Emily, a freelance writer living in Michigan , used a random ultrasound image on Facebook alongside her post to grab people's attention.
She then told friends: "Before you ask the young married couple that has been together for seemingly forever when they are finally gonna start a family, before you ask the parents of an only-child toddler when a Little Brother or Little Sister will be in the works, before you ask a single 30-something if/when s/he plans on having children because, you know, clock's ticking ... just stop.
"You don't know who is having relationship problems or is under a lot of stress or the timing just isn't right. You don't know who is on the fence about having kids or having more kids.
"Whether you are a wanna-be grandparent or a well-intentioned friend or family member or a nosy neighbor, it's absolutely none of your business.
"If a person wants to let you in on something as personal as their plans to have or not have children they will tell you.
"People asking me about my child bearing plans drives me up a tree. Be they my parents or perfect strangers, because that happens all too often,” one woman wrote.
"Thank you for posting this, I’m so drained right now from fighting these questions off."And the post has got incredible support from friends.
Her brother Tim Bingham said: "Wow Sis, quite a powerful message!"
46 comments:
She shld take heart
Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right
Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right
Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right
I'll read latee
Later
Whtever suit or rock their boats bcos all dis issues of child bearing's differs and its unpredictable. Indeed its God dat gives children.
Oh oh
#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise
Yes she's right
Beautiful piece!
Those Aunties and Relations that would never stop asking Us when they are coming to drink wine...whollup!! Drink water and mind your damn business..
Her problem. TIMILEYIN BLESSING
Lol, she don hear am, kolet free kredit here konfam9ja.blogspot.com
awww! quite heart rendering, people steady pushing others to the elastic limit.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Thank you!!!! Well said. People should learn to mind their own business. Its frustrating when people choose not to think before they speak.
She is so right, because it piss me up most times the way people try wanna know deep about you which isn't their life but yours.
These kinda things are funny ...u tryna get pple out of someone's business whn u are in their business...what is your business if they ask....please visit n likw
Wow strong words indeed
Powerful message indeed! Ppl shud learn to mind their own bizness...
I love this post.It posess a ring of simple truth in a well articulated manner.People really have to learn minding their business
Seen,
The best question is "why do you even care? It's not your life, it's mine!"
The best question is "why do you even care? It's not your life, it's mine!"
She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!
She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!
She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!
If she was African....
Its got my support too.
Hmmmmm dats all I can say ni
ABI OOH....TOMJERRYSWIT
Mind ur business. Simple.
Imagine someone still saying if she was African...pls, what good has being an African brought to the world at large...dark souls ever backwards BUT for TheLight shone on us...
That one can not work in Naija. Nosy ppl everywhere. Parents forever on ur case to marry. Inlaws on ur case to hv kids even when its the guy's low sperm count thats disturbing. The list is endless....
Linda may not post this, but i'm certain this message is a way to console herself. Linda ya man is on the way u hear. God bless and ya'll November 14 is my sister's wedding y'all are invited and aunt Linda workaholic by come and relax that day for once
Pls tell them busy bodies
Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!
Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!
Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!
Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!
To an extent i agree with her but then gossip or side-talks are part of living. It should be adapted to with grace and hope that wrongs will turn out right.
Problem share problem solve
Thank u my sister..all of dem commenting as if dey dnt talk abt people..
Lol...I totally get her drift though. Unfortunately, I don't think this would work in Africa, particularly Nigeria.
#TeamBlessed#
This made absolutely no sense! Lol you sound stupid
Lol...
Tell Linda to stop blogging then..As if her blog isn't full of gossips or maybe she is just trying to console herself. You berra go and get married, this is Nigeria not USA. Continue finding more similar stories to console yourself
And mind dier business!
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