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Monday, 29 July 2013

Dear LIB men, do straight men watch gay porn?

From a male LIB reader
Dear Linda, this is not a question for all your readers, just the male readers. I need their sincere opinion on something because I have been crazily confused since I saw it. While using my younger brother's laptop a few days ago, I found gay porn movies saved on his computer. He hid the movies in a 'work folder' which no one's really supposed to find and I promise I wasn't snooping, I just accidentally found it. I'm very homophobic so this is giving me nightmares. I've tried to convince myself that there's a reasonable explanation for these movies being on his laptop but no explanation I come up with makes any sense to me. Is it possible that he's watching these movies out of curiosity? Some people can be into that kind of shit and not be gay, right? Also is it possible someone else put the movies on his laptop and he's not aware? My bro can't be gay. He's had a lot of girlfriends over the years that I know of so what is this shit I saw on his laptop? I'm thinking of confronting him but how do you ask your brother about something like this?

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Anonymous said...

Yh, some straight guys watch gay porn, this could be out of d following reasons.
1. Curiousity: Jus wonderin or curious to know wat d gay tins is all about.
2. Porn addiction: Some guys are so addicted 2porn, that they watch all genres of porn #nopreference#
3. Intent: He might be thinkin in that direction, bt has nt experimented it yet.
So, if its nt any of these, then you have a need 2be worried

Unknown said...

Gosh! Its so disgusting!!! He's probably enjoying/practicing it that's why he hid it.

Anonymous said...

Yh, some straight guys watch gay porn, this could be out of d following reasons.
1. Curiousity: Jus wonderin or curious to know wat d gay tins is all about.
2. Porn addiction: Some guys are so addicted 2porn, that they watch all genres of porn #nopreference#
3. Intent: He might be thinkin in that direction, bt has nt experimented it yet.
So, if its nt any of these, then you have a need 2be worried

Anonymous said...

He may be bisexual. That he has had gfs doesn't mean he's not gay.

Anonymous said...

I don't know of any straight guy who is not totally disgusted by the mere thought of guys touching themselves. So if your brother has gay porn on his laptop, he's so gay!!!!

lauren said...

Hey!dnt conclude yet on ur bro,since u sed u have seen him wt couple ladies doesn't mean he is a gay,jst watch him and ask him some funny quesstn or jokes abt gay,hear is view first b4 asking..pls put God first..

akinzy said...

Gay porn...... For him to watch gay porn I think his a GaYbriel.... I mean wat so interesting in gayporn,when ur straight???

Anonymous said...

give me lesbo porn anyday any time....i am game....
I dont know about gay whateva

@spy.

OMG!WOMAN said...

A discussion with him is still the best rather than languish in curiosity

Anonymous said...

If it's only gay porn u find there, then there is a problem.

Anonymous said...

I have surf the web for guy porn movies before, but after downloading and watching the clips,I delete.

@EDDYSYFAR said...

A straight guy can't watch gay porn, its like impossible

Anonymous said...

Awwww .. Could be a step to finding the bitter truth or mere curiosity.. But I advise u brace up n confront ur fears babe.. Sorry

Unknown said...

I'm not a guy but I would believe if ur not gay it's a disgusting site to behold. Not like it can turn him on cos ders nothing attractive in two men ****ing each other from behind. Ewwwes the tots alone. Sorry bro it's either he is gay or he has tried it and he enjoyed it.

BEN said...

He is ur younger brother, You have every right to scold or confront him. What u scared about? Just tell him u saw a gay porn in his laptop..and ask what he's using it for..... Then by his response you'll probably know the reason.

Anonymous said...

Your brother is GAY. Homophobia is lame, accept him for who he is and move on.

Kels said...

U don't...just stick ur nose where it belongs. Blessed are those who mind dia business.

Anonymous said...

Gal...pray ur bro aint gay, cos if he is, he's going to jail and den hell.....helllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ur brother is not a gay, but i think he love wachin d movie. So don't warry ur self about dat.

Kelvin said...

I wont watch one even if i am paid to do so. simply hate the stuff!

Anonymous said...

‎​i D̶̲̥̅ϑnτ̲̅ tink u̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ brother ‎​is a gay.‎​ sometimes i watch lisbo vidoe but am nt one. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡​M̶̲̥̅Ƹ watch it 4 fun.linda pls post M̶̲̅Ɣ comment oooo.

Anonymous said...

‎​i D̶̲̥̅ϑnτ̲̅ tink u̶̲̥̅̊я̲̅ brother ‎​is a gay.‎​ sometimes i watch lisbo vidoe but am nt one. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡​M̶̲̥̅Ƹ watch it 4 fun.linda pls post M̶̲̅Ɣ comment oooo.

Anonymous said...

Am 100% str8 but watch lesbian porn..... #just saying

Anonymous said...

That's bullshit mehn I see no reason why someone who's straight will be watching gay movies, maybe he's trying to practice .post my comment oo

Anonymous said...

