Married LIB women, be anonymous and answer as sincere as you can. If you came back to this world again, would you want to marry the man you are married to now or you'll ask God for someone else?
If men are privileged to answer, YES!!! I will marry my wife in the next world and another cos she is irreplaceable. I think am the luckiest man on earth. Wondered was she was thinking when she married an incomplete me and sorry to all her exes cos they were fools and that's to my own advantage...
I'll def want to marry my husband over and over and over again! Not cos he is perfect but cos he treats me in the most perfect way any man can possibly treat his wife and I haven't seen any husband treat his wife better than the way mine treats me! Love u Mr Trevorberg!
I think I would. Sincerely he has his faults, a lot of them for that matter but on the whole he is highly responsible, loves our children to death and provides for me generously. He also doesn't cheat on me openly and is nice to my family.
Married Or Not... You Should Read This Husband's Story
When I got home that night my wife served dinner. I held her hand and said, "I've got something to tell you." She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking
my husband is the worst mistake I have made in my life. right now I am only believing God for a turn around in my marriage. I am emotionally frustrated.
4 sure, bkos everytin is nt abt money, beauty, or tinx of d world, yes we dnt hv dem, bt peace of mind and happiness is wat God gave to me as husbnd, so in my next world my husbnd wil b my husbnd again
With all his flaws, I would pick my hubby again and again. Trust him with my life! Wish he were a bit more romantic since i like all that mushy stuff, but he is my true love, would not trade him for anything. #13years and counting...
Truth be told, sometimes i wish . ßut then that very one you are asking for, how sure are you that its better than the one you have. Bottomline, i keep asking Ɠ♡D to make him and i a better person.
I won't want my mother to marry my dad again, although am grateful to God for how far he has brought my family despite everything we've been through, but I think she deserves better, if possible, the best.
Another!!!!!!!!! I love my husband like crazy but he has hurt me more than anyone ever has. I don't know of the future, but from what I've seen so far, I would want to be with another.
When you put God ist and choose well, there would be no regrets...but even at that, you don't need to be afraid as God can still calm whatever situation your marriage is in now..just tell it to him in prayers. It is well. Isah 43:19. @Bishop_Dammy
hai chai even if he is as bad as he is...am sure with the lessons that he has made me learnt im ok with that.noone is perfect o!man are the same ,ive learnt painful lessons in my 10 years of marriage.
I'll definitely marry my hubby again. Am feel blessed, am from Benue and I got married to a yoruba Man. Some of them are really gud. Thank God for my hubby.
No i wont. He is a horrible cheat who plays husband and daddy perfectly to the outside world but ive been disgraced so many times with the cheating both caught and almost caught, that i wont pray to marry a man like him again. Too late now though. 5kids involved
I would marry no other than my husband. He is a wonderful husband and a great father to our kids. Granted, we do have our difference but I will do it all over again.
I love him. I just love him. It doesn't matter what he's doing, what he has done, or what he's going to do. I just want my husband over and over and over and over again. Funny enough, I'm just realising this as I'm typing now.
Yes o, I will marry my husband over n over again, he is d best thing that ever happened to me. Ten solid years, n we re waxing stronger in marriage, thank You Lord. Mrs O.A
There is no next world,if you can't work it out here on earth,there is no second life and no marriage in heaven,after death is judgment lindy take note**EMZEALLOUS**
I'll never marry him again. I've almost died of heart attack for the past seven years together. Always cheating on me. Even caught him red handed with my sister. I won't oo.
Linda this one hard..... I love my husband but there are somethings i really will not want to experience in marriage again if there is another life. He got no passion, he's not romantic, worst he doesn't like SEX, is not like am SEX freak too anyways but his, is to the extreme. we can stay for 4mouths without SEX and believe me he's not cheating on me with anybody am sure of that. i am Educated, classy and sophisticated so don't say maybe is because of me. recently i almost slept with another man ALMOST. so you see, what do you think i would do if there's another life, will it be with this same guy? God help me. and YES! we are Christians.
Yes dear, i'll stick with him though we dont agree @ all time, n sumtimes i wish i was wit anoda oda dan him, bt he's got his excellent part too. Unless i dont get 2 meet him in ma nxt world den, i'll marry anoda man.
Linda haven't u heard about the shooting rampage going on at a magazine house in paris right now because "muslim leaders" were mocked? Islam is so evil. Report this and thank me later
I would definitely ask for my man again oo. He is just too good a person and Godly too. Yes he is not perfect we v our arguments but hez my perfect fit.
Yes, I will. Over and over again. I could not ask for a better friend/life companion. Even with my Benin craze, he's still very patient and understanding and very respectful.
Linda, i'll marry my husband over and over and over again. Apart from my kids he's d best thing that's ever happened to me. I can go on and on. I just can't ask for more. Word can't describe how much i love him. He still adores me despite how long we've bn together.
Sincerely.. 60 percent of 3-4yr marriages mite say yes.. dis should be directed to marriages old enough.. but one thing am definitely sure of is ' a devil u've known for long is better than an angel u've just met.. I rule domestic violence on this.. pple change and marriages need GOD to last long
Will marry him forever! We both have our faults but the ability to make amends and carry on superseeds all. To crown it all he has consience! The worst thing that can happen to anyone is to marry bad person! God help the singles!*wink* #noNeedOfAnonynous#
So scared with all the answers i'm reading here...God help us all o, i always tot marriage was all sweet n rosy but dis picture is different. I look forward to being married but am beginning to rethink o
I am not married or even in a relationship, but my prayer to God has always been that He blesses me with a husband, that even if I come back onto this earth a million times and more, he will be the same man I choose over and over and over again, without a moment's hesitation. Amen!
