Kemi Adetiba slams women cyber bullying her and others to get married
The music video director and filmmaker took to her twitter page this morning to slam all the people who are bugging her and other single women to go get married. See more tweets after the cut...
Damn! Someone has defly hurt this beauty. Well its a naija mentality, some of dem girls grew up abroad nd they know better than just marriage unlike naija girls. On d first date, they already expecting a proposal. Bullcrap
True talk my dear, tell them ooooo. The rate at which people attach marriage to success is alarming, their is more to achieve in life than a marital status !
People keep acting like marriage is a womans ultimate achievement, its not we live in a different generation. To each her choice. If ur ultimate ambition on life is to marry, marry and leave others alone.
God's time.is the best for everyone.The same peoole will insult your life when you rush in and divorce few months later.SMH...easytravelsconnect@gmail.con
Been married is good,dont do it based on the fact that others are doing it or family wants you to,do it becus u are rdy for it and u are happy doing it. Else,it won't last a year and ur divorced.
Cyber bullying is the worst among other abuses. Nobody is God . I thought God's time is the best. People should learn to mind their fucking business and let others be. Beside all these people bullying others all una clan don marry finish? Rubbish!!««QUEENMAYA»~REPORTING LIVE»
Better ke? We that are inside want to leave the marriage ®retting why we got married in the first place.abeg,if it pleases her let her remain Single.
That lady is very angry, 1st time I'll see this side of her. Marriage isn't something u rush into, am glad she knows that. Ppl sud stop pressurizing d singles to gt married cs dey're nt kids & wen d ryt tym comes dey'll marry. Kemi Adetiba, d ppl askn u 2 gt married also kia abt u, its jst dt we've diff ways of showing our loved ones d kia & luv in our hrt 4 dem. Dnt b offended & pls understand dt dey all want d bst 4 u in all u do even in ur ststus.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said... . Bcos of twitter many people don gather mouth nw i swear..... *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA* . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Ooh shut up! People like you have LSE. Which one is naija girls again? What does this have to do with growing up abroad? Even girls over here want to get married. I didn't grow up here but I'm not particularly bothered about it. It's just a thing of difference in mentality and upbringing. Mtchew.
Life isn't all about marriage either. NIgerians real need to calm the fuck down!! Too much societal pressure on young women. As if being married suddenly makes you better and more achieved. Bullshit ideology
The only major reason why marriage is important is for you to have your own family! Your kids are your true family,Not even your spouse! Apart from having kids...Marriage is over-rated.
dnt knw why people pay attention to all dis cyber crap...some say it aint dt easy but wen i become a celeb,pls bring it on...so long watever anybody says doesnt affect my cash in-flow,den pls sit on it(d middle finger)
Kemi finish dem cos m tired of women bulling oda women cos of marriage... Hw many pple happi fr dia marriage eh? U rush enta,naso u go rush cum out... Wait fr d rit tym n pesin,dnt let pple push u into sumfin dat will gv u pains cos wen u start facin d painful drama of marriage,dose pple will back out n let u face ur drama. B wise ladies
Nigerians and Marriage, most of the so called married ladies are battered on daily basis by their husbands. Some will go to d extend of marrying their grandfathers' age mate and be wife no 7 just bcus they wanted validation from the society, and they are miserable. In as much as I respect the institution of marriage, Nigerians especially should stop all this nonsense of pressuring women of certain age to get married by force. How many of the so called married ladies are really happy in their so called marriage.
Wo! It's nt easy oh,wen ure 28 n unmarried like me every1 will begin to worry ur life,u hv no idea d kind of pressure I'm passing thru nt to talk of sm1 older,it is well with us oh
Well said. Women needs to learn how to support and love each other. Most married women don't even feel at home in their own homes. I don't understand what the fuss is all about. Some men are not even worth sacrificing your name for. Women pls beat it!
A girl like u opening ur mouth nd saying that crap *am ashamed* pple sit at one corner nd say crap to others like they known half of what they have gone thru, marriage is not everything, live and let others live, biri ka anyi biri.
