Please I need your help, I got married in June but before I
got married to my now wife, I had a fling with a girl I met in South
Africa when I went for a vacation in South Africa, now she called me to
say she's pregnant and she's blackmailing me threatening my marriage, I
don't know what to do, I don't know if I should tell my wife cause the
lady in South Africa said if I don't pay her some amount of money that
she's going to tell my wife. Please advise on what to do
Sorry for your life and mentality, the next one will find your village, a child is involved and all you have to say is go off social media!!!! Anu To the writer please, all marriages have challenges, maybe this is your wife first cross, do open up to her, ask for forgiveness, theor might also be a chance the south Africa girl baby isn't yours, what's the assurance she didn't sleep with other men but bcs u kept in contact with her, u r her safe board? Well all in all, learn how to zip up, it pays. Cheerio
Please no vex oo...which kind of stupid threat is that one ....did she snap while both of you were making love? i am going to deny the bastard .Ara ona agba ya. After she has taken in for one cracked head in SA that cant take care of her unborn child she has decided to turn to you thinking you can foot her bills... my brother just go ahead and enjoy your wife and marriage.that girl can not do feeem!
Dis broda na real ozuwo Straffing nekede for SA of all places mshewww anyways she fit no get belle buh just wants to get moni out of u stay off social media for awhile till dis whole thing goes under and tell ur wife abt it and ask for forgiveness. Oh and one more thing to and get tested of any yumu yumu make u no use ur reggae spoil ur wife blues
Eyahh you have to tell her because the truth will come out someday and something with these blackmailers is that they never stop.After giving her money today,she'll come back for more when it's exhausted knowing that she has something that she has something against you.
Oh dear....sorry you fell a victim but be a man. Do not involve any other person into this matter...You know your wife and her weak points..tell her how it happened and promise her in all ways it will never repeat itself again...paying that lady off is totally out of it...May God help you.
please let your wife know before you loose your marriage because the mistake has been done and you cant do anything about it please let her know if you really love her
please let your wife know before you loose your marriage because the mistake has been done and you cant do anything about it please let her know if you really love her
Tell ur wife, I tink dats why u married her, she shld understnd thou it's not easy but she is ur wife, u better tell before d South African lady tell her.. I heard dat most South African ladies re so diabolic dats why most poeple guys impregnant witout their wish...
dont be afraid and chicken-hearted dont ever tell ur wife anything and nothing will happen but if she tries it deny it. tell her to do DNA test if she doubts you.
You said it happened before u got married not after so open up. Shit happens from time to time. If she loves u enough, she'll join hands with u to settle it. The very worst u will do now is to keep mute so don't even go there. Good luck.
DEFINITELY DAT PREGNANCE IT A LIE I DON'T SEE REASON A LADY WOULD BE PREGNANT 4 A GUYS ND BE DEMANDING 4 MONEY, IN EXCHANGE NOT TELL UR WIFE DEFINITELY IT A BIG LIAR, MY DEAR U SHOULD HAVE UNDERSTOOD UR WIFE BY NOW D BEST IS TO SEAT HER DOWN ND TELL HER D WHOLE TRUTH COS IF U GIVE DAT GARL D MONEY SHE IS DEMANDING 4,4 SURE SHE WILL RETURN BACK 4 MORE WEN DAT 1 FINISHES.
So he should abandon a child. Dis is not just abt cheating theres an innocent child. Pls if u listen to this advise u'll just rain curses FROM GOD on ur head.
The fling was b4 u got married. Just explain and spend d rest of ur life making it up to her & making her trust u again. Or u can hide till ur able to do a dna test after d child comes out. It will be worse then if its ur child cos ur wife will wonder when u knew.
i don't know why our men are always like this...this is what i call Nemesis....Why cheat on your wife at first? as yoruba dey take talk am "ma se ni ogun ma mo" interpretation "if you haven't done something bad, then there is no need for confession". all the same. Pray before talking to your wife about it, be fair and detailed, learn from your mistake and repent from it. she ke na. as for your SA girl, when she know you are not afraid of any blackmail, she will stop bothering you cos you are not even sure there's any pregy. delete her from all your socials and bar her number from your phone
How we wan take know say ur own case na lie? Cos ur comment sef shows ur head don knock #NotRude... thanks for the good laugh tho cos I really laughed. Back to the matter....oga u have to tell ur wife straight up. Since it happened before u got married, chances of her not breaking ur head is there. She will definitely calm down with time. And is better u tell her urself than she getting it from the crazy SA woman cos she may not present it well with the right words.
