I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.
Yes!!! Even @ a sight,one should tell if he or she is attracted 2 some1...attraction comes wiv admiration... Trust me wen its comes 2 topic like diz, am a love doctor *big smile*
Physical attraction, yes. However my attraction to some people increases on closer acquaintance because of their personality. Having said that I'm female, don't know if it works the same way for guys.
I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.
in a way, I agree that sometimes attraction is immediate But there has been some situation where I have developed attraction towards a guy over time, through talking and seeing each other regularly. However the 3 seconds rule applies sometimes but not all the time
Hmm! Dat is more than true, u dnt evn hv to b standing close to d person to feel it, n blv me all u nid is three seconds, after that u're either attracted or u aint!
I don't agree.......my wife to be swears she was not even interested in me when we first met....thus the "I don't care attitude"....more like 2 yrs later......now we here (drake's voice)
I totally agree. The 1st time I see you is when I decide whether I can date you or not. If I'm not attracted to you the 1st time, nothing can change that. I'm shallow like that ;;)
Linda, well....psychologists have found that people respond intuitively to faces so rapidly that our reasoning minds may not have time to influence the reaction. It’s almost like an involuntary shiver. We just can’t rationalize our decision, and so we pretend to be very intellectual and blame it our sharp instincts. These ‘instincts’ help us choose the friends we would be most comfortable with, and also helps us in choosing the right mate. You’ve obviously known there was always something more than just good looks that attracted you to your sweetheart, didn’t you?
It is true, but attraction here isn't the 'want to be with you forever' kind oh! Like in 3 seconds you can decide you are attracted to a person and get to know them better. That's when dating begins, that you are attracted to a person don't mean y'all are gonna make a great couple. You could be attracted to a person and the instant they open their mouth, the attraction dies
I totally agree that one can be attracted to another within few minutes of meeting the person,however interaction will determine how long that attraction will last.
Sometimes. Other times, it takes a while to really notice someone. And even other times, the more you get to know someone, the more or less attractive they become.
Yes I agree. And If indeed I don't feel him, that date will b the first n last. And later if he insist on seeing me again. Then I ve to tell him the truth. 'I don't like u' simple.
sure i agree,,,, works 4 me,, like i no am not attracted to you immediately you open ur mouth to respond to ma greeting and i perceive some disturbing smell<< yea its true
AM A TYPICAL EXAMPLE OH! Pls abeg ...I am a virgin and I don't want to cheat so I think I deserve to feel someone that will make me not to look outside in terms of attraction and besides If I have waited for 31 yrs of my life despite the fact that I meet loads of chics who will never believe my story , I can't blow it with a worrisome person oh! GOD HAVE MERCY ON ME...
Yes cos it actually happened to me,a friend actually told me lot of things about a guy who she actually wanted me to meet,so happy that I didn't go to jsk to pick him wen he arrived NY,they actually came to my house was so disappointed when she brought dis dude to my apartment,omg!was very angry my friend noticed it,all what d guy said to me which I can't even remember all went into my deaf ears because he's not my kind of guy,to crown it up he has mouth odour..
That's a fallacy......for some people, it may be in the first few seconds while for others, it could take a whole year! Personally, i think its not possible...
Sometimes I can be attracted to a guy but on knowing guy I find out I even dislike him as in false attraction. For me it doesn't work dat way. I dey quick dislike person, God helps me to find n stick with d one meant for me.
The first 3 seconds,maybe no but the first hour works for me..there are times you just hate or like someone when you see the person for the first time but getting attached to someone would definitely take more than 3 seconds..
It happens.Just be good looking and give me a good reason to laugh,and I'm drawn to you like magnet within the few seconds I've met you. The rest depends on how well you can continue to keep me smiling. I rest my thumbs.
Absolutely not, I used to think attraction is not a concious choice. Its either she likes you or not. Foolish me. You can create attraction yourself.
Lasting attraction can be manufactured in this part of the world. Yep! Lets examine the 5 main traits of an alpha male – looks, wealth, status, fame, and game – and how each one is a choice you make:
Looks – ideas starts forming in her head, once she sees your arms, feels your strength, and touches your 6 pack. Manufactured by you. E.g "Linda always asking who among this guys would you hit?"
