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Wednesday 19 November 2014

Graphic pic: Angry wife pours hot water on husband in Abuja

Journalist Seun Oloketuyi shared the story and graphic pic on his instagram page, sent to him by a friend of the victim. Below is what the friend said allegedly happened...
"Just left the hospital and it is worse than I thought. My good friend is in the hospital in Abuja now for four days with second degree burns. While he was sleeping his wife poured hot water on him (face legs, thighs, hips). She then locked him inside while he was screaming "fire, fire", then she took off. She is 5months pregnant they have a 16month old. Been married for a year and a half. Early in the year, she slapped him which lead to him beating her. They reconciled. He also complains that they switch house-help every month because she beats the househelp where there is blood on the wall. Should he stay or get the f out!!...- pissed off friend"

167 comments:

Unknown said...

2 bad

Anonymous said...

Chai

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Toronto Finest said...

Dome crazy women... She shd be gone forever oo lol

Unknown said...

Get out fast. This one is not a wife, she is evil itself. Please u better don't go back. The next one might be acid

Anonymous said...

THIS IS VERY SAD, DONT KNOW Y PEOPLE WOULD RESULT TO THINGS LIKE THIS.

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Anonymous said...

omg

Anonymous said...

This is bad.

Unknown said...

There something wrong somewhere, and that woman needs to work on her temperament...

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Unknown said...

Chinekemeeee!!!!!! Is she a witch? Nawaaa.....may u heal fast ijn and pls send dwitch packing

Bookie said...

that woman is a witch...he should pray to get well first and after...pls just leave that murderer for good.Love is not blind o

Debbie Chelsea said...

Na wa ooooo

Unknown said...

What kind of angry wife is dat???????? D devil dwells in her

Anonymous said...

brother u better run, this woman is wicked and evil.

Abegbe 1 said...

pele guy!

Anonymous said...

stay ke? next one will be #acidbucketchallenge he should just run for his dear life.....

«denkoh» said...

Stay? Ã…re u sick is dat an option? Any cleric who says you should reconcile with this fucked up bitch should be castrated what nonsense..she slapped him @1st now hot water so wat next....
Marriage is no more for better 4 worse
This is absurd ....
He should take his children and run away frm that mad woman

Anonymous said...

D man never talk true, probably a cheat dt he even cheats on her wit d house helps. They r not yet saying d real reasons.... Although dt isn't an excuse for d lady to be so wicked. Xtal

«denkoh» said...

No matter what he did it should never come down to this

auntysilivi said...

Hahahaha

Cute G said...

They both shd take some time off . besides the story might not be complete without the wife's side.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

This is wickedness at its peak, many men are suffering same fate in their marriages.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Unknown said...

God help us o

Unknown said...

God help us o

Neks said...

What a wife, divorce her and move far away from her, she could kill.

Anonymous said...

U can do worst.. we all know that. so stop acting nice on here.. idiot

oluchi said...

Ha! i wish u a quick recovery

Oluchi said...

Jesus wept!!!!

Livvsreamblog said...

Oga your wife is shina rainbow..........run

Unknown said...

Thank you ooo. My thots exactly. Tho this was too extreme, I can't exactly pour all the blame on the woman. Men these days are terrible

ary said...

What would have pushed a woman to do this to a man he said "I do" too.

nkiru said...

may God heal him! i dont usually pity men whhn dis happen to them blcos alot of women ar suffering in their hands. there is more to this his friend is nt telling us! although evil is evil nthing can justifies it.

snowflix said...

Some people are just devil in human form. I do wonder what people gain from certain evil act 'smh' the same should be reciprocated to her so that she will feel the pains that the man is feeling now #onelovefromSnow#

Lucasbalo said...

She needs to be arrested and prosecuted for attempted murder.

N said...

The woman was extreme, but this so called friend hasn't said the complete truth. The man must have done something so bad to drive this woman crazy. No woman will want to do something like this to the father of her children and Husband. They should resolve their issues, this must have been some kind of way-too-extreme payback.

Unknown said...

