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Tuesday 11 February 2014

Is your boyfriend serious about you? The 50 signs that show you're in a committed relationship

Planning a holiday, driving each others' cars, having a key to your partner's house, being invited to family gatherings, posting a 'loved-up' photo on Facebook, are all signs a relationship is serious and past the 'seeing each other' phase, according to a new survey. 

Researchers questioned 2,000 people to reveal the top 50 things which indicate a couple are in a committed relationship. Check on it below and tell us what you think...

1. Meeting the parents
2. Exchanging house keys
3. Planning a holiday together
4. Discussing plans for the future
5. Being invited to family gatherings
6. Saying 'I love you'
7. Staying overnight at each other's houses
8. Signing Christmas / Birthday cards together
9. Seeing each other at least every other night
10. Leaving a toothbrush at each other's house



11. You tell each other absolutely everything

12. Letting them take care of you when sick
13. Being introduced to wider friendships circles
14. Discussing how many children you might want in the future
15. Buying a dog or cat together
16. Driving each other's cars
17. Inviting them to a wedding as a date
18. Divulging salary details
19. Letting them know your pin number
20. Discussing holidays
21. Having a drawer at each other's house
22. When you HYPOTHETICALLY talk about IF you lived together
23. Inviting people round as a couple
24. Having clothes and other belongings at each other's houses
25. First name terms with their mum and dad
26. Talking about intimate health issues
27. Farting in front of each other
28. Inviting them out with your friends / family
29. Receiving cards or gifts addressed to both of you
30. When you know what each other's plans are for every single day
31. Showering together
32. Changing Facebook status to 'in a relationship'

33. You know each other's passwords

34. Wearing pyjamas when you get home from work
35. You share secrets about friends with each other
36. Always being the 'plus one' on invites
37. Getting food in your big shop just for them
38. You start watching TV shows they like
39. Phoning each other at work
40. Stop putting make up on to look gloriously fresh before they wake up
41. When they start asking for your opinion on stuff
42. Going out with friends or family without the partner being there
43. Signing off 'love' in a card
44. You start listening to music they like
45. You stop seeing people you know they don't like
46. Putting a photo of the two of you on Facebook
47. Sending good morning / goodnight texts
48. Having a pet name for each other
49. Telling each other how many sexual partners you've had
50. When all their friends add you on Facebook

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Unknown said...

Does it mean if he/she doesnt meet up or do one of those listed, he/she isn't in a Commited Relationship?? Anywaz Its Quite Revealing Though!!

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Anonymous said...

Wow. I think I v 15 of dis happening now hmmmmm I don't kw

Anonymous said...

Jokers....tha dj

Anonymous said...

Boring!! Dis does not apply 2 nigerians.

Oyemen. said...

Hmmmm Sounds like a Romantic *Oyinbo* Flim am sure I have watched Linda,cause half of the things on that List are Foreign in Nigeria.*Yawn*.They need a pure Nigerian survey.*Smiles*.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

50 is way too much.
Life is too short to wait for 50 signs.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

bumshasha28 said...

Oh yeah!

Alloy Chikezie said...

Nice one


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Anonymous said...

Abeg u can as marry. Y all dis for just prove of rship. Put d ring on it n walk down d aisle. Den u will know he is serious. Pointless

Unknown said...

Obama And Michelle Practice Everything As Listed Above, Yet Obama De Eye QUEEN B!! You can have those qualities and still end up Heart Broken!! #NaWash!!

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Anonymous said...

Story, if u like meet deir forefathers....he won't marry u

Unknown said...

In a relationship where all these 50 signs are kept, what's stops them from heading to the altar?

No. 27 is very funny...lol, Farting in each others presence.

Unknown said...

In a relationship where all these 50 signs are kept, what's stops them from heading to the altar?

No. 27 is very funny...lol, Farting in each others presence.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm forget all this one na theory na....a bladdy naija man will do all dis plus one and cheat bigtime

ary said...

Omo see expo!

Kemi said...

If you have to go through this list to figure if he is serious about you, he probably is not!

Anonymous said...

