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Saturday 4 October 2014

Dear LIB readers: Should I be worried? My BFF is urging me to date her ex

From a female LIB reader
My best friend dated this guy when they were in school and they broke up after he cheated on her with a certain girl. Now I met this her ex recently and he is professing love for me. I called my friend and told her and she goes "You better say yes. I want to be a chief bridesmaid". She's been forcing me to call him and all. Although I like the guy because he is made and actually my spec but again he is my best friends ex-boyfriend. They dated for three years. The weird thing in all of this is her seeming 100% support to the proposed relationship. Should I take her for her word or be scared?

236 comments:

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Unknown said...

Don't listen to her

Anonymous said...

Be Scared

Unknown said...

Hmmmm..odikwa suspicious oo

Unknown said...

Dnt even think abt it. Ur so called bff is two-faced, believe me, she is mocking u at ur bak,thr must be an alterior motive,she is pretending

Anonymous said...

My dear run o! Run as fast as you can! Hmmm that kind friend that will advice you to date someone that broke her heart aka cheated on her! Na wa

Anonymous said...

Don't tink she's 100% real..... 4lo ur hrt but be cautious also

Toronto Finest said...

But you just did

Anonymous said...

When exactly did being made or being beautiful become the only prerequisite for getting married.

Anonymous said...

Fool. Is this not a comment you have made already?

Anonymous said...

@ funsho daniel.....bcos u've rubbish thunking.must yu comment?

Anonymous said...

It's a bit tricky, the situation. It would have been straight forward if ur friend is already married. Again, I assume the man knew your relationship with ur friend while in school. Again, if your broke up with him cos he cheated, are u saying you wouldn't have acted same way if u were in her shoes? Again, if the cheating wasn't a serious factor, what stops the man from making re conciliatory moves to ur friend? Why coming to u? Now, have u also thought of encouraging the two to reconcile? U need to thread carefully cos it's a lifelong matter. Good luck ss u take ur decision

Anonymous said...

Stories for d gods o

Unknown said...

I'm looking for a word.....hmmmm....found it........run! Runnnnnnnnnnnn!! Runnnnnn!!!

Unknown said...

Run away from both of them.....run as far as u can from both of them..... Runnn

Unknown said...

Seconded

Libers will juzt cuss u out if u post tory here lol

Unknown said...

shine ur eyes girl. they'd surely find their way into each others bed...#talking from xp

Anonymous said...

Your opinions always baffle me

Anonymous said...

Errrr u just did

Anonymous said...

Ayimoye married women who still cheat!

Anonymous said...

If u eventually marry the dude, both may engage in extramarital affairs because of what had happen between them in the past. A word is enough for the wise.

Anonymous said...

All i know is that she is not your best friend if she is encouraging you to date someone that she dumped for being unfaithful.

Anonymous said...

Ma dear go ahead and date him.it's guys dat sees this as an issue. As far has she has given u D go ahead proceed

Anonymous said...

Linda pls there is something boardinb me,pls I wan share my experience hw can I send it to u so dat viewer can advice me......

*Dee* said...

Sweetheart, be scared, be very scared. She is definitely up to something, she is probably looking for a way to reconnect with the guy

Anonymous said...

Run as fast as u can. She still likes d guy and your dating him is an opportunity for her to see him regularly.
J.O

Anonymous said...

The guy is made???? Wth. U don't like him cod he's nice and sweet, treats U nice etc. it's cos he's made

streets fEEd uP! said...

She is just 2 cheap and stupid to ask dis question...

Anonymous said...

ride on dear. almost everyone is somebody's ex. d fact u know he's ur friends ex shouldn't make a difference. all d best in ur choice

Anonymous said...

ride on dear

Subomi said...

dont see whats wrong with that

Unknown said...

Hehehe! You have an EPIC friend! There are many scenarios coming to my head with this your story. One that seem to stick is: Your friend and her supposed 'ex' are very much in love with each other. However they discovered that your friend has lost her womb and they are looking for a human scape goat who would carry his child, give birth for him and then kill her....

BOTTOM LINE: Run! and don't look back! I can't even believe you are asking this question sef! There are plenty fishes in the ocean, must you swallow her own vomit! Ahan!

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Mario said...

Bros u no book

Unknown said...

my dear remove your two shoes, and run for your life.

Unknown said...

If she can fight for him like this, then she should forgive him and marry him, not luring you into the trap she ran away from. Be wise!

Unknown said...

You need to take off your stilettos and run as far away as you can from your so called " Bestie". She get plan for you n nor be good one. Why is she hell bent on hooking you up with her CHEATING EX? He's not Morris chestnut (only person I can make exceptions for)babe Saks far oh...NEXT

Unknown said...

You need to take off your stilettos and run as far away as you can from your so called " Bestie". She get plan for you n nor be good one. Why is she hell bent on hooking you up with her CHEATING EX? He's not Morris chestnut (only person I can make exceptions for)babe waka far oh...NEXT

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