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Saturday 3 October 2015

Father sexually assaults his 4 year old daughter, she becomes dumb

Four-year-old child has lost her voice following several sexual assaults on her by her 37-year-old father, identified as Ademola.

Her mother explained to Saturday PUNCH how her husband of 14 years had been molesting their daughter.

Blessed with four children; three girls, including a set of twins, and a boy,things became took a dark turn when she caught her husband sexually assaulting their 2nd child.

 The unfortunate incident seems to be tearing the family further apart as she has not only moved out of the house; she has vowed never to return, whilst accusing her husband of being diabolical.

She began, “It started in 2013 when I suddenly woke up one night and saw my husband removing the panties of my daughter. It was in the midnight. I wanted to shout but I wanted to see what he was up to. So, I pretended as if I didn’t see him because the room was relatively dark.

“When he pulled down her pant, he looked around and when he felt convinced that everyone was deep asleep, he stood up and moved to where the girl was and dipped his hand in her private part. I screamed.

“To say I was shocked was to say the least. He was shocked too because he didn’t know anyone was watching, so he quickly stood up, pulled up his trousers and started beating me.”
She said she would have left the home that night but she said she had to stay because she was already pregnant for him at the time.
She continued, “He beat me that night such that blood came out of my body. I didn’t even know I was pregnant until that night and the pregnancy was about two months old. I ran away from him for some time and I told my relatives. But I had to go back because of the pregnancy and that was when I had a set of twins for him.”
She said she had thought he had changed and would never do such a despicable act again, but unknown to her, other things had been going on without her knowledge. She said the straw that broke the camel’s back happened on July 17, 2015 when she caught him molesting her daughter again the same way he did before.
With her eyes soaked in tears, she said, “I thought he had stopped until the night of July 17, 2015 around 1am. It was a Friday. Rebecca was sleeping beside me but I saw him stand up, he carried the girl to the other side of the bed. He didn’t know I was awake. I had wanted to shout but I wanted to know what he was up to again. So, he removed his trousers, turned his back at me and crawled to where Rebecca was lying.
“He didn’t know I was looking at him. He pulled down her panties and started inserting his finger in her private part again. I thought I was dreaming. I screamed and continued shouting. He was shocked and couldn’t talk. He was just looking. Then, he went back to sleep.
“The following morning, I challenged him why he was doing that to his own child. I know he is diabolical, so I told him if his plan was to use my daughter for anything evil, he would not prosper. That was what got him angry and he started beating me. He said he would kill me. Then, my other children started crying and shouting, and he didn’t stop until one of our neighbours intervened.
“The following day, I went to the church to report to the shepherd of the church he was attending, Celestial Church of Christ, somewhere around Ikotun in Alimosho Local Government. The shepherd was shocked too but he pleaded with me to exercise patience. Because of the fear of what he could do to us, we left the house and moved to the church and we kept sleeping there.”
Folake explained that her estranged husband, who is a motor mechanic in Ikotun area, came to the church, beat her and forcefully took away their 17-month-old twins, whom she was still breastfeeding, noting that the two girls had been in his custody since then.

Her seven-year-old son, identified simply as Seun, told Punch correspondent that he had seen his father on top of his sister on several occasions , stating that he had caught him twice in the act of putting his hand “under” his sister. He explained that his father used to rub his hands all over Rebecca’s body but he barely knew what he was up to.

Disturbed by the incident, Folake said she reported the assault at the Igando Police Station and to the Executive Director, Esther Child Rights Foundation, Mrs. Esther Ogwu, who had helped to monitor the case with the police. Folake added that some of the policemen at the station laughed at her when they heard about the case.

Ogwu told Saturday PUNCH that it would be in the interest of all if justice was done on the matter, saying she would follow the matter to its conclusion.
She added, “We have involved the National Human Rights Commission, Office of the Public Defender and the Lagos State Ministry of Justice in the case so as to ensure justice. It is increasingly becoming important for parents to pay due attention to their children to guard them against assault.”