Er Linda, I doubt if there is ANY relationship at all that has all these points..not even marriages..na fairytale??- Tonto's Tattoo

Anonymous said...

All good linda #bright bravo#

Anonymous said...

Brillant! Am married and i must say i passed through most of this...singles shine your eyes oo esp this valentine craziness!

Anonymous said...

Tooo long bt true----C21

Unknown said...

I guess I can confidently say that I'm in a committed relationship. My bf does 47 out of the 50 and that's bcos I'm not on Facebook ....hehehe, I'm on cloud 9...lol. I hope the research is accurate tho.

Slimy said...

Am sure all dis do not work in Naija relationships mbok

Okeke Austin said...

Bullshit! Most of these are elements of SIN.

Ice Princess said...

I agree with all but No 49. In an unrelated development, you have a way of ignoring people who say trash about you. Keep it up.

Anonymous said...

Just very few dem correct abi :)

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AllNaTalk said...

No33 no follow o. Password ko, atm pin ni. Mtcheewww. Shey na girlfriend. If na wife ok but girlfriend, abeg free the matter.

Anonymous said...

For naija abi na jand?

Anonymous said...

Very true!but not all dough.

Anonymous said...

Seriously Okiki! Even though having sex isn't included on the list, are they trying to say people who bath together don't have sex?

Anonymous said...

Dat NO 27,is so true,if u can't fart in d presense of ur bf/gf den d relationship btw u too na WASH

FUNMINISTA said...

STUPID list.there's just one way....GET THE RING.dats All

Mystic Falls said...

Hmm 50 kini..even the person who coined this 50 commandments knows it won't work esp in Nigeria,everything sounds like a typical american romance movie.

Anonymous said...

Just very few r true d rest total nonsense. Ny partner DAT is not contributing positively or drawing u more closer to God is an enemy.

Anonymous said...

As in dey never jam,naija guys wey even fit do all with 3 different babes.

Rabiya said...

....And it's sucha long list!

Anonymous said...

Infact to me its only 27 that applies.

Anonymous said...

Linda this your list na fake

AnnMarie said...

I don't agree with the part of saying I love u all the time cos some say it but don't mean it

Anonymous said...

Valentine will come n go. These 50 signs are not even complete in Naija marriages. Tho some. Wen ur Man is serious, u don't need any one to tell u.

Anonymous said...

No 25, really! So u call ur bf's mum by er name.
pls post ma comment o

Anonymous said...

I did all that except sharing password. One day he said 'he lost interest in me" that list does not guarantee anything!

Anonymous said...

This one na *oyibo man* lifestyles. Linda pls be real. This is Naija. Giving him food n more food. Lol

Anonymous said...

What r u pple saying? I have my soap and toothbrush in my man's house: he actually buys them when he feels they need to be replaced. All his friends added me on fb, we have holiday plans togeda, I've met all his siblings and mum,I have a key to his house which he gave me himself. I fart where he is and vice versa, I know what he earns and how he spends his money, he knows mine too. We talk about our future plans and how many kids we want to have and much more of the signs on the list.. And by God's grace I believe everything will work out just we want. So pls u guys shuldnt say its happening in Naija, it is just pray for a good man/woman who is willing to love and express love to you. That's all.
#Orignial igbo gurl

Anonymous said...

HMMMM, I BE MARRIED WOMAN NOW OH, AND I REMEMBER ALL THE GUYS I DATED BEFORE MY HUSBAND DESERVINGLY GOT ME, ALWYS SAID I WAS A GOOD GIRL, AND DID OVER 30 OF THOSE THINGS BUT IN THEIR INNER MINDS THEY WERE NOT SERIOUS OH!

Anonymous said...

Lmfao

Anonymous said...

Even if all correct,number 18 na no go area......

Anonymous said...

Nawa for you oh!

Anonymous said...

Hehe...@25 1st name terms with mum n dad. Imagine d@ i go 2c my b4 n i meet his youger sis n say Bola where is Iyabo(his mum)? Ild lv d@ haus without teeth. First name terms indeed wen in sm cases u cnt even call d younger ones by name na d parents u wan cm try am4?

CHAYA said...

List so on point lindodo

Unknown said...