He mite not be gay, he mite jus be tired of watching usual boy gal porn and decided to watch sumthin else! May be he's just curious!u sef na wa for u!found it by chance nani (˘̯˘ )

Anonymous said...

R u̶̲̥̅̊ sure ur broda isn't bisexual?

Anonymous said...

Nope

Unknown said...

Confront him abt it. He mite be bisexual.....

jigga said...

DUDE. u need no ricket scientist to tell you ur bro is Gay, maybe BI-sexual tho. straight guys cant stand the thought of guys doing each other. i advice you hire a lawyer in advance cuz that 14 years shit is serious ooo

Anonymous said...

Your brother could possibly be gay, because the first and the last time i saw a gay movie, i almost threw up. it was such an irritating thing. I'm sure a normal straight person would not delight in watching a gay movie. there is more more 50% chances that your brother is a gay.

Anonymous said...

Ask google

Anonymous said...

=))º°˚˚˚°ºLmaoº°˚˚˚°º‎​°º‎​=))!!! Oh!My days!!! He's gay o! No level of curiousity can drive a guy to watch gay porn!!! Are you freaking kidding me??? Confront him o! He's definitely gay!!!

Anonymous said...

NEVER

Unknown said...

Your brother could possibly be gay, because the first and the last time i saw a gay movie, i almost threw up. it was such an irritating thing. I'm sure a normal straight person would not delight in watching a gay movie. there is more more 50% chances that your brother is a gay.

Unknown said...

Your brother could possibly be gay, because the first and the last time i saw a gay movie, i almost threw up. it was such an irritating thing. I'm sure a normal straight person would not delight in watching a gay movie. there is more more 50% chances that your brother is a gay.

Unknown said...

Your brother could possibly be gay, because the first and the last time i saw a gay movie, i almost threw up. it was such an irritating thing. I'm sure a normal straight person would not delight in watching a gay movie. there is more more 50% chances that your brother is a gay.

rosemary d said...

linda I read your story days back on your success and I was marveled but got me smiling is the fact that u realised that without lib readers u r nobody so give back to us and help us. I read these story and I asked myself is it same lindabi sent my mail to and kept mute? I told u of how arik airline made me go into police cell because I decided to fly arik airline. hekp a sister.

Anonymous said...

yea straight guyz watch porn movies just for the fun of it i kw of a frnd that watches lesbos porn and believe u me she is a straight babe so u dont hv a problem wiv ur bro for the fact he dosnt act like one then he is just watching it for fun

Michael said...

It's not possible for a straight guy to be comfortable with gay porn,the thought of it alone disgusts a straight man.....I'm straight and can watch out of curiosity if I stumble on it but can NEVER! Have it saved on my laptop,I have never seen a gay porn,I won't go out of my way to look it up.....your brother has it saved because he won't mind watching it again and again which points to something you should worry about.I think you should pray for him 1st then ask God for wisdom to confront him.

Henry said...

Yah so true. Straight guys watch gay porn even les porn

Unknown said...

What a HELL are you waiting for... Go confront your brother, yell @ him. If he's not a gaygod, he has to explain that. Wondering how sick, the psycho that invented gayporn is..

rosemary d said...

linda I read your story days back on your success and I was marveled but got me smiling is the fact that u realised that without lib readers u r nobody so give back to us and help us. I read these story and I asked myself is it same lindabi sent my mail to and kept mute? I told u of how arik airline made me go into police cell because I decided to fly arik airline. hekp a sister. follow lib readers please help me beg linda to help me please

Ameriestyle said...

He's Bisexual :D..You should confront him tho
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Anonymous said...

He is very likely to be gay. If there is anyone that has a curious mind in this world, I think I am the one. I have decided to pop into gay site just to see what it is like and guess what? I can't stand watching it pass 10 seconds. It irritates me madly. I can't stand it at all, not to talk of saving the files in my lappy. Haba! Except they will pay me for saving it sha. :) Smiles!! But honestly your bro has something with gay (no matter how small that is). Just pray for him and see how else you can help him. My 2 cents!!!

Anonymous said...

Well, yours is even better, I saw a love letter from a guy to my kid cousin, they were both students of higher institution, I was at their house and was using the laptop to browse, he probably forgot to close his mail. The guy was asking to be his husband, at first I thought it was a girls and was going to tease him about her but on careful reading, I found out it was a guy, I was even shocked when I located the same guy on his Facebook, we were from the same tribe, I was speechless, I couldn't tell anyone, not even his parents and I didn't let him know I had seen it, I don't want any catacata, I fact I was scared and if it is true, let it come out in due time and from me, I wasn't going to be a carrier of such news, but it never left my mind,

Anonymous said...

Simply ask him what u saw on his laptop,u carry on from there

Anonymous said...

So wat if he's gay, doesn't make him a terrible person..doesn't make him less human...if u like u can ask him to ease the tention. But wat ever answer. u get just dunt let It affect ur relationship with your bother...