Even though a test conducted on the girl at the Mirabel Sexual Assault Referral Centre at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, Ikeja, Lagos, confirmed that the girl had been assaulted and her hymen broken, Folake noted that to her dismay, Ademola has been released on bail by the police, and that the police in Igando have been reluctant in taking the case to court.
Folake said that her worry was that the man who had done both spiritual and psychological damage to her little daughter should was about to go scot free.
“This girl’s private part has almost become rotten and as young as she is, her breast is already coming out, and she limps occasionally. I can never entrust my children into his hands and that is why I’m worried about the twins that are with him. They are also girls. I don’t want him to molest them too.“He had afflicted us with charm but we have been set free. The two children in school have been very retarded, coupled with the fact that Rebecca has not been talking until she did twice just two months ago. And since then, she has stopped again. She just doesn’t talk and she urinates frequently. She should be in Nursery One now but she seems not to be coping. Even her teachers are complaining she had become a recluse and she keeps urinating all the time.”
When Ademola was contacted over the allegations levelled against him by his wife and son, he said:
“She is lying against me. I didn’t do any of those things they were saying. She has been looking for ways to move out of the house because she has seen someone else she wants to marry and that was why she left the house.”

The Divisional Police Officer, Igando Police Station, Mr. Segun Fagbohun, said that he has transferred Ademola and the case to the State Criminal Investigation Department at Yaba for further investigations.

121 comments:

Unknown said...

What's up with these men having sex with babies lately??? Shocking Video/Pix: Abuja runs girl allegedly slept with a politician for N300k & found worms in her private part after [Very Graphic]

www.glowyshoes.com said...

Useless man...he needs to be guven life imprisonmnt

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Unknown said...

So absurd and ridiculous.

Unknown said...

Omg!
This man is a Beast.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

There's nothing we won't hear. I hope the man pays dearly for such evil.
Can you imagine the policemen were laughing at her when she reported the issue them.


~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Cute G said...

Omg!! Good grief!! Gracious Goodness!! Why is the Nigerian police so lackadaisical about this issue? Imagine the police had to even laugh at her when she was reporting this issue. Other capable organisations against child abuse should take this up. I wonder what the he-goat is doing to those baby girls with him right now. He is a dangerous specie that should be locked up. Linda pls keep us abreast of the latest on this. *arggh*

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Chai! How heartbreaking!

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Chai! How heartbreaking!

Unknown said...

Subuhanallah! *tears* dis is not fair to d lil gel! Y will u do dat? He has ruined her! God! And dats how police officers do dey take everyfin. For granted as far as dey gt lil change comin in! Those officers shld b arrested as his accomplice useless lots!

Unknown said...

DAT MAN IS A DOG AND SHLD BE DEALT WIT OR ELSE HE WILL GO OFF CHAIN

Anonymous said...

Aunty Linda we had two blasts in Abuja.. One in Kuje,the other at Nyanya.. I'm so sad cod they'll put the road blocks once again and traffic will continue on that road

Unknown said...

Some women are ready to marry any man just to be address as mrs dis or dat without seeking for the help of holy spirit to direct them,is a monster not better than dis man?ladies apply wisdom when in comes to choosing life partners.
Linda look alike

ZeeZee said...

Some women can be very stupid. How do you stay back with him after your first discovery. You have ruined your daughter's life. You did this for her. I just pray the poor girl gets over it and gets the required treatment.

Chyachebe said...

This woman is crazy oh, she left her twin girls with a confirmed paedophile? Na wao. If he is beating her can't she just use something n break his head?

Anonymous said...

what a wicked & cruel world.

Unknown said...

Why does Nigerian police keep doing this? Any domestic case or abuse case they sweep it under the carpet or make a mockery of the victim. So annoying!

Anonymous said...

May God serve him according to how he deserves

Unknown said...

idiot man

Anonymous said...