Don't tell ur wife yet, tell d girl that you have told your wife about the blackmail, that besides you and ur wife knows she's not pregnant and you have decided not to give her a cent. Then de-activate ur fb and ur wife's own too... tell her to kp off social media for nw and focus on her marriage. That's my one cent.
if you have been faithful to your wife since your marriage, i think you should tell her though it is not easy but try everything possible to make her understand.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 253 of 253Sorry for your life and mentality, the next one will find your village, a child is involved and all you have to say is go off social media!!!! Anu
To the writer please, all marriages have challenges, maybe this is your wife first cross, do open up to her, ask for forgiveness, theor might also be a chance the south Africa girl baby isn't yours, what's the assurance she didn't sleep with other men but bcs u kept in contact with her, u r her safe board? Well all in all, learn how to zip up, it pays. Cheerio
Your a fool....
please tell your wife and ask for her forgiveness .its a tough one but our father in heaven would take charge ....u too sip up.
Tell your wife ooooo...it would be worse if she does
Please no vex oo...which kind of stupid threat is that one ....did she snap while both of you were making love? i am going to deny the bastard .Ara ona agba ya. After she has taken in for one cracked head in SA that cant take care of her unborn child she has decided to turn to you thinking you can foot her bills... my brother just go ahead and enjoy your wife and marriage.that girl can not do feeem!
Dis broda na real ozuwo Straffing nekede for SA of all places mshewww anyways she fit no get belle buh just wants to get moni out of u stay off social media for awhile till dis whole thing goes under and tell ur wife abt it and ask for forgiveness. Oh and one more thing to and get tested of any yumu yumu make u no use ur reggae spoil ur wife blues
sounds like my sister's story. pls tell her now, it turned out the girl abt to blackmail him wasn't pregnant afterall
Eyahh you have to tell her because the truth will come out someday and something with these blackmailers is that they never stop.After giving her money today,she'll come back for more when it's exhausted knowing that she has something that she has something against you.
How are you even sure she's pregnant.
Go off Social Media and find a way to make her not to have access to ur Wife.
tell ur wife, plead with her.men and infidelity hmmm if it a woman that those it now the whole world will hear about it, hmmmm it ia well
True, SA has a high rate of HIV patients
It happened before marriage but it happened when he was dating his wife probably even engaged... No matter how we wan take analyze am, it's all wrong
Oh dear....sorry you fell a victim but be a man. Do not involve any other person into this matter...You know your wife and her weak points..tell her how it happened and promise her in all ways it will never repeat itself again...paying that lady off is totally out of it...May God help you.
please let your wife know before you loose your marriage because the mistake has been done and you cant do anything about it please let her know if you really love her
please let your wife know before you loose your marriage because the mistake has been done and you cant do anything about it please let her know if you really love her
story story! Mr. Songz pls play me Raggae blues joor
story story! Mr. Songz pls play me Raggae blues joor
my brother. let your wife hear it from you than from her because it wont be good atall. so jst summon the courage and let fear out of it
my brother. let your wife hear it from you than from her because it wont be good atall. so jst summon the courage and let fear out of it
Tell ur wife, I tink dats why u married her, she shld understnd thou it's not easy but she is ur wife, u better tell before d South African lady tell her.. I heard dat most South African ladies re so diabolic dats why most poeple guys impregnant witout their wish...
Sure say na lie?
U sure say na lie?
dont be afraid and chicken-hearted dont ever tell ur wife anything and nothing will happen but if she tries it deny it. tell her to do DNA test if she doubts you.
