Dear LIB readers: Why are women not faithful? My girl is so cheap
From a male LIB reader
But why are women like that? Why are women not faithful? Why? My girl
friend is too cheap. To test her I opened
another account on Facebook using my native names. I sent her
request and we started chatting for some days without letting her know I
was the one. I decided to test her faithfulness in the relationship
the day before valentine (13th), I requested for her number, she asked 'for
what', I told her I don't have a girl friend and I wanted her to be my val on the 14th. Without hesitation she sent the number. I asked for her address she sent her real address. I asked when and
where we can meet, she said we could meet at a hotel close to her house. I asked if she was in a relationship, she said no.
Anyway we agreed to meet at the hotel. She knows my schedule that I would not be at
home celebrating valentine with her. I told my friend to call her to
come to the hotel which she did and my friend told me she was willing to sleep with him. Please friends what do you advise me to do? This is a girl I was considering marrying some day...
She is definitely worth someone better and more mature than you are ten times. Instead of spending time with her and making her feel loved like someone in a relationship, you are there wasting time playing silly games and setting traps. You are just a boy grow up and maybe someone will have the guts to say they are in a relationship. Imagine the hours you wasted posing as someone else, valuable time you will not get back you used to make yourself look like a fool.
I hate stereotypes! Most women are faithful but unfortunately for you, you got one of the unfaithful ones. All you can do is break up with her and learn from your mistake. Shit happens deal with it and please do not carry out your aggression on every woman you come across
Mumu so you will fuck every stranger u meet just to spread ur eggs, wtf all these mentally retarded girls are everywhere. Guys beware!!! Linda am still in that normal hotel waiting for you o
Forget dat tin who get time for roatin banana. D guy he question is not a saint. See married women now adays don begin shine their eyez them dey fuck any how. What matters is one is happy. Every body dey cheat man or woman.
Exactly, boys be claiming my girlfriend. na girlfriend we wan chop, put a ring there and see if she will cheat. Idiot testing her as if you're a saint and when she's not your wife.
Why are u judging all women? Try the same trick on ur guy friend pretend ure a beautiful woman,and see if he won't fall,i bet he ll be there wit 2packs of CD waiting in boxers in the hotel, pls men are worse,if ur gf tried u am sure u would ve failed woofly,better guys were busing planning a romantic day,u were busy testing her faithfulness abeg disappear mtchewww
I hate it wen i hia men saying dat lady's re cheap "gsah" buh men's brain is worst dan chicken brian na dem get fish brain pass"idiot" y u kno test ur sis wit ur bf, dat serves u rite....
Firstly you shouldn't have tested her because that's indirectly lying and it means that you don't trust her and trust is an attribute that couples should always have. anyway, you tested her and she fell for the trap, it's your decision as a man to make your decisions and pray. Marriage is not a simple commitment, it's a lifestyle and lifetime commitment. Beware, it's not everything we feel that is right, God probably has a better plan for you, pray and be patient.
Eiyaaa, but why would you pull that kind of stunt on a whole 13th na.. U should knw its not fair at all...Lolz. And pls, biko, ejoo, mbok, stop generalizing on this issue. Next tym try using the headline 'Y is my girlfrnd so unfaithful.. Hope u find peace..:)
@onyx, u are clearly a big gay fool! What u jst said doesn't even make one sense...anywho...dude free d girl all girls are the same...she's a nympho from the story u have given...
Wetin dis one dey yan!!! She said she's not in a relationship!!! Wtf!!! Do u need any more proof to know this girl is a slut? Would a responsible girl deny her boyfriend if she wasn't ready to have sex with another man? Dis didi crystal u too stupid abeg....
diz story doest seem to add up..1st didnt u ve a profile pic on fbk? I cnt imagine a gal talkn to u 4days..n wudnt wonder to ask wia s ya pic if one s nt displayn..cuz u cnt jst send ya frnd! She wil be lik..diz nt d guy on fbk..xo pls go bk n try another line of story..Jay s nt buyin this! 200%fake
I see a lot of biased comments obviously from female LIB readers and am baffled at what might become of this generation and the next...there is going to be a decrease in population no doubt cos I don't see many honest relationships happening.