OMG! It's really sad how far some men can go. Nigerian police ain't helping matters at all.

Anonymous said...

Devil.

Anonymous said...

Daddy dearest, may your sweet soul RIPP. You never beat your children, especially me your baby you did not have money but we never go hungry for a day. Papa you were an Angel.
The things I read about fathers today send chills down my body. What is happening in the society.

Unknown said...

JESUS CHRIST!!

Unknown said...

I don't believe the man. How can a woman after 4 kids still be looking for excuse to marry another man and leave the father of her kids. He's lying. Besides, how come the 4yr old's hymen was broken? Things that are happening everyday is enough to make people like him drop dead if I were god. Thank God man is not God o!
























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ogeee said...

The man s very evil God punish him

ELENA (HER MAJESTY) said...

Just when u think uv heard and read it all *sigh*.
The heart of man is indeed wicked.
That idiot of a husband needs to be burnt alive...i just can't deal.
And those silly policemen dt laughed @her,need to hung.

Unknown said...

He's not a father..he's was a speem donor..a father wouldn't do tht to their child....he needs God ASAP..

Unknown said...

Sperm*

Innocentia Annie said...

There is God ooohh
All this sexual assaults is getting
way too much

Unknown said...

Thunder strike u...dis idiot Good for nothing molesting bastard...u will rot in hell...what a 4year old child...u just turned dis little girls life in hell...if I was a judge u will die by firing squard....rubbish...

Unknown said...

Haba!!! The thunder wen go strike this less of a man dey do push up.

Unknown said...

God will punish u...thunder will strike u to death dis man...molesting idiot...I wish dey cut off dat dick of urs..then I will see what u want to use next....see d trauma u are allowing ur children to go thru...govt should implement more on these MDG3 goal..for women's right...rubbish

optimisticlady said...

This issue of fathers molesting their daughters is becoming rampant...yhe problem is that our police and justice system seems not to care about it.until there is a massive awareness on this,this menace will continue..
God please heal those girls.

Asampokoto said...

He is a paedophile the woman is stupid. The end. All this diabolical bullshit talk is irritating.
"I had to come back to his house because I was already pregnant" a sane woman will not put any of her daughter's at risk again regardless of the situation. NIGERIAN MOTHERS, DO BETTER.

Anonymous said...

Hummm !!wonders shall never end..this man should be dealt with and justice should take his course.. tbis kids are those who turn out to be prostitutes.. and we wonder what they are think for them to engage in such.. dishonouring occupation.. well I hope the rigth people will help this woman retrive her yound adorables from dis demonic male homosapien...

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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See as the fool innocent for face..... Jail abeg no tym.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITAR***

AC£S said...

:( sick animal

Unknown said...

All these evil happening, endtime tinz
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ary said...

My God!!

Anonymous said...

He should be thrown to jail 4 life.EVIL MAN.

Blog It With Olivia said...

He should be castrated straight up
















#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise

Blog It With Olivia said...

He should be castrated straight up
















#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise

Apple Berry said...

Psychopath. Does the know the psychological trauma this little girl might go through for the rest of her life? And his daughter for that matter! He needs to be castrated ASAP or better still executed by electrocution. I just feel so much pity for that poor little girl. May God be her strength.

Anonymous said...

Chineke muoooo
What kinda story is dis plsss
Is dis 4 real????
Oooo God why do u give children 2 men like dis??
Dis story sickening
If it's true dis man shld just b properly dealt wit
Alu......
#oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

Unknown said...

Some men has their hrt and conscience cooked by the devil in hell, a 4yr old? 4y? Pple sef eh, God 4bid #singinavemaria

Anonymous said...

I am so angry with that foolish woman. Why didn't u leave with the kids when u noticed it d first time. Oh God I am crying.. that man deserves to be stoned to death.

TAMARA SPLASH said...

Omg

Anonymous said...