Woman killed husband,woman poured hot water on husband,this is cruel

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Lord save me frm wicked wifes abeg....
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Unknown said...

he shud send her away bcus that kind of wife might kill the husband if care is nt talking. visit me on my site for business news adewaletemitope.blogspot.com

miss pink said...

Wat a wife? Pls Mr run for ya life. She might be possessed, pls take her to church for deliverance, she needs deliverance. What kind of anger is dat? Pls give her time. If she truly repents and ure convinced u might reconcile but make sure u both sign an undertaken before accepting her back.

Anonymous said...

Emeka Anyaene Vs Chinyere Ezenwa aka Chacha

Kponskii said...

Satan be gone #inAsa'svoice

Anonymous said...

I heard this story o the wife in question is chinyere cha-cha Ezenwa married to burn victim Emeka anyeane of stella Maris schools also brother to producer of Ije chineze anyeane. God will be the judge.

Unknown said...

should he stay bawo? unless this isnt true. or the husband mother is late and his own brain already melt. this is murdered, if you survive death,u run. okay!

Anonymous said...

Na wah ooooo so this is true. Chacha na so your evil heart reach? ??? e no go better for you . but dats wat happens to gold diggers. hungry desperate bitch

Anonymous said...

Serves him right. He has not even started. No matter what a woman does to you, its not enough reason to beat her up. i would even do worse sef. Its only in the days of our mothers you get away with domestic violence, chicks these days wont giving you warning. #STOPDOMESTICVIOLENCE# dont beat up your wife to prove something. there are better ways of handling a woman. Linda post my comment.

Anonymous said...

Mad man,is dat not what your mama does,crazy son of a bitch,disgracing my dad

Anonymous said...

Please free story for tortoise, so many women are so bitter and angry and the slightest thing will get them mad

Unknown said...

And u'll be my 1st experiment and guess wat? Okwa acid! Adima achikwa....eze utaba

Unknown said...

Jezebel
Terrible

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Anonymous said...

hmmmmm emeka anyane and his wife. this is really bad. if only his mum was alive. she must be turning in her grave. his wife chinyere (cha cha) is a wicked and horrible runs girl in abuja. my husband is friends with him. he is a nice guy. she brought out the devil in him with her greedy and bossy ways. divorce her emeka and fast too.

Anonymous said...

Story-story, one-sided one at that! I like the way this guy just painted a picture for us but I don't think we're being told the full and complete story. Did your friend really get slapped and so he decided to beat his wife or is he a perpetual and consecutive wife-beater whose battered wife just couldn't take it anymore? Did the wife always beat the househelps and send them away or was the husband sleeping the maids and she flipped out when she found out? What other injustice has she been facing in the home she's stuck in with an innocent child she's enduring it all for? Care to share those too? I don't condone violence in any way, shape or form but men do it all the time and it's seen as the norm but when a woman who's been physically, psychologically and mentally battered finally loses it; then men start screaming foul play. What if that was the point she finally had enough and she planned her exit accordingly and gave him a taste of what she had been going through in his hands. She even locked the door so he couldn't come after her. Remember she's pregnant too, she has her baby to protect in all of this. All said and done; people, please say no to violence! And men, please stop abusing the women in your different ways; you never know the kind of devil you're creating by doing so!........ Just Saying

Unknown said...

Lol.

Anonymous said...

God that woman is heartless...she is one of dose ppl dat make men avoid women and marriage...gosh wish her husband a quick recovery,dude as soon as you are ok take your kids and get out fast coz she might harm dem too.she should totally be looked up in a psychiatric hospital

Anonymous said...

God that woman is heartless...she is one of dose ppl dat make men avoid women and marriage...gosh wish her husband a quick recovery,dude as soon as you are ok take your kids and get out fast coz she might harm dem too.she should totally be looked up in a psychiatric hospital

Zexyzorlia said...

God that woman is heartless...she is one of dose ppl dat make men avoid women and marriage...gosh wish her husband a quick recovery,dude as soon as you are ok take your kids and get out fast coz she might harm dem too.she should totally be looked up in a psychiatric hospital

Anonymous said...