Unknown said...

Me straight, gay porn? God forbid for whatever reason.

Anonymous said...

Well, yours is even better, I saw a love letter from a guy to my kid cousin, they were both students of higher institution, I was at their house and was using the laptop to browse, he probably forgot to close his mail. The guy was asking to be his husband, at first I thought it was a girls and was going to tease him about her but on careful reading, I found out it was a guy, I was even shocked when I located the same guy on his Facebook, we were from the same tribe, I was speechless, I couldn't tell anyone, not even his parents and I didn't let him know I had seen it, I don't want any catacata, I fact I was scared and if it is true, let it come out in due time and from me, I wasn't going to be a carrier of such news, but it never left my mind,

Janelicious said...

If u want an answer then ask him and answer u will get.

Anonymous said...

He probably isn't gay. I know a guy that wanted to watch gay porn out of curiosity to see if it will move him or disgust him but all in all though, I think you should still confront your brother about it so that you can stop asking questions

Unknown said...

First of all how old is he? It is very possible that he may just be curious about gays. What you shuld do is have a talk about it with him. Ask him of his opinion on the gay right law that the National Assembly refused to enact and watch his reactions. You just have to be sincere and intelligent in your questions. He may open up to you.

Anonymous said...

nahh.. hes probably gay..

Anonymous said...

Watching #gayporn is unthinkable if you do not want to partake. I think ur brother is a #gay.

Unknown said...

Urrm... dude, u sure? Maybe one of his girlfriends put gay porno there?But damn that bro needs help.

Anonymous said...

If it's jst one u saw, it cn b out of curiosity buh if its more dan,u really have 2 ask him. He's ur brother so u cn always ask him jokingly buh wif some measure of seriousness if u dn want 2 get on his nerves!

Anonymous said...

That guy is gay, a straight guy would never watch gay porn and even if he did out of curiosity he would never download it to watch it again later , I'm sorry to tell you that guy is GAY. Linda I no see u for meeting..

I rest my brain

Agbede Omoniyi said...

I hate it

Unknown said...

He may be bisexual

Anonymous said...

There's more to than just watching it out of curiosity cos dah shit is disgusting n 4 a guy to have dem on his laptop....maybe just maybe he's into it....if yhu confront him directly he won't tell yhu d truth,they

RSA said...

Could be anything. He isn't necessarily Gay.

Anonymous said...

Your numerous homosexual postings are disgusting. If you have collected money from American and European degenerate leaders, you better return them.

Anonymous said...

Ask him if you really care.............."oluwakekz

okorodudu said...

'...how do you ask your brother about something like this?'

Simple, you simply ask him! Is he not your brother? Even if he's gay he won't fess up to you but he'll be aware that you now know. This isn't something you keep quiet and pretend like you know nothing about.

Anonymous said...

the thing about porn is that its progressive. at times people make boundries on what they can view or what they wont but a time comes when the mind wants to explore more... thats when people go off the edge. what i m saying is that your brother most likely is not gay. he may just be exploring. but i think you should still confront him about it, not in a judgemental way but in a casual and serious way.a lot of men view child porn but are not paedophiles.but a lot of men have raped children because they viewed child porn. porn is a cancer that will destroy a person if it is not tamed.if a man continues viewing gay porn, he may after a while accept homosexuality and even fantasize practising it someday. pls talk to your brother about it. i wish someone actually confronted me in the past about my viewing of porn. its a crazy addiction.

Anonymous said...

Lol,I've seen it before...accidentally! But as a straight guy! i just clicked play and skipped through the video and closed it. I spent like 1-2 mins....But if your brother is watching gay porn and actually downloaded & saved it on his computer? Bro, your brother na faggoooooottt!!!! pure booty pirate!

fly guy said...

sometime ago, i bumped into gay porn and i continued watching out of curiousity 2 see if there was really penetration, buh dat was it, have neva viewed it again, not to talk of even saving it, so.....

Anonymous said...

He's gay bruh....

Yemmie Oscar said...

Can't really say, maybe you should just try and sit him down. And the fact that he had lots of GFs in the past ain't much evidence to behold.

Linda said...

I dont tink he is a gay, i feel its out of curiosity cos if he was one, he wudnt have series of girlfriends

Anonymous said...

Deal with it, your bro is BI..

1st to .....

Linda said...

I dont tink he is a gay, i feel its out of curiosity cos if he was one, he wudnt have series of girlfriends

bishop h.e.i said...

i cant imagine a normal guy watchin gay porn. if d guy is nt a gay

Anonymous said...

Yes,a man have to watch porn in other to know various styles to treat his woman right.lol

Anonymous said...

if u did..he may still deny... if he does so use psychology on him....but am sure it's no fin coz av got a lot of friends who have such but they r straight....

Anonymous said...

