In an email she sent to Education Review & obtained by The Sun, Ruth who is now a married mother of one, narrated her fruitless efforts in searching for a well paying job. She shared on how tribalism, nepotism and her deafness have militated against her getting a job that will tally with her educational qualification. She says she currently works at a school in Ogun state where she coordinates the PTA group. She called on her alma mata, Exxon Mobil and others to help her with a job. Excerpts of the email after the cut...
“To set the record straight I am not a deaf-mute. Not all deaf people are dummies. I am a bilingual deaf person with a mild hearing loss. I became deaf in 1997 at the age of 15 while in SS 1 at Dairy Farm Secondary School, Lagos. I have already acquired language proficiency before the sickness that caused my hearing loss started then. After the illness, I discovered I couldn’t hear very well whenever people talk to me unless I read their lips. Despite this hearing difficulty, I continued my education at the school.
“At a point, I confided in the Vice Principal (Academic) Deaconess Afolabi but she didn’t believe me because according to her I could speak and hear her. She decided to check my academic records but was surprised to realize how brilliant I was as a deaf person. From there, she showed interest in me and adopted me. She later introduced me to her husband – Pastor Toye Afolabi. They supported me to further my education at Kwara State College of Education, Oro, in 1999, after the completion of my SSCE. I lived and grew up under their loving care for more than 15 years till I got married in 2011.
“When I got admissions into University of Ilorin (UNILORIN), they encouraged and supported me. I did not even know sign language then but I excelled at the College where I studied Agriculture. I did my IT at the Lagos State Agriculture Development Authority without the help of any interpreter. I have a good rapport with people. Some people think I am pretending to be deaf whenever I tell them about it because of the way I relate with them. I didn’t attend any special school but I learnt the skill of sign language while teaching at Christian Mission School for the Deaf at Ibadan in 2003.
“I am physically, mentally, emotionally and morally sound, and very assertive. I love interacting with people but I don’t like to be taken for granted. Intellectually, I like reading and researching. I also love playing football. Mind you, I am still playing football even now as a nursing mother. My friend used to call me Tomboy in those days because I like doing what boys do. I love tasks that challenge my intellect. My husband and I have similar condition. He is deaf but he can speak English fluently. We are both qualified graduates from University of Ilorin. He is, at present, working with Ogun State Teachers Service Commission.
“I scored a Cumulative Grade Point Average (CGPA) of 4.45. That was the score I saw on the result sheet in the first semester of my final year. After the completion of my study I graduated with a second class honour (Upper Division).
“On the efforts made so far to get a good job, I had wanted to work with the University of Ilorin. There is a lecturer at the Faculty of Education, I was so fond of her even till today. Leaving her was, indeed, a difficult challenge for me. The affection I have for her made my desire to work in the university stronger and that was what motivated me to do my NYSC in the institution. The lecturer is now a professor. I was then lucky to serve at the newly established Centre for Peace and Strategic Studies (CPSS) headed by her (Prof. Olasehinde Williams). Before the completion of my NYSC, I wrote a letter requesting to be retained but got no response then.
“After the completion of my one mandatory youth service, I continued to apply for job whenever the university released vacancies. I think I have done so thrice. The former Vice Chancellor, Prof. Ishaq Oloyede, was making attempt to employ me based on my application which was submitted to him in 2012/2013. I later learnt that he was about to do that before his tenure expired. I wrote a letter explaining the situation to the new Vice Chancellor (Prof. Ambali) in 2013 and, in fact, re-applied last year but the vacancy was put on hold.
“Another opportunity came when ex-President Goodluck Jonathan gave disabled people employment opportunity in 2013. I joined others to apply and traveled with my husband to Abuja for the interview in November. My daughter was just seven months old when I embarked on the journey with her. The selection process was based on our qualification and I had the faith that I would be selected since I was the only applicant with second class honour (Upper Division) among the deaf applicants from Ondo State. I was disappointed when my name did not appear on the list of those shortlisted due to what I will call “connection, godfatherism and tribalism syndrome” which has become a social norm in Nigeria as far as employment is concerned. If the Ondo Commissioner had selected us based on merit, there is no way I would not be qualified since there was no written test or oral interview.
