos its just accepting complications in your life that u may not be able to manage down the line
After bn HIV positive, dem go cIaim gay. May God forgive them. Steve sucking jimmy's Dick.God abeg o
they simply are mad women. how would u know and still go ahead. better still if u found out after d wedding. den u can decide to leave or whatever, but if u know, u com still marry am den na real craise dey worry u.
They have hope
Some women r so desperately in need of this marriage thingy that they walk into fire and sadness with their eyes wide open. He will change. He will change. Yet no change comes.
Delusional more like. Some women like to feel they can save anything and everything....from a strayed puppy to a gay man forgetting that some things just can't be changed.
They all believe de can change dem. Dts y, just like men believe de can change ladies too to suite dia desires n want. Ppl don't change, de only find a new way to deceive ppl.
she married him believing he will change...Africa mentality..
#GodblessNigeria
Some women are just crazy,she caused her problem by her self,and that fine dude who decided to be gay,well good luck to you,non of my business
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Some women are just crazy,she caused her problem by her self,and that fine dude who decided to be gay,well good luck to you,non of my business
s.imoh@yahoo.com
Some women are just crazy,she caused her problem by her self,and that fine dude who decided to be gay,well good luck to you,non of my business
s.imoh@yahoo.com
Some women are just crazy,she caused her problem by her self,and that fine dude who decided to be gay,well good luck to you,non of my business
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We ladies would sometimes prefer to live in denial than face the truth.
Linda na money she follow.
If that dude was a broke ass she woulda dropped his ASS, damn faster than a lightning bolt.😒😒.
....THE ARCHITECT....
Its notin else dan financial reasons....
Cos they are despirados kpom kwim
Heaven on Earth
The babe don enter one chance be dat
....JOSHSAYSO...LIB...FAN
Speaking from experience right
This is insane, first of all the bible does not support it (leveticus 18:22) and second if he's parents were both gays and lesbian, how is he going to come into existence forget the artificial insemination. They need to undergo psychological treatment
Hehehe @ fuck my brains to heterosexuality funny dude
Most of them do it because they are lesbians and again they have freedom to cheat also.
They are desperate to bear mrs somebody and that is wat d African society does to women of marriageable age
desperation for marriage, and yes they are delusional
Their choice
That's true
Some ladies even prefer their men being gay dan skirt chasers cos they feel safer. At least no pregnancy issue to deal wit. Same wit men over bi-sexual ladies. Its only wen d reality really dawned on them that they understand fully, what they are into.
@SOPHIA STEPHEN
She was stupid and foolish for not running away from him..her decision was so disgusting..even if na tools behind she get a
Com get cossy boobs wey go make the man go gaga..she deserved what she got..love my ass
Buh eh..how can someone develop a sexual urge for his/her same sex being..
very delusional or she has a motive which is the money involved, while she keeps her numerous boyfriends outside.
All the dimeneted bigots. Thinking up side down just to be promote homosexual
This Linda's obsession with those who are gay and not gay sef....
Every time, always in your blog gay, gay, gay, gay..
Ha ha; na wetin sef...
Are you subtly promoting gayism???
Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria o!!!
Linda please spare us all this gay tin now, ehn...
And the unfortunate gay dude Kenny Badmus is HIV positive..
And of course, must have infected many of his co-travelers in this dastardly gay vortex..
Abeg, abeg, abeg Linda, kindly stop foisting gay consciousness on your readers...
It is not fair and not funny at all...
This evil called homosexuality is destroying lives...
Please let us not be seen as promoting this evil...
Many thanks....
Gbam!!!!!
@Galore
It happens.
I used to nack thus chic who was engaged and actively planning for a big marriage. She and her proposed husband were from prominent families in one of the major cities of southern naija. She was lived alone (very wild lifestyle ) the family house in London whole her guy was based in Yankee. She me he was gay, but his family had been pestering him to get married. Her own family had been on her case too. They been friends since childhood (both families close too), so they decided to get married just to satisfy their families and keep them off their backs. Of course, their families were over the moon.
Ok,we don hear.I know you will comment cos dis is d aspect u like most.onnyz abi watever your name is,you are jst too skinny for my liking.abeg add weight and gain admission.are u not tired of sitting at home blogging and fuckn boys like you?mtcheew
Ok,we don hear.I know you will comment cos dis is d aspect u like most.onnyz abi watever your name is,you are jst too skinny for my liking.abeg add weight and gain admission.are u not tired of sitting at home blogging and fuckn boys like you?mtcheew
Lmfao...Prof.Onyx I dey hail o.
Ok,we don hear.I know you will comment cos dis is d aspect u like most.onnyz abi watever your name is,you are jst too skinny for my liking.abeg add weight and gain admission.are u not tired of sitting at home blogging and fuckn boys like you?mtcheew
'he will change' is the worst thought a girl should nurse towards a man she desire or wants to marry bcos they can never change except God intervene and miracle happens. Pls single girls take note. If u can't accept and live with it then back off. Don't tell urself those lies.
Hmmmmmm, desperation and the society.
'he will change' is the worst thought a girl should nurse towards a man she desire or wants to marry bcos they can never change except God intervene and miracle happens. Pls single girls take note. If u can't accept and live with it then back off. Don't tell urself those lies.
Linda, believe me 98% our naija men in America love sucking dick- no kidding! U need 2 live here 2 see it
My question is, why wait till you are about to marry before telling her you are gay? I think this guy was trying to be smart. He groomed (yes groomed ) the woman into falling for him so that he could tell her at the last minute that he was gay. I'm sure he hoped that the woman would be so into him that she'll let him carry on with his gay lovers (just like some married women turn a blind eye to their husbands mistresses), so long as she is able to live respectfully as his wife.
