From a female LIB reader
My heart is very heavy as I write this. I don't know what to do but I need some advise. During my last pregnancy, I suffered a very serious complication. The doctors said I would not be able to have children again. My husband doesn't know about this and I don't know if I should tell him. We have 2 girls, I know the African mentality of wanting to have a son.
I am just shattered. I don't even know how to continue to live on because I always wanted more children. I am trying to explore the option of gestational surrogacy and I dont know if my husband would be open to this idea.
You have two children already and don't know how to continue living because you can't have more? Hmm. OK. Any answers for her?
326 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 326 of 326Why not discuss with ur hubby first? U dnt ve to wound ursef wit tots. Be grateful for d 2 kids u ve already
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Hmm my dear hapiness comes we we're thankful of wat we have not wat we wish to have, u have to be totally grate to God for. Those. Two angels dat u have,I know someone who has been married for 11years. She never even get miscarriage,if u don't have a boy its God oh. Just. Tell ur hubby the truth and hear wat he has to say.above all pray to God to make ur hubby understand everything is Gods doing.I hope u find peace.
U have 2 kids and u are not grateful? Abeg shift! So those dat do not have children should go and die abi? I no dey give advise to ur type.
woman respect ursef and train the ones u have already, with this bad economy and ur lookin for 10 children....wah will now happen to those dat dont have atall....smh4u
missvee
She no get problem at all..
There is a yoruba adage that says "Eni to ni ori,ko ni fila,eni to ni fila koni ori"meaning som1 with head does not hav cap and som1 that has cap does not have head.Madam,be thankful that u even hav 2 girls already,wht of som1 that does not have at all..dont be depressed cos of that,be strong and take it to the lord in prayer,Ive heard pple hav children without wombs.btw be grateful for the ones on ground.
She must be igbo, our culture cn attach so much value on a male child and its so annoying. If he loves you he will bulge after all its your life that was @ stake
Mbok tell him everytin
relay it to him, though its gonna be a bitter pill for him to swallow but nevertheless you shouldnt hide such a sensitive issue from your husband
Linda are you not an Igbo woman, don't you know how some of our men and their families can get unreasonable about this issue. The way they carry on, you would think girl children were worthless. It's our society that pushes women to think this way, don't blame her. Poster, better tell your husband the truth..the earlier the better.
Ur husband should be able to reason that along with u once you didn't decide not to av more
U don't knw how to continue living bcos u can't have more children? Linda make all of us post and show her the way to d closest lagoon bcos dat one na hin sure pass. Rubbish.
Don't mind the doctors, I believe miracles do happen all the time.
I understand her plight, she needs a male child because of the African mentality of wantin to have a son. I will suggest she discloses it to her husband first, before takin any further step cuz he is d head of d family.
May God forgive you...
She is not content obviously. I do not see how your husband will agree to such a proposal. Please open to up your husband and see if he is desperate for more chidren before u push forward such a proposal.
Hmm.May God have mercy on us. I am fasting and praying for a child and u can't keep living cos u ve 2 children. Kpele
Talk to him about it. Don't keep things from him
Honestly i don't know what to say to you.
You don't know how to live on even with two adorable kids, Like seriously????
You better no allow God vex for you and be grateful for what you already have.
What if you don't have any what would you have done or said?
Madam ask for forgiveness bcos some pple are praying ceaselessly even if its to have one and be called mummy.
Stop being negative miracles still happens.
It is well....
Its a very difficult position for women,especially with men who want a son.Same goes for my husband,we have 2 daughters already and he is discussing IVF for the next birth cos he wants a son.What i have learnt is children,either male or female cannot 'hold down"your man or marriage.If the love is genuinely there,the man will stay but if not there again he will go away.I have a neighbour who has 2 sons for a man who already has 3 sons from his wife.He is a "wolii"(prophet )and now he doesnt want any of them.He was nasty to them and their mothers.They are both single mothers now in different states
Gestational surrogatacy without your husbands support? You are own your own....God give you two girls and you are still complaining what of people that are even looking for a child for 25years but still no issue? People wahala too much .
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Dear poster, your major problem began the day you decided to keep the Doctor's report as a secret From your own flesh! Haba! Didnt you think he deserved a chance to know? Before you all get judgmental and lash at me, I am a woman and I know how you feel BUT truth be told, you wouldn't have been in this mess of worrying your brains off if you had been open to him.