Yoruba and ritualism. Which kind of cursed generation be this? Your own child? Tufiakwa

Unknown said...

The perv deserves one of those life changing cells at Kirikiri
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Unknown said...

This man is a devil

anonymous said...

Linda, thank you for posting these stories. Well meaning Nigerians implore you to bring these evil to the limelight as these evil acts of incest has exploded in the country. I think one of the reasons for these though is the bombardment on us of western cultures through television and technology which has lead to sexual idolatry and social promiscuity. The worst police force on earth, the Nigeria police force should be put on notice that the Nigeria people will no longer allow these evil acts to be swept under the carpet. Linda, pls what is the latest of the little girl that was raped in Benin by the 3 lunatics?

FlakOla said...

Oh my gosh! It is simply shocking that this paedophile that molests his own infant daughter is still in custody of infant girl twins. For real are we possessed in this country??? Shouldn't the authorities have the children removed from him immediately to protect them from further sexual assault and abuse by their sick father?? What are they waiting for? My heart bleeds. Why ain't I shocked that the Police found such a heart breaking story funny when the mother of the children reported him at the Police station? This is truly tragic. Lagos State Social Services where ask you o???? This is a travesty. Save these babies from their sick father now before he rapes these baby twins to death or can't you hear that he has severely damaged his other 4 year olds' female genitalia from repeatedly raping her? Gosh someone do something NOW!!! This is too sad to comprehend. All the Authorities need to come to these children's aid immediately. PLEASE.

Unknown said...

gaddamn this man is a fucking psycho



Aunty linda.....

Unknown said...

gaddamn this man is a fucking psycho



Aunty linda.....

Anonymous said...

The thunder that will fire the man ehnn

Anonymous said...

I cried as I read this. God please why?

Anonymous said...

I'm in tears,what is all this wickedness?where is all this coming from?why why Why?Lord purnish the wicked I can't bear this stories anymore,how can someone do this?how?

Anonymous said...

What is all this?how can someone do this?where is all this wickedness coming from?I can't bear all this stories anymore. Lord pls purnish the wicked

Anonymous said...

What is all this?how can someone do this?where is all this wickedness coming from?I can't bear all this stories anymore. Lord pls purnish the wicked

Anonymous said...

too bad these things happen these days

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Anonymous said...

SICK ANIMAL

Unknown said...

Only in yoruba... 95% of the assault in Nigeria re from this particular tribe.. Chaaaaaaeeeeeiii Omo ofe nmanu

KCA said...

It shall never be well with that man. Why will a woman leave her husband with four kids to go after another, except u mistreat her. Idiot, he is cursed

Unknown said...

Only in yoruba... 95% of the assault in Nigeria re from this particular tribe.. Chaaaaaaeeeeeiii Omo ofe nmanu

Unknown said...

Only in yoruba... 95% of the assault in Nigeria re from this particular tribe.. Chaaaaaaeeeeeiii Omo ofe nmanu

Da-LadyBossChick said...

I feel like throwing up

Unknown said...

Look at this moafucker again....with his head like bicycle seat....smhe should be sentenced to death by slicing...

Sophie said...

This is very crazy. Unfortunately, this happens all the time. As a medical student, we had a similar case and they always go dumb probably cos of the trauma. I believe this is diabolical cos the older kids are also retarded somewhat, the mothers keep staying in the house either cos they have been charmed or they are too lazy to fend for themselves and their kids.

Unknown said...

Oh Precious Lord! Pls help and save us frm enemies within and around us. He should b brought to book and punished accordingly so dat dis wil serve as deterrent to others.

Unknown said...

Hian! Wetin we no go hear for dis world bikonu??? Linda take note!

I B M bolubantin said...

That man is evil and diabolical

Unknown said...

This man is just a devil!! Gosh! how could you do that to your own child!?! He should b seriously dealt with! Useless man!!

Anonymous said...

