Dear Linda, this is not a question for all your readers, just the male readers. I need their sincere opinion on something because I have been crazily confused since I saw it. While using my younger brother's laptop a few days ago, I found gay porn movies saved on his computer. He hid the movies in a 'work folder' which no one's really supposed to find and I promise I wasn't snooping, I just accidentally found it. I'm very homophobic so this is giving me nightmares. I've tried to convince myself that there's a reasonable explanation for these movies being on his laptop but no explanation I come up with makes any sense to me. Is it possible that he's watching these movies out of curiosity? Some people can be into that kind of shit and not be gay, right? Also is it possible someone else put the movies on his laptop and he's not aware? My bro can't be gay. He's had a lot of girlfriends over the years that I know of so what is this shit I saw on his laptop? I'm thinking of confronting him but how do you ask your brother about something like this?
Mr homophobic congrats on your new discovery, you are one of the idiots around that has been making life unbearable for close family members and friends who are closet gay because of your attitude and disposition to that topic everytime its raised.
Is this how shallow and dumb your tot pattern his or this is a special occasion? trying to convince yourself that someone else put the movies on his laptop, you clearly are an idiot.
who knows what terrible shit you do in your own privacy, Get a Life and learn to keep away frm other pples private life. #SeunLondon
Don't usually comment on this blog but you seem so worried....anybody that tells you he/she has never watched porn is a hopeless liar. Some guys watch it due to curiosity,boredom or just plain excitement....Your brother may have the videos because he is just curious about it (not everybody is homophobic) or just tired of regular boy/girl porn and wants something else...I honestly believe it's nothing but it might still mean he is attracted to guys..btw some people are attracted to guys but don't really act on those feelings..so chill out sis
You didn't say how old ur bro is. He might not be gay, but definately been getting an orientation 4rm someone who is gay just bcos he looks attractive or something. It takes a lecture, gay film & Sodom stories to turn or convince a straight guy into homosexuality. Someone is trying to do this to ur brother and he's got those movies out of curiosity. Find out fast & stop him 4rm thinking in that direction. Please put ur brother back on the straight line. Thank U!
As for me some guys re like dat. they will like to wsh it like my frd he is not a gay but because of gay men use to ask him out he likes wshing it so if any one of dem comes around him he will tell dem ther is no joy on it so dat may be u brother case or
This is so complicated.. I think he put those videos there.the motive is what I can figure out buy I think you can.. Keep a close eye on him.... Don't confront him .he might harm you for fear of you exposing him(that is if he actually is gay)..goodluck and becareful..
Ok its either one of the two, ur broda is gay or extremely curious, I copied a collection of extreme porn movies frm my bestie nd was shocked wen one of them turned out to b gay porn, dude is as str8 as a yellow ruler, funny tin is he copied those movies from his gf....if ur bro was trying to hide those movie they wouldn't hv been in a work folder wen he knw ppl hv access to his laptop nd his sexuality is at stake, they'd b hidden very far away, str8 guys watch gay porn, some out of curiosity others just out of disgust, tin is d mind is easily corrupted, nd u nvr can tell wat will happen, if ur broda is gay he wldnt comout to u, bcos he wld knw u are homophobic already, so save both of u that encounter its nvr good, if u r not ready to show support ignorance is ur best bet, praying , councelling and all of those won't make him change his sexuality, if he's had gf's in the past then he can control it to an extent and get married nd lead a normal DL life, tin is once u go black u don't go bck, if he's fuckd an ass he will always come bck 4 more even if its once a year...d diff is crystal clear, u can only hold out for so long...so leave ur bro alone, or tell him u knw wats up...the choice is urs!
Ur brother is gay, this is a lesson to those that keep saying that all gays should be killed. Oya now, u said u re homophobic, it's now on ur door step, kill ur brother na lets see. Many of una here, una brothers re closet gays, so we need to be mindful of how we judge people. Even if u see ur brother with a thousand girls on daily basis is not a proof that he is nt gay or bi.....many guys these days re bi chikena.