My advice?
Tell Him the true situation on ground, discuss with him and KEEP YOUR MARITAL ISSUES OFF BLOGS.
Madam Pls U dnt Hav Gist for us,beside u dnt need help,bks if do,i dnt knw hw u kip sumtin as seriox as not getting pregnant Again 4rm ur hubby,wia u 4rm sef? Am nt sure uar a Nigga woman ooo bks sharp nigga woman will even want her hubby 2 hear d truth direct 4rm d doctors mouth ooo.... Uar d architect to ur problem ooo,4rm d day strtd kipn such a blood secret 4rm ur hubby dat was d day ur wahala strt....... Go nd tell ur hubby D Truth ooooo,dat gestational Surrogacy doesn't work in nigga,so dnt bring it as an option 1st xpect u wanna lose ur man... tell him d bloody Bitter Truth nd hear 4rm him bks telln abt any Oda Option..... Pls to all d Married ppl Lets Stop kip secret lik diz. dat can destroy Our Marriage 4ever oooo
U ve 2 girls Obama has?,the problem is dat u ve been lying to ur hubby n now reality knocks.where was ur hubby during ur last pregnancy dat u had complications n didn't tell him?who paid d bills so he didn't no wat he was paying for.y didn't u tell him?well u jst ve to tell him as much as he wld b sad n disappointed,wit time he wld forgive u.Lesson:Trust ur hubby to always carry ur burdens wit u as u wit him.Secrets in marriage is unhealthy
Has the man insisted on a boy or it's just your greedy selfish self wishing for one? I know this because i have 2 friends (sisters in fact) who both have 3 girls each, in a bid for boys one of them got pregnant again luckily it was a boy and the second who is still nursing her new baby has said she's going to have one more... i shouted in shock. Men of these days are not very pushy about the whole girl/boy thing... pikin na pikin besides sending one child to a good school is NOT CHEAP
It is very wrong to hide issue of this nature from your husband, tell him because if he finds out, u won't like his reaction.
You beta tell him b4 he found out 4rm somebod marriage is 4 beta nd 4 worst. Is not every man dat has d African mantality
Pls it's enough if he. Wants more children he can gt anoda lady...dats if he is nt open to surrogacy
Aahya so touching...buh I tink u should let him knw.bcus he myt not b seeing it d way u ar tinkin
R u serious? God blessed u with 2 beautiful daughters and ur complaining.. How ungrateful can human being be.. sm ppl dnt ave any.. U dnt knw how to contiune living" go and and hug transformer na..# Smh
2 kids is ok in this 21th century
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First, be honest to your husband and tell him the truth before any other decision. You are both involved and please remember is not your right to decide alone as long as he is alive.
who knows he might understand. Goodluck.
common woman be grateful jarey,alot of families r looking for just one,mtchew i really do not like wen pple rnt grateful to God for the little dey have
U have two girls, good, God giveth, pls be contented with God have giving u,He has good plan for everyone. pls be thankful.
U have two girls, good, God giveth, pls be contented with God have giving u,He has good plan for everyone. pls be thankful.
Tell ur husband, n cherish ur gals even if he didn't stand by u. Having a son will not solve ur problem. So train d gals God gave u n rest b4 u die bc if u die, a year is too much for him to remarry. Take care of urself n ur gals.
D doctors said. What has God said? Dats by d way. You should be open to ur hubby n discuss dis, no point hiding it. Btw, 2kids r a double blessing. U may decide to stop at that.
Linda, thank you for the analysis. Madam, just tell God thank you.
Busy Fingers.
U nid to tank God for d ones he gave to u nd stop complainin
Y wouldn't tell ur better half abt ur medical condition pls? People just create problems for themselves. Talk to ur husband first b4 this ur gestational shit. Ubanagum
If your husband isn't the African mentality type of man... You might not even need to give birth again but really, since u have 2children already, u have no worries
U Have 2 kids an ur still complaining, Hmmm! While some people ar even looking for one, what a world, that means if U don,t hav any U could hav kill Ur self, appreciate God for d one U hav, beside Drs report is not God report!
U are not serious u av two already cos u dnt av a boy so,do pple still do dat at dis age and time,Oook oooo kill ur sf den cos u want to please ur hubby,and I dnt no y u are hiding d fact u cnt av a child from him y when is not as if it was ur fort even if it was what happen to been plan to each oda,pls dear be honest to ur husband and not worry ursf ova what is not.some many pple are praying day and night to even av a girl u av two still complaining
Na body dey sweet her. My man tells me it's just a child we shld have. And he said he want a girl. Two kids jst perfect.