Abeg i will marry him over and over again. He treats me well even though he is not mega rich (I surely believe we will get there soon). And of cos, the angel i know is far better than the devil i do not know.
So its safe to say a lot of women are happy with their hubbys but wishes he was filthy rich. Does it occur to you that maybe when he comes into a lot of money, he will be a changed man and wont show you the love he is sjowing now. Yorubas say dupe ti e meaning be thankful forcwhst you have
I sure will marry my husband again. We have been together 6years and I thank God each day for being so blessed. He is a fantastic man! Mind you we don't have it rosy all the time ,been through some not so good situations like losing a child, being broke but we came back even stronger! We have been praying together everyday since we met and on the phone, if either of us is out of the country. I want to spend my whole life with him and another life...
With d way u display ur nude pics, are u sure any man will take u seriously. I guess u just hav to be ready to hate more men with deeper passion. Arrant nonsense!
Well ,I will definitely marry him again for many reasons.he is supportive,caring n loves our kids but I wuld want him to more romantic,never allow family make decision for him (mum's boy ) And be very rich like dangote aldoh we aint poor either. I want him very rich .
I don't need to be anonymous to answer this question. I myself personally with all my heart deeply appreciate Linda for this opportunity to express what I really feel for my husband. Before God and man I ave been in a relationship with my husband for five years now and we av been married for three years now. God is yet to visit us with d fruit of the womb this 2015 and it won't pass this year. I can boldly say I av never n will never regret being joined to dis man . if given a chance in my next life I will choose Samuel.That man is a man I respect so much and adore with all my heart he knows he is the best thing that has ever happen to me. And so dose every other husband out dere to their wife. If only we know our role as a help meet we will never regret whom we fell in love with. I love my husband and he loves me I don't care about anyone's opinion about him. I don't even want him to add or subtract from wat he is. I rest ma case. Next
Been married for 11 years now.And I will n would choose my man over n over again becos he no gt naija mentality. If we had being married in Nigeria would the story had been different? I can't tell.
Hmmm, not sure if I would, he is a good man, just that we don't really click, he is not romantic, sex is a blur..tried and tried to communicate my feelings not sure if he cares about it. So most times I feel lonely. But he is a very good man, kind at least..so the bad and good is almost the same weight. I will probably want to try another guy jare...
If i don't see a better another, I will remain single. It is better. Sex Zero, Luv is dead, money Zero even if he get he no go give me, God he no know, family controls him as they like. If not for my families name, I for don run abeg. I de bondage no be marriage.
I'LL DEFINATELY MARRY HIM OVER AND OVER, HIS SINCERE, LOVING, GOD FEARING,he's a wonderful dad, very understanding,i'll just pray his bank account would be FATTER heheheehehehehe
Dear Linda, I'm not saying this to be politically correct but I've been married for 16 years. My husband is the most wonderful man on earth. Don't get me wrong, he can be a little coo-coo, but he allows me to be the woman I was born to be. He encourages and supports me in every possible way, He's a great father to our kids and my true best friend. Even though sometimes I feel like killing him, I wont change him for another.
Funny question,but truthfully,I would marry my husband over and over and over again,he is not made in heaven ,I have suspected him of having side chicks,sex with him is just ok,I married him as virgin 18years ago with 4 beautiful children,,but I believe there is nobody in this world that can love and take careof me as much as he does,that's enough for me,he shows me so much respect,he is doing very well and so am I,but he still does everything for me,I have challenges health wise,I have had 10surgeries in the uk,I have had to travel every 3 months to the uk in the last 4years to see my doctor and he is still not tired and neither does he complain,I come from a very wealthy home but I never ask for anything,,I can afford to do something' but he says no need,so I just save my money my 17yr old twins are presently in the University in the uk,the last 2 are here with me,my husband is most definitely not a saint but he is my saint,my lover,my friend and I'd marry him over and over again,am the most troublesome human being ever ,I just love looking for trouble,I wonder how he keeps up with me.(I never ever comment on your blog)I just had to.
Even tho a part of me truly love him and even with all av been faithful to him, I will still pray for another man.. Evry nite I cry alone in my pillow, we dnt even share dsame room, he spends more time with his frnds then with his family. I feel more alone all d tym cos we hardly talk, I feel like we r Jst flatmates, we have sex like once or twice in a month(if am lucky). I keep believing God for tins to Charge (and to think I get new admirers anytym I step out even my kid shows am nt dt bad)
Yes I will! No one is perfect and no relationship is perfect. For me I have accepted his flaws and know how to work around the things about him that annoy me. I'm sure he does the same with me. We have an imperfect marriage which 5 years after, I am happy in.
No. Not because I don't love him or vice versa cos there is no difference btw them all. But I will like to marry another for variety and experience sake.
Dear Linda I will marry my husband over and over again,the love of my life,a wonderful father to my kids,everyday just seems as though we just got married and it's seven years of marriage, four years of courtship. I couldn't have asked God for a better person,he is my other half,my soul mate. If this is what marriage really is then I wonder why some people are getting divorced.lols
No, I do love him but the pain I've been through isn't worth it,i would not wish it on anyone,people may judge all they want but i'v been 'planning' my escape,as soon as I've saved up enough money i'm gone,i sincerely thank God we don't have children as that would have made separation v messy,my story is nothing new the only difference is i'm not going to sacrifice my peace of mind in the name of marriage,it's not worth it. I've been saving up to rent a new house,my money should be complete by Mar/April (I've already priced my rent in the area I want) I've hired a lawyer who will file while i'm in UK,I will wait until he's gone on one of his many trips & pack out of this God forsaken house,will disappear to London for about 3 months,i don't want a kobo of his money,all I have been through I leave to God to judge for He says vengeance is mine and start a new life, a better life a happy life. I have to thank God for my family who have stood by me through it all,i would not have the courage to save myself if not for their unwavering support,women no matter how much money a man has,without peace of mind in that relationship you are poor,2015 is my hear,bet on that!
