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Who agrees with this...?

"Most people decide whether or not they’re attracted to someone within the first three seconds of meeting them.". Do you agree?

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Dlapikin said...

I agree. But it does not mean you cannot change your mind later about somebody.

Anonymous said...

9th commentator! :hhhe

Anonymous said...

Yea "most" people do......but not everyone

Emmanuel said...

Not true for everybody

Anonymous said...

Nooooooooooo. That person must b a hoe

kattyloss said...

Kind of

Anonymous said...

lustfully ? oh yes!
love at fisrt sight ? not a chance !

Anthony Dugbo said...

It is relative.

Immaculate said...

I don't agree with it please,

janelicious said...

Nope

janelicious said...

I disagree

Anonymous said...

yes i agree with you ma sister but ladies like forming and proving stunt

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.

vicky sylva said...

Yes!!! Even @ a sight,one should tell if he or she is attracted 2 some1...attraction comes wiv admiration... Trust me wen its comes 2 topic like diz, am a love doctor *big smile*

Anonymous said...

Physical attraction, yes. However my attraction to some people increases on closer acquaintance because of their personality. Having said that I'm female, don't know if it works the same way for guys.

Dee dee

MaestroTK naija operaticpop singer said...

Absolutely correct.

Anonymous said...

I agree

Anonymous said...

What do u mean by someone else?

Elegant Debonair said...

Yeap

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.

Anonymous said...

Very right

abass said...

I agree

bukipreety said...

Nope

Elegant Debonair said...

Yeap

Anonymous said...

Undecided. I Ll think about it. Lol

ade baptista said...

Na lie joor.....wat abt dos whu strt wit quarrel

Anonymous said...

very true

Anonymous said...

noooooo

BLOGLORD said...

Yes true...later they find out if they click together or not when character comes into play.

But at first...its either you are attracted to the person or not

Anonymous said...

I do not agree

Akontealabs said...

I don't agree.

Anonymous said...

Agreed

DR. FIBROID

Anonymous said...

I do

Anonymous said...

Yes

eNCA Africa said...

in a way, I agree that sometimes attraction is immediate But there has been some situation where I have developed attraction towards a guy over time, through talking and seeing each other regularly. However the 3 seconds rule applies sometimes but not all the time

Anonymous said...

Hmm! Dat is more than true, u dnt evn hv to b standing close to d person to feel it, n blv me all u nid is three seconds, after that u're either attracted or u aint!

kelly wester said...

Yes,lov at 1st syt jst nid 1 second

Anonymous said...

Yeah, dt so correct.

Anonymous said...

I agree

Anonymous said...

I so much agree with dis

↭PRINCE JOBLESS↭ said...

Totally bullshit. Pretty sure this is from that fucked up twitter handle @UberFacts. Sums up all their bullshit.

Anonymous said...

Well....3 seconds is an exaggeration, more like the first 5 minutes.

gabriel young said...

its possible....but only when the person is physically attracting

Bobby B. said...

Very Correct :D

towabs said...

I don't agree.......my wife to be swears she was not even interested in me when we first met....thus the "I don't care attitude"....more like 2 yrs later......now we here (drake's voice)

Charles Ukasoanya said...

So true!! Talking from Experience..

Anonymous said...

Very true. Linda my comment

Anonymous said...

Yes I agree

Anonymous said...

Nooooo. 3secounds is too short na

Anonymous said...

Hey Linda that's me and my husband's pic you used for this post o

pheonixstarlet said...

Yes I agree

Nellie-Diva said...

I totally agree. The 1st time I see you is when I decide whether I can date you or not. If I'm not attracted to you the 1st time, nothing can change that. I'm shallow like that ;;)

pweetieangie said...

Its very possible,,hs happened to me b4 sef!

Yemmie Oscar said...

Linda, well....psychologists have found that people respond
intuitively to faces so rapidly that our reasoning
minds may not have time to influence the reaction.
It’s almost like an involuntary shiver.
We just can’t rationalize our decision, and so we
pretend to be very intellectual and blame it our
sharp instincts. These ‘instincts’ help us choose the
friends we would be most comfortable with, and
also helps us in choosing the right mate.
You’ve obviously known there was always
something more than just good looks that attracted
you to your sweetheart, didn’t you?

Anonymous said...

Totally true!

Anonymous said...

yes i do

Anonymous said...

I don't agree.

Anonymous said...

Yup. But if you hang around long enough you may be proved wrong.

Anonymous said...

Nt really..
~D great anonymous!

Anonymous said...

Not 100% correct

Carol Anyiam said...