@Sophia Stephen
My dear, pls be contented with the two girls you already have.
Your husband may not welcome the idea of surrogacy and so wld have to pressurise you to have another child.
If you try it, you may not have the chance to live to take care of your girls and he will definitely marry another woman if you pass on.
Please let go of the idea and just happily raise the girls God has gifted you with.
my dear blogger, you already have two girls... you dont know how to live on... this african mentality..bla bla. my dear some people dont even have one... if you had died because of the complications you had... would have be concerned about african mentality... surrogacy should be left out of this... tell your husband... but if telling him will destroy your marraige... keep it... its all in your hands... wish you well
my dear blogger, you already have two girls... you dont know how to live on... this african mentality..bla bla. my dear some people dont even have one... if you had died because of the complications you had... would have be concerned about african mentality... surrogacy should be left out of this... tell your husband... but if telling him will destroy your marraige... keep it... its all in your hands... wish you well
it... its all in your hands my dear blogger, you already have two girls... you dont know how to live on... this african mentality..bla bla. my dear some people dont even have one... if you had died because of the complications you had... would have be concerned about african mentality... surrogacy should be left out of this... tell your husband... but if telling him will destroy your marraige... keep... wish you well
my dear blogger, you already have two girls... you dont know how to live on... this african mentality..bla bla. my dear some people dont even have one... if you had died because of the complications you had... would have be concerned about african mentality... surrogacy should be left out of this... tell your husband... but if telling him will destroy your marraige... keep it... its all in your hands... wish you well
It's better she keeps thanking God for the ones she have dat God should just bless them more n more
Y didnt u tel him of ur complicatn immediately it hapened, he's ur hubby in gud n bad times, u undaestimated his luv fr u. How do u tink he'll feel wen he finds out u want to force anoda lady's child on him in d name of surrogacy? Ur only way out of dis problem is to tel him d truth of ur situatn and trow urself @ his mercy.
Yes i have good answer for the beautiful lady. When the issue came up at first you should have informed your husband. Secondly, with two girls you are good to go without a son. So don't be shattered just be urself and always count on God you never can tell what the future holds for you.
Why not talk to him first and see wht his response will be.
Biko talk to ur husband abt it
You should ave told ur husband since ur last birth
If with two lovely gals you are talking dis way i think you are mocking God. tell ur husband the truth after all you are the cause and any thing he decides to do will be counted against him
Surrogacy is the only choice left..if u still need more children, Bt ur husband has to knw first. Such is life
I am totally with you on this Linda.
This woman doesn't even value all that God has done for her already.
Table it infront of him in a subtle way and watch his reaction. Your health should be paramount to him.
Not teln him in d 1st place was mistake no 1, well d only solutn will be 2 tell him and increase ur prayer nd faith. Wit God, evritn z possible
My Dear, Pls be thankful for what you have. Some will lay down their lives to have one of your girls and here you are complaining. All you need now is prayers for your girls to continue to grow in health and strength.
You have 2 children already why bother but if u desire more it is God who gives children pray to God. He will answer you
my dear pray for God protection over ur family and live ur life to d fullest dnt tell him anytin....never go against ur doctors advice
if u go n kill urself
bcos of ur husband or for male child wen u die all of dem w continue living
Well, you cud hve explained the details of the complication, how ever if it is like rupture of the womb or in possibility of the womb to carry a baby, I knew so well, I came across doctors who can surgically transfer a womb to another from a willing donor esp(mother to the mother to be) is fair and well, it works maybe you should consider that.
Gestational surrogacy? ??? In Africa? ??? I don't think so...
I mean u have two girls n u r looking for wat? is ur husband complaining, look u better tell him wat the doctor said abt ur condition and forget abt gestational surrogacy it might cause ur marriage n happiness if u don't knw.
JESUS LOVES US ALL...
Doubt if she grew up in Nigeria. Male or female, they re both gifts frm God. Go out there and see women who will kill to ve just one child. May God touch all barren women, Amen.