Hell to the No! I wont marry him again.Infact I am looking for a way out. I can dash him out sef. Stingy,Pompous ,Manipulative Sadist. all shades of useless.He pretended during our courtship.
Wow! Dis is not good for d well-being of ur marriage. I hav to commend u for ur show of discipline. Many women would hav used dat as an excuse to cheat. Pls try talk to him about dis as passionately as u can. Also try tell him how much u luv his love-making. Am a man and I know how much psychological boost it gives to a man. Lastly, tell it to God. It's well.
No, i won't marry him, I will marry me ex, who went back to his wife or my other ex a German. Maybe when we start living together, I might say otherwise but this oversea marriage is killing me. My hubby love making money, his business more than anything. He can just leave for 2years not minding I have to be banged to get pregnant. I can't get pregnant over the phone now,just one 3wks in 2013, 2wks in 2014, and I don't have my papers yet. But I still like him though he can't go down like my German but in others he is very good.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
Wish I was married so I would knw wat to say. Lol. God pls give me a man after ur heart and prosper him beyond words. Dear future husband I love u and God bless u forever.
My husband is d biggest mistake of my life...i wake up wiv hate in my heart 4 him..i regret d day i met him n id def leave him..i pray not to even set my eyes on him in my nxt life
D most u should seek and do is to accept and love him for who and wht he is devoid of any conditions attached.
When u got married to him u became one wit him in soul, spirit and body.
He is and u r d other half of each other of which witout each other u r not complete.
Put dis to practce pls and u wil find out dat he is all u got in d world dear.
I am saying dis frm practical experience in marriage. Marriage is d sweetest tin in d world.
If u learn to accept and love ur partner whole heartedly and see him d way u see ursef aand say positive tin's abt him, dis wil ave way for greatness and oneness in ur marriage.
I see u mak d difference in ur man life and going places above ur expectations in ur marriage IJN.
Not sure if any man will understand and tolerate my excesses like my husband.He is God fearing and always eager to please me.My husband is a package of all i want in my Man.So,i say YES YES YES i wil marry him a thousand time more. Lov u forever Mr Peter Egba
There is no marriage in the next world, the bible says. Linda, I will advice you to marry a man that loves God so much and you can go to sleep and wake up peacefully:
1) He genuinely loves God so much 2) He loves me too unconditionally(there are times I av shown 'tantrums' gidigidi & his love din't change) 3) He respects me at home and in d public 4) He is soooooo caring, not only to me, but to everyone around. 5) He has a good listening ear(no matter how boring or irrelevant what I'm saying). 6) He is very patient with me(he doesn't get angry at me, but tells me his mind) 7) He understands me so well more than anyone 8) He walks with God faithfully, EVERYday since I've known him 9) He knows where he is going; he has vision and direction for his life and our home 10) He is passionate in all he does 11) He nurtures and feed me with God's word, making me grow in my walk with God. The guy is deep! 12) He makes me feel special, like I am presently worth more than I know(and he says it too) 13) He's a poet; he writes me poem and makes me feel loved 14) He's very open, transparent and honest, nothing to hide 15) He encourages me when I'm down or not 16) He is VERY VERY humble-d most humble person I ever knew(*after him is my mum) 17) He's sensitive to me and what's happening to me 18) He has a STRONG faith in God. I love his faith, it works miracles! It challenges me to trust God more 19) He's very generous 20) He's trustworthy and dependable
21) He helps out in d house, with constant, unwavering moral support and can do dishes like! He takes good care of our son too. 22) He asks for my opinion and carries me along before making any decision(personal, business, home-wise, financial). 23) My husband doesn't take my cooking for granted. He sees it as an honour that God will bestow someone to cook for him. He doesn't stress me as to what he wants to eat, some nights he has had to eat toast bread, sometimes noodles, other times garri and groundnut, when I'v had a long day and too tired to cook. He commends d food and if I ask for feedback(knowing dat salt dey too much, he'll say 'it will be nicer if d salt was just reduced a little',ℓ☺ℓ) 24) He says I av potentials in me that are waiting to be unlocked(I no know dem oooo). That I will fulfill my God-given purpose and he'll help me realise those potentials and be all God wants me to be(Amen in Jesus name!) 25) Apart from being sensitive to me, he's so sensitive to God's Spirit. There are nights when he's woken up to pray, woke me up and prayed with me. 26) He can pray! He talks to God in a personal way(how do I describe this ooo?). He prays for me too. We cultivated the habit of praying over d fone EVERYday during our courtship days. 27) Lastly, that man is wise and intelligent. He knows how to handle life issues and human relations in his humble way(of cos, he has God's Spirit in him & he's a life coach). Lemme share a very recent story with u... A friend said something to me that got me annoyed and we(my friend and I) chatted back and forth about it on BB, while I was seriously venting my anger at her about what she said not nice and all. When I told my husband, he wasn't happy about d exchange and said that next time when anybody annoys me, I should call him on d fone(if he's not around) and vent my anger on him. As in telling him of what d person did and how unacceptable that was. He said that by d time I'm done, I'd av shifted attention off d person that hurt me(and of cos he'd av 'soothed' me), I'll no longer be hurt, and that way I will follow peace with all men. Guess what? It works!!!(Try it too!). Thus, that will let me add: 28) He's a peaceful person, never raises his voice at me. Never fought ANYone in all d 6 years I've known him. Never!