Wives nt wifes,tnk me later,buh dt woman went far

oilandgasdissertation said...

so cruel

Unknown said...

The end

gege said...

Anon 4.27pm u took the words out of my mouth. The man must have pushed her.........Men beware...women are no longer stupid.

Unknown said...

One sided story. Story for the gods. Tell us the koko.

Anonymous said...

please always be of the story before publishing cos the story here is not what actually happened

Unknown said...

I agree with you totally,the story is one sided..let them tell us the whole truth abeg..

Anonymous said...

So because she brought out the devil in him that's why the devil in him decided to kill her first abi?? Payback is a bitch...serves him right. If I were her, I would use a knife to stab him but not to death. Just as a warning. And u as a woman, ur supporting the beating of ur own fellow woman. Just like dey always say, women are d architecture of their downfall. Who knows ur husband will learn d same attitude from his friend and practice it on u. U may not even survive urs...get a life and stop fallacy

Vicardo said...

ANON 4:26PM, U HAVE SAID IT ALL, ONE SIDED STORY ABEG! THERE IS A LIMIT TO WHAT THE HEART CAN TAKE, WHO KNOWS WHAT THE WOMAN MUST HAVE BEING GOING 2RU. THE LADY REALLY DID THE BEST SHE COULD AT THE TIME.

Anonymous said...

Heartless woman. God will judge her. No matter what the man did she shouldn't have done this.

Anonymous said...

Am a lady,some women re mean how can she do such a thing she has d heart of a devil,did u hear she can't even keep house girls. I ve a friend like dat very hot tempered shen is is quarrelling with her man she is a mad woman

APPLE said...

Blood of Jesus!!! Only God knows what this man did to his wife, madam you went too far. HABA!

GistNaija said...

my God. some women are indeed WICKED. he shld jus divorce her bcos next time she might kill him.

Anonymous said...

What this idiot called wilmeminna moses or whatever posts on LIB is worse than acid! He/she is a very bitter village chimpanzee. I wonder why Linda doesn't screen what she posts on her blog.

You are worse than a witch yourself!!

I visit this blog but never comment but it's a pity someone like this also comes here. What internet will cause ehn??

Iphy said...

My take, people should rather walk out of a horrible marriage than this act of violence.

Iphy said...

My take, people should rather walk out of a horrible marriage than this act of violence.

Unknown said...

Anon4:26...well said

Anonymous said...

I solely agree with u. The story is one sided and until the full gist is out. The man shld endure. No woman challenges her husband physically knowing fully well she isn't a match for the man.

Unknown said...

Marriage don end be dat...

Unknown said...

@wuheminna before u lay blames, hear d other side of the story, maybe d woman has been enduring so much, dat she reacted dis way, remember she is pregnant and something must have gone wrong, for her to react dis way, I am not saying what she did was right, she needs to face d rot of d law. We need to hear both sides before we judge.

Anonymous said...

But from the story too... you can deduce dat the woman has a history of violence, and changes house help every month. Also, why didn't she leave the marriage if she was unhappy? see almost killed the man! Please try to analyze the short before taking sides!

Gaia said...

No he should stay there; till she kills him and his children... and you say you're his friend? Is there REALLY any need to ask this question?

Anonymous said...

Until the whole story is heard. Sorry to the man in question

Anonymous said...

bitter and angry? Resolution needs to start from there. You can't keep blaming a reaction, condemning and rebuking the agent without looking at and challenging the catalyst for creating that reaction.

Anonymous said...

Well l can nt judge bcos only God knows best no matter wot d man does to her what she use to retaliate is terrible which no man see nd support her l wil advice d woman not to do like dat again bcos God wil nt forgive her if d man died so pray very wel nd l pray dat God wil grant d man quick recovery comes worst she can quit d marriage for sometim or forever if d stress or tension is too much for her to witstand d attitude of d man.My fellow writers take it easy wit ur advice l know its painful but d deal is already done no body is perfect once again God wil heal him.IJN

Anonymous said...

Is the same couple in this video?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61S5TRxtMY0

Anonymous said...

Is the same couple in this video?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61S5TRxtMY0

Ijeoma. said...