What the heck is this? NPF please get to the bottom of this case. NHRC ensure that woman and her children are protected and the accused punished.. Please Rebecca 's frequent urination requires medical attention

Unknown said...

Wtf... Evil man!!!

Unknown said...

Na wa ooooo

linaluv said...

This man is evil, the twins should b given back to their mum hw can ur own son lie against u? hw can u ever think of having sex wiv ur own daughter, God wil surely punish oooo u this evil man walahi

Unknown said...

You caught him in the act the first time and you didn't run away with your kids or report to the police? This lady herself isn't worthy of being a mother and should be charged as an accessory.

Miriam David said...

Na God almighty go punish this fool. I've I had my way he will be remanded in prison for the rest of his life and I will have his manhood cut off. He will not have peace for doing this to a little girl. This country needs strict laws against these atrocities. For God's sake, Our Government should do something, people should act. How can this be? It's so painful, I feel like beating the devil out of this man. We should please fight against this. It's barbaric. God help us. @Lindaikeji do something please. I really wish there's something I can do.

Jasmine Joseph said...

All these sick perverts, God will so punish him. Ewure, ur end will be worse than that of a dead rat

Jasmine Joseph said...

All these sick perverts, God will so punish him. Ewure, ur end will be worse than that of a dead rat

Anonymous said...

useless man!!!!

Anonymous said...

These father molesters are everywhere these days. Mothers keep a close eye on your children. It will not be well with these USELESS police turning incidences like this to family matter.

Anonymous said...

Sickness abounds every where. Poverty sef is part of this problem. A whole family of 4kids and 2 adults, those girls should have their own room and the parents sleep in their own room. So do they have sex in d presence of their kids hoping they are asleep. Whichever way the man is still sick. After catching him 1nce, you couldn't remove that girl and take her even if it's to d village, so she can be away from that demon. This girl will be best suited in a motherless baby's home, where she can go to school and grow up to be a normal child. Psychologically that girl is dented. Do we not have any rescue centres, that can house this woman and her kids. Money government shld use to do such things, it's sitting in Deere Swiss accounts.

gentle said...

Some men are so despicable. Goshhhhhh! I'm sick to my bones.

Unknown said...

God will punish him...evil man

Unknown said...

You caught him the first time and you didn't run away with your kids or report to the authorities. This lady isn't fit to be a mother if her story is true and should be charged as an accessory.

Kerry okoye said...

Dear lord!!....this is demonic.

Unknown said...

Why am I in a country with dis kind of person(s)

ANONN said...

Oh goodness me! What sort of wickedness is this one kwanu? Eeh? You just conclude that you can't hear any other thing worse than all you've heard before, then this one hits you. Terrible world we are in. How can you even try to comprehend this? Do you start from the fact that she's his daughter or that she's just 4years old. Ahhhhhhhh! This world is finished completely o. This man belongs nowhere else but in jail.

Unknown said...

Some men sha are something else. I really don't know what to call this kind of father. May his sin finds him out

Unknown said...

It's unfortunate, may God grant him salvation

Anonymous said...

Go and get your twin daughters from him. He is molesting them too.

Unknown said...

It's unfortunate, may God grant him salvation.

Unknown said...

That man must be crazy,I think he is planing to use the girl,you shall suffer for the rest of your life of the story is really true. TIMILEYIN BLESSING

Unknown said...

Let them just kill him slowly from his fingers to his head till he's dead....... Foolish man

Unknown said...

Let them just kill him slowly from his fingers to his head till he's dead...... Foolish man

Anonymous said...

The man should be shot dead period! A four year old gal,haba. The police should do more and take the other children from the man ASAP. They should be far away from d man as he is obviously sick. I will kill any man that comes near my little gal or boy I swear it at their tender age.

Anonymous said...

Abomination

Unknown said...

Whats wrong with yoruba men .. ah ah abi na generational swear?

Anonymous said...