I have 2 more to add, but I ain't sharing them. Hahaha
Hmnnn...does he av weaknesses? Of cos he does! I get angry at him nau. He's a human being!!! 2 that I'm aware of, but it's really petty if u hear it, so don't lemme tell u#smiling#
Cindy. P.S I still hope to meet you Linda this year, this one you no gree invite me for the BB passport meeting *smiles*
I`ll been with my husband for 22 years and I´ve been married for like 20 years. We have 3 adorable kids together. He´s still the same these pasts years and I loved him dearly. I will definitely want to marry him again no question about it. Our love is like that of Hollywood love stories. He´s a great husband, fantastic father and the love of my life. Honey thanks for all these wonderful years and I love you.
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1 – 200 of 417 Newer› Newest»Noooo! Sigh. My people never rush into marriage just cos u crazy about that person. Pray alot too
Lemme stroll away since am single
Hahahahahahah, dem no go gree talk true o, when half marry by chance or cod no other guy steps up
So why can't they divorce?
Maintain this one oooo
Hehehehe watch as they all go anonymous.
*sipping my Viju milk as comments roll on*
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Yh yh yh, 3years might be short nw but he has been d best! All d blessings that come with marriage abide with us. I married my man
I would ask God 4 sum1 else....sincerely
I will ask God for someelse, cos my husband has a terrible temper and can never apologize even when he is wrong
If men are privileged to answer, YES!!! I will marry my wife in the next world and another cos she is irreplaceable. I think am the luckiest man on earth. Wondered was she was thinking when she married an incomplete me and sorry to all her exes cos they were fools and that's to my own advantage...
I'll def want to marry my husband over and over and over again! Not cos he is perfect but cos he treats me in the most perfect way any man can possibly treat his wife and I haven't seen any husband treat his wife better than the way mine treats me! Love u Mr Trevorberg!
I think I would. Sincerely he has his faults, a lot of them for that matter but on the whole he is highly responsible, loves our children to death and provides for me generously. He also doesn't cheat on me openly and is nice to my family.
Yes,yes,yes. I would just pray he is as rich as Bill Gates or GEJ. Lol
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Married Or Not... You Should Read This Husband's Story
When I got home that night my wife served dinner. I held her hand and said, "I've got something to tell you." She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking
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Wow that's a serious question so we leave it to the marries women in here
my husband is the worst mistake I have made in my life. right now I am only believing God for a turn around in my marriage. I am emotionally frustrated.
Married women up to you...let's hear what you have to say
#Omoh
Let d game begin!!!
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Lmaooo.... Just waiting to see comments..
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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Oya u guys shld answer
Lolzzzzzzz.
Lili, hope u wil ask d men dis question too...
I will marry him. He's such a nice and caring husband. Baba God I thank U 4 this Precious gift.
4 sure, bkos everytin is nt abt money, beauty, or tinx of d world, yes we dnt hv dem, bt peace of mind and happiness is wat God gave to me as husbnd, so in my next world my husbnd wil b my husbnd again
hell no. I'll ask for another man
If men wud remain genetically cheaters in d next world den I think u wud just remain with my husband 4 d next life. Linda take note!
Left him already and I'm glad i did
As I have not married another man before now, I guess I will choose him.....seriously I will choose him again and again....for now(wink)
The man I am married to. Reason being he loves everything, when I say everything,I mean everything I love! God bless his heart!
Someone else Biko ..hate mine with passion
I will pray to marry Regina askia
Dis is one hell of question...
Lailai.
I will gratefully marry someone else o because am praying that God have mercy n make my husband a better person.
Linda am not married so don't know , over to the married . CHI.
amma single lady but If i marry a man DAT maltreats me I wouldn't pray to be married to him the second tym
It is too early for this in new year
Oya make una answer
With all his flaws, I would pick my hubby again and again.
Trust him with my life!
Wish he were a bit more romantic since i like all that mushy stuff, but he is my true love, would not trade him for anything.
#13years and counting...
Ask for someone else
Oya women answer
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@Mr Endowed via Lumia phone
I would wish for a better and different kind of husband for my mother.
Truth be told, sometimes i wish . ßut then that very one you are asking for, how sure are you that its better than the one you have. Bottomline, i keep asking Ɠ♡D to make him and i a better person.
I won't want my mother to marry my dad again, although am grateful to God for how far he has brought my family despite everything we've been through, but I think she deserves better, if possible, the best.
I would marry my husband over again a million times
Another!!!!!!!!! I love my husband like crazy but he has hurt me more than anyone ever has. I don't know of the future, but from what I've seen so far, I would want to be with another.
I will so much want to marry my husband again and again. I will say God gave me the best husband in the world.
When you put God ist and choose well, there would be no regrets...but even at that, you don't need to be afraid as God can still calm whatever situation your marriage is in now..just tell it to him in prayers. It is well. Isah 43:19. @Bishop_Dammy
hai chai even if he is as bad as he is...am sure with the lessons that he has made me learnt im ok with that.noone is perfect o!man are the same ,ive learnt painful lessons in my 10 years of marriage.
Married women Oyea answer.
yes i will, though he is not perfect but his perfections supercedes all his imperfections
Ten times over! My husband understands my silence and reads my mind. My prayer is that God prospers him more.
Nice question!
No,gettin married to him is my greatest mistake.anyway wil stil leav him sha cus am in d category of women tht most stay in marriage.dyin in silent
i love the person am married now but his not rich. i will ask God to make him rich in my next world b4 i will marry him.
I'm waiting 4 comments 2 roll in.
Most women will. Men are always nice
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as of right now?...i really dont think so
Big YES
I'll definitely marry my hubby again. Am feel blessed, am from Benue and I got married to a yoruba Man. Some of them are really gud. Thank God for my hubby.