“My surname, Okpoto, must have affected me because that was the name on my credentials but having married a man from that state the Commissioner should have considered me qualified. I regretted not applying through the Delta State Commission as I would have been given the job then. The most painful aspect of this experience was the refusal by the Commissioner to give my husband, an indigene of the state, his posting/appointment letter. Initially, his name was on the list but was later short-changed with someone else known to the Commissioner.
“Another instance where tribalism and connection really affected me was at the Lagos State Scholarship Board exam in 2004/2005. The then governor Asiwaju Bola Tinubu had forwarded my application for oversea scholarship to the board for immediate action. The Director of the board (Mr. Badmus) told me that I was not born in Lagos because of my surname (Okpoto). I told him I was born and bred in Lagos but he refused to treat the letter. The institution abroad (Rochester Institute of Technology), had awarded me scholarship for only tuition fee but I could not raise funds to cover other expenses. Life is indeed full of experiences but I will never give up.
“As noted above, a situation where political connection, godfatherism and tribalism are used as yardsticks for recruitment is psychologically and emotionally disturbing. Imagine the stress I passed through traveling to Abuja from Ibadan with a seven-month old baby for the civil service interview. This is too bad! But I believe that life goes on! Things will change for the better now that President Muhammad Buhari is making effort to sanitize the system. The Disability Rights Bill is long overdue. The President should, please, assent to the bill to protect the employment and fundamental rights of persons with disabilities.
“At the moment I am living with my husband and managing to work as employee of Parent Teachers Association in a school in Ogun State. The monthly take-home pay is meagre. But what more can I do? I have tried so many places without any result. Everywhere I go, some people would ask some funny questions like “you are from where?” “You do not look like a Yoruba”, “Your father’s name is an Igbo name.” Deafness is another barrier as the society does not want to employ deaf and disabled people. They usually experience employment discriminations due to their disability. But disability is not inability! There is nothing the deaf cannot do. The only difference between us and our hearing counterparts is our inability to hear which in my own case is partial. The society especially employers of labour should know that deafness is not an insurmountable barrier to success. I can teach. I can lead. I can do mathematical calculations etc. What is more? Let the society try us first and see what we can do.
“I can work in government ministries, agencies and parastatals as well as private companies in administrative capacity. My computer skill is also an added advantage. As a holder of first degree in Educational Guidance and Counseling, I can provide counseling service for young people. Apart from the university job, I can work in oil companies like ExxonMobil or in telecommunication companies like GLO, MTN, Etisalat or Airtel, in the area of computer operation, data processing and network or in any other administrative duty that may be assigned to me.
“I am still searching for a good job and I am pleading with the University of Ilorin management to help me. I don’t think the University has abandoned me. I guess the new Vice Chancellor is not aware of the fact that I served at the university and I am not sure if he received my appeal letter. The former Vice Chancellor was working on my application before his tenure ended in 2013, so I think the new Vice Chancellor in the person of Prof. AbdulGaniyu Ambali should reopen my case as regarding employment. I appreciate my parent/pastor Deacon Toye Afolabi, Prof Alasehinde Williams, Prof. Omotosho, Prof Adegoke, Dr. Esere etc for their efforts in assisting me.
“To be honest with you, having good job will make it possible for me to achieve my goals and give back to society. It is my dream to become a lecturer so with good job I will be able to save money to further my education. I need to go back to school for my masters and PHD. I also want to set up an NGO that will empower disabled people especially young ones that are not educable to acquire vocational skills that will make them self-reliant and to contribute meaningfully to the growth of their fatherland rather than roaming the streets and begging for money. An adage says: “if you give a child a fish, you feed him for a day. But if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for a lifetime. I want to assist young people to have the financial muscles to feed themselves for a lifetime. I also have a business plan in mind but there is no money to get started. I believe with good job I can achieve all these.”