Lol dis miss ikeji don carry come again, linda i think the subject should have been: "Is your husband really serious about you? BF & GF is nothing nowadays to talk of 50 signs

Anonymous said...

Omg am so in a serious relationship. Yaaay *dancing* we r so in luvv. Linda a beg post my comment.

few said...

50???...dah means d guy is jobless, wen will u have tym 4 yaself???#dahz y i lyk naija ways
naija relationship no dey pass hello cum ma houz on sunday, buy d gal maltina, f**k her d rest na story.......#holy me#

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Anonymous said...

As in eh!!! U took dis outta my mouth....all this things are not 4naija pipu

A3 said...

Stories dat tickles. Na today yansh get centre parting? Mtschewww!

Unknown said...

Una neva see person wey do x2 of all these n still chop clean mouth abi?

Anonymous said...

27 nd 41 r cool,buh omo,which1 b buying cats nd dogs together,bia linda tk ya time o,dis is omo 9ja

Anonymous said...

i can apply all this within 2days and still make da girl fall inlove and think am serious then i will DUMP her ASS. that is to say its only GOD we shud seek, not formula 50 or 1000signs biko

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Anonymous said...

Lmao! How many u fit wait for?

Unknown said...

most of them apply to me nd my boo except for those overly oyinbo things like calling his parents by name, plus one gini gini...

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm,linda Ikeji o,shebi u wn spoil my r/ship wit dis ur list,u v got me thinkn seriously cuz dt dude does jst 4 out of 50..#F9

Anonymous said...

That doesn' t mean the girl go marry u in naija oooo.......especially when u are d side nigga.....forget! She will meet your parents and still break your heart.....ive seen instances..

Unknown said...

So untrue. Sounds more like a list for live in lovers

Unknown said...

Partners can xperience d 50 yet break up. My own rule:1. if a bf can engage a gf 4 like 5 months & observe part or all of d 50, hope dey. 2. If a bf can engage a gf 4 more dan a year 6 months & observe part or all of d 50, na witch craft(gf shine eye).3. If a gf in a case no. 1 travels @ random, no hope 4 bf, gf may hav plan b, (bf shine eye). 4. If d mom of either bf or gf influences d relationship, bf or gf should b a friend 2 such else, wahala go dey 1 day. Na 9ja rule no b jand!

Unknown said...

Yeah... Nice one! Its gonna help a lot.

Zenki brown said...

​A̶̲̅ guy can pretend to do A̶̲̥̅ll dis nd stil dumps U †Ñ’ξ minute he gets wat he wants. #jst ask for Gods directn,Shikena#

Unknown said...

Linda which one is buying a dog or a cat together ? Funny to hear that

Unknown said...

Commandment 51 he shud gist wit u while shiting lol, 51 gv u head 53 u shud gv him BJ

Stephen Stephen said...

This is what happens between me and my fiancée. They are very correct!!

Anonymous said...

Ve got must of dat going!!!!!!!!buh yet am not into her......

abi said...

Hehehe, I swear. I get 2 babes and I dey do every.

I'm a high net worth individual so I can afford it and d girls respect me. But na one I go marry.

Anonymous said...

yay!i ticked yes on 40 0f them

Unknown said...

I just love 46 and 50.

Anonymous said...

Lol

Unknown said...

Who even u r seriously u r so funny.Lmao

Anonymous said...

Asin, free expo for free pussy.

Unknown said...

I just love 46 and 50.

Anonymous said...

49 leads to break ups never a good idea

Diary of Dido said...

Quite true.
I do not agree with the:
1) Being on first name basis with his/her parents- does that mean calling his/her parents by name? Maybe in America, definitely not a nigerian thing.
2) Disclosing the number of sexual partners? Hahahaha!
Yeah right. Some things are better left to the imagination or, better still reduced in digits.
Just saying.
My husband doesn't have an idea how many men I had been with and that is just fine.

Unknown said...

Llnda a whole 50, wow it means you know wan marry.

Anonymous said...

Linda if u truly knw all dis,u shd b in a guys house by now

Anonymous said...

