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Monday 28 September 2015

Single woman's Facebook rant goes viral

A frustrated woman's Facebook post has gone viral after she hit out at those pressuring couples to have children to mind their own business. Emily Bingham's passionate message has struck a chord with thousands of people, who have been sharing her post/rant and backing her message that other people's reproductive and procreative plans should be kept private.

Emily, a freelance writer living in Michigan , used a random ultrasound image on Facebook alongside her post to grab people's attention.
She then told friends: "Before you ask the young married couple that has been together for seemingly forever when they are finally gonna start a family, before you ask the parents of an only-child toddler when a Little Brother or Little Sister will be in the works, before you ask a single 30-something if/when s/he plans on having children because, you know, clock's ticking ... just stop.
"You don't know who is having relationship problems or is under a lot of stress or the timing just isn't right. You don't know who is on the fence about having kids or having more kids.
"Whether you are a wanna-be grandparent or a well-intentioned friend or family member or a nosy neighbor, it's absolutely none of your business.
"If a person wants to let you in on something as personal as their plans to have or not have children they will tell you.



"People asking me about my child bearing plans drives me up a tree. Be they my parents or perfect strangers, because that happens all too often,” one woman wrote.
"Thank you for posting this, I’m so drained right now from fighting these questions off."
And the post has got incredible support from friends.

Her brother Tim Bingham said: "Wow Sis, quite a powerful message!"

46 comments:

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

She shld take heart

Unknown said...

Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right

Unknown said...

Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right

Unknown said...

Is high time ppl should learn to respect personal opinion right

💋Hey boo said...

I'll read latee

💋Hey boo said...

Later

Unknown said...

Whtever suit or rock their boats bcos all dis issues of child bearing's differs and its unpredictable. Indeed its God dat gives children.

Blog It With Olivia said...

Oh oh














#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise

Unknown said...

Yes she's right

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

Beautiful piece!
Those Aunties and Relations that would never stop asking Us when they are coming to drink wine...whollup!! Drink water and mind your damn business..

Unknown said...

Her problem. TIMILEYIN BLESSING

Unknown said...

Lol, she don hear am, kolet free kredit here konfam9ja.blogspot.com

BONARIO NNAGS said...

awww! quite heart rendering, people steady pushing others to the elastic limit.


~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Women Rule said...

Thank you!!!! Well said. People should learn to mind their own business. Its frustrating when people choose not to think before they speak.

Unknown said...

She is so right, because it piss me up most times the way people try wanna know deep about you which isn't their life but yours.

Unknown said...

These kinda things are funny ...u tryna get pple out of someone's business whn u are in their business...what is your business if they ask....please visit n likw

PRESIDENT's DAUGTHER said...

Wow strong words indeed

Unknown said...

Powerful message indeed! Ppl shud learn to mind their own bizness...

Bonita Bislam said...

I love this post.It posess a ring of simple truth in a well articulated manner.People really have to learn minding their business

Unknown said...

Seen,

lovely heart said...

The best question is "why do you even care? It's not your life, it's mine!"

lovely heart said...

The best question is "why do you even care? It's not your life, it's mine!"

Unknown said...

She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!

Unknown said...

She's absolutely right. People should learn to mind their business. Linda take note!

ary said...

If she was African....

Bosslady said...

Its got my support too.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm dats all I can say ni

Anonymous said...

ABI OOH....TOMJERRYSWIT

Evita O. Enwefah said...

Mind ur business. Simple.

Anonymous said...

Imagine someone still saying if she was African...pls, what good has being an African brought to the world at large...dark souls ever backwards BUT for TheLight shone on us...

Swerve said...

That one can not work in Naija. Nosy ppl everywhere. Parents forever on ur case to marry. Inlaws on ur case to hv kids even when its the guy's low sperm count thats disturbing. The list is endless....

Unknown said...

Linda may not post this, but i'm certain this message is a way to console herself. Linda ya man is on the way u hear. God bless and ya'll November 14 is my sister's wedding y'all are invited and aunt Linda workaholic by come and relax that day for once

Unknown said...

Pls tell them busy bodies

Anonymous said...

Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!

Anonymous said...

Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!

Anonymous said...

Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!

Anonymous said...

Funny.. Evryone is saying mind ur biz as if dey dnt talk about others.. If u want to mind ur biz don't come to linda's blog cos its full of gossips!

yawanow said...

To an extent i agree with her but then gossip or side-talks are part of living. It should be adapted to with grace and hope that wrongs will turn out right.

Unknown said...

Problem share problem solve

Anonymous said...

Thank u my sister..all of dem commenting as if dey dnt talk abt people..

Unknown said...

Lol...I totally get her drift though. Unfortunately, I don't think this would work in Africa, particularly Nigeria.





















#TeamBlessed#

BEAUTY~HAVEN said...

This made absolutely no sense! Lol you sound stupid

Ettadarl said...

Lol...

Anonymous said...

Tell Linda to stop blogging then..As if her blog isn't full of gossips or maybe she is just trying to console herself. You berra go and get married, this is Nigeria not USA. Continue finding more similar stories to console yourself

Unknown said...

And mind dier business!

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