My advise to you is to find a diplomatic way to ask him. Your bro may not be gay, but out of curiosity may want to watch it. Afterall most girls watch lesbo movies but are not lez. So don't jump into conlusions yet witout some serious explanation or evidence. Ville+

Anonymous said...

ABEG HE IS GAY GAY GAY !!!!!!.....keep lying to yourself your bro is gay ...his girlfriends are just cover ups

Anonymous said...

I am sorry but your brother is Bisexual...

Anonymous said...

Your brother might be a bi-sexual. They are known as "down-town" brothers. And he might actually save it out of curiosity. Any man who finds anal sex interesting irrespective of the gender either male or with female might be a bi-sexual. I personally think u ask him but not in a direct manner. Just frame a story like.... I have a frnd and I caught him one afternoon watching gay video on his system. And I was wondering why with his strings of gurls. Then watch his face and ask him d questn in a way he won't suspect that u are refering to him #Asoge#

Anonymous said...

my dear his probably gay,he cnt have such movies nd be a straight guy,, naaaa ,not possible.confront him

Anonymous said...

It's normal and he should stop acting like he is a kid. Though its not right but there is absolutely nothingn wrong with his brother

Phil (Mr9iceWatch) said...

He prolly Gay -___-

Anonymous said...

Yes.A man has to watch porn in other to know various styles he will apply in bed to treat his woman right.It's also good for women to watch for the same reason.

Anonymous said...

Niggas watch it out of curiosity not SAVE it! Your brother's gay. Stand proud, he'll be amongst those faggot activists fighting for gay rights in Nigeria. Your brother'll die for something. :)

Anonymous said...

There must be something wrong with him... Gay porns he must be insane!!!!

Jamal said...

My dear Lady,your brother could be bi-curious or better still Closet Bisexual,He obviously,gets the freak on watching those stuff he carefully hid for his own view! Look around his room,you might find a KY Gel Lolz

Anonymous said...

the thing about porn is that its progressive. at times people make boundries on what they can view or what they wont but a time comes when the mind wants to explore more... thats when people go off the edge. what i m saying is that your brother most likely is not gay. he may just be exploring. but i think you should still confront him about it, not in a judgemental way but in a casual and serious way.a lot of men view child porn but are not paedophiles.but a lot of men have raped children because they viewed child porn. porn is a cancer that will destroy a person if it is not tamed.if a man continues viewing gay porn, he may after a while accept homosexuality and even fantasize practising it someday. pls talk to your brother about it. i wish someone actually confronted me in the past about my viewing of porn. its a crazy addiction.

Anonymous said...

tbh with you, i think your brother is either gay or bisexual. Gay porn is eww to straight guys.

MY TURN said...

Hey dear, WAKE UP sorry but your brother is as GAY as it gets. He is still living in denial or IS a closeted gay man scared of going to jail in Nigeria. NO STRAIGHT MAN WOULD WATCH ANOTHER MAN DO ANOTHER MAN. Start praying for his deliverance.

Anonymous said...

tbh with you i feel your brother is either gay or bisexual. Gay porn is eww to straight guys

Anonymous said...

Oya... Burnario and Prince(s) Charming and Jobless, this is ur area of specialization over to you :)

Anonymous said...

tbh with you i feel your brother is either gay or bisexual. Gay porn is eww to straight guys

rali said...

I'd almost go crazy if this happens to me but the fact is you need to know.this is your brother not just some friend.confront him in the friendliest manner so he can open up to you.

yemi said...

Just ask..dats why you are his brother

Anonymous said...

Firstly, I don't think straight guys watch gay porn.

Secondly, if your brother has gay porn on his laptop, he is most likely gay and afraid to tell his homophobic brother about it.

If he is.. and you are planning on confronting him, please be respectful about it. He is probably going through what could be the hardest time of his life.

Other than that... NO! STRAIGHT GUYS DO NOT WATCH GAY PORN!!!!

Anonymous said...

Firstly, I don't think straight guys watch gay porn.

Secondly, if your brother has gay porn on his laptop, he is most likely gay and afraid to tell his homophobic brother about it.

If he is.. and you are planning on confronting him, please be respectful about it. He is probably going through what could be the hardest time of his life.

Other than that... NO! STRAIGHT GUYS DO NOT WATCH GAY PORN!!!!

Anonymous said...

Curiousity could lead one into watching it. I actually saw one and was disguted by the sight. I deleted it immediately I showed my girlfriend.

Anonymous said...

Is either your brother is gay or he's planing to be one soon cos if he was watching the gay porn out of curiosity he would have deleted it before any one could see it or better still he would not have hidden it at the 1st place you better ask him serious questions

Anonymous said...

Pray for ur brother! Dats d 1st thing to do, u don't just ask a dude such a qstn without praying cos he might get really mad and no conclusion would be reached, seek d face of God, he'll help u

Anonymous said...