Yoruba people ... Why must it always be yoruba .. no wonder they have the highest rate of bastards and broken homes in nigeria

Anonymous said...

O ti ya were
God punish u if u mention Yoruba again

Anonymous said...

Asinwin

Anonymous said...

Pls Linda,this case is very serious,you must not only publish this but see to d end of this matter ,justice must b done to this man and also the little girl must be helped to come out of this psychological shock.pls pls I beg you,if I had her number I would hv stepped in.

Unknown said...

This is so sad most Nigerian men been on news lately for all the wrong reasons for what!!!!???????

Anonymous said...

Officials will be running after gays when this is happening in their backyard- whats the punishment for this? even the police were said to have laughed at her and no one wanted to take on the case

Anonymous said...

My jaw almost dropped on the ground reading dis. Am still in tears. Y is the heart of man so evil. Y is man so wicked God! I feel so sorry 4 dat Lil girl. I just wish I could help in anyway. It will never be well with u Ademola or watever ur name is.

Unknown said...

Pls Linda smthing shld be done b4 it gets out of hand, this man is evil

Unknown said...

God have mercy! What kinda father is this? He shld be castrated and jailed for life....

Anonymous said...

Can we begin to pour liquid cement thrrough their urethral meatus, let is solidify then shoot them a limb at a time already? Ahhan its getting too much all these demented evil men

Anonymous said...

African society stop lying and help your unborn generations...men can sleep with anythg unless he has genuine fear of God.

Anonymous said...

My dear. That's what one gets when.the government constantly hires illiterates and school drop outs into police force.

Anonymous said...

Women should seek God's face before marriage, same goes to men.God help us

Unknown said...

iT IS HIGHLY UNTHINKABLE THAT THE POLICE HAVE NOT SNATCHED THE TWINS FROM THIS DEVIL. WHAT FURTHER EVIDENCE DO THEY NEED. THE FOUR YEAR OLD URINATES FREQUENTLY. JUSTICE IS SO SLOW IN THIS COUNTRY, MAKES ME SICK.

Anonymous said...

If there are people I hate in this world, it's the people who make up the police force. What. Drives them? What gives them motivation? That Ī± serious case like this is reported and all they could do was laugh, is beyond me. Honestly ehn, I would revenge on my own. The nonsense is just too much. Was he there when she suffered the many uncomfortable symptoms and the ultimate pain pangs of labour that would make him desire Ī± minor and still be set ʒ̲̅яĪµ̲Īµ̲? What kinda world are we living in? Shey na dis same lagos wey Police dey look as agbero dey steal from people in broad daylight and they won't say anything because they have shares in the loot? Shey na this same lagos wey IG no go let us hear word with stamping out the bad eggs in the organisation, yet these things are happening and nothing is being done about it?

Anonymous said...

This is so heartbreaking! May God heal the assaulted child, deliver the twins from the devilish man and punish him greatly for all the evil he has committed!

Unknown said...

This is wickedness...how can a man do this to his own daughter!!!

Why said...

Let's not go there - this is not a tribal thing. All the stories like this over the last few months the men have come from all over the damn country. focus on the fact that a child has been molested and her abuser is free roaming the streets to abuse again. Not everything is a tribal issue abeg :(

Why said...

Shey this one too is Yoruba abi? Mscheeeew http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/09/daddy-touches-me-puts-his-manhood-in-my-mouth-gives-me-money-7-yr-old-girl/ Focus on the fucking issue.

Anonymous said...

Sure...i agree with you 100%...the woman is worst than the man

Anonymous said...

Seriously...the mother is simply not serious...how could she stay on after she personally witnessed her husband molesting their daughter n afterwards slept with him too...its sickening

Anonymous said...

It's the woman's fault,she keep saying she wants to see what he will dountil d damage was done.If she can't run with the children she should have stayed with them.
In Africa we always have to carry the blame as women.an A Nigerian woman is the strongest woman who bears pains to protect her children.

Unknown said...

Useless man

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