The truth is he is...no st8 dude watches that, it disgusts them let alone save on his lappy. and d girlfriends...its jst a fence. Am bi too so I knw this. Ladies love gay/bi guys witout knowing it they flow easier and better with them bcos there seem to b a lot to flow along wt in understanding. Pls u need to thread carefully asking him though there's basically nothing u can do 2 change d situation...its not like he was initiated into it. He feels it as part of him so u talk and nag him over it till jesus coms he's just gonna hide it more frm u but if it if he'll let go? I doubt!
You are lucky he not addicted to kiddie pon. Yep such vile, corrupted acts are available on the Internet. If he is bi curious it would just be a matter of time before he explores more forbidden fruit.
You don't have to worry. Even if he is gay, in Nigeria it is okay to be gay and unhappily married to whatever. And our women are so desperate they will knowingly marry a gay guy just to become mrs someone. So don't worry my dear, don't trouble yourself snooping into his private stuff, unless you want to give yourself a heart attack. Or maybe you want to find evidence to grass him up to the gay police. Otherwise let sleeping dog lie.
Ds just reminded me of an embarrassment. I gave my laptop to a lesbian frnd n after she returned it.I needed to check a site online with 4 of my frnds n just when I opened firefox to typ "L",lesbian video links popped out. Ashamed,I opened google chrome n it wz same thn. My frnds wr surprised bt I had to call d girl right thr out of anger. Funny enuf,I hv deleted d search engines n re-downloaded bt it still pops those links wheneva I type words wt "L".
This story is so similar to what i experience with my wife's younger brother . The guy used my laptop and when i wanted to use it briefly when he went to the toilet , all d websites opened were guy porn sites. U need to see the embarrassment on his face when he got back. He is married. Really confused .
Every1 shouting mind ur bizness I'm sure you all r gay...bunch of idiots,do u knw wat it is for ur broda to b gay?u av no idea so STFU....confront him calmly,if he is pray for him,he will change...nobody was born gay,u only decided to change ur own destiny
OGBENI YO DENAIL WONT HELP, YOUR BRO IS GAY, HE PLAYED STRAIGHT CUZ HE HAD TO DO SO. HE SHUFFLED THROUGH GIRLS CAUSE HE NEVER GENUINELY LIKED THEM. AND AM GLAD U ADDED "PAST"..SOME STRAIGHT DUDE WATCH PORN TO SEE WHAT THE ITCH IS ABOUT.BUT NO STRAIGHT MAN HAS A FOLDER FOR GAY PORN DUDE. PERHAPS ITS TIME TO STOP BEING HOMOPHOBIC AND START BEING A BROTHER. ASK HIM IF HE LIKES GUYS. OR THROW HIM A BONE, COMMENT ON A RANDOM GUY'S LOOKS. ITS ALWAYS THE POLITE WAY TO GO. OH AND AFTERWARDS, PLEASE TRY NOT TO KILL HIM...OR WORSE MAKE HIM AN OUTSIDER, ITS JUST DICK. SEX IS NOT THE ENEMY!
Girl on girl is soooo different from boy on boy, guys were not meant to be penetrated by any means, bros were not wired that way, girls have vajayjays. Anal sex is gay in ky opinion.
I have one question, why is it that each time gay issues are raised on Linda ikeji's blog, it generates too many comments unlike other stuffs she posts, yet people will still be telling u that they re straight like arrow.
Let me tell all of u LIBers, anyone who does not have gay tendencies in him/ her does not have the urge to look at gay posts twice talk more of reading it and commenting on it. So it's either all of us re gays or bi's or hypocrites. Lets begin to be truthful for once.
Sorry to break it to you, but no straight guy would ever watch gay porn or go to the extent of storing on their PC; it just doesn't appeal.. in fact quite the opposite..
Do u need a big knock on ur head to realise ur bros is Clearly GAY? Or better still a smack to ur face. The idiot is soo GAY. Can u stop living in LIMBO and nextime ask something more productive. Not some gay ass shitty quest... If u like spoil the laptop and call a pastor for him. He will download the next gay porn with 3D. And conceal his gayness from u in HD style. DEAL WITH IT!!!