@ Oga Ade you are an imbecile, if you don't have anything better to say then go and fuck your sister and mom, bloody idiot!!! Some people just come on this blog to talk rubbish, your father probably cheated on your mom, that is why you are so pained, bloody bastard!!!whizman
Omo my brother it is as good and clear that she would still do the same thing to you when you guyz get married..... plz open your eyes and let go off her i am telling you bro, as a resort of what you just said i am also going through same thing now as i write to you 2 of my friends had sex with a girl i call my girl friend .....
OMG !!! Well, its obvious shes not meant for you. And this is so disheartening. Sorry mate but please do move on ....Not all women are like that though.
Truth is, the girlie ain't cheap and she ain't no whore...the problem is yhu my guy, yes yhu. She won't be doing all that if yhu were man enough to satisfy her needs...
Being in a relationship is all about trusting d other party, for u to have done that, it simply means u don't trust ur girl. Wat u did was silly and u nid to deal with it on ur own.
Well find out the cause of her unfaithfulness, maybe u are not doing ur job well. There is something she nids she is not getting from u and if she also places a test on your faithfulness, u will fail woefully so stop making it an issue
What stupid ring? When we have married women that cheat, putting a ring on it won't justify her faithfulness. A cheat will always be a cheat, married or not
U r a slut just like the poster's girlfriend. Why meet at a hotel? A decent girl would never accept that, not even an eatery, A HOTEL. That na serious prostitute
Linda, the picture for this story resembles Dimeji Bankole. Abeg change am. After the guy don chop our money finish, I no wan behold im face ever again
Wat u did was so so uncalled for, but it was so cheap of ur babe agreeing to met a total stranger in a hotel on Val's day. U nid to tell her, and forgive, no relationship is prefect, the devil u knw is better dan d angel u haven't met.
hmmm..i ve read so many comments and i wonder if some of us dont think straight...i just feel you went a little overboard with your testing or whatever you termed it....at d point you saw she was willing n giving in gradually,it should have given you enough insight that theres something you nt doing right...i no its not easy to d ladies..but i feel dts d point you should have dropped all wat u doin,and give her d best surpriseof her life n mayb propose to her...we r women for godsakes n its not easy stickin to a man we r bein hopeful wil propose soonest wen most of our friends r sayin i do..you also took d wrongest step by involvin ur friend which also means you never loved ds lady in question...i rest ma case
Anon 10:55, u r very stupid to say dat men r polygamous in nature and dat girls and women should understand and accept it dat way. So it is not a sin for a guy to cheat but it is a taboo for a girl to cheat. Thunder fire u there!!!!! Have you tried to find out what happened in the first place? am sure if the girl is given an opportunity to explain, the guy will be at fault.
She is not a WIFE material free am. She just failed a marital test. Any woman can be married, but if u want a wife, then it's definitely not her. Who knows ur friend might have slept with her. She just a GASTO.
hahahhaha well when a guy cant keep his shit right he will be dissed full time on occasions like dis ... guys are unfaithful and even cheaper if u ask me joo and their lies are so lame...sassy
As far as i'm concerned, the ladies can say all they want about how wrong it was for him to test her, truth is, she failed woefully!! there is no justification for wanting to sleep with another dude when you are still in a relationship. I dunno of other girls but she was way too cheap!!
Mr tester, continue to test.......... If you test 100 single/ married women, more than half will fall.....not big deal. Come and test me, I go make love to ur friends, screw ur brothers/ uncles, fuck ur father and give ur grand dad serious blowjob......then I don pass ur exam
the story is a lie abeg,no picture on d profile,u no tell us say u get two lines, or u buy anoda line to punk ur babe,people will just be fabregatin stories,even tho girls r cheap,dey r not dese cheap,but if this story is true then ur babe is very hungry cos u dnt fuk her well.
See I hv come to realize dat some people will remain in darkness for life n ll never wise up. We all know what is happening in marriages this day. It is better to discover early than after wedding my brother you hv done well don't mind them they are full of deceit, so what ll they call Jesus for putting our faith to test.
don't sound true to me, which pic did he use 2 open the FB account that u can send anybody to cal her and met with her. she must hav seen a pic of the person b4 accepting to go.