58 comments:
UNI ILORIN CUDNT EVN KIP HER...NA WAH..TOMJERRYSWIT
#IT IS WELL!
You see! That's what I keep telling you guys, Nigeria is the worst country I have eva seen. That's why young Niggaz are flying out everyday by day, 9ja don cast so bad. For over 6yrs she has been looking for job chai! #GodblessAmerican. #team_lala says so #valentinechisom7@gmail.com
There are scores of her type out there. What a pathetic situation.
Dis babe need to go beg her village people and seek atonment for any wrong committed by her parent or fore fathers.
Biko Nigeria unemployments has got to dis dat it wil not employ d best students frm our university.
Better solution is for her to seek solution frm d Lord for breakthrough for God can do d impossible.
Dis babe need to go beg her village people and seek atonment for any wrong committed by her parent or fore fathers.
Biko Nigeria unemployments has got to dis dat it wil not employ d best students frm our university.
Better solution is for her to seek solution frm d Lord for breakthrough for God can do d impossible.
You see! That's what I keep telling you guys, Nigeria is the worst country I have eva seen. That's why young Niggaz are flying out everyday by day, 9ja don cast so bad. For over 6yrs she has been looking for job chai! #GodblessAmerican. #team_lala says so #valentinechisom7@gmail.com
It is well
Being a nigeria and hard hearing myself, i also had the same problem. now i am in the state i am about to get a job. so my dear ruth, leave naija for good and seek for a job in abroad. The Problem with nigeria employment system is that they think people like me and you are going to be liabilities to them and we dont owe them any explanation what we had to go through to become who we are today. Leave immediately and utilize your skill in abroad and also try to get a hearing aid that will improve your hearing. Wish you the best in all endeavors trying to make it in this life.
God help u ma
I swear!!! Even person wey no deaf dey find job for years. Naija is a fucked up country! Very fucked up! Imagine, I know of a young lady very eager to work, but no job, y wont she start runs or something. God bless America!
Dis na naija... Who E help
Ohhh my God! Ruth, I have been trying to get her all this while. She is my friend. All she said in this narration are very true. We worked together at Christian Mission for the Deaf and I can bet you that I have never seen a lady with such intellect despite the nature of her disability. I beckoned to Nigerians to please help her. Ruth, I love this courage, you will surely get your goals achieved. Bless u dear
It is well with her. Linda take note!
It is well with her. Linda take note!
Na wa o. That is Naija for you. I hope she gets help.
#TeamBlessed#
Na wa o. That is Naija for you. I hope she gets help.
#TeamBlessed#
royal priesthood u r the dumbest foolishest adamant daft in the entire universe, tufiakwa!
Wow! She writes so well. I enjoyed reading every word. I see potentials in this woman. She is a very intelligent being, worthy of any high ranking position in any industry. C'mon y'all! Give this genius a chance!
royal priesthood u r the dumbest foolishest adamant daft in the entire universe, tufiakwa!
Blame it on our economy.....
My dear Ruth the situation of things in this country is just so fucked up. I graduated 2012 and serviced 2014 since I finished my youth services it has been from one interview to another and yet no job , I also graduated with a second class upper. yet I can't get a job .am so frustrated now my grandmother is sick and I can't even help with her medical bills just bcos I don't have a job
Linda. Thank you for this publicity. Now, dear Ruth can have a job. But please tell her that her inability is not the cause of her unemployment. It is a Nigerian-Thing! There are thousands with better qualifications who do not have that 'PTA' job she has. Nigerian youths should start looking at how to acquire employable skills not some 'varsity degrees'.
Awww. She's worthy of countless positions. People should stop the 'stigmatization' against disabled people.
~D great anonymous!