This " go and marry thing is now like a song" people should let single ladies live, u don't know what they going through. In Nigeria it's like a curse being single, they keep asking the stupid question
Where are the clever zingers of her own: Are you happily married tho? Are you in your husband's house or your jointly owned house as a couple? Can he throw you out of his house at any time? What rights do you have if he leaves you or marries another woman? Did mana fall from the sky on your wedding day? Does marriage shield you from life's tribulations, death, debt, sadness...?
@anonynous 11:01. Since u got married for all of the wrong reasons there are, yes, u should want to leave the marriage. Nxt time, don't make a blanket statement 'we that r inside want to leave' believe me, some of us are having the time of our lives. We love our marriages n encourage singles who find love in the right places to cm join the jolliment. My dear, with speed, run out of that ur marriage before it kills u.
Kemi, pls live your life the way you want to. I wish I can turn back the hands of time, I would have made different life decisions, and one of them would have been not getting married. I would have gone for artificial insemination or adoption. I have always known that marriage is not for me, but I allowed myself to be pressurised into it. Now, I feel trapped, I am miserable and also not living the life I want. I have two kids who might end up being kids of divorced parents as I am getting to a breaking point. I strongly advise women to never let family or friends push you, do it because you want it. It requires a lot of commitment, just think about it.
Anon 12:28 God bless you joor....not every marriage is doomed to fail, some of us are very happy and still very much in love with our partners, despite how much time had passed.
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile, Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama. Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile, Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama. Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
Well i guess the reason lots of people say that to a lady thats very matured ls that she dont really gat much time to play around with b4 she hits menopause.. So they expect her to make marriage a priority over other things she's doing at the moment cos time is a limiting factor..but you wont kill yourself if thats not working , You just gato do other things...
There's a grace that comes with being married, granted. This however does not mean everybody should marry, someone here @grace offor said get married, its better. I ask than what? The system is so jacked up, girls hurry up and get married it preaches, but it doesn't prepare the poor things for the abuse that occurs in some homes. And that's why women stay with men who cheat and abuse them because its better!Black eyes and STD is better than being single?. That's why we feel that even a woman who wins a nobel prize is overshadowed by the fact that she is not married. Then its ehya she's still a Ms. She becomes a pariah among married women, who dig their nails in their husbands arms whenever she passes by, lest she snatches their prized possession. Was just saying to my mate I've had it with those dps that say once a girl is 28 and she hears settle down her thighs should spread like an open compass and she start to go to Shiloh for deliverance. If men appreciate how a bad woman can wreck a home he would go to Shiloh too. Food for thought, has anybody considered the increased rate of divorce and Separation in Nigeria. Any free day you have go to Lagos High Court and listen to the family division court proceedings, that should fill you with sufficient dread. Summary: Earn your own respect, stop looking to be a Mrs Somebody to gain respectability.
You ain't lie! As in I know one whose husband hasn't worked in 2 years just lost motivation and she can't get or support him and curses him out every week but can still open mouth to say go and marry and look down on her unmarried friends because she is an MRS
Na wa ooo... Some people will never stop to suprise me sha... Wetyn concern em? Abiii na envy dey cause ds one ni? Make Una leave her for me ooo.. Maybe na me go marry her last... Cos she's beautiful and hardworking... I dey always trip ni... Just that she's older Dan me.. Lol... Linda watch ur back ooo... Make dem no attack u too...
But seriously, what's all d marriage bugging about. Are married women the happiest women on ewrth? They qre d most frustrated. My dear Kemi, fovus on ur career biko. Dont mind busy bodies, jobless housewives.