Pls dnt say women not all women cheat okay u can still find faithful ones, and dnt test a lady u really want to marry its not fair testing her to prove wat smh
i would like to say your girlfriend is not faithful and cheap not all girls!!!!...there is no reason to generalize....however i do not condo cheating it irritates me so you should leave ......but in your future relationship you should be more trusting of your partner and spend more time with them so they don't have to cheat
well tbh, the real reason why she probably was willing to sleep with your friend is because she was talking to you again. so she basically fell for the same person. so "test" is not really valid as the familiarity of the way you talk may have persuaded her to "sleep" with him.
Well, what you did wasn't so good by trying to find out if your gf is faithful. You may not even know, the problem may even come from you, it's possible you have not really defined the kinda relationship you have with her or maybe you do not even meet her needs i'm just saying oh before una go criticize me, all i can say is find out why she did what she did and then you decide if you can be with her or not. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
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Are you saying if you werein the girls shoes, you would have done same?
So you too can do that!!!!!
But seriously are u in support of what just happened?
You must be an aristo
Ode kini omode e mo, I did everything for my ex yet she cheated. You bera stop all these stupid and lame excuses mscheeeww!!!! Linda post sharply
She is definitely worth someone better and more mature than you are ten times. Instead of spending time with her and making her feel loved like someone in a relationship, you are there wasting time playing silly games and setting traps. You are just a boy grow up and maybe someone will have the guts to say they are in a relationship. Imagine the hours you wasted posing as someone else, valuable time you will not get back you used to make yourself look like a fool.
Cheat over and over?? Lol. Plz come to Me let's be doing it they will not know. I will do U well. Lol. U know what I mean? I wil F**k U well.
u must b vry stupid for sayn dat...animal!
I hate stereotypes! Most women are faithful but unfortunately for you, you got one of the unfaithful ones. All you can do is break up with her and learn from your mistake. Shit happens deal with it and please do not carry out your aggression on every woman you come across
Mumu so you will fuck every stranger u meet just to spread ur eggs, wtf all these mentally retarded girls are everywhere. Guys beware!!! Linda am still in that normal hotel waiting for you o
Konji wan kill Me 4 house yesterday. Others dey enjoy with der lovers Me dey house dey jones. No money, No girl frnd nawa oo.
I need a babe seriously, if U can be on ma side now Am broke. Honestly I assure U of everything when God remembers Me.
I need love.
Forget dat tin who get time for roatin banana. D guy he question is not a saint. See married women now adays don begin shine their eyez them dey fuck any how. What matters is one is happy. Every body dey cheat man or woman.
Yes. If na him nko. Abi e dey claim saint.
No mind am .stupid guy dey form saint
Shut up goat. Wetin concern language for here. Foolish person.
Gbam tell am.
Exactly, boys be claiming my girlfriend. na girlfriend we wan chop, put a ring there and see if she will cheat. Idiot testing her as if you're a saint and when she's not your wife.
@anon 10:01 sharrap idiot like u
Gbam.
Why are u judging all women? Try the same trick on ur guy friend pretend ure a beautiful woman,and see if he won't fall,i bet he ll be there wit 2packs of CD waiting in boxers in the hotel, pls men are worse,if ur gf tried u am sure u would ve failed woofly,better guys were busing planning a romantic day,u were busy testing her faithfulness abeg disappear mtchewww
Your crazy, man!!!!, what d fuck do you mean by she must be yoruba? Ur fucked up man, and u sounded highly delusional.....go fuck urself
I hate it wen i hia men saying dat lady's re cheap "gsah" buh men's brain is worst dan chicken brian na dem get fish brain pass"idiot" y u kno test ur sis wit ur bf, dat serves u rite....
Firstly you shouldn't have tested her because that's indirectly lying and it means that you don't trust her and trust is an attribute that couples should always have. anyway, you tested her and she fell for the trap, it's your decision as a man to make your decisions and pray. Marriage is not a simple commitment, it's a lifestyle and lifetime commitment. Beware, it's not everything we feel that is right, God probably has a better plan for you, pray and be patient.