You are an ass licker. So your husband is one of those desperate friends that just love to live off Emeka, you are so angry she drove his hungry ass away. You couldn't protect your so called husband's friend's identity. You had to come here and spew rubbish. Bitch, tell you hubby to get a job.

Ijeoma. said...

Oh pls shut the hell up. You are the one who is a gold digger.

Ijeoma. said...

Did you have to expose their identities. Respect people's privacy.

Ijeoma. said...

Who asked you. Tatafo.

Ijeoma. said...

Thank you very much. This story is one sided. And I'm sure it's one of those friends who try to live off the guy in question.

Angels Mummy said...

Anonymous 4.26pm you said it all. It is really one side of the story and I believe there is more to this story. God knows best.

Subomi said...

I always say there is 2 sides to a story but this is extreme though

Duchess said...

Ewu ofia. I'm sure u are one angry ex. Oga adicha nma!

Duchess said...

Gold digger kwa? U wish u were her abi ???? Aturu Ngwa. She's not from a poor inugo. Shit happens most times.

Duchess said...

God bless u Ijemoa. Don't mind the fool. Tell ur leech husband to go get job and stop living off his fellow man. Mind ur business. #nonentity��

Anonymous said...

Well obviously, this is the end of this marriage. No matter what the truth is, no one deserves such treatment. This is extreme and cruel! The wife shud go to jail and be punished

Anonymous said...

@Ijeoma; who are you to judge on other people's comments? Excuse me but you are not even an immediate family member so quit acting everywhere and go back to your market zone! Amebo, pretenders do the worse! Idiot, poking on around everyone else comments like she is the family's advocate meanwhile she is just a passerby....don't let me open up your case now foolishness!!! ������

Anonymous said...

@Ijeoma; who are you to judge on other people's comments? Excuse me but you are not even an immediate family member so quit acting everywhere and go back to your market zone! Amebo, pretenders do the worse! Idiot, poking on around everyone else comments like she is the family's advocate meanwhile she is just a passerby....don't let me open up your case now foolishness!!! ������

Anonymous said...

Story nd yes d man must av been beating his wife,am very sure he beat her d day she poured hot water on her

Anonymous said...

You go fear vexation oo

Zükk3i said...

Who asked you for their names? You couldn't even write your own name. Mtchewwwww!

Zükk3i said...

I'm very sure that it is the same person that is determined to name names but is hiding own identity. R u sure that you are not even the reason for their fight? Where did the issue of money come into this?

Bunny said...

Lets hear from the wife too.

Anonymous said...

Madam Ijeoma. Voltron defender of the universe. I guess as cha cha chased away his friends that were licking his ass, u and her entered to clean house finally. Okay now go and save her now. If you like Dont go and face your home be here licking her ass, maybe she dashed u one of her hand me down designer bags. Your friend is a gold digger and u are a fool for supporting her. Idiot.

Anonymous said...

This should sound as a warning to those men who think they can always get away with their evil ways, treating women d way dey like

Anonymous said...

Nothing wrong in disclosing their identities. dis is a blog& people are free to comment. she should have thought about hr reputation b4 acting lyk the untrained girl she is

Anonymous said...

One sided story holds no water biko. Let's hear from the wife before condemning her. Mind u all she's preggy oh.

Anonymous said...

O'boy..na dis same woman talk say she do that time for altar??..LOL,guys make we shine our eyes b4 any monster wife talk I do o,so many dragon wives that spits fire.,I'm out of here already.

Anonymous said...

Theres no doubt the story is one sided but i cant remember the last time Linda posted a 2 sided story like this at once though i understand the sentiment for these responses. If you take this incident to court the outcome is obvious cos the man may have well passed on as a result of the attack. Its one thin 4 the story to be false , its another 4 it to be one sided. I was pushed or provoked is not enough justification for killing another.Any one who has the capability of pouring hot water on another is obviously violent and should be charged for attempted murder.my 1 kobo opinion#streetwise#

Anonymous said...

U dis Ijeoma, is the chinyere ur sister or wat? Ahn ahn... u jst carry the matter for head like gala hawker. voltron!