Ruth Kemisola Bambi, it seems u have blocked head. Don't u understand wat she is trying to say. That not everybody wants marriage. Haba.. If na so, wen ur pickin reach 12 yrs make she go marry. Marry marry marry, wetin e dey add 4 ur body. After 6 months sef all the so called love go fade e go com turn to quarrel everyday. For ur info, being single is better. Wen u get married (if u not), wait for 3 yrs den compare it with wen u were single
People rushing others into marriage should shut up and realize this is why a lot of marriages are crashing in naija. Ppl rush to be socially accepted n the marriage fails. The way ppl r evil, you dunno who you marry. Just for the sake of elevating social acceptance, people marry n then when the wedding crashes it's those same that will abuse u.that's how one woman called off her engagement n wore her aso ebi to another wedding. Please, we don't want divorce
Being single is not by choice sometimes. I'm a successful woman. I earn my money. I am beautiful. I'm a homemaker. I am educated. I am a virgin. I don't sleep around. I don't waka all over Abuja. I am an incredible chef. So, is it my fault that no man has seen these qualities and want to make me his wife?! Fuck that. I don't even want a man to come out of the blue and start talking marriage. No matter how old I am, I have to know that kneecar first and well. And I will NOT lower my standard by settling for a man who is less than I deserve. Mba. I know what I want. I better myself at every chance I get so I won't let a man who doesn't have a vision of mission to drag me down with him. Mba nu. Laziness, poverty and their vices are contagious. I shan't be affected so I can be called a "wife". I'm not saying single working women have to be looking for rich men, nah. But when you meet a man who knows he's going somewhere and when you too look down the same road, you'll see the same destination the man is headed, then you can invest in him. Not all those ne'er-do-wells. That are still "will"ing. Lol. I refuse to be coaxed into a marriage of misery and suffering and heartache. This peace of mind I enjoy now (that is making me fresh)? I no fit trade am for anything ooo. If not that I don't want to disobey God and I don't want to bring disgrace to my father, I would have birth a child on my own. Walahi
And the most annoying one is the way a married friend will now write on BBM when another is engaged or getting married "welcome to the club". Which kain club?! Pisses me off. Then the newly married ones will now be deleting their friends who are unmarried from their contact and unfollowing them on instagram and twitter. Lol
Kemi is so correct,Enof wiv d stereotype.d society shud applaud ladies like these,women who dnt jst lay on their back,spread their legs and wait for men to give them peanuts.dat bn said @linDa I troway salute.kip reppin
Anon 10:57 ...this lady aint no dumbo...shes saying some real truth here and i understand that the truth is bitter...Marriage would earn you some respect wether you want to hear it or not...you cant be unmarried and contest for governorship or some top positions here in nigeria or even in yankee ...you wont get elected just because of your status.. So shes right. Theres no crime in being single or unmarried but if you have made that decision to stay unmarried then dont go about making other peoples husbands,fiancees or boyfriends your sex partner and causing multiple problems for others, it will pay you to get your own partner..Simple!!!
10:41, Oprah Winfrey, Condoleeza Rice, Queen Latifah, Tyra Banks, Mother Theresa, Coco Chanel, Sheryl Crow, Queen Elizabeth I, and Cameron Diaz are successful never married women.
189 comments:
God time is d best
Woman Mata, e no concern me bisflo2002@yahoo.com
lol...na really go nd marry
Tell dem!!
make dem leave here alone abeg
#FreeOurWomen
joblessness..iamadiume101@gmail.com
As if being married is the certificate to getting to heaven.
#word... you guys should leave Kemi alone ooo
Them too like quarrel self...peace should rain...Akpojotorsamuel@rocketmail.com
Get married. Its better
lol...funny people
Coker.busayo@gmail.com
OK seen
Haha
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Coker.busayo@gmail.com
Wateva..
Ok
Shey she no wan kum marry ni, ok oo, make she dey work dey go den!
Naija nd marriage matter
wetin concern me
lol kpele kemi they will always talk
None of my biz
U need to get married gal
Hahahhaha God's time is the best o.
Hahahhaha God's time is the best o.
ok na,, women oya over to una..