Wealth – sure you can call them gold diggers, but ultimately, She may ‘love’ you for your money, but does it really make a difference? Manufactured by you.
Status/Fame – (status is a subset of fame) no further explanation is required. Manufactured by you, either faked or bona fide.
Game – the attitude girls love. This is what they mean by ‘he gets me, he’s not a pushover, I like his style, he’s sweet, he’s exciting, etc’. Guess what – manufactured by you.
Although a lot of guys intuitively know this, there are still way too many who think ‘she should just like me for me in 3 sec’ and as a result take the easy path of inaction, later wondering why they can’t get any.
'Decide'? Nahhh Linda Attraction is not something you decide,its something we barely even have control over so maybe you should rephrase your question before i can answer it ;)
No i dont agree pls. D female model here made me reaffirm dat! Aaarrrgh... Also persnal experience. Kai linda, 3 seconds??? Not evn hrs or days or mths abegii
Yh dis is more like d chinese proverb dat says we're all conected by a tread on our ankles,so d attraction may not actually be physical its more like a mental attraction...talkedtoomuch okbye
attraction is not a choice at all. it totally depends on the way the guy presents himself to the lady. if he does not act like a needy and approving wussbag,if his body language and tone speaks "in control and in charge", and he teases and dialogues properly, and interestingly, then its only a matter of minutes before she cannot explain why she is helplessly attracted to the dude...
Its just attraction nt love.....there's a big difference btw attraction n love...n d problem here is dat most pple are mistaking d attraction 4 love....n yes its possible...immediately I see any fine tall dark guy...bam!! I'm attracted even in just a second...
Physical attributes in the first 5 secs and what comes out of your mouth in the first minute like your IQ etc will really determine further qualities such as character etc
I dont really agree on 3sec stuff,dont be surprise some people just find attraction bcos sex n packaging they see in someone...if the 3sec stuff is really working that means some people will have up to 10 bf or gf reason bcos there are some working environments u will always see attraction every minutes....for most girls money attract 'em and for guys packaging attract 'em....have u forget the saying "girls believe in wot they here,boys believe in wot they see that is while girls always wear makeups and boys always lies"
TRUE! a man or woman just has three hurdles. be attractive from afar, face to face and when you open your mouth but if you fail in any, just forgerrit!
YES I AGREE... I GOT ATTRACTED TO MY EX BOY FRIEND THE MOMENT I SET MY EYES ON HIM.... AND THE FEELING WAS MUTUAL :) and :) and :) I STILL LOVE HIM ";"
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Yea "most" people do......but not everyone
Not true for everybody
Nooooooooooo. That person must b a hoe
Kind of
lustfully ? oh yes!
love at fisrt sight ？ not a chance !
It is relative.
I don't agree with it please,
Nope
I disagree
yes i agree with you ma sister but ladies like forming and proving stunt
I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.
Yes!!! Even @ a sight,one should tell if he or she is attracted 2 some1...attraction comes wiv admiration... Trust me wen its comes 2 topic like diz, am a love doctor *big smile*
Physical attraction, yes. However my attraction to some people increases on closer acquaintance because of their personality. Having said that I'm female, don't know if it works the same way for guys.
Dee dee
Absolutely correct.
I agree
What do u mean by someone else?
Yeap
I agree only to a certain degree, there is a strong connection with some certain people just at first sight, but a lot other times you get to get more attracted to someone as time passes, you can hear a lot of gals tell you that they didn't really feel too attracted to their partner when they met but as time passes they get to be more enamoured of them.
Very right
I agree
Nope
Yeap
Undecided. I Ll think about it. Lol
Na lie joor.....wat abt dos whu strt wit quarrel
very true
noooooo
Yes true...later they find out if they click together or not when character comes into play.
But at first...its either you are attracted to the person or not
I do not agree
I don't agree.
Agreed
DR. FIBROID
I do
in a way, I agree that sometimes attraction is immediate But there has been some situation where I have developed attraction towards a guy over time, through talking and seeing each other regularly. However the 3 seconds rule applies sometimes but not all the time
Hmm! Dat is more than true, u dnt evn hv to b standing close to d person to feel it, n blv me all u nid is three seconds, after that u're either attracted or u aint!