Shut ur gutter and gay self.. The person in question is his brother n therefore shd confront him fool... You bloody gay.. Your parent made a mistake having you.. God forgive you..
Shut ur gutter and gay self.. The person in question is his brother n therefore shd confront him fool... You bloody gay.. Your parent made a mistake having you.. God forgive you..
I'm not gay but I watch gay porns n I even masturbate with shemale porns.what's the big deal?evrybody has his/her life to live n besides what is wrong with being gay?you worry over nothing.
Pray for him, dats all u need to do, pray hard b4 talking to him,I think he's into guys.only God can help him,and 4 pple sayin he was born like dat! No body is born gay,jeez d bible clearly condemns it!its 4rm d pit of hell. Show ur bro love, don't show any form of disgust, God will see u through dear
Its Jayke again!! I am rolling on the floor and laughing uncontrollably with glee!!! The chickens are coming home to roost!!! Soon they'll pass the 'jail the gays for 14yrs bill' abi?? Good!!! so many of your relatives and friends will be victims of this law, i predict that in a few years, Nigerians will clamour for the repeal or disapplication of that evil law. My dear, your brother is as GAY as I am!!! Gayer, even! the fact that he has been forced to have a string of girls all his life is a direct result of having homophobic people (like YOU) all around him. You have no idea the how hellish it is forcing yourself to be who you're not, having to roll with babes when you'd rather have a fine ass bro in your arms all night long! This just goes to show that all the girls/women/wives can't change basic nature, if you're born gay, there's nothing you/anyone can do about it, you can hide behind a long line of women, but all those fine boyz passing by would still catch your eye. Am sure you cheered and whooped when that evil bill was passed abi? I hope you can still react the same way without a blink of shame. Nigerians, wake up! you have been decived for far too long, gays are not your problem, we are your brothers, fathers, uncles, husbands, fiances etc .... learn to love, embrace and be open minded. The rest of the world has woken up to this reality,.My dear, its time to quit being a monster, let your brother know that you love and support him no matter what ... be his rock, he must be severely psychologically impacted after a lifetime of carrying such a burden and hiding it from the people he loves the most.... God bless us all and down with homophobia!!
Simple, no worries. If he watches gay porn, maybe out of curiosity but the fact that he kept it hidden and stored, he's definitely taken interest and already in it. Solution...Swap position, ask him out for a drink, look at him straight in the face and quietly tell him you're a Gay dude and hopelessly wants to get out of it but you don't know how, and you need his advice? then tell him what u saw in his laptop. Shikena!
am bi-sexual and i dont hav a single gay porn on my fone or laptop and i hav girlfriends,millions of nigerians are gay or bi is sometin i know including married men,its his life not urs and he will change wen he wants to #he was born dat way!
well...i dont know about that one...i know straight guys watch lesbian porn not gay porn...and if anyone should be watching gay porn,it's likely to be either a straight female or gays themselves...so maybe you should just crack a joke about gay people and see how he reacts to that...
ok ooo...me what i know is that straight guys watch lesbian porn and straight girls watch gay porn...but then again although lesbian porn irritates the hell out of me but gay porn excites me to the limits,i also know some girls that are straighter dan a ruler but get excited by both...so maybe he might not be gay after all...
First, you need to acknowledge that you invaded his privacy by snooping his computer when you do decide to have a conversation not confrontation with him. A straight guy watching gay flick is not necessarily a queer, individuals all have different tolerance level; some can condone the act while other find it disturbing. We all have out demons that we deal with on the regular basis. For some, it is addiction to sex, drugs, pornography, and stealing. One's sexual orientation can easily be changed if the individual is willing to change and that change will come about as result of counseling and finding out the root of the problem; what prompted him to save such imagery on computer. You blatantly said you were homophobic, is that because of staunch culturally upbringing or you have tendency of being queer yourself? The bible clearly states that it is not acceptable for 2 men to lie together sexually but you are to judge an individual because of their sexual orientation. We do not have understand their choice but that do not mean we should disrespect the individual because he or she is queer. Have a open conversation with your brother and figure how you can be of help to him and his situation.