I can't laugh....My no 1 list is GOD'S will. What if he does all these and doesn't have fear of GOD nko? He can kill u if mistakely u did something wrong

Diary of Dido said...

Exactly!
I have to say, I passed through, at least, 40, of these signs before I got married.
Might I add too, I think its all about the "timing" for guys.
You might be dating a guy who isn't mentally ready to get married.
He suddenly wakes up one day and thinks, "I need to get married, all my friends are a couple" and suddenly, his green light is on! Its all about timing.
When I was about 21 - 24, it seemed like guys were all about playing- I had numerous "chykers" who thought they could get you on your back by being outlandish- luxury cars, expensive gifts, taking your friends and yourself out to the best places in town (as a ph babe, most of the chykers ended up bedding the so-called friends).
In the midst of all this haze and fog that could cause a serious lack of judgement, there still were a few who were "responsible, smart, future-oriented, home-bodie and focused".
I thought they were "too focused and over mature biko".
At 25, it all changed. I realised my priorities did a complete turnaround, those players mysteriously either didn't come to me or when the came, I had an uncanny ability to first turn them into friends who eventually wanted to get serious- I was however in a serious relationship so I became more of a pal who they all seemed to be waiting for to break up so they could take over.
Long and short, its all about the timing.

Diary of Dido said...

Quite true.
I do not agree with the:
1) Being on first name basis with his/her parents- does that mean calling his/her parents by name? Maybe in America, definitely not a nigerian thing.
2) Disclosing the number of sexual partners? Hahahaha!
Yeah right. Some things are better left to the imagination or, better still reduced in digits.
Just saying.
My husband doesn't have an idea how many men I had been with and that is just fine.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

We need Naija based signs like pounding yam together!washing the dishes,washing the ladies clothes..pls keep rolling in..Linda puhleeeze!!we are not in the western world..signing birthday cards ko christmas card ni..smh!!


#niquese#

Anonymous said...

This one na story
A typical naija guy will still act like a typical naija guy...
Atm pin ko atm pin ni..even in marriage that nigga won't know my pin
#Chinwe

Anonymous said...

1,5,13,28&50. If you like meet his generation to come,no guarantee. 2,18,19&33. Things I’ll never do,I love my privacy.3,4,14,20,22,38,39,41&44. D only things that might make sense here. 6,7,9,43,47&48. Everybody does that these days. 8. I do that with my usual friends when we forget to buy cards. 10,21&24. Take caution,someone else will use ur items! 11,35,45&49. Of what use is it when u break up? 12&26. Is he/she a doctor? 15. I hate animals. 25. Disrespectful, except for oyibo. 29...from stingy ppl? 31. Fornication!! 16,23,32,37,42,46&49. “Over-do” things. D rest no follow!....Miss V

Anonymous said...

I didn't see going to church/mosque together nor praying together. So d list is not it @ all.

Anonymous said...

Husband no even dey again so any one way u hold hold am tight ooo

Anonymous said...

If you have the one that is interested please ladies respect him oooo treat him like a king

Anonymous said...

Pls all LIB's visitors listen up,dis insult on our very own linlin is gettin outta hand,is it bcos she is quiet?hav u guys seen d "ish" dat one local ,shapeless,wretched babe who abandoned her husband for younger lovers wrote abt linlin with total supposrt from SDK who blogged abt it.I hate wen pple talk down on odas dats y I wil tel dem both to go chop shit.egor efiok d slut of bloggers insulted linda for nt donatin to a certain man's ailment.a useless failed blogger,whose mouth always has diarrhoea.then sdk blog visitors don curse linda tire.jealousy is really bad and unhealthy.egor...face ur work,if u hav any.shameless woman who begs younger guys to sleep wit her.and am nt linda,my name is susan peters.linda if u like no post am,I know say u sabi fear,me I don talk my own.anywypls linlin don't reply dem,egor dey dine wit poverty now,she wan use u regain her relevance,pls ignore her.ooo

Anonymous said...