Why she Come resemble saraki like this
I swear choiii... And employers are always looking for fresh graduates
@Royal Priesthood you are a damn fool. You do not deserve the oxygen you are sucking in. What the bloody hell is this woman supposed to beg atonement for? Go beg atonement for your stupidity and the accident of your birth, then dig a deep hole and jump in and never come out.
Did you trek to America ?
Can't still believe o read all this.. Naija don baje
Now this is a pathetic story.... d fact that she didnt allow her condition to dictate her success stort thrilled me but hey if yu are reading i will encourage you to pick up masters form since your dream is to become a lecturer getting a job wt mobil, mtn etc wld only fustrate you outta your dreams...& one good news fr yu is that you had your first degree in unilorin m sure fed univ are not too expensive and you really need to take a step of faith irrespective of whether yu av tution fee or not purchase the form....pls dt procter and gamble or nestle or mobil job may never come..wake up and go afta your dreams.....
@ royal priesthood: a curch goer wont talk like u not to talk of a born again Christian! What do u mean she has to go beg someone? All she need is to get closer to God and she will be set free .pls read Ezekiel 18 very well.
She needs to be employed ....she got things to deposit. i really need the definition of her Good-job. you cant study Education and you would want to find a job in Exxon come on ...everybody is not going to be in the oil and gas .
Hope its not from her village she. God help her.
Imagine the kind of country we are in.
Shebi she sha get one? She shld be thankful
With due respect there is no future for the Disabled on Nigeria. She should leave Nigeria fast.
I realised quickly after graduation that good grades alone does not get you a job, unfortunately that is the way of the world; a good grade does not make you a perfect for a job
Tears just rolled down my eyes reading all dis, wish I can help, am also a graduate of educational guidance and counselling, wit second class upper degree, no job for a none connected nigerian like us, tank God for d business idea I have, dat wat am living on now. Ruth my sister take heart and pray. Dat d nature of d country we found ourselve.
Please, what kind of job do you do in America?
A yoruba adage says that he that keeps quiet, is he that his own is finished. I salute your courage and I thank Linda for bringing this story up. You will definitely be favoured and get the job of ur dreams
Ur lived will turn for the better becos u have worked very hard.
Calling on all Nigerian employers and HR managers to rise up and prove that discrimination is not a factor.
This are d kind of people buhari should seek to give employment since he is looking for people of merit to serve in his administration. Not who know person kind of appointment
Eyaah! I feel her pain. May God see Ruth true. It is a pity that tribalism is now in everywhere in Nigeria. Man may fail u but God will never fail u.
Dear Ruth..put ur hopes only in God! Human beings will surely disappoint u..n God will hlp u my dear.
I know this lady Ruth Oh my God can't believe she is passing through this shame to our government . We have a lady like this and no good job oh no I weep for my country. People please help her get a job and help will never be far from you and your family Amen. Mrs Abe
That's d situation in Nigeria now. Everything has to be gotten through connection. I just thank God that d air we all breathe is for free. If not...
It is well
Now,dem go say boiz dey do Yahoo and Girls dey do Olosho,Why wont dey???My Shool is still better by far sha..Unilorin should try and help this girl even if them no fit help we wey no pass well
It is well Ruth,God will see you through
I wish you all dah best...
Babe, you are not deaf - its our society that's really disabled and retarded.
You people talk like nitwits, should she develop wings and fly "abroad" brother ? Did u read when she said she didn't have money for other expenses when she won a scholarship? Get a good job in ur abroad first before you start blabbing, you are part of the people denting this countries image. Oshi
Help her na, scatter scatter teeth.
People wey dey hear n speak never get work na deaf n dumb dey get work. Lemme ask? How do u communicate with people? Not everyone knows sign language. U guys can cause me I don't care but d truth is bitter.
Chaii. God see u through
@Nonso that's the best comment of this post...
God she has spoken let her voice be heard and let help come from many places that she will have to do yanga to some people sef.
Did you not read the part where she said, she reads lips so perfectly that people doubt her deafness. And that she doesn't not even know sign language.
Lmaooooo.. u are a case!! Jeeez
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