Whoa!!! *speechless* well he may not be gay that for sure cuz there are girls that watch lesbian porn and get turned on but that doesn't mean they r gay or maybe that's his own wierd thing since everybody has 1 some people lyk to be slapped or spanked or whatever it is others lyk to be tied up maybe ur brother just lyks to watch gay porn.

Anonymous said...

lol. he's gay man. No straight man watches gay porn. wipe your tears and hope he can sing like frank ocean www.ipublicizenaija.com

Anonymous said...

yes we do watch

Anonymous said...

issoraite..

Anonymous said...

People watch porn for the excitement value and sexual stimulation.
Your brother wathes gay porn for the same reason.
He is either gay or has gay feelings.
Dont worry about it, he is in good company with Elton John and George Micheal. Hell will be happy to welcome them too.

nydraps said...

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sexybobo said...

My Dear ur Broda since u said he has girlfrndz is Eida Bisexual or BiCurios.Eida Way his intrested in havin Gay sex.if not he won't Go all d way to hide it.if he waz just watchin out of curiosity he wud have deleted it eversince.Here in Nigeria Most Gays cover up wit datin Ladies.My dear an Advice to U his ur Broda and u love Him but Don't Confront him about D issue u might just put ur life in Danger coz he wud neva be Comfortable wit U again and can neva trust U not to tell Odaz!

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Anonymous said...

it does not necessarily have to do with being gay, guys check those stuffs out sometimes to see what other guys p***s look like ( U know we can be pretty insecure about that even when the stats says you are above average) and may be compare if they measure up. I am however worried about the fact that he keeps them. There is nothing cool about gay porn, it is neither lustful nor romantic, just pure inconvenience and the sheer demonstration of 'reprobacy'

sexybobo said...

My Dear ur Broda since u said he has girlfrndz is Eida Bisexual or BiCurios.Eida Way his intrested in havin Gay sex.if not he won't Go all d way to hide it.if he waz just watchin out of curiosity he wud have deleted it eversince.Here in Nigeria Most Gays cover up wit datin Ladies.My dear an Advice to U his ur Broda and u love Him but Don't Confront him about D issue u might just put ur life in Danger coz he wud neva be Comfortable wit U again and can neva trust U not to tell Odaz!

Anonymous said...

sorry but your brother is gay. No straight man watches gay porn. Wipe your tears and hope he can sing like frank ocean. www.ipublicizenaija.com

Paschal O said...

HELL NO!!!!! STRAIGHT DUDE NEVER WATCH GAY PORN. SAVING THAT SH*T ON HIS LAPTOP? MENH, HE IS TOTALLY GAY...OR BISEXUAL AT THE BEST.

Anonymous said...

He's gay bro..or prolly as d tendency of being gay..

Anonymous said...

No no no no, no way. A straight guy wud never ever look at gay porn more than 3seconds.
Its disgusting

Anonymous said...

If it looks like shit, smells like shit..its probably shit. Your bro is gay

Unknown said...

His fucking gay

john smith said...

No straight guy will enjoy watching gay porn, so he's either gay or the feelings for a guy is developing. Either way gayesm is around him.

Zee Zee said...

DArling,
I will break it to you, albeit slowly!
Re-read it if you may!
Your brother is on the down-low.
I have a gay brother and a gay brother-in-law.
Don't fool yourself!
we found out the hard way!
My brother and i still speak, i confronted him.
My sister and her husband are separated and about to be divorced.
Its not the end of the world!

Anonymous said...

He's your brother, not your son. Please move along.

Pornography Addiction: My Own Story said...

Straight men might watch gay porn just like gay men might watch straight porn. But saving gay porn on his computer suggests that he watches it often which again suggests that he might be gay or Bi. But having said that, he's got to desist from porn whether straight or gay.

Unknown said...

hello dear,
Thank you for your post. And thank you for bringing the this problem to the public. It is very possible that brother ain't gay, maybe he just like watching the gay porn. So dont take it personal.

Rough Diamond said...

Honestly speaking ur broda is gay, he is jst a pretender. Those girls r jst cover up. Its no biggie tho, nothing new on earth! I jst have to comment

Anonymous said...

first off I never comment but for this one an exception was made.
my dear straight people watch gay porn and immediately delete it. they don't go to such extents to hide it.
repeat straight people get curious and watch and quickly delete. and not hide it.
that he had girls in the past is no proof. back in my sec days there was this boy john who was a notorious womanizer but john secretly chased all the dudes that cat walked round school. it was no secret to the girly guys but to the rest of everyone john chased girls even his numerous girlfriends till today never knew he was gay.
my dear stop being homophobic if he is gay he can not change it. Repeat HE CAN NOT CHANGE IT. he did not choose to be gay in fact he must hate it desperately. And all these girl chasing could just be him hoping he is straight , looking for that girl to turn him normal lai lai he is gay. how am I so sure because I don see plenty even married men to the most straight boys. stand by him don't confront him though he will deny it and get better at hiding it and will retreat much further into his gigantic closet. Get close keep a watchful eye watch his eyes when some kind of guys come around I won't advice you to do this but i would go through his browser history, download history visit some porn sites and most likely the set preference will come up ransack the PC remember do all this behind his back Never confront him.
On your homophobia please read up don't let religion make you hate your brother its his life his choices not yours. Its something no one will ever choose is it not that obvious no one will choose to be gay. Gays fight being gay. so tone it down
PS as a medical practitioner I'll advice you to tell him of condoms. This morning my baby Cousin forgot his wallet on looking through it I found to condoms. I did not report him rather on his return I asked him about it. He admitted it and with his full attention I began a lecture on safe sex, condom safety He is just 19 but i'd rather he use a condom and stay safe than risk his life with abstinence that has obviously failed. aids seems to be everywhere these days and it is most rampant in the gay community.(Not Homophobia just facts) so please look for chances to chip it in. let's all stay safe. It has no cure.