Different strokes for different folks.. Sometimes,it happens,..sometimes,it doesn't.

Anonymous said...

Yes

Anonymous said...

Absolutely

Stephen Nayina said...

Na lie jare.....#sips alomo

Ameriestyle said...

Somehow, not really, depends :D
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hilary obiorah said...

It is true, but attraction here isn't the 'want to be with you forever' kind oh! Like in 3 seconds you can decide you are attracted to a person and get to know them better. That's when dating begins, that you are attracted to a person don't mean y'all are gonna make a great couple. You could be attracted to a person and the instant they open their mouth, the attraction dies

EDDIE~SYFAR said...

Yep Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ course

Anonymous said...

how dis one come affect asuu strike?...mctew..

oak said...

Kind of

tochi_omeke said...

Yes for lust, no for real love. Speaking from a boys perspective, maybe the gals would share a contrary view.lol.

Anonymous said...

I totally agree that one can be attracted to another within few minutes of meeting the person,however interaction will determine how long that attraction will last.

Mr Gentle said...

I don't really....

Anonymous said...

I do not agree. The attraction is called lust.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes. Other times, it takes a while to really notice someone. And even other times, the more you get to know someone, the more or less attractive they become.

Chiisunshine said...

Yes I agree. And If indeed I don't feel him, that date will b the first n last. And later if he insist on seeing me again. Then I ve to tell him the truth. 'I don't like u' simple.

Anonymous said...

Yea,,it true...!

Anonymous said...

Duh!!! Lol

Chinonye Nwakwoke said...

Who cares? Of what use is an attraction that dies without leading to anything helpful?

mistaqueens said...

i agree

mistaqueens said...

i AGREE

Anonymous said...

Yh,na tru oo.

Anonymous said...

Yh,na tru oo.

Anonymous said...

Yes I agree

maria said...

Nooo hell noo I dnt agree

Anonymous said...

Lailai. I dnt agree į̸̸̨ƭƕ it

Anonymous said...

Yeah!

Anonymous said...

Its possible, depending on the individual. Most people easily open up to strangers while some don't. I don't

Anonymous said...

I agree but only to realise over time that the first impression was only a mirage!

Eby said...

I totally agree but looks are deceptive though!!

Marriage last, try it said...

NO cos you can actually meet the person at his/her good or bad mood at that moment.

fayden grey said...

sure i agree,,,, works 4 me,, like i no am not attracted to you immediately you open ur mouth to respond to ma greeting and i perceive some disturbing smell<< yea its true

FJD said...

AM A TYPICAL EXAMPLE OH! Pls abeg ...I am a virgin and I don't want to cheat so I think I deserve to feel someone that will make me not to look outside in terms of attraction and besides If I have waited for 31 yrs of my life despite the fact that I meet loads of chics who will never believe my story , I can't blow it with a worrisome person oh! GOD HAVE MERCY ON ME...

Anonymous said...

Very true, if I'm not attracted to someone in the first few seconds that's it but there are always a few exceptions.

QUEEN ZARA said...

Yes,I agree. Is possible ###

Alexies said...

Yea I agree,

Anonymous said...

It is true.

fayden grey said...

sure i agree works for me\,,, i no am not attractive to you when you respond to ma greeting with your mouth giving out some disturbing odour

Mr Gentle said...

Not really!

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Anonymous said...

Yes cos it actually happened to me,a friend actually told me lot of things about a guy who she actually wanted me to meet,so happy that I didn't go to jsk to pick him wen he arrived NY,they actually came to my house was so disappointed when she brought dis dude to my apartment,omg!was very angry my friend noticed it,all what d guy said to me which I can't even remember all went into my deaf ears because he's not my kind of guy,to crown it up he has mouth odour..

Anonymous said...

yes very true

Visages Parfait said...

3secs??? That's just;tick,tick,tick!! Hmmm_i need 2 now consciously check how many seconds it takes me 2 get attracted 2 a guy!!

Anonymous said...

Na lie joor

fayden grey said...

like hell yeah<< if i sed hello to you and your breath isn't presentable<< i immediately get attracted to some1 else

Apple said...

I agree, it happened to me.

Anonymous said...

Smith the bini gangster go know in a moment

Anonymous said...

This girls mouth na die!!!

Sexily Endowed said...

Its possible.....

Omo Benue said...

7minutes is more like it. It was all a fairy tale until he smiled. Worst case of flouresces ever! Such a waste smh

Anonymous said...

Don't agree

mayday said...

Itz possible

Anonymous said...