I posted sumtyn abt egor on sdk,she refused to post it,instead she she sent it to egor and d bitch tinks it was linda..:hahahaha,wen u sabi gossip,u go forget pple wey u don gist.egor d fool,na me susan peters post am nt linda.linda isn't my favourite girl bt she is beta than a slut who begs for cash and cuts.fool

julez said...

In my Opinion dis only applys to pple aboard..and not even all of us..dere re points dat re true..but once u find a committd person..u will knw and it will show not necessarly doing all does thins...cos its doesn't always follow..

vivian said...

It is so true.... I believe this

Anonymous said...

Its not fake, it happens in my relationship. And am proud to say so.

MRS OHIO ERANKO said...

I DO NOT THINK IT WOULD STOP YOUR MAN HAVING A SECRET. YOUR LIST WOULD NOT TELL YOU WHAT WAS GOING ON IN HIS MIND , HE MAY NOT EVEN LOVE YOU , WHAT I WOULD ADVICE YOU , IS NOT TO BE TOO DESPERATE , TRY AND MONITOR YOUR OWN LIFE.
YOUR LIST DOES NOT MEAN HE LOVE YOU.

kclub said...

#smile# correct

kclub said...

In all things God first

Anonymous said...

JOKERS... THOSE STUBBORN GIRLS NIGGAS WOULD DO EVERYTHING JUST TO GET THEIR CUT AFTER WHICH SUPER STORY I HAVE DONE IT OOOOO.

Anonymous said...

What about a relationship wereby d bf is a manager nd presenter of a radio station, n he's always busy,like he works 18h nd he doesn't even have time for dates,he even tld me nt to boder getting him a bd present cos he doesn't celebrate bd nd vals, he doesn't call me due to d nature of his job. I do d calling nd even on BBm I start d conversation. Tho wenever were together (I still go n visit him) he talks about our future 2geda. I don't knw am just confused. Do u think he loves me? Pls I need ur help. *no harsh words pls*

Anonymous said...

Awww...getting the kiddies ready for v-day. :-)

Anonymous said...

Well I got 26(tho in a long distance relationship)my boo's tooth brush doesn't have to be in my place because we share tooth brushActually we share everything from sponge to PJ to boxer to deodorant,EVERYTHING!!(yeppp.....that's love)Poison Ivy

last baby said...

Nice list linda

Anonymous said...

All these are from a womans perspective tho..

Anonymous said...

DRY!

Anonymous said...

nt applicable here...pure wastern tins. Call him papa name,na dat day u go know say him luv u! Here,if u hear yr inlaws call u yr name abi notin at all,just pik race,but if u hear,like..my daughter,my pikin,eheee...just find sit sidon!

Anonymous said...

I laff...OYO..

Anonymous said...

As in..first name terms with mother and father ke?....na whick pickin go dey call my mama and papa by name in this Nigeria...they never jam Naija elders

Unknown said...

49 is a relatnship killer n I def dnt agree with 35....why would I divulge my buddy's secret to my partner?! It ceases to become a secret then n d Lord bless u smtin happens btw u n gf n she(in annoyance or whatever) spills to her friends n am sure u can imagine whr d gist gets to next!

Anonymous said...

If your bf is up in here only commenting on gay tinz. Forming homophobe . He is a closet queer. Get rid fast.

katrina said...

Too long to. B a sign

Anonymous said...

Myslf & my fianceé av 23 of these happenin in our relationship.....

Anonymous said...

E be lyk say na oyinbo pple do d survey, leavin toothbrush @ each oda ause got me Rtfl. Nd wats up wit d buyin of dog or cat 2geda? Oshisko! Well, I only agree wit 5% of wats stated.

~Medusa~ said...

It doesn't all apply,u can still get played. The more u see

Terrific says said...

Any relationship that isn't spiritually inclined just as much As the physical involvemenT, isn't going anywhere. Beware.
They say, "Marriage is like a disturbinG late night phone call. First the "Ring" then u wake up"...

Unknown said...

@anony10:49 hahahahahahahahahaah funny u

Anonymous said...

Awesome comment

Unknown said...

U are so on point dear

Unknown said...

I woke up to Æ ̴̴͡.̮Æ ̴̴͡. All dis comments and I can't stop laughing u guyz are so so funny! guyz u are making my day already which one concern fore fathers again? eh!