oh and Linda post my comment pls its my first.
lonz071 has spoken ;)

Anonymous said...

He's gay my dear. Straight guys who watch gay porn don't have them saved at all...they do so out of curiosity. Just try to deal with or accept the fact that your lil bro is gay, and move on with life. I wish you the best as you grapple with this reality. Cheers!

Anonymous said...

since you havent caught him watching it.......you can never REALLY say either way

Anonymous said...

since you havent caught him watching it.......you can never REALLY say either way

Anonymous said...

Gals watch lesbian porn nd are strait!! He may be strait, but gay porns are the most disgusting!!! Extremely disgusting!!! It's either he watches it for fun/erection OR ur nicca is sucking some balls.... Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Most of them watch gay porn

Anonymous said...

I have done that so many times, I am now married with a kid, and if I were u -running on the work folder - I am sure I'd still spend a minute. I think the brain always wants to see everything moving! I would only worry if he is watching to arouse himself sexually, that then is a big problem my sis!

Anonymous said...

what if he doesnt even know that its their.

Anonymous said...

This a stupid question, watch gay porn for what? when there are plenty of women out there.

Anonymous said...

Please relax its normal, I'm a girl, I'm straight bt I also watch gay porn, asin I love all d f**ckn mehn! So chill, bt I'm still straight.

Anonymous said...

It is very simple to ask him about it.He may not be a gay but He is a bisexual.For saving d movies in his laptop means he enjoys watching it.

Anonymous said...

i`m not speculation but just because he`s had many GF`s over the years dont mean that he aint gay. infact gay men who r still trying to hide undercover tend to have multiple GF`s just to make people think otherwise

Anonymous said...

Gay l'omo.... by mistake ko... on top all the porn wey dey Internet. why gay porn.. sick

Anonymous said...

Ewwwwww!Doesn't make sense to me shaa.

Anonymous said...

Like seriously,is he mad?
Why would he want to.

I watch porn but I ve never ventured into homo..the sight irritates me

Anonymous said...

your brother is a gay...

Psychotic bitch said...

Ur bro is gay

Anonymous said...

all i`m gonna say is that he is innocent till he is caught in the act or doing something relative to what your speculating. . there is no definite answer for the gay porn you found on his laptop. my advice.....just keep watching him and pray for the best outcome.

Anonymous said...

I am a girl and I think if he was watching out of curiosity he need not save it and not only was it saved it was coded as work stuff. I think if he has not already experimented he's seriously considering it.

Unknown said...

Some guys are just into gay porn, does not mean they are gay.

Anonymous said...

50/50. he could be gay. he could be straight.But, keep an eye on ur brother

War said...

straight guys cant stand watching other guys make out, it disgusts them, you may watch it when you come across out of curiosity but going out of your way to download and store them.....dude is either closet homo or bi, but definitely not straight

Anonymous said...

My dear, I'm a girl and I can categorically tell you that I have, at some point(before I gave my life to Christ some years back), been obsessed with gay porn.
I'm homophobic as well, but that didn't stop my curiosity from getting all the better of me and I got even more curious about the weird sex choices of the westerners.
I also saw some about trannys so, if you think its psyching you out more than necessary, outrightly ask your brother and tell him the implications of what and how what he views and sees impacts his life via the power of his mind.
I'm truly sorry you had to see that.

Anonymous said...

NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! I try not to discriminate but the fact is I know being gay is not natural. it simple, gay couples cannot procreate naturally which is the very fundamental of life and humanity. Watching heterosexual porn is bad enough, to now go further and watch gay porn is just unimaginable.

Unknown said...

Yes Of course Straight Guys do watch gay movies well for me nt as any hobby, just for the curiousity and nothing more beside I dnt get turned on so its harmless.

Anonymous said...

I guess its just curiousity dear, straight guys watching gay porn? NEVER!!!! I can't even get mysef to watch dat shit.

Anonymous said...

I have done that so many times, I am now married with a kid, and if I were u -running on the work folder - I am sure I'd still spend a minute. I think the brain always wants to see everything moving! I would only worry if he is watching to arouse himself sexually, that then is a big problem my sis!