For now. ...and then four years later, you start cheating with your wife with the male copper in your office. .....Lmao. ..you're gay and you don't even know. ...(This is if you're a dude though)
Well, I can tell u one tin for sure, d fact dat he watches gay porn doesn't mean he must be gay. I don't rily know how guys regard dese tins but as a girl, I watch lesbian porn and im not one.I guess it's jst curiosity plus d fact dat its more romantic and sensual compared to d normal guy-girl porn where d guy is usually jst pounding away vigorously. Anyways dat said, I also know dat a lot of guys keep animal-human porn in dier fones and lappys but I've neva tot of dem as zoophiles.So I guess u shld jst ask him, it can't be easy, I know esp if ur fears are actually true.
Wow most people here have an IQ of about 80... That retarded wannabe gangster writing style is proof enough that you shouldn't listen to them.
But back to topic; I do think the mere existence of gay porn on your brother's hard drive doesn't automatically prove that he's gay. I really don't see another way but to confront him. It may not be the most pleasant thing to do but I think it's very important for you to know. So there isn'treally a way around it.
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«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 466 of 466Mr homophobic congrats on your new discovery, you are one of the idiots around that has been making life unbearable for close family members and friends who are closet gay because of your attitude and disposition to that topic everytime its raised.
Is this how shallow and dumb your tot pattern his or this is a special occasion? trying to convince yourself that someone else put the movies on his laptop, you clearly are an idiot.
who knows what terrible shit you do in your own privacy, Get a Life and learn to keep away frm other pples private life. #SeunLondon
Am not sure he is gay! I guess out of curiosity
He's just sexually curious...that's all
And wat if he's gay? Abeegi! Go siddon joor...boring man!
Don't usually comment on this blog but you seem so worried....anybody that tells you he/she has never watched porn is a hopeless liar. Some guys watch it due to curiosity,boredom or just plain excitement....Your brother may have the videos because he is just curious about it (not everybody is homophobic) or just tired of regular boy/girl porn and wants something else...I honestly believe it's nothing but it might still mean he is attracted to guys..btw some people are attracted to guys but don't really act on those feelings..so chill out sis
He's a gay, ask him, no straight guy would do dat except he is EXTREMELY curious!
You didn't say how old ur bro is. He might not be gay, but definately been getting an orientation 4rm someone who is gay just bcos he looks attractive or something. It takes a lecture, gay film & Sodom stories to turn or convince a straight guy into homosexuality. Someone is trying to do this to ur brother and he's got those movies out of curiosity. Find out fast & stop him 4rm thinking in that direction. Please put ur brother back on the straight line. Thank U!
it right time for youth to have a home of theirs without stress
I'm female n stright buh I prefer lesbian porn... It turns me on!
it right time for youth to have a home of theirs without stress
As for me some guys re like dat. they will like to wsh it like my frd he is not a gay but because of gay men use to ask him out he likes wshing it so if any one of dem comes around him he will tell dem ther is no joy on it so dat may be u brother case or
LOL. Sorry your brother is gay
it right time for youth to have a home of theirs without stress
Y SOoº° bitter..*coughs* gay alert!
This is so complicated.. I think he put those videos there.the motive is what I can figure out buy I think you can.. Keep a close eye on him.... Don't confront him .he might harm you for fear of you exposing him(that is if he actually is gay)..goodluck and becareful..
He is not gay. The thought has crossed his mind though. Gay is a lifestyle. He is bi-curious
Dagaske? Akwai magana Baya kenan
The best answer.
confirmed!!!! he is.....