Duchess said...

Hmmmm the wife is not violent oh. Has never been and can never be violent. That I can vouch for. We need to hear from her first. Not judging from a distance. Something is just wrong somewhere. Oga adicha nma.

Anonymous said...

She needs to be arested and tried for attempted murder.
this unacceptable behaviour needs to be stopped

Anonymous said...

You're an idiot so a woman should continue slapping a man. And he just continue watching her slap him without doing anything. Because she is a woman. You're a sexist obviously

Duchess said...

Exactly u can't keep rebuking the agent without finding solution to the challenge. God help us all.

jbankzE said...

Evn a mad woman wil nva do dis wifout a reason......is nt evry woman u can cheat or lie to coz dey hate it nd cn kill u fr dat....ask frm d woman bfr yall startz judgin

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Anonymous said...

And to say she's 5 months pregnant for this same man, and their marriage is just a year plus...how could she do this to the father of her unborn child? This is man's inhumanity to man.People please let's call a spade a spade, how would she explain this to her kids when they're all grown up? What of the joy of having your man at your bedside after delivery? We should all learn to control our tempers, No matter the level of provocation. She had the option of walking out of the marriage if she couldn't bear things any longer. Taking law into her hands is a No, No. The man could die in the process....JESUS !!!

Unknown said...

Mr and Mrs E.C Onwuka

Anonymous said...

This Ijeoma n duchess, shut the fuck up, well unless you guys want to give the wife's side of the story, she is mean though .

Anonymous said...

Anon 8:48pm, pot calling kettle black! Why have you too carried it on your own head?

Anonymous said...

Lol @ this anon attacking this ijeoma person up and down this post, the attacks seem very specific. Do you guys know each other from somewhere and are you linked to the reason the husband and wife had the fight to start with? Abeg, gist us o. So we can get a better picture of what's going on

Anonymous said...

Some women on this blog are so foolish and confused . If it was d man that poured hot water on her , u will not say things like she must have provoked him , instead u will call for domestic violence . How can u pour hot water on someone that is sleeping and then u lock d door for him to die dr and u come to this blog to support it . Evil and demons live in a lot of Nigerian girls like ijeoma and duchess and the rest of u supporting this witch of a lady . D runz life u livd is catching up with u in anoda way . If u fucked other wives husbands when u were doing ur runz , then don't be upset when other women fuck ur husband . It's called karma

Anonymous said...

Thank you my dear duchess. This happened 3 weeks ago and for you all info, their marriage is okay.

Anonymous said...

Who Is A Murderer? You are. This happened a long time ago, and all is well with the family. This story is so false.

Anonymous said...

So true, they say action and reaction are equal and opposite. People are here blaming an innocent woman. It is well.

Anonymous said...

Why mention innocent names here. Have you ever seen Chinyere Ezenwa or Emeka before? Why do you want to spoil someone's image? Be careful.

Ijeoma. said...

@anonymous 7.31, you must be a very big fool to think you can hide under the anonymous "syndrome" to call out my name. You must be outta your damn mind. Please open up my case, I'm do dying to know what you have on me you unfortified idiot suffering from physical benzuzu. Take your ratchetness elsewhere bitch. Don't even start with me because I'll disect you. Family member my ass. I guess you are one of those the man in question feeds. Ass licker. Stupid stinker.

Ijeoma. said...

Anonymous 8.48. I am both her sister and whatever and yes I am a voltron for women who are wrongly accused. You don't just come here naming innocent people. The Women Calling Out Chinyere's name are both evil and manipulative. Grow up women and don't envy other women who are living lives than you do.

Ijeoma. said...

2 foolish anonymous syndrome commenters, what are your names to start with? First Anonymous Had To Copy AND Paste Her Comment. You just couldn't formulate another epistle. Dundee United. Then to the second foolish anonymous, at least you know I have a home, where is yours? Ooh, I know what happened to yours, hunger is about killing you. You are there plotting to break my friend's home, anyi we ju nunu. Go and die. You can never have what she has and will have. Leeches. Go get a job and stop bn jealous.

Ijeoma. said...