Apple said...

Hehehehehehehehe...E be like say your brother nah GAY!:)..Hehehehe..

Anonymous said...

u nor no say ur bro na gay na everitin he go tel u

Anonymous said...

It is very possible he's gay or bi,I've heard of pple dat do both sex bt den again u can't say..

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm,Lobatan.My dear broda no straight guy keep such movie on his laptop,I bet you your brother could be gay or bi sexual.seeing him with different girl friends doesn't matter,he could be bi doing both.am very sure he is gay or bi,a str8 guy will neva keep guy to guy sex film on his laptop to the extence that he coded the file name.wake up bro call him and ask him about and plz don't hate him bcos of that,just advice him.even if he has neva done it before he has a tendence of beein gay or bi.Tahnk you.KOLA

Anonymous said...

straight men dont watch gay porn,am a straight guy watching gay porn will be disgusting to watch.Any straight who watches gay porn is GAY.SIMPLE

Juliet said...

What has happen dearie is with the advancement of technology Nigerians have used it to explore all sorts of things most popularly phonography . Your brother is exploring his sexuality, with the help of technology. Technology brings with it a whole lot of advantages to an advanced mind. Nigeria is a third world country , technology in the hands of babes it's like giving a loaded gun to an infant. Back to the question your brother is probably not gay, more likely bored out of his mind, found a new addictive hobby. Time will tell if he acts out his addiction. If he does then his still not gay just bicurious.

Anonymous said...

Why my post LINDA......

Anonymous said...

Its not normal dude,put him in prayers.

Anonymous said...

Confront him n ask him all these qstns u jes asked us!

Anonymous said...

ahahaha hes bi then. straight men do NOT watch that

BimentalCo said...

Gay guys can b straight guys as well, OR lets say BI-Sexual, means ur bros can do women and men as well, he is VERSATILE!!!!
enjoy your brother bros!!

Anonymous said...

geez i tink he's bi-sexual...

Anonymous said...

He's either bisexual or bi curious, straight men dnt watch gay porn, it's repulsive to them. Counsel him before its too late !!!

Anonymous said...

He watches gay porn doesn't mean he's gay, probably out of curiosity.I know some straight pple who watch Lezbian porn.

Unknown said...

Ok your brother is gay....sorry but the fact that you're homophobic sucks and u should just accept and love him

Anonymous said...

He could have watched it out of curiosity.

Try sit him down and talk to him without being confrontational. Just advise him such shit is sickening.

Anonymous said...

Go ahead an confront him.

Anonymous said...

He may be bisexual...a lot of gays av gfs

Anonymous said...

well he mite not be gay but curious and you should not confront him cos you mite end up loosing his trust for snooping around his laptop even doe you said you didn't.

skut said...

Unless he is doing a research or writing a book on gay marriage and needs to watch it, he is definitely gay. Confront him and probably fly him to states where it is legal unless of course u want to loose him for 14years...lol

Anonymous said...

Out of curiosity may be but storing it on his system, now that wrong!
Sit the dude down and ask him straight up, DUDE, U GAY?

Capt Planet

Anonymous said...

Its possible he is not gay, he might have an addiction cos maybe he's been sexually abused by a male figure so that inspires lustful feelings, but not one enough to act on or maybe he has acted on those feelings- we can't say. This is a case I have seen working with young people- male and female. Please discuss with him and let him know you are available if he has anything to share. If you believe in prayer- pray for the wisdom to be the help that he needs, cos either ways he'll need help if only to get off the addiction of pornography. Realize it isn't a one time approach, be prepared to be by his side for the long haul should he decide to confide in you and let you help him overcome it.

Unknown said...

HmmmMmm.I tink its outta curiosity..don't ask him.just watch him closely for now

Anonymous said...

Your bro is gay... He is just keeping it in the closet. Many guys go around and have as many girls as they can. Some do it because their hormones are raging and they love sex while the other half do it to prove something to themselves and some have girl friends and even marry to have a smoke screen to hide behind. There are many married men who are gay to the bone but had to get married and have kids to make their parents happy and blend in with the society. Nobody wants to be the freak in the family and that includes your brother.

He was probably raped when young or in school. That is the normal mode of initiation. After that initial transfer of spirit or gay energy it is really hard to break no matter how much you hate yourself or the act. It just becomes you and unless early deliverance is done, the kid has to fight the gay demon all his life or he can take the easy way out and say that' it is his nature' or 'I was born this way' or 'God created me to be attracted to people of same sex'.

This applies to women too. Lesbians were either raped as kids by male or female friends or coerced in school by seniors. Those raped by men, because of the guilt and aversion become easy prey to other lesbians and are easily initiated while those raped or coerced by women instantly imbibe the gay/lesbian energy or spirit and the cycle goes on and on.

Just pray for your brother because confronting him might lead to suicide or social annihilation[which ever comes first}.It is more a spiritual problem than a physical one especially for closeted men or those on the 'down low'.