Lol. she don vex
Abeg oo...marriage no be by force naa...why all the fusss...mtscheww
SHAME; Man Kills Stepdaughter, Records Himself Having Sex With Her Corspe
Is only in Africa dat every woman must marry
Amakadarlyn@yahoo.com
Abeg make dem free thsi cute babe mbok. Is it easy 2 see husband mtchewww dey shud cm and marry her na. Shady2link@yahoo.com
I no fit laugh.. Bully dem back naw.
U need to get married gal
Nigerian's and their marriage issue
Na u sabi
Hmmn
But Miss, marriage is sweet & it will earn u some respect.
Gbam!!! Kemi tell dem o
N som wil b forming yle all is not well in dere marriages..mtshewww
**Bellz*
She aint mature enough to ignore them...
jenyking comenting via #Etisalat
Eyaa d tin pain her......let someone somewhere cum marrryher naa cus deep inside she's dying to get married am sure.
Lol that last tweet was so funny, first they come like they love you and then drop the bombshell.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
sometimes the truth hurts! life isn't all about awards and achievements...
is this news again?
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Cyber bullying is the peculiar to married women alone, it affects everyone either married or unmarried.
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Damn! Someone has defly hurt this beauty. Well its a naija mentality, some of dem girls grew up abroad nd they know better than just marriage unlike naija girls. On d first date, they already expecting a proposal. Bullcrap
do you hate me dat much ........linda ............lesti
hmmmm smithjoyce113@gmail.com
It's not by force naa...God's time is d best
SHAME; Man Kills Stepdaughter, Records Himself Having Sex With Her Corspe
silence is golden! atisele93@gmail.com
Smh wt she said is true,pipo mke it seem like a woman needs a msn to validate her sigh
Hmmmmmmmmmm pple always into pple mata! Marriage na must?
N d funniest thing is most of those calling pple to get married are way older n also unmarried
We Nigerians just attribute a lot to marriage and when the marriage doesn't work out, they would be the same slamming for a failed marriage. Go girl
hmmmm smithjoyce113@gmail.com
Kemi Adetiba, come marry me na!!! Hahahahaha!
I just cant laugh enough!
*Tafia people will kill me*
Sweet Kemi, don't mind them.
Na marriage go carry u enter heaven?
True talk my dear, tell them ooooo. The rate at which people attach marriage to success is alarming, their is more to achieve in life than a marital status !
Hmmn
Its a pity she comes from this part of the world where the success of a woman is not complete till she's married
She blocked dat idiot..laughing my amazing body out(lmabo)..#EA
Help me tell dem o,, cos marriage isnt everything.
GM
gbgemmy@gmail.com
TOO BAD...
Go girl
travails of a nigerian girl
People keep acting like marriage is a womans ultimate achievement, its not we live in a different generation. To each her choice. If ur ultimate ambition on life is to marry, marry and leave others alone.
marriage is a choice
So true tho. Every onee has a diff path...being married doesn't take one to heaven sef...what d hell?! Kemi live ur life the way U damn want it!!!
Na wa o.....u ppl are not smilling at all.
Haahaahaahaa! Itz a woman'z world!
Lol they should do becos time is running out
God's time.is the best for everyone.The same peoole will insult your life when you rush in and divorce few months later.SMH...easytravelsconnect@gmail.con
Stay then, don't marry
There's time for everything, when you're old enough to be in man's house, then u should be
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
Who b this one?
Marriage is nt evrytin bt dats pples perspective
Been married is good,dont do it based on the fact that others are doing it or family wants you to,do it becus u are rdy for it and u are happy doing it. Else,it won't last a year and ur divorced.
It's dumbos like you she's talking to
God wil see u 2ru
Some people don't know when they have crossed the line. They should learn to mind their business.
Tor wareva
Hahahaha last tweet tho
Blocked the nigga straight up
Okay o we haf heardnu
Naso oo ma sis
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OMG! Pastor Caught in Adultery with his Friend’s Wife
Yeah. That's true
Hian
Nyc talk....don't ondastand y Nigerians r dz brainwashed, dy so much blv female r made 4 marriage alone.