Tell your husband first nd hear watever is opinion will be nd moreso 2 children is okay in dis present day nigeria......as rich as obama is no b 2 girls d guy born
Y wunt u let ur husband knw, re u d cause of ur complicatn? Wat if he hear it outside? Pls let hm knw so dat to join hands wit u, 4 solutn, bkos no way he wunt knw
Please love your girls and take care of them to ur best ability, also discuss with your husband and not us, cause he has the final say
I don't see y u shldnt inform ur husband abt dis,he shld b aware, so both of u will discuss on d issue of gestation al surrogacy appreciate God for giving you two female already, what if u have known, Are you goin to kill ur self?be grateful.
hmmmmm, this is a serious case, but come to think of it why will such happen to you in the 1st place and u kept it has a secret it should not be, the best thing is for you to tell your husband n tell the doctor to invite him and explain to him the consequences, if he truly love you he will understated boy or girl pikin na pikin. Don't do anything behind him, always carry him along hes your beta half
Ok, try getting accomodation at baga for a start, (without the girls though). You can try living from their.
GO TO CHURCH AND PRAY...POSTING YOUR CHALLENGES ON LIB WILL NOT HELP YOU...LIKE LINDA SAID YOU HAVE TWO KIDS ALREADY, YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY, AND PLEASE OO, TELL YOUR HUSBAND...
You should be thankful to God that you even have two children. There are many people out there believing God for just one regardless of the sex of the child.
My dear, appreciate God and live the rest for him. Who is Doctor, God is the giver of children and he has the final say in your life, so forget whatever Doctor or Nurse said.
Goodluck....
Madam in any situation u find urself thank Almighty God, there are people begging God for just one n u have two what more do u nid. Except u wan open Poultry. As For d boy matter pikin na pikin talk to ur husband if na love make him marry u i guess u gat nothing to worry about.
Woman u want to kill ur sef with worry
U have 2 daughters already TWO!!!
Okay continu
Wen u peme ur hubby wud look for anoda woman
You're even lucky you already have two kids so why stress yourself ni, don't you know how expensive it is to send your kids to school these days? Nne let your husband know your problems now and not by hiding it because you might just worsen the whole issue. Jor oh
If you want more children, nothing is impossible for God with serious prayer and fasting.
As for how to tell your husband that you may or may not be able to have more children, have a meeting with your husband and the doctor. Don't tell your husband just by yourself. Use medical evidence to show that what happened was not your fault.
Then you both go home and discuss your options.
***Lush
If you want more children, nothing is impossible for God with serious prayer and fasting.
As for how to tell your husband that you may or may not be able to have more children, have a meeting with your husband and the doctor. Don't tell your husband just by yourself. Use medical evidence to show that what happened was not your fault.
Then you both go home and discuss your options.
***Lush
Some women ehn! You already have 2 children and you don't want to live for them. What stops you from telling your husband your problem.....
Linda dnt mind her. Same hmm here. Some people dnt even have cats to call their children. Bt u have two girls and ur shattered. I dnt knw wat a woman without a single child will be den "CREMATED".. Abeg ii
This is my 1st time of commenting, I don't normally but after reading this, I am so.... disgusted. I have 2 beautiful girls and feel so.... blessed. And you have 2 girls and feel heart broken and don't know how to live????? You should be ashamed of yourselves and beg God for forgiveness. Do you know how many people are fasting and praying to have children?? Boy or girl they will be forever be grateful to God. My advise to you is to count your blessings because millions of people are praying to have what you have.
You re simply an ingrate.u av two kids already and u want more when some Dnt av any at all and are looking up to God.yours isn't a pathetic case dat needs any sympathy or encouragement.neither is it a case u should bring forward here and ask what to do.If u need more kids go on Ur kneels and talk to God and not Libers.God forgive Ur ignorance.u com and ask me wat it feels not to av a child after 4 years of marriage den I tell u ure an ingrate.Next please
Lady, you have birthed two girls and still don't know to live on. Like seriously? I've been married for years, been spent emotionally and financially, been through pains of medical procedures, looking for just 1 child, boy or girl, a child is all ask for. Be grateful for what you have, and pray to God, maybe he could turn your situation around. But who knows, could be your head that God is trying to save. A lady gave birth to her second child, just last week, died few days after delivery, leaving two poor little kids without their mother, imagine the newborn, who will suckle him, who will rock him when he cries for his mother? Be thankful, you have your babies and they have you, that's a lot. Your husband should understand what happened isn’t your making, the pregnancy that caused the complication was his, ainit? Should reverse be the case, will you blame him? Would you leave him high and dry? This is the time you need him most, and if he fails to understand it, then am sorry, he has no faith. You both talk things over, together, with faith, you two can move mountain. I pray God will send us all answers and help in our various valleys of despair.