Gossip, COME AND Get It From Our mouths. Don't go and mind tour business. Don't feed on people's lives.

Unknown said...

There are two sides to the story and until we hear both side passing judgement would be stupendous however if this man is a serial abuser of his wife then he had it coming, although I don't condone the act but any man that beats on women is coward and I personally don't have sympathy, for such men, I'm a feminist and that's that

Anonymous said...

Duchess, go and have a seat! You and Ijeoma are just permeating everywhere. How could you say you are vouching for her when you are not even a blood/immediate family member. Birds of same feathers flock together. No matter what the husband did,she entered the marriage willingly and should have exited so, i am so sure she trapped him with her 1st pregnancy and not with love cox the marriage hasn't been to church, just 12months +. Why didn't she leave PR why didn't she seek help,she isn't the first to have marital issues and walk out. Jail she must go!!! Evil woman! She doesn't even hold a cent to her name....

Anonymous said...

Anny 8:48 exactly
Take this to court and the woman with her pregnancy will be in prison. Na why I love oyibo,your pregnancy won't be an issue cox medical facilities are provided.
Please who the bitch is IJEOMA??? OMG! She must be her accomplice

Anonymous said...

Nigerian women nd deir biased tots.. if it were a man who did dis to a woman the comments wuld haf been diffrnt with supports from them.... we live in a diffrnt world now she shuld quit d marriag if it's nt working out rather than do this to the husband. I dnt care if d story is one sided if d man loses his life it's murder if d man were ur son,uncle or brother would u support the wife except d story ain't true

Unknown said...

I guess he did somtin bitter to her

Jules said...

Yeah....., yeah. ma ex is also a woman beater but I dealth with him seriously. Hahahaha

Unknown said...

Let him stay

Anonymous said...

Your statement is false u can actually be acquired for being pushed or provoked into violence.or highest u get man slaughter.pls knw ur law b4 u say something

Anonymous said...

Care is really talking ..lol.

Anonymous said...

I see no reason why a woman should pour hot water on the husband,this is absolute wickedness no matter what she is passing through,she should have walked out of the marriage.lets be realistic

Anonymous said...

Seriously?? So now now everybody think d story is one sided?? As in for real? If it was a man being accused will u pple be saying dat?? YES! Dis story is one sided but it has always been d same here & d men were cursed. As in just look @ how dey're shouting one sided. Smh. Violence by whatever gender is BAD & not 2 be encouraged. Very well then, I know soon there will be a story from an abused woman(God forbid o!), I'll see den how u'll all clamour for d man's side of d story

Anonymous said...

how can a woman @ that be this cruel????

i think she needs to be sue and if not seen family members should be arrested

Anonymous said...

But you have never asked for the husband's side before in a reverse situation

JOYCHY said...

This woman has got some guts Ahhhhhh! Dis is wicked! Dis is gross!! Get well soon!!!

Unknown said...

Ask me one more time if you should stay? Mstchew!!

Unknown said...

Some men deserve more than these, especially my neighbors husband

Anonymous said...

HONESTLY D MAN MUST BE PASSING THRU HELL IN PAINS...NO MATTER WHT UR HUSBAND DID TO U,ON NO ACCOUNT SHLD SOMETHING LIKE THIS COME TO UR MIND WOMAN!IS BAD THAT SOME WOMEN CANT CONTROL THERE ANGER. I PRAY HE RECOVER FAST. MAY GOD FORGIVE HIS WIFE,THGH ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT HIS HUSBAND DID TO HER,I THINK WE SHLD ALSO CONSIDER THAT TOO.....BUT TO ME OOOO NO MATTER WHT D MAN DID SHLDNT WARRANT THIS ATALL. D WOMAN IS JUST HEARTLESS N WICKED.



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Anonymous said...