Yes,lov at 1st syt jst nid 1 second
Yeah, dt so correct.
I agree
I so much agree with dis
Totally bullshit. Pretty sure this is from that fucked up twitter handle @UberFacts. Sums up all their bullshit.
Well....3 seconds is an exaggeration, more like the first 5 minutes.
its possible....but only when the person is physically attracting
Very Correct :D
I don't agree.......my wife to be swears she was not even interested in me when we first met....thus the "I don't care attitude"....more like 2 yrs later......now we here (drake's voice)
So true!! Talking from Experience..
Very true. Linda my comment
Yes I agree
Nooooo. 3secounds is too short na
Hey Linda that's me and my husband's pic you used for this post o
Yes I agree
I totally agree. The 1st time I see you is when I decide whether I can date you or not. If I'm not attracted to you the 1st time, nothing can change that. I'm shallow like that ;;)
Its very possible,,hs happened to me b4 sef!
Linda, well....psychologists have found that people respond
intuitively to faces so rapidly that our reasoning
minds may not have time to influence the reaction.
It’s almost like an involuntary shiver.
We just can’t rationalize our decision, and so we
pretend to be very intellectual and blame it our
sharp instincts. These ‘instincts’ help us choose the
friends we would be most comfortable with, and
also helps us in choosing the right mate.
You’ve obviously known there was always
something more than just good looks that attracted
you to your sweetheart, didn’t you?
Totally true!
yes i do
I don't agree.
Yup. But if you hang around long enough you may be proved wrong.
Nt really..
~D great anonymous!
Not 100% correct
Different strokes for different folks.. Sometimes,it happens,..sometimes,it doesn't.
Absolutely
Na lie jare.....#sips alomo
Somehow, not really, depends :D
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It is true, but attraction here isn't the 'want to be with you forever' kind oh! Like in 3 seconds you can decide you are attracted to a person and get to know them better. That's when dating begins, that you are attracted to a person don't mean y'all are gonna make a great couple. You could be attracted to a person and the instant they open their mouth, the attraction dies
Yep Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ course
how dis one come affect asuu strike?...mctew..
Kind of
Yes for lust, no for real love. Speaking from a boys perspective, maybe the gals would share a contrary view.lol.
I totally agree that one can be attracted to another within few minutes of meeting the person,however interaction will determine how long that attraction will last.
I don't really....
I do not agree. The attraction is called lust.
Sometimes. Other times, it takes a while to really notice someone. And even other times, the more you get to know someone, the more or less attractive they become.
Yes I agree. And If indeed I don't feel him, that date will b the first n last. And later if he insist on seeing me again. Then I ve to tell him the truth. 'I don't like u' simple.
Yea,,it true...!
Duh!!! Lol
Who cares? Of what use is an attraction that dies without leading to anything helpful?
i agree
i AGREE
Yh,na tru oo.
Yh,na tru oo.
Yes I agree
Nooo hell noo I dnt agree
Lailai. I dnt agree į̸̸̨ƭƕ it
Yeah!
Its possible, depending on the individual. Most people easily open up to strangers while some don't. I don't
I agree but only to realise over time that the first impression was only a mirage!
I totally agree but looks are deceptive though!!
NO cos you can actually meet the person at his/her good or bad mood at that moment.
sure i agree,,,, works 4 me,, like i no am not attracted to you immediately you open ur mouth to respond to ma greeting and i perceive some disturbing smell<< yea its true
AM A TYPICAL EXAMPLE OH! Pls abeg ...I am a virgin and I don't want to cheat so I think I deserve to feel someone that will make me not to look outside in terms of attraction and besides If I have waited for 31 yrs of my life despite the fact that I meet loads of chics who will never believe my story , I can't blow it with a worrisome person oh! GOD HAVE MERCY ON ME...
Very true, if I'm not attracted to someone in the first few seconds that's it but there are always a few exceptions.
Yes,I agree. Is possible ###
Yea I agree,
It is true.
sure i agree works for me\,,, i no am not attractive to you when you respond to ma greeting with your mouth giving out some disturbing odour
Not really!