Yes I do. It happens I have seen
situations like that

Anonymous said...

Sure,but most of the time ladies always get lost within seconds when they see a very handsome guy

Anonymous said...

I do not agree.

Anonymous said...

Every man or woman knows what he or she wants,within a blink of an eye it done,for me not the skiny type displayed!!!

Naijabadoo said...

Its true if it is attraction, we are always attracted to people of our likes, its just dat people dis days mistake attraction for love.

Aroh Lyna said...

yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person

Anonymous said...

absolutely, 2 seconds actually...

Anonymous said...

Its a lie!!!

Aroh Lyna said...

yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person

njideka nkem said...

Come again pls

Aroh Lyna said...

yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person

Anonymous said...

Its true.....the moment u set ur eyes on someone u r attracted to u just click and otherwise

pwitie B said...

Yea sure

omoniyi orioye said...

True,its just attraction naau,notin more notin less

nkemji said...

Yep!agreed

SUE JORDAN said...

I agree. The sec my partner walked into the lift where I worked, I knew he was the one. It's been almost 10 years and we are still like young lovers.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

That's a fallacy......for some people, it may be in the first few seconds while for others, it could take a whole year! Personally, i think its not possible...

Oluyomi Odukoya said...

Yes o.. My instincts don't fail me..

Anonymous said...

See this one igbo face, teeth full everywere....hissss!

Anonymous said...

defooooooos mate!!!

Anonymous said...

yes i agree but i need 30 sec

Anonymous said...

yep

Dejo said...

Not really. U actually need more time

Dejo said...

Not really, it takes a bit longer than that

Anonymous said...

Yes I agree,as for me,I kw if am attracted or not within meeting d person.......lovi says so!

Anonymous said...

I certainly agree a connection occurs within d first few seconds of u meeting a person nd is a determinant if or nt u wana meet them again.

Anonymous said...

And thats why dey fall apart in no time...True love is gradual...there shld be a place of deep knowing..(character,likes n dislikes)

Anonymous said...

3 seconds? Nah. First date is okay *ThatFunctionGuy*

Gold said...

Yes it is true in some cases with women and men but I guess it is more of a feminine thing.

Anonymous said...

Yes ofcoz she is ok

Gold said...

Yes it is true , I guess the 3second time span is more of a feminine thing.

Gold said...

Yes it is true in some cases with women and men but I guess it is more of a feminine thing.

Oniovo Johnson said...

Nope, not true at all

Anonymous said...

ohhhh yes I totally agree...... the first day I saw my husband I was attracted to him immediately

Anonymous said...

Dunno

nostic said...

I don't agree abeg

nedy said...

3sec? errrrm mine is 1st sec. tho on few occassions, u get 2 appreciate some1 on 2nd meeting sef. but dis 1st meeting/sec attraction is always intense

Anonymous said...

Totally true linda....
SAINT....

Rough Diamond said...

Sometimes I can be attracted to a guy but on knowing guy I find out I even dislike him as in false attraction. For me it doesn't work dat way. I dey quick dislike person, God helps me to find n stick with d one meant for me.

motayo said...

Not true... Are u psychic to know that...well to me its not true..

Anonymous said...

It depends. But not dis skeleton up there oooo.

Anonymous said...

The first 3 seconds,maybe no but the first hour works for me..there are times you just hate or like someone when you see the person for the first time but getting attached to someone would definitely take more than 3 seconds..

Anonymous said...

It happens.Just be good looking and give me a good reason to laugh,and I'm drawn to you like magnet within the few seconds I've met you. The rest depends on how well you can continue to keep me smiling. I rest my thumbs.

e bonto said...

Yes,it's an Instinct factor,but d situation may change as a result of positive or negative varia bles

seno said...

Ya I agree

Anonymous said...

Yep it happen when I first saw u linda

Sean Manuel said...

Absolutely not, I used to think attraction is not a concious choice. Its either she likes you or not. Foolish me. You can create attraction yourself.

Lasting attraction can be manufactured in this part of the world. Yep! Lets examine the 5 main traits of an alpha male – looks, wealth, status, fame, and game – and how each one is a choice you make:

Looks – ideas starts forming in her head, once she sees your arms, feels your strength, and touches your 6 pack. Manufactured by you. E.g "Linda always asking who among this guys would you hit?"

Wealth – sure you can call them gold diggers, but ultimately, She may ‘love’ you for your money, but does it really make a difference? Manufactured by you.

Status/Fame – (status is a subset of fame) no further explanation is required. Manufactured by you, either faked or bona fide.