For me YES! But might ask for certain changes in some areas in his attitude and physical features...
I am married but NO!
Good for them.
she is tired of waiting for mr right. Advise her
Aunty linda u dont hv right to post dis ooo
ehe becos u are still single and searching
so dis is called ojoro post in yoruba voice
jus sayin noni ooo
said: Abu Zamani
No.
Present husband not bad.
Just to try someone else
No i wont. He is a horrible cheat who plays husband and daddy perfectly to the outside world but ive been disgraced so many times with the cheating both caught and almost caught, that i wont pray to marry a man like him again. Too late now though. 5kids involved
HMMMMMM AM NOT MARRIED YET LINDA NEITHER AM I SINGLE BUT YES IF AM EVER CHANCE TO COME BACK I WILL MARRIED MY PRESENT GUY FLIPS HAIR WALKS AWAY JC
I would marry no other than my husband. He is a wonderful husband and a great father to our kids. Granted, we do have our difference but I will do it all over again.
AM A MAN BUT I LOVE THIS QUESTION..I HAVE ALWAYS TAUGHT ABT IT FOR MY WIFE...SURE , I WOULD WANT HER LIKE THE TEETH NEEDS TOOTHPASTE!
I sooo know the answer wives of all my married friends will give.
I'll ask for someone else, that I've always loved but couldn't marry
Hmmm
@Galore
Oh dear Linda, even if i come back to the world 3times, i will still and would want to marry my present hubby. He is just incredible.
Hmmmm...no comment...
I love him. I just love him. It doesn't matter what he's doing, what he has done, or what he's going to do. I just want my husband over and over and over and over again. Funny enough, I'm just realising this as I'm typing now.
Yes o, I will marry my husband over n over again, he is d best thing that ever happened to me. Ten solid years, n we re waxing stronger in marriage, thank You Lord. Mrs O.A
I'll do it all over again. He drives me crazy, but I drive him crazy too. He's my best friend. #BetaHusband
There is no next world,if you can't work it out here on earth,there is no second life and no marriage in heaven,after death is judgment lindy take note**EMZEALLOUS**
I will ask God for someone else
I'll never marry him again. I've almost died of heart attack for the past seven years together. Always cheating on me. Even caught him red handed with my sister. I won't oo.
Linda this one hard..... I love my husband but there are somethings i really will not want to experience in marriage again if there is another life. He got no passion, he's not romantic, worst he doesn't like SEX, is not like am SEX freak too anyways but his, is to the extreme. we can stay for 4mouths without SEX and believe me he's not cheating on me with anybody am sure of that. i am Educated, classy and sophisticated so don't say maybe is because of me. recently i almost slept with another man ALMOST. so you see, what do you think i would do if there's another life, will it be with this same guy? God help me. and YES! we are Christians.
I will marry my hubby again and again.
Yes dear, i'll stick with him though we dont agree @ all time, n sumtimes i wish i was wit anoda oda dan him, bt he's got his excellent part too. Unless i dont get 2 meet him in ma nxt world den, i'll marry anoda man.
I will sooooo ask God for another man,i regret marring my husband for so many reasons.
Linda haven't u heard about the shooting rampage going on at a magazine house in paris right now because "muslim leaders" were mocked? Islam is so evil. Report this and thank me later
hhhaahhhaaaaa!!!! I hv so much to say, but let me keep quiet and read comments.. #Most MarriedWomenNightMare..lol
Oh dear Linda, even if i come back 3 times to the world, i will still and would want to marry my hubby..... He is just incredible...Muah
I will marry my sweet hubby over and over again. He's the best and I Love him
For Hiz character yes I will for Hiz pocket no I wount., he is just too broke
I would definitely ask for my man again oo. He is just too good a person and Godly too. Yes he is not perfect we v our arguments but hez my perfect fit.
Yes ooooooo
Yes ooooo
Please click on my name, read and comment. Thanks
Hmmm,Linda!Ajuju!!!
I honestly will
Linda, one word- NO
Yes, I will. Over and over again. I could not ask for a better friend/life companion. Even with my Benin craze, he's still very patient and understanding and very respectful.
70% of the time, yeah I would marry him again. The rest of the time, hell no! Mostly I wish he was more loaded.
ill marry him again ten times over
Well am still single so I can tell
No no
Lol!!!don't despise the days of little beginnings.
Linda, i'll marry my husband over and over and over again. Apart from my kids he's d best thing that's ever happened to me. I can go on and on. I just can't ask for more. Word can't describe how much i love him. He still adores me despite how long we've bn together.
LMAO< QUESTION OF THE WORLD
Sincerely.. 60 percent of 3-4yr marriages mite say yes.. dis should be directed to marriages old enough.. but one thing am definitely sure of is ' a devil u've known for long is better than an angel u've just met.. I rule domestic violence on this.. pple change and marriages need GOD to last long
The word "openly" just made me hold my peace.
BIG YES OOO I WILL MARRIED MY HUSBAND. HE NICE LOVELY CARER INFANT ANYTHING U WANT FORM MAN.
Hehehe let rush enter kitchen ask my mum.)THAT AKWA IBOM BOY #
So long as the cheating is coded, you're cool right? Ok!
I keep thanking God for giving me such a 1danful man,to all my ex thanks so much for breaking up. With me I wouldn't have asked for
i will ask for sme1 else
"He also doesn't cheat on me OPENLY" !!!Lmao
Lol@ physical features. Na only u Waka come?
Will marry him forever! We both have our faults but the ability to make amends and carry on superseeds all. To crown it all he has consience! The worst thing that can happen to anyone is to marry bad person! God help the singles!*wink* #noNeedOfAnonynous#
So scared with all the answers i'm reading here...God help us all o, i always tot marriage was all sweet n rosy but dis picture is different. I look forward to being married but am beginning to rethink o
Doesnt cheat on u openly. I love ur perception!