He planned everything, damned pu**y teaser!!
Desperado
It's eda foolishness,Love,or money dat is involved
Linda ikeji please when you say "gay" do you mean bisexual inclusive... because most of those who pass gay bill into law are bisexual.
U nack your grammar too bro
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Sooooooooo truthful
she will stil liv to regreat it
Is onyx really gay??? If he is please let him be. After all you are not God or the constitution of the federal republic of nigeria
Maxwell akalonu is very gay.you should come out of the box ok.non is gona judge u,u know I know what am saying....I can tell not only a gay pic but also a gay write up.you gay bro
I don't believe this story one bit. I don't think he told his wife he was gay and if he did and she chose to go on with the wedding I guess she got what she deserved eventually. He said he did not want to put a ring on a big fat lie but he did. He chose to live the lie for 6 years till the urges came for him to sleep with a man. So for 6 years he did not sleep with a man it means he also wanted the woman to believe she had changed him. Mr man we understand you are gay and all that but don't blame the woman whom you deceived in other to play your version of what the society wants/expects. In your other story too when you came out about your HIV status you said you had been paying tithes to churches. I think you felt like you had to be a christian and you could not be a christian and gay. That I think was your battle for a while
She's either confused of scared of getting too old to marry **DOPEY SAID SO**
She's either confused of scared of getting too old to marry **DOPEY SAID SO**
She's either confused of scared of getting too old to marry **DOPEY SAID SO**
Linda u didn't post my comment.....
Some people are just Bisexual.....
Duchessofnothin, you are very lucky this is the Internet. I would have nacked the rudeness out of you.
Anytime you post stories about gays, most comments sincerely advise that deliverance prayers can change sexual preference. We're all products of our environment, and the wife is probably from that pray the gay away Nigerian school of thought. That mindset coupled with the desperation to marry will make a woman overlook such to be called Mrs.
@ Anon 12:22...am a Lesbian cos i only do women..married and unmarried..might have done ur sisters and grandmom if investigated..
Linda is fighting tooth and nail to ensure we accept homosexuality as normal, God will judge you linda for this evil message you are preaching with style.
Well, I will say women who allow the marriage thing to get to them does that and at the same time there are people you get close to and all that... At the end of the day when you get to know they are gay but because of the connection you guys share between yourselves will make you say: I don't give a F**K and go on with the marriage.
For me I see it like women who knows their men are womanizer but still want to get married.
Life is crazy...
Can u idiots stop cyber bullying onyx it's very distasteful. Who raised u? Wolves?
@olubukola bakare aka ms judge..haba! it's so not cool to express urself in that manner. Imagine being hated on just for being FAT. Except u have something personal against onyx sha or maybe he no gree make u f*ck his brain to straight path??
Chaii. Onyx I feel ur pain..We've all been thru dat b4 loool
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Prayer changes all things.
Desperate to b married and hoping for a change
Dey know wat dey want
Every woman knws an avg man is a cheat some of them wud rather hv u cheat wit a man than their fellow woman cos it givs them a kind of inferiority complex unlike d men who can hardly get over their woman bein a lesbian. All na evil spirit thins oooooo. God wey make man & woman knw wetin him bin dey do bt devil as usual stil dey work
Linda,I know the guys in question and his wife well.kenny is a very wicked person.i wish his wife could write her own book.we women are at the receiving end.you make a lovely and beautiful woman an eyesaw.you made marriage hell for her . She didn't have a child for u.worst of all you gave her hiv.she found out about your useless ways in the marriage, because she felt it was just a phase and also for family and other wahala. Her eye shine when u were always ill and was visiting the hospital regularly.God alone will judge u.thank God for USA. By now you for dey kiri kiri and them for .... u for free.drama queen.
He didn't have to say he was gay. I don't know if it was a secret neither do I know him from Adam but one look at the images he published a few weeks ago, he projected his sexuality in the pictures. He most likely told her.
some women believe in loving gayness out of people. Hopefully she has tested herself for aids
But why did a gay man ask her to marry him??? Goes both ways too. Anyway, Kenny can go jump for all I can
Queen u're der,is is desperate for marriage dats Y. If not y wil any woman a man u know u cnt get true luv from?am sure he f**ks he behind...
Doesn't make sense to me to marry a gay man oh
Most sensible comment so far! It sounds like Kenny got the girl to invest so much in a relationship with him, fall for him and then decided to tell her he was gay when they were just about to get married. Why didn't he tell her that immediately they met? Heck, why did he date her at all if he knew he didn't swing her way? I'm sure the outcome would be very different if "girl meets boy, girl throws flirty looks in boy's direction, boy and girl start talking and boy tells girl he actually gay".
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How did it get to pre marriage counselling stage if he wasn't planning to 'put a ring on a big fat lie'. This guy is doing damage control. He hid his gayness from the public and only revealed it his wife in private as s result of a childhood incident. And the fact that he feels he can parade his gayness so openly is against the law or are we not in naija?
1. We marry for different reasons- could be cos he's handsome - hello Alex Ekubo n Co, funny - I don't even wanna mention his name cos he's married and on the DL, rich- awon Eleyii yapa yaski, hung- yes, it's always about the dick, a great fucker- who says gay people can't fuck? They can fuck women better than straight men, if you argue, look up blackbreeder videos on pornhub.com, your mind will be blown.
2. Other than liking men- which might not necessarily include promiscuity as we are lead to believe, gay/bi men have the largest hearts ever.
3. Desperation.
4. Curiosity- some girls don't even see a decision such as marriage as serious.
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GBAM! Anon 11:51am
...and you are? Simply akpa amu innit.
Stupid women always thinking they can change men.
Common....There are things u can definitely change in a man's life....but, not when it comes to sexuality. ..
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