Walata said...

I love it and its so real for the R/ship thing but don't tell me dat dis is for Nigerians cos its not obtainable here unless u will count less than 10 which is obtainable lol abeg dis is for the oyibo's ok umu nigeria chill biko

Anonymous said...

U see am when he dey eye queen bey right? Abeg mechie onu if u dunno wat to say

Anonymous said...

I had about 90% of them happening but the guy just backed out. Still trying to get over it.

Mikun said...

I believe ur list...

Anonymous said...

Rubbish!

Unknown said...

Okay o! But I prepare no 7.. Hehe

Anonymous said...

Na Nigja we dey... 50 or not life goes on. I don't even like all those family thg cos respect no de too de after joining

Princess Nana said...

All true but I don't agree with staying over night to know tht u are in a committed relationship. All these don't apply to a typical NIGERIAN MAN. Our Men aren't quarter of tht Romantic and besides all these are done in YANKEE; the FOREIGNERS, not an African man let alone a Nigerian Man. The Westerners do all these a lot and I guess tht is what make most of US (African/Naija) LADIES fantasize about such thereby wasting time. Kama lo pe lo ja. Babe! So true... Here in NAIJA this is a fairy tale relationship and fantasy. Even our Naija men born and bred overseas won't do all these whn they come home to we Ladies here. Mayb there. Aunty Linda...abegm this is d least u could do after u didn't reply my emails.

Anonymous said...

very true! !

Anonymous said...

Lmao! That's so funny.not all girls though,my bf knows my pin and I know his,we don't take advantage of each other.discipline and trust is important.this concept is for the white people,doesn't apply in Nigeria.I once had a bf I met his family friends,slept over @ his place,asin he was acting all committed and shit,but I knew he was a cheat and liar,I just have enough proof to put him away.my dear I was his side chick,I found out later he had a fiancee.thank God for my curiosity.I'm grateful, now! I have the most amazing boyfriend,never seen anyone like him,he's special.lmao! We even fart in front of each other.without the list,trust me you'd know if someone is truly committted to you.enough said!

Nigerian gist said...

a whole that? I tell u that is back to school list. lemme get notebook and biro. Tanks for the list dear


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Anonymous said...

In my own opinion... D list is so on point

Julius said...

yeah, meeting the parents; and saying 'i love u' . Agree with that and many others on the list. Nice write up


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ONE HUNDRED KAY said...

Who cares if u married? Abeg go sit don, abi na who ask u?

DEBBYKURU said...

Linda all na wash jarey,talking from experience its just the Grace of God that's all

Anonymous said...

The list sha take style long but unfortunately, it doesn't apply to my fellow country pple

Anonymous said...

The list sha take style long but unfortunately, it doesn't apply to my fellow country pple

Anonymous said...

Sincerely if u are dating d right person,dis list is completely correct,although maybe because my guy has a bit of American blood, everytin applies to my relationship,guess wat?he just put a ring on it few days ago ....happy girl.

emperor said...

What about "Proposing 2 her on Burj Khalifa". So u want me 2 give my PIN and Password 2 some1 I'm yet 2 marry? Nice try, a lady definitely coined this.

Anonymous said...

actually, i gat 36 outa 50. cool innit?

Unknown said...

I v about 45 but still cant marry him.

kryptonyte said...

Well that 50 signs isn't exactly for us, perhaps not all. Here in niaja, you just need one sign; which is "$" sign.

Anonymous said...

That is why naija will never move foward.....its just a pity!I'm loving this list abeg but why is facebook an important factor?

Anonymous said...

Even the commandments in the bible are 10......50 signs?WTF




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Anonymous said...

Driving each other's car wht if they both don't have cars? To me this not for Nigerians.

Anonymous said...

All dis tales happened 2 me whn I was 20yrs of age nt nw dat am 30yrs,I missed my twenties,nice one #princess#

candygirl said...