Davido's GF
Marriage is not the ultimate in life........i don't know why we place so much attachment to marriage
Cyber bullying is the worst among other abuses. Nobody is God . I thought God's time is the best. People should learn to mind their fucking business and let others be. Beside all these people bullying others all una clan don marry finish? Rubbish!!««QUEENMAYA»~REPORTING LIVE»
Gods tym is the best, no mata wat
They shud leave her alone, God's time is d best
Duuuh!!
The last post though...#Blocked mind ya business pipo..it doesn't kill to mind ya business
to marry no be force nah! njkalu@yahoo.com
Better ke? We that are inside want to leave the marriage ®retting why we got married in the first place.abeg,if it pleases her let her remain Single.
Lols
take your time my dear. folatush@yahoo.com
People shoulld learn how to mind their business.
kemi go and marry, no doubt ur successful but will feel more fulfilled when u settle and have kids...Linda u sef go marry hehehe
true fly_fire_fox@yahoo.com
pls wait for ur tym...quinyluv21yahoo.com
Women who are suffering in their husband's house telling others to get married.
That lady is very angry, 1st time I'll see this side of her. Marriage isn't something u rush into, am glad she knows that. Ppl sud stop pressurizing d singles to gt married cs dey're nt kids & wen d ryt tym comes dey'll marry. Kemi Adetiba, d ppl askn u 2 gt married also kia abt u, its jst dt we've diff ways of showing our loved ones d kia & luv in our hrt 4 dem. Dnt b offended & pls understand dt dey all want d bst 4 u in all u do even in ur ststus.
Abi o
Dey take another woman dey shine
Abi o
Dey take another woman dey shine
Support her its about time pple start managing there own business.
Na her Sabi ooo
Make she park well jare
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a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Bcos of twitter many people don gather mouth nw i swear.....
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Na only her waka come
Deep down inside Kemi, i know you wish you were married. Dont worry though, Gods time is the best.
God bless you for this comment!!!
10 million likes. Frustrated wives looking for who will join their club. Misery loves company.
Gods time is the best dear!!!!ologunifemidolapo@yahoo.com
Ooh shut up! People like you have LSE. Which one is naija girls again? What does this have to do with growing up abroad? Even girls over here want to get married. I didn't grow up here but I'm not particularly bothered about it. It's just a thing of difference in mentality and upbringing. Mtchew.
Life isn't all about marriage either. NIgerians real need to calm the fuck down!! Too much societal pressure on young women. As if being married suddenly makes you better and more achieved. Bullshit ideology
she shld wait for God's time jare.
Shut da Fuck up. U R a public product by virture of ur fame. Deal with it.
Nice one.... Principles1983@gmail.com
Nice one.... Principles1983@gmail.com
Poko noses. Mega4dave@gmail.com
Don't mind the busy body dem!
Lol, Sentangel2040@yahoo.com
Nice.
Yemisi Z10 says so
Must every woman have mrs attached to her...
Na wa oh bizy body plenty go,babe no mind them take ur tym jare.
The only major reason why marriage is important is for you to have your own family! Your kids are your true family,Not even your spouse! Apart from having kids...Marriage is over-rated.
Lol
Looooooool
dnt knw why people pay attention to all dis cyber crap...some say it aint dt easy but wen i become a celeb,pls bring it on...so long watever anybody says doesnt affect my cash in-flow,den pls sit on it(d middle finger)
She's right.
Jesus is Lord.
She's right.
Jesus is Lord.
Blocked... lol
Kemi finish dem cos m tired of women bulling oda women cos of marriage... Hw many pple happi fr dia marriage eh? U rush enta,naso u go rush cum out... Wait fr d rit tym n pesin,dnt let pple push u into sumfin dat will gv u pains cos wen u start facin d painful drama of marriage,dose pple will back out n let u face ur drama. B wise ladies
~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
She smart she loyal she hardworking! I appreciate that.