Anonymous said...

Well first of all I have seen gay porn before o I won't lie and I'm straight but I did it out of curiosity secondly why were you snoopin around his laptop folders :P this is the problem with having sisters busy body too much u hgave snooped around and seen what has hurt you and his giving u heartache and disturbance while he's chillin and enjoyin his porn pls back off him now before you ruining your relatiosnhip together and never go thru is laptop again and this goes out to all them sisteers stop snooping around your bros property nd ps its not until u av gfriends that guarantee u aint. Gay pls and its not until ur feminine that ur gay

Impeccable said...

This is a joke right...

Of course he is gay. He went to extent of hiding his porn stash like all guys do. It just happens to be gay porn.

He is confirmed 100% gay. To judge or not to judge, that bit is up to you...maybe he is bi, just ask.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm! Its kinda weird for him to be watching gay porn. Well to answer your question, it's kinda off for a straight guy to watch such porn. For me as a female, I enjoy watching lesbian porn. I find the female body very fascinating. BUT! I'll be Damn if I every try it on any female. I'm very straight. I watch out just out of curiosity. But when a guy watches 2 guys having sex, it kinda raises a red flag. Call it double standards but it's just all types of wrong on so many level. As for confronting your brother, I think he's has a right to his personal life. Asking him won't change anything. He can lie to your face, then what? It won't change anything.Let him be.

Anonymous said...

I guess he's bisexual

Damochedxb said...

Some people are just curious to that freakish extent. I have a friend(straight) who watches all sorts of porno... gay, lesbian, straight, animal etc. I guess thats just his own fetish. I am straight, watch some porn, but never ever clicked on gay porn cos for me, there is just nothing i wanna see in it. So your brother might just be freakishly curious. You should ask him jokingly, like "Yo dude, u crazy, you watching gay porn? Yuck!." Something like that, it shouldnt be something u will call a meeting on.

Anonymous said...

Well, do women watch lesbians make out? Yes they do and that doesnt make them a lesbo. So i don't think your bro is gay. Period

Anonymous said...

Only Gays watch gay porn... Your brother might be bi.

Anonymous said...

Curiosity !

Anonymous said...

God have mercy on us all

dat ghen ghen guy said...

no! no! no! straight men dnt watch gay porn

dat ghen ghen guy said...

no! no! no! straight men dnt watch gay porn

Anonymous said...

so if he turns out to be gay, would u leave him? he is still ur brother thou. his sexuality dont change a tin about him. austine

Anonymous said...

LOL....what happened...just 2 comments by 12;38pm....has rapture occured?...am scared oo

Anonymous said...

His soooooooooooooo gay, like seriously? Ur asking?? Lol! Ur bro is gay dude!

e bonto said...

Muster courage and ask him,their is nothing wrong in asking him,after all,u meant well 4 him.

Anonymous said...

Sniffs white powder(makes a face)this deep

Anonymous said...

He is very very VERY OK. I am straight and i watch gay porn. My husband teases me all the time. It does not make me cum or anything, i am just fascinated by it. As a matter of fact my best porn is double penetration but will i ever practise that? HELL TO THE NO.
Trust me when i say i am as straight as an arrow. LOL

Anonymous said...

well, I even tho im a lady, I love to watch gay porn as in 2 men doing it. call me weird......but im definitely not gay. it just interests me

Anonymous said...

he is a gay. having girlfriend does not mean he is not a gay. million of straight guys watch gay videos in Nigeria. if he is a gay no wahala, love him more and try to reason with him.gay is a thing of the mind. it is natural.

Anonymous said...

the people here are gonna say he is gay,gay,gay... but dont listen to them...people watch these things out of curiosity or youthful exuberance,it depends on how old he is....

»kruiza« said...

Fit be bisexual... Hu knw??

Anonymous said...

He his simply curious...people wanna watch porn or gay porn discretely so that explains why he hid it...

Anonymous said...

what?? . .why would you think that?? . .ur bro z probably wants a new haircut. .where else to find it but a movie filled with guys. Or maybe he deals with supplying porn since its in his work folder.
P.S dnt hate someone because of his sexual preference

Anonymous said...

ℓ☺ℓment,if he's watching guys taking it up the arse. He likes it. Please talk to him now oh biko. And the media is busy getting our young impressionable men/women/boys/girls to think being gay is normal. It is NOT NORMAL

Unknown said...

NA WA OOOOOOO

Yinkadec10 said...

He is definitely a gay guy, for the fact that he hide the gay porn videos. Moreover gay guys are always shy in dis society of ours. so he cud be doing it on a low key! and he cud also be bi-sexual. so far he is ur broda, call him and ask him

Anonymous said...

He is ur brother for heaven sake, why won't u ask him. That means u two are not close(meemee)

Anonymous said...

Curiosity! I guess. I'm not gay but sometimes I see gay porns.

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