Thank you o anon 7:54! People are here talking without applying concrete knowledge. Attempted murder? Even if she did all that in self- defense? Especially in protecting two lives- hers and her unborn baby. As his friend already let us know; in-as-much-as he tried to paint a different picture. He revealed that the husband beat her once before so he could have done it again or it might even be a regular occurrence in that house, so it could have been during or after one of those beating sessions, coupled with her hormonal levels being a pregnant woman; that she finally lost it. Mind you, no completely sane woman would do what she did; but what made her go insane/ temporarily insane? There's no excuse for any woman to pour hot water on her husband exactly the same way there is no excuse for any man to beat HIS wife. Beating your wife can lead to death too, you catch my drift? People, let's all just say a capital NO to violence in general and stop making excuses for people. If we're not such a society that's so accepting of husbands battering their wives to start with, we wouldn't be hearing stories like this one. If a man who is double your size who has double your strength attacks your every now and then, the women too might start thinking the unthinkable. Feelings of maltreatment, unfairness, helplessness and desolation can materialise into formidable actions. FACT. Say NO to violence against male and female! Say no to provocation of male and female too! And let's all live in peace.

Anonymous said...

Anon 8:53am, stop taking sides with your selective sight! Lots of people including women have also cursed the woman, go back and check the comments again. And also, a lot of people clamour for the husband's side of the story whenever it's a woman reporting, so stop being a hypocrite! And yes, it is blatantly a one-sided story. The wife slaps the husband, she beats the househelps to the extent of blood and now she bathes husband with hot water; while the husband is just a quiet little saint, the only this he did was beat her last year after he slapped her.... Really?! You buy that? You must be slower than you sound. We all know this is an extreme and it's very uncharacteristic of a nigerian woman. A lot of nigerian men beat their wives and it is generally accepted as the norm; FACT. if a nigerian woman does this to her husband, then it isn't far-reaching to ask questions and try to get the bigger picture. I can list 20 cases of nigerian men involved in battery against their wives or partners between last year and now, can you list 5 cases of wives doing the same to their husbands? And you're here trying to compare the two and castigate the people asking the important questions. This woman is 5 months pregnant, it's not a normal thing to want to do to your husband; it is normal and actually intelligent to wonder about what really happened and why she did it. Asking for the woman's side of the story is not akin to supporting or encouraging violence. Give me a break!!

Anonymous said...

Lol! @ anon 2:44am, which one is your own sef? Are you the side-chick who wished she had been married instead? You keep cursing her out up and down the place saying she must go to jail. Anon 11:45 just let us know that this happened 3weeks ago and their marriage is now ok, it might be time for you to give up the beef. It sounds like they've sorted it out and their marriage is not going to break after all, it has survived this storm, now calm down and let it go before you give yourself hypertension on top this matter, abeg!

Anonymous said...

If that were true, hospitals would be filled with men with 2nd degree burns. Stop exaggerating bona!

Anonymous said...

If he was beating a pregnant wife and she dies, then it'll be murder too. If she pours hot water on him in self-defense to allow her enough time to run away from her attacker, then it'll be self-defense and protection of an unborn baby, not murder. Any sort of violence is BAD, be it punching, slapping, beating or pouring of hot water. Let's call a spade a spade and speak against all forms of violence. It doesn't only matter when a woman does something drastic, we all know she cannot physically pit her strength against the man in a punching-match, so why only rebuke her if she pours hot water or uses a knife? #saynotoallformsofviolencebybothsexes

Anonymous said...

Man i am a girl but this lady is a devil! Even catching a man red handed cheating on her does not warrant this

Anonymous said...

Anon 8:38pm, so your solution is to throw the baby out with the bath-water? Even if you're trying to shame the wife by encouraging that their names be mentioned, what about the husband? If he or his friend wanted his name out there, wouldn't he have disclosed it in his letter? Truth be told, it is very wrong to disclose their names, they're not celebrities and so deserve their privacy. We can all learn a thing or two from their story but it would have been better if they were anonymous to us. You can't open one's yansh without opening the other one's too

Brownsugar said...

This is terrible...we may not know the full story yea...but this is so wrong! What if he died in the process. What will she tell her children? Let us all think before we act.

Anonymous said...

Anny 4:53
Correction,the madwoman slapped the husband which led to him beating her. No woman should disrespect a man even if you have 1day on him or taller than him, it can provoke them to do anything.

Anonymous said...