Oooooyes
Oooh, he cheats on you. What a nice guy
I am not married or even in a relationship, but my prayer to God has always been that He blesses me with a husband, that even if I come back onto this earth a million times and more, he will be the same man I choose over and over and over again, without a moment's hesitation. Amen!
Ewurafua
Xoxo
Abeg i will marry him over and over again. He treats me well even though he is not mega rich (I surely believe we will get there soon). And of cos, the angel i know is far better than the devil i do not know.
No matter how angry I am with my B no matter how he annoys me am sure that if u asked even in anger I will marry him again
I will marry him again and again. If there's marriage in heaven I will marry him too.
Doesn't cheat on u OPENLY. Lmao. Pls b honest to urself, u regret getting married to him Lol
I will forever and always marry him. He is the best. Loving, Caring, Romantic, Supportive and understanding.
We're r u contact me santagodson@yahoo.com
So its safe to say a lot of women are happy with their hubbys but wishes he was filthy rich. Does it occur to you that maybe when he comes into a lot of money, he will be a changed man and wont show you the love he is sjowing now. Yorubas say dupe ti e meaning be thankful forcwhst you have
Mmmmm... I'm so touched.... *blinking my eyes to hold back d tears*. I pray God to give me a woman dat has dis type of mentality.
But he cheats? And u would re-marry him even if u had a say? Women learn your worth ASAP!
I sure will marry my husband again. We have been together 6years and I thank God each day for being so blessed. He is a fantastic man! Mind you we don't have it rosy all the time ,been through some not so good situations like losing a child, being broke but we came back even stronger! We have been praying together everyday since we met and on the phone, if either of us is out of the country. I want to spend my whole life with him and another life...
Thunder fire Devil! I dey mad? He wont even feature in my next world. I just wish im in deep dream, that i will soon wake up. Mistake of a marriage.
Neva will I marry him. If he Is d only man in d world I will rather be a sprinster
With d way u display ur nude pics, are u sure any man will take u seriously. I guess u just hav to be ready to hate more men with deeper passion. Arrant nonsense!
Well ,I will definitely marry him again for many reasons.he is supportive,caring n loves our kids but I wuld want him to more romantic,never allow family make decision for him (mum's boy ) And be very rich like dangote aldoh we aint poor either. I want him very rich .
I don't need to be anonymous to answer this question. I myself personally with all my heart deeply appreciate Linda for this opportunity to express what I really feel for my husband. Before God and man I ave been in a relationship with my husband for five years now and we av been married for three years now. God is yet to visit us with d fruit of the womb this 2015 and it won't pass this year. I can boldly say I av never n will never regret being joined to dis man . if given a chance in my next life I will choose Samuel.That man is a man I respect so much and adore with all my heart he knows he is the best thing that has ever happen to me. And so dose every other husband out dere to their wife. If only we know our role as a help meet we will never regret whom we fell in love with. I love my husband and he loves me I don't care about anyone's opinion about him. I don't even want him to add or subtract from wat he is. I rest ma case. Next
Lili, so u encourage anonymous?
Hmmmmmmmmm,
Hw true r dis since u r anonymous....
Been married for 11 years now.And I will n would choose my man over n over again becos he no gt naija mentality. If we had being married in Nigeria would the story had been different? I can't tell.
Hmmm, not sure if I would, he is a good man, just that we don't really click, he is not romantic, sex is a blur..tried and tried to communicate my feelings not sure if he cares about it. So most times I feel lonely. But he is a very good man, kind at least..so the bad and good is almost the same weight. I will probably want to try another guy jare...
On behalf of Linda, let me ask u dis "Y PLS TELL US"?
Hope he is not using u for his punching bag?
I would say i would marry him again..because i am yet to meet anyother person in the past and present i would rather be with. .
I married the best man for me honesty.
That being said. However in my next life.. i would like to meet the perfect clone of his..but have a last name like indimi..dangote..otedola etc.
Abeg.. don't yap me o.. Money...alot of it makes life even alot more interesting. In this life.. we plan to make alot of it!
If i don't see a better another, I will remain single. It is better. Sex Zero, Luv is dead, money Zero even if he get he no go give me, God he no know, family controls him as they like. If not for my families name, I for don run abeg. I de bondage no be marriage.
I'LL DEFINATELY MARRY HIM OVER AND OVER, HIS SINCERE, LOVING, GOD FEARING,he's a wonderful dad, very understanding,i'll just pray his bank account would be FATTER heheheehehehehe
yessssssssss, i'll marry my husband over and over again
Yes I will! But I pray he doesn't change nd more money.
OMG! Dis is serious o.
Lili, dis is so fun and grt. Thank God u ask d ladies to b anonymous bcos dis could break their homes u never can tell.
Dear Linda, I'm not saying this to be politically correct but I've been married for 16 years. My husband is the most wonderful man on earth. Don't get me wrong, he can be a little coo-coo, but he allows me to be the woman I was born to be. He encourages and supports me in every possible way, He's a great father to our kids and my true best friend.
Even though sometimes I feel like killing him, I wont change him for another.