YOU SERIOUSLY NEED HELP COS YOU DONT LOVE URSELF. YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY WITH GOD FIRST AND THANK HIM FOR GIVING YOU THOSE TWO GIRLS, AT LEAST YOUR A MOTHER. SUPPOSE IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO SHOW AS A WOMAN.
ASK THE BARRING WOMEN CRYING DAY AND NIGHT. THEY WILL TELL U THEIR STORY.
Please my dear dont kill yourself if your doctor says you cant have more babies after two issues, you need to be thanking God after all a woman cam become anything in life like the male counterpart if given the necessary training and equal opportunity. The company where i work is owned and manage by a known and popular celebrity journalist. am quite sure her family must be really proud of her cause she is doing really well. so i dont understand this mentality of boy over girl thing. if your husband really loves you he must be ready to accept your situation which you come about as a result of accepting to take much responsibility than him to carry nine month pregnancy. Open up to him and pray to God for him to understand and accept your condition.
Don't be an ungrateful human being,so many people out there praying to God to give them a child u have two and u are complaining .if your husband really love you he will understand and let you be.please stop being hard on yourself.
Africa!u both need to talk about it.He will find out one day,don't let him find out from someone else.Surrogacy?talk to him about it.Two beautiful girls need u,don't let ur depression get in d way.
Linda what more can one add to her na? Some don't have any. Well good luck to her
my candid advise fo u is that no matter wat u should bf able to confide in ur husband then b4 taken any decision whether to carry out ur evil act or better still adopts a son bcos u spoilt ur womb whn u wher jumping from 1 prick to another. so take heed
Christafarai...
Madam pls tell your husband but before then pray to God for him to soften the heart of your hubby before yu go to him, He will definitely help you and with God all things are possible besides you are still better off than people who doesnt have any at all and your hubby shouldnt love you bcos of children but it should be bcos you are his soulmate, his help mate and above all his very own wife. i wish you God's grace.
Plz don't suggest such idea oooo,besides u hv 2 amazing kids already y u causing unnecessary worry for urself nd ur home?.plz relax and focus on d kids u hv.u maybe b surprised dat ur hubby is even Ok wit d 2kids.may GOD bless ur home
Auntylindagoddaughter
Hi my dear sister and friend, i have three siblings and we are all girls,tho my father is polygamous but we are all my mother has,we are grown and doing pretty good and she has dealt with it over years,now she has entered menopause.Its a two way thing,you cant say,talk to your husband,he might just leave you to do the surrogacy or better still learn to love and pray for your girls,they will turn out to do better than male kids,only that there will be no one to fix the bulbs.lol.
You can't have kids anymore and you keep such information from ur husband. Tell me what's gna stop him from hating u for life when he finds out you kept it from him
Madam be grateful for the beautiful daughters you have and thank God.
My dear God is God of impossibility he make it possible NNE e did case is nothing in God house so jst HV faith nd believe DAT d God DAT snd you to DAT family will clean ur eye nd make u happi...d highest Doctor is jesus he has d final say
Funny. Is 2kids not enough?
You should be thanking God 4 ur girls, there re couples our there dat doesn't hv any, moreover our God is a wonder working God
Please if u don't tell ur husband who else wld u tell? Y keep such medical information 2 urself & I'm still wondering y ur hubby isn't aware.
Since u guys want more kids & ofcouse male kids, discuss ur concerns wit him, get his reaction first & let him tell profer a solution, dere after u can bring up d gestational surrogacy. Besides u can still adopt a buy. Dis is y our partners shld be our BEST FRIENDS dat we can DISCLOSE any & everything without blinking an eye or getting scared.
look up to God,he will do it for u.He has done it for many people and urs will not be different
Alawada
Am not one to judge but how can u not tell ur husband that u had complications and that u can no longer bear children..seriously there's no excuse for not disclosing that to ur husband in the first place..and besides u have two children Pls chill and be grateful, there are people praying for just one child...
just tell your husband, a problem shared is half solved.