Errrr lindiway really?haaaa come on girl even you know that all na (well most of em)wash!..except of coz you re refering to a romantic movie!ehen I go understand..I mean while even do all this or wait for or this?!whatever happens to putting a Ring on it straight up!!pfffft I don't have time to wait for 50signs+i aint even gonna count,put d damn ring on it and take me to the altar then I'd know you are serious and really inlove with me!

Anonymous said...

Must say dey r all true,I went true it n we just gt wedded,I bet u we still v Men in naija hu r open in dier relationship but d truth is waiting 4 ur own.

Anonymous said...

Call parents by first name in nigeria! Ah! its like these people dont want marriage just r-ship

Anonymous said...

Sincerely its a survey different ppl say different things but that can only work in an ideal relationship even in some marriages the whole list does not apply human beings are very dynamic in nature. So if any 5 of the list happens in a relationship there is a commitment.

Anonymous said...

Disagree with no 33, no password.. lol.. too many exhibit

Gee said...

I don't biliv dat list,individuals vary

Anonymous said...

They never said won't cheat...they only said to know a serious relationship..you can be serious with someone and still cheat...cheating is in the blood..and cheating is part of a relationship..

Prynz Matt said...

Thank u. U took d words off ma lips. Keep waiting for 50 signs.

MissBusyBody said...

What a load of bull crap....

Hope Eva said...

Woah! @least I have 46 of dis n a ring on...I n ma boo rocks!

Livvsreamblog said...

No man on earth that can do all this 50 signs.......i personally tried i think have did 20/50 of it

Anonymous said...

I can also confidently say am in a committed relationship! Wow I appreciate my fiance more and pray our luv remains unconditional for ever! This List totally make our relationship(We even knw eachoda's acct pin) we recently jst gor a Dog together and lots more, even tho his Loud farts irritates me a lot am glad it's also a sigh of closeness *lol*...Am so thank for to God and I pray all the good hearted Ladies out there get a good man dt will luv them unconditionally *Amen*

Anonymous said...

hmmm...this survey ehn?

Anonymous said...

19 is out of d question. cnt happen

Hope Eva said...

Woah! @least I have 46 of dis n a ring on...I n ma boo rocks! To dose of u hu said is nt possible, it is very possible to have d whole 50+ as a nigerian

Anonymous said...

Linda that list is for a foreign relationship not a Nigerian relationship.....

Anonymous said...

This is exciting and interesting..u see, being into ur partner genuinely and wholeheartedly, let's u score even 50/50 with efforts..I'm proud to say that, my boyfriend and I went thru this list and scored ourselves 47/50. The other 3, we know will def come to play as he's soon to get a house of his to give me his keys, etc! We have built our relationship of Jesus the solid rock! Our foundation is sure! FLIPA

Unknown said...

ABEG LINDA GO REST, SOME GO EVEN SHOW 1,OOO SIGNS BUH DEM B DEVIL. Buh number 7 is out of it, how wil i allow ma BF 2 b staying overnight in ma father's house, lailai ko jor. buh if am stayin alone no wahala.

Anonymous said...

i had almost all in ma relationship but broke up cos of gynotype ish.......crying...sad

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm linda 4 dis niger all dis ting nor dey happen ooOooo


Pale

LINDA said...

Them tell u say na linda write the list ba? Mtcheww. Take ur time to read well b4 commenting.

Anonymous said...

A list of 50 things and praying together is not on the list. I don't know how researchers came up with this list. I guess the 2000 people are ........ If two people cannot kneel down and crystallize their desires and goals before God, then there is something wrong. I believe that praying together should be the first thing on the list. Seek God first and all else will be given unto you. Prayer is the key

Visages Parfait said...

#WORD....infact its the realest gist on the list joo!

Unknown said...

No be about the realtionship ooo, na about the marriage gan...people wey don see all dese ones and still no marriage and even if dem marry d marriage no go last...most are true but why bank on all dese signs just 4 relationship...dey shud talk more on things dt spice up marriage and things help marriage last cos nain be d koko...the best sign jare na to kneel down pray and God will give u a sign and give u grace to keep u marriage...#InMyOpinion...

Mzz Bee said...

BULLSHIT

Anonymous said...

Mscheeew

meme said...

Hmmmmmmm even couples hardly keep dis rules

Sabrına said...