Nigerians and Marriage, most of the so called married ladies are battered on daily basis by their husbands. Some will go to d extend of marrying their grandfathers' age mate and be wife no 7 just bcus they wanted validation from the society, and they are miserable. In as much as I respect the institution of marriage, Nigerians especially should stop all this nonsense of pressuring women of certain age to get married by force. How many of the so called married ladies are really happy in their so called marriage.
Wo! It's nt easy oh,wen ure 28 n unmarried like me every1 will begin to worry ur life,u hv no idea d kind of pressure I'm passing thru nt to talk of sm1 older,it is well with us oh
Well said. Women needs to learn how to support and love each other. Most married women don't even feel at home in their own homes. I don't understand what the fuss is all about. Some men are not even worth sacrificing your name for. Women pls beat it!
A girl like u opening ur mouth nd saying that crap *am ashamed* pple sit at one corner nd say crap to others like they known half of what they have gone thru, marriage is not everything, live and let others live, biri ka anyi biri.
This " go and marry thing is now like a song" people should let single ladies live, u don't know what they going through. In Nigeria it's like a curse being single, they keep asking the stupid question
seriously.
Where are the clever zingers of her own: Are you happily married tho? Are you in your husband's house or your jointly owned house as a couple? Can he throw you out of his house at any time? What rights do you have if he leaves you or marries another woman? Did mana fall from the sky on your wedding day? Does marriage shield you from life's tribulations, death, debt, sadness...?
lolzzz!
Dont let your kids call you granny! Word!
I dont understand why another womans marital status should be a source of bother to another.
@anonynous 11:01. Since u got married for all of the wrong reasons there are, yes, u should want to leave the marriage. Nxt time, don't make a blanket statement 'we that r inside want to leave' believe me, some of us are having the time of our lives. We love our marriages n encourage singles who find love in the right places to cm join the jolliment. My dear, with speed, run out of that ur marriage before it kills u.
People won't mind their business nd use the energy they use, in trash talking to better their lifes *mseew*
I tire o. Ignorant jobless people. I wonder why she responded sef.
mofoz won't just mind their biz.
Marriage is gud but it shud nt b a deciding factor in a woman's life.
A single girl has no peace of mind in Nigeria again cos of marriage pressure from family, frnds,nd society
---#AUNTYLINDAgoddaughter#
AM A WOMAN AND I DON'T WANT TO BE MARRIED, NEVER.
IT IS JUST ONE OF LIFE'S CHOICES, AM NOT SURPRISED SOME IDIOTS ARE HARASSING THIS YOUNG WOMAN TO GO GET MARRIED.
IN A SOCIETY WHERE THE MEN ASPIRE TO LOOT THE TREASURY, BUILD HOUSE AND BUY JEEP AND BELIEVE THY HAVE ARRIVED.
WHAT DO YOU NOW THINK WILL BE THE A SENSE OF ACHIEVEMENT FOR THE WOMEN FOLK GET MARRIED AND BORN CHILDREN.
LOOK AROUND YOU FOLKS WE ARE A SOCIETY OF UNDER ACHIEVERS AND NO PURPOSE.
THE WHITE MAN IS BUSY BUILDING COMPUTERS, MOBILE PHONES, JETS, CARS.
WE SO CALLED AFRICANS ARE BUSY PURSUING MEDIOCRE THINGS TO BUY HOUSE, RIDE JEEP AND VISIT AMERICA/LONDON.
THAT IS ONLY WHAT WE THINK ABOUT, A NATION OF SMALL MINDED, DIM WITTED IDIOTS.
YES OUR MEN HAVE MARRIED OUR SO CALLED WOMEN AND YOUR ECONOMY IS BUSY SLIDING DOWN TO THY KINGDOM COME.
CONTINUE SHOUTING MARRIAGE ONE DAY ALL OF US WILL WAKE UP TO A NATION WHERE ONLY 000.0001% WILL BE ABLE TO AFFORD BREAD OR MILK.
ABEG IF I DON'T GET MARRIED WILL I GO TO HELL?
A CONTINENT OF SMALL MINDED IDIOTS.