Ok its either one of the two, ur broda is gay or extremely curious, I copied a collection of extreme porn movies frm my bestie nd was shocked wen one of them turned out to b gay porn, dude is as str8 as a yellow ruler, funny tin is he copied those movies from his gf....if ur bro was trying to hide those movie they wouldn't hv been in a work folder wen he knw ppl hv access to his laptop nd his sexuality is at stake, they'd b hidden very far away, str8 guys watch gay porn, some out of curiosity others just out of disgust, tin is d mind is easily corrupted, nd u nvr can tell wat will happen, if ur broda is gay he wldnt comout to u, bcos he wld knw u are homophobic already, so save both of u that encounter its nvr good, if u r not ready to show support ignorance is ur best bet, praying , councelling and all of those won't make him change his sexuality, if he's had gf's in the past then he can control it to an extent and get married nd lead a normal DL life, tin is once u go black u don't go bck, if he's fuckd an ass he will always come bck 4 more even if its once a year...d diff is crystal clear, u can only hold out for so long...so leave ur bro alone, or tell him u knw wats up...the choice is urs!
i guess u r back to where u are #indecisive# with these different opinions.bottom line. just do wat ur mind tells u...PERIOD!
Ur brother is gay, this is a lesson to those that keep saying that all gays should be killed. Oya now, u said u re homophobic, it's now on ur door step, kill ur brother na lets see. Many of una here, una brothers re closet gays, so we need to be mindful of how we judge people. Even if u see ur brother with a thousand girls on daily basis is not a proof that he is nt gay or bi.....many guys these days re bi chikena.
Lucky
I hate dat word gay side u were born a man for God sake. Whch 1 be gay side kwanu
Why will a straight guy store gay porn on his fone if not that he is willing to practice it...
The truth is he is...no st8 dude watches that, it disgusts them let alone save on his lappy. and d girlfriends...its jst a fence. Am bi too so I knw this. Ladies love gay/bi guys witout knowing it they flow easier and better with them bcos there seem to b a lot to flow along wt in understanding. Pls u need to thread carefully asking him though there's basically nothing u can do 2 change d situation...its not like he was initiated into it. He feels it as part of him so u talk and nag him over it till jesus coms he's just gonna hide it more frm u but if it if he'll let go? I doubt!
You are lucky he not addicted to kiddie pon. Yep such vile, corrupted acts are available on the Internet. If he is bi curious it would just be a matter of time before he explores more forbidden fruit.
You don't have to worry. Even if he is gay, in Nigeria it is okay to be gay and unhappily married to whatever. And our women are so desperate they will knowingly marry a gay guy just to become mrs someone. So don't worry my dear, don't trouble yourself snooping into his private stuff, unless you want to give yourself a heart attack. Or maybe you want to find evidence to grass him up to the gay police. Otherwise let sleeping dog lie.
Ds just reminded me of an embarrassment. I gave my laptop to a lesbian frnd n after she returned it.I needed to check a site online with 4 of my frnds n just when I opened firefox to typ "L",lesbian video links popped out. Ashamed,I opened google chrome n it wz same thn. My frnds wr surprised bt I had to call d girl right thr out of anger. Funny enuf,I hv deleted d search engines n re-downloaded bt it still pops those links wheneva I type words wt "L".
This story is so similar to what i experience with my wife's younger brother . The guy used my laptop and when i wanted to use it briefly when he went to the toilet , all d websites opened were guy porn sites. U need to see the embarrassment on his face when he got back. He is married. Really confused .
Every1 shouting mind ur bizness I'm sure you all r gay...bunch of idiots,do u knw wat it is for ur broda to b gay?u av no idea so STFU....confront him calmly,if he is pray for him,he will change...nobody was born gay,u only decided to change ur own destiny
If its boy on boy, the nigga gay.
Are you daft???
Can't you read?
Oponu!