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Yes cos it actually happened to me,a friend actually told me lot of things about a guy who she actually wanted me to meet,so happy that I didn't go to jsk to pick him wen he arrived NY,they actually came to my house was so disappointed when she brought dis dude to my apartment,omg!was very angry my friend noticed it,all what d guy said to me which I can't even remember all went into my deaf ears because he's not my kind of guy,to crown it up he has mouth odour..
yes very true
3secs??? That's just;tick,tick,tick!! Hmmm_i need 2 now consciously check how many seconds it takes me 2 get attracted 2 a guy!!
Na lie joor
like hell yeah<< if i sed hello to you and your breath isn't presentable<< i immediately get attracted to some1 else
I agree, it happened to me.
Smith the bini gangster go know in a moment
This girls mouth na die!!!
Its possible.....
7minutes is more like it. It was all a fairy tale until he smiled. Worst case of flouresces ever! Such a waste smh
Don't agree
Itz possible
Yes I do. It happens I have seen
situations like that
Sure,but most of the time ladies always get lost within seconds when they see a very handsome guy
I do not agree.
Every man or woman knows what he or she wants,within a blink of an eye it done,for me not the skiny type displayed!!!
Its true if it is attraction, we are always attracted to people of our likes, its just dat people dis days mistake attraction for love.
yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person
absolutely, 2 seconds actually...
Its a lie!!!
yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person
Come again pls
yea dats ryt agree wiv dat @lst i cn count masef as 1 n i knw sum1 irritates me within 1sec of meetin dat person
Its true.....the moment u set ur eyes on someone u r attracted to u just click and otherwise
Yea sure
True,its just attraction naau,notin more notin less
Yep!agreed
I agree. The sec my partner walked into the lift where I worked, I knew he was the one. It's been almost 10 years and we are still like young lovers.
I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ me lucky say so. I agree wit dat u can fall in love wit some in 1 second so I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊. True don't dournd about it. First τ̅☺ comment
That's a fallacy......for some people, it may be in the first few seconds while for others, it could take a whole year! Personally, i think its not possible...
Yes o.. My instincts don't fail me..
See this one igbo face, teeth full everywere....hissss!
defooooooos mate!!!
yes i agree but i need 30 sec
yep
Not really. U actually need more time
Not really, it takes a bit longer than that
Yes I agree,as for me,I kw if am attracted or not within meeting d person.......lovi says so!
I certainly agree a connection occurs within d first few seconds of u meeting a person nd is a determinant if or nt u wana meet them again.
And thats why dey fall apart in no time...True love is gradual...there shld be a place of deep knowing..(character,likes n dislikes)
3 seconds? Nah. First date is okay *ThatFunctionGuy*
Yes it is true in some cases with women and men but I guess it is more of a feminine thing.
Yes ofcoz she is ok
Yes it is true , I guess the 3second time span is more of a feminine thing.
Yes it is true in some cases with women and men but I guess it is more of a feminine thing.
Nope, not true at all
ohhhh yes I totally agree...... the first day I saw my husband I was attracted to him immediately
Dunno
I don't agree abeg
3sec? errrrm mine is 1st sec. tho on few occassions, u get 2 appreciate some1 on 2nd meeting sef. but dis 1st meeting/sec attraction is always intense
Totally true linda....
SAINT....
Sometimes I can be attracted to a guy but on knowing guy I find out I even dislike him as in false attraction. For me it doesn't work dat way. I dey quick dislike person, God helps me to find n stick with d one meant for me.
Not true... Are u psychic to know that...well to me its not true..
It depends. But not dis skeleton up there oooo.
The first 3 seconds,maybe no but the first hour works for me..there are times you just hate or like someone when you see the person for the first time but getting attached to someone would definitely take more than 3 seconds..
It happens.Just be good looking and give me a good reason to laugh,and I'm drawn to you like magnet within the few seconds I've met you. The rest depends on how well you can continue to keep me smiling. I rest my thumbs.
Yes,it's an Instinct factor,but d situation may change as a result of positive or negative varia bles
Ya I agree
Yep it happen when I first saw u linda
Absolutely not, I used to think attraction is not a concious choice. Its either she likes you or not. Foolish me. You can create attraction yourself.