Anny 5:46!
Please the victim is still in the hospital and the incident happened four days prior to the publication of this. Many people have gone to see him too.
I am just an observer as you are, so I have my rights to comment, oui?

Anonymous said...

Anny 11:46
What pictures are you trying to paint? He is in the hospital and she was not seen beside him. So stop pulling strings that it happened long ago. Please are you chacha? Cox you're acting like someone in her shoes trying to mend the issue in social media, go and face your home! If it will still work out after such a heavy mark on his body

Anonymous said...

Madam Ijeoma,
Here you are again!!! Smh you are seriously some work, I ponder on the kind of friendship advice you gave your friend obviously she took it and hence resulted to this. Hands off girl, face your home if you have one!

Anonymous said...

Ijeoma,
I have time to reply you because you need some dusting off to do. Leave your friend's marital home in peace. You never gave her good advise, why cant go and work on yourself than coming to blog to label the friendship you couldn't defend in person?
If you are married, obviously you are not and you wish you were in her shoes same shoes she was now so you two could stand single again. Sorry for you that's all I have to say. Look at how you go about calling other people; leeches, asslickers, jealous to mention a few while those are your attributes. More can be gotten from a few of your posts describing you. Stop supporting evil, what your gf did to show her anger was way to much, her mom didn't bring her up that way even if she did, hey, she is a mother herself now and could have avoided all this historical drama happening now. This goes a long way to her high sch, college and uni even to strangers that doesn't know about her have gotten more than a bite.
Many women walked out when they couldn't handle problems in their home, some of them she& you knows...she had the choice but decided to play the law by herself with the bundle of joy she is carrying.

Anonymous said...

Please Ijeoma its spelled; 'dissect'. Always think before you act. Just like her girlfriend lmao ..thank me later

Anonymous said...

Anonymous,

Please where does this Chinyere Ezenwa work, if she works? Has she been going to work? If so, can you go there to get her part of the story? If not, can you find out why she probably have not been going to work?

Gladys said...

If I may recollect, could she be the one that works in NSITF?

Anonymous said...

its well ijn...I thank God my friend is healing fast...no1 is perfect we all hav d devil in us but it takes Gods help to fight it...every1 gt issues at home..Well lets thank God d worse didnt happen. I kno d wife isnt proud abt dis, well u need Gods help to forgive urself frm wat uve done n really pray 4 healing n thank God hes alive.... well hes doing so well now n cracking jokes as usual. chacha its well..

Anonymous said...

Anny 11:48
Exactly, if it was the other way these accusers including ijeoma and duchess esp would have sliced the man into pieces but the lady in Q happens to be their friend hence the defense.
For a woman to boil water and actually waited for it to get oven hot and still have the energy to lift it and march to the bedroom, that woman must be violent and pregnancy hormones have nothing to do with it because she is already in her second trimester where the hormones act less. In fact no reasons, gosh, he could have died from the shock. Imagine burning your finger when you cook mistakenly how much more 100°c of boiled water on one side of you? Yet some ladies here shamelessly supported her because she slapped him and he beat her and cheated on her bla bla....she needs to see a psychologist for anger management simple!

Anonymous said...

Anon 10:02(22 Nov)...na u dey ask, na u dey answer. approco sweet for your mouth o(i mean fingers)

Unknown said...

oh come on..she poured the water AND locks him up in the room. Thats different shades of crazy and the pregnancy has its pressures too. She needs to be put away and kept away from the child before she turns on the child too. She is clearly a very disturbed woman.

IGI said...

No matter what? There are better ways to handle issues. Women are many but wives are few.

Unknown said...

If you beat her you may have deserved this. No physical confrontation just leave.

Anonymous said...

Cha Cha has always been disturbed right from her university days at igbinedion university okada.if truly she is d lady wife in question I suggest she be locked up because back in schl she tested positive to HIV...goodness knows what really went down. she's been covering her tracks well...maybe d husband jus found out of her disease

Anonymous said...

you must be an idiot o, HIV ke, i know her except you are the person living with full blown AIDS.. Shows you dont have work, better check yourself looser...

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