Funny question,but truthfully,I would marry my husband over and over and over again,he is not made in heaven ,I have suspected him of having side chicks,sex with him is just ok,I married him as virgin 18years ago with 4 beautiful children,,but I believe there is nobody in this world that can love and take careof me as much as he does,that's enough for me,he shows me so much respect,he is doing very well and so am I,but he still does everything for me,I have challenges health wise,I have had 10surgeries in the uk,I have had to travel every 3 months to the uk in the last 4years to see my doctor and he is still not tired and neither does he complain,I come from a very wealthy home but I never ask for anything,,I can afford to do something' but he says no need,so I just save my money my 17yr old twins are presently in the University in the uk,the last 2 are here with me,my husband is most definitely not a saint but he is my saint,my lover,my friend and I'd marry him over and over again,am the most troublesome human being ever ,I just love looking for trouble,I wonder how he keeps up with me.(I never ever comment on your blog)I just had to.
I will marry him again and again. My husband is God's gift of love to me.
Of course they are supposed to be anonymous. Common sense dictates it.
hell no. I'll ask for another man
Even tho a part of me truly love him and even with all av been faithful to him, I will still pray for another man.. Evry nite I cry alone in my pillow, we dnt even share dsame room, he spends more time with his frnds then with his family. I feel more alone all d tym cos we hardly talk, I feel like we r Jst flatmates, we have sex like once or twice in a month(if am lucky). I keep believing God for tins to Charge (and to think I get new admirers anytym I step out even my kid shows am nt dt bad)
mumu! we know she's just assuming
No. Not because I don't love him cos there is no difference btw them all. But I will like to marry another for variety and experience sake.
D I hear u say marry ur wife?
Dis question is meant 4d women in d blog not men.
So chill dear anonymous, not yet turn for men.
Let feast on wht d women got to say.
Pls Lili, don't mak men own to b anonymous. Let it b thrown open.
Correct bobo wey get sense and is appreciative, that is so rare nowadays.
I love mi hubby, though he has he's bad side, I will marry him , buh I pray for money to come. A man without money is always angry.
Yes I will! No one is perfect and no relationship is perfect. For me I have accepted his flaws and know how to work around the things about him that annoy me. I'm sure he does the same with me. We have an imperfect marriage which 5 years after, I am happy in.
Hahaha see question..dey shouldnt forget to tick anonymous cos their husbands are this blog lmao **dopey said so**
No. Not because I don't love him or vice versa cos there is no difference btw them all. But I will like to marry another for variety and experience sake.
I guess the money stops coming in right? Lol
Dear Linda I will marry my husband over and over again,the love of my life,a wonderful father to my kids,everyday just seems as though we just got married and it's seven years of marriage, four years of courtship. I couldn't have asked God for a better person,he is my other half,my soul mate. If this is what marriage really is then I wonder why some people are getting divorced.lols
No, I do love him but the pain I've been through isn't worth it,i would not wish it on anyone,people may judge all they want but i'v been 'planning' my escape,as soon as I've saved up enough money i'm gone,i sincerely thank God we don't have children as that would have made separation v messy,my story is nothing new the only difference is i'm not going to sacrifice my peace of mind in the name of marriage,it's not worth it. I've been saving up to rent a new house,my money should be complete by Mar/April (I've already priced my rent in the area I want) I've hired a lawyer who will file while i'm in UK,I will wait until he's gone on one of his many trips & pack out of this God forsaken house,will disappear to London for about 3 months,i don't want a kobo of his money,all I have been through I leave to God to judge for He says vengeance is mine and start a new life, a better life a happy life. I have to thank God for my family who have stood by me through it all,i would not have the courage to save myself if not for their unwavering support,women no matter how much money a man has,without peace of mind in that relationship you are poor,2015 is my hear,bet on that!
Why are u so foolish and talk from your anus
Pretty G, where r thou...
Let hear ur own side of story, wil u or u wil not???
B sincere and u dare not hide under disguise of anonymous or else....
I wil pray and fast 4u....lolzzzzzzzzz.
Hell to the No! I wont marry him again.Infact I am looking for a way out. I can dash him out sef. Stingy,Pompous ,Manipulative Sadist. all shades of useless.He pretended during our courtship.
U can say dat again...
This is d most interesting part of LIB.
It gives d fun and oneness to members of d blog and reader's..
yaaaay!I have been following LIB since 2010 and finally am able to comment.Back to the matter am single over to the married women.
hmmmm i beg make unna answer o
Wow! Dis is not good for d well-being of ur marriage. I hav to commend u for ur show of discipline. Many women would hav used dat as an excuse to cheat. Pls try talk to him about dis as passionately as u can. Also try tell him how much u luv his love-making. Am a man and I know how much psychological boost it gives to a man. Lastly, tell it to God. It's well.
No, i won't marry him, I will marry me ex, who went back to his wife or my other ex a German.
Maybe when we start living together, I might say otherwise but this oversea marriage is killing me.
My hubby love making money, his business more than anything. He can just leave for 2years not minding I have to be banged to get pregnant. I can't get pregnant over the phone now,just one 3wks in 2013, 2wks in 2014, and I don't have my papers yet. But I still like him though he can't go down like my German but in others he is very good.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
my answer will be NO. my husband is a cheat. it hurt me so bad, because i accepted to marry him because i loved him. i don't think i will marry him if i had to come back to this world again. i will rather marry for money and be happy with the money, not marry a broke man for love that will still cheat on you.
Yes ke, would marry him over & over, he's d best hubby & father, has my interest @ heart, so yes, would marry him, he's my 1st love.
Wish I was married so I would knw wat to say. Lol. God pls give me a man after ur heart and prosper him beyond words. Dear future husband I love u and God bless u forever.
i will marry my wife again and again. she is my soul mate.
My husband is d biggest mistake of my life...i wake up wiv hate in my heart 4 him..i regret d day i met him n id def leave him..i pray not to even set my eyes on him in my nxt life
Nice comment, truth be told...
l will ask for another woman.
Don't b pls...
D most u should seek and do is to accept and love him for who and wht he is devoid of any conditions attached.