Lasting attraction can be manufactured in this part of the world. Yep! Lets examine the 5 main traits of an alpha male – looks, wealth, status, fame, and game – and how each one is a choice you make:
Looks – ideas starts forming in her head, once she sees your arms, feels your strength, and touches your 6 pack. Manufactured by you. E.g "Linda always asking who among this guys would you hit?"
Wealth – sure you can call them gold diggers, but ultimately, She may ‘love’ you for your money, but does it really make a difference? Manufactured by you.
Status/Fame – (status is a subset of fame) no further explanation is required. Manufactured by you, either faked or bona fide.
Game – the attitude girls love. This is what they mean by ‘he gets me, he’s not a pushover, I like his style, he’s sweet, he’s exciting, etc’. Guess what – manufactured by you.
Although a lot of guys intuitively know this, there are still way too many who think ‘she should just like me for me in 3 sec’ and as a result take the easy path of inaction, later wondering why they can’t get any.
'Decide'? Nahhh Linda Attraction is not something you decide,its something we barely even have control over so maybe you should rephrase your question before i can answer it ;)
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Very True......*speaking for myself though#
Its called "the lemon law". Its true! I believe it!
Err I think it will take a little more than that to decide
Yes I agree cus d second I saw dat girl's face @above I knew I was not attracted to her!
Well its possible 4 white pple,nt my niger ppl lai lai.
YES!I fink sooooooo!
Attraction kee. For most Nigerian girls, money is the attraction.
Yes, same tin happened to my GF n I
Linda my attraction 2 u was less than 3 second, so I do not agree. Last 2 comment, no more comment after mine.
No i dont agree pls. D female model here made me reaffirm dat! Aaarrrgh... Also persnal experience. Kai linda, 3 seconds??? Not evn hrs or days or mths abegii
ƔξA̶̲̥̅ђ I̶̲̥̅̊ do agree.....u cn get attracted by Ƌ single smile.
Yh dis is more like d chinese proverb dat says we're all conected by a tread on our ankles,so d attraction may not actually be physical its more like a mental attraction...talkedtoomuch okbye
#jstsayin
I agree
As 4 me,I'm attracted to d guys luks 1st, den wen I talk to him,then I knw if He's my kind of psn or not.
attraction is not a choice at all. it totally depends on the way the guy presents himself to the lady. if he does not act like a needy and approving wussbag,if his body language and tone speaks "in control and in charge", and he teases and dialogues properly, and interestingly, then its only a matter of minutes before she cannot explain why she is helplessly attracted to the dude...
Exactly!
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Its just attraction nt love.....there's a big difference btw attraction n love...n d problem here is dat most pple are mistaking d attraction 4 love....n yes its possible...immediately I see any fine tall dark guy...bam!! I'm attracted even in just a second...
N ure a goat! Pls sensible post jawe
Sometimes It does happen but ova time a change of decision can be made if he or she did not me ya expectation.
Physical attributes in the first 5 secs and what comes out of your mouth in the first minute like your IQ etc will really determine further qualities such as character etc
We are talking abt attraction hre,not love ok? So yes pls
True,my tots exactly.
yes it happen to me
I dont really agree on 3sec stuff,dont be surprise some people just find attraction bcos sex n packaging they see in someone...if the 3sec stuff is really working that means some people will have up to 10 bf or gf reason bcos there are some working environments u will always see attraction every minutes....for most girls money attract 'em and for guys packaging attract 'em....have u forget the saying "girls believe in wot they here,boys believe in wot they see that is while girls always wear makeups and boys always lies"
CeCe.....
you actually know at times buh i blive it as you further continue you be sure
i agree
It is not always the case. Something must be exceptional about that person for me to be attracted to such a person within three seconds.
I do not agree, our mind plays tricks on us so we think we are attracted to the person,after you get to know the person you see its all different.
You are a cow!!!
TRUE! a man or woman just has three hurdles. be attractive from afar, face to face and when you open your mouth but if you fail in any, just forgerrit!
Hmm
I agree
I agree
I believe u @annon 11:19
I strongly think 3 secs is not enough to determine it ooooo.
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YES I AGREE... I GOT ATTRACTED TO MY EX BOY FRIEND THE MOMENT I SET MY EYES ON HIM.... AND THE FEELING WAS MUTUAL :) and :) and :) I STILL LOVE HIM ";"
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