OGBENI YO DENAIL WONT HELP, YOUR BRO IS GAY, HE PLAYED STRAIGHT CUZ HE HAD TO DO SO. HE SHUFFLED THROUGH GIRLS CAUSE HE NEVER GENUINELY LIKED THEM. AND AM GLAD U ADDED "PAST"..SOME STRAIGHT DUDE WATCH PORN TO SEE WHAT THE ITCH IS ABOUT.BUT NO STRAIGHT MAN HAS A FOLDER FOR GAY PORN DUDE. PERHAPS ITS TIME TO STOP BEING HOMOPHOBIC AND START BEING A BROTHER. ASK HIM IF HE LIKES GUYS. OR THROW HIM A BONE, COMMENT ON A RANDOM GUY'S LOOKS. ITS ALWAYS THE POLITE WAY TO GO. OH AND AFTERWARDS, PLEASE TRY NOT TO KILL HIM...OR WORSE MAKE HIM AN OUTSIDER, ITS JUST DICK. SEX IS NOT THE ENEMY!
He maybe ....
No, I doubt it,
Oh, he has lots of girlfriends...
Cut the crap!
Confront him! That's the sure thing to do.
Go ahead and ask him. For the fact that he had lots of girl friends in the past does not mean he can't be gay. That could be a ploy to deceive people.
Girl on girl is soooo different from boy on boy, guys were not meant to be penetrated by any means, bros were not wired that way, girls have vajayjays.
Anal sex is gay in ky opinion.
I have one question, why is it that each time gay issues are raised on Linda ikeji's blog, it generates too many comments unlike other stuffs she posts, yet people will still be telling u that they re straight like arrow.
Let me tell all of u LIBers, anyone who does not have gay tendencies in him/ her does not have the urge to look at gay posts twice talk more of reading it and commenting on it. So it's either all of us re gays or bi's or hypocrites. Lets begin to be truthful for once.
Adetayo Olabisi.
LMAO @ ANON 9:03
He's gay!
Tor!
I don't understand gay people. I find the thought of seeing a naked man repulsive. WOMAN BODY TOO SWEET!!!
Sorry to break it to you, but no straight guy would ever watch gay porn or go to the extent of storing on their PC; it just doesn't appeal.. in fact quite the opposite..
U both are aspiring GAY!
Lol,work folder!
Wetin u find go there?
U wnt knw hw he got all dos good things,there u go dude
Jst join dem
Do u need a big knock on ur head to realise ur bros is Clearly GAY? Or better still a smack to ur face. The idiot is soo GAY. Can u stop living in LIMBO and nextime ask something more productive. Not some gay ass shitty quest... If u like spoil the laptop and call a pastor for him. He will download the next gay porn with 3D. And conceal his gayness from u in HD style. DEAL WITH IT!!!
Shut ur gutter and gay self.. The person in question is his brother n therefore shd confront him fool... You bloody gay.. Your parent made a mistake having you.. God forgive you..
May God forgive you Nnamdi you are so gay damn.. FYI he is his brother and has every right to know fool
Ehen but Eve and Eve is acceptible! Retard!
Shut ur gutter and gay self.. The person in question is his brother n therefore shd confront him fool... You bloody gay.. Your parent made a mistake having you.. God forgive you..
I'm not gay but I watch gay porns n I even masturbate with shemale porns.what's the big deal?evrybody has his/her life to live n besides what is wrong with being gay?you worry over nothing.
im not a lesbian but i wont lie i have watched lesbian porn before. but then again being gay is diff from being a lesbian
Pray for him, dats all u need to do, pray hard b4 talking to him,I think he's into guys.only God can help him,and 4 pple sayin he was born like dat! No body is born gay,jeez d bible clearly condemns it!its 4rm d pit of hell. Show ur bro love, don't show any form of disgust, God will see u through dear
Its Jayke again!! I am rolling on the floor and laughing uncontrollably with glee!!! The chickens are coming home to roost!!! Soon they'll pass the 'jail the gays for 14yrs bill' abi?? Good!!! so many of your relatives and friends will be victims of this law, i predict that in a few years, Nigerians will clamour for the repeal or disapplication of that evil law. My dear, your brother is as GAY as I am!!! Gayer, even! the fact that he has been forced to have a string of girls all his life is a direct result of having homophobic people (like YOU) all around him. You have no idea the how hellish it is forcing yourself to be who you're not, having to roll with babes when you'd rather have a fine ass bro in your arms all night long! This just goes to show that all the girls/women/wives can't change basic nature, if you're born gay, there's nothing you/anyone can do about it, you can hide behind a long line of women, but all those fine boyz passing by would still catch your eye. Am sure you cheered and whooped when that evil bill was passed abi? I hope you can still react the same way without a blink of shame. Nigerians, wake up! you have been decived for far too long, gays are not your problem, we are your brothers, fathers, uncles, husbands, fiances etc .... learn to love, embrace and be open minded. The rest of the world has woken up to this reality,.My dear, its time to quit being a monster, let your brother know that you love and support him no matter what ... be his rock, he must be severely psychologically impacted after a lifetime of carrying such a burden and hiding it from the people he loves the most.... God bless us all and down with homophobia!!