Kemi, pls live your life the way you want to. I wish I can turn back the hands of time, I would have made different life decisions, and one of them would have been not getting married. I would have gone for artificial insemination or adoption. I have always known that marriage is not for me, but I allowed myself to be pressurised into it. Now, I feel trapped, I am miserable and also not living the life I want. I have two kids who might end up being kids of divorced parents as I am getting to a breaking point. I strongly advise women to never let family or friends push you, do it because you want it. It requires a lot of commitment, just think about it.
WORD
Anon 12:28 God bless you joor....not every marriage is doomed to fail, some of us are very happy and still very much in love with our partners, despite how much time had passed.
I swear down!
I wonder why someone would ask her to go marry. Why z even replying. Pple should learn to mind their business.
Nonso Okoh via SAMSUNG GALAXY SMART PHONE.
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile,
Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama.
Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
loye.motun@gmail.com..it fit be me oo
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile,
Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama.
Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
Well i guess the reason lots of people say that to a lady thats very matured ls that she dont really gat much time to play around with b4 she hits menopause.. So they expect her to make marriage a priority over other things she's doing at the moment cos time is a limiting factor..but you wont kill yourself if thats not working , You just gato do other things...
There's a grace that comes with being married, granted. This however does not mean everybody should marry, someone here @grace offor said get married, its better. I ask than what?
The system is so jacked up, girls hurry up and get married it preaches, but it doesn't prepare the poor things for the abuse that occurs in some homes. And that's why women stay with men who cheat and abuse them because its better!Black eyes and STD is better than being single?.
That's why we feel that even a woman who wins a nobel prize is overshadowed by the fact that she is not married. Then its ehya she's still a Ms. She becomes a pariah among married women, who dig their nails in their husbands arms whenever she passes by, lest she snatches their prized possession.
Was just saying to my mate I've had it with those dps that say once a girl is 28 and she hears settle down her thighs should spread like an open compass and she start to go to Shiloh for deliverance. If men appreciate how a bad woman can wreck a home he would go to Shiloh too.
Food for thought, has anybody considered the increased rate of divorce and Separation in Nigeria. Any free day you have go to Lagos High Court and listen to the family division court proceedings, that should fill you with sufficient dread.
Summary: Earn your own respect, stop looking to be a Mrs Somebody to gain respectability.
You ain't lie! As in I know one whose husband hasn't worked in 2 years just lost motivation and she can't get or support him and curses him out every week but can still open mouth to say go and marry and look down on her unmarried friends because she is an MRS
Na wa ooo... Some people will never stop to suprise me sha... Wetyn concern em? Abiii na envy dey cause ds one ni? Make Una leave her for me ooo.. Maybe na me go marry her last... Cos she's beautiful and hardworking... I dey always trip ni... Just that she's older Dan me.. Lol... Linda watch ur back ooo... Make dem no attack u too...
Indeed. Especially when people like Linda can't happily get married unless it is to their fellow woman. ;)
Kemi I'm young and single. Lemme help you shut these *** up
Wetin she wear sef. Make i start from there. Later i will address the issue on ground. lol
Anon 12:56, you nailed it.
You said it all.
Took words out of my mouth.
God's Time is the best. Won't succumb to pressures.
Congratulations on your own "marriage".
Onye buru na turn by turn you hear pray the one you have married lives like Methusela because the very next second can't be guaranteed...
I have seen one get married two years down the line she is widow or a divorced woman or a scorned wife...
Live your life and allow another person live theirs. In the end, the race is not to the swift nor battle to the strong...
Time & Chance!!
But seriously, what's all d marriage bugging about. Are married women the happiest women on ewrth? They qre d most frustrated. My dear Kemi, fovus on ur career biko. Dont mind busy bodies, jobless housewives.
I wish I could like your comment
God bless you
Linda u don hear? Go and marry oooooooooooooooooooo. Lmao
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True talk.......
@Galore
Please tell me what the marriage will do for her?