You should thank God that you have two children. It is good to say the truth if he ask you about it but if he did not ask you anything about the issue it is better you keep it to yourself.
my dear sister please stick to your two children how are u sure you will have a son from the surrogacy? dont complicate your life and bring more problem to yourself is your husband complaining of a son? remember obama has two daughters and they are happy.
God has blessed u already, tell ur husband about it may be he doesn't have such mentality. Yu shuld be more concerned on how to train the two gals very well
tell your husband ASAP!! if he is upset about it he is as ungrateful as you are after 2 kids.
her own body kwa? you must be straight from the village
Hmmm...... Dear poster my wish is to even have one from what you have right now...... Learn to count your blessing and accept what you have for now, focus on God, and He will surely answer ur prayers. "Be anxious for nothing"
My dear you haven't even talked to your husband about it. If he loves you he wont want you to loose your life. please take care of your 2 adorable girls.
You should be grateful,many were out there looking for means to have one.And to be candid with that figure its okay for your family.
Please don't insult those of us that have two girls or more ! This days most men don't just care if they have boys or girls . I got two pretty girls and am so proud of them , we agreed we will have two kids even before marriage gender was no issue . We will rather adopt a third child most likely a boy. There are so many kids who need homes and parents ,adopt one and make a good son out him
First i had to google the meaning of gestational whatever.
My dear,tell him if he wants more kids he will allow u to go thru with it,even some are lookn to ave just 1 but don't ave.
I have been married 10 years and no kids yet, I still live my life not devastated cos I trust in God. So next time just watch wat u say and learn to thank God in all situations.
MuM Doctor no be God....Only when you believe...
MuM Doctor no be God....Only when you believe...
Hey please don't take my criticism as "judgment". It is just what it is ....CRITICISM. I think it's really selfish of you not to have told your husband about such a very critical thing. What if something had happened to you?
Secondly,please do not be led to get greedy. If the doctors have already advised that you shouldn't try to have anymore kids,please stand by that. Your 2 girls are beautiful kids....love them and groom them up the best you can. Cheers.
Sweetie, u have 2kids already. Be grateful some would go through whatever just to one. I don't how u went through such a life changing condition without informing Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ husband. Most men actually understands. If he sees what Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ going through , he might even care less about another child. What if u had lost Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ husband (God forbid) won't u take care of Ï…̲̣̥r̲̅ 2girls? Be grateful ☺ķªª¥.
First I hope you take your time to read all these comments (I almost did) and they're encouraging
We should have attitude of gratitude! I will give anything to have a child call me 'mummy '. Be thankful you are married. Be thankful you have a home you call yours. Be thankful you can even afford 'surrogacy '. Be thankful for too many things dear sister
...above all be thankful God gave u 2 wonderful children! what if your husband wants a baby boy? So what???? That should be his headache if after explaining situation which aint your fault and prayerfully things could still turnaround!
I don't have a home of mine, I don't have my husband yet, I don't have any kids of mine, I don't have a job (smiling) which all my younger siblings do have! And u wanna know my age? You know what sis, I love their kids like mine I still believe and give thanks to God for what I have....LIFE!!!! be thankful and always take everything to your creator. If u choose not to live again your little angels will still call their 'step mom' mummy. I pray that won't be your portion. Life is how we see it. -glass full or half full. Its your take. U go your husband and kids will live their lives!!! Think about God (your creator) then never let those sweet girls notice your motives. God bless and heal u. Love
How can ur hubby not know abt the complications and ur dr's opinion that u cant have more kids? Hmmm. Woman, talk true. Abi u do runs comot am sharply in secret?
I am so sorry but I rarely comment on here; I just come here to read most of the time. However, this post pissed the hell out of me.
People are just so ungrateful to God for the wonderful things He has given them. You, my lady, are very ungrateful and you should go on your knees and ask for forgiveness from God.
He has given you, not one but, two beautiful children and you are tired of your life because they are girls?! Are you for real? In this century? Some people are praying for just one, they dont care which, just one child. They have been trying for years and nothing to show for it and you are here wasting internet space because you have two beautiful girls?
If you were my mother, i will hate you because you dont deserve me. Girls are powerful people and an asset to this society. If you, as a woman, choose to act like a lower class citizen, then good for you. Don't impose your silly beliefs and ideology on your daughters please.
Be grateful to God for once,some are even praying to be at least pregnant for people to see that they are women. olore
You should be grateful to God for giving u 2 girls. What of d person that does not have any?
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