When u got married to him u became one wit him in soul, spirit and body.
He is and u r d other half of each other of which witout each other u r not complete.
Put dis to practce pls and u wil find out dat he is all u got in d world dear.
I am saying dis frm practical experience in marriage. Marriage is d sweetest tin in d world.
If u learn to accept and love ur partner whole heartedly and see him d way u see ursef aand say positive tin's abt him, dis wil ave way for greatness and oneness in ur marriage.
I see u mak d difference in ur man life and going places above ur expectations in ur marriage IJN.
OMG! Dis is serious o.
I pray God gives me my own man when it's time
Not sure if any man will understand and tolerate my excesses like my husband.He is God fearing and always eager to please me.My husband is a package of all i want in my Man.So,i say YES YES YES i wil marry him a thousand time more. Lov u forever Mr Peter Egba
I will like to marry him,over again.
Nooooi I will not
No will not
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Pls correct d impression of "ur man is d worst tin dat has ever happen 2u" into "he is d best tin dat has ever happen to u".
"It wht u see and say wit ur mouth dat God blesses u wit".
Never, never and never compare ur marriage to another person marriage. This is joy killer in marriage and it short cut to killer of love in marriage.
Alwaz cherish and bless ur marriage irrespective of d circumstance or hw d behaviour of ur man is.
God bless u as u put dis words into practice in ur marrige.
Pls read good books abt marriage. It wil help and go a long way.
You're so sincere, glad u said openly...
-D great anonymous!
And you are who? Anonymous??
My dear it is well.just believe it@ann1:38
There is no marriage in the next world, the bible says. Linda, I will advice you to marry a man that loves God so much and you can go to sleep and wake up peacefully:
1) He genuinely loves God so much
2) He loves me too unconditionally(there are times I av shown 'tantrums' gidigidi & his love din't change)
3) He respects me at home and in d public
4) He is soooooo caring, not only to me, but to everyone around.
5) He has a good listening ear(no matter how boring or irrelevant what I'm saying).
6) He is very patient with me(he doesn't get angry at me, but tells me his mind)
7) He understands me so well more than anyone
8) He walks with God faithfully, EVERYday since I've known him
9) He knows where he is going; he has vision and direction for his life and our home
10) He is passionate in all he does
11) He nurtures and feed me with God's word, making me grow in my walk with God. The guy is deep!
12) He makes me feel special, like I am presently worth more than I know(and he says it too)
13) He's a poet; he writes me poem and makes me feel loved
14) He's very open, transparent and honest, nothing to hide
15) He encourages me when I'm down or not
16) He is VERY VERY humble-d most humble person I ever knew(*after him is my mum)
17) He's sensitive to me and what's happening to me
18) He has a STRONG faith in God. I love his faith, it works miracles! It challenges me to trust God more
19) He's very generous
20) He's trustworthy and dependable
Waiting for the married ones, hehehe
21) He helps out in d house, with constant, unwavering moral support and can do dishes like! He takes good care of our son too.
22) He asks for my opinion and carries me along before making any decision(personal, business, home-wise, financial).
23) My husband doesn't take my cooking for granted. He sees it as an honour that God will bestow someone to cook for him. He doesn't stress me as to what he wants to eat, some nights he has had to eat toast bread, sometimes noodles, other times garri and groundnut, when I'v had a long day and too tired to cook. He commends d food and if I ask for feedback(knowing dat salt dey too much, he'll say 'it will be nicer if d salt was just reduced a little',ℓ☺ℓ)
24) He says I av potentials in me that are waiting to be unlocked(I no know dem oooo). That I will fulfill my God-given purpose and he'll help me realise those potentials and be all God wants me to be(Amen in Jesus name!)
25) Apart from being sensitive to me, he's so sensitive to God's Spirit. There are nights when he's woken up to pray, woke me up and prayed with me.
26) He can pray! He talks to God in a personal way(how do I describe this ooo?). He prays for me too. We cultivated the habit of praying over d fone EVERYday during our courtship days.
27) Lastly, that man is wise and intelligent. He knows how to handle life issues and human relations in his humble way(of cos, he has God's Spirit in him & he's a life coach). Lemme share a very recent story with u...
A friend said something to me that got me annoyed and we(my friend and I) chatted back and forth about it on BB, while I was seriously venting my anger at her about what she said not nice and all. When I told my husband, he wasn't happy about d exchange and said that next time when anybody annoys me, I should call him on d fone(if he's not around) and vent my anger on him. As in telling him of what d person did and how unacceptable that was. He said that by d time I'm done, I'd av shifted attention off d person that hurt me(and of cos he'd av 'soothed' me), I'll no longer be hurt, and that way I will follow peace with all men. Guess what? It works!!!(Try it too!). Thus, that will let me add:
28) He's a peaceful person, never raises his voice at me. Never fought ANYone in all d 6 years I've known him. Never!
I have 2 more to add, but I ain't sharing them. Hahaha
Hmnnn...does he av weaknesses? Of cos he does! I get angry at him nau. He's a human being!!! 2 that I'm aware of, but it's really petty if u hear it, so don't lemme tell u#smiling#
Cindy.
P.S I still hope to meet you Linda this year, this one you no gree invite me for the BB passport meeting *smiles*
I`ll been with my husband for 22 years and I´ve been married for like 20 years. We have 3 adorable kids together. He´s still the same these pasts years and I loved him dearly. I will definitely want to marry him again no question about it. Our love is like that of Hollywood love stories. He´s a great husband, fantastic father and the love of my life. Honey thanks for all these wonderful years and I love you.
@anno1:40,seems your husband lacks all the qualities you mentioned above,but you still want him.its gud oo.
Sure ,I will.
Eeeeyaaa
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