...not all are applıcable to Nıgerıan men!!!

meme said...

Hmmmmmmm even couples hardly keep dis rules

Anonymous said...

This list is only a guide.. Obviously not all applies. But its a way to know tho especially for ladies. The ultimate is when he proposes... You can be in a committed relationship n the guy doesn't want to get married. Some Nigerians are adopting the Hispanics style which is staying together, doing everything that involves marriage but not willing to walk down the aisle... So ladies, its a guide but still be on the lookout especially if you want to be Mrs someday....

Anonymous said...

I stongly agree, married couple can tell u d experinced a lot on dis list. Even in Nigeria if u r in a serious relationship where the luv is mutual u will experience a lot on dt list.

Anonymous said...

Linda nawah to u oh. This is tips for hubby and wify that has been married for 20 tears

Anonymous said...

Number 27 is very important. ....

Anonymous said...

dat farting nd pin aspect is wat i'll neva do in a relationship. fine! u trust urself in person,ar u ur partner? evrybdy ar nt d same, u cn't tel wat is in d h@ of a man,d h@ of a man, d bible say is desperately wicked. dat pin aspect is risky. i can neva 4get wat i've seen, couple wif nollywood movie"blind couple" i rily learnt alot 4rm dat movie, so pls let's do fings 2 avoid regret. i knw of a frnd dat gave ha ol 2 a man, wen i say ol, i mean moni, h@, luv, name dem. bt wat did she get in return? h@break n ques lyk who was dere wen u gave me d moni? so pls, dn't fink dis sermon is meant 4 sumbdy lyk me.

Anonymous said...

i hv shared 26 of these with my bf yippieeeeee

miss independent said...

if am gonna start noticing all this signs at 25 hmmm that means 25+50=75 that when i will get married

JOYCHY said...

Well I would say some of dese points are evident in relationships and even in mine as well. But hey, not all.

Personally I wouldn't even do some of them cuz am not his Mrs. yet!!!

Unknown said...

HONESTLY LINDA, IF YOU EXPECT ALL THIS TO HAPPEN.. YOU MAY FEEL YOUR BF DOESNT LOVE YOU ENUF.. YOU SHOULD NOT EXPECT ALL. ITS NOT POSSIBLE

Unknown said...

YOU SHOULD NOT EXPECT ALL FROM YOUR BF, IF NOT YOU WILL THINK HE DOESNT LOVE YOU ENOUGH... NOT ALL CAN HAPPEN

Unknown said...

its cool.. nigerian men and women you ought to change

Unknown said...

its cool...... i think nigerian's men and ladies ought to change

Unknown said...

its cool...... i think nigerian's men and ladies ought to change

Anonymous said...

LMAO... Give Naija girl my pin.!!. Laughing in yoruba.!!

Unknown said...

Share pin number .....hmmmm I no love enter my bank account

Unknown said...

Share pin number .....hmmmm I no love enter my bank account

Unknown said...

Share pin number .....hmmmm I no love enter my bank account

Anonymous said...

True #

Zeus said...

I concur Nwanne. Why should two unmarried people shower together? Why should they spend the night together? The white man has seriously destroyed family values. It is religiously,morally and ethically wrong to do most of the things listed above as bf and gf. Linda,pls you are now a role model. Many of the chaps here are teenagers looking for guidance,so they may automatically adopt everything preached on this forum.

Unknown said...

Linda abeg mek i hear word, until i say what my salary is and give ma pin i neva love baa, well dis one na ur own list, i get my own shaa.

Anonymous said...

I can confidently say am into a committed relationship cos he does 49 out of the 50 listed *Dancing*

#Team14Feb'HBD2Me'

EyOsA

tynelson said...

Linda, I take exceptn to sharing of pin num until the altar cal pls.

Anonymous said...

Story!! which kind yeye list be dis...u ll do all des tinz n get dumped @d end of d day.. it takes God's grace to hv a successful r/ship..Linda if u want swallow my post

oluwole Damola said...

Wow intresting one..

Anonymous said...

CRAP.

Unknown said...

Buahahaha... u cracked me up...but Ur right sha

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