Game – the attitude girls love. This is what they mean by ‘he gets me, he’s not a pushover, I like his style, he’s sweet, he’s exciting, etc’. Guess what – manufactured by you.

Although a lot of guys intuitively know this, there are still way too many who think ‘she should just like me for me in 3 sec’ and as a result take the easy path of inaction, later wondering why they can’t get any.

Anonymous said...

'Decide'? Nahhh Linda Attraction is not something you decide,its something we barely even have control over so maybe you should rephrase your question before i can answer it ;)

PRETTY GIRL

3faya said...

Very True......*speaking for myself though#

Anonymous said...

Its called "the lemon law". Its true! I believe it!

Iamlani said...

Err I think it will take a little more than that to decide

Anonymous said...

Yes I agree cus d second I saw dat girl's face @above I knew I was not attracted to her!

Anonymous said...

Well its possible 4 white pple,nt my niger ppl lai lai.

MIZZANDRA said...

YES!I fink sooooooo!

Anonymous said...

Attraction kee. For most Nigerian girls, money is the attraction.

Anonymous said...

Yes, same tin happened to my GF n I

Anonymous said...

Linda my attraction 2 u was less than 3 second, so I do not agree. Last 2 comment, no more comment after mine.

Anonymous said...

No i dont agree pls. D female model here made me reaffirm dat! Aaarrrgh... Also persnal experience. Kai linda, 3 seconds??? Not evn hrs or days or mths abegii

jeff said...

ƔξA̶̲̥̅ђ I̶̲̥̅̊ do agree.....u cn get attracted by Ƌ single smile.

jstsayin said...

Yh dis is more like d chinese proverb dat says we're all conected by a tread on our ankles,so d attraction may not actually be physical its more like a mental attraction...talkedtoomuch okbye

#jstsayin

bagwel said...

I agree

Anonymous said...

As 4 me,I'm attracted to d guys luks 1st, den wen I talk to him,then I knw if He's my kind of psn or not.

Furli said...

attraction is not a choice at all. it totally depends on the way the guy presents himself to the lady. if he does not act like a needy and approving wussbag,if his body language and tone speaks "in control and in charge", and he teases and dialogues properly, and interestingly, then its only a matter of minutes before she cannot explain why she is helplessly attracted to the dude...

Anonymous said...

Exactly!

Anonymous said...

Ur right Prince Charming!

Anonymous said...

U didnt have to post twice! Ode!!!

Anonymous said...

Ur right prince jobless. U dont need to curse though. Ode!!!

Anonymous said...

Hmmm really? Liar!

Anonymous said...

Ode!

Anonymous said...

LOOOOOOOOOL

Anonymous said...

Ode!!! We got u the first and second time.

Anonymous said...

Its just attraction nt love.....there's a big difference btw attraction n love...n d problem here is dat most pple are mistaking d attraction 4 love....n yes its possible...immediately I see any fine tall dark guy...bam!! I'm attracted even in just a second...

Anonymous said...

N ure a goat! Pls sensible post jawe

Thomas shola said...

Sometimes It does happen but ova time a change of decision can be made if he or she did not me ya expectation.

Anonymous said...

Physical attributes in the first 5 secs and what comes out of your mouth in the first minute like your IQ etc will really determine further qualities such as character etc

Anonymous said...

We are talking abt attraction hre,not love ok? So yes pls

ijeoma ogbonna said...

True,my tots exactly.

Anonymous said...

yes it happen to me

55 'CENT said...

I dont really agree on 3sec stuff,dont be surprise some people just find attraction bcos sex n packaging they see in someone...if the 3sec stuff is really working that means some people will have up to 10 bf or gf reason bcos there are some working environments u will always see attraction every minutes....for most girls money attract 'em and for guys packaging attract 'em....have u forget the saying "girls believe in wot they here,boys believe in wot they see that is while girls always wear makeups and boys always lies"

Anonymous said...

CeCe.....
you actually know at times buh i blive it as you further continue you be sure

Anonymous said...

i agree

noblenenye said...

It is not always the case. Something must be exceptional about that person for me to be attracted to such a person within three seconds.

Anonymous said...

I do not agree, our mind plays tricks on us so we think we are attracted to the person,after you get to know the person you see its all different.

Anonymous said...

You are a cow!!!

Anonymous said...

TRUE! a man or woman just has three hurdles. be attractive from afar, face to face and when you open your mouth but if you fail in any, just forgerrit!

Anonymous said...

Hmm

Moyin Daniella said...

I agree

Moyin Daniella said...

I agree

alluring belle said...

I believe u @annon 11:19

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