Ruth Kemisola Bambi, it seems u have blocked head. Don't u understand wat she is trying to say. That not everybody wants marriage. Haba.. If na so, wen ur pickin reach 12 yrs make she go marry. Marry marry marry, wetin e dey add 4 ur body. After 6 months sef all the so called love go fade e go com turn to quarrel everyday. For ur info, being single is better. Wen u get married (if u not), wait for 3 yrs den compare it with wen u were single
@anon 12:28
*yimu*
Why bother to respond at all to these haters? You're making them feel like it's paining you...
People rushing others into marriage should shut up and realize this is why a lot of marriages are crashing in naija. Ppl rush to be socially accepted n the marriage fails. The way ppl r evil, you dunno who you marry. Just for the sake of elevating social acceptance, people marry n then when the wedding crashes it's those same that will abuse u.that's how one woman called off her engagement n wore her aso ebi to another wedding. Please, we don't want divorce
Maybe if she had a good attitude/behaviour, someone would have put a ring on it.
Kemi u are looking cool on ur dp...
Being single is not by choice sometimes. I'm a successful woman. I earn my money. I am beautiful. I'm a homemaker. I am educated. I am a virgin. I don't sleep around. I don't waka all over Abuja. I am an incredible chef. So, is it my fault that no man has seen these qualities and want to make me his wife?! Fuck that. I don't even want a man to come out of the blue and start talking marriage. No matter how old I am, I have to know that kneecar first and well. And I will NOT lower my standard by settling for a man who is less than I deserve. Mba. I know what I want. I better myself at every chance I get so I won't let a man who doesn't have a vision of mission to drag me down with him. Mba nu. Laziness, poverty and their vices are contagious. I shan't be affected so I can be called a "wife". I'm not saying single working women have to be looking for rich men, nah. But when you meet a man who knows he's going somewhere and when you too look down the same road, you'll see the same destination the man is headed, then you can invest in him. Not all those ne'er-do-wells. That are still "will"ing. Lol. I refuse to be coaxed into a marriage of misery and suffering and heartache. This peace of mind I enjoy now (that is making me fresh)? I no fit trade am for anything ooo. If not that I don't want to disobey God and I don't want to bring disgrace to my father, I would have birth a child on my own. Walahi
And the most annoying one is the way a married friend will now write on BBM when another is engaged or getting married "welcome to the club". Which kain club?! Pisses me off. Then the newly married ones will now be deleting their friends who are unmarried from their contact and unfollowing them on instagram and twitter. Lol
How will she marry when she's busy ripping off and stealing from Nigerian Churches. Who will marry her anyways?? Those hips are worn out....
Don't let your kid call you granny. Hahahaha that was ash.Lol spacojolly@gmail.com
Marriage is not the key to success
Linda what do you think? Do you concur with Kemi?
Kemi is so correct,Enof wiv d stereotype.d society shud applaud ladies like these,women who dnt jst lay on their back,spread their legs and wait for men to give them peanuts.dat bn said @linDa I troway salute.kip reppin
Anon 10:57 ...this lady aint no dumbo...shes saying some real truth here and i understand that the truth is bitter...Marriage would earn you some respect wether you want to hear it or not...you cant be unmarried and contest for governorship or some top positions here in nigeria or even in yankee ...you wont get elected just because of your status.. So shes right. Theres no crime in being single or unmarried but if you have made that decision to stay unmarried then dont go about making other peoples husbands,fiancees or boyfriends your sex partner and causing multiple problems for others, it will pay you to get your own partner..Simple!!!
what a waste of time! waht is she waiting for? why not get married?
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lmao at blocked that part cracked me up. abimbo_sweety@yahoo.com
10:41, Oprah Winfrey, Condoleeza Rice, Queen Latifah, Tyra Banks, Mother Theresa, Coco Chanel, Sheryl Crow, Queen Elizabeth I, and Cameron Diaz are successful never married women.
Kemi go and marry and have kids! If u think u r too successful to be under a man, your body go soon tell u..go ask Nike oshinowo.
. Go buy yo mama a house
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