He is gay!! or bisexual. No fully straight guy would watch that or be curious to watch it. I myself have never ventured near that.
Simple, no worries. If he watches gay porn, maybe out of curiosity but the fact that he kept it hidden and stored, he's definitely taken interest and already in it. Solution...Swap position, ask him out for a drink, look at him straight in the face and quietly tell him you're a Gay dude and hopelessly wants to get out of it but you don't know how, and you need his advice? then tell him what u saw in his laptop. Shikena!
am bi-sexual and i dont hav a single gay porn on my fone or laptop and i hav girlfriends,millions of nigerians are gay or bi is sometin i know including married men,its his life not urs and he will change wen he wants to #he was born dat way!
He is a fag florg him till gay comort 4 him body
He is a fag florg him till gay comort 4 him body. (BY XCONNET)
no he aint necessarily gay trust me.
well...i dont know about that one...i know straight guys watch lesbian porn not gay porn...and if anyone should be watching gay porn,it's likely to be either a straight female or gays themselves...so maybe you should just crack a joke about gay people and see how he reacts to that...
ok ooo...me what i know is that straight guys watch lesbian porn and straight girls watch gay porn...but then again although lesbian porn irritates the hell out of me but gay porn excites me to the limits,i also know some girls that are straighter dan a ruler but get excited by both...so maybe he might not be gay after all...
I THINK YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION...
First, you need to acknowledge that you invaded his privacy by snooping his computer when you do decide to have a conversation not confrontation with him. A straight guy watching gay flick is not necessarily a queer, individuals all have different tolerance level; some can condone the act while other find it disturbing. We all have out demons that we deal with on the regular basis. For some, it is addiction to sex, drugs, pornography, and stealing. One's sexual orientation can easily be changed if the individual is willing to change and that change will come about as result of counseling and finding out the root of the problem; what prompted him to save such imagery on computer. You blatantly said you were homophobic, is that because of staunch culturally upbringing or you have tendency of being queer yourself? The bible clearly states that it is not acceptable for 2 men to lie together sexually but you are to judge an individual because of their sexual orientation. We do not have understand their choice but that do not mean we should disrespect the individual because he or she is queer. Have a open conversation with your brother and figure how you can be of help to him and his situation.
For now. ...and then four years later, you start cheating with your wife with the male copper in your office. .....Lmao. ..you're gay and you don't even know. ...(This is if you're a dude though)
Well, I can tell u one tin for sure, d fact dat he watches gay porn doesn't mean he must be gay. I don't rily know how guys regard dese tins but as a girl, I watch lesbian porn and im not one.I guess it's jst curiosity plus d fact dat its more romantic and sensual compared to d normal guy-girl porn where d guy is usually jst pounding away vigorously. Anyways dat said, I also know dat a lot of guys keep animal-human porn in dier fones and lappys but I've neva tot of dem as zoophiles.So I guess u shld jst ask him, it can't be easy, I know esp if ur fears are actually true.
why do so many bigots read your blog?!
Wow most people here have an IQ of about 80... That retarded wannabe gangster writing style is proof enough that you shouldn't listen to them.
But back to topic; I do think the mere existence of gay porn on your brother's hard drive doesn't automatically prove that he's gay. I really don't see another way but to confront him. It may not be the most pleasant thing to do but I think it's very important for you to know. So there isn'treally a way around it.
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