Are U sure U'r fine ds anonymous? Read again
Ur last statement is stupid
Oga tell ur Wife, is better she learns about the truth now later might be late. I don talk my own.
You said it happened before u got married not after so open up. Shit happens from time to time. If she loves u enough, she'll join hands with u to settle it. The very worst u will do now is to keep mute so don't even go there. Good luck.
DEFINITELY DAT PREGNANCE IT A LIE I DON'T SEE REASON A LADY WOULD BE PREGNANT 4 A GUYS ND BE DEMANDING 4 MONEY, IN EXCHANGE NOT TELL UR WIFE DEFINITELY IT A BIG LIAR, MY DEAR U SHOULD HAVE UNDERSTOOD UR WIFE BY NOW D BEST IS TO SEAT HER DOWN ND TELL HER D WHOLE TRUTH COS IF U GIVE DAT GARL D MONEY SHE IS DEMANDING 4,4 SURE SHE WILL RETURN BACK 4 MORE WEN DAT 1 FINISHES.
you did not seek for advice b4 having a fling with a woman in S/A!! SHA TELL YOUR WIFE!........#Flee Fornication una no go hear!
So he should abandon a child. Dis is not just abt cheating theres an innocent child. Pls if u listen to this advise u'll just rain curses FROM GOD on ur head.
The fling was b4 u got married. Just explain and spend d rest of ur life making it up to her & making her trust u again. Or u can hide till ur able to do a dna test after d child comes out. It will be worse then if its ur child cos ur wife will wonder when u knew.
Tell your wife. This is Naija. There's not much harm a broke SA bitch can cause
Besides if your wife leaves you, you can move on to the SA idi nla nla but not the blackmailing type
Get yoself a new beech
Nyc one of amide
Oga open up to your wife before its too late....
Tell your wife
I dont think she is really pregnant but still tell your wife abt it
i don't know why our men are always like this...this is what i call Nemesis....Why cheat on your wife at first? as yoruba dey take talk am "ma se ni ogun ma mo" interpretation "if you haven't done something bad, then there is no need for confession". all the same. Pray before talking to your wife about it, be fair and detailed, learn from your mistake and repent from it. she ke na. as for your SA girl, when she know you are not afraid of any blackmail, she will stop bothering you cos you are not even sure there's any pregy. delete her from all your socials and bar her number from your phone
Oga na scam! SA girls r used to do this same thing. Tell ur wife n wait. U will see d SA can't do anymore jack!
Omg this is hilarious. Best advice for u sir #Go back in time and use condom. Naija men and their callous and infidelity is over d roof. Mad man
blackmailers neva stops
u had a fling with a girl and you still kept in touch? na you know the ting you dey find. some men are so useless
How we wan take know say ur own case na lie? Cos ur comment sef shows ur head don knock #NotRude... thanks for the good laugh tho cos I really laughed. Back to the matter....oga u have to tell ur wife straight up. Since it happened before u got married, chances of her not breaking ur head is there. She will definitely calm down with time. And is better u tell her urself than she getting it from the crazy SA woman cos she may not present it well with the right words.
u had a fling with a girl and you still kept in touch? na you know the ting you dey find. some men are so useless
U just gotta tell your wife man. This kinda of thing shouldn't be kept secret cuz one day its gonna be revealed
Don't tell ur wife yet, tell d girl that you have told your wife about the blackmail, that besides you and ur wife knows she's not pregnant and you have decided not to give her a cent. Then de-activate ur fb and ur wife's own too... tell her to kp off social media for nw and focus on her marriage. That's my one cent.
Abi oh he didn't even have respect for his wife
The best advice on this matter
Best advice on this matter
Yet younger ones wouldn't learn from this.
U no see cd? Good for u. U these men that ll meet a woman n do it raw. Una no dey fear HIV.
Simple!
Is true, tell your wife first
its a blackmail, she aint pregnant.
if you have been faithful to your wife since your marriage, i think you should tell her though it is not easy but try everything possible to make her understand.
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