Eiyaaa, but why would you pull that kind of stunt on a whole 13th na.. U should knw its not fair at all...Lolz. And pls, biko, ejoo, mbok, stop generalizing on this issue. Next tym try using the headline 'Y is my girlfrnd so unfaithful.. Hope u find peace..:)
@onyx, u are clearly a big gay fool! What u jst said doesn't even make one sense...anywho...dude free d girl all girls are the same...she's a nympho from the story u have given...
Wetin dis one dey yan!!! She said she's not in a relationship!!! Wtf!!! Do u need any more proof to know this girl is a slut? Would a responsible girl deny her boyfriend if she wasn't ready to have sex with another man? Dis didi crystal u too stupid abeg....
diz story doest seem to add up..1st didnt u ve a profile pic on fbk? I cnt imagine a gal talkn to u 4days..n wudnt wonder to ask wia s ya pic if one s nt displayn..cuz u cnt jst send ya frnd! She wil be lik..diz nt d guy on fbk..xo pls go bk n try another line of story..Jay s nt buyin this! 200%fake
I see a lot of biased comments obviously from female LIB readers and am baffled at what might become of this generation and the next...there is going to be a decrease in population no doubt cos I don't see many honest relationships happening.
Wtepower. Lucky u. Free advertising ooo. Correct
@ Oga Ade you are an imbecile, if you don't have anything better to say then go and fuck your sister and mom, bloody idiot!!! Some people just come on this blog to talk rubbish, your father probably cheated on your mom, that is why you are so pained, bloody bastard!!!whizman
Try testing her again but did time u should go to d venue of our meeting let her c u.I believe u should confront her.
Bros, you should have make plans to spend Val with her besides, you haven't put ring on her finger.
lol, guy go get a life, i'm sure u r nt faithful thats y u came up wit the testin thng
Olodo
Omo my brother it is as good and clear that she would still do the same thing to you when you guyz get married..... plz open your eyes and let go off her i am telling you bro, as a resort of what you just said i am also going through same thing now as i write to you 2 of my friends had sex with a girl i call my girl friend .....
Yoruba say Wetin na, if you no get Wetin to talk you better go sleep. How am I sure the girl no be ur sister sef.
OMG !!! Well, its obvious shes not meant for you. And this is so disheartening. Sorry mate but please do move on ....Not all women are like that though.
#daveydave
Truth is, the girlie ain't cheap and she ain't no whore...the problem is yhu my guy, yes yhu. She won't be doing all that if yhu were man enough to satisfy her needs...
Pele dear life is full of surprise.
Has d guy proposed 2 her hw long has d guy been dating d girl,verytinz 4 dis life na try ur luck u wnt test her abi Gud 4 u.
My exact thots!
This ur story is ambigious.
This ur story is ambigious.
This ur story is ambigious.
Being in a relationship is all about trusting d other party, for u to have done that, it simply means u don't trust ur girl. Wat u did was silly and u nid to deal with it on ur own.
Well find out the cause of her unfaithfulness, maybe u are not doing ur job well. There is something she nids she is not getting from u and if she also places a test on your faithfulness, u will fail woefully so stop making it an issue
@Sleek Iluminada, but u know say na igbo girls dey cheat, do runs and prostitution pass nah. Why u come dey lie?
What stupid ring? When we have married women that cheat, putting a ring on it won't justify her faithfulness. A cheat will always be a cheat, married or not
U r a slut just like the poster's girlfriend. Why meet at a hotel? A decent girl would never accept that, not even an eatery, A HOTEL. That na serious prostitute
Women are naturally selfish, know that and u will live a blissful life!
Ask hm oo jane... men cn do wors dan dat..
Linda, the picture for this story resembles Dimeji Bankole. Abeg change am. After the guy don chop our money finish, I no wan behold im face ever again
Yeah, u re very pretty....... Segun Arinze is pretty too
MY brother, you don't need any advise. your primary research on her faithfulness has given you all the clues.
Move on and Search for a faithful lady that will complement you .
Wat u did was so so uncalled for, but it was so cheap of ur babe agreeing to met a total stranger in a hotel on Val's day. U nid to tell her, and forgive, no relationship is prefect, the devil u knw is better dan d angel u haven't met.
NEVER TRUST A LADY. period!
hmmm..i ve read so many comments and i wonder if some of us dont think straight...i just feel you went a little overboard with your testing or whatever you termed it....at d point you saw she was willing n giving in gradually,it should have given you enough insight that theres something you nt doing right...i no its not easy to d ladies..but i feel dts d point you should have dropped all wat u doin,and give her d best surpriseof her life n mayb propose to her...we r women for godsakes n its not easy stickin to a man we r bein hopeful wil propose soonest wen most of our friends r sayin i do..you also took d wrongest step by involvin ur friend which also means you never loved ds lady in question...i rest ma case
@ Sleek... I'm very sure your mother is Yoruba so u must be speaking from experience. Tell us, hw many times did ur Mum sleep witt ur Gardener. Idiot!
@Jose Sunshine. Thank you so much for your comment. Enjoy the rest of the day.
Lol you complaining mine is a drug addit and very cheap and foolish... Girls are all d same... Mike
Brun lik never before.
Anon 10:55, u r very stupid to say dat men r polygamous in nature and dat girls and women should understand and accept it dat way. So it is not a sin for a guy to cheat but it is a taboo for a girl to cheat. Thunder fire u there!!!!! Have you tried to find out what happened in the first place? am sure if the girl is given an opportunity to explain, the guy will be at fault.
She is not a WIFE material free am. She just failed a marital test. Any woman can be married, but if u want a wife, then it's definitely not her. Who knows ur friend might have slept with her. She just a GASTO.
Hmmm you are one luckyducky man...
Wenever u want to comment please don't insult pepz hun....LIB is for you to give an advice.... put your self in such shoe
hahahhaha well when a guy cant keep his shit right he will be dissed full time on occasions like dis ... guys are unfaithful and even cheaper if u ask me joo
and their lies are so lame...sassy
As far as i'm concerned, the ladies can say all they want about how wrong it was for him to test her, truth is, she failed woefully!! there is no justification for wanting to sleep with another dude when you are still in a relationship. I dunno of other girls but she was way too cheap!!
Capt Planet
Lol@ dumb
Mr tester, continue to test.......... If you test 100 single/ married women, more than half will fall.....not big deal.
Come and test me, I go make love to ur friends, screw ur brothers/ uncles, fuck ur father and give ur grand dad serious blowjob......then I don pass ur exam
the story is a lie abeg,no picture on d profile,u no tell us say u get two lines, or u buy anoda line to punk ur babe,people will just be fabregatin stories,even tho girls r cheap,dey r not dese cheap,but if this story is true then ur babe is very hungry cos u dnt fuk her well.
she kw dat u will not marry her dat is y
she kw dat u will not marry her dat is y
Please I beg you!!! let her go
She's not good for you, if you want to enjoy your marriage look for another future partner.
See I hv come to realize dat some people will remain in darkness for life n ll never wise up. We all know what is happening in marriages this day. It is better to discover early than after wedding my brother you hv done well don't mind them they are full of deceit, so what ll they call Jesus for putting our faith to test.
don't sound true to me, which pic did he use 2 open the FB account that u can send anybody to cal her and met with her. she must hav seen a pic of the person b4 accepting to go.
hmmmmmmm, make her realise what had happen, at some point in our life some made us face the truth. so she could change
Pls dnt say women not all women cheat okay u can still find faithful ones, and dnt test a lady u really want to marry its not fair testing her to prove wat smh
Oduduwians...e cool temper ooo. But Yoruba babes yansh nor dey stay with one man sha. Even Wikipedia don record am:)
Good question
i would like to say your girlfriend is not faithful and cheap not all girls!!!!...there is no reason to generalize....however i do not condo cheating it irritates me so you should leave ......but in your future relationship you should be more trusting of your partner and spend more time with them so they don't have to cheat
Chei...stupids! LIBers nor go kill me with rubbish English
well tbh, the real reason why she probably was willing to sleep with your friend is because she was talking to you again. so she basically fell for the same person. so "test" is not really valid as the familiarity of the way you talk may have persuaded her to "sleep" with him.
Well, what you did wasn't so good by trying to find out if your gf is faithful. You may not even know, the problem may even come from you, it's possible you have not really defined the kinda relationship you have with her or maybe you do not even meet her needs i'm just saying oh before una go criticize me, all i can say is find out why she did what she did and then you decide if you can be with her or not. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
lwkmd